Why you need to QUIT your JOB: How being UNEMPLOYED Changed My LIFE
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- Опубликовано: 16 мар 2024
- Hey there,
quitting your job can be scary especially if you already got used to so many things, but this can be the thing in your life that holds you back from living your dream life. In my 6 months of being unemployed I was able to learn new things about myself, discovering new places, building new habits, like tidying up my space, doing sports, pursuing my dream, starting this RUclips Channel and this is worth way more than your fear of quitting and thinking you're going to loose your home, friends, future jobs because of the gap in your resume. Don't listen to what your family or friends say. Only you know what you want and it's okay to take a break and use the time to figure things out. I'm trying to take your fear by sharing the beauty of life I experienced and hope it helps you on your personal growth journey.
00:54 Stage 1: feels like vacation
01:12 Stage 2: Getting Creative
01:31 Stage 3: the Turning Point
02:24 Personal Growth and Learnings
02:34 Having Time
03:12 My Changes
04:05 Their Fears
#quittingmyjob #personalgrowthjourney
I "stumbled" across your video and it resonated with me so much. I share exactly the same opinion as you :) Thank you sincerely for what you do!
NIce insights! For the next videos it would be interesting to explain a few practical strategies to avoid getting stuck after the vacation-boredom phase.
Thank you! I'll add that to my list :)
being unemployed is a huge success and gives you freedom, but society tells you that being unemployed is bad and having a job is success 😂
True, there's a lot of hypocrisy within society about this...
The whole thing is a bit lacking in depth:
What did you learn during your unemployed phase?
What books did you read?
How did you grow personally?
How did you live and pay the bills?
What are your plans for the future?
It is immediately obvious that, depending on what you understand by work, this has consequences for a person's future.
People reject work because they see it only as a compulsion, a necessary evil or as labor to earn money, instead of seeing work as a process of personal development and learning.
Thank you for your feedback :) I def plan on making a more in depth video about all the details and my "Why's", just felt like it would be too long and people wouldn't care. Like you said there are multiple factors that lead me to choosing to be unemployed and change my career.
That would require introspection and hard work, and this woman quit her job (more likely sacked) because hard work wasnt her thing. So many fools think they can make a living talking about themselves because they are so self obsessed. This will grow old very quickly.
@@pauls3075omg if you can’t say anything nice why say it at all??
@@pauls3075 "When anyone replies to a matter before he hears the facts, it is foolish and humiliating." Pr 18:13
love this video and completely agree! wishing you a lot of success
Thank you so much!
Of course you love it, you dont want to work hard for a living so you want to sit at home dreaming you can get paid for talking about yourself. You and 100 million other women. Only this channel will be gone in 6 months and so will your dream of a lazy life. Quitting your job WILL change your life you will be homeless or living with your parents very shortly after!
You're insane. I'm 28 unemployed for a long time and I would die for a respectable job.
Usually when you overthink something and want it too bad its even more difficult to get because you tend to overthink or pressure yourself that you need it so bad. I didn't even want to go back to work just yet but applied for fun, sent a portfolio and got the job. I mean being unemployed by choice or not does make a difference in the way that you think about your situation. I'd try to make the most out of your situation and use the time that you have now to develop a skillset that will either help you in the job field that you're looking for or to start your own thing.
Great Video Arcane keep going. You got this:)
Thank you!!
Grats on the growth! Let's get the bag now though.
Thank you! Yes, lets get the bag :)
Being bold to make a different in my life! It's a good advice, I am 23 now, and I know it will be so many unpredictable changes in my life. Anyway, just take a risk!
Thank you!! And yes risks can be scary but they are what brings us ahead in life.
Another Great Video!
Me: Quits job
Bank: hey, that car you’re paying off is mine now lol
Landlord: eviction notice lol
Chequing account: 😬 WTF are you thinking bro?
My life would literally collapse in 30 days if I do this 😂. I’ve worked on a startup for a year now and we’re finally in the delivery stage of the product. This time next year, hopefully.
Sometimes what we are most scared of is what we need the most. There were plenty situations in my life that i thought i couldn't get out of, but i did. Usually when we are under higher pressure we tend to make more bold decisions because we know if we don't do anything we are already loosing so might as well try. If you are open to quitting your job for your dream life I wouldn't let your mentioned financial situation let me stop. Like selling things from home that you are not using, downsizing car, downsizing apartment for lower rent, being able to save up. We should always have an emergency fund of 3 months of living. But I'm positive that you would be able to pull it off too. I don't know about your role and situation with the startup and if that is what you want to do but good luck!
@@arcanecoral the question is not how to get out of a situation. The question is why to put yourself in a situation that you need to get out of in the first place
@@TBadalov for the growth. Stepping out of our comfort zone makes us grow. It’s like investing all your money into crypto, you could 100x your money or you could loose all your money. Def not recommending to do the crypto thing with all of your money but the same thing applies to our life’s. In order to be extraordinary we have to do what “nobody” or barely anyone does.
All we want in life is to be “comfortable” that’s why a lot of people want to be rich, so they can be comfortable but the reason why most people don’t end up being rich is because in order to get there “from an average or below average income home” you need to do and go way over average and beyond. It’s going to suck and be uncomfortable, but only going through that will get you there in the end. Like I said everyone told me to not quit, I’m still living. Might not be rich, but def grew more than most people around me working a Corporate job that they will do for the next 30 years 😅
Man there are so many good points you make here that I don’t know that the mainstream Western culture is ready to hear.
Do you find it difficult to get through to other people about your ideas who are so actively invested in consumerism and workaholism?
Thank you! And yes it is really hard to get through people. Even the ones close to me, but I try to view it more as something they don't know yet, when they see me be happier and fullfilled with "less" they might be more curious to learn and change their thought patterns.
@@arcanecoral How does your grandma work 4 jobs at 96?
Very well said
Thank you!!
Great Video 🎉
Thank you!
Your courage in embracing unemployment as an opportunity for self-discovery and growth is truly inspiring. It's a powerful reminder that taking a break and pursuing your dreams is a valid path towards personal fulfillment. it's incredibly uplifting!
Thank you! I hope my videos planned in the future will be just as inspiring :)
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Well, I think you're definitely on something. Are you already making plans for early retirement?
Thank you! I'm trying to get more into multiple streams of income. I started investing a couple years ago and for the future it would be nice to be able to monetize my youtube, and do it as my main source of income. I always wanted to be financially free but I also realized during my time being unemployed that "doing nothing" is also not really fullfilling so I'd like to make enough money to be able to volunteer, and help spread awareness about the environment, how to care for it and how to find yourself, increase producitivity etc. . Just how I do it on this RUclips channel.
I also did RUclips from being unemployed
She is so beautiful!
Thank you :)
w vid lil
Thank you 🥹🤍
What was your job before you resigned?
I was a graphic designer, then I quit to be an Aupair in the US for a year, came back, used my 6 months of being unemployed to start my youtube and figure out what I want because I didn't want to go back to doing graphic design again, and just ended up getting this job as a video editor.
What stage is it where guys pay all your bills, and you ....well....repay them some how😇
Didn't mention someone else paying my bills because that never happened. Def don't recommend living above your own income. If you can't afford it in cash rn you can't afford it and nobody else should be paying for it.
@@arcanecoral Now you have it. Whats hard is knowing what I want from what I NEED.
Wanna come here in a year and see that you no longer need to work 5/7
🥹 I would love that too, thank you for the kind words!
Good that you can afford it
I make the decision and figure out how to afford it after, it's always worked out in the end. It's a mixture of having a vision, trusting the process, embracing the failure and keep going. Everyones situation is different, but it's about working with the resources we have.
Girl I don’t agree with you , I know you might have had good intentions but it’s not the best advice, definitely not for everyone
I agree that it always depends on everyone’s individual situation and resources. My video is meant for people that feel stuck in their job. I’m just trying to demonstrate with my story that there’s always a way if there’s a will. It’s not easy but possible. The reason why most people are too scared to quit is because of the financial unknown/ lack of financial security.
My only responsibility is myself as I don’t have kids so I can’t talk about people in that situation. But I can agree to successful business owners that I met who struggled a lot financially that they had a vision, didn’t give up and put the work in. Using or creating a “struggle” by quitting your 9-5 can help you and put you ahead of so many people because you create that financial pressure.
“The bird who dares to fall is the bird who learns to fly.”
While I haven’t quit my job, my hours were drastically just cut back to 5 a week… let’s just say, this has been an opportunity for growth that I otherwise may not have had the courage to take on my own. Among other things, I just started my RUclips adventure myself. I’m so happy I stumbled onto your authentic content 💖
Except if you're an immigrant on a Visa, you don't have that freedom
I was actually an Aupair in the US on the J1 visa. Meaning i wasnt allowed to "legally" get another job to make money. I designed stickers and sold them on the street. You can do anything that you put your mind to. It's easy to always feel like you can't get out of a situation. There will always be people having an advantage compared to you but don't let that stop you from doing great things.
@@arcanecoral I meant you can't quit your job, because the Visa validity depends on the job and when you lose the job you lose the Visa
@@Dani-pf8qy I understand. I think there’s certain ways that after a specific time of having a job you would be able to quit. But depends on the country and the visa of course.
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