My dad is a black man who is a provider but my mom still always worked. Her income has become "fun money" for the two of them as his income supports the household. Now that I am an adult with a PhD and my own job, he can afford to take the two of them on luxury vacations multiple times a year while maintaining the lifestyle both have become accostomed to. A provider is someone who can provide the best quality of life while pushing you to want to do the same. We are no longer in the age where every family can afford a SAHM especially with inflation, housing prices, and high earning jobs being harder to come by. We have to live in reality not the fantasy land people create based on influencers who go into massive credit card debt to live the fast life. A man with financial literacy and a moderate wage is WAY better than a rich man with no financial literacy. At least the man with financial literacy can help you build generational wealth for your children.
I agree -- my husband gave me the choice on whether to stay home after our son was born, and in many ways I wanted to, but I was already building a career I loved and staying home for 12 wks after delivery had me going CRAZY at times -- I was use to dressing every day, problem solving, kicking a$$ -- I knew even then, staying in the house all day and "only being a mom" wasn't desirable to me. I also loved earning my own money and feeling a level of independence and security. Every couple and every situation is different, but I found that personally I didn't want to live on someone else's back -- I absolutely LOVE that he takes care of our main needs, but I also love knowing that I have my own skills/abilities and my own 401K -- I never wanted him to feel like I wasn't contributing financially, and I never wanted to worry "what to do" if something happened. Anyway, today I earn over 6 figures MYSELF, and yet I couldn't afford a luxury lifestyle for a household on just my income (and we live in "normal America", not an unreasonably high area) -- I wonder somedays if some of these ladies believe a 6 figure mam would have them living lavish -- it would equate to the same as both of them earning 45 to 50k.
*Perhaps, my point is -- 100K will not solve everyone's issues (nor is it handed out like candy) -- and if we're being honest, most women today are not even built nor meant to even be a "housewife".
She said thats what she got in het previous relation.. just a question..do you think you could date a man that gives you 6,000 per month? And believe me when i say i ask this from a genuine place, i am trying to understand why you made this comment. ❤😊
Tell me how many women in committed relationships get $6,000/month from their man. I'll wait until you can tell me an answer. That's why yall heads are messed up now because you believe anything. @@porichechannel
Ashley you may want to stop encouraging these women to price themselves right out of a chance to meet someone. If they say the man only needs to make $50K then let that be that. The higher up the 6-figure lady went the lower her options went down. She was 220+ lbs. Not unattractive but men making that kind of money want something too. YOU know men are visual. That's why you stay in shape and doll yourself up. It helps keep your man interested. That's how it should be. Now that the channel is more visible, you have to be realistic in your advice. Women need the truth that maybe no one else has ever given them. You are so feminine. I love you and your show. 💐
From a married man, feel free to indefinitely hold out for a relationship setup that 90% of women currently aspire to obtain. The 90-95% of women that “deserve” this setup will need to find a gentleman that earns at least $300k. When you calculate maxing out both retirements, kids’ college funds and bridge accounts to outpace inflation, these expenses alone add up to $90k pre tax before living expenses. Social security will become obsolete. I think this dynamic can certainly work for most people if you plan to not invest and bank on social security. If not, your spouses’ income should be utilized for retirement accounts at the least. My wife and I are top 5 percent earners and we are debt-free. Just a thought 🤔
$5k a month is $60k a year , and from a 100k? That’s leaves $40k for just himself, that’s ridiculous price for a basic looking woman who is a divorced, single mom. A man like that can get a better deal elsewhere.
She was living the life with her ex. I checked her page when she originally aired and she was spending but her man could’ve been a scammer. I’m not sure
If you account for taxes… you’re talking about 30-35K. 2500-3000/month. Rent is taking much of that. He won’t have no real savings, investments, etc. + They’ll have to take care of her kid. Yea idk.
@@tinawalker5335ladies please be careful of what is displayed on social media and reality. I’ve known people living a luxurious lifestyle on social media and they were in bankruptcy. People are literally sharing highlight reels.
Women are so comfortable saying they don’t need a man to the point it’s really putting out the wrong energy. My man makes my life so easy and good, I may not need him but I don’t want life without him.
@@nlm3223 cuz they are taking it too literally (you only really need water, food, etc. to survive). I've learned men are just as emotional as women and want to feel "needed" by their partners. It's understandable, women want to feel like the prettiest person in the world to their partner but we know that aint the truth lol, but men lie to keep us happy.
Right! I’m a physician’s assistant (surgical) and somehow customer service reps, social workers and regular hospital nurses are all making what I make and seem to never be around single eligible men, like residents making their way.
Everyone and their grandma makes 6 figures...you've got to be more specific and say "high 6 figures". A woman who wants a provider to provide 100% then her whole aesthetic has to be already leveled up.
The first lady is going to be single for a while. The fact, one, she's a single mom, and the men in this Era are not looking for single moms. Two, she wants the next man to do 25 times more than her ex-husband which is very wrong. Because these generous men are looking for younger women to spoil with no kids, they don't want a divorced single mom
The fact that she’s a single mom isn’t the problem. The issue is her unrealistic expectations for an allowance from a man who would likely not want to be with her. She has a chance at finding a normal man making a normal income (like $50k-60k), but she would have to work for her own allowance. So please stop the rhetoric that all men are not looking for a single mom. There are some men who would date this woman if she was more reasonable. You sound silly.
Imma just speak on her math. It’s shows that she only said what she thought sounded good. She didn’t really think it through. She expects/wants a man making 100k to give her 60k-84k of his earned income? 😮😮 Doesn’t make sense. 😅😮
Yall always wanna humble BW. As long as she understands its not common, if that is HER standard than that is that....dont date her then if you dont like it. Funny...If she looked a certain way, they wouldn't have picked this story up. We know why 2 blk millionares was so taken back by this..... she's not some light skinned IG BBL shawty and thats it.
Exactly! That’s the only reason they said not her, because that’s not their preference! She’s pretty, well spoken, and doesn’t have any harsh physical standards for a man. I definitely 100% feel like someone will love her.
I don't think it was about "humbling a BW" (another overused statement from BW). Their major point was the math not mathing, which is why she had to Ashley had to break the numbers down for her.
14:26 “If you only date big women, you’re not for me” I wish Ashley would have stopped her and dove deeper on that point because how can she acknowledge she’s a big woman but not want to date a guy that “only” dates bigger women? That would mean that she wants a guy that doesn’t usually date women with that body type to choose her, but if he dates women smaller than her why would he date you? I understand not wanting to be fetishized, but what she said was kind of delusional.
18:42 she wanted a man to make 50,000 yet she’s not willing to do 50-50… That was giving 50-50 energy actually. I would’ve never got up here and said I made six figures and then say I want a guy that makes less than half of what I do and expect him to be a provider. It just doesn’t make sense. And then you making six figures and want a provider just so you can buy a fake van Cleef ? Girl… I feel like she just came up to hear her self talk and have people watch her beat her face, but I think she’s really cool
I'm realizing the women of today are delusional. This woman come on the show on point. Why yall coming on her show playing around looking a mess laying in the bed hair not done not working wanting way too much? The last woman asking for a simp...who gone sign up!
I guess I don’t get why high earning black women are asked how much money a man should make (absent of any nuance), and then we demonize the answer. If they tell us verbatim they want a man making 100k, we have an issue. If a BW who actually makes 100k says she wants that, she’s superficial. This woman was scared to say she wanted a man making as much as her (which wouldn’t be hypergamous, just egalitarian). That’s what this dialogue has come to - women cannot win with y’all. Black women are becoming the men they wanted to date. While the black men are becoming…idk they aren’t doing much honestly. The average man is complaining about women doing whatever they can to survive, but men are surviving on 20k a year and living at their mom’s house. We spend wayyyyy too much time castigating BW who figured out how to make a living instead of questioning why men aren’t stepping up. Before y’all start - Based on the data, BW dating men who make less than them often has negative results. Her attractiveness isn’t really the issue here, so you can’t make it about looks. BW who are high earning are often penalized for it because BM don’t want to actually work hard and become competitive in the job market. There’s reasons for it, but ultimately this is what we will continue to see
You just stated that black women are becoming the men they want is very telling. As a women who earns well there are plenty of reasons these women can’t get the man that makes what they make or more and it’s not the men’s fault. BM on average earn more than BW so this narrative that the men aren’t stepping is a fallacy. The are lots of high earning well to do BM and if women don’t see them it’s probably because the men are avoiding those women. Complaining about not finding quality men is more of an inward reflection vs. and outward.
The fact that she said the 50/50 dynamic started in 2020🥴 This queen doesn’t deserve a low class life where she has to contribute. She’ll stay at 100/0 🤷🏽♀️ This is why men get mad about “boss women” she is selfish and said it correctly that she’ll be single forever. 💅🏾
So much to unpack. Where’s the dad of this child? What kind of stay at home mom is she?!? 31?! They get on the internet and be delusional far too often!
Why are women looking for a man to pay for another man's child? My mother worked when she met my step father and continued to work after they married. She needs to upgrade herself. With a 5 year old she can study at home and work from home instead of searching for a man to pay their bills. Instead of asking for such large monthly allowance, maybe say would like the man to pay the bills (assuming they move in together). Also why are there so many big women so young? I am 50 and slim but even when I put on small weight, I exercise and adjust my diet. Some women look good big but so many do not know how to dress for their body type.
This show is starting to feel like a circus 🤡. Nothing but clowns entertaining us. How you say you make a certain amount but have SHEIN jewelry. Simple things show what tax bracket you are in.
Actually it speaks to her intelligence, because why would you waste your hard earned money just to make the next person rich all because it's a name brand. I think you have your priorities mixed up.🤦🏾♂️
Well, if you live a certain lifestyle would you just invest and purchase a piece of jewelry that would last long. My husband makes over 6 figures and I won’t never shop at SHEIN. Just saying. The material is poor quality. When you have it you rather spend on quality than quantity.
There’s women making 300k a year wearing jewelry from Nordstrom that isn’t real. I make 110k a year and I only have pandora jewelry and costume jewelry from stores abroad. I want to buy real gold but I haven’t made it a priority. Some things simply aren’t a priority ma’am. My savings and retirement is popping though
@@soulmusic6049No offense but everything is made in China and cheap quality that has been debunked on tik Tok brands overcharging for cheap material and labor
We should get what we want and be confident in it. It’s okay to be open. Guy in Italy 🇮🇹 be mindful lady in Canada 🇨🇦 be mindful. Both responses give green card Thank you Ashley we not here for it!!! They the only one doing it Justina be fr 😅
She wants 7k a month from a man. 7k a month is 84k a year; with taxes and healthcare, the man will have no extra money. She is a divorced single mama. There seems to be no shame from our ladies.
Yikes! if he gives her 5k and makes 100k, that means hes living with her on section 8, food stamps, or they have a special diet of oxygen and tap water lol.... this shows how much she has made previously. Its ok, but what's the financial plan for the future?? For her and baby?? At this point, its not a good look to fully depend on someone else for a salary. Man, I feel so bad for her
19:23 I get it, I would never openly tell other bw what I want my guy to make. I know I worth something that these little women think otherwise & Im not screwing them 🤷🏾♀️
Why not her though Shannon and Ocho? Although you don't have to be a six figure earner for me just secure with yourself. But who gets to dictate what kind of woman can have six figure man and an allowance? What does that kind of a woman look like? Does she have African features or does she have to look more European or racially ambiguous?
Looks like the women they date and give money to and she’s not it, smh that’s the only reason why they said that cause they definitely date gold diggers !
Because she don’t look like the woman who gets that. Women who get allowances don’t have to call into a dating show. My friend who lives like that probably has never been bigger than a size 4. Is very conscious about her weight and looks. All her friends are pretty an always ready to go.
@@JayLawson you gotta be at a very high caliber to afford an allowance of 10k a month. I dont believe a man of that caliber is watching a channel like this lol
@nt3353 Making 300k as a Logistician doesn't make me high caliber. Just means I know how to move things across the country. I am a normal guy. I would also argue that most men who make real money, you would never know because they are not showy and dress regularly and drives modest cars. And that type has MORE money.
@@JayLawson new money is nothing compared to generational wealth “old money” they connect among their peers, marry among their own, aren’t flashy, and definitely dont pay for sugar babies. Escorts are more their thing.
Exactly. My husband is frugal, makes very good money, I pay no bills yet I do not have/need an allowance as I have my own income. He will do things for me that’s necessity (like he randomly bought me a truck for instance so I can haul stuff etc and ‘leave him alone’) but not stupid stuff like shopping, etc.…these ladies are delusional, most solid men aren’t walking wallets with no brain.
The young lady shouldn’t brag about making so much money that she pays Taxes versus getting a refund. That may speak to the fact that she doesn’t own anything or has any tax shelters. I’m just saying.
She’s divorced and claimed to have been receiving $5k allowances from her husband, which is why she expects it from a new partner. I’m sure she receives some type of child support and alimony.
19:00 Ma’am if you don’t want to go 50-50, that’s perfectly fine. Don’t insult the wives/mothers who work to contribute to their house in what is majority a two-income household. Enjoy huffing and puffing in your Van Shleef.
Ashley called her out! Is that Cartier? Lol. Cuz Ashley knows what money looks like. She needs to invest in her physical self with her six figures. Something ain't right here. Most men making 6 figures ain't going to look her way. Not because she isn't pretty but because it's a bad look on her. Red hair/weave and red thin brows...it's not giving much by way of representation. I don't think she knows how to bring out the natural beauty in herself.
@@superlisticsee true, but I think Ms Ashley asked for a reason. I think Ms Ashley reads off energy. You might be correct but Ashley doesn't usually ask questions like that even if she suspects something may not be real, she is too conscious of embarrassing someone. It's not Ashley's thing. Ashley comes off as someone who just wouldn't ask even if she was wondering. It's not that serious but gaging tone and body language I think she was making a point. I believe the young woman came off kinda cocky....six figures you should be wearing a real Cartier while coming off a bit snooty regarding her wants from a man. She can ask for anything but it appeared to be kinda cocky. Ms Ashley is the kind of woman that says don't ask for what you don't give yourself. Not that she doesn't have diamonds stashed but when you make 6 figures SheIn most likely ain't in the house at all. At least most of the time. Not Jewellery...clothes, maybe but jewelry ..naw. I could be wrong.
you US women are making it so easier for us foreign women! so delulu and you dont provide the basics that a man expect(mostly cause you dont even know what these basics are) thank you I guess 😅
How come practically all the women that come on the show say they want a man that makes 100 grand? Do you know how rare it is for anybody to make 100 grand less a black man? Where do they think these people are coming from? The average hard-working black man makes between 40 and 50,000.
@@ninagrace-lee8323 @ Some point you can do life all alone if it's all about income bracket. On the other hand, women can build a life with a man that has character, integrity and ambition to grow with you over a lifetime.
This show is a joke... Nothing more than comedians looking to get discovered or broke gold diggers trying to get out of poverty... and They know Dalton wont hold them accountable!
My dad is a black man who is a provider but my mom still always worked. Her income has become "fun money" for the two of them as his income supports the household. Now that I am an adult with a PhD and my own job, he can afford to take the two of them on luxury vacations multiple times a year while maintaining the lifestyle both have become accostomed to. A provider is someone who can provide the best quality of life while pushing you to want to do the same. We are no longer in the age where every family can afford a SAHM especially with inflation, housing prices, and high earning jobs being harder to come by. We have to live in reality not the fantasy land people create based on influencers who go into massive credit card debt to live the fast life. A man with financial literacy and a moderate wage is WAY better than a rich man with no financial literacy. At least the man with financial literacy can help you build generational wealth for your children.
Plenty of people can afford a SAHM. My immigrant mother was one and came here with NOTHING.
@@rosewatersweettea I said not every family that means there are some families who can but not EVERY family can....
I agree -- my husband gave me the choice on whether to stay home after our son was born, and in many ways I wanted to, but I was already building a career I loved and staying home for 12 wks after delivery had me going CRAZY at times -- I was use to dressing every day, problem solving, kicking a$$ -- I knew even then, staying in the house all day and "only being a mom" wasn't desirable to me. I also loved earning my own money and feeling a level of independence and security. Every couple and every situation is different, but I found that personally I didn't want to live on someone else's back -- I absolutely LOVE that he takes care of our main needs, but I also love knowing that I have my own skills/abilities and my own 401K -- I never wanted him to feel like I wasn't contributing financially, and I never wanted to worry "what to do" if something happened.
Anyway, today I earn over 6 figures MYSELF, and yet I couldn't afford a luxury lifestyle for a household on just my income (and we live in "normal America", not an unreasonably high area) -- I wonder somedays if some of these ladies believe a 6 figure mam would have them living lavish -- it would equate to the same as both of them earning 45 to 50k.
*Perhaps, my point is -- 100K will not solve everyone's issues (nor is it handed out like candy) -- and if we're being honest, most women today are not even built nor meant to even be a "housewife".
THIS!! 👏🏾👏🏾
Some women have no concept of money😂😂😂😂it’s really embarrassing
Damn I feel for her she had regret to be posted now. she went viral. Praying for her 🙏🏾
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Ashley is global now. Keep going. You deserve all the respect and acknowledgement.🥂
People doing their makeup, cooking, etc during the show just seems so disrespectful 🤦🏾♀️
cooking maybe .. but makeup? it’s like girl talk.. i think it’s cute
@@jadamchelleI thought it was very cute and she was eating it up
That's somebody father!🤣
@@Bx10473looks womanly to me!
@@jadamchelleit’s not girl talk. This is an internet show. No one should come up here while doing their makeup. It’s annoying and distracting.
The delusion is real if you think you deserve a $6,000 allowance. For what ma'am????
She said thats what she got in het previous relation.. just a question..do you think you could date a man that gives you 6,000 per month? And believe me when i say i ask this from a genuine place, i am trying to understand why you made this comment. ❤😊
Do you believe everything that is said on the internet?
@@porichechannelfirst off she’s 100% lying…second it’s probably the guy that went upside her head and is most likely a scammer/drug dealer
Tell me how many women in committed relationships get $6,000/month from their man. I'll wait until you can tell me an answer. That's why yall heads are messed up now because you believe anything. @@porichechannel
I have the same question….
Everyone look so beat down and defeated. 🤣
Yoooo lol
😂😂 im hollering
😂😅 This !!!
Welcome to dating in 2024
It’s called no makeup. A little concealer does a lot
I'm laughing so hard I can't breathe with dude from Nigeria in Italy.
😂😂😂😂 he’s so funny
Ashley you may want to stop encouraging these women to price themselves right out of a chance to meet someone. If they say the man only needs to make $50K then let that be that. The higher up the 6-figure lady went the lower her options went down. She was 220+ lbs. Not unattractive but men making that kind of money want something too. YOU know men are visual. That's why you stay in shape and doll yourself up. It helps keep your man interested. That's how it should be. Now that the channel is more visible, you have to be realistic in your advice. Women need the truth that maybe no one else has ever given them. You are so feminine. I love you and your show. 💐
Facts, this channel is enabling bad choices. They'll ignore red flags if the guy is rich enough.
From a married man, feel free to indefinitely hold out for a relationship setup that 90% of women currently aspire to obtain. The 90-95% of women that “deserve” this setup will need to find a gentleman that earns at least $300k. When you calculate maxing out both retirements, kids’ college funds and bridge accounts to outpace inflation, these expenses alone add up to $90k pre tax before living expenses. Social security will become obsolete. I think this dynamic can certainly work for most people if you plan to not invest and bank on social security. If not, your spouses’ income should be utilized for retirement accounts at the least. My wife and I are top 5 percent earners and we are debt-free. Just a thought 🤔
Telling him to the Bronx has me 😂😂 giving coming to America for sure😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 no lie
People have to be trolling on these shows. They need a life.
Benny😂😂😂 I’m sorry I can’t help but laugh😂😂😂 “I’m alone on my bed”
Ash really tried to hold it together with the brotha 🤣🤣🤣
$5k a month is $60k a year , and from a 100k? That’s leaves $40k for just himself, that’s ridiculous price for a basic looking woman who is a divorced, single mom. A man like that can get a better deal elsewhere.
😂😂 right!!!!! I was like damn!!!!! She is crazy!!!
It is less than that after taxes
She was living the life with her ex. I checked her page when she originally aired and she was spending but her man could’ve been a scammer. I’m not sure
If you account for taxes… you’re talking about 30-35K. 2500-3000/month. Rent is taking much of that. He won’t have no real savings, investments, etc. + They’ll have to take care of her kid. Yea idk.
@@tinawalker5335ladies please be careful of what is displayed on social media and reality. I’ve known people living a luxurious lifestyle on social media and they were in bankruptcy. People are literally sharing highlight reels.
2nd girl, Coming on a Dating show and proclaiming you don't need a man sounds crazy! You are just trying reduce the harsh reality of being rejected.
Women are so comfortable saying they don’t need a man to the point it’s really putting out the wrong energy. My man makes my life so easy and good, I may not need him but I don’t want life without him.
The irony of looking for a man while not needing one 🤔
@@Kimberly.T that’s exactly what I was thinking. Why do women say this type of stuff.
@@nlm3223 cuz they are taking it too literally (you only really need water, food, etc. to survive). I've learned men are just as emotional as women and want to feel "needed" by their partners. It's understandable, women want to feel like the prettiest person in the world to their partner but we know that aint the truth lol, but men lie to keep us happy.
“This is SHEIN “ 😂😂😂Yall hilarious
32:51 to 33:01 is pure comedy gold 😭😭😭 The ringtone did it for me💀
LMAOOOO
Is she serious? How much per month from 100k? The math ain't mathin!
Second one is delulu
This woman should consider becoming a comedian. I haven’t laughed so hard in a while.
every one make 6 figures now 🥸
Right! I’m a physician’s assistant (surgical) and somehow customer service reps, social workers and regular hospital nurses are all making what I make and seem to never be around single eligible men, like residents making their way.
@@nlm3223lies look at the statistics from department of labor. It’s on 10 - 15% who make six figures
Everyone and their grandma makes 6 figures...you've got to be more specific and say "high 6 figures". A woman who wants a provider to provide 100% then her whole aesthetic has to be already leveled up.
@@nlm3223 nurses can make good money. That’s not surprising at all
6 figures is like the new poor now lol
Oh, Justina. Was she on Kendra G? She sounds familiar. Also, her math isn’t mathing 😂
She definitely was on Kendra show. Kendra kept it real with her because she had unrealistic expectations
I have just written this
Yep! Saw her Kendra!
She sound slow and like she needs to go walk on a treadmill. Her breathing was very heavy
Kendra ate her ass up and drew her a picture of the man that would be foolish enough to reach out to her 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The first lady is going to be single for a while. The fact, one, she's a single mom, and the men in this Era are not looking for single moms.
Two, she wants the next man to do 25 times more than her ex-husband which is very wrong.
Because these generous men are looking for younger women to spoil with no kids, they don't want a divorced single mom
She can get a single dad in his 40’s
I am a spoiled single mom lmao. A child ain’t blocking nothin lol
The fact that she’s a single mom isn’t the problem. The issue is her unrealistic expectations for an allowance from a man who would likely not want to be with her. She has a chance at finding a normal man making a normal income (like $50k-60k), but she would have to work for her own allowance. So please stop the rhetoric that all men are not looking for a single mom. There are some men who would date this woman if she was more reasonable. You sound silly.
Second Caller: If he makes 60k, I'm sure he can afford that gas station jewelry you're wearing.🤣🤣
Imma just speak on her math. It’s shows that she only said what she thought sounded good. She didn’t really think it through. She expects/wants a man making 100k to give her 60k-84k of his earned income? 😮😮 Doesn’t make sense. 😅😮
Yass Ashely so happy for you ❤️ 💗 🦋🦋
Not XXL 🤣
"She will kill me before my time" 😂💀💀
Like how you gonna be mean and poetic 😭😂
Yall always wanna humble BW. As long as she understands its not common, if that is HER standard than that is that....dont date her then if you dont like it. Funny...If she looked a certain way, they wouldn't have picked this story up. We know why 2 blk millionares was so taken back by this..... she's not some light skinned IG BBL shawty and thats it.
Exactly! That’s the only reason they said not her, because that’s not their preference! She’s pretty, well spoken, and doesn’t have any harsh physical standards for a man. I definitely 100% feel like someone will love her.
I don't think it was about "humbling a BW" (another overused statement from BW). Their major point was the math not mathing, which is why she had to Ashley had to break the numbers down for her.
Umm… she’s being unrealistic. Nobody is signing up for that.
That’s definitely it they don’t date women who look like her and are mad at her standards…..
It ain’t about love with her she wants someone to pay to be with her essentially an exclusive escort.
14:26 “If you only date big women, you’re not for me”
I wish Ashley would have stopped her and dove deeper on that point because how can she acknowledge she’s a big woman but not want to date a guy that “only” dates bigger women? That would mean that she wants a guy that doesn’t usually date women with that body type to choose her, but if he dates women smaller than her why would he date you? I understand not wanting to be fetishized, but what she said was kind of delusional.
18:42 she wanted a man to make 50,000 yet she’s not willing to do 50-50… That was giving 50-50 energy actually. I would’ve never got up here and said I made six figures and then say I want a guy that makes less than half of what I do and expect him to be a provider. It just doesn’t make sense.
And then you making six figures and want a provider just so you can buy a fake van Cleef ? Girl… I feel like she just came up to hear her self talk and have people watch her beat her face, but I think she’s really cool
I'm realizing the women of today are delusional. This woman come on the show on point. Why yall coming on her show playing around looking a mess laying in the bed hair not done not working wanting way too much? The last woman asking for a simp...who gone sign up!
The last one had me looking like 😬🤔😵💫. I’ve never heard a woman ask for a submissive simp man……….ewwwww
Omg I am dying 😂😂😂 this cant be real 😂
I guess I don’t get why high earning black women are asked how much money a man should make (absent of any nuance), and then we demonize the answer. If they tell us verbatim they want a man making 100k, we have an issue. If a BW who actually makes 100k says she wants that, she’s superficial. This woman was scared to say she wanted a man making as much as her (which wouldn’t be hypergamous, just egalitarian). That’s what this dialogue has come to - women cannot win with y’all.
Black women are becoming the men they wanted to date. While the black men are becoming…idk they aren’t doing much honestly. The average man is complaining about women doing whatever they can to survive, but men are surviving on 20k a year and living at their mom’s house. We spend wayyyyy too much time castigating BW who figured out how to make a living instead of questioning why men aren’t stepping up.
Before y’all start - Based on the data, BW dating men who make less than them often has negative results. Her attractiveness isn’t really the issue here, so you can’t make it about looks. BW who are high earning are often penalized for it because BM don’t want to actually work hard and become competitive in the job market. There’s reasons for it, but ultimately this is what we will continue to see
You just stated that black women are becoming the men they want is very telling. As a women who earns well there are plenty of reasons these women can’t get the man that makes what they make or more and it’s not the men’s fault. BM on average earn more than BW so this narrative that the men aren’t stepping is a fallacy. The are lots of high earning well to do BM and if women don’t see them it’s probably because the men are avoiding those women. Complaining about not finding quality men is more of an inward reflection vs. and outward.
@@Kimberly.T🔥🔥
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@@Kimberly.Twhy bw think the earn then bm
The fact that she said the 50/50 dynamic started in 2020🥴
This queen doesn’t deserve a low class life where she has to contribute. She’ll stay at 100/0 🤷🏽♀️ This is why men get mad about “boss women” she is selfish and said it correctly that she’ll be single forever. 💅🏾
So much to unpack. Where’s the dad of this child? What kind of stay at home mom is she?!? 31?! They get on the internet and be delusional far too often!
Why are women looking for a man to pay for another man's child?
My mother worked when she met my step father and continued to work after they married.
She needs to upgrade herself. With a 5 year old she can study at home and work from home instead of searching for a man to pay their bills.
Instead of asking for such large monthly allowance, maybe say would like the man to pay the bills (assuming they move in together).
Also why are there so many big women so young? I am 50 and slim but even when I put on small weight, I exercise and adjust my diet. Some women look good big but so many do not know how to dress for their body type.
make it make sense! No man wakes up and thinks today would be a great day to support another mans child.
This show is starting to feel like a circus 🤡. Nothing but clowns entertaining us. How you say you make a certain amount but have SHEIN jewelry. Simple things show what tax bracket you are in.
Women aren’t judged for wearing knockoff jewelry the way a man would be.
Actually it speaks to her intelligence, because why would you waste your hard earned money just to make the next person rich all because it's a name brand. I think you have your priorities mixed up.🤦🏾♂️
Well, if you live a certain lifestyle would you just invest and purchase a piece of jewelry that would last long. My husband makes over 6 figures and I won’t never shop at SHEIN. Just saying. The material is poor quality. When you have it you rather spend on quality than quantity.
There’s women making 300k a year wearing jewelry from Nordstrom that isn’t real. I make 110k a year and I only have pandora jewelry and costume jewelry from stores abroad.
I want to buy real gold but I haven’t made it a priority. Some things simply aren’t a priority ma’am. My savings and retirement is popping though
@@soulmusic6049No offense but everything is made in China and cheap quality that has been debunked on tik Tok brands overcharging for cheap material and labor
😂😂 Justina clearly hasn't moved from that exact spot since calling kendra months ago.
It’s literally the same set just a different host lol 😂
The third caller pissed me off 😡 What type of man do you expect looking this way face all smashed in the camera 🙄
She got on my last nerve lol
Justina was on Kendra
Shannon Sharpe reaction was about the woman and Ashley's show, so this is not a flex. This is another Kendra G baby mama show.
😂😂😂😂Ash I live for you no cap❤❤❤
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Keep going hard Ash!
The irony of her looking just like Kelly Price and pricing herself out of the dating market 😂😂
Congratulations 🎉🎈🎊🍾 Ashley!!!!!
We should get what we want and be confident in it. It’s okay to be open. Guy in Italy 🇮🇹 be mindful lady in Canada 🇨🇦 be mindful. Both responses give green card
Thank you Ashley we not here for it!!! They the only one doing it Justina be fr 😅
I lovvve Sky!!
Damn I’m mad af I’m helllaaaa early.
Early for what ?
@@sjones2195 lol no comments to read when you’re early
Why do these mediocre broke women think they are going to attract a high earning men???😮
“Based on her past” a man gave her an allowance of 5-7k a month. CAP 🤔
Justina gets on all dating live TikTok’s
I need someone that can help me manage my money too 😂🤣🤣🤣
Nobody had Fit Checks or Pics??
She wants 7k a month from a man. 7k a month is 84k a year; with taxes and healthcare, the man will have no extra money. She is a divorced single mama. There seems to be no shame from our ladies.
Dwl....these women are exposing themselves....the female narc doesn't want a male narc 😂😂😂
Yikes! if he gives her 5k and makes 100k, that means hes living with her on section 8, food stamps, or they have a special diet of oxygen and tap water lol.... this shows how much she has made previously. Its ok, but what's the financial plan for the future?? For her and baby?? At this point, its not a good look to fully depend on someone else for a salary. Man, I feel so bad for her
19:23 I get it, I would never openly tell other bw what I want my guy to make. I know I worth something that these little women think otherwise & Im not screwing them 🤷🏾♀️
Her: "How much do you make?"
Him: "How much do you weigh?"
Why not her though Shannon and Ocho? Although you don't have to be a six figure earner for me just secure with yourself. But who gets to dictate what kind of woman can have six figure man and an allowance? What does that kind of a woman look like? Does she have African features or does she have to look more European or racially ambiguous?
Looks like the women they date and give money to and she’s not it, smh that’s the only reason why they said that cause they definitely date gold diggers !
Because she don’t look like the woman who gets that. Women who get allowances don’t have to call into a dating show. My friend who lives like that probably has never been bigger than a size 4. Is very conscious about her weight and looks. All her friends are pretty an always ready to go.
The men dictate that and I can say she don’t fit
How are you single and stay home mom
Oh no the bx😂they going to have him BROKE😊🇵🇦
Justina 😭 she was just on Kendra’s show a couple weeks ago 🫠
6k lmfao! not even a chick thats a 10 would get that
Yea they would. As someone who used to be a sugar daddy I can tell you that 9s and 10s that are sugar babies get 4K-10K monthly regularly.
@@JayLawson you gotta be at a very high caliber to afford an allowance of 10k a month. I dont believe a man of that caliber is watching a channel like this lol
@nt3353 Making 300k as a Logistician doesn't make me high caliber. Just means I know how to move things across the country. I am a normal guy. I would also argue that most men who make real money, you would never know because they are not showy and dress regularly and drives modest cars. And that type has MORE money.
@@JayLawson new money is nothing compared to generational wealth “old money” they connect among their peers, marry among their own, aren’t flashy, and definitely dont pay for sugar babies. Escorts are more their thing.
Exactly. My husband is frugal, makes very good money, I pay no bills yet I do not have/need an allowance as I have my own income. He will do things for me that’s necessity (like he randomly bought me a truck for instance so I can haul stuff etc and ‘leave him alone’) but not stupid stuff like shopping, etc.…these ladies are delusional, most solid men aren’t walking wallets with no brain.
The young lady shouldn’t brag about making so much money that she pays Taxes versus getting a refund. That may speak to the fact that she doesn’t own anything or has any tax shelters. I’m just saying.
that can be changed so what's next?
Why not her?? Cause them women they be dating they spoiling and giving allowance to…….😩 they just gotta take a lil hit or 2 😂
Wait how can you be a stay at home mom when you aren’t married? So she is unemployed on the system.
She’s divorced and claimed to have been receiving $5k allowances from her husband, which is why she expects it from a new partner. I’m sure she receives some type of child support and alimony.
Kid? Ask her if her bd gave her 5-7k a month! 😂😅😅😅😅
If he’s paying all the bills and providing for her AND her son. What she needs all that money for? She never working again in her life?
I like Skye. Team Smart Guys!
19:00 Ma’am if you don’t want to go 50-50, that’s perfectly fine. Don’t insult the wives/mothers who work to contribute to their house in what is majority a two-income household. Enjoy huffing and puffing in your Van Shleef.
“This is SHEEEEIN” 😭😭😭😭
Ashley called her out! Is that Cartier? Lol. Cuz Ashley knows what money looks like. She needs to invest in her physical self with her six figures. Something ain't right here.
Most men making 6 figures ain't going to look her way. Not because she isn't pretty but because it's a bad look on her. Red hair/weave and red thin brows...it's not giving much by way of representation. I don't think she knows how to bring out the natural beauty in herself.
@@thegraceofalady3629 I think Ashley was genuinely asking cause some knock offs look good.
@@superlisticsee true, but I think Ms Ashley asked for a reason. I think Ms Ashley reads off energy. You might be correct but Ashley doesn't usually ask questions like that even if she suspects something may not be real, she is too conscious of embarrassing someone. It's not Ashley's thing. Ashley comes off as someone who just wouldn't ask even if she was wondering. It's not that serious but gaging tone and body language I think she was making a point. I believe the young woman came off kinda cocky....six figures you should be wearing a real Cartier while coming off a bit snooty regarding her wants from a man. She can ask for anything but it appeared to be kinda cocky. Ms Ashley is the kind of woman that says don't ask for what you don't give yourself. Not that she doesn't have diamonds stashed but when you make 6 figures SheIn most likely ain't in the house at all. At least most of the time. Not Jewellery...clothes, maybe but jewelry ..naw. I could be wrong.
I know Ashley is tired of y’all 😂
She’s okay with having her man making 50k because that’s what she makes
I'm not judging but how r u a stay at home mom without a partner? Who is paying the bills? I'm really curious how it works
The 3rd lady is a troll she don't wanna work wants a man to play with
Capricorn ♑🐐😊
you US women are making it so easier for us foreign women!
so delulu and you dont provide the basics that a man expect(mostly cause you dont even know what these basics are)
thank you I guess 😅
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How come practically all the women that come on the show say they want a man that makes 100 grand? Do you know how rare it is for anybody to make 100 grand less a black man? Where do they think these people are coming from? The average hard-working black man makes between 40 and 50,000.
How are you coming on show just waking up and half dressed not even looking presentable 🤔
Is the one doing the makeup trans?
I am asking the same thing
Definitely a transformer with those big shoulders.
She’s was pretty without the make up it just enhanced her beauty
I'm wondering the same because those mitts are huge!😮
@@invadingmindsIts called being fat.
This is where black women go wrong. Dissing men that make slightly less...if you make 150k and he makes 60K , it's 210k together.
150k vs 60k is a huge difference. That’s not even in the same income bracket
Right
@@ninagrace-lee8323 @ Some point you can do life all alone if it's all about income bracket. On the other hand, women can build a life with a man that has character, integrity and ambition to grow with you over a lifetime.
It will never work 👎🏾 nothing but resentment
This show is a joke... Nothing more than comedians looking to get discovered or broke gold diggers trying to get out of poverty... and They know Dalton wont hold them accountable!