Insulting someone for not letting there kid go with them on a once in a lifetime exotic vacation. I have a feeling this isn't the first time. Considering they have them only 6 months out of the year. The least she could do is take him with her. She is a dead beat, so why is it an insult to call a spade a spade?
@@seam5818 Oh no, people have lives outside their kids, consider my brain blown. So the son has two deadbeat parents, but is well taken care of by them? Crazy
@seam5818 But OP mentioned they still do thing with the kids when it's not their month. Did you ever think that maybe the kids aren't invited because it's during the school year. Maybe they do take the kids on trips when they are on breaks. And it's not like the kids are being thrust on randomly family members. They will be with their dad. Not to mention OP's sister is saying the OP is worse then the sister's ex-husband even though OP is there for her kids when sister's ex is not.
@sammieh9695 going on extravagant locations without your kids and not being there for them 6 months out of there year is dead beat. It's doing the bear minimum. Sorry.
And it sounds like she told her online friends a reverse of the actual situation. She watches your kids, and you don't return the favor... really? What a toxic sister. She's on her own.
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The I could never leave my children excuse comes off as controlling. If the father was competent and loving. Why wouldn’t he want that type of time too. Or why would you be against giving that time to him and the kids.
I dont have kids but when my brother had His little girl, my parent force me to help out, It got to a point were I told them NO, I didnt get pregnant , I didnt have a kid so No I dont need to give my Time specialy when he doesnt Even say thank you or pays me AND thinks ITS my job No. They told me you aré right but she's family and I said well Ill see her on holidays AND when she comes yo see her dad, years later I got.married and so did my brother he had a son I helped out at first then I found out my brother praised my cousin whom has never had any interaction with my nephew and my brother asked him to be His godfather over looking me AND my husband who helped out since day one. My husband said see your brother Is ungreatfull just like he was years ago and thinks ITS your job to helps, stop It. So I told my SIL I wouldnt take care of their little boy anymore she asked why and I just said I dont want to. Its my day off and I dont want to do anything, you guys pay daycare, take him to day care. She wanted to continúe telling me I said Ive helped you enough AND ITS not my job, I dont have kids because I dont want responsabilities like this so respect them ok I have other things to do. She understood. Now they have delayed all the preparations for the crisening AND when I see them they say how It would be helpfull.if we could take him I said yeah yu need a babysitter hire one, they say they dont have enough money I said well what a shame and walk away, I play with my nieace and nephew but I dont get as envolve anymore and my husband and I avoid going to their reunión we always say we have things to do nad leave It at that, my brother asked why didnt I want to help out I said I dont have to, you decided to have a baby not me, why do you think your problem Is everyones problem? I dont have to help out if I dont want to. You burned that bridge. Now youre a grown up and you have money figure It out. Not my problem. They have since stop asking for help.
The younger sister is still a single mom as well she just have a good co-parent relationship with the kids father. The older sister is jealous one and two something fishy about how her and her husband split. I’m married and have a three year old and my husband loves his kid. So if they had split base on the difference with the child biting strain on their relationship it wouldn’t make him a deadbeat.
I think if a dna test was done it would show that sisters ex is not the dad and she is saying that he is a dead beat to manipulate him into taking responsibility 😊
Sis is jealous I do believe that many moms (especially moms of very young babies - like breast feeding age if they are breast feeding) would have a hard time being away from their child “for a month”. But I’m sure they would get used to it and especially if they were young (like in their early 20’s) would love it. OP has kids, a coparent, and some freedom. Sis doesn’t have that and so she’s demonizing OP to make herself feel better
Honestly i feel sorry for the nephew. The sister panicking about this might be a good scare for her and they would hopefully be able to have a conversation about boundaries and attitudes. I feel like OP can do whatever she wants, but the nephew shouldnt suffer just cuz his mom is bitter
Like we say in Brazil 'Nao cuspa no prato que você come', which means 'Dont spit were you eat'. Sister was jealous and should have Just Said so, instead of talking shit about someone who was helping her for free.
Jealous of single mothers How is she deadbeat or not the best mom if she finally agree with the active father of custody arrangement like there are mothers who are married, but are single parents and there is mothers who are single with fathers with a deadbeat like the sister is and I think one month off and one month on is fair both of them experience having the kids live with them because there are so many fathers that don’t even get a week and father would never understand the difficulty of raising a child every single day if they don’t have the opportunity and it look like the mother is giving the father the opportunity to do that. 🎉🎉 great for OP she should tell her sister to go ask the baby father since she got all that mouth.
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Don't bite the hand that feeds you or in this case takes care of your kids.
I was always told, "You don't sh@t where you eat and don't bite the hand that feeds you."
Serves the sister right for insulting someone who helps them.
Insulting someone for not letting there kid go with them on a once in a lifetime exotic vacation. I have a feeling this isn't the first time. Considering they have them only 6 months out of the year. The least she could do is take him with her. She is a dead beat, so why is it an insult to call a spade a spade?
@@seam5818 Oh no, people have lives outside their kids, consider my brain blown. So the son has two deadbeat parents, but is well taken care of by them? Crazy
@seam5818 But OP mentioned they still do thing with the kids when it's not their month. Did you ever think that maybe the kids aren't invited because it's during the school year. Maybe they do take the kids on trips when they are on breaks. And it's not like the kids are being thrust on randomly family members. They will be with their dad. Not to mention OP's sister is saying the OP is worse then the sister's ex-husband even though OP is there for her kids when sister's ex is not.
@seam5818 so 50-50 parenting is being a deadbeat now? That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
@sammieh9695 going on extravagant locations without your kids and not being there for them 6 months out of there year is dead beat. It's doing the bear minimum. Sorry.
She's only sorry for getting caught.
She doesn't get help?? She's getting free child care from the sister she is calling a deadbeat!
how does having a civil relationship and shared parenting arrangement with the ex-husband make OP a "deadbeat" ?
.. or "barely a mom" ?
Agreed. The OP is truly lucky to be in this positive co parenting situation. The sister can kick rocks.
And it sounds like she told her online friends a reverse of the actual situation. She watches your kids, and you don't return the favor... really?
What a toxic sister. She's on her own.
Jealousy and attempts to make herself look better than OP bc she's stuck doing it "alone" (bc she definitely doesn't count help from mom and OP)
Ex boyfriend
This is a hill I would be willing to die on, if you are such a deadbeat mom there’s no reason for you to help!!!! Honestly how dare she 😒
Finally channels that either finish the story or leave a link to the original…this has made me happy after going through so many channels that don’t finish or link the damn story
@gamerskull9164 it erks my soul when they don’t finish the story or leave the links lol
Don’t bite at the hand that feeds you!
You know what they say play stupid games you win stupid prizes
The I could never leave my children excuse comes off as controlling. If the father was competent and loving. Why wouldn’t he want that type of time too. Or why would you be against giving that time to him and the kids.
I dont have kids but when my brother had His little girl, my parent force me to help out, It got to a point were I told them NO, I didnt get pregnant , I didnt have a kid so No I dont need to give my Time specialy when he doesnt Even say thank you or pays me AND thinks ITS my job No. They told me you aré right but she's family and I said well Ill see her on holidays AND when she comes yo see her dad, years later I got.married and so did my brother he had a son I helped out at first then I found out my brother praised my cousin whom has never had any interaction with my nephew and my brother asked him to be His godfather over looking me AND my husband who helped out since day one. My husband said see your brother Is ungreatfull just like he was years ago and thinks ITS your job to helps, stop It. So I told my SIL I wouldnt take care of their little boy anymore she asked why and I just said I dont want to. Its my day off and I dont want to do anything, you guys pay daycare, take him to day care. She wanted to continúe telling me I said Ive helped you enough AND ITS not my job, I dont have kids because I dont want responsabilities like this so respect them ok I have other things to do. She understood. Now they have delayed all the preparations for the crisening AND when I see them they say how It would be helpfull.if we could take him I said yeah yu need a babysitter hire one, they say they dont have enough money I said well what a shame and walk away, I play with my nieace and nephew but I dont get as envolve anymore and my husband and I avoid going to their reunión we always say we have things to do nad leave It at that, my brother asked why didnt I want to help out I said I dont have to, you decided to have a baby not me, why do you think your problem Is everyones problem? I dont have to help out if I dont want to. You burned that bridge. Now youre a grown up and you have money figure It out. Not my problem. They have since stop asking for help.
Is there an update?
The younger sister is still a single mom as well she just have a good co-parent relationship with the kids father. The older sister is jealous one and two something fishy about how her and her husband split. I’m married and have a three year old and my husband loves his kid. So if they had split base on the difference with the child biting strain on their relationship it wouldn’t make him a deadbeat.
I think if a dna test was done it would show that sisters ex is not the dad and she is saying that he is a dead beat to manipulate him into taking responsibility 😊
my response to the texts is why would you want a deadbeat mom to take care of your child
No help?? But she does help like is watching your kid not helping?
Now what does a wise mind always say
'Do stupid stuff win stupid prizes'😊
Sis is jealous
I do believe that many moms (especially moms of very young babies - like breast feeding age if they are breast feeding) would have a hard time being away from their child “for a month”. But I’m sure they would get used to it and especially if they were young (like in their early 20’s) would love it.
OP has kids, a coparent, and some freedom. Sis doesn’t have that and so she’s demonizing OP to make herself feel better
My sister told my friends i'am a !DEAD BEAT! Mom
This is what happens when you bite the hand that feeds you. Guess she learned her lesson
This wasn’t supposed to happen? What? Her getting caught?
Honestly i feel sorry for the nephew. The sister panicking about this might be a good scare for her and they would hopefully be able to have a conversation about boundaries and attitudes. I feel like OP can do whatever she wants, but the nephew shouldnt suffer just cuz his mom is bitter
don't bite the hand that feeds you, serves the sister right
Why tf would you bite the hand that feeds you?
Like we say in Brazil 'Nao cuspa no prato que você come', which means 'Dont spit were you eat'. Sister was jealous and should have Just Said so, instead of talking shit about someone who was helping her for free.
If she's such a dead beat mom, then you should have her around your children in the firat place.
Jealous of single mothers
How is she deadbeat or not the best mom if she finally agree with the active father of custody arrangement like there are mothers who are married, but are single parents and there is mothers who are single with fathers with a deadbeat like the sister is and I think one month off and one month on is fair both of them experience having the kids live with them because there are so many fathers that don’t even get a week and father would never understand the difficulty of raising a child every single day if they don’t have the opportunity and it look like the mother is giving the father the opportunity to do that.
🎉🎉 great for OP she should tell her sister to go ask the baby father since she got all that mouth.
Don’t bite the hand that feeds
update
Not the best mom no one is but definitely not a dead beat