She Inherited a Hoard That Gave Her Panic Attacks

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @DRTYLKZ1230
    @DRTYLKZ1230 12 дней назад +2339

    ❤ Mack is truly heaven sent and blessed me with his gift of kindness, generosity and compassion, with course cleanliness, peace and serenity... something I haven't felt or seen in quite a while. I feel so lucky and I am SO grateful for his precious time and extremely hard work. My dog truly adored him (pretty sure she was in love) 😂. I had reached out to companies in the past about helping me only to have them tell me that they were just going to trash everything in my home and it immediately triggered panic, anger, and anxiety within me. Then somehow I was blessed with the gift of Mack and all of my prayers were truly answered. He is everything he appears to be in his videos and more. There aren't enough kind words in the human language to describe him and what he does, not just for the home, but for the mind and spirit.
    Thank you to all of the amazingly kind and caring comments, blessings and prayers.
    Now, I just don't know what to do with this dang Moose in my backyard. ❤
    (I hope you will stay tuned to see the exciting full transformation when Mack returns with Jason to help with the biggest part of the inherited hoard.) 😊
    ❤ Ginger says "Thank You" too (3 year old deaf Great Pyranese) ❤🐶

    • @katiekofemug
      @katiekofemug 12 дней назад +147

      maybe ask the Moose to do the weeding and watering as he has time? >g< Healing vibes and prayers racing your way. Your bravery is inspiring and I am So Glad you are feeling some peace and serenity!

    • @DRTYLKZ1230
      @DRTYLKZ1230 12 дней назад

      ​🙏🥰@@katiekofemug

    • @rachelgetz7311
      @rachelgetz7311 12 дней назад +94

      I could tell how much love there was between you dog and Mack! ❤

    • @smb7984
      @smb7984 12 дней назад +63

      Hi! I’m very sorry for what you have and continue to go through. I know you’re very thankful for Mack. You are blessed! Mack was a God send. Mack you are a beautiful soul my friend! God Bless you and keep yourself healthy and safe! Take care! ❤️🙏😎

    • @DonnaGB333
      @DonnaGB333 12 дней назад +77

      Oh that's you is it? How is your leg now? Healing nicely I hope! It's nice to see people he helps in any way actually acknowledge the effort and time he puts in to their situations so thank you.

  • @Zara_Brown
    @Zara_Brown 11 дней назад +294

    Thank you so much for helping this woman. She's JUST like me. I have all those same disorders, except I also have m.s.
    I, too, inherited my mothers house exactly the same way. I lived with it for 2 years until my sister in laws saw me personally decline in health and begged me to tell them what was going on. I finally told them, and they all 3 took off work for 4 days to make the place immaculate. It was life changing and life-saving.
    You're a true hero.

    • @jtidema
      @jtidema 10 дней назад +20

      How good of them to jump in. Sometimes you do have a support system you didn't even know you had! That's a great story.

    • @juliebrooke6099
      @juliebrooke6099 9 дней назад +11

      There are often people around who are happy to help if they know you need it. What I want to know though is how come it was your sister in laws and not your brothers?

    • @fieryvale
      @fieryvale 3 дня назад +1

      @@juliebrooke6099 In many cases, women stay at home while men go to work, or work part-time jobs while their husbands work full-time. Thus, they have more time to help ❤

  • @allisonbowman4004
    @allisonbowman4004 12 дней назад +1405

    Subjecting yourself to anxiety/panic triggers to alleviate someone else’s anxiety/panic is moose-sized heroism.

    • @dolphingirl551
      @dolphingirl551 12 дней назад +38

      So glad you helped her. Hard when you don't have any help. Thanks for being there for her.😊❤

    • @lhm178
      @lhm178 12 дней назад +20

      Fully agree! I kept thinking to myself while watching this "what a legend!"

    • @SandraNelson063
      @SandraNelson063 12 дней назад +26

      We shall call him ----- MOOSE MAN!!!!!!!😂 🫎⚡️

    • @MoonbeamAcres
      @MoonbeamAcres 12 дней назад +10

      I agree. I've thought about that several times.

    • @Dina-lc4bt
      @Dina-lc4bt 12 дней назад +6

      Absolutely. 💯

  • @nancymoore8250
    @nancymoore8250 11 дней назад +230

    Not too many people understand how exhausting “masking” can be. Sometimes it takes me days to recover. How sweet of you to push your limits to help her. Well done.

    • @StormSpottersTN
      @StormSpottersTN 9 дней назад +6

      For real! Masking is hard.

    • @DebsGoldsworthy
      @DebsGoldsworthy 9 дней назад +5

      I definally agree😊❤

    • @shawnalLovesJesus
      @shawnalLovesJesus 6 дней назад

      Jesus is coming. On April 9, 2021, my vision went black for a quick moment, I saw in gold letters - Thus saith the Lord. Four hours later? On April 10, in my sleep I heard - Prophet. Tell them I am coming soon. Maybe 3-5 min after that, at 1235 AM, our area had a 3.1 eq.

    • @NatalieJ22
      @NatalieJ22 3 дня назад +3

      For real. I have ADHD and sometimes it’s so draining that I have nothing left to do things I actually want to do or have actual conversations with my family

  • @amyserra440
    @amyserra440 12 дней назад +424

    On Thursday morning I put out 11 bags of garbage mostly from my kitchen

    • @Replicanna-rl6zg
      @Replicanna-rl6zg 12 дней назад +38

      Way to go! Congratulations! You are doing great ❣

    • @user-ov5lb2nl7s
      @user-ov5lb2nl7s 12 дней назад +14

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @wangyun6087
      @wangyun6087 12 дней назад +17

      Congratulations ❤

    • @Hawaiiansky11
      @Hawaiiansky11 11 дней назад +45

      I cleaned my basement this summer after neglecting it for years. I threw out 61 boxes, and emptied 5 plastic tubs, not to mention massive amounts of garbage bags. It's actually halfway livable in there now.

    • @mightymommom5888
      @mightymommom5888 11 дней назад +12

      God bless you! ❤

  • @AthenaBethBlack
    @AthenaBethBlack 11 дней назад +45

    On a completely different note- hearing you speak about your autism is REALLY causing some puzzle pieces to fall into place with my own experiences. Thank you for being so open! 💙

  • @madsquishy3410
    @madsquishy3410 12 дней назад +575

    "Please don't set me free in Kentucky, I'm an Illinois moose" Lol why is that so damn funny??? Hahahaha

    • @CandyFraley-q8k
      @CandyFraley-q8k 12 дней назад +8

      😂 please tell me why. If you find out 😂😂😂😂

    • @tysmith4339
      @tysmith4339 12 дней назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @judycater2832
      @judycater2832 12 дней назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @mandala314
      @mandala314 11 дней назад +6

      Depends on where in Illinois ... is Moose rural or a big city moose? 😂
      ps I moved to New England 19 years ago and still haven't seen a moose 😭😭😭

    • @nancyvega1247
      @nancyvega1247 11 дней назад +9

      His little voice saying "shut up moose." He cracks me up. Sooo funny!

  • @brittvaughn9447
    @brittvaughn9447 11 дней назад +21

    If there's anyone out there wanting to start helping folk like this, I'm a Doctor of Physical Therapy in Southeast Minnesota and I have someone in desperate need of organization help who is wheelchair bound and blind and gave me permission to reach out. I've been a member here for several months and love this community, and it breaks my heart to see how desperate the circumstances are for my patient who cannot find her belongings. The place isn't even that bad, it's more that there's no designated place for each item and it leads to her being unable to find things because she's blind. I'm hoping that if anyone can help her with the initial clean and organization, I can follow up with my coworkers to make sure things stay that way.

    • @shawnalLovesJesus
      @shawnalLovesJesus 6 дней назад

      Jesus is coming. On April 9, 2021, my vision went black for a quick moment, I saw in gold letters - Thus saith the Lord. Four hours later? On April 10, in my sleep I heard - Prophet. Tell them I am coming soon. Maybe 3-5 min after that, at 1235 AM, our area had a 3.1 eq.

  • @icare_cher
    @icare_cher 12 дней назад +506

    I think the doggo was grateful you were there. ☺️

    • @DRTYLKZ1230
      @DRTYLKZ1230 12 дней назад +16

      She was happy someone wanted to finally help her mommy ❤

    • @johnhpalmer6098
      @johnhpalmer6098 12 дней назад +12

      That and for some autistic folks, the dog senses this and treats us accordingly. I take care of two myself, when it's time, they come my way to visit. I do best in my own home with my stuff. It's not so bad now that I have a modernish laptop with WiFi, but still, better here at home where the dog can relax around me.
      One is a little miniature Australian Shepard that I've known since he was a pup and we just glommed onto each other early on, so whenever I'm at their house, he seeks me out, always. The other is a black Lab and she adores me and checks in on me periodically (both do) and I love it.

    • @DebsGoldsworthy
      @DebsGoldsworthy 9 дней назад +2

      ​@@johnhpalmer6098 That's lovely, what would we be without our animals.😊❤

  • @shannonrogerssimpson5383
    @shannonrogerssimpson5383 11 дней назад +20

    You know, it's absolutely FINE for you to be who you really are. It helps to explain to people ahead of time so you can manage their expectations, but I'm so glad you've taken the time to learn who you are and how to cope so that you can function at your best. And to be able to bless others even in your own storm is an incredible gift. Don't ever try to minimize that!!!

    • @shawnalLovesJesus
      @shawnalLovesJesus 6 дней назад

      Jesus is coming. On April 9, 2021, my vision went black for a quick moment, I saw in gold letters - Thus saith the Lord. Four hours later? On April 10, in my sleep I heard - Prophet. Tell them I am coming soon. Maybe 3-5 min after that, at 1235 AM, our area had a 3.1 eq.

  • @rynnlemieux5339
    @rynnlemieux5339 12 дней назад +795

    I love how the dog comes to check on you like (s)he was letting you know it was ok. Dog kisses heal so much.

    • @queenmarynovelwriter5397
      @queenmarynovelwriter5397 12 дней назад +36

      The dog looks healthy and well cared for, sometimes in those hoarding situations pets really suffer.

    • @LauraMacMillan-el2kc
      @LauraMacMillan-el2kc 12 дней назад +61

      This lady is not the hoarder. She inherited the hoarded house; and then got hurt to the point of immobility so then fell even further behind.

    • @joandrummond524
      @joandrummond524 12 дней назад +4

      He is truly one of God earth angels and is so understanding, I'm glad you got the help you needed enjoy

    • @lynneharrill9570
      @lynneharrill9570 11 дней назад +14

      Thank you Mack for helping this lady with her house. You did a tremendous job and she did too. I hope that she will heal completely and quickly from her injuries. Also, her dog is beyond adorable!

    • @katrichards3890
      @katrichards3890 11 дней назад +3

      Unless you have anxiety about being mauled by dogs. I don't get it. I hope she heals fully from it, though

  • @JudyReilly-n3e
    @JudyReilly-n3e 11 дней назад +20

    I have learned more about compassion from you than just about anywhere else.

  • @tehandroidmaster
    @tehandroidmaster 12 дней назад +404

    Midwest Magic Man, two things:
    - Your videos on stuff like this strike a personal chord with me since I once helped a dear friend clean up the hoard from the house he inherited from his mother.
    - As bleak as the subject matter is, the gag of your name changing with every video along with the various bits you throw in add MUCH needed levity to an otherwise bleak and morose topic.
    Keep on the good fight, brother!

    • @kathyvettraino2267
      @kathyvettraino2267 12 дней назад +20

      @@tehandroidmaster he always makes me laugh!

    • @redwitch12
      @redwitch12 12 дней назад +14

      I am here for (1) name change (2) "Something Johnny" as he is called in Random City (3) spin kicks (4) moose (5) flexing, and that's just the start :D

  • @wendyhoag9637
    @wendyhoag9637 10 дней назад +10

    Mack, in addition to all of your other talents, you are an incredibly gifted communicator. My 3 children have ADHD and panic attacks. One daughter was recently diagnosed (at 31) with autism. Your thoughtful explanations have helped me understand why they had such a hard time organizing or cleaning - and your description of your feelings and actions at the end of the video are EXACTLY how my daughter acts when experiencing overwhelm and panic. I regret not knowing the signs when they were younger, but I am grateful that awareness is being raised on these disorders. This knowledge explains why my ex-husband had such a difficult time coping with life no matter what therapies were used. Not once did anyone suspect that he was autistic, had PTSD or ADHD because he had a genius IQ. It breaks my heart that he has suffered for 76 years. Thank you so much and God bless you!

  • @jc2711
    @jc2711 12 дней назад +359

    I have ADHD. I never heard the micro/macro description until this video. You put into words something I’ve experienced my whole life but didn’t know how to explain. I’m not sure if I want to rejoice or cry, but thank you!

    • @johanitalouw9315
      @johanitalouw9315 12 дней назад +24

      ME TOO!!!!
      Makes TOTAL sense!!!
      Thank you so much❤❤❤❤❤

    • @joleensloniker3749
      @joleensloniker3749 12 дней назад +12

      You said it for me. I was trying to think of how to say it.

    • @eileenschroeder5352
      @eileenschroeder5352 12 дней назад +9

      Me too! Thanks so much for that knowledge. ❤️

    • @Desert-Dweller
      @Desert-Dweller 11 дней назад +7

      Yes! I'm not officially diagnosed but I believe I have autism and ADHD, both mild. This micro thing is me. I'm not saying I stress about it exactly but that's definitely how I work. 😊

    • @DVD927
      @DVD927 11 дней назад +19

      I’m an ADHD-C momma. I noticed this in my daughter. I’d say clean your room & she’d hyperfocus on one tiny thing instead of working on the obvious big stuff! Nothing is more annoying than someone you love who is Just.Like.Yourself lol

  • @alwaysthesleepless1
    @alwaysthesleepless1 12 дней назад +35

    ¨Nice to see you working on houses again. "What do you want more, the nice box or the space it's filling up?" I think that says it all. Fantastic job on making it all tidy and clean. You help so many people move on with their lives. Well done and keep up the good work. (loved the cute dog)

    • @ZarpeParadise
      @ZarpeParadise 11 дней назад +1

      Profound question and definite AH-ha moment

    • @maureenoneill4067
      @maureenoneill4067 2 дня назад

      I admit to being in recovery from having NBS or the nice box syndrome. They can be so well made, or clever in design. Some have drawers or are a unique shape. I used to think maybe I can make some out this or use it. Now I just admire it, take a moment to appreciate the enhineering that went into it, then i toss it. I do wish packaging wasn’t so wasteful. I was thinking about how i unbox a delivery to wrap it as a present. We do try reuse the same gift bags every year but maybe there is a better way.

  • @starringshannon8163
    @starringshannon8163 12 дней назад +376

    I love how that sweet dog loves you! I relate more to animals and the fact that you are loved by that sweet dog speaks volumes 😊

    • @MinnieEvans-m6r
      @MinnieEvans-m6r 12 дней назад +12

      I have a plaque that says Dogs Welcome Humans Tolerated. People think it's funny, but for me, it's true!
      I'm so happy you were able to help her, Mack😊😊

    • @starringshannon8163
      @starringshannon8163 12 дней назад +12

      @MinnieEvans-m6r I love this! The fact that he is loved by a sweet dog makes me smile 😃

    • @lillypatience
      @lillypatience 12 дней назад +6

      @@MinnieEvans-m6r😂 I have that on a couch pillow!

    • @sheelfjohnson
      @sheelfjohnson 12 дней назад +12

      Same here. I make friends with the dog whenever I visit somebody.

    • @darr2970
      @darr2970 11 дней назад +8

      I can relate. I have always heard that dogs are a good judge of character, so I have always trusted my doggos. 😊

  • @madiArabella
    @madiArabella 3 дня назад +4

    Hi Mack! My name is madi, I have autism and adhd, I really struggle with cleaning but oddly enough I have a hyper interest in cleaning I go through phases of cleaning heavily to struggling to clean. Your videos help me and teach me so much and also teach me how to be compassionate with myself. Keep up the great work ❤

    • @_BO.
      @_BO. День назад

      Hi fellow neurodivergent! Here another woman with Autism and ADD. I just wanted to say hi ☺And by the way I love the headscarf on your profile pic. Have a nice day 🙂

  • @christinaclements4476
    @christinaclements4476 12 дней назад +153

    The security wolves took the moose to a Kentucky karaoke bar. They won a prize for singing George Michael’s Freedom.

    • @JariDawnchild
      @JariDawnchild 12 дней назад +13

      This is the most adorable comment ever, it brought me so much bubbly joy and I don't even know why. 😊

    • @Desert-Dweller
      @Desert-Dweller 11 дней назад +8

      Thanks so much for this update, I was worried about him. I'm so glad things turned out well for him. 😊

    • @tammystrube8908
      @tammystrube8908 11 дней назад +4

      😂

    • @wolfe6220
      @wolfe6220 11 дней назад +5

      My house wolves LOVE karaoke! (Huskies)

    • @alonelypenguin5229
      @alonelypenguin5229 7 дней назад +1

      It's the season for them to start belting out Last Christmas (or the Spanish version with acoustic guitar accompaniment).

  • @DMinSFBay
    @DMinSFBay 10 дней назад +6

    Your compassion for people with mental health struggles is why I subscribed to you. And the moose.

  • @fionaelia1818
    @fionaelia1818 12 дней назад +97

    The dog was like here lemme help u by standing directly on top of that pile of dirt ur sweeping 😅

    • @DRTYLKZ1230
      @DRTYLKZ1230 8 дней назад +7

      She's very good at that ❤

    • @MidnightCoffee12
      @MidnightCoffee12 7 дней назад +2

      I think she was trying to eat it. XD There was probably some pet food bits in there.

    • @ohmightywez
      @ohmightywez 2 дня назад

      That’s usually our corgi too. She’s shedding her undercoat, so even though I brush her every other day, she’s still floofing everywhere, so I have to keep sweeping up, and she keeps walking through the piles. I can’t vacuum or confine her to a room or put her out and close the dog door because she’s a rescue and was abandoned and starved in a cave and raised without human contact. The vacuum terrifies her, being closed in a room stresses her out so she begins her crazy crate spin, even though she’s not in a crate. And being outside makes her feel cut off and also scares her. So she just floofs her way through her pile of floof, and I just keep sweeping up after her.

  • @Denise-z2u
    @Denise-z2u 9 дней назад +6

    God bless you for this unselfish act of kindness. Watching this video warmed my heart. Hopefully we’re all encouraged to go do something nice for someone.

  • @MarciaMason2146
    @MarciaMason2146 12 дней назад +232

    Congratulations on pushing yourself to help this lady in your condition. We'll understand if you disappear for a week after this clean. Can't wait for part two. Take care.

  • @dharmaphile
    @dharmaphile 11 дней назад +12

    This was so heartwarming. It was so great to see you able to help this woman after all she's been through. And I hope you recover too Mack as I know this took a lot out of you.

  • @4estdweller4ever
    @4estdweller4ever 12 дней назад +196

    You created a whole new mindset in me. I no longer think of cleaning as cleaning. I think of it as making things “pretty”. I love getting up to a clean kitchen to start my day. I tackle small jobs at a time. Eventually it’s just maintenance. I love it. THANK YOU ❤❤❤

  • @gertyglockenschpitle7711
    @gertyglockenschpitle7711 5 дней назад +6

    Your understanding of your own mental health and your client's mental health is impressive! Thank you for sharing what you do.

  • @shellm8303
    @shellm8303 12 дней назад +189

    I'm not sure who I'm happier for, you for pushing thru, the homeowner for participating or the dog who can't get enough of you! Those spin kicks must have melted the puppy heart. 😂 Awesome job on this one!

  • @lisabisco3583
    @lisabisco3583 11 дней назад +20

    That dog was so beautiful and sweet and such a good helper❤

  • @chrissiewb721
    @chrissiewb721 12 дней назад +151

    The dog seems really happy to be able to walk under the table again. Amazing before & after.

  • @dromero9651
    @dromero9651 День назад +1

    You're so compassionate and helpful. God bless you. Not only are you helping others with their living spaces, but you're helping us understand others instead of judging them. You're so amazing! 🌹

  • @lorettajohnson6590
    @lorettajohnson6590 12 дней назад +144

    I see the dog was very good and helpful ❤

    • @DRTYLKZ1230
      @DRTYLKZ1230 12 дней назад +4

      She's a good helper ❤

  • @maike__-
    @maike__- 12 дней назад +14

    You and your work make such a great difference for so many people, both the people whose houses you physically clean, and people who hear about it or watch the videos, seeing that things Can get better or like me, calming their anxiety just by watching. Thank you for all you’re doing.
    Also, I’ve seen you in t-shirts and hazmat suits but I don’t think I’ve seen you in a button up shirt and may I say in the words of Taylor Swift, you "polish up real nice!"

  • @LilChuunosuke
    @LilChuunosuke 12 дней назад +119

    This type of cleaning is life altering. Part of the reason I could never hire a cleaner is because I know that they would throw things away I wanted kept and put things in the wrong spot. Many cleaners would not put in the additional hours of time and effort that you did to make sure a dysregulated mind felt comfortable and secure in their new home. This type of cleaning is life altering. You really did something amazing for her.

  • @deannadickerson9505
    @deannadickerson9505 5 дней назад +3

    Mack you are a true blessing. To go help someone knowing you are going to put yourself through your own struggles with discomfort, panic, anxiety, and etc, shows how you’re serving God.

  • @SturtsDesertPea
    @SturtsDesertPea 12 дней назад +80

    I’ve been watching your videos for a few months now but I just wanted to extend my thanks to you and Jason for wearing belts to prevent your butt crack from showing. If only more men were this considerate

    • @cadyetx
      @cadyetx 11 дней назад +6

      Word!

    • @wolfe6220
      @wolfe6220 11 дней назад +9

      😂 My ex husband was the butt crack king. Hence one of just many reasons he's an ex.

    • @StormSpottersTN
      @StormSpottersTN 9 дней назад +1

      Say no to crack! LOL!

  • @jennyjones2729
    @jennyjones2729 11 дней назад +8

    the dog, coming over to cuddle you on the last day, was endearing af. Its thankful and grateful for all the space you created

  • @celineviixi
    @celineviixi 12 дней назад +95

    I inherited my mom’s hoard in 2020. I went through everything myself….Organized into junk, donate, then sell categories. Kept a few special things. Took a couple weeks working 16 hour days getting through it all. Very tough situation to be in, especially alone. I always promise my daughter I won’t leave her in that situation. You do amazing work!

    • @virginialangford6257
      @virginialangford6257 9 дней назад +6

      I am going through my mothers 4500 sq ft house now. Having to lay your hand to every item and making a decision about the the item is tiring mentally and physically. I am some what resentful about the situation I am in. When my grandmother died 50 years ago my mother complained about the amount of “ stuff” that was in her very large house. My mother had 3 brothers, their wives and me to help clear out the house which did not have close to the amount of stuff this house does. It is the height of unkindness to do this to your children.

    • @celineviixi
      @celineviixi 8 дней назад +5

      @@virginialangford6257 I’m sorry you’re going through that. I couldn’t imagine such a huge house and knowing every part of that home is packed. It certainly makes the grieving process hard. I understand feeling the resentment. I was only 25 at the time, but the chest pains I had were terrible from the stress. Try to be easy on yourself, but I know that’s so hard especially when it has to get done. Hoping for the best for you and peace when all this is over.

    • @DRTYLKZ1230
      @DRTYLKZ1230 8 дней назад

      ❤🙏💖

    • @shawnalLovesJesus
      @shawnalLovesJesus 6 дней назад

      Jesus is coming. On April 9, 2021, my vision went black for a quick moment, I saw in gold letters - Thus saith the Lord. Four hours later? On April 10, in my sleep I heard - Prophet. Tell them I am coming soon. Maybe 3-5 min after that, at 1235 AM, our area had a 3.1 eq.

  • @elaine8417
    @elaine8417 12 дней назад +10

    You have a heart of gold 😊
    Best wishes to that lady.❤

  • @janicestubblefield-tave229
    @janicestubblefield-tave229 12 дней назад +92

    Wow, it's extraordinary how much you got done, revealing a pretty home and creating order and hopefully comfort. I hope the driving and being away from home for so many days hasn't kicked up longlasting burnout or back pain. Hats off to both of you! And best wishes to the homeowner for her recovery.

  • @FatRainbowCat
    @FatRainbowCat 7 дней назад +4

    Ok, long comment but I wanna share it:
    My mum and I currently live together because I'm severely disabled and she's just left her partner of 12 years. She's been cackling about me watching cleaning videos because I have such poor executive function that I don't eat if no one tells me to, much less do the dishes. (She on the other hand has ADHD and does everything, so much, all the time. It's great.)
    We went up to her ex's house yesterday to start packing up her stuff so a moving company can come get it. Once there, we found that he (the partner) had taken ALL OF HER THINGS and put them in the garage. In no particular order. In a jumble that pretty much resembled a hoarder pile. She looked at it and said "I can't do this," and I said, "YES WE CAN. I have watched enough MMC to tell you, we absolutely can. We have lots of time. We're going to the shops, we're getting snacks and bags and boxes, and we'll do one thing at a time."
    And then I applied every single piece of advice I've picked up from this channel, and we fucking did it. It took us a solid 5 hours, but her things are organised and packed. I can't move a muscle today, but it was so worth it. And we couldn't have done it without you putting this content out on the internet. So, thank you. You make a difference, all over the world.
    (And when I started this video just now she shouted, "Is that The Cleaning Man?". I've pavloved her to your voice.)

  • @jolist3722
    @jolist3722 12 дней назад +91

    The hardest thing is knowing where to start. It's great to see someone that really understands the situation

    • @SevenEllen
      @SevenEllen 10 дней назад

      With a situation like this, absolutely anywhere. The worst thing you can do is not start at all.

  • @corndogbark5915
    @corndogbark5915 11 дней назад +8

    Honest to god, watching you clean houses is like watching a superhero at work :) I’ve struggled with clutter all my life as an neurodivergent person, and there are just so many ways cleaning can be taxing. Like, dishes being a struggle I can completely relate to - I’m grateful to say I don’t have that fear of dishwashers, but if I touch a slightly greasy part of a dish (or worst of all, a soggy clump of food), it’s all over. You truly amaze and inspire me, and your kindness and generosity are just incredible

  • @CoupleOWeirdos
    @CoupleOWeirdos 12 дней назад +157

    Why do I always feel bad for the Moose tho 😂 😂

    • @AmandaBabyyyyy
      @AmandaBabyyyyy 11 дней назад +4

      It’s the voice 😩 I always feel bad for the moose too lol

    • @KinderKim-b3x
      @KinderKim-b3x 11 дней назад +8

      He’s outside in an unfamiliar state. 😩🫎

    • @helenmorgan1023
      @helenmorgan1023 11 дней назад +1

      I love that flower rug, it’s gorgeous

    • @AWanderingEye
      @AWanderingEye 10 дней назад +3

      MOOSE APPRECIATION SOCIETY MEMBERS UNITE!

  • @MsMadmax1
    @MsMadmax1 12 дней назад +7

    Mack, I'm so grateful to you for helping this lady. I know what it's like to have a series of unfortunate events happen very close together. It feels oppressive, overwhelming, and creates such anxiety. You're doing a wonderful thing here and I know it will ease a lot of the stress in this lovely woman's life.

    • @bjumorrisdatter904
      @bjumorrisdatter904 12 дней назад +2

      Companion is a very strong tool in the fight against stupidity. I went through hell in 1985, I was in college taking Abnormal Psych (😅). The prof gave us a stress test the first day. When he interviewed me, he asked if I wanted him to call an ambulance 😅. The important thing is that WE'RE STILL STANDING!

  • @CleaningHeroSquad
    @CleaningHeroSquad 12 дней назад +88

    *Your patience and dedication in cleaning are admirable. You didn’t just clean the house; you eased her anxiety too.* 💯💯💯❤❤❤

  • @susankolic9623
    @susankolic9623 10 дней назад +3

    Fantastic video! Best wishes to the home owner in her very long recovery from such a horrible event. The clean-up/sort-out was great for both of you! The dog stole the show this week. The Moose are drama divas so take no notice. Thank you 😊

  • @lucielariviere489
    @lucielariviere489 12 дней назад +39

    It was great to see her participating in the process! You’re an angel and she’s amazing. Wishing you a healthy back, and wishing her a speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹

  • @connieclark3562
    @connieclark3562 12 дней назад +9

    I love your moose! What a great video. Empathy, humor, satisfying clearing, and bonus doggie kisses and tummy scratches. So much respect for you! I’m autistic, I so identify with the city driving panic, sleeping (or NOT sleeping) in a strange place, masking overload, weird eating. To also clean while battling those issues, AND doing it after the challenges of the last months I just can’t fathom. But seeing is believing, You are an inspiration, not only motivating me to clean but to maybe even get out of my house (I haven’t slept at my sister’s in years and it would make her so happy). I sincerely thank you. Can’t wait to get back to your un-uglying your house videos too!

  • @MaureenHall-wr1nt
    @MaureenHall-wr1nt 12 дней назад +65

    Thank you so much for helping this poor woman who has gone through so much. The dog is thanking you for being there.

    • @billrobbins5874
      @billrobbins5874 12 дней назад +1

      Awesome job, nice dog! Happy you back home now. Appreciate you sharing.

  • @Elizagrace9
    @Elizagrace9 19 часов назад +2

    Mack, we know you must be recuperating from the overwhelming Kentucky clean. Miss you and hope you're feeling better soon!

  • @PetaHewitt
    @PetaHewitt 12 дней назад +61

    This lady and yourself are absolute legends. True bravery, as you know, is not being without fear, but being terrified and still doing what you need to do anyway. I hope she makes a full recovery and is compensated appropriately for her work related injuries. Her home looks so much better and she has the security of knowing all her belongings are safely sorted and stored.

  • @penbeatssword7350
    @penbeatssword7350 12 дней назад +6

    You've made such a difference to this persons life even when it was really hard to push yourself through it! ❤

  • @pattimartin7250
    @pattimartin7250 12 дней назад +114

    This poor girl. I could hardly look at this, without seizing up..am hoping she finds comfort in what you have provided her...I understand physically unable...and there is nothing like that kind of depression...please, give her all of our best, we all feel for her.

  • @treeze_it7800
    @treeze_it7800 11 дней назад +3

    ❤ Blessed are the merciful for they shall obtain mercy.❤

  • @grogers8925
    @grogers8925 12 дней назад +72

    You did a great job Mr Moosehead! I got attacked by my 2 big dogs back in Oct 2022, they got in a fight and like a dummy I tried to break it up! Had to have reconstructive surgery on my left hand,wrist and arm, they almost ripped it off! Still have PTSD from THAT! You are such a a sweetheart for helping this lady! GOD will surely bless you! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @halarkin
    @halarkin 2 дня назад +2

    1. This is so cool of you. Thank you for doing this for her
    2. Thanks for talking about your neurodivergencies and how they affected you. As a person who is neurodivergent (ADHD, autism, anxiety) and being an educator about neurodivergencies, you talking about them normalizes them, and makes other people more free to talk about it. It also allows neurotypicals to understand what it's like to have a particular difference.
    3. I don't know if this will help you but sometimes it does help me, I have a small like couch throw blanket I keep in the bed with me (I have it actually tucked under my pillows so I don't have to interact with it). I take that blanket and my pillow when I have to go sleep somewhere strange. It doesn't make it seamless, but it makes it so much easier. For some reason the familiar smell reaches past the anxiety and seems to settle things down a bit.
    4. Great video, friend. It's really kind of instructional without being bossy instructional. It tells about how you do it, and other people can swipe your ideas and use them for themselves, but you're not saying this is the way you should do it!

  • @tracyc160
    @tracyc160 12 дней назад +50

    You sir are amazing. Not only do you help others that need you….you put your own discomforts to the side to do it. A true gentleman….

  • @marybethsmith6458
    @marybethsmith6458 12 дней назад +6

    You are awesome for working through the panic. I have PTSD and panic disorder and know how hard it can be to be far away from home.

  • @Eviepossible
    @Eviepossible 12 дней назад +41

    You explain things so so well. I love your question "what do you value more?"

    • @sternentigerkatze
      @sternentigerkatze 12 дней назад +8

      It's a great way to reframe the situation from having to part with something (not having that thing anymore) to making a decision of what one wants more!

  • @NightShiftMama
    @NightShiftMama 10 дней назад +4

    I have to say, her house is gorgeous and I like the style. Thank you for going out of your way to help her and her doggo 👏

  • @THEMamaVicky
    @THEMamaVicky 12 дней назад +104

    That's what I always say when entrusted with a secret and asked, "It's not my story to tell."

    Eta: I bet you kick ass at tetris

  • @georgettedenholm477
    @georgettedenholm477 12 дней назад +4

    Well done , to you both, I also love that you take the time in all this to pet the dog.Your a good lad and it's a joy to see you work.

  • @GamerJules_
    @GamerJules_ 12 дней назад +95

    When my mother passed, I had absolutely no clue how bad her hoarding had become. So many recycled newspapers, donated and trashed clothing, and just absolutely weird kitchen gadgets for a person that no longer cooked. In a week I cleared two dumpsters of trash. Cleanings like this are not only sanity saving, but life saving. Thank you for powering through and helping everyone you do! 💜

  • @JudyReilly-n3e
    @JudyReilly-n3e 11 дней назад +4

    You and your moose are truly great.

  • @kathleentroutman1777
    @kathleentroutman1777 12 дней назад +38

    Mack, you are more than a warrior! Noble. You are noble. And so funny. I love the dog. She is gently supervising, as is her own noble nature. What a satisfying video. Waited all week for this. Rest, take care of yourself, and we will all be anticipating the next video. ❤

  • @whitneywillie4471
    @whitneywillie4471 8 дней назад +6

    I love your fluffy supervisor. inspecting every room lol

  • @hinkydoodle4368
    @hinkydoodle4368 12 дней назад +54

    my heart goes out to her. i was mauled by a dog when i was ten years old and the recovery for that (just in terms of time) was months long before i could walk or sit or even lay in a position that wasn't my stomach. i'm glad she has some mobility already and hope she can make a fuller recovery as time goes on. the work the two of you did here is impressive for only five days!

    • @shawnalLovesJesus
      @shawnalLovesJesus 6 дней назад

      Jesus is coming. On April 9, 2021, my vision went black for a quick moment, I saw in gold letters - Thus saith the Lord. Four hours later? On April 10, in my sleep I heard - Prophet. Tell them I am coming soon. Maybe 3-5 min after that, at 1235 AM, our area had a 3.1 eq.

  • @AngieMC87
    @AngieMC87 11 дней назад +5

    I’m so thankful that you were able to help this lady.❤

  • @essbing
    @essbing 12 дней назад +56

    You’re such a good person Jeremy. I’m in the same place as this gal in many ways except I’m disabled. I try to clean and get 5 minutes done, 10 if I’m lucky. I cried all the way through this. Her dog looked so sweet. It reminded me of my dog Autumn. She was my support dog. She recently passed away after providing me with 16 years in unconditional love and companionship.💕🦋Keep making great changes in people’s lives! It all matters.

    • @AliciaBakerLeashy
      @AliciaBakerLeashy 12 дней назад +8

      I'm so sorry for your loss 😢❤

    • @terrycohen4448
      @terrycohen4448 12 дней назад +5

      Really sad about your sweet dog. Hugs ♥️

    • @erynlasgalen1949
      @erynlasgalen1949 12 дней назад +8

      I'm sorry for the loss of your support dog. Whenever one of mine passes, I tell myself that they knew that soon another animal will need a loving home and they are making room. And sure enough, another one needs me. I have cats, but the principle is the same. My new cat is a memorial to my old one.

    • @DRTYLKZ1230
      @DRTYLKZ1230 12 дней назад +3

      😢❤🙏

    • @alexac3098
      @alexac3098 11 дней назад +2

      Who’s Jeremy??

  • @junkabella6324
    @junkabella6324 11 дней назад +3

    I have the same issue with dishwashers! (Diagnosed autistic.)
    But to me hand washing does a double positive thing - it gets the cups clean, but it also reminds me of happy memories with my grandmomma :3
    We used to do the dishes together when i was visiting her. Rural houses in her town are pretty much like cottages. I don’t know of any neighbours even that would have dish washing machines.

  • @mermeow
    @mermeow 12 дней назад +53

    Awww. Her dog is the sweetest, too. 😻

  • @bobbiefrank5043
    @bobbiefrank5043 9 дней назад +1

    Thank God you helped her out you're such a blessing😊

  • @snudder.s.m.l.5026
    @snudder.s.m.l.5026 12 дней назад +43

    I'm so sorry too hear about all the hard struggles the homeowner are dealing with.
    Great video ❤
    Big hugs from Denmark.
    💝🥰🌹

  • @lisawilliams4013
    @lisawilliams4013 18 часов назад +1

    I do not know how you can make that many great decisions on how to clean and organize someone else’s extremely complex collections. You are such a blessing to so many people! God bless you with strength and stamina. ❤

  • @statewench2828
    @statewench2828 12 дней назад +39

    I hope this lady is able to be happy about the transformation b/c it's a beautiful home and she deserves to be happy like everyone does. Such a pleasure to see that she was so helpful. My best friend of over 40 yrs has a hoarding problem and I hope she is able to do this one day.

  • @michelem7986
    @michelem7986 10 дней назад +1

    God bless you both. Beautiful organization, clean, sort, and declutter. The pup is so sweet, too.🙏🏡

  • @kjirstenboucher9682
    @kjirstenboucher9682 12 дней назад +27

    Just want to say I love your content. Thank you for the videos. You keep me motivated to keep keeping on with it. I'm working on a two story home, 2 car garage, a good sized garden shed, and a huge steel building, along with the 1/2 acre property it's all on. It's my parents' home. My dad passed away last year, and mom will soon be 82 and has dementia. It's just so much stuff, so all over the place and unorganized! It really can give me the worst anxiety, and feel overwhelming.There's quite a bit of hoarding as well. It's a delicate process to get it done without upsetting my Mom or my siblings (that would like to keep some things from mom n dad eventually). Watching has helped me to accomplish cleaning, organizing and decluttering on a huge scale, so I am ever so grateful to you and for you. Your awareness of different disorders and how they can effect people has also helped me to go about it differently so as not to cause more problems for my family or myself during the process.There are still mountains to move through, but I've gone from having panic attacks and feeling it's insurmountable, to just taking it one thing at a time, and one section at a time, and the slower baby steps are paying off. Whether it's one box a day, an 8 hour day in one space, or just finally being able to get the actual garbage and packaging thrown away,... it's all moving forward, and after 6 months, the progress is really starting to show. I simply cannot thank you enough.
    Also, you're an angel for stepping in to help her with this situation. You've done a fantastic job.I'm sure she feels that way as well. 💖☺️👍🙏

  • @Starrynightdiner
    @Starrynightdiner 10 дней назад +3

    I loved it when the dog came to help. I tell people one of the best commands to teach your dog is “don’t help”. I use it a lot with my dog. But it really made me smile each time Ginger came over to check on you. ❤❤❤

    • @DRTYLKZ1230
      @DRTYLKZ1230 9 дней назад

      She can't hear, so she does what she wants.

  • @asumner1959
    @asumner1959 12 дней назад +43

    Great team work! She couldn't possibly have achieved this without your help. I hope she fully recovers from being mauled, an horrific experience for her on top of all her other problems.
    If anyone deserves to get that gold plaque, you do.

  • @noram7838
    @noram7838 9 дней назад +4

    🎼You have a friend in me 🎶 The Dog is so happy you are there. Thank you for helping this warrior woman. May she heal up swiftly. God Bless.

  • @andikennedy8874
    @andikennedy8874 12 дней назад +38

    Hi Mack. I'm proud of you for making the trip. I have gone thru anxiety and panic attacks. I feel your terror. Glad you pushed through it. Great job as always. Rest up. Take care of yourself. Xoxo

  • @whiterabbit9k
    @whiterabbit9k 10 дней назад +2

    I have autism myself and hearing you explain the part about stressing to drive in a city, not sleeping on the first night and the whole masking and social battery draining makes me feel so seen!! You are an inspiration that despite all of that you still went over there to help that Lady ❤ I hope you get some time to recover from the entire trip. I love your videos and your personality. Love from The Netherlands ❤

  • @andrearib6935
    @andrearib6935 12 дней назад +36

    "...so I put on my cape..." I love it.

  • @29stmarksrd
    @29stmarksrd 8 дней назад +17

    For those who don’t “understand” needing to look through everything, it’s an act of honor/respect and the person exerting their autonomy.
    It is a need.
    When you “do it for them” you take that away from them.

  • @annj6736
    @annj6736 12 дней назад +33

    What a cute doggie and he/she seemed to really like you. Thank you for sharing and for helping people.

  • @lucymcrae162
    @lucymcrae162 10 дней назад +1

    What an absolutely lovely dog, I think I fell in love with her....great job on the clean Mac.

  • @angelbeige
    @angelbeige 12 дней назад +36

    ❤ Great work Mack!! The fact that you went out of your way and your comfort zone to help her out is very touching!! I saw you during the live and you were working your butt off!

  • @gaynorprice-jones1826
    @gaynorprice-jones1826 8 дней назад +6

    How wonderful that Ginger was helping boost morale with love and kisses!

  • @TammyB-x2h
    @TammyB-x2h 12 дней назад +43

    You are so kindhearted and I for one are thankful for your moose.

  • @christineknack1692
    @christineknack1692 7 дней назад +3

    You’re a goofball. You make me 😊 smile

  • @alfonscorliss2839
    @alfonscorliss2839 12 дней назад +40

    Super appreciate how candid you are about your feelings and how your autism affects you. It's nice to see dudes do that. It's refreshing to see someone with such clarity towards their own and other's mental health. Also a huge fan of how you started stacking other hats on top of your head as you were cleaning around 27:23, made me chuckle!

    • @shawnalLovesJesus
      @shawnalLovesJesus 6 дней назад

      Jesus is coming. On April 9, 2021, my vision went black for a quick moment, I saw in gold letters - Thus saith the Lord. Four hours later? On April 10, in my sleep I heard - Prophet. Tell them I am coming soon. Maybe 3-5 min after that, at 1235 AM, our area had a 3.1 eq.

  • @DanikaHosa
    @DanikaHosa 10 дней назад +1

    Absolutely love all of your videos, but this is probably the best one yet. You are a superb human for putting yourself in a difficult situation anxiety-wise in order to help her with this. Thank you for truly showing compassion and understanding in a world that seems to be lacking that more and more. ❤️

  • @11thHourCreator
    @11thHourCreator 12 дней назад +28

    The point you made about a brain that sees things in macro vs micro was really helpful to me and how I see the various brains I interact with. Thank you. ❤️

  • @jenniferoneal3520
    @jenniferoneal3520 9 дней назад

    You crack me up even as you are in serious situations. Thanks for sharing the information - I enjoy watching this channel.

  • @dorism.9475
    @dorism.9475 12 дней назад +27

    I hope this lady knows how strong she really is. To have gone through everything she has and be willing to first ask you for help and then sit and help you sort through items is incredible. I hope there is someone in her area she can lean on.

  • @BlingIsBest
    @BlingIsBest 6 дней назад +2

    Good job. The dog looks hungry and a little thin. I’m praying for the home owner. 😢🙏💕

  • @TheOConnFamily
    @TheOConnFamily 12 дней назад +23

    Wow!! This sounds like my story. My mom passing away not long ago, inheriting a mess and clutter that thieves and vandals ruined, I have all the same mental health issues as her, except for the autism. I also work as a delivery driver and dogs definitely scare me terribly. I recently had a baby and also made a move into my late mothers home. I’ve also lost a lot including much of my family and my husband..
    You’re wonderful for helping her out! Hopefully, it marks the beginning of change and happiness 😊

  • @crypticnix690
    @crypticnix690 11 дней назад +1

    Thank you for making these videos, seeing that its possible to start from (anywhere but in my case) somewhere to make a peaceful place is really mind blowing to me. I grew up in a messy environment and struggle with starting because i get over whelmed with where to focus on and i bounce around too easily.

  • @madzabinga8382
    @madzabinga8382 12 дней назад +212

    Where are her peeps? Seems like she could use some support. It makes me sad when people just don't have anyone to rely on during hard times. I truly am so grateful for the people I could call anytime, anywhere, to come help me out if I needed it. We all need someone!

    • @crissynunyabznz
      @crissynunyabznz 12 дней назад +40

      We are 60 with bad health,zero help..4 kids,20 grandkids that mostly are adults.We have nobody we can count on for physical help,and now alot of our trees are dead and ready to fall on neighbors. There is NO HELP.

    • @karynsperry7676
      @karynsperry7676 12 дней назад +15

      😡I’m mad at the kids/grandkids😡😡😡😡

    • @madzabinga8382
      @madzabinga8382 12 дней назад +21

      @@crissynunyabznz Sad! I am sorry you're family isn't there for you when you need them.

    • @amyw7646
      @amyw7646 12 дней назад +50

      *All* the hoarder peeps in my life do an excellent job of pushing people away. That's been my experience 😔

    • @carolbaker2773
      @carolbaker2773 12 дней назад +61

      We don’t know her story so it’s not kind to assume anything about her personal life. Let’s be grateful that Mack was able to come and help her and not focus on negatives that are not really helpful to the situation.

  • @dylan1962
    @dylan1962 12 дней назад

    You’re truly amazing for this. I have the same diagnosis’s so I can understand from that perspective but I can’t imagine dealing with that stuff, and then on top of it dealing with the loss, inheritance, and dog attack. The disorders on their own are a mountain to climb, I’m surprised and thankful that she’s still going, and that you were able to and willing to help her with this. What a brain lasagna.