My mom got breast implants. My father had spoken with her beforehand, and she was supposed to get C cups. My mom secretly told the Dr to actually "install" double D's or bigger even. She looks ridiculous, lol. My dad was sooo pissed, it was hilarious! 😂 Edit: I forgot to mention that she divorced him less than a year later. He bought the implants for her future 2nd husband basically. 😂
Married and she didn't think to ask for your opinion on a huge decision, sounds like she cares nothing how you feel or your opinion, and only cares about herself and how she looks.
Is she "sprucing up" in preparation for divorcing you? When someone changes their appearance dramatically, it can be the harbinger of a change in the relationship.
Woman here, love you Bill. When I was adding this to my watch later I told my daughter what it was about and said the exact thing you said; If I fell in love with you, I fell in love with YOU for who you are, seeing a suddenly different face would be jarring as hell and I would consider divorce. I honestly believe her uncle is NOT sick and she knew exactly how her spouse would feel about it, she went to another country so they'd have no chance to stop her and she made no mention of it until the decision was irreversible. Not to mention, how weird is it to suddenly decide to get plastic surgery while caring for a terminally ill family member? This was a life altering decision which carries a risk of death under anesthesia, especially in these underlicensed clinics abroad; it should take months to make the decision, so for her to say nothing, I assume she knew exactly how they would feel about it and disregarded her partner's thoughts and feelings on the subject. It's with that in mind I feel you're absolutely right in saying he(?) can't win no matter what. Professional intervention is likely necessary because she obviously doesn't trust her partner enough to have an open and honest conversation and now the writer is stuck looking at this drastically different face on the person they love.
This isn't just about her changing her face. A large part of it was her doing something so drastic with no discussion for him to at least have some input. Was the terminally sick uncle truly the striving motivation for her trip to Thailand? This raises some serious red flags on what other important issues she would be keeping from her husband. The fact that she would consult with a perfect stranger in a foreign land before her own husband about the "necessity" of a surgical procedure conducted on her face would not only make her husband feel insulted and rejected, but also betrayed. She can't be trusted, as every time he looks at his wife, that betrayal will be as clear and present as the nose on her face.
When I was in my early 20s, my girlfriend dragged me along to her haircut appointment when we were out. I wasn't paying attention and was just reading.. When she was done, she had cut off all her beautiful hair and had this super short cut... I don't mean short for a woman, I mean almost a buzz cut. I didn't even have time to prepare/manage my surprise or anger because she's like "ready to go? What do you think?" and I must have made a disgusted face because she instantly freaks out. We broke up like a week later. It wasn't 100% because of the haircut, but honestly it played a part. Nose job is even crazier because that shit ain't growing back. Rough
My wife is also from Thailand and had a nose job. It was before we ever met and she looks really great, so I never really minded it. Although I do find plastic surgery a bit strange in general, having someone in my life who had it done, I’m not so opposed to the concept. That being said, if she did what this woman did, I’d be pissed and probably be looking to end things. Not for the surgery, but for being completely disrespectful towards me for not even having a conversation about such a big change
Regarding just the nose job - they always look bad for about a year. Once the swelling goes down and tissue remodeling occurs, she'll probably look great. Regarding the implication of the nose job - that's possibly the ice cracking beneath the marriage. Next it will be the lips and the breasts, then affairs with young Chads, then a new husband.
@@Maxisamo1 Well, we all have picadillos. I have trouble with native English speaking people who type, "for all intensive purposes." It lets me know that they have no idea how to use their native tongue and, in turn, probably don't know what they are talking about. I'm not really a "Chad" guy - I called them "Dirk Squarejaw" back in the day before the internet existed. I made that term up, though. So a lot of people wouldn't understand. Most folks, like yourself, know what "Chad" refers to, so I threw it in there. You may not like it, but you knew who/what I was talking about.
Heres how I see it. If she wanted to get a nose job without talking to her husband about it, yes. That is 100% completely her own choice, she can do with her body what she pleases. However, since she decided not to say anything at all, he has every right to be angry, and she has to come to terms with it, the same way he has to come to terms with her decision.
Easy divorce, sad but changing your nose changes the entire face. If you're not as attracted to them because of it, it will only get worse as time goes on, so fuck that. The fact she knew and did it hidden without him knowing is SO telling too.
A wife to confronts you with a fait accompli is to be avoided. And maybe her body, but the money is just as much yours as hers. Seen the expenditure a conversation is very much appropriate.
Human are driven by deep rooted insecurities and fear. Relationships are two insecure individuals that use and tolerate each other for their own selfish needs and wants all for the fear of being alone. They are all toxic on some level and narcissistically controlled by one. This is not love and this is no way to live but most and many do out of fear. Relationships are full of lies, deceit and manipulative manipulation due to hate which comes. Everything we do is out of fear. If everyone truly knew what everyone was thinking then no one would have any friends
Love is not real and ALL relationships are driven by fear and narcissistic abuse? My god, I feel really sorry for you for having the people in your life who made you see the world that way, they must have been really horrible people. I hope someday you can heal from whatever you've been through.
As someone who lives in Thailand, it's very likely that the trip wasn't really for visiting a sick uncle. It was just used as an excuse for the trip to go back to Thailand to get cheap plastic surgery. You can be sure it wasn't just the nose either. She likely got lip filler etc as well.
He has a point when he said he would have talked to her if he was to get a giant face tattoo though. I'm not saying she should've asked permission, but maybe included him in the planning. Then again, she might've done that, it seems from this that it came out of the blue to him, but we don't know whether she had ever brought it up before to him.
She's still her..... but how much of her does the husband REALLY know if she goes off and gets a nose job without even consulting him once before doing it.
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Man, if she looks like shit now and you feel like not even kissing her anymore... This relationship is dead.
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My mom got breast implants. My father had spoken with her beforehand, and she was supposed to get C cups. My mom secretly told the Dr to actually "install" double D's or bigger even. She looks ridiculous, lol. My dad was sooo pissed, it was hilarious! 😂
Edit: I forgot to mention that she divorced him less than a year later. He bought the implants for her future 2nd husband basically. 😂
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On behalf of second husbands everywhere... thank you, first husbands. Your sacrifices have not gone unnoticed.
@@eddiemalvin lol, I love it!
Married and she didn't think to ask for your opinion on a huge decision, sounds like she cares nothing how you feel or your opinion, and only cares about herself and how she looks.
Is she "sprucing up" in preparation for divorcing you? When someone changes their appearance dramatically, it can be the harbinger of a change in the relationship.
Woman here, love you Bill. When I was adding this to my watch later I told my daughter what it was about and said the exact thing you said; If I fell in love with you, I fell in love with YOU for who you are, seeing a suddenly different face would be jarring as hell and I would consider divorce.
I honestly believe her uncle is NOT sick and she knew exactly how her spouse would feel about it, she went to another country so they'd have no chance to stop her and she made no mention of it until the decision was irreversible. Not to mention, how weird is it to suddenly decide to get plastic surgery while caring for a terminally ill family member?
This was a life altering decision which carries a risk of death under anesthesia, especially in these underlicensed clinics abroad; it should take months to make the decision, so for her to say nothing, I assume she knew exactly how they would feel about it and disregarded her partner's thoughts and feelings on the subject.
It's with that in mind I feel you're absolutely right in saying he(?) can't win no matter what. Professional intervention is likely necessary because she obviously doesn't trust her partner enough to have an open and honest conversation and now the writer is stuck looking at this drastically different face on the person they love.
This was a good assessment and not one I am used to hearing because it's usually "women are always victims no matter what they do".
This sounds like it’s the tip of the iceberg. I would seriously consider if you want to pursue this relationship any further.
Uncle not even sick
There’s no uncle boy friend and her got into a fight one to the face …. And here we are
@@Ctimewiznice comment but bro use punctuation jeez
They have kids though!!!
He should also check on that "sick uncle"... im willing to bet that he's fine and curious about why you're asking...
That was my first thought 😂
This isn't just about her changing her face. A large part of it was her doing something so drastic with no discussion for him to at least have some input. Was the terminally sick uncle truly the striving motivation for her trip to Thailand? This raises some serious red flags on what other important issues she would be keeping from her husband. The fact that she would consult with a perfect stranger in a foreign land before her own husband about the "necessity" of a surgical procedure conducted on her face would not only make her husband feel insulted and rejected, but also betrayed. She can't be trusted, as every time he looks at his wife, that betrayal will be as clear and present as the nose on her face.
When I was in my early 20s, my girlfriend dragged me along to her haircut appointment when we were out. I wasn't paying attention and was just reading.. When she was done, she had cut off all her beautiful hair and had this super short cut... I don't mean short for a woman, I mean almost a buzz cut. I didn't even have time to prepare/manage my surprise or anger because she's like "ready to go? What do you think?" and I must have made a disgusted face because she instantly freaks out. We broke up like a week later. It wasn't 100% because of the haircut, but honestly it played a part. Nose job is even crazier because that shit ain't growing back. Rough
Your loved one getting a surgery without telling you is a big deal. They are definitely keeping secrets.
It’s obvious they have communication issues 😮
why he have any responsability on this? oh i know women are not adult...
My wife is also from Thailand and had a nose job. It was before we ever met and she looks really great, so I never really minded it. Although I do find plastic surgery a bit strange in general, having someone in my life who had it done, I’m not so opposed to the concept. That being said, if she did what this woman did, I’d be pissed and probably be looking to end things. Not for the surgery, but for being completely disrespectful towards me for not even having a conversation about such a big change
i was already laughing at the title
Regarding just the nose job - they always look bad for about a year. Once the swelling goes down and tissue remodeling occurs, she'll probably look great.
Regarding the implication of the nose job - that's possibly the ice cracking beneath the marriage. Next it will be the lips and the breasts, then affairs with young Chads, then a new husband.
Would agree with you until you unironically used the word "Chad", and now I can't like your comment out of pure cringe
@@Maxisamo1 Well, we all have picadillos. I have trouble with native English speaking people who type, "for all intensive purposes." It lets me know that they have no idea how to use their native tongue and, in turn, probably don't know what they are talking about. I'm not really a "Chad" guy - I called them "Dirk Squarejaw" back in the day before the internet existed. I made that term up, though. So a lot of people wouldn't understand. Most folks, like yourself, know what "Chad" refers to, so I threw it in there. You may not like it, but you knew who/what I was talking about.
Yes, she's free to make the decision. But the decision isn't free of consequence.
not having the episode its clipped from in description is criminal lmao
i think u earn a pass to get a face tatt
A temporary one that washes off, see her initial reaction.
Imagine you don't even notice
It seems like she went their specifically for that and the sick uncle was either an excuse or a lie
Bill is so on point about how she would manipulate this situation! 😡
Heres how I see it. If she wanted to get a nose job without talking to her husband about it, yes. That is 100% completely her own choice, she can do with her body what she pleases. However, since she decided not to say anything at all, he has every right to be angry, and she has to come to terms with it, the same way he has to come to terms with her decision.
This one's fuckin recent with the lovitz reference. Damn man. Rip that relationship
Easy divorce, sad but changing your nose changes the entire face. If you're not as attracted to them because of it, it will only get worse as time goes on, so fuck that. The fact she knew and did it hidden without him knowing is SO telling too.
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A wife to confronts you with a fait accompli is to be avoided. And maybe her body, but the money is just as much yours as hers. Seen the expenditure a conversation is very much appropriate.
Human are driven by deep rooted insecurities and fear. Relationships are two insecure individuals that use and tolerate each other for their own selfish needs and wants all for the fear of being alone. They are all toxic on some level and narcissistically controlled by one. This is not love and this is no way to live but most and many do out of fear. Relationships are full of lies, deceit and manipulative manipulation due to hate which comes. Everything we do is out of fear. If everyone truly knew what everyone was thinking then no one would have any friends
Love is not real and ALL relationships are driven by fear and narcissistic abuse? My god, I feel really sorry for you for having the people in your life who made you see the world that way, they must have been really horrible people. I hope someday you can heal from whatever you've been through.
If she still gives good brain, stick it out. If not, bounce.
You are right to be angry, that is not a face you loved and married any more.
There's a lot more to this story than what we're hearing here.
i takes 8months to a year to show final result of a nose job...
I commented on that up top before I saw this comment. The nose job by itself is probably a long term plus.
Muhammed, I'm shocked.
I would think a wife doing something without their husband's permission would be a capital offense in your country.
Leave her
I mean lmao
There’s not much he can do.
Confront her I guess but she can’t undo it.
Part of me thinks fuck it don’t bother.
leave her now wtf is going on
Tell her she looks bad in a small soft voice, then Ignore her for a long ass time.
Nose job in Thailand is like getting nails done, isn't it?
yeah, comparably super cheap and very common
Shes is clearly a very selfish person! Who knows what else she would be willing to do without his input.
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As someone who lives in Thailand, it's very likely that the trip wasn't really for visiting a sick uncle. It was just used as an excuse for the trip to go back to Thailand to get cheap plastic surgery. You can be sure it wasn't just the nose either. She likely got lip filler etc as well.
She's still her.
He has a point when he said he would have talked to her if he was to get a giant face tattoo though. I'm not saying she should've asked permission, but maybe included him in the planning. Then again, she might've done that, it seems from this that it came out of the blue to him, but we don't know whether she had ever brought it up before to him.
She's still her..... but how much of her does the husband REALLY know if she goes off and gets a nose job without even consulting him once before doing it.