Do the DUTCH Prefer Dating Foreigners?
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- Опубликовано: 4 июл 2024
- I asked Dutch on the streets of the Netherlands whether they would prefer someone from the Netherlands or a foreigner. Here is what they had to say.
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"If I live in India, I would speak Indian. If I live in Dutch, I would speak Netherlands" LOL bless that man
Lol
I laughed so hard. He is cute
As an Indian girl these got me fr 💀💀
i guess that's why he stated that he wishes to speak his own language when he becomes old =D
it's because "Netherlands" is how the language Dutch is translated to Dutch
"If I live in Dutch, I would speak Netherlands" they got him nervous 💀
Also, Indian is not a language
Hahaha yeh that one made me laugh
😂😂😂
That guy was hilarious.
Thats how you say Dutch in Dutch : Ik spreek een beetje Nederlands ;)
-The two Dutch ladies : "we love Dutch guys , tall , blonde and handsome" - also the two dutch ladies : "what's wrong with Dutch men ? They never approach us" 😂 a country with many Chads
I think its a cultural thing.
If a Dutch guy approaches a girl in Holland to get her attention , the Dutch girl will see him as a needy weak man.
@@legolas7rNot just in The Netherlands men can see as weak or needy , most of the countries today are like that
@@Daniel-gw2ts Western countries.
Men are still expected and accepted to approach women in Asia/Africa ( as a man naturally would)
@@The-Cat Only Northern countries. In France, Spain, Italy it's still the dude who has to approach
@@Onche518 give it another 5 years for it to completely change. Gen Z are consuming the crap that poisoned the north
Surprising that many of them mentioned the language barrier. Dutch people are usually really good speaking English 😅
In my travels I've found most Europeans speak perfect English. It's taught to them from early age in school so they have plenty of practice. Idk why they're so gun shy about it either.
Thats only funny propaganda 🤡🤡
@@bhart3321Yeah, but Dutch people are the most fluent English speakers in the world amongst non-native English speakers.
Also surprising given that the Dutch language is hideous.
They are not good in speaking English
They are the best
You have to speak nearly fluent Dutch to get into their social circles, it is when they start approaching you, because you are part of their world, then it is easy to date them, you meet their families and distant friends too, get invited to bbqs and dinners. They do not bother with foreigners that leave in 1 year and treat them as a hookup. I grew up there as a foreigner, so I have an inside info :)
I don't think your personal experience is representative for Dutch men at all.
@@LUKEandBEAR Well, she's not wrong. We have so many expats here. It's not like she's unique in her experiences.
@@SidMajors I don't question her personal experience but she talks like it's a common trait. Every society has its "badboys" but that doesn't mean it is the standard.
@@LUKEandBEAR Guys that aren't into expats per se are bad boys?
@@SidMajors great reasoning dude...
I lived in the Netherland, and if you are from a latin country like me, feeling emotions and stuff, be prepared to have your heart a bit scratched by the "coldness" of the dutch women, or the culture in general :D. That's being said, dutch people are very friendly at first, but if you want to connect deeper, they start to be very cautious ;). If you love electronic music, that's the country for you tho. Thanks for the video Marina!
I'd have guessed Germany or France to be bigger centers for electronic music, although it seems popular all over the continent. (I know Netherlands is famous for more low-brow electronic party music such as gabber and happy hardcore, though...)
@@hakanstorsater5090 Armin van Buuren, Hardwell, Afrojack, Martin Garrix, la Fuente.. Do I need to go on?
Way better than being false all the time and having false emotions
@youdj_app Thanks for your comment! What do you mean by "you have to be very cautious"?
I don't understand what you mean by "Latin", perhaps you mean South American, but it makes no sense to talk about neo-latin speakers in general given the cultural diversity that exists among this group of people.
lol. I’ve noticed a lot of Dutch people seem to “think” they don’t like traditional gender roles, but really they just mean countries with people who look and act radically different from them, AKA Asians and black people. The obsession with Italians, Spanish, Latin Americans (who are SUPER macho/traditional) etc. that I see in a lot of these vids seem to confirm that. Either they have no idea what people from Latin America are like, or when they say gender roles, they only think of stuff like hijabs and forced marriages.
They simply have no idea, not only them, but pretty much the entire world has little to no knowledge on latin america
@@Wetsand348 I wouldn't say they have no idea being that there are Latin Americans living in the Netherlands and TONS in Spain, so they've encountered them.
The fact of the matter is that they probably don't have exposure to the poorest Latin Americans, who more likely move to the US if they emigrate. That means that their exposure won't show the worst of machismo. On the other hand, Americans are biased to see the opposite.
That said, on every real account, Latin Americans are still less foreign and very much less traditional than the Africans, West Asians and South Asians that Europeans are talking about
"The obsession with Italians, Spanish, Latin Americans (who are SUPER macho/traditional" Spaniards aren't that macho/traditional buddy.
The Dutch guy who's with his gf trying hard not to really speak his mind out
Really interesting post. Wat een geweldig inzicht in de Nederlandse cultuur!!
You nailed it with the Dutch prefer dating the Dutch
Definitely foreign for me. They are just more exciting to me. I wanna learn their culture and want them to learn mine.
Thank you for the video!
What people don't understand is that dating a girl is HARD EVERYWHERE, unless you're beautiful or go to a poor country, but in the latter case it's not that people are hitting on you because they're in love, but because they see in you a way to escape poverty.
I agree
Except that "dating" isn't a thing EVERYWHERE, though I get your point.
I like the Steven He meme!
As a 40 year old dutch dude I personally don't care about foreign or not. Met many women from various backgrounds and as long as the attraction and interest is there it'll work. For the past 8 years I've been married to a woman from Paraguay. She traveled around and ended up in the Netherlands and stayed. So I didn't even have to go abroad :D
as for cultures I wouldn't date. most likely best too avoid american women.
My personal preference is the more "mysterious" looking women with darker hair. So South Americans and Asians works for me. Especially since I also love their cuisine compared to boring dutch. I hit the jackpot there ;)
In the northern part of Europe we men do approach women. We are just way more private and we also are more critical on who we want to approach. It isn't just being single so I approach everybody. We got standards and patience.
Lol until something untoward happens lol
simp
Ewwwww imagine liking asians
the hookup culture in Amsterdam (and northern Europe, like Stockholm) is worldwide well known. What "standards" and "critical"?😅😂
@@NoctLightCloudhooking up driven by lust or having higher standards to build something serious are very different things. It’s the time we live in unfortunately.
Loved Amsterdam..... had me an Amsterdam good time also!!
the approaching thing got me. even tho I'm Dutch. Looking back 20 years ago, I'd go out with my friends and I think guys used to approach more, or maybe that's just the anecdotal bubble I lived in.
No it’s true, it changed a lot even from like ten or so years ago, dutch men used to approach us girls a lot and then dating apps became a thing and it changed dramatically
Just go for it 🤣
But don't go too much
I live in Amsterdam and I am happy to be surrounded by Dutch people who have or had foreign partners, they are a different type of people, those who have no problem speaking another language and dealing with another culture at home, they are very curious to learn new things and get out of their comfort zone. ❤ 🙌🏻🇳🇱
Lol.... until something untoward happens to ya !
why do you look like a freak.......
When we say they’re direct and it’s rude, we mean they’re direct passive aggressive and this is RUDE😀
Approaching is a no no. Guys do not do it. As a guy who gets hit on occasionally, I'm TELLING you, when they like you, they will approach or stare at you like a crazy person so you approach THEM. Either way, this is 2024 almost, do not be a rookie and go lusting after them, they're big girls, they can approach if they like what they see.
Stop chasing girls and let them chase us, men are the prize ❤️
@@toomuchinformation i see it shows that there are 2 comments but i see only your comment relying to me and don't see my comment
I don't think that women should approach men, but the making eye contact, dropping the handkerchief (Jane Austen style) to encourage a man to approach is probably the best way.
You are big boy you can approach the girl you like too
Cool video
Next time if you visit the Netherlands. Please do visit outside the Holland provinces. There is more then only cities or Amsterdam, Rotterdam, Then Hague.
In the east we got like Veluwe or the North... Fryslân boppe. Hollân in de groppe
what would be the best way to visit those regions? by bus?
@@NoctLightCloud train
Quick answer: if you are a tall man from Latin America, Spain or Italy, then you can get a Dutch woman easily.
Well Dutch men are the tallest in the world, so that's what they're used to.
Emotional damage! 🤣
Go to Copenhagen next
Great video. Thank you very much. I learn so much from the dating scene in other countries. As well i have to say that the dutch girls are very, very beautiful.
6:30 , sorry we are good. We don't wanna handle rejection. Thanks.
That is so true, I would never approach a guy. I wait for them to approach me.
It's funny cause I went to Amsterdam just once in my life and the only night I went out, I had like 6 different Dutch guys come up to me to ask me for my number and a possible date, even though I went there prepared to not be approached by anyone. I actually went on a date with one of them and turned out to be the sweetest date I've ever had in my entire life followed by an even sweeter one. I think I just got incredibly lucky.
Amsterdam is not like other parts of the Netherlands.
Its because you are really pretty, i think these tips are for average looking people😅
So cute lots of love
@@diofromyozgatthere are more men then woman in The Netherlands so adventually most guys have regular looking girls.
then still these tips are for average looking girls, pretty girls dont really need tips in anywhere around the world:)@@-_YouMayFind_-
After your last video featuring Dutch people and their rude opinions about other cultures, I think many of us are happy for the tall, attractive Dutch to stick to dating each other.
Dutch are just horrible people. Dont date them
If your opinion about the Dutch people is only based on funny short YT videos, it's best to leave them unbothered indeed.
If rude is being honest and not lying than I want to hear that rudeness
@@Frivals hahaaaaaa honest and Dutch doesnt go together. When you mean honest you mean you say nasty things to people to hurt them. Otherwise you lie about yourself in order to achieve your goals.
@@hunchbackaudio I'm German, I've met a ton of Dutch people. They seem to be by far the most openly "xenophobic", it's a bit weird.
The reason why People want to date someone from their own culture is because they prefer to stay in their comfort zone
Especially in a relationship. Relationships already are very hard, so I want it to be as comfortable as possible
Either that or the chance of meeting someone outside your culture is almost/near impossible
Nah I'm just racist
@@Discounted Good for u pal 🤣
@@Discounted same
3:20 as a tall Chinese-American guy, I want to give them a go
I've lived in netherlands for two years, Dutch guys are easy going, but it's hard to have relationship with dutch girl when you are foreigner even if you are good looking, intersting, funny and have a good financial situation. They will put at an higher level dutch Guys .It's not like in Germany, England or France, The video is fully true, thank you for sharing.
and that's why netherlands still has handsome tall dutch men because dutch ladies have standards
@@nicossbotsyou're not at all implying anyone who's not dutch is "below standards" are you? not typically dutch or racist at all, no. Happy I don't live in your rainy boring country.
Plenty of more attractive men and women in other countries.. like have you ever heard of Scandinavia, or Eastern Europe or Romania? :D Oh wait, if you're not dutch you must be ugly, I forgot. Ah.. such a romantic country and language.
@@nicossbots No, that's not exactly how it works here.
@@Siranoxz what do you mean?
I love Netherlands. Hugs from India.
6:09 He's spot on.
PS.: The girl from Suomi is gourgeous.💙
suomi? Finland is same word in finnish?
@@singingLeaf123 Suomi is finnish for Finland
Love dutch culture, meshes with my personality.
from a 5'6 tall dude it was hard for me while i was 1 year living in Holland
won't date Chines guys for height?: I'm a French person whose parents are from Manchuria (NE China bordering Siberia) and have met some guys from Manchuria in my college in the U.S. According to them, in Manchuria, the new generation (ppl born after 2000) most guys are 190+;; lots of girls are 180+. lots of guys in the 6'3 -6'7 range. 2 guys are 7'0. No guy was under 5'10, the shortest guy in his class was 177cm. Mind you he went to a tiny high school. I heard ppl born after 00 guys under 6’0 are outcasted for being short in high school. Manchuria is taller than the Netherlands for a bit.
@@mabellajohMaybe the Chinese men THEY see are shorter than what they prefer. Dutch men are the tallest in the world so they're quite spoilt.
wow, my sister's name is also Marina. But Marina, I wish you could tell those girls: won't date Chines guys for height?: I'm a French person whose parents are from Manchuria (NE China bordering Siberia) and have met some guys from Manchuria in my college in the U.S. According to them, in Manchuria, the new generation (ppl born after 2000) most guys are 190+;; lots of girls are 180+. lots of guys in the 6'3 -6'7 range. 2 guys are 7'0. No guy was under 5'10, the shortest guy in his class was 177cm. Mind you he went to a tiny high school. I heard ppl born after 00 guys under 6’0 are outcasted for being short in high school. Manchuria is taller than the Netherlands for a bit.
notice how no one said they don't prefer African men? It's perfectly acceptable to say they don't like Asian men, but no one is allowed to say No to African people even though they secretly would like to. The bias against Asians is through the roof. (Also, everyone in Western Europe went out onto the streets for BLM, but hardly anyone did the same for ALM although both personally affect people in Europe minimally to zero.)
Yoo girl from 1:30, I'm tall and blond and Dutch. And my type is hella cute with brown curls.
The guy at 2:40 looks like a cross between Matt Damon and Jesse Plemons.
dutch girls are by far the hottest as a airbnb host i received alot of ppl but the dutch are just perfect blonde blue eyes tall good skin tan great smile great hair is just like real feminine perfection
'Indian' ain't a language, boi.
I have seen a bunch of dutch men wanting to date latin women from Colombia and Venezuela
To "date" yeah, I can imagine
Happy Thursday Marina! Great video today and interesting with people visiting and living in the Netherlands 🇳🇱 have their preferred way of dating someone who is from their home country or a foreigner. Keep making these videos as they are great to see. You go girl 😊
I don't know, I'm Serbian, my current wife happens to be Dutch. Physically, it was okay for me that we are both tall... We don't have any very similar cultures, except that we are both European and I should say more broadly white race, but in general I think that we are this average height and that's somewhere similar. Even our children are tall. Win Win situation. :D Maybe it's a bit "racist" but sometimes I think that people with the same or similar physical predispositions is ideal combination "regardless of nationality"... but small with small, big with big, similar with similar... Because genetics is a strange thing, surely my children would not be this tall if I had married a woman from Spain, Italy, or of course Asia...
I confirm that we speak Indian in India 🤣✔✔
My boyfriend is Dutch, im learning Dutch.. ❤
won't date Chines guys for height?: I'm a French person whose parents are from Manchuria (NE China bordering Siberia) and have met some guys from Manchuria in my college in the U.S. According to them, in Manchuria, the new generation (ppl born after 2000) most guys are 190+;; lots of girls are 180+. lots of guys in the 6'3 -6'7 range. 2 guys are 7'0. No guy was under 5'10, the shortest guy in his class was 177cm. Mind you he went to a tiny high school. I heard ppl born after 00 guys under 6’0 are outcasted for being short in high school. Manchuria is taller than the Netherlands for a bit.
I just googled it and the average height in that region is 1,68 for a man so yeah...
sorry ur wrong salty white dude. There is a huge difference between Northern most Chinese and Southern Chinese. My ex was 6'4 from Manchuria and only the average height there.re @@donbrabo
They speak english so well. What language barrier ????
To some people it is wearisome to speak in another language or listen to another language (even if such person is fluent, needless to say when they are not). It is a stress that not many people are up to living on a daily basis. To make friends, the foreigner will need to speak the local language at some point as the spouse's friends might not be willing to speak English when they can speak their language among themselves. They won't speak English just for one person. It doesn't make much sense to do so to be honest.
Besides, they can have kids and having them exposed to different languages might be confusing and harmful in the beginning as they are going to live in one country and the official language will matter the most after all.
It's just not the same as your native tongue.
If you want to date Dutch people then speak their language or else go find someone else.
@@GeoSocraticI get your first para, but not the second. I think it's a privilege for children to grow in a multi lingual household. I don't see what the problem is. Kids will differentiate.
Its one of their excuse for not dating foreigners without sounding rude
1:14 i got the opposite, i can express myself much better in english than in dutch.
5:39 i would approach the one on the right but i wouldn't know what to say what to start with other than hey you look nice i wanna know you better maybe after a movie at the cinema with some fries? i dont do pickup lines those are just stupid
I love all these patriotic dutch people
"I like Dutch guys , they are tall" correct 😂 , being tall , especially for a man is indeed relevant
just like it's relevant for a girl to be good looking
@@nicossbotsyou can't control your height, but you can control how good looking you are
Those women were really tall themselves and so if you want a guy who's taller than you dutch men are the way to go. Most dutch women I grew up with didn't think about that as much, they take taller for granted and were not as tall themselves. I'm short , so there are very very few dutch men shorter than me or even the same height. So nothing to worry about.
I am like ... I am handsome but I am 5'7... Damn that's harsh kkkk
@@marcosantonio9987 There are plenty of women shorter than you at that height.
I also noticed that when I interact with Dutch men, they sometimes purposely avoid eye contact. It's like they are scared to lock eyes with you. Is it just me or do Dutch men do this with other women too?
I do this all the time
If I would live in Dutch I would speak Netherlands. Ah yes! My dutch brother on point with that one
There I was thinking the 'London Dungeon' was a unique thing and now I see there's an 'Amsterdam Dungeon'. Doesn't have the same ring to it.
In most countries you are more attractive to locals as a foreigner, in the Netherlands they extract points from that fact, so it is exact the opposite.
Is there a gender difference here?
Hmmm- being an American with a Dutch family name was an unexpected bit of magic, as I recall......
I wanna also add the Dutch guys get better with age :) it’s so odd when I hear someone say Dutch guys don’t approach women. My husband is Dutch and approached me first, asked me out for dinner brought flowers on our first date and flew me to his country multiple times.
Your husband is a simp.......
thé Dutch guy I used to flirt with took his guts; made the first step and came to talk to😊 (I am eurasian, French Chinese)
he's a simp that you brainwashed then........
Luckily I am from Canada. There are cultures from all over the world here.
You know, I realised that dutch people soound very... Irish in general. It wasn't just that one guy.
2 dutch ladies to foreigners: "just go for it"
also 2 dutch ladies: I like tall men
Goodluck Asian / ethnically shorter foreigners
I think its more because Dutch woman are quite tall themselfes and girls often dont want a men smaller then them, but not always ofcourse
Make a video abt do americans wanna date amerucans or foreigners, it will blow up
I was like "Oh my god, she looks like Lizzy Kaplan. Gorgeous. And those curls! And her English is fantastic, too!"
*Seconds later* : "I only date tall guys"
*frantically spams +5s forward button*
Why does this braindead opinion not go extinct? Imagine saying this about someone's weight, which, unlike your height, is something you can ACTUALLY control. You'd get boo'd at immediately.
Out b4 "found the short guy"
Have you been to the Netherlands???
People are huge , most dutch Girls are taller than most foreigners, and well dutch guys are pretty good looking (No Homo) and very tall I mean if they have to choose there is literally no competition
Netherlands is pretty much a suicide destination if you're not 6'+ and want to score a girl. Maybe Scandinavia even is a better option
I agree. When girls say they wouldn't date a guy under a certain height, it is as shallow and stupid as guys say they wouldn't date girls under a certain cup size or over a certain weight.
@@Guillermo153 You're saying that like that was some kinda excuse, lol. The average breast size in Sweden is larger than in Japan, therefore swedish men only wanting to date women with large breasts is a sane take. Like... are you hearing yourself?
@@Limpi43 Although I do agree, I can also acknowledge that people are entitled to their preferences. If you find it shallow and stupid, why would you even want to date such a person to begin with?
3:17 😂
Dutch men are lovely , dated 2 of them , they are really sweetest and warm but at first they will appear a bit cold 😂
Men should learn with the Chads of The Netherlands , even though most of the men are over 6'1 ( 184 cms ) , not approach women is nice behaviour
Waiting for women to approach you is the opposite of a Chad move
@@Onche518 a man approaching women can easily be seen like a needy guy wanting their attention
@@oliverfa08 Well it depends how you do it. In France, Spain, Italy it’s almost always the guys who do it
Nah, Chad culture is much more similar to the Italian "macho" culture. Also, the whole point of approaching your person of interest is to show you're needy and want their attention. They need to know that shit if you want to try to get further with them. Whether it's the man or woman who has to initiate this doesn't change that fact, and it's always uncomfortable to be the one to approach, because approaching is always the vulnerable option which will lead to rejection in most cases. That's a fact, regardless of whether you're a man or woman. After all, most people like less than half of the gender of interest well enough to want a relationship with them. Most people marry near to 1 person, and not the entire gender.
Stop chasing girls and let them chase us, men are the prize ❤️
The woman who won't date Chinese because of height. Been living in China for a a few years now and the young Chinese these days can be super tall, met many easily above 185. Unfair to sterotype them as being short...even Korea has many tall, at least 180 which is euro average (I realise Dutch are tallest in Europe)
I am a Dutch man and I am dating a Mexican woman!
Nice video, I would like to know what will Moroccans answer to this
2:54 what a tough moment for that lad 😂
3:20 the stunning girl on the right has a darker shade of skin colour, I’m wondering if she’s a Dutch person of Middle Eastern ancestry?
Or Indonesian.
5:24 i like that girls must approach men first 👩❤️👨
Africans... let's gather here and discuss.
I see a lot of Dutch men who date or are married to my fellow Brazilians. ❤
I don't think I'll be as lucky. 😅
Ja, als je het in Amsterdam gaat vragen zullen er een boel zijn die voor buitenlanders gaan ja. Weet je hoeveel er daar geen Nederlands spreken! Probeer het nu eens een keer op Urk. Da's net zo representatief.😂
Het lijken me ook hele grappige reacties.🙃
Mediterranean Guy living in Netherlands here, totally can relate. I notice Dutch Girls tend to not like guys that are not Dutch, unless the girl has some ethnic background other than Dutch. I'm a tall guy, but with darker hair and darker skin complexion. I tend to have more success with girls from Spain, Italy, Greece or France. Its just a cultural thing I think. But yeah definitely notice i have less success with Dutch Girls.
You're totally right, I had the same experience while living there, totally clicked better with those nationalities
Lekker. Yep let's stick to our own kind . Non Dutch here btw.
damn the Finnish girl has such a hot voice, she should start a podcast fr
Btw, Dutch girls and guys are really attractive!
Overrated
6:35 "Ego...ego is also a thing. For men."
Uh huh, sure. Thanks for making the distinction. Stick to that mindset. It's totally not Dutch girls' ego ever playing up or them acting high and mighty (even though they were raised in a modest lower, middle class family) once you do show your interest and make a move.
I don't have a problem with dating foreign women. I dated women from Germany, the Tsjech republic, Russia, Morocco, Turkey and Cape Verde. But I like dutch women too. I was shy for a long time, but got over that in my late twenties. So yes I approach the women.
Mr worldwide
@@fahmif.n2715 Maybe.. I 'am. But it never was a choice. It just happened. I guess I can fall in love with women from all ethnicity by their looks ! But still, beauty is nothing without her inside...how much we could connect.
As a middle eastern woman, seems horrible to date a Dutch then, lol :))) I tried one here in Qatar, all he was doing talking about cheap palaces to go and cheap wine and money stuff, so stingy :/
The prostitute 😂🤦♂️
Why you didnt offered yourself to a Sheikh 😂As long as you are in Qatar
@@FrivalsWatch your mouth, you're not talking to your mom.
Also your mother had to follow that professional route to be able to feed you, be grateful.
@@redleeks6253actually all women are like that......
Cheap women, shame on u
It's not like no Dutch men ever approach any women but generally speaking machismo is lacking in Dutch culture. So, we don't care if we drive a Prius, we don't dance well, we don't brag about ourselves and we don't have "game"... the respect for women is really high and in general men are not playing around. They'll show an interest if they know they really like someone.
The men just aren't that comfortable with expressing passion openly. Catcalling for instance in The Netherlands is almost exclusively done by other cultures than the Dutch themselves.
Not trying to offend anyone, just trying to give a bit of insight.
Girls approaching guys in bars is that true? I don't remember being it like that... Or is it an Amsterdam thing? In Belgium it is still the guys mainly approaching.
I don't recognize it at all actually ;) and im married haha
I'm dutch and I don't recognise this. Especially not in a smaller town like where I'm from
I think this should be renamed: Do people from AMSTERDAM want to date..
People living in Amsterdam are a different breed of Dutch, definitely not comparable to those outside the cities. Extreme left/liberal culture in Amsterdam
I thought Dutch people love liberalism so much......
@@MabusNero-bb3sv I recommend you look at a map of the recent Tweede Kamerverkiezingen, and see in which places which party won the majority. The division is huge.
You'll find extreme liberalism in the cities, but nationalism outside of the cities.
And for a small country like the Netherlands where a lot, perhaps even a majority of people live in the countryside, there's a big division problem.
@@Discounted Really.......when I watch tv it appears that Europeans, especially women, love unli immigration on their countries on the expense of replacing themselves.......but anyway isn't most people live in cities? And besides aren't more young people have an unending love of liberalism?not to mention that migrants arsseholes are breeding like rabbits like there is no tomorrow left.......and these clowns are being Dutch citizens......
Luckily Germany is not that liberal yet. If I had to approach a guy here it would be a major turn off. (Like the girl said)
Ironic that you all women are liberal af 🤡🤡🤡
Isn't that what happens in Germany? Marina has a video on dating German men which says just that.
@@toomuchinformation Germany is a simp country I guess........
5:24-5:34 I just can't believe it 😱 the one on the right is a stunner, such a beauty 💕 My future ex 😁
I'm Chinese and I like dating a foreign so I can learn their culture
I'm Indonesian and also have interested to dating foreign people
Girls looking like that and never getting approached? More like not often approached by guys they are into. Also it's defenitly not the norm in the Netherlands for the girls to do the approaching. They maybe do it 10% of the time if I'm being really generous. Or maybe I haven't been in Amsterdam for too long and the dating scene has changed 180 degrees.
That girl at 4:56 who says Dutch men don't approach her is probably because they're not interested in her. We're quite critical here.
Now it turns out they value their language, when at the first remote sign of having the chance to use English, they take it, EVEN when being addressed in Dutch by foreigners, which is pretty disrespectful (to reply in a language you're not being addressed in), may I add.
That's cause your Dutch probably just sucks mate, gotta study more!
@@donbrabo More like because they don't really value their own language. You don't see speakers of other national languages doing that.
Btw, I've never been in that situation myself. DUH.
"Imagine the view at night, with a lot of nights next to you..." ? 😉
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It's Hindi not Indian , every time my friends say that I die inside lol 😂
Sticking to your own tribes are better.
The funny thing about two dutch girls who said they wouldn't date asian guys look very latin. They don't even know where they are from.
I don't understand your comment.
Asian and Latino (whether south America or southern Europe) are different racially and culturally.
So even if they are Dutch of Latin descent (and we don't know if they are), what difference does that make?
The Spaniard woman looks like a high fashion model.