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Three minutes in and I’m obtaining value here - Get more SELF-SUFFICIENT. - INCREASE MY VALUE and therefore BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE. Thank you very much for these mental vitamins.

Thank you so much. Really going through it after she stopped messaging back and realizing that this is exactly why. It hurts so much and I want to explain to her everything I'm feeling after this but I wonder if this is also part of that anxious attachment.

I’ve been hanging out with this girl i met at work and she has a boyfriend, which i didn’t know right away. I approached her at first to get to know her better and maybe become friends, but it grew to something more for me. I already told her i like her before finding out she has a bf, but we’re still hanging out as friends. Should i keep being with her at work and just silently act a bit colder while keeping the friendship? Or should i tell her how much i like her so that she knows why i have to let go and distance myself (but only if she tells me to. If she’s okay being friends after discussing boundaries then i would agree to do so cuz i don’t want to completely cut connections.) i know this will sound scummy, but which option would give me a higher chance later on if her current relationship doesn’t work out?

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me recently. Finding it hard to be by myself now, and having to learn how to be ok with myself. This video has helped me understand things about my self a little more.

Worst video I ever watched. You say the same shit in different ways the whole video.. u give no insight but blabbering on and on about nothing … you’re doin us a disservice

Stop fishing for approval.

Andrew great video my childhood was lonely and passed around because of my parents work and social life I think that's the reason for my insecurities I've been married to a narcissist then went into a relationship with avoident and suffered some horrible abuse but still tried to fix them and took me ages to walk away and stay in toxic relationships I've tried to heal my inner child but still fall into bad habits

The 3rd person view is real and effective. One of my favorite tools 🥰

Genuine question: does this apply when you are the one who messed up in the relationship? And want them back and fighting to get them back? is space the answer?

You got some great perspectives on no contact and Detachment that not many others are speaking like. Much appreciated.

I feel like this channel was made for me

After watching hundreds of videos on why im hurt when dating, this is the pivotal one that's actually going to make lasting change.

Easier said than done😂

fantastic video , Right On !!

I wrote this myself, “I was in a dark place in my life, but I found the light in your hand and grabbed it. It freed me from my life, but trapped you in mine” poetry has helped me a lot in understanding myself and others :)

Andrew, great content and inspiration! I am in my late 60's and still struggling all my life with all of this stuff: tough times at work, strained relationships with family, mostly in romantic life, or lack thereof...

Andrew, Thanks for this fresh persepective. I need this kind of advice now...

This is by far the best explanation of healing the inner child that I’ve ever come across. Thank you!!! So much!

oh man good video. I usually listen to one of your videos as part of my daily reflection so keep it up. you are doing amazing work.

I don't

the concept is true. this girl i like is in a relationship now so of course i’m doing no contact to not cheapen my attention. i do think she may become free at some point cuz she s just 22 now and may change her mind. but will they write first or hint somehow when they wanna see you? assuming we clearly been mutually attracted before

I know this man gives good insights, but I am so distracted by his cuteness, that I cannot even concentrate on what he is saying. ☺ I wish they would be just animated videos or something? 😅

It’s too painful to listen to when it hits home too close 🥹🥹

I needed this. I was feeling so lost and not sure what was going on. Thank you

nice!

I totally disagree 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Me and my girlfriend met 6 years ago on tinder, moved in together after 1 year, we became completely attached to eachother spent every living minute together since, we haven't fought a single time in 6 years. I never chose my friends of her and vice versa. just all day with her and nothing else. she is my soulmate and i just knew it on the first date. I was just watching pick up and spiritual videos on youtube and everything worked out. All we did was fit eachother idea of eachother, i tried to become her perfect version of me and she did too. her happiness is mine and vice versa, so we both do whatever the other says.

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The darkness of this world consumes and rapes and tortures and haunts me. I'm so lonely I could die.

We all are attatched to something or someone, “let it go” to me is a way to avoid working on the way you get attached to everything, all we are responsible for is of building healthy attachments. My opinion here is…this “philosophy” of letting go of everything is not realistic and even inhuman, people are meant to connect to others since the very beginning. But this is just my input, I totally respect yours and I am pretty sure this works for some people.

every now and then I need a reminder about these things. Thanks - you articulate very well

Are you allowed to tell your ex you are going in to no contact? When is it too late?

sure do this, just don't become avoidant. By avoiding , we protect ourselves from hurt-but in the end, we also end up losing what we longed for most. (coming from someone who had an avoidant attachment style)

This might work in Europe but not in America unless your a 6 or above. All of my friends date escorts in America and one friend goes to mexico and rhe Philippines where woman are normal

Everything he’s saying is true LMAO

This was very insightful, Andrew!

Hello! Thanks a lot for all your awesome videos. I would like to ask which cameras are you using to record all your adventures?

Thanks for this

I saw so many videos on inner child. But the way u covered it n such detail has led me to my moment of realisation. Something just clicked

All this makes me just wanna have casual sex and not care about people. Relationships with people shouldn't be this complicated, and people these days are just extremely selfish, and will NEVER care about you, the way you care about them. It's a sad, lonely world, and I sincerely hope to live in a better world one lifetime. People in this world are simply just not up to my caliber, and because of that I'm always gonna hurt.

Excellent video!

amazing video, this really helped me!

This title smells of emotional manipulation. The whole point of being complete (not needing someone) is to be someone who DOESN’T NEED TO *MAKE* SOMEONE DO ANYTHING!

This was so good

this is PHENOMENAL

don’t say ‘but’ say ‘and’

Wish my ex will return. We had ldr for 3.6 years...we had some serios fights and because evrrything gets harder, he left. He said I should also move on because his feelings are gone. 3 months passed, and I only tried few times to reconnect but he blocked me and didn't text at all

I really like your voice and the way you explain things 💯👏

What about the child who didn’t receive the care and attention, and had to figure out things for themselves?

Bro your contents are phenomenal and I’m so glad to find out that finally someone GETS ME mentally lol. Let it go is all about the acceptance, the instance you live, and being struggle but still breathing at the moment as a human being, it’s all about “whooops, i’m feeling not good as I thought before all these things happened, but you know what, it’s STILL FINE, I can bear with those shitty moments and choose to move on, AGAIN”. Greetings from across the Pacific Ocean👏👏👏

Thank you Andrew for this video 🙏 I will go and try to apply the things you said in this video Currently talking with a girl that I created this “perfect projection” of her and it hurted our relationship Everyone like this comment so I can comeback and tell how is everything going