Guys let’s also use this video to check ourselves and make sure we aren’t the red flag because it’s easy to point out other people’s imperfections but we most also recognise our imperfections
1. Friends/People who never apologise 2. Low self-esteem/People who speak poorly of themselves 3. Friends who take pleasure in talking negatively about others 4. Friends who make you feel anxious and drain you 5. Friends who don't respect your boundaries 6. Friends who guilt trip you 7. 'One size fits all' type friendship 8. Unreliable friend/ One-sided friendships 9. Friends who find it difficult to accept your accomplishments/ others 10. One upper friend 11. Friends who find joy in joking on you 12. Possessive friend 13. Friends you find yourself always making excuses for
Spot on.... And don't forget the fake apologizer. The friend that will quickly give a vague and false apology to gloss over the seedy details of their behaviour and avoid true accountability. An apology can definitely be used as a manipulation tactic especially when you sense irritation from them when this is going on...
THIS!!!! I experienced it and I was in shock. How can one in a breath say sorry and the next minute, send a 10 paragraph message saying that you are a bad person etc and block you.
Ooof yep! I think we need to remember that an apology in itself isn’t necessarily a sign of accountability. People can say ‘sorry’ and then hit you with three paragraphs about why what they did was justified. I’d even argue that people who profusely apologize while also adding in a ton of reasons behind why they acted that way, or people who turn it around on you for bringing it up are just as bad as those who never say sorry. I’ve experienced both, and tbh I’d rather have the second one. Fake apologies that conceal thinly veiled anger and self righteousness are manipulative.
Omg girl yesss, I had this friend where I was ALWAYS anxious to open her texts and answer her calls… she later cuts me off bc I had reached my peak and could no longer be there for her. Can’t tell you the breath of fresh air I felt since. I can’t keep pouring from an empty glass.
I has a friend that took over the conversation so much, that I used to sit the phone down and walk off and return to the phone and they’re still talking and didn’t realize I was gone. I rolled my eyes every time that person called bc they were full of nonsense.
I had a similar experience and I am grateful that she cut me off. I am very grateful to all of the people that decided to remove me from their lives. It forced me to do a lot of self reflection and work. I was the issue because I was a people pleaser, I was too nice. I didn’t have the courage to say no, I allowed people to use and abuse me emotionally. They used my insecurities against me, I was an over-sharer. My friendships today are more healthy, mature, intentional and positive than what I experienced in my 20s. I thank God for the blessing 🎉❤
@@leanaam.5385this is me right now. Had a neighbor since I’m new to the country who had such dark energy befriend me and she just came to me so aggressively saying I have attitude because she’s obviously white and to her I am the “stereotypical” Black woman although I was people pleasing. I was just drained by her constant bashing but I am grateful she cut me off. She used me for convenience to score points of being friends with a person of color to join BIPOC events and thought I couldn’t see it. It served its purpose but it’s taught me to trust my gut instinct and stop seeing the good in people all the time.
Number 2 is on point. I definitely have to speak more positively about myself. It comes from beating ppl to the punchline. Easier to say it 1st. It takes the power away from them
You are beautiful and anyone trying to “beat you to the punchline” is no friend! Whenever someone has something negative to say about me, my go to line is “you’re projecting” because I PROMISE you 99.999% of the time, the criticism people throw at you embody the qualities they dislike about themselves
I was “friends” with someone who I felt just never wanted to see me do good. When my life was good she was a ghost but as long as I was struggling & going through it, she was right there the whole time lol
#2 hits home and you articulated this beautifully. I don't want to be around anyone with low self esteem. Many times gossip, jealousy, hatred, sabotage comes with it due to feelings of inadequacy. No thanks!
I'm going through this right now and saw this video and your comment. It confirms what I've been feeling too and I'm no longer doing that with certain people! Thanks xx
I do not divulge too much of my personal business. If someone think they must know my personal business just because they tell me theirs. They need to find a different friend.
Wow!! Only three minutes in and already blown away by the wisdom being shared. Thank you Lucy! May we all seek out and be those high quality friends 😍🥰
So on points...... My bestie in imagination 💯💯☺️..... One of friends that can't stand your favor or success.....I have so seen. At first, I didn't realize it, but when it kept repeating itself and it started affecting my esteem, I told myself to cut off every darkness trying to dim my light......lucy is light ☺️☺️...and light I must be☺️
Number 9 is the issue for my “friend.” She claimed she was so excited for a big trip I just had. She ignored me the whole time! In fact, she has not even responded to my messages from last week! Said she couldn’t wait to hear about it and didn’t respond! Tuh!
I hear you. People who can’t take big trips (finances, job not flexible, kids etc) may change towards you bc you can freely do something that they can only dream of… By the way, where did you go? ❤
Omg I literally had this situation last week and I thought I was overthinking until I invited her over and she talked nonstop about her ex boyfriend and new toxic boyfriend and didn’t ask me once about my solo trip eventhough a lot of other people did .. I hope you enjoyed your vacation, the destinations sound lovely. No wonder she didn’t wanna talk about it 😂
@@ameliab.7056 it really was a great time. I actually just looked at the pictures again this morning! That friendship is over completely. So much has come out since then. She projects her insecurities onto me. I refuse to accept her mistreatment. I wish her the best.
Thank you so much for this video! I am praying for better energy and people around me. I really would gaslight myself when I would notice these red flags, I’m the friend that would make excuses for them. Smh out here playing myself
That witchcraft point where you said they need to go to church and they need every finger to press their head plssss😂😂😂😂😂 it's THAT serious sometimes though!
Can you do a video like this regarding family, some family members do not know boundaries and sometimes it becomes hard to enforce boundaries with family members because there’s that dilemma and it’s not that easy to cut them off because you actually need them 😅
Thank you so much Ma'am. The lesson is so intriguing. I feel like I'm faced now with being with someone that don't have that self esteem. I feel a little stuck in that relationship.
Thank you so much Lucy, I had to save this video, I'll have to listen to it more than once, I want this points flowing in my body. Please do more videos like this even if it's up to part 10, I'll watch them all. I don't want someone to come and scatter the little work I've done on myself mentally and physically because you're my friend Thank you once again Lucy❤
This video is so on point 🥰.. I just recently got out of one toxic friendship and all this point you mentioned was what was happening while we were friends 🤦... From start to finish... Thank God I have learnt my lesson
Love this! Definitely some things I had to learn, now I’m doing the personal and spiritual development needed to attract people for my highest and greatest good.
Whew the accent 😂 I love it especially when you get passionate and the flags… I use to be the possessive friend, and covering for them. No more. I do tell my friends when they’re wrong because I expect it in return. I use to also be the dumper, no more I started to go to therapy to unload and not on my friends. Now I know you should not have no such friendship that is creating toxicity which also would be me draining going through problems (codependency) learning to center and ground self is the best instead of asking others what do they think because I don’t believe in my own decisions which has stemmed from childhood. Thank you for this video, very informative and helpful.
Literally!!! So true, they literally yap so much that I feel so sick in my stomach and I always!!!! Feel uncomfortable around those types of ppl, like my body knows it’s not good and the gut instinct is good to listen to when around them. Also they also talk to much about other ppl ugh! So annoying. Another thing you can see from their eyes when looking at you, how creepy they are 😮😳
I know she said your friends but this goes with family as well they are the biggest drainers of all cause you feel you have no choice but to sit in it. But let’s normalize good vibes for all sides.❤
Shoutout to you for this video!! 🎉I was able to gain confirmation for certain feelings that I’ve been having about one of my friends. It also made me question if I exhibited some of those points in my friendships. This was an awesome video! Thanks for the content !!
She’s trying to embarrass you and put you down in order to feel better about herself. I know that it may be difficult to do, but it would be in your best interest to talk to her about her behavior and make it clear that it needs to stop. If she refuses then you should distance yourself from her 😬 it’s not good to be friends with people who don’t respect you or your feelings.
The number 12one got me i use to be friends with a possessive person sadly i didn't notice it on time it was to much that even her sister knows how possessive she can be so she stays away from her but I was blinded and thought the sister was being mean to her until she showed me shege to i started dating a guy like that and oh boy!! this lady didn't let me rest she was going around to everyone/ places that knows us together she went telling them all that I got a man now and I've abandoned her which was surprising to me 😩😂cause i normally take her almost everywhere I went with the guy but still my girl was never satisfied and it's actually very draining having this type of person with a possessive character 🤦
Those competitive & jealous friends need MFM prayers locate one in your country….Go down to Lagos to get overhauling deliverance 😅….Lucy this one hit correct ….love from a fellow youtuber from atl 🙌
I knew someone who I am not friends with anymore... I tried to cut it off so many times without telling people why and the other people would keep trying to repair the friendship, like say "let's go here" and I would see this girl, "um what's going on?" and then it would be like my mom and my mom would say "oh she told me you guys havent hung out in a while" . She was going behind my back to get us to "hang out". AH! Anyways 1 thing she did which I thought was weird was I went to her place and it was the first time in a while and usually she would come to my place, she lived out in the boondocks basically and I lived in town. She always went into town for dr apts and grocery store and shopping. So it made sense to meet at my place. 1 time I went to her place and she legit said "it makes up for all the times I drove to your place". GURL.... You didn't had to come over, and it took like a min to come over while you were out and about. AND I told her as well that when I was in college, she lived near the college, didn't go to college, and I would go over to her place all the time on my way to and from and even did sleep overs at her place. It's kind of a trauma dump, I know, but it's like a weird thing to say to someone. We have times in our lives where we can visit 1 friend more than another. Or with 1 friend: at 1 time in our lives we visit them all the time because they happen to live in the city we go to college in and then once we stop and we move, we don't visit as much and they make a huge deal out of it. SMH. IDK. Anyone else?
How should I deal with a friend that has became overly critical of me for the past few weeks to the point I started questioning myself? Not only that, when I make a small mistake, she gets super angry with me. There were some things that I was oblivious to that was apparently bothering her and she held it all in and blew up at me. To me it felt like animosity, but I hope I’m wrong.
Not everything that is witch oh Some people aren't just happy with themselves so they can't be happy for others The competitive one; definitely a witch sha😂😭
um with number 7, I think it's okay for people to have high standards in friendships and want their needs met in every way but I do think making it seem like that friend has issues, when really you just have extremely high standards that will lead you cutting off people left, right and centre, is unfair. Probably not what u meant by this advice, it's just something like this might make people think what they're doing is okay and their friend is being unreasonable when really they're just a bad friend.
Guys let’s also use this video to check ourselves and make sure we aren’t the red flag because it’s easy to point out other people’s imperfections but we most also recognise our imperfections
I completely agree 😊
1. Friends/People who never apologise
2. Low self-esteem/People who speak poorly of themselves
3. Friends who take pleasure in talking negatively about others
4. Friends who make you feel anxious and drain you
5. Friends who don't respect your boundaries
6. Friends who guilt trip you
7. 'One size fits all' type friendship
8. Unreliable friend/ One-sided friendships
9. Friends who find it difficult to accept your accomplishments/ others
10. One upper friend
11. Friends who find joy in joking on you
12. Possessive friend
13. Friends you find yourself always making excuses for
God bless you ❤
Step number 1. Check myself so I’m not the toxic friend. New subbie ❤
Spot on.... And don't forget the fake apologizer. The friend that will quickly give a vague and false apology to gloss over the seedy details of their behaviour and avoid true accountability. An apology can definitely be used as a manipulation tactic especially when you sense irritation from them when this is going on...
THIS!!!! I experienced it and I was in shock. How can one in a breath say sorry and the next minute, send a 10 paragraph message saying that you are a bad person etc and block you.
Ooof yep! I think we need to remember that an apology in itself isn’t necessarily a sign of accountability. People can say ‘sorry’ and then hit you with three paragraphs about why what they did was justified. I’d even argue that people who profusely apologize while also adding in a ton of reasons behind why they acted that way, or people who turn it around on you for bringing it up are just as bad as those who never say sorry. I’ve experienced both, and tbh I’d rather have the second one. Fake apologies that conceal thinly veiled anger and self righteousness are manipulative.
@@leanaam.5385 just another tactic to gain the upper hand.
@@maddyG7414I have experienced that too!! I just ran away from it all and remove myself from theses relationships
Omg girl yesss, I had this friend where I was ALWAYS anxious to open her texts and answer her calls… she later cuts me off bc I had reached my peak and could no longer be there for her. Can’t tell you the breath of fresh air I felt since. I can’t keep pouring from an empty glass.
I has a friend that took over the conversation so much, that I used to sit the phone down and walk off and return to the phone and they’re still talking and didn’t realize I was gone. I rolled my eyes every time that person called bc they were full of nonsense.
I had a similar experience and I am grateful that she cut me off. I am very grateful to all of the people that decided to remove me from their lives. It forced me to do a lot of self reflection and work. I was the issue because I was a people pleaser, I was too nice. I didn’t have the courage to say no, I allowed people to use and abuse me emotionally. They used my insecurities against me, I was an over-sharer. My friendships today are more healthy, mature, intentional and positive than what I experienced in my 20s. I thank God for the blessing 🎉❤
Followed by gossips 🚩💔
@@leanaam.5385this is me right now. Had a neighbor since I’m new to the country who had such dark energy befriend me and she just came to me so aggressively saying I have attitude because she’s obviously white and to her I am the “stereotypical” Black woman although I was people pleasing. I was just drained by her constant bashing but I am grateful she cut me off. She used me for convenience to score points of being friends with a person of color to join BIPOC events and thought I couldn’t see it. It served its purpose but it’s taught me to trust my gut instinct and stop seeing the good in people all the time.
Number 2 is on point. I definitely have to speak more positively about myself. It comes from beating ppl to the punchline. Easier to say it 1st. It takes the power away from them
I agree. I try to stick to positive affirmations every day.
You are beautiful and anyone trying to “beat you to the punchline” is no friend!
Whenever someone has something negative to say about me, my go to line is “you’re projecting” because I PROMISE you 99.999% of the time, the criticism people throw at you embody the qualities they dislike about themselves
@@tooprada606 Thank you. I'll have to try this.
Then it takes the power away from you
(Number 3) is the exact reason why I don’t entertain people. I am always at home, I stay away from people because I just get bad energy.
I was “friends” with someone who I felt just never wanted to see me do good. When my life was good she was a ghost but as long as I was struggling & going through it, she was right there the whole time lol
So many fake friends like this
Yes!! This is so true.
#2 hits home and you articulated this beautifully. I don't want to be around anyone with low self esteem. Many times gossip, jealousy, hatred, sabotage comes with it due to feelings of inadequacy. No thanks!
I learn oo
Must add: when you're being vulnerable and sharing things about yourself,yet they never share. Just soaking up your business.
I'm going through this right now and saw this video and your comment. It confirms what I've been feeling too and I'm no longer doing that with certain people! Thanks xx
I do not divulge too much of my personal business. If someone think they must know my personal business just because they tell me theirs. They need to find a different friend.
So spot on! Another one is the friend that always gasses you, as if they're a "fan" rather than a friend. Leech energy!
Wtf you’re friend are being supportive and u calling them a fan ?
@@vanessacoutu9591 Look up "love bombing," it's not the same as support.
It's the 4th red flag for meee...that anxious or overwhelming feeling when you get a call or see a text from them...their energy is drainingggggg
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Wow!! Only three minutes in and already blown away by the wisdom being shared. Thank you Lucy! May we all seek out and be those high quality friends 😍🥰
So on points...... My bestie in imagination 💯💯☺️..... One of friends that can't stand your favor or success.....I have so seen.
At first, I didn't realize it, but when it kept repeating itself and it started affecting my esteem, I told myself to cut off every darkness trying to dim my light......lucy is light ☺️☺️...and light I must be☺️
Sooooo I’m just watching this to see if I’m one of these… and I’m not 😁… so I can go and rest now. Thanks Lucy
Number 9 is the issue for my “friend.” She claimed she was so excited for a big trip I just had. She ignored me the whole time! In fact, she has not even responded to my messages from last week! Said she couldn’t wait to hear about it and didn’t respond! Tuh!
I hear you. People who can’t take big trips (finances, job not flexible, kids etc) may change towards you bc you can freely do something that they can only dream of…
By the way, where did you go? ❤
@@Tricey.89 I went to Paris and Abidjan, Ivory Coast. Oh and by the way, she texted the other day and said “sorry girlie, it’s been a time.” 🧐
Omg I literally had this situation last week and I thought I was overthinking until I invited her over and she talked nonstop about her ex boyfriend and new toxic boyfriend and didn’t ask me once about my solo trip eventhough a lot of other people did .. I hope you enjoyed your vacation, the destinations sound lovely. No wonder she didn’t wanna talk about it 😂
@@ameliab.7056 it really was a great time. I actually just looked at the pictures again this morning! That friendship is over completely. So much has come out since then. She projects her insecurities onto me. I refuse to accept her mistreatment. I wish her the best.
Thanks so much Lucy. I just got out of a toxic friendship of four years and I wish I saw the bs a lot sooner!
Thank you so much for this video! I am praying for better energy and people around me. I really would gaslight myself when I would notice these red flags, I’m the friend that would make excuses for them. Smh out here playing myself
We all were
That witchcraft point where you said they need to go to church and they need every finger to press their head plssss😂😂😂😂😂 it's THAT serious sometimes though!
Omg, I love this woman “You’re a Witch”💀 Thank you for this though❤
Lots of love Lucy. Thanks for these tips. You're looking pretty 😍.
Can you do a video like this regarding family, some family members do not know boundaries and sometimes it becomes hard to enforce boundaries with family members because there’s that dilemma and it’s not that easy to cut them off because you actually need them 😅
Sis, all the points you’ve said in this entire video are a COVERT NARCISSIST TRAITS. Word for Word 💯
The wisdom you shared on this video is astomincal. I be trying to meet people where they are at, who's for me will not leave me.
Miss Lucy Benson you have served us today!!! When I tell you all pounts were spot on! ❤💯
Stay blessed Queens
Thank you queen ❤ I used to be the friend with low self esteem at one point.
You are truly a blessing for having such a good-hearted warm spirit.
When one of your friendships doesn't even go past point 1 😂😂😂 like damn
15:11 on that note ive also become weary of any one who seems too giddy when i share bad news
I appreciated your wisdom, Lucy.
Thank you so much Ma'am.
The lesson is so intriguing.
I feel like I'm faced now with being with someone that don't have that self esteem. I feel a little stuck in that relationship.
Phew, you really came through with this video. I have been going through it recently and second guessing myself. This video came on time ❤❤❤
Thank you so much Lucy, I had to save this video, I'll have to listen to it more than once, I want this points flowing in my body. Please do more videos like this even if it's up to part 10, I'll watch them all. I don't want someone to come and scatter the little work I've done on myself mentally and physically because you're my friend
Thank you once again Lucy❤
This video is so on point 🥰.. I just recently got out of one toxic friendship and all this point you mentioned was what was happening while we were friends 🤦... From start to finish... Thank God I have learnt my lesson
I feel you!! Me too! 😮💨
3:52 this is so me 😩 I don’t know how to stop cause I be feeling like everyone is better than me even if they have less than I do
You on point with everything especially talking about witches and wizards .
I started watching your videos last year and I must say ...I have learnt alot and grown a lot thank you ❤❤
Whew, Lucy!! This video reminded me of my past in so many ways. I thank God for growth and change of environment.
Loved this Ms Lucy . God bless you . Blood covenants must be broken 😂😂
Listening to u is such a blessing🥰
Love this! Definitely some things I had to learn, now I’m doing the personal and spiritual development needed to attract people for my highest and greatest good.
So many helpful tips thank you.
Also your hair looks so good and love the camera quality
Lucy need PROTECTION AT ALL COST❤
Whew the accent 😂 I love it especially when you get passionate and the flags… I use to be the possessive friend, and covering for them. No more. I do tell my friends when they’re wrong because I expect it in return.
I use to also be the dumper, no more I started to go to therapy to unload and not on my friends. Now I know you should not have no such friendship that is creating toxicity which also would be me draining going through problems (codependency) learning to center and ground self is the best instead of asking others what do they think because I don’t believe in my own decisions which has stemmed from childhood. Thank you for this video, very informative and helpful.
How do we cut friends off in a healthy way ..all I know how to do is ghost and block 😂 i need more tools LOL
Always looking forward to your sit down videos 🤭☺️🥰
much love sis, your really my elder sis coz I'm learning a lot from you🥰 , appreciate.
Literally!!! So true, they literally yap so much that I feel so sick in my stomach and I always!!!! Feel uncomfortable around those types of ppl, like my body knows it’s not good and the gut instinct is good to listen to when around them. Also they also talk to much about other ppl ugh! So annoying. Another thing you can see from their eyes when looking at you, how creepy they are 😮😳
You are absolutely beautiful Lucy, updated make up routine please 🙏🏾 I love how your makeup turns out everytime. ❤
I just made a video about cutting out friends and making new ones and now this pops up on my feed. Validated haha
Literally my big sis ❤❤I love this lady ❤❤
people who choose their friendships based on how much you have
I didn't just enjoy it Lucy
I needed it
Can we apply this to family members too😢
Now i understand why tout fingers were all over the place from the beginning. It was vert personal😂
🤣🤣🤣
Always making a point 💯💯
Thank you 🤎
I know she said your friends but this goes with family as well they are the biggest drainers of all cause you feel you have no choice but to sit in it. But let’s normalize good vibes for all sides.❤
I thank God for the day I came across your channel🥺
😅 I just realized I’ve the red flag of being unapologetic . Will work on that
Lucy i love you more for this!!!!!"monitoring spirits" lol
Hahaha the witches and wizards keep taking me out 😅
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Lucy. you are so right, God keep blessing you ang and giving you favor. To all of you, blessings beautiful people!🙏❤️👍👍🥰🌹
Number 4 point am definitely rooting for myself
this is so practical! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is So true.much love Lucy
Amazing video thank you for helping others sharing your advice and wisdom. Your video quality is very impressive what camera do you use? 💗
Shoutout to you for this video!! 🎉I was able to gain confirmation for certain feelings that I’ve been having about one of my friends. It also made me question if I exhibited some of those points in my friendships. This was an awesome video! Thanks for the content !!
What of when your friend is always saying something not really nice or making fun of you in front of a guy you like
She’s trying to embarrass you and put you down in order to feel better about herself. I know that it may be difficult to do, but it would be in your best interest to talk to her about her behavior and make it clear that it needs to stop. If she refuses then you should distance yourself from her 😬 it’s not good to be friends with people who don’t respect you or your feelings.
@@cherry_.blossom2024 thanks 💯
Or Worst, a guy she likes but can tell he likes you….
The number 12one got me i use to be friends with a possessive person sadly i didn't notice it on time it was to much that even her sister knows how possessive she can be so she stays away from her but I was blinded and thought the sister was being mean to her until she showed me shege to i started dating a guy like that and oh boy!! this lady didn't let me rest she was going around to everyone/ places that knows us together she went telling them all that I got a man now and I've abandoned her which was surprising to me 😩😂cause i normally take her almost everywhere I went with the guy but still my girl was never satisfied and it's actually very draining having this type of person with a possessive character 🤦
Those competitive & jealous friends need MFM prayers locate one in your country….Go down to Lagos to get overhauling deliverance 😅….Lucy this one hit correct ….love from a fellow youtuber from atl 🙌
Yes! I’m cutting off a 30 year friend AGAIN because she’s jealous and overly competitive. It’s sad and I’m tired of it.
Sistta preeaaachhhh!
"It's right in my neighborhoodddd" 😂❤
Thank you so much Lucy❤
I knew someone who I am not friends with anymore... I tried to cut it off so many times without telling people why and the other people would keep trying to repair the friendship, like say "let's go here" and I would see this girl, "um what's going on?" and then it would be like my mom and my mom would say "oh she told me you guys havent hung out in a while" . She was going behind my back to get us to "hang out". AH!
Anyways 1 thing she did which I thought was weird was I went to her place and it was the first time in a while and usually she would come to my place, she lived out in the boondocks basically and I lived in town. She always went into town for dr apts and grocery store and shopping. So it made sense to meet at my place. 1 time I went to her place and she legit said "it makes up for all the times I drove to your place". GURL.... You didn't had to come over, and it took like a min to come over while you were out and about. AND I told her as well that when I was in college, she lived near the college, didn't go to college, and I would go over to her place all the time on my way to and from and even did sleep overs at her place.
It's kind of a trauma dump, I know, but it's like a weird thing to say to someone. We have times in our lives where we can visit 1 friend more than another. Or with 1 friend: at 1 time in our lives we visit them all the time because they happen to live in the city we go to college in and then once we stop and we move, we don't visit as much and they make a huge deal out of it. SMH. IDK. Anyone else?
always on time💅🏾
hi lucy please consider uploading your videos as podcasts as well , on apple music 🩷
Yes! I would listen!
Great video, thanks
Dammn Lucy... this video was very passionate!
Thank you so much, this can save lives. xo
Omg I love that shirt❤
Where did you get it from? Xx
Wheww! This is SPOT ON!
How should I deal with a friend that has became overly critical of me for the past few weeks to the point I started questioning myself? Not only that, when I make a small mistake, she gets super angry with me. There were some things that I was oblivious to that was apparently bothering her and she held it all in and blew up at me. To me it felt like animosity, but I hope I’m wrong.
Everything you said is on point
THANKS DARLING
Thank you so much
I don’t know why I watch these videos and I already know I need to cut sis off 🤣 I think I’m just looking for confirmation.
Number 3 is sooooooo true 💯💥
Thank you lucyy❤
Thank you oooo
Thank you!!!
Our Fine Babe!!!❤
All truth 👌🏼we can drop the 🎤
I shared this to my Facebook
Not everything that is witch oh
Some people aren't just happy with themselves so they can't be happy for others
The competitive one; definitely a witch sha😂😭
Yes I agree with u. I have declutter already. 2024 will be a good year
My Queen thank you❤
um with number 7, I think it's okay for people to have high standards in friendships and want their needs met in every way but I do think making it seem like that friend has issues, when really you just have extremely high standards that will lead you cutting off people left, right and centre, is unfair. Probably not what u meant by this advice, it's just something like this might make people think what they're doing is okay and their friend is being unreasonable when really they're just a bad friend.
Always love this videos🔥
So people with low self-esteem shouldn't have friends???
if you make your low self-esteem someone else’s problem, which is almost always the case in some way, then no.
Lovely video❤
Number 10 got me dead😂😂😂😂😂😂😂demonic spirit