Andrew, your timing is perfect. I was reflecting on this yesterday. I have projects that I've been procrastinating because I have terrible blockages and I feel that I'm not capable and meanwhile I watch life go by without taking "the big step" out of fear and I stay in my comfort zone without allowing myself to live my "real life". I'm going to save this video and watch it several times... thank you !
This. Helped me realise my struggles with dating have always been self-imposed. I thought I was unattractive. But I’ve literally been hiding, not even trying to put myself out there
Your videos are a gem 💎 I used to be very shy and introverted and my parents didn't like that... I pushed myself through uncomfortable situations to change and I did it, my friends forgot how shy and socially awkward I was in high school because now I'm the one who talks a lot with strangers and makes new friends all the time. We can change, the difficult part is taking that small step in a different direction
I really have listened to a lot of self help stuff but this one really hit for me. I know its not doing numbers but i hope that doesnt dissuade you from continuing this kind of content. Do you have any reccomendations for victor frankls work?
Well, firstly please don't overdose. Life can certainly be challenging but there are also so many beautiful and incredible aspects to it. If you're in a society/culture that has access to youtube, and you have enough time to watch youtube videos, I would suggest that your life isn't actually "so hard". But what is EXTREMELY hard is carrying the weight of our own belief structures. Whether that's feeling unlovable, or lost, or purposeless, or unworthy. We struggle under the weight of our own ideas of ourselves. Unless we eventually reevaluate these things and allow ourselves to put some of them down, they can form an ever increasing burden that we carry with us throughout life - and that's exhausting.
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Permitting myself to courageously define success as stepping forward into the unknown regardless of the outcome or external validation 🎉
Well said 🎉
Andrew, your timing is perfect. I was reflecting on this yesterday. I have projects that I've been procrastinating because I have terrible blockages and I feel that I'm not capable and meanwhile I watch life go by without taking "the big step" out of fear and I stay in my comfort zone without allowing myself to live my "real life". I'm going to save this video and watch it several times... thank you !
This. Helped me realise my struggles with dating have always been self-imposed. I thought I was unattractive. But I’ve literally been hiding, not even trying to put myself out there
Your videos are a gem 💎 I used to be very shy and introverted and my parents didn't like that... I pushed myself through uncomfortable situations to change and I did it, my friends forgot how shy and socially awkward I was in high school because now I'm the one who talks a lot with strangers and makes new friends all the time. We can change, the difficult part is taking that small step in a different direction
Thanks so much Andrew.
Perfect timing, thank you🙏🏻
Holy fu$@! I’m terrified and excited …
I really have listened to a lot of self help stuff but this one really hit for me. I know its not doing numbers but i hope that doesnt dissuade you from continuing this kind of content.
Do you have any reccomendations for victor frankls work?
F*%k yeah love this 💖
Thank you
I only feel good after a poop 💩
Very true
A little over expressive but amazing advice.
lol Victor Frankel came to mind instantly as I was listening, and then who do you quote?!? Victor
Why is life so hard. No wonder why people overdose.
Are you OK?
Well, firstly please don't overdose. Life can certainly be challenging but there are also so many beautiful and incredible aspects to it.
If you're in a society/culture that has access to youtube, and you have enough time to watch youtube videos, I would suggest that your life isn't actually "so hard".
But what is EXTREMELY hard is carrying the weight of our own belief structures. Whether that's feeling unlovable, or lost, or purposeless, or unworthy. We struggle under the weight of our own ideas of ourselves. Unless we eventually reevaluate these things and allow ourselves to put some of them down, they can form an ever increasing burden that we carry with us throughout life - and that's exhausting.
You're a life saver 🛟