I used to think I was a highly empathetic person and then I ended up being told for years that I wasn't and now my self-esteem is so low that I question if I was wrong and just didn't realize that I wasn't empathetic or if the people telling me I wasn't empathetic were genuinely being cruel. I used to think that any person who tries to ruin another persons hope has to just be being mean, but the people accusing me used all of my flaws to try and prove how I was wrong and they weren't and it's had me so doubtful of myself that I'm just not sure anymore. It's lead to me feeling completely hopeless and feeling like life isn't worth it anymore, that I shouldn't bother trying to achieve anything because no matter what I do I'm not smart, I'm not good looking, I'm not efficient and talented, I'm not kind and caring and sociable, I'm not self-aware, I'm not so many things that I honestly just find it less of a headache to be a nobody who is alone and doesn't matter to anyone. At least that way I don't have to put up with knowing they were right when I do fail and having to deal with the smugness and them being fake kind after, and others being angry and not believing me when I say they abused me as badly as they did and being mad when I say they're faking their kindness and ignorance.
Silence of the Skramz, I hope you have found someone to talk to rationalize/analyse what you are feeling and to get honest feedback regarding what others perceived as you "not being empathetic". You're correct regarding the possibility that they are simply being mean and their accusations are a means to deflect from their own selfish actions and thoughts. Research more into narcissistic behaviors and how to recognize a narcissistic or any other type of manipulative person. You are worth it, life is worth it. This is a tumultuous time within your entire lifetime but you will look back on it and remember all that you discovered about yourself and those around you. Keep going, rest when you are weary but keep growing and going! I wish you peaceful thoughts and happiness!
@@punkseth1 Hey there Seth, going well and learning a great deal in the practice. Like most any new undertaking, the more practice, the better. Best to you, Family and Friends.
Dear people who thought it was a good idea to make this video: Empathy. Isn't. A positive. Trait. It's purely a skill, like smelling or seeing. Actually, it can be used by abusive and manipulative people for their advantage, since they have the ability to understand your feelings and use it against you. You can be a good person without instantly getting to someone's brain. And you can be a serial killer but with great empathy skill. It's not about what you have or not, but the usage of your skills and your intentions. TL;DR you're trying to be woke by being ableist
Narcissism is similar to empathy because they learn to read facial expressions and learn what makes people tick… it’s very different than being empathic …
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was known for his empathy and compassion toward others. He said, “The most beloved of people to Allah are those who are most beneficial to people” (Tirmidhi). Empathy is not only important in personal relationships but is also essential for creating a just and harmonious society.
Amazing how easy is to learn to smile more---and how that, makes people more willing to talk with and to you.
I used to think I was a highly empathetic person and then I ended up being told for years that I wasn't and now my self-esteem is so low that I question if I was wrong and just didn't realize that I wasn't empathetic or if the people telling me I wasn't empathetic were genuinely being cruel. I used to think that any person who tries to ruin another persons hope has to just be being mean, but the people accusing me used all of my flaws to try and prove how I was wrong and they weren't and it's had me so doubtful of myself that I'm just not sure anymore. It's lead to me feeling completely hopeless and feeling like life isn't worth it anymore, that I shouldn't bother trying to achieve anything because no matter what I do I'm not smart, I'm not good looking, I'm not efficient and talented, I'm not kind and caring and sociable, I'm not self-aware, I'm not so many things that I honestly just find it less of a headache to be a nobody who is alone and doesn't matter to anyone. At least that way I don't have to put up with knowing they were right when I do fail and having to deal with the smugness and them being fake kind after, and others being angry and not believing me when I say they abused me as badly as they did and being mad when I say they're faking their kindness and ignorance.
Silence of the Skramz, I hope you have found someone to talk to rationalize/analyse what you are feeling and to get honest feedback regarding what others perceived as you "not being empathetic". You're correct regarding the possibility that they are simply being mean and their accusations are a means to deflect from their own selfish actions and thoughts. Research more into narcissistic behaviors and how to recognize a narcissistic or any other type of manipulative person. You are worth it, life is worth it. This is a tumultuous time within your entire lifetime but you will look back on it and remember all that you discovered about yourself and those around you. Keep going, rest when you are weary but keep growing and going! I wish you peaceful thoughts and happiness!
that's ironic how the people that are supposed to have empathy treat you like trash
Thank you for the information.
Thank you. I vow to practice and rehearse daily. Thank you.
how is your practice going? I want to practice empathy everday too
@@punkseth1 Hey there Seth, going well and learning a great deal in the practice. Like most any new undertaking, the more practice, the better. Best to you, Family and Friends.
@@punkseth1how’s ur practice going ?
Thank you for creating this video! Super helpful!
Thank soy so much for sharing this vid
Dear people who thought it was a good idea to make this video:
Empathy. Isn't. A positive. Trait. It's purely a skill, like smelling or seeing. Actually, it can be used by abusive and manipulative people for their advantage, since they have the ability to understand your feelings and use it against you. You can be a good person without instantly getting to someone's brain. And you can be a serial killer but with great empathy skill. It's not about what you have or not, but the usage of your skills and your intentions.
TL;DR you're trying to be woke by being ableist
Narcissism is similar to empathy because they learn to read facial expressions and learn what makes people tick… it’s very different than being empathic …
Lemme guess you also watch Jordan Peterson?.
Narcissism is what you’re explaining here, and your buddy Trump is one.
Empathy leads to correct action regarding others ... whereas sympathy often does NO such thing
this is important for the life
Which life?
Thank you tremendousness
how real is this video, empathy is very important
My parent needs to watch this. Not me.
💃♥️Really helpful in these weeks
Great :)
problem is that being an empath in todays works is really painful
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was known for his empathy and compassion toward others. He said, “The most beloved of people to Allah are those who are most beneficial to people” (Tirmidhi). Empathy is not only important in personal relationships but is also essential for creating a just and harmonious society.
I have seen the wonders of your work #lordsajama and I can't thank you more for changing my life financially with your lottery spell. Thank you 😍💙💙💙
me gusta
👍🏼
Ama6
Wowowowowowowowoowowowoowowow