I got passed down my dads 2010 Volkswagen Caddie Maxi, sadly dad had to continue driving his/my car due to delivery and retrofitting issues. Then couple months later, camshaft broke and totaled the engine. Tbf, it was kept in good condition but the 400k km made themselves known. Now i got a 2020 Toyota Yaris on lease which i have only to pay half the lease per month. Dad said, he's glad the camshaft didn't break when i was the driver. Still miss my Volkswagen, but the Yaris has kinda grown on me. Tldr, you're right old cars or high mileage can be dangerous.
Last thing I'd say to them before leaving for college and going no contact would be "Sorry I wasn't born a girl, I understand why you hate me." Just let that gut punch be the last thing they heard from the child they failed.
@laquietagray9323 Nah you say what I said with as genuine of regret and sorrow as you can to make them ACTUALLY think you're sorry for being born a boy so they feel extra shitty when you leave. By pretending to take the full blame it will make them feel even worse about blaming you themselves.
@jansdavisbelerts1196 legally it wouldn't be murder. Criminal negligence and manslaughter maybe, since all they did was fail to properly inspect the car they brought. They didn't actively and intentionally overseal the head gasket. Still potentially felony material, just not to the severity you're describing.
At absolute best the guy who sold the car would get in legal trouble and the parents disowned by the family The parents didn't know about it, and were just being careless, but not to a criminal degree
I love his grandparents. And that is the stupidest reason I have ever heard for showing favoritism. Any reason is a stupid one but this is absolutely ridiculous and I love that the family had his back.
The rest of the family are real G’s 😌 and I’m happy that the brother apologized about the past and stuff after learning about what happened. The parents are truly horrible people. I don’t understand how parents can treat their kids this way, just because they didn’t get the exact baby that they wanted. :/ it’s honestly kinda sad.
@@Jakecake3000 They gave him a car that blew out three weeks after it was bought. They just bought the cheapest car and gave it to him without making no sure that it was safe. They basically just red ‘used car’ x USD and didn’t even see if it’s safe.
Nah, the brother also realizes how fucked up their parents' actions were and is planning to stay out of state. You could argue it being too little too late, but he's also a product of how they raised him.
I'm a middle child from a single disabled mother. I got a chocolate muffin from Costco and since it was my birthday I got to have two. I was and still am very thankful for the little bit of recognition in a world where too many children don't get any
I personally think everyone should have to buy their own first car however if one child gets a car the other should too when their the same age unless they cant drive
i really want to be like the grandparents. I promise that I will never show favoritism to any of my children, that's one of the worst things you can do.
Aside from the parents OP seems like they have a great family and I'm really glad the brother wasn't an asshole like so many favored siblings are in these stories. It sucks that there are so many parents and families like this
Maybe because I grew up in a different household. At my parents. Never never played favorites. I mean when I was little I thought they fevered my big brother more but when as I grew up I understood that it was just me thinking that. But personally, yes, you can have a favorite but you shouldn't completely ignore or disregard any other child in your family.
Lucky I can tell you I wasn't he favorite for my mom. It was my bay brother he got to enjoy good lunches where me and my other brother got. Pb and j. We went out he got a drink for the ride, he got a new toy while we got nothing. I'm 8yrs older and we have talk he is 16 he felt bad but honestly doesn't remember. We think he bcame the favorite after he got kawasaki disease which is rare to get if you white. It's only found in Asian or Africa America. Babies. It affects the heart and if you don't treat it in 10 days I think the child could die, be on a heart transplant list, etc... he had to go through heart echo til he was 4ish because of it. Now the middle one is the favorite cause he is making her a grandma at 47 im 23 all I hear about is the baby and him. I know excitement and all but I'm also planning my wedding! My dad is more excited about walking me down the aisle than my mother is. He even argued with my andbaby brother over the song I picked for the daddy daughter dance which is butterfly fly away by Billie ray Cyrus and Miley Cyrus. He use to hear it and got upset cause he said he never wanted his little butterfly to grow up 😢 he never showed favoritism somewhat more like he thought the boys did no wrong but I let that go since he has learn from the middle brother what it does.
Basically, op was unplanned because op was male when op's parents wanted a girl. This is why there's clear favoritism between the first and second born. Op did get a car from his parents, but it broke down. So the grandparents belittled them into getting a better car and the grandfather fixed up multiple things in it. That's basically the jist of it.
My aunt and uncle had four sons. Yes, they would have loved at least one daughter. But they accepted all four sons, loved them all abundantly, and provided the best they could for each one of them. All four boys had equal privileges. Aunt and Uncle never treated any of them like the OP's parents treated him just because they were disappointed that he was another boy instead of the girl they hoped for.
Sounds like yall had crappy childhoods In just the ones youve mentioned there are three milestone birthdays 13 - first steps to being a true teenager 16 - you are now at a point where you are trusted to do stuff on your own like work and drive 18 - You made it and while you are still a kid in the world of adults, You'll gain freedom and more to explore yourself.
Thanks to my grandma I had birthdays up till I was 15 before I lost interest, even my abusive mom would still get me a cake since she cared in her own weird way
My story is the same but somewhat different, my mother hates me because the first born was a son so they are beyond happy hence the golden child then second it’s a girl now they have a complete set. Then, there was me! The accident 😂, they wanted to abort me but I was tough either she continue with the procedure but I might take her with me so she’s stuck with me 😂. She hates me and treated me like an outsider still.
Sort of similar situation on my part too. My father wanted his first born to be a girl but got me instead and I've been treated like shit by him ever since I was born. He even threatened to kill me a few times growing up. I feel your and the ops pain
@@book-obsessedweirdo8677 still an outsider in my family, the thing that bothered me most was when they were all having fun and I arrived and then they would be quiet and wait for me to leave 😂🤣😂.
my first car overheated if you went over 60Kph(38m) I carried water bottles all the time. Friends on the second drive in it asked do I have to push this time, it stalled a lot at lights and stop signs. After my father drove it and ignored my warning to not go over 60, blew a cylinder, we found out it was slow and overheated because it already had 2 blown cylinders out of 4. My older brothers car was in full working order, my father did have a Morris minor in good condition I was supposed to get but his friend wanted it so he sold it to him.
The really disappointing thing is you can do things to influence the gender but they basically tried the same thing again and expected a different result and blamed him for it... To put it simply male sperm is faster female sperm survives longer so if you're trying to do everything perfectly or get artificial insemination it is a lot more likely to create a male child and on the opposite end of the spectrum that's why a lot of accidental pregnancies tend to be women because all the male sperm will die on the long journey long before they make it to the egg
The grandma is good 👍 the parents need to just grow up
agreed. also whata funny is i myself have a 2005 honda acord with over 120k miles on it. and that thing still runs perfectly
@Dusktale7145 lol that's good.
Amazing grandma
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Bless that Grandma
Them giving their son any old junk like that could have been very dangerous. I hope op realises that
I got passed down my dads 2010 Volkswagen Caddie Maxi, sadly dad had to continue driving his/my car due to delivery and retrofitting issues. Then couple months later, camshaft broke and totaled the engine. Tbf, it was kept in good condition but the 400k km made themselves known. Now i got a 2020 Toyota Yaris on lease which i have only to pay half the lease per month. Dad said, he's glad the camshaft didn't break when i was the driver. Still miss my Volkswagen, but the Yaris has kinda grown on me.
Tldr, you're right old cars or high mileage can be dangerous.
Honestly with how they treat him they were probably hoping for it
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Grandma and thw rest of the fam are amazing for that guy
The Brother sounds pretty chill, just very unaware
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Man the grandparents always come in clutch
The parents are bitches, but everyone else is just amazing
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Nah that grandma is a karate master
dude we need more ppl that do these kinda posts, this channel will be my fav reddit channel for the rest of time frfr
A USED CAR WITH 180 MILES!!!!!! BRO THATS A RARE FIND BRO
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@@TheRedSoldier490 ohhh
When he said they got me a subaru I was like whatttt? Then the gasket blew lol
those parent should be lucky your grand parents do not Disown them for this crap
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Grandma ate that up
Last thing I'd say to them before leaving for college and going no contact would be "Sorry I wasn't born a girl, I understand why you hate me." Just let that gut punch be the last thing they heard from the child they failed.
I would also add mommy dearest if you want to blame someone for me not being a female blame father his sperm determines gender.
@laquietagray9323 Nah you say what I said with as genuine of regret and sorrow as you can to make them ACTUALLY think you're sorry for being born a boy so they feel extra shitty when you leave. By pretending to take the full blame it will make them feel even worse about blaming you themselves.
Blowing a heady at 45mph is the most Subaru thing I’ve ever heard.
Amen
So the parents tried to end their own son
The parents trying to kill him with a Subaru would mean that the parents cared enough to do so and I don't think that's the case
@@dnagam5597 carelessness when giving barely running car sounds like attempted murder
@jansdavisbelerts1196 legally it wouldn't be murder. Criminal negligence and manslaughter maybe, since all they did was fail to properly inspect the car they brought. They didn't actively and intentionally overseal the head gasket. Still potentially felony material, just not to the severity you're describing.
At absolute best the guy who sold the car would get in legal trouble and the parents disowned by the family
The parents didn't know about it, and were just being careless, but not to a criminal degree
Sadly this isn't true only because I doubt they view him as their child to begin with. In their mind he was a wasted existence.
I love his grandparents. And that is the stupidest reason I have ever heard for showing favoritism. Any reason is a stupid one but this is absolutely ridiculous and I love that the family had his back.
Everyone in the family helped him which is great. Usually relatives just want to be a spectator and won’t help out.
The rest of the family are real G’s 😌 and I’m happy that the brother apologized about the past and stuff after learning about what happened. The parents are truly horrible people. I don’t understand how parents can treat their kids this way, just because they didn’t get the exact baby that they wanted. :/ it’s honestly kinda sad.
Holy sh*t! We just went from favoritism to straight up attempted murd*r!
What I think i missed that part
@@Jakecake3000 They gave him a car that blew out three weeks after it was bought. They just bought the cheapest car and gave it to him without making no sure that it was safe. They basically just red ‘used car’ x USD and didn’t even see if it’s safe.
Grandma got a degree in kick-ass ology apparently
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More like a phd
Parents gonna be in the cheapest retirement home when the golden child fails💀
Nah, the brother also realizes how fucked up their parents' actions were and is planning to stay out of state. You could argue it being too little too late, but he's also a product of how they raised him.
@@hue_lord_4208 agreed
I’ve read so many of these types of posts that I was surprised the brother wasn’t an entitled brat
By the background makes sense they didnt spoil the brother they just treated op worse so he wasnt grown up spoiled
Same man
I'm a middle child from a single disabled mother. I got a chocolate muffin from Costco and since it was my birthday I got to have two. I was and still am very thankful for the little bit of recognition in a world where too many children don't get any
The parents are acting like bratty children
Well good thing they never found out his sex until after he was born or these parents would have aborted him.
The parents absolutely s*ck, but the rest of the family is great. Awesome grandparents.
Why censor sick is a good adjective and suck is out of place but both are the same when you block it like that
@@adolforamos9518 The censor always stikes my posts. And "sick" doesn't work with my phrasing.
I personally think everyone should have to buy their own first car however if one child gets a car the other should too when their the same age unless they cant drive
See I feel like u need to earn the car but the second kid definitely deserved one he did good in school and even got a scholarship I would be proud
> subaru
> head gasket blown
well well well…
how predictable…
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This will be a great new life moto/ wepon phrase 😂😂😂
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i really want to be like the grandparents. I promise that I will never show favoritism to any of my children, that's one of the worst things you can do.
Try being the older brother that had to take care of the golden child that barely passed HS.
@@MikhailScottKy ugh, I would never survive
It's stories like these that make me thankful for the parents I have.
Love the “ update 3 weeks later the Subaru blew the head gasket” typical Subaru
Yep, good ol' subaru
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Grandma is a straight gangster
Extremely terrible parents.
W Grandma man. F these kind of parents. All children deserve parents but not all parents deserve children
Its always the grandparents who saves the day.
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There is nothing such as unplanned kid. Its always unplanned marriage 😂
Or unplanned parents.
@@sorban5352thats.. an unplanned kid
@@redditsscarystorys And parent without à parenting plan for him
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I’ll never understand how parents can just treat one of their own like crap. It really makes me concerned on how they were treated as a little child…
Fun fact most planes were shot down from rouge Subaru head gaskets
Typical Subaru boxer engine woes, if you can't take a joke you shouldn't own a Subaru. Hopefully OP moved on to something better.
Bruh as soon as they said "Subaru" I said "how long till the head gasket blows?"
Lol I saw the blown head gasket coming the moment he said Subaru.
Granny came in for a clutch, she's amazing and the parents can go eat dirt.
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Aside from the parents OP seems like they have a great family and I'm really glad the brother wasn't an asshole like so many favored siblings are in these stories. It sucks that there are so many parents and families like this
Maybe because I grew up in a different household. At my parents. Never never played favorites. I mean when I was little I thought they fevered my big brother more but when as I grew up I understood that it was just me thinking that. But personally, yes, you can have a favorite but you shouldn't completely ignore or disregard any other child in your family.
Lucky I can tell you I wasn't he favorite for my mom. It was my bay brother he got to enjoy good lunches where me and my other brother got. Pb and j. We went out he got a drink for the ride, he got a new toy while we got nothing. I'm 8yrs older and we have talk he is 16 he felt bad but honestly doesn't remember. We think he bcame the favorite after he got kawasaki disease which is rare to get if you white. It's only found in Asian or Africa America. Babies. It affects the heart and if you don't treat it in 10 days I think the child could die, be on a heart transplant list, etc... he had to go through heart echo til he was 4ish because of it. Now the middle one is the favorite cause he is making her a grandma at 47 im 23 all I hear about is the baby and him. I know excitement and all but I'm also planning my wedding! My dad is more excited about walking me down the aisle than my mother is. He even argued with my andbaby brother over the song I picked for the daddy daughter dance which is butterfly fly away by Billie ray Cyrus and Miley Cyrus. He use to hear it and got upset cause he said he never wanted his little butterfly to grow up 😢 he never showed favoritism somewhat more like he thought the boys did no wrong but I let that go since he has learn from the middle brother what it does.
Holly cow this channle actually uploads the full story
I swear, these grandparents are just saints. May you all be happy
Its not blackmail its revealing scumbags to the world. They just felt guilty because they knew it was the truth.
Parents really think that their 2nd child got killed by poor maintence and say: Thats karma
They aren't people fit to be called parents honestly.
“You”re always young enough to be taught a lesson in humility.” Grandma rocks!!!!
Hope the brothers work out any awkwardness. Thats the kind of relationship that really has a chance of coming back and being genuinely good.
the brother would rub the shit in, he was loving being the loved kid.
He has the best grandparents
Parents unfavoring or hating their child. For something the child can't control. Amazing.
This was so satisfying, not just the background, the story too
Basically, op was unplanned because op was male when op's parents wanted a girl. This is why there's clear favoritism between the first and second born. Op did get a car from his parents, but it broke down. So the grandparents belittled them into getting a better car and the grandfather fixed up multiple things in it. That's basically the jist of it.
No wayyy...
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I love the grandma! Also the parents are acting like three year olds when they don’t get what they want.
My aunt and uncle had four sons. Yes, they would have loved at least one daughter. But they accepted all four sons, loved them all abundantly, and provided the best they could for each one of them. All four boys had equal privileges. Aunt and Uncle never treated any of them like the OP's parents treated him just because they were disappointed that he was another boy instead of the girl they hoped for.
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Bru if this real you got birthdays at 12,13,14,15,16,17,18 your lucky😭
Fr I ain’t had one since 10
@@RW_90 saammmeeeee
Sounds like yall had crappy childhoods
In just the ones youve mentioned there are three milestone birthdays
13 - first steps to being a true teenager
16 - you are now at a point where you are trusted to do stuff on your own like work and drive
18 - You made it and while you are still a kid in the world of adults, You'll gain freedom and more to explore yourself.
@@C.G.Gaster uh i didn’t have Christmas too that bad or that normal?😅
Thanks to my grandma I had birthdays up till I was 15 before I lost interest, even my abusive mom would still get me a cake since she cared in her own weird way
Grandma the GOAT🗿
That grandma is amazing.
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Where tf was the Minecraft parkour lol😮
Subaru blowing the head gasket is so realistic 😂
i guess im lucky because my mother wanted a girl and i was born a boy and now years later she say's that she was lucky to have me as a boy
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My story is the same but somewhat different, my mother hates me because the first born was a son so they are beyond happy hence the golden child then second it’s a girl now they have a complete set. Then, there was me! The accident 😂, they wanted to abort me but I was tough either she continue with the procedure but I might take her with me so she’s stuck with me 😂. She hates me and treated me like an outsider still.
That's not a funny story. Are you all right?
Sort of similar situation on my part too. My father wanted his first born to be a girl but got me instead and I've been treated like shit by him ever since I was born. He even threatened to kill me a few times growing up. I feel your and the ops pain
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@@book-obsessedweirdo8677 still an outsider in my family, the thing that bothered me most was when they were all having fun and I arrived and then they would be quiet and wait for me to leave 😂🤣😂.
@@JourneytoaHappyLife2024 I- mate that's not a funny story. I think you gotta talk to someone about that...
If you didnt want to have a child give it up to adoption way better then emotionally abusing a child
my first car overheated if you went over 60Kph(38m) I carried water bottles all the time. Friends on the second drive in it asked do I have to push this time, it stalled a lot at lights and stop signs.
After my father drove it and ignored my warning to not go over 60, blew a cylinder, we found out it was slow and overheated because it already had 2 blown cylinders out of 4.
My older brothers car was in full working order, my father did have a Morris minor in good condition I was supposed to get but his friend wanted it so he sold it to him.
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go granny lol
That seems extreme for just being born the wrong gender. You’re sure you’re not your father son or something.
Legacy are good looking, but it's a Subaru. The civic is a good car unless it gets stolen😂
Definitely have different fathers
The really disappointing thing is you can do things to influence the gender but they basically tried the same thing again and expected a different result and blamed him for it...
To put it simply male sperm is faster female sperm survives longer so if you're trying to do everything perfectly or get artificial insemination it is a lot more likely to create a male child
and on the opposite end of the spectrum that's why a lot of accidental pregnancies tend to be women because all the male sperm will die on the long journey long before they make it to the egg
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It’s amazing that throughout the whole thing he stayed very mature and grateful, and never lashed out or anything
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i watch a lot of these redit stories and i honestly think this is one of my favorites
sorry...but...this is to the op parents...3 insults i have kept in my head...BAD PARENTS! EVIL! SHOULDN'T HAVE CUSTODY!