I'm gonna get alot of shit for this, but it comes from a good place. If you're aware of your issues, the baggage you carry, and the toll they take on you every day of your life, you have a responsibility to yourself to address them. This isn't about "fix your shit", this is about giving yourself the chance to relieve yourself of that pain. If you're watching this, and it resonates with you, then you're already passed the first step. 💪💪💪 There's a bunch of resources out there to help you, and many of them are at a discount from social programs, universities, and nonprofits. Looking for help doesn't mean you're weak. It means that you are looking for knowledge for a task you have before you. This is a journey to happiness that you can start today. I believe in you, and I'm sorry you've been through hell. You deserve to live a happy life.
Exactly, you can’t expect other people to help you if you don’t help yourself. Do your best to be vulnerable, find people that you can trust, etc. it’s taken me a long time to learn how to be vulnerable but it’s so worth it and the weight that falls off your shoulders when you finally get all of that out of your chest just feels so amazing. It’s such a freeing feeling
Agreed 100% but what about the ones you've pushed down for so long they are like a shadow you can see their presence and they still linger with their weight but you can't seem to work out how to articulate them or 100% recall them to show how they make you feel😮💨
@@justin2285that's what Yeshua Handles For you. Cry out to Him and He Will Draw near to you and Hear. Cast your cares on Him and He Will Give you True Peace. Not peace like this world offers but His Peace. If you don't know what this means, find out quickly. Our lives are like a vapor and when we are gone so is the opportunity. Grace to you and Peace Be Multiplied unto you From God our Creator and His Son Yeshua
See this just confirms that I am empathetic. Ive always said that as women we are kinda lucky to be able to lose our shit on a regular basis, whether at an appropriate or inappropriate moment. Men on the other hand do not really have that luxury. They have to be stoic and robotic like. I mean that must be hard ASF. Sometimes you just need to let the emotions flow and disperse so you can move on.
Listen, communication is key yes, but most men wont. There are many factors why. For example, they dont want to appear weak, they fear rejection or being misunderstood by their partner, and most importantly of all they have never been given the ability to do so without consequences. Our society barely supports men, and yet it relys on men for the majority of its infrastructure. That's why men need women who support them. Not because women should be their only for support, but because only a women who loves and accepts him can bring out the best in him despite these challenges. Women hold so much influence over men. We need more women that understand how important this dynamic is and more men who are willing to open themselves to this.
True, but I feel like this kind of mindset of "male secrets" or "female secrets" is stupid. We're all human, we all think and have stuff going on in our heads that we don't talk about. Just seems like these things alienate the sexes, make them seem "mysterious" and "oh so deep and hard to grasp". I say fuck that. We're all human. We all sit on a toilet and shit stinky shits. Just talk, empathize, relate to eachother. Don't make it so mysterious and shit. Just complicating communication for no reason. 🧐
Women can be encouraged to start and let men know it is OK to show. They've been told for so long that talking makes them weak. Why would they want to communicate if it brings drama and shut down?
i wish more men understood you might be surprised of what your woman will do for you if you actually open up and just talk. just tell her you really need her to listen to what you are carrying inside and need to get it out. if she is a good woman and she really loves you she will do everything in her power to help you with whatever you are dealing with and help you and figure out a way to help. and she will listen if she truly cares. dont be scared to try it. if she doesnt listen and want to help then she doesnt really care.
Okay, but communicating is the way to fix it. Stop avoiding the issues until it's too late. Most man are completely selfish by taking on this perspective, leaving their wives to carry the burden
Women are the reason marriages fail. Women are the reason families are broken up. Women are the reason for every problem society has. Men build, women destroy.
I don't understand content like this. I get that they're trying to help chicks and all, but those same chicks have been screaming their whole lives that they just "don't care"!
Exactly, as a man I understand it being hard to not talk about your feelings but you can’t just blame that on everyone else or just accept that that is how it is. Find someone you can trust and if you can’t trust your girlfriend or wife to talk about how you feel then they shouldn’t be your partner
As a wife, we are supposed to encourage this. It has been so discouraged for a man to be open and vulnerable. We spent so Ling calling them weak for opening uo and showing emotion.
No, she doesn’t, but I think that rather than pushing men to deal with their issues like women, we should instead acknowledge that men aren’t wrong or broken for dealing with issues like men. Silence and solitude are valid ways of sorting out emotions. Women more often need to talk, and ‘let the storm out’ slowly, and that’s a valid way to heal and sort through things. But if you push a man to do that there’s a greater risk that it’ll all come out at once and cause more harm rather than healing. That’s not because men are broken, but because we are different. If a man needs to be silent, allow that instead of saying it’s unhealthy.
everytime i let a woman know my true thoughts and things that bother me, i get the short end of the stick. its better to just bottle all of it up and deal with it alone.
So true. Especially some war veterans. They never tell.
I believe that!
So true
So damn true.
So true..
Wow. I feel this way always
Well said 👏🏽
Thank you ❤
You certainly got that right
Facts.
True
I'm gonna get alot of shit for this, but it comes from a good place.
If you're aware of your issues, the baggage you carry, and the toll they take on you every day of your life, you have a responsibility to yourself to address them. This isn't about "fix your shit", this is about giving yourself the chance to relieve yourself of that pain.
If you're watching this, and it resonates with you, then you're already passed the first step. 💪💪💪 There's a bunch of resources out there to help you, and many of them are at a discount from social programs, universities, and nonprofits.
Looking for help doesn't mean you're weak. It means that you are looking for knowledge for a task you have before you.
This is a journey to happiness that you can start today.
I believe in you, and I'm sorry you've been through hell. You deserve to live a happy life.
2 years left… happy life out the question but THANKS ANYWAY YOU’RE A G love u.
Exactly, you can’t expect other people to help you if you don’t help yourself. Do your best to be vulnerable, find people that you can trust, etc. it’s taken me a long time to learn how to be vulnerable but it’s so worth it and the weight that falls off your shoulders when you finally get all of that out of your chest just feels so amazing. It’s such a freeing feeling
Agreed 100% but what about the ones you've pushed down for so long they are like a shadow you can see their presence and they still linger with their weight but you can't seem to work out how to articulate them or 100% recall them to show how they make you feel😮💨
@@justin2285that's what Yeshua Handles For you. Cry out to Him and He Will Draw near to you and Hear. Cast your cares on Him and He Will Give you True Peace. Not peace like this world offers but His Peace. If you don't know what this means, find out quickly. Our lives are like a vapor and when we are gone so is the opportunity. Grace to you and Peace Be Multiplied unto you From God our Creator and His Son Yeshua
Ooo you are right.
There's nothing more true right here
See this just confirms that I am empathetic. Ive always said that as women we are kinda lucky to be able to lose our shit on a regular basis, whether at an appropriate or inappropriate moment. Men on the other hand do not really have that luxury. They have to be stoic and robotic like. I mean that must be hard ASF. Sometimes you just need to let the emotions flow and disperse so you can move on.
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Use it for the best, suffering is growth for men.
Listen, communication is key yes, but most men wont. There are many factors why. For example, they dont want to appear weak, they fear rejection or being misunderstood by their partner, and most importantly of all they have never been given the ability to do so without consequences. Our society barely supports men, and yet it relys on men for the majority of its infrastructure. That's why men need women who support them. Not because women should be their only for support, but because only a women who loves and accepts him can bring out the best in him despite these challenges. Women hold so much influence over men. We need more women that understand how important this dynamic is and more men who are willing to open themselves to this.
True, but I feel like this kind of mindset of "male secrets" or "female secrets" is stupid. We're all human, we all think and have stuff going on in our heads that we don't talk about. Just seems like these things alienate the sexes, make them seem "mysterious" and "oh so deep and hard to grasp".
I say fuck that. We're all human. We all sit on a toilet and shit stinky shits. Just talk, empathize, relate to eachother. Don't make it so mysterious and shit. Just complicating communication for no reason. 🧐
Agreed, this is just a communication and human issue. Men do however tend to be horrible at communication
Women can be encouraged to start and let men know it is OK to show. They've been told for so long that talking makes them weak. Why would they want to communicate if it brings drama and shut down?
i wish more men understood you might be surprised of what your woman will do for you if you actually open up and just talk. just tell her you really need her to listen to what you are carrying inside and need to get it out. if she is a good woman and she really loves you she will do everything in her power to help you with whatever you are dealing with and help you and figure out a way to help. and she will listen if she truly cares. dont be scared to try it. if she doesnt listen and want to help then she doesnt really care.
It is our duty to encourage and nurture this. It is not natural for them to open up as we do. They've been taught that us only weakness.
Think it really depends on how you were raised and in which country. Men in America are deff different
I wish men would talk about things before they have meltdowns. Its pk nowadays. You ate only human. Find a safe group of other men. Be well brothers.
Okay, but communicating is the way to fix it. Stop avoiding the issues until it's too late. Most man are completely selfish by taking on this perspective, leaving their wives to carry the burden
We as wives need to encourage it and be open to being that role. Men have been taught that it is weak to show that part.
Women are the reason marriages fail. Women are the reason families are broken up. Women are the reason for every problem society has. Men build, women destroy.
I don't understand content like this. I get that they're trying to help chicks and all, but those same chicks have been screaming their whole lives that they just "don't care"!
And when I ask, so that I can help. Crickets….
And then sometimes have to go to war on top of all that
Good to know. However we arent mindreaders...
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Until she is your WIFE she has no obligation to deal with that. And then it's ON YOU to COMMUNICATE to the woman who committed to you and trust her
Exactly, as a man I understand it being hard to not talk about your feelings but you can’t just blame that on everyone else or just accept that that is how it is. Find someone you can trust and if you can’t trust your girlfriend or wife to talk about how you feel then they shouldn’t be your partner
Quiet fool
As a wife, we are supposed to encourage this. It has been so discouraged for a man to be open and vulnerable. We spent so Ling calling them weak for opening uo and showing emotion.
No, she doesn’t, but I think that rather than pushing men to deal with their issues like women, we should instead acknowledge that men aren’t wrong or broken for dealing with issues like men. Silence and solitude are valid ways of sorting out emotions. Women more often need to talk, and ‘let the storm out’ slowly, and that’s a valid way to heal and sort through things. But if you push a man to do that there’s a greater risk that it’ll all come out at once and cause more harm rather than healing. That’s not because men are broken, but because we are different. If a man needs to be silent, allow that instead of saying it’s unhealthy.
And men have no obligation to deal with the victim mentality that most women have.
This was too close to the bone
Women have no way to understand
everytime i let a woman know my true thoughts and things that bother me, i get the short end of the stick. its better to just bottle all of it up and deal with it alone.
Put your pride aside then
So instead, they voted for trump. 😂😂😂