How Hoarding Disorder Can Completely DESTROY a Home

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @landraliebling5699
    @landraliebling5699 3 месяца назад +489

    I have to be honest, Mack. I used to be pretty judgmental towards people who hoarded before watching your channel and really listening to how you’ve explained this disorder. Now my heart just hurts for those who struggle with this and for all involved. Thank you for opening my eyes and my heart to being compassionate, empathetic, and understanding towards this disorder. You, Jason, and Barbie did a fabulous job, even if the house ended up being uninhabitable in the end. Thank you for being so real. Love your videos and you all so much!!! 🤩🤩🤩🩵🩵🩵👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @thebookwyrmslair6757
      @thebookwyrmslair6757 3 месяца назад +13

      Thank you for listening and growing! ❤ It can break your heart over and over again to hear these stories... and the stories of those who can't / won't / don't seek treatment.

    • @jacquiewiegand6323
      @jacquiewiegand6323 3 месяца назад +9

      Speaking about Autistic burn out. You are at the level where you can **begin to think about retirement,** and can hire people as good as Barbie and your son, or anyone else who wants to get started in this type of business, to do the cleaning while you pay them well, mentor them if they wish to start their own business, and do all the video editing and Voice over, editing because we all love how your talking to us. That's why I continue to watch you vs any other cleaning channel. I love everything you say and even joke about. ♥♥♥

    • @nerdygirl857
      @nerdygirl857 3 месяца назад +6

      You got that right! Right as I'm watching it, I jump up "geesh, I gotta clean my house"..this makes my teeth itch lol

    • @SusanaXpeace2u
      @SusanaXpeace2u 3 месяца назад +2

      Yeh, saw a show on channel 4 (uk) and the hoarders had such sad stories. One, his brother went missing and they never got answers. Another, her mother commit suicide when she was a child. They were living functional lives and their hoarding allowed that. Changed my perspective.

    • @dillpicklefig
      @dillpicklefig 3 месяца назад +3

      What a lot of people don't realize is that hoarding is a form of OCD and is a compulsive maladaptive coping mechanism. I have OCD, not the hoarding subtype, so I can definitely see how someone can be physically unable to stop themselves from the cycle of hoarding. That's why on these hoarding TV shows you see the hoarder crying and panicking over every single item being removed-- they see it as all that work they did to keep back the obsessive thoughts being undone. It's extremely destructive and tragic for those affected by it.

  • @IrisWestcott
    @IrisWestcott 4 месяца назад +1607

    I’ve been calling this my scared straight channel. If this doesn’t kick-start your declutterring habit, nothing will.

    • @buckeyedav1
      @buckeyedav1 4 месяца назад +130

      Good way of putting it. I have spent a year decluttering my house a little at a time and finding new homes for things that I realistically am not going to use anymore even if I paid a lot of money for it, if it's not being used it's out... just sold a bike and a generator, both never used for $50.00 to my bil who sells on Marketplace. Generator $500 but I bought it because my husband had to use a CPAP machine he passed away and I'm not so worried about a power failure have other sources for keeping cool in summer and warm in the winter so out it went. To declutter sometimes you just have to be hard core in letting things go that are taking up space. Anna In Ohio

    • @Wickgirl65
      @Wickgirl65 4 месяца назад +45

      @@buckeyedav1Anna, I applaud you. Why do we attach so much emotion to an inanimate object?

    • @hildaba-wu1499
      @hildaba-wu1499 4 месяца назад +28

      @@buckeyedav1Hi Anna, you are doing so right! Good so👏🏻! All the best from🇩🇪Germany🙋🏼‍♀️

    • @onecatshortofcrazy12
      @onecatshortofcrazy12 4 месяца назад +44

      A lot of time I’ll start watching one of these and get up and clean something while I’m watching.

    • @JadeDragon407
      @JadeDragon407 4 месяца назад +40

      And if it doesn't... it's a sign you could use some real help. I know for some, it's physical inability due to injuries/med conditions, but if you're able-bodies and just can't, then there's something going on that needs addressed, which as is said here all the time, the needing/receiving of help should not be a bad thing, but it's just "one of those things", and I continually say that even the "best of us" need help, emotional support or some type of encouragement sometimes because life can get too difficult to handle sometimes, and thus, the caring hug, helping hand or boot in the tail gets us back going.

  • @junoantaresofficial
    @junoantaresofficial 3 месяца назад +509

    My favorite part of these is hearing the little chipmunk voices, especially the little tiny laughs. I don't know why, I just love it.

    • @gamingmama360
      @gamingmama360 3 месяца назад +32

      You can pretend they are teeny tiny people cleaning a teeny tiny house.

    • @leekalba
      @leekalba 3 месяца назад +3

      they make me think of that one bit from Spaceballs

    • @millerkiller6496
      @millerkiller6496 3 месяца назад +6

      They sound like pikmin

    • @pamelaharris8480
      @pamelaharris8480 3 месяца назад +3

      We need a little comic relief. Sad story.

    • @eminempreg
      @eminempreg 3 месяца назад +2

      I had this one while driving (it was the last thing I watched and it started playing automatically once my phone connected to my car). I was so in the zone I didn't realize it was playing until it clicked that I was going 60 down the highway hearing chipmunk noises.

  • @anonananas940
    @anonananas940 4 месяца назад +754

    "Who's that tiny woman stealing all that trash?" 😂😂

    • @Betsy-R
      @Betsy-R 3 месяца назад +5

      Hilarious!

    • @jlaurelc
      @jlaurelc 3 месяца назад +2

      Absolute guffaw from me!!

    • @ChristyBachman
      @ChristyBachman 3 месяца назад +2

      😂😂😂😂

  • @alirpa77
    @alirpa77 3 месяца назад +218

    It’s fun to act like the sounds of you guys talking in high speed is actually the mice complaining that you’re ruining the community they’ve spent years building. 😂😂😂

    • @aprilk569
      @aprilk569 3 месяца назад +6

      I do that too! 😂

    • @mtaylor2901
      @mtaylor2901 3 месяца назад +3

      Same for me..😂 🐭
      These folks are AMAZING!! Helping all these people and literally making the world a better place!

    • @ELWest1000
      @ELWest1000 2 месяца назад +2

      I had that same thought when I started watching these. Either that or there are chipmunks helping 😂

    • @baswenmakers6846
      @baswenmakers6846 2 месяца назад +3

      You would be surprised how vocal rodents get when you disturb them. I noticed that while doing security rounds at night in gardens.

  • @rhiwlen3290
    @rhiwlen3290 4 месяца назад +414

    Seeing those two little drawers under the bed where the contents were clean and neatly folded made me so sad. It shows that there was a time when the house was not like this, and the resident was not so mentally ill.

    • @d.k.s.4057
      @d.k.s.4057 3 месяца назад +23

      I had exactly the same thought!

    • @CraigsOverijse
      @CraigsOverijse 3 месяца назад +30

      also the book shelf in the sitting room

    • @lisahanson527
      @lisahanson527 3 месяца назад +3

      Me too.

    • @roadmaster720
      @roadmaster720 3 месяца назад +4

      my thought also. really sad that this happens.

    • @Dwayne-mb2uj
      @Dwayne-mb2uj 3 месяца назад +5

      Or they were married to a sane person who died .

  • @roseanncoffman-davis8485
    @roseanncoffman-davis8485 4 месяца назад +1038

    You ask Barbie “Are you going to open that fridge?” And her being the beast she is was like CHALLENGE ACCEPTED! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @donnaflagg333
      @donnaflagg333 4 месяца назад +41

      Ikr - she’s so amazing she brings tears to my eyes.

    • @JadeDragon407
      @JadeDragon407 4 месяца назад +56

      "Don't threaten me with a good time!!" >>:=p

    • @jenniferyoung7818
      @jenniferyoung7818 4 месяца назад +6

      😂😂😂

    • @smartchikchick
      @smartchikchick 4 месяца назад +43

      I just know that the “NOOOO” was in slow motion with a hand thrown out dramatically

    • @onecatshortofcrazy12
      @onecatshortofcrazy12 4 месяца назад +11

      You guys are still amazing!

  • @roseanncoffman-davis8485
    @roseanncoffman-davis8485 4 месяца назад +813

    I work in a nursing home and just recently admitted a couple that lived in a house like this. He had been in the hospital for about 3 months, but the son found the house in the condition and the woman was living in it. He got a dumpster and spent a week and only accomplished paths through the house. Stray cats had gotten in and were living amongst it as well. They will be just demolishing that home, which is not even paid for. Mental illness is just so sad.

    • @roseanncoffman-davis8485
      @roseanncoffman-davis8485 4 месяца назад +69

      @@moon-moth1 they did get the cats out. Her son made sure of that.

    • @elizarock655
      @elizarock655 4 месяца назад +35

      Heartbreaking that at the same time somewhere there’s a family in need of a home while there’s houses being destroyed. Tragic all round.

    • @LisaLeewood
      @LisaLeewood 3 месяца назад +19

      It is very sad. Mack, Barbie and Jason are true heroes for what they do. For all the damaged this home sustained, will it probably be destroyed?

    • @Algorithm_work_your_magic
      @Algorithm_work_your_magic 3 месяца назад +18

      @@LisaLeewood it would cost more to repair than to start from zero

    • @Nancy-td9xh
      @Nancy-td9xh 3 месяца назад +11

      I pray that everyone involved in your wife’s care be extraordinarily talented, gentle and kind.

  • @chupacabra-smith
    @chupacabra-smith 3 месяца назад +72

    I used to watch Hoarders and other similar shows for the before/after satisfaction. It didnt take long to realize that TLC, A&E, etc were not really helping people, they just capitalize on the drama, do a half assed effort in about 4 days and then leave the family to pick up the pieces. You're ACTUALLY helping people, not just creating an illusion of helping, and thats infinitely more satisfying. And i actually like listening to your narration. Bless you, sir, bless you!

    • @Sashazur
      @Sashazur 3 месяца назад +14

      I watched some of those shows and immediately hated the “psychologist” they always brought in. She just kept asking these upset people “How does that make you feel?” and kept pressuring them to cooperate with the cleanout when it was clear they were incapable of coping with anything at all. Clearly many hoarders DO need counseling, but that doesn’t mean serving up platitudes at the exact same time their world is being dismantled. Those shows clearly are just there to be a train wreck that people can’t look away from. I get the same satisfaction from watching these videos, but they don’t make me feel bad in the same way as those TV shows, because in these videos we aren’t being asked to gawk at people who are suffering.

  • @Luipaard005
    @Luipaard005 3 месяца назад +197

    Your description of the smell reminds me of an article I read about a Japanese company that specialized in cleaning up homes where elderly Japanese adults had died. Most of the time they had died tragically alone. The owner of the company shaved his head eventually because getting the smell of decay out of his hair was such a hassle.
    Thank you for everything you guys do.

    • @palomitapalomita7866
      @palomitapalomita7866 3 месяца назад +14

      I've seen videos about this guy! I think he started the company after his family went through the same thing.

    • @1TalldrinkH2O
      @1TalldrinkH2O 3 месяца назад +5

      I saw that channel too. I've learned so much.

    • @ginnydare13
      @ginnydare13 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@1TalldrinkH2O what's the channel?

    • @1TalldrinkH2O
      @1TalldrinkH2O 3 месяца назад

      @@ginnydare13 The channel KansaiCleanService will show alot. If you look up lonely deaths in Japan on RUclips you will see more than I thought was allowed. One of the things I really appreciated about some of these channels is they were very respectful of the deceased.
      Wishing you good health and faithful people who will be there for you in your time of need. I wish I could retro wish this on those lonely deaths in the video. 💐

  • @alikatt
    @alikatt 4 месяца назад +547

    Clean with Barbie is incredible! She's the only therapist that shows up with garbage bags and a broom 😊

    • @SILSpring
      @SILSpring 4 месяца назад +19

      And a Scrub Daddy!

    • @sisutytto2563
      @sisutytto2563 3 месяца назад +4

      @@SILSpring And black rubber gloves that she smacks right in your face and says go,go,go😁😅💪👏.

    • @catlover281
      @catlover281 3 месяца назад +5

      @@SILSpringscrub daddy ain’t gonna be happy after being put through all of that hell

    • @frelnc
      @frelnc 3 месяца назад +5

      And works like a trooper. She's amazing.

    • @svitlanakamsha1305
      @svitlanakamsha1305 3 месяца назад +1

      В этом случае, похоже, нужны и грабли😢

  • @nattycasper2022
    @nattycasper2022 4 месяца назад +446

    This terrifies me because several members of my family were/are hoarders. I clean like someone obsessed once per month. However, when depressed, I do nothing and get really sloppy. I have had several discussions with my adult children about this being a fear for me. Your videos help motivate me in my depression periods. Thank you.

    • @redwitch12
      @redwitch12 4 месяца назад +28

      @@moon-moth1 My rule for myself is that I must do at least one chore or part of a chore per day. Even if it's something relatively minor and simple, like cleaning and wiping down the bathroom sink counter or the kitchen counters, or sweeping the kitchen floor, or vacuuming without moving anything around to get behind/under it. Sometimes it starts my mental engine and I decide to go farther and do more, circling out from the counter to the rest of the room, or having a "quick" vacuum evolve into a "move things, get into the crevices and behind stuff" session. I tend to keep a fairly tidy house anyway, without a lot of clutter, but being in southern Arizona means that the dust gets insane.

    • @eembers
      @eembers 3 месяца назад +18

      Something I try to do during my own depressive periods is to keep wet wipes and a carrier bag in every room I regularly use so that I can at least make sure I stay on top of trash and spills. I might not have the energy to sort out my floordrobe situation, but at least nothing gets too stinky or unsanitary.
      Wishing you luck keeping on top of things 🫂❤️

    • @soniccookie655
      @soniccookie655 3 месяца назад +10

      These are some good tips, another of mine is keep way too many trash cans. Can’t take out the trash bag, but can tie it closed? Well, you can stack them and wait for a relative to help. If there if a trash can within a few feet that you are able to use, it’s less likely things will end up on the floor or counters.

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird 3 месяца назад +10

      @@eembers “floordrobe” 😂😂I’ve never seen that, that’s funny

    • @luigivincenz3843
      @luigivincenz3843 3 месяца назад +4

      my older brother is a chronic hoarder. It came to a point where the fire department was called in. I sort of had this mental condition and my GF's intervention to just sell the stuff on Ebay made it for me.

  • @mayammink
    @mayammink 4 месяца назад +410

    Respect to you … cleaning a house that smells like that in 100 degree heat. I would run away after a few minutes

    • @mlilac
      @mlilac 4 месяца назад +26

      lol I would run away without even entering

    • @wolfe6220
      @wolfe6220 4 месяца назад +14

      ​@@mlilacYou could probably smell it 1/4 mile away when the breeze shifted.

    • @force311999
      @force311999 4 месяца назад +5

      being that it is a trailer it must be hot as hell in that thing

    • @guhrizzlybaire
      @guhrizzlybaire 3 месяца назад +7

      @@wolfe6220I live about 2 miles from the dump in my city and dang when the breeze shifts just right, it smells like death 🤢🤢🤢

    • @hattiem.7966
      @hattiem.7966 3 месяца назад

      I would as I have a strong nose.​@@wolfe6220

  • @melissat9586
    @melissat9586 3 месяца назад +107

    Growing up, I had a friend whose house looked like this until it was foreclosed on. There were hills of trash taller than I was, and I was about five feet tall the last time I was in that house. We would clean after school enough so that we could make dinner for her younger sibling. The kitchen stayed sanitary because of our efforts. This video brought me to tears, and I have been following this channel for a while now without such a strong response. It is a great thing you are doing ❤️

    • @juliewright1895
      @juliewright1895 3 месяца назад +7

      I love what you did for your friend. You probably made your friend feel very valued. He or she probably appreciated your efforts more than you can ever imagine…a true friend! ❤

  • @samtakhandhia1012
    @samtakhandhia1012 3 месяца назад +108

    Hats off to MMC, Barbie, Bonnie, Auri and anyone else that has the balls to tackle these houses. You deserve all the success and recognition for what you do to help these folk.

  • @callie6132
    @callie6132 4 месяца назад +378

    I’m 50 and was diagnosed with autism 2 years ago. I’ve just recently started learning about autistic burnout and suddenly my whole life makes sense. Thanks for the education, humor, and empathy you provide on your channel. Peace and blessings to your family.

    • @kathym5337
      @kathym5337 4 месяца назад +16

      Very similar here. Thank you Mack!

    • @seven471
      @seven471 3 месяца назад +7

      How did you get diagnosed? I've thought I'm on the spectrum for years.

    • @jlaurelc
      @jlaurelc 3 месяца назад +2

      Very similar here too

    • @writer_jane4912
      @writer_jane4912 3 месяца назад

      ​@@seven471 We're currently in the process of getting my husband a formal diagnosis. We're working with a local psychologist. Talk to your primary care doctor if you have one and see if they have someone to refer you to.

    • @Katie-wj3yw
      @Katie-wj3yw 3 месяца назад

      @@seven471 I found a psychiatrist that specializes in autism and ADD and booked an appointment and she put me through a series of testing to determine where I was at. It was expensive even with insurance; my portion was well over $600.

  • @februerin
    @februerin 4 месяца назад +426

    I just gotta say, I deeply appreciate Jason's method of turning the trash can on its side and just scooping the trash into it. It's so effective and makes my brain go brrrr in the good way!

    • @ChocolateRaisins
      @ChocolateRaisins 4 месяца назад +19

      I was fully expecting him to continue with that scooping method and pick up the can to dump it into a bag. I imagine that would be so much easier than constantly fussing with the floppy opening of a bag.

    • @Purdey921
      @Purdey921 4 месяца назад +4

      It reminded me of a dog digging a hole. 😊 Whatever works is great!

    • @justmemother2
      @justmemother2 4 месяца назад +4

      Way to go, Filth! 👍👏😝❤️

    • @EileenMeehan-q4g
      @EileenMeehan-q4g 3 месяца назад +2

      I think of that as Jason going all honey badger!

    • @soniccookie655
      @soniccookie655 3 месяца назад

      I use that technique too, very effective and kind of fun!

  • @piastewart1974
    @piastewart1974 4 месяца назад +249

    The education you provide is eye-opening. No sugar coating, no cute stuff.
    Agencies who provide assistance should be using these videos to plead for financial support from government. If only you could capture the smell, that would seal the deal.
    Thank you for doing this. You, Jason, and Barbie (whose channel I watch regularly). You’re all heroes

    • @BeeWhistler
      @BeeWhistler 4 месяца назад +16

      Oh, all they need to do is bundle up their shoes and maybe clothes into a sealed bag and bring that to the meeting. That might give them a hint of the aroma.

    • @emilysurany3468
      @emilysurany3468 4 месяца назад

    • @evil1by1
      @evil1by1 3 месяца назад

      The problem isn't financial its between the ears. All the money in the world won't help people who feel every soiled diaper is as precious as a child. It doesnt respond well to medication and even if it did its very hard to force someone to take psychiatric meds against their will. You cant make them participate in therapy and if they aren't ready its like talking to a brick wall anyway. You cant forcibly clean their house either because 1) people have rights 2) it would backfire anyway. Tossing a hoarders possessions forcibly just entrenches the hoarder further and makes treatment harder and less likely. So from where I stand theres nowhere in this problem where money helps unless its the case of mental health being underfunded as a whole.

    • @piastewart1974
      @piastewart1974 3 месяца назад +1

      @@evil1by1 of course money alone will not address the illness of hoarding. Agencies that provide psychological therapy to help the individual with their issues that are likely the underlying cause(s) is where the finances are needed, more trained professionals.

  • @marsketti
    @marsketti 3 месяца назад +60

    I appreciate you setting boundaries and saying "this was too much", being informative about the channel, as well as what you do and why and what others *shouldn't* do when cleaning in these environments. Most importantly is that you take care! Stay safe and good luck with the upcoming surgery.

  • @dougEdoug169
    @dougEdoug169 3 месяца назад +41

    12:00 you can see a mouse run across the floor while Barbie is picking up some trash. It isn't always obvious in the videos but most of the time these houses are STILL infested while they are cleaning them! You guys are awesome, thank you for the motivation and thank you for shining a light on some of the aspects that the TV shows don't really touch on.

    • @nikkisowell3263
      @nikkisowell3263 3 месяца назад +7

      I love how nonchalant she is about it. I would be running and screaming.

    • @l.baughman1445
      @l.baughman1445 3 месяца назад +4

      Yeah! in the fast forward saw this blur...rewind...slow it down to -25 speed and it's normal and first Barbie points at the mouse. "You. Out." moves sofa...mouse runs...

    • @JT1569-d8H
      @JT1569-d8H 3 месяца назад

      When she moves the Green couch, rats scurry

  • @Novanomadmac
    @Novanomadmac 4 месяца назад +156

    I used to live like this when I was 19 to 22. I’m 24 now and my home is spotless my mental health is much better. Just keep going, takes time but get help. Don’t be ashamed, it’s more common than you think.

    • @l337pwnage
      @l337pwnage 3 месяца назад +3

      This place has nothing on my old Frat house, lol. I had to help with one of the "spring cleanings" and I almost threw up a couple times.
      A lot of young people live like pigs at first, but then get sick of it. Often it is a case of many people living together and nobody wants to pick up someone else's trash.

    • @MangoCitizen
      @MangoCitizen 3 месяца назад

      Stop lying!
      This is a certified garbage dump. Anybody living there wouldn't survive a month. That person would die of multiple diseases!

  • @brandywineblogger1411
    @brandywineblogger1411 4 месяца назад +406

    I truly had to force myself to watch this. It's not only the filth, that even an animal in the wild wouldn't live in, but the severity and depth of the mental illness.
    And there was a Jacuzzi in the bathroom! It must have been a nice home at one time.
    Mental illness is the last taboo in our country.
    It's still not spoken of or acknowledged even in families.
    I pray to God this person is in a good, compassionate, mental facility or hospital. I cannot even imagine the condition of their lungs, skin and stomach, let alone their mind.
    Mack, Jason and Barbie - May God bless you all abundantly for your works of mercy and bringing mental illness into the light. Amen!

    • @YYYRealit
      @YYYRealit 4 месяца назад +30

      A a Canadian I can tell you NO moose would enter this house. It is very sad to know people live like this.

    • @bonnafide2606
      @bonnafide2606 4 месяца назад +15

      ​@@YYYRealitMoose are really intelligent 😂😂😂 Bless their hearts!

    • @tully6648
      @tully6648 4 месяца назад +43

      "It must have been a nice home at one time."
      Every time I watch these videos, I wonder about how things were like when the people there first moved in. The first boxes unpacked, the first meals, discovering all the little things about the house. Thinking about how there must have been some happy memories there... It gets to me.

    • @roxanaconception
      @roxanaconception 4 месяца назад +5

      Another point to connect is what is not spoken about, is the darkness (the devil) that lurks in this world to deceive and destroy our souls.

    • @brandywineblogger1411
      @brandywineblogger1411 4 месяца назад +5

      @@roxanaconception Yes, we pray the prayer to St. Michael at every Mass. 🙏

  • @Erichwanh
    @Erichwanh 4 месяца назад +196

    Ma was a hoarder. Not "episode of a show" worthy, but pretty close. It's hard to watch shows like this sometimes because it triggers memories, but I'm glad you frame it in the way you do. That helps, Mack.
    Hoping your inner peace is well today.
    ... (It's my birthday today. I scream into the void every now and again, just to see who's there.)

    • @alikatt
      @alikatt 4 месяца назад +12

      Happy Birthday!!

    • @sharong8511
      @sharong8511 4 месяца назад

      Happy Birthday Eric. May you have a beautiful and blessed day today. 💙🙏💙

    • @ZarpeParadise
      @ZarpeParadise 4 месяца назад +10

      Happy HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

    • @dovie2blue
      @dovie2blue 4 месяца назад +10

      Happy birthday to you!!🎉🥰

    • @adoxartist1258
      @adoxartist1258 4 месяца назад +9

      Happy birthday! 🎉

  • @MGates-k9z
    @MGates-k9z 4 месяца назад +74

    OMG..."it was so bad that when we got done, we just left Jason there"...
    I fell off my chair laughing so hard! Freakin HYSTERICAL!!
    I literally laughed out loud for a solid 2 minutes...no joke!!
    Sick sense of humor...and I LIKE IT!!

  • @jhund81001
    @jhund81001 3 месяца назад +23

    If you've ever worked with the mentally ill, you'll notice that even in places like mental hospitals, patients will still attempt to hoard things. Which they will get angry if you ever try to clean up. It becomes a balance of what needs to be cleaned vs what they're allowed to keep for their own comfort. Great job btw!

    • @paulaf8999
      @paulaf8999 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes I did hospital work for decades and there were plenty of of patients that would try to hoard hospital food even in there. I’d have to get salads and plates of food out of the bedside table. They’d be upset of course but it simply was not allowed because it was so unsanitary

  • @SelfAbridged
    @SelfAbridged 4 месяца назад +117

    Thank you for your content. I've had a bout of depression for the last ~week. I had your voice in my head and decided to fold laundry, work out, shower, and generally just do semi-brainless tasks when I found the energy for them. Today, my mental fog has lifted, my laundry is folded, and my quads are sore.

    • @LadyPelikan
      @LadyPelikan 3 месяца назад +3

      How did the moose do in the laundry?

    • @meenakshi6344
      @meenakshi6344 3 месяца назад +2

      Glad to hear you are better. I applaud your effort.

    • @zumeybear6883
      @zumeybear6883 3 месяца назад

      Buttocks? TOIGHT. 🍑
      😂❤

  • @plumislands
    @plumislands 4 месяца назад +155

    "i remained clothed during this cleaning almost the entire time" 😭😭

  • @HollowShel
    @HollowShel 4 месяца назад +100

    "I don't put up with non-subscribing, disco dancing devil worshippers, that's not how I roll"
    it's not the disco dancing and devil worshipping that's the problem, it's the non-subscribing that's beyond the pale. 😆
    Sheer poetry, my dude. You rock.

    • @colonelleo4101
      @colonelleo4101 3 месяца назад +5

      As a raver I paused, laughed and subscribed 🎉.

    • @zombiedoggie2732
      @zombiedoggie2732 3 месяца назад +3

      Subscribing and watching their videos helps them fund their acts of kindness.

    • @anitacraighead7038
      @anitacraighead7038 3 месяца назад +2

      Some of us are on disability and can't afford to donate...but I do pray for him and his family.

    • @zombiedoggie2732
      @zombiedoggie2732 3 месяца назад

      @@anitacraighead7038 Yes best we can do is watch his videos, and provide moral support.

    • @bemysunshine2313
      @bemysunshine2313 7 дней назад

      ​@@anitacraighead7038Subscribing and becoming a member are two different things. I am on disability and I subscribe to the channel & watch the videos. I hope it provides minimal support without actually becoming a (donating) channel member.

  • @brandond.734
    @brandond.734 3 месяца назад +11

    The crazy thing about this hoard is the fact that there is very few "recognizable" items. Usually hoards you can see some level of "order" if that makes sense, a collection of magazines, tons of dishes, collection of soda cans, clothes, dishes, etc. But this is just completely the opposite...
    It's awesome what you do and makes me want to do the same type of thing someday, I like cleaning to a certain degree and seeing you make something go from disorder to order is inspiring, and I appreciate you uploading these videos, I watch them regularly, and I love the jokes and the empathy you display, thank you! ❤

  • @kellysweeney3842
    @kellysweeney3842 3 месяца назад +25

    I had been feeling super overwhelmed by my clutter, which I felt was hoarding...but this makes me realize that there is hope for me. I've got tons of books and stationery and craft supplies everywhere. But I don't have THAT. Not anything even remotely like that. There is hope for me. You've helped me realize that and gotten me jolted out of my inertia, I think. Thank you for that, and thank you for helping people! Judging doesn't do anything positive for anyone. Being compassionate and having empathy are priceless qualities and I appreciate a channel that doesn't make me feel like I'm worth less than the clutter on my counters because I am "lazy". ❤

  • @cmajor5605
    @cmajor5605 4 месяца назад +122

    Barbie is the Hungarian Hammer! My body ached and lungs burned in empathy while watching this video. I appreciate the description of the stages of decay in a house caused by this level of mess. These types of videos emphasize the need for more mental health care in North America.

  • @haysmom25
    @haysmom25 4 месяца назад +122

    Barbie is truly magnificent! The way she dragged that huge chair out of the house was spectacular! You all are amazing!

  • @CookwitchCreations
    @CookwitchCreations 4 месяца назад +299

    So sad to see a life and a home left in such tatters. Thank you to you all, my super people!

    • @cindland
      @cindland 4 месяца назад +14

      Yes, the amount of time and therefore neglect that was allowed to develop to this level. It’s pure horror.

  • @karyannfontaine8757
    @karyannfontaine8757 2 месяца назад +4

    I hope al goes well for your wife's surgery. You deserve a million subscribers and more. I appreciate your personality, what you say and do. Credit to the people who help you with these projects. All of you are good people.

  • @claireh.7605
    @claireh.7605 3 месяца назад +18

    I grew up in a house similar to this, but only like 30% as bad. From the person living in it, it feels IMPOSSIBLE to change. You do a couple of things, then run of energy and just collapse. But in a clean apartment, same person can function normally.

  • @susielynch8330
    @susielynch8330 4 месяца назад +35

    Barbie doesn't let things get in her way. She moved that chair and couch like it wasn't even heavy. She didn't even flinch when a mouse popped out. You guys are amazing, and most people wouldn't even think of doing what you do. Keep getting better and remember to put you and your health first.

  • @AZHITW
    @AZHITW 4 месяца назад +72

    They way you spoke of your dad makes me think your relationship wasn't the best, I too had a father who saw nothing in my future but married barefoot and pregnant. He was wrong, but getting over the mental hurdles built in childhood is daunting. Thanks for keeping it real.

  • @maryannanderson2213
    @maryannanderson2213 4 месяца назад +163

    I was raised in a small town and there were houses that smelled so bad that you could literally smell them from the road in front of the house. He was right to say that the smell is indescribable. It's not just nasty smelling stuff. It's nasty smelling stuff that has been sitting a long time and is now OLD smelling nasty stuff. The children who lived in those houses came to school with that smell permeating their clothing and their hair and their bodies so that no one could stand to be around them. Very sad.

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 4 месяца назад +9

      That's so sad. Why did no-one call CPS? Teachers are mandatory reporters under child safeguarding law.

    • @marywiggins7411
      @marywiggins7411 4 месяца назад +6

      Yes, unfortunately in grade school there was a family like that, it was so sad. They were teased terribly. 😢

    • @maryannanderson2213
      @maryannanderson2213 4 месяца назад +20

      @@sarahholland2600 I'm not sure CPS existed back then. This was in the 60's and if CPS was a thing I certainly had never heard of it.

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 4 месяца назад +4

      @@maryannanderson2213I'm sure there was something then, as I watched a documentary on US children removed to an abusive childrens home in the 50's , by social services , then many being murdered & put in unmarked graves. The name of the home has escaped me. But the doc is on You Tube. The thumbnail is a b/w pic of several boys, with the staff, in front of the home.

    • @chickadeeacres3864
      @chickadeeacres3864 4 месяца назад +4

      @@sarahholland2600doesn’t sound like child protective services does it?

  • @Sandy-ju1iu
    @Sandy-ju1iu 3 месяца назад +18

    The saddest thing to me is how these folks who are hoarding at this level feel they're sitting on treasure. That, I think, is the worst thing about mental illness; that deception. They thought they were rich, but they were desperately poor.

  • @laurieweinberg353
    @laurieweinberg353 3 месяца назад +8

    Thank you for your previous comments regarding the critics and judgers of people with chronic and complex health issues that make it difficult to move and to feel productive. I hear it from my own mother on a regular basis. It must be nice to be perfect and have no real challenges in your life. Appreciate the help, hope and dignity you offer folks like me who can't have anyone in my house because it is unkept.

  • @mallets4lyfe
    @mallets4lyfe 4 месяца назад +68

    I love it when you collab with Bonnie and Barbie. The three of you are freaking rockstars

  • @mlilac
    @mlilac 4 месяца назад +33

    It's terrifying to think that at some point a human being lived in there. I'm with you on the hope that they are in a home now. No-one deserves to exist like this

  • @bonessasan
    @bonessasan 4 месяца назад +74

    Having had heat exhaustion a couple times (without moving on to a full heat stroke I don't think) I can say that's pretty dang close to the sickest I've ever felt. Did I feel like I was gonna die? Not quite, but I was worried it was a possibility.
    That the three of you help in these situations for free is already impressive, but that you do it with compassion rather than judgment is really heartening in a world that can seem more awful than not.
    Edit: I hope all goes well with your wife's surgery!

    • @kellyngrey4950
      @kellyngrey4950 4 месяца назад +4

      Yep. Couple weeks ago I was moving out and I got heat exhaustion. It came on real quick, too! I can't imagine being in that house with that heat and humidity. Them three were a powerhouse!

    • @solitarelee6200
      @solitarelee6200 4 месяца назад +3

      I did have heat stroke as a kid and I went temporarily blind. No good! 😂

    • @suewright984
      @suewright984 4 месяца назад +4

      I fainted from heat exhaustion. Serious business.

    • @albranch1
      @albranch1 4 месяца назад +3

      Hey Mack! Sending prayers to your wife and family. May the Lord guide the hands of the surgeon and His Wisdom undergird this surgery and His Touch be with her throughout her recuperation and recovery!

    • @RedArrowTinker
      @RedArrowTinker 4 месяца назад +2

      @@albranch1 Amen!

  • @DJdoppIer
    @DJdoppIer 3 месяца назад +36

    That bit about the fridge is on-point as all hell.
    I once came across a mini-fridge on the side of the road next to a house that looked to have been recently renovated. Went to take a look, and the outside of it was in great condition. I opened that pandora's box and the smell made me fall on my butt and vomit onto my pants before I could even register what happened. I couldn't even see what was inside because of the thousands of maggots. I vomited 2 more times as I attempted to crawl away from the stench as my legs initially refused to work. That was the single worst smell I have ever encountered. I can't even describe it without feeling nauseous to this day.

  • @Snewpy12
    @Snewpy12 3 месяца назад +15

    I want to say thank you for all you do. I appreciate the in-depth explanations of how mental health can lead to living conditions, just like this video. A year ago, I lost my mother, I lived several states away from her, and I had no idea the true condition of her home. My mother suffered some very traumatic health issues, and the state of her home was indescribable and heartbreaking. I struggled with understanding how it got to be that way, and I found your channel. You have helped me understand what she was going through and how difficult it would have been for her to ask for help. Your knowledge has allowed me to see things in a different light, and has helped me heal.

  • @CatsCrazyWorld
    @CatsCrazyWorld 4 месяца назад +143

    Looks like the trailer I moved out of. I had went blind in both eyes with cataracts, Bed bug infestation, and a tree limb grew thru the roof of it caving in the ceiling. There was all kinds of mold, fungus and some stuff I can't mention as well as rotting walls. Rats nests and their debris. The county Health Department and no one would help. The yard was so overgrown I couldn't walk in it. We also had cats! Go figure. We both got to where just tossing the trash behind us was favorable compared to me walking on the broken deck to take it out to the road BLIND! No longer so I still struggle with some things. But I am making it!

    • @donnaflagg333
      @donnaflagg333 4 месяца назад +14

      You are in my prayers today and every day hence.
      💚☘️💚

    • @rosestrohm7986
      @rosestrohm7986 4 месяца назад +37

      Our country is so broken when we can't even help citizens who are blind and living in rotting trailers

    • @junedunne
      @junedunne 4 месяца назад +5

      How did you finally get out? Did a family member help? 😢🫂

    • @kileanazad5971
      @kileanazad5971 4 месяца назад +4

      Bless you for your ability to recognise you needed help. I will forever be praying for you.

    • @force311999
      @force311999 4 месяца назад +5

      funny i figured out it was a trailer by the paneling walls and the kitchen sink layout that is so common along with the thin aluminum windows bet it was a hot box in there

  • @beckygoley714
    @beckygoley714 4 месяца назад +57

    The more I watch these videos I want to be a minimalist. I just hate clutter and filth. Except Jason I love him!

    • @kileanazad5971
      @kileanazad5971 4 месяца назад +8

      Yeah this. Was actually slowly getting rid of stuff. Or so I thought lol. I looked into my husbands garage just two days ago and wham! He “rescued” all the stuff I’d been tossing! We are currently in negotiations as what he can keep 😂😂😂😂

    • @mothwaltz4163
      @mothwaltz4163 3 месяца назад

      ​@@kileanazad5971😅

    • @user-yn7on7ou8n
      @user-yn7on7ou8n 3 месяца назад +1

      Love Jason ❤ and Mack 🙂

  • @rosestrohm7986
    @rosestrohm7986 4 месяца назад +56

    "i'd be a supervillain. There's no crime in the area I live in so I'd just have to create some" I love this channel so much

    • @marjoriejohnson4559
      @marjoriejohnson4559 4 месяца назад +1

      I wonder if all super heroes sometimes turn villain to stir things up so they can do their super hero schtick. Hmmm. Most of the crime in Illinois IS in Chicago, so I never go there anymore.😢

  • @lohphat
    @lohphat 3 месяца назад +4

    Pro tip. The cleaning crew for my late uncles place used 50 gal Rubbermaid trash cans, screwed dolly casters to the bottom and used the huge thick lawn and leaf bags stretched around the rim. They just used snow shovels as you did. One persons job was just to rotate out the full bags so the shoveler could just keep going. Handholding those flimsy bags slows you down.
    It still took 3 full days of constant work.

  • @susiepattinson3031
    @susiepattinson3031 3 месяца назад +11

    This is heartbreaking. What always amazes me is how once these homes are cleared you can see how cozy and homely they could have been for the inhabitants had they not had their terrible depressions and disorders. I commend you for your understanding. and work to assist them. THANKYOU. from sydney australia.🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

  • @brianne8258
    @brianne8258 4 месяца назад +53

    As a Public Health Professional thank you so much for warning people about the disease that can happen without training & extreme caution.

  • @kirajones8920
    @kirajones8920 4 месяца назад +50

    It’s heartbreaking that so many people suffer living like this. ❤

  • @the_coalheart
    @the_coalheart 4 месяца назад +41

    well, you and your channel saved me from major stuff. Discovered your channel, something clicked in me and after roughly a year or so BAM, autistic, grade 1. Now waiting on the results on ADHD to come back as well. And your methods for cleaning and avoid clutter building nonstop around oneself? Those really made a difference, my desk and work area been tidy for a full two months as of today. So yeah, we discovered depression was not the issue but an autistic burnout but as autism was not diagnosed... yeah you get the idea. Thanks again! FOREVER

    • @sherrym5556
      @sherrym5556 4 месяца назад +9

      Same.. at 58 😡🥺 So many women were misdiagnosed for years and years 4 depression n anxiety when it was autism the whole time.

    • @the_coalheart
      @the_coalheart 4 месяца назад

      @@sherrym5556 45 here...

    • @Cello-Pam
      @Cello-Pam 4 месяца назад +5

      Sometimes it's lovely to have a label!

  • @gingered
    @gingered 3 месяца назад +14

    The sheer amount of trash is so much the more you remove the more it reveals and the more insurmountable it appears. Im glad this person go the help they need, and the three of you giving your time and resources to the person/friend/family left to address the damage is incredible.

  • @aleli91702
    @aleli91702 3 месяца назад +5

    As some other commenters have said, this is also my "scared straight" channel. My mom's a hoarder and even though she's gotten better in some ways, she still struggles. Love the work you and your family do. I almost want to do this for free too because I work in restoration, and we work a lot in senior citizen communities, and it makes me so sad to see them be lonely and in distress, living in their home that they can't keep up with. Lots of times, we're doing water damage in their bathrooms, and I sneak in some extra toilet and counter cleanings.
    PS. have watched you guys a lot and can you please, please tell Jason to bend his knees and just squat a little when he's picking up things. This is just a tip coming from someone that also cleans for a living and with 4 herniated discs.
    Keep it up and thank you for what you do for your community, and for us, the youtube community, for teaching us about compassion.

  • @nuz8822
    @nuz8822 4 месяца назад +24

    As someone who struggles with depression and staying organized, I really appreciate what you do. I've never been to the level that you see, but I can understand how that happens. People don't understand how difficult it is to break free.

  • @alanbirkner1958
    @alanbirkner1958 4 месяца назад +33

    July 2024. A woman's house was literally scheduled for demolition and the basement was flooded by a river. She sat eating 3 year old ( at least) candy and I tried
    to help her save her beautiful antique dishes. She was concerned about her out of date cosmetics and her bathtub full of shoes. I used to help ( and still do) people sort and declutter for free. I enjoy sorting. Near O'Hare airport. Tina, Al's wife

  • @RosemaryAmey
    @RosemaryAmey 4 месяца назад +40

    Hi, Crunch! I hope you recover soon from the autistic burnout and that your wife's surgery goes smoothly. Thanks for everything you do.

  • @CHrisPetE056
    @CHrisPetE056 4 месяца назад +3

    I’m back! I watched half on my lunch break at work and I finished when I got home. Sorry you are still in your “rough patch”. I do want to say this was an amazing hoard and contaminated living space. I am glad the person living there is safe now. I do want to say thanks for the video it was great and I wish your wife all the best. May the surgeon be skilled and the recovery be smooth. Later! ❤❤❤

  • @tishbowman2990
    @tishbowman2990 3 месяца назад +7

    My mother in law was a hoarder. I lived next door to her. I would periodically go to her house and declutter and clean. Only 4 rooms though.
    She wouldn't let me touch her basement or three bedrooms.
    You couldnt get the doors open to get in there anyway.
    I was amazed how quickly she would clutter her one bathroom, livingroom, dining room and kitchen. I'm talking pathways in a few months time.
    To meet her you would never know she had issues.
    She kept herself immaculate.

  • @cathyprosser1050
    @cathyprosser1050 4 месяца назад +31

    Also, sending best wishes for Emily's surgery that all goes really well and that her recovery goes as smoothly as possible. Love to her, and to Mack and Jason and any others who will be picking up extra duties as Emily recovers ❤ 🙏

  • @nhnnj
    @nhnnj 4 месяца назад +75

    i saw an episode of hoarders where sisters were left with their late parents' home. on one level, there were thousands and thousands of books stacked on each other. there were so many that the house was no longer safe to be in because of how weak it left the floors. they spent so much of the episode trying to make sure that no one would fall through the floors. they were even having structural issues with the beams in the basement! idk much about the structural integrity of homes, so hopefully i worded it right 😅

    • @andrewbrendan1579
      @andrewbrendan1579 4 месяца назад +22

      I have a book issue myself and have to monitor myself to avoid going from having a home library to having a hoard. I'd like to see the "Hoarders" episode you mentioned. Do you happen to recall what season or episode? I once read a collection of the letter of the author Virginia Woolf and she wrote to a friend about how she and her husband had so many books in their house that the landlord had to put in some kind of iron pillar in the basement to strengthen the floor because the weight of the books was putting a strain on the structure of the house. I've been haunted by that for years!

    • @justbecause9049
      @justbecause9049 4 месяца назад +11

      @@andrewbrendan1579 I love books, and love to read, but lately I have been giving books away. It makes me feel better to have space to grow. You can keep a list of books you’ve read and keep the ones you need for reference, or vintage first editions. Otherwise, they are taking up space you can be using for other things, like letting your soul spread out and relax in a space.

    • @Brandi62
      @Brandi62 4 месяца назад +1

      This is one house that may have looked better before the clean up. At least the stuff on top hid the nastiness underneath.

    • @sheelfjohnson
      @sheelfjohnson 4 месяца назад

      ​@@justbecause9049I am loving ebooks on our library app now. I already have too many physical books from my years working at a used bookstore!

    • @zoraidita2022
      @zoraidita2022 3 месяца назад

      I remember her she was a little person. She was a bookworm and I loved her personality.

  • @jenniegoodnature6036
    @jenniegoodnature6036 4 месяца назад +93

    I'm going to need a Devil Worshipping-Disco Dancing t-shirt. Please and Thank you!

    • @YunuPolsen
      @YunuPolsen 4 месяца назад +2

      YES, please & thank you!!

    • @smontone
      @smontone 4 месяца назад +11

      I second this if it has an image of a moose doing the disco dancing

    • @kareninker4474
      @kareninker4474 3 месяца назад

      Oh yeah !! Named Jebediah Devilworshipper ! ❤😂

  • @cinnamonsparrowdesigns
    @cinnamonsparrowdesigns 3 месяца назад +5

    Y'all are brave for doing this. This is beyond my abilities. I actually had to make this screen smaller and kinda look off to the side b/c I can't handle this. Bless you all for being able to tackle something like this with kindness. My Uncle is bipolar and his last home (a small trailer) had to be removed b/c there was a couple feet of trash throughout and rats. He struggles to stay clean. He's a good guy, just mentally unwell. Thanks for doing what you do :)

  • @yewdiva205
    @yewdiva205 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for always having so much compassion for the health issues that lead to homes being in this state, and for spreading awareness without judgement. My dad was a hoarder. We had a 1-ft wide path through our house, and in some places the junk was piled higher than my head. I never learned how to clean or to have a healthy relationship with my possessions--oscillating between hoarding and purging, both to an unhealthy degree. Combined with autism, adhd, and depression, keeping my own space from looking this way is a daily struggle for me. I taught myself to clean well, but decluttering and organizing are both very difficult.
    Today, I'm blessed with a husband who is a true partner in all parts of life. He has never tried to "fix" me. He has never shamed me for my chaos piles. Instead, he works alongside me so that I can learn and practice without feeling overwhelmed. This video hits extra hard for me today because we're having one of our periodic "cleaning dates" this afternoon where we put on irresponsibly loud music, divide up our house into sections, and go until we're both tired. He gets an extra pair of hands to move furniture and wash dishes, I get a trusted opinion to help me decide what I should (or shouldn't) let go of, and together we curate a space we're both proud to call home.
    To anyone who's read this far and needs to hear it: You are not alone in your struggle, and you are not lazy. Please ask for the help you need and keep fighting for your wellbeing, and don't panic about being "bad" or "getting it wrong." Cleaning is a skill that can be learned, habits can be broken and remade, and I promise it's worth fighting for your wellbeing.

  • @calumdennis9970
    @calumdennis9970 4 месяца назад +86

    im glad smell-o-vision doesnt exist.....

    • @cathyprosser1050
      @cathyprosser1050 4 месяца назад +1

      Me too!!

    • @TheCaptaininsaino
      @TheCaptaininsaino 4 месяца назад +10

      I was watching one of these videos when the camera panned down to a disgusting pile of adult diapers and I gagged as the smell hit me. I thought WTF? and then realized my old dog, who was sleeping by my feet, had just farted.

    • @junedunne
      @junedunne 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@TheCaptaininsaino😂😂😂

    • @angelabranson363
      @angelabranson363 3 месяца назад +1

      👏 amen

    • @angelabranson363
      @angelabranson363 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@TheCaptaininsaino😂😂😂

  • @rebeccaashton5390
    @rebeccaashton5390 4 месяца назад +22

    I adore you three. Only Barbie would drive that far to help clean that house. All of you deserve hugs, so I'm sending virtual hugs() to you. Hugs to Emily also, wish her a speedy recovery. No sweat on getting videos out, we want you both to be well. I'm not going anywhere, and will be eagerly awaiting my next therapy session with Mack. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Gigi_Ann
    @Gigi_Ann 4 месяца назад +28

    You all are super amazing for doing this! Barbie, Mack and Jason ❤❤❤

  • @danoyse8233
    @danoyse8233 Месяц назад +1

    This is incredible. As a community nurse, I have on occasion visited a patient and realized hoarding happening. Mentally ill patients to this extreme is a whole different level and seen less so. I hope anyone living like this gets the help they so badly need. Great that you guys are doing this work. Be safe.

  • @brendakelly6965
    @brendakelly6965 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you guys for all that you do, you are truly amazing people ❤

  • @cleopatracatra2097
    @cleopatracatra2097 4 месяца назад +30

    You three are a God send. What you did is nothing short of amazing and as always you never said one unkind word or made any judgement against the person who ended up in this tragic situation. We could all learn from you how to be compassionate toward others!

  • @maryhtrask4321
    @maryhtrask4321 4 месяца назад +218

    Mental illness is really a challenge

    • @JillyBean_1987
      @JillyBean_1987 3 месяца назад +10

      So true. I found out about a month ago that my Mom passed. Unfortunately, she wasn't found for two months. She was severely mentally ill and wouldn't get treated because she didn't think there was a problem, and she was almost impossible to get ahold of. She hadn't paid rent in four years, so that didn't trigger any suspicion to check on her. (Management wasn't doing their job - luckily for us because she didn't get kicked out)
      My sister and niece ended up going in after they cleaned up the death related biohazard. There was garbage everywhere, and used adult diapers in the bathtub and elsewhere. I'm heartbroken and feel like her chance to have a happy life was taken from her (she was able to work until I was in 6th grade, then her illness started and progressively got worse as the years went on. We fought to get her help, but the law allows people to make choices unless they're deemed a danger to self or others, which she wasn't. I hope she's resting in peace now.
      I'm sorry for this long, unasked for rant. I just felt compelled to comment.

    • @evahamrick4197
      @evahamrick4197 3 месяца назад +6

      ​@JillyBean_1987 I understand, and I'm so sorry for your loss and the situation. 😢
      I had a troubled friend in much the same state. Paid for home but not the mental health care she needed. We lived in different states, so I wasn't in touch a much a I should have been. I know she wasn't found for a few? days after she died and it hurts my soul. I love and miss her. May they both have peace and joy where they are now.

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird 3 месяца назад +1

      @@JillyBean_1987I don’t understand that last part of your comment. Clearly, she WAS a danger to herself at a certain point. Why could you not go to court then to get a conservatorship to prevent exactly what happened??
      I’m sorry for your loss.

    • @JillyBean_1987
      @JillyBean_1987 3 месяца назад

      @@calisongbird We tried to get a DCR referral at one point, but they didn't deem her a danger to herself or others at that point. It's a lot more difficult than you would think to prove it in court. She also went to jail for assaulting my Uncle, which we thought might be out in to get her the help she needed. Unfortunately, they did nothing but make her check in to court for a month or two. I called Adult Protective Services and asked if that would be something they could help with as well, and unfortunately they said there was really nothing. Thanks for your condolences.

    • @JillyBean_1987
      @JillyBean_1987 3 месяца назад +2

      @@evahamrick4197 Thank you so much for your condolences and I'm really sorry for your loss as well. It's tough, and sometimes people don't understand or think that it's easier than what it really is to get help. Even when it seems like something should work, it's not always the case.

  • @maryleeswope3353
    @maryleeswope3353 4 месяца назад +16

    Dear God. Humans were living in that garbage pit. I hope they are getting help, support and anything else they need. That place went to hell...literally. It is so hard to help people with hoarding disorder as many times they won't let you. Bless you guys for working on this situation...and clearly discussing the progression of deterioration in a home like this.🎉🎉🎉

  • @andip.9808
    @andip.9808 Месяц назад +1

    I am bedridden at the moment so I am binge watching your videos to support your work. 3:50 minutes into this and I was about ready to click to your next video (as this was a little hard to watch 😔) but then I saw this was your collab with Barbie!! 🤩 Now I have to stay! 💕

  • @dalemorris7014
    @dalemorris7014 4 месяца назад +2

    You're all amazing! Hi Mack, Jason, & Barbie! Thanks for all you do!

  • @paulablair395
    @paulablair395 4 месяца назад +13

    I have seen 2 houses on "Hoarders" that had to be demolished after they were cleaned out. City inspectors were on-scene and put the "condemned" notice on the door immediately. What a terrible loss for the owner.

  • @phyllistaylor5634
    @phyllistaylor5634 4 месяца назад +11

    Its just so incredibly sad to think someone was living like this. God bless you, Jason and Barbie. I pray this person is somewhere safe getting the care they need!

  • @RobynHawkins-l5j
    @RobynHawkins-l5j 4 месяца назад +7

    Mac, Jason and Barbie are true heroes! I can't express enough how much you have opened my eyes to mental disorders...Thank you for your service!🎉❤🎉❤

  • @shawnrobertson9618
    @shawnrobertson9618 3 месяца назад +1

    The work that you and Barbie and Bonnie do is above and beyond. My husband and I helped a community member this week who has been ill for a while and the house had completely gotten away from them. It makes your heart hurt and is physically and mentally taxing. I was thinking of the three of you. The work is taxing and deeply humbling in an existential sort of way. You realize that, without upkeep, the structures of our life break down and return to nature. Everything decomposes and the rats and bugs and mold and urine step in and do their part. It’s a lot. So glad to hear that you are taking care of yourself by setting your boundaries about the type of house you will clean. Also, please don’t worry about a video while your wife is in hospital. Loved ones first. The channel will be here.

  • @twizler2506
    @twizler2506 25 дней назад +1

    I have one room in my home that’s become absolutely hoarded with trash and other clothes, toys, everything me and my mother decided to “keep for next season”.. it was no one persons fault but I am the only one ready to clean it. Yesterday I found your channel, for 8 hours combined with little to no breaks, I’ve watched your videos and thrown EVERYTHING OUT. The mold in the room scares me but I grabbed a bunch of N95 masks, gloves and garbage bags. I plan on moving out soon and I refuse to leave my mom with the mess. Thank you for motivating me

  • @tessraburn5486
    @tessraburn5486 4 месяца назад +7

    So glad you got to collaborate with Barbie!! I hope you are doing well and recovering from burnout! Thank you for being a cool human and helping out the way you do! The world needs more of that!

  • @wildwolfgifts
    @wildwolfgifts 4 месяца назад +9

    I'm a big fan of the videos. I mainly listen to them while I work and they keep me from stressing out. My husband thinks this is nuts - but it's somehow very calming. Keep up the great work and thank you for being so kind to the hoarders out there. I understand how destructive depression is.

  • @claudiaduke6189
    @claudiaduke6189 4 месяца назад +13

    This was an incredible endeavor. I applaud you for helping these people. I live in a 240 sq ft camper and even if one thing is out of place it looks cluttered. You have inspired me to get up and wash my dishes. I know I should do them more often but it's just me living here so I tend to wash as the dishpan fills up. Thanks for all you Jason and Barbie have done.

    • @buckeyedav1
      @buckeyedav1 4 месяца назад

      If you are able you might consider buying paper plates and bowls I know while I like doing dishes, I hate putting them away and have given myself permission to just go with what works for me. Some of my older neighbors like myself are also giving ourselves that permission. Of course I still have pots and pans to clean but I try to bulk cook like cooking 4 hamburgers at one time and freezing what I don't use so all I have to do is reheat later, same with soups etc but I don't live in quite a small home, mine is 672 square feet but yes as I get older paper houseware does have some appeal.. I live alone. Anna In Ohio

    • @claudiaduke6189
      @claudiaduke6189 4 месяца назад

      Most of my dishes are from cooking large meals and freezing. I reheat and eat out of the containers. Although the containers are labeled disposable I don't like throwing them away because they are reusable. It's less that I have to take to the dumpsters. I do throw them away as needed.

  • @MissingRaptor
    @MissingRaptor 3 месяца назад +2

    With the way you aid people, you're already a hero. Especially to the people you're helping

  • @RoryRichardBrown
    @RoryRichardBrown 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for being so sympathetic. Too many people judge situations like this. I recently posted a video documentary about my struggles with Chronic fatigue syndrome and there were inevitable "you're just lazy". It's real easy to make fun of people like this because people don't understand how complex mental illness is. Also, I'm in Indiana (hi neighbor), and yes, the heat is HORRID

  • @dovie2blue
    @dovie2blue 4 месяца назад +26

    I know someone who recently had to leave her home because of this level of disorder. She's not capable of caring for herself. 😢 I suspected hoarding disorder but I'm not sure anyone else did.

    • @MikeStrau
      @MikeStrau 4 месяца назад +7

      I knew a person like that too. She was temporarily moved to a nursing home, but insisted on returning into her own house saying that she'd rather live there and do what she wanted than being bossed around in an institution. A few months after that she passed away. (Fun fact: my significant other inherited that house, it's still in that condition. We went there once or twice to get the important paperwork, that was 2 years ago.)

  • @hollypierce3076
    @hollypierce3076 4 месяца назад +16

    Disco devil here, I've been subbed to your channel for a few years now, and I gotta say the bantering is on point today!😶‍🌫️

  • @Lombax65
    @Lombax65 4 месяца назад +8

    Thank you for being a positive influence in the world.

  • @amyhughes4214
    @amyhughes4214 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for educating your viewers on hoarding. Thank you for the work you do. Stay safe!!

  • @moonruled
    @moonruled 3 месяца назад

    i started watching your channel because i enjoy organization, but i realized today that my grandma is a hoarder herself. thank you for your insights and advice for cleaning up after someone with this disorder, im doing my best!

  • @randihardy6642
    @randihardy6642 4 месяца назад +7

    Ya’all are amazing! I’m sure the peeps dealing with this house from here are beyond grateful for the assist. And I’m glad for the person to be getting help.

  • @galerae947
    @galerae947 4 месяца назад +17

    We were sub contractors and called out on a job were the huge, once beautiful, house was destroyed by cat urine. The fumes from the urine had corroded the brass door knobs, faucets, hinges, etc. Even though the house had been stripped of floor coverings by the time we were called in, you could still smell the house from outside and down the block. We had to completely replace all cabinets, hardware, disassemble the stair handrails, posts, and banisters to be stripped and restained/sealed, and all baseboards, door jambs, etc. Even a drywall contractor had to replace the bottom half of all the walls. Not a job I ever wanted to repeat.

    • @Sashazur
      @Sashazur 3 месяца назад

      I’ll bet the place still smelled a little even after everything was redone.

  • @pandaz4033
    @pandaz4033 4 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for explaining the gradual process that the house went through. Even though it might seem obvious, I really appreciate the clarification for all the house occupants and the house's stability.
    Also, side note, I love that the fast forwarded voices sound like mice chattering AND we got to see a mouse run across the room! I also really like that you mention moose at any random commentary moment. Your humor and the satisfying process of exterminating messes and beating the crap out of dirt - keeps me coming back for every video and watch the older ones too.

  • @ElmerBaez-f5m
    @ElmerBaez-f5m 3 месяца назад +5

    I subscribed because I am a Houseman. I've been cleaning home, hotels, airbibs, and commercial properties for 40 years. We are all mental health, conscious people.I have a neighbor that is a hoarder. It breaks my heart!!!

  • @jessicaclements5151
    @jessicaclements5151 4 месяца назад +6

    I could feel the exhaustion through the screen. Here in Queensland Australia the heat is a lot however the heat and 100% humidity is what kills you. It’s a lot. Well done ❤

  • @SamJean
    @SamJean 4 месяца назад +9

    I'm glad that you prioritized your health and left when you found those mosquitos. Love your videos, and thanks for the recommendation of Barbie's channel! Checking that out next. :) Take your time to recover from the burnout, and best of luck on your wife's surgery!

  • @leeslabach7427
    @leeslabach7427 4 месяца назад +7

    The 3 of you are a force to be reckoned with! Amazing challenge! I'm sorry you're struggling, and I will continue to think and pray for you..and for your wife as she undergoes and recovers from surgery. I appreciate you! I started watching Barbie on your recommendation
    several weeks ago.

  • @lgibson0515
    @lgibson0515 4 месяца назад +8

    Awesome job!! Yeay ! Great to see 3 super humans doing their thing!! Safe travels back home barbie!! Tysm for helping mack & son get it done!! Continued prayers up for you and the mrs!! Take care...❤😊🙏

  • @deborahherring6077
    @deborahherring6077 4 месяца назад +13

    DANG!!!! how does someone not get deathly ill in this type of situation, I mean really, HOW??? This is really disgusting!! I understand the person is sick, and I wonder was there a family anywhere to watch over the person(s) living in this home? How very sad for all invoved. My sister was schizophrenic and I lived out of state. After she died I was told that my parents had to clean her apartment at least 2 times to keep her from getting evicted. It broke my heart. Part of the problem was my family keeping secrets. Lort, I would have hopped on a plane to help with the cleaning. My parents were in their 70's at that time. Gawd, it still saddens me. You all are a blessing for certain!!

  • @melissagutierrez8137
    @melissagutierrez8137 4 месяца назад +2

    Your move out-move in method is game changing! Thank you!
    Something thats worked for me with projects I've strewn about, is having boxes and containers labeled as "Parts of...."
    those items that belong to something. You're the best! Thank you so much for pulling me through!