I’m 64 and I’ve recently been wearing loafers, socks and a shorter skirt (with tights)! Oversized jacket. I always agree with you, but still wear what I fancy to stay current. I hope I look ok and get compliments!
I’m 64 as well and I’m enjoying wearing all different kinds of styles depending on how I feel when I get up. My nieces have been an influence. One is a soccer playing engineering student and the other is a ballerina attending art school. I love how what they wear is a reflection of their personalities.
That's exactly what you should do. You will notice certain things will not be as comfortable but we all make mistakes once in a while. It's part of the fun.
At 61 I’m all about wearing whatever I feel like. Couldn’t care less what anyone thinks! I’m loving loafers and socks! Maybe when u hit your 60s you’ll care less too. 😂 I’m same size 4 I’ve been for 45 yrs. So I’m all about wearing anything and everything. I’m obsessed with 60s vibes! I’m all about grunge too! ❤️Love my plaid flannel midi skirt with harness boots! 😎 I started my own RUclips channel a couple months ago. 100,000 views to date! Guess some out there agree with me. ❤️😂👍
I think most people wear what they like. Its always interesting to see what people think.For example I would wear shorts or a short skirt, but I think open shoulders and half your back showing looks cheap at a certain age. But then my friend thinks the opposite. Everyone has an opinion.
A lot of those things wouldn't be noticed and don't make a difference to anyone else. What I dislike most about the way fashion is used is it encourages us to be petty and judgy of each other.
I find that aging and the sense that I’m “unnoticed” has given be a liberal license to take much larger fashion risks than I did in my youth. It seems to communicate a sense of self awareness than doesn’t always come across with a younger person.
Love hearing your opinions. 57 is still considered young. I am going to be turning 68 next month and I am still embracing wearing loafers, but I agree that wearing short skirts and ankle socks will NOT be something I will be styling. I gave up leggings years ago, but I like the English look of wearing them tucked into a riding boot and worn with a wool blazer. I like to stick to a classic look most of the time.
Usually I am in agreement with you, but I think almost all of these trends could be worn well by women 50 and older. I think the key bit of advice you gave was that you have to make some updates and adjustments. It is wet and cold where I live right now and I am wearing chunky chelsea boots and chunky loafers on repeat. I feel that they give my preppy leaning style a little edge. I am also on the lookout for a pair of vintage Frye engineer boots. I think they will add some tension to some of my tweedy-tailored items. Finally, I love some boho touches, especially in the summer. I often wear embroidered tops or tops with a little beading. From a practical standpoint they add interest to my outfits without me needing to add layers or a bunch of jewelry. There are some gorgeous older woman on social media right now who are breaking all of these rules and looking beautiful while at it.
The good thing about fashion is you can make wardrobe mistakes. Doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. Experimenting and playing with your wardrobe is fun & fresh.
Regarding Boho. We can't all look like Stevie Nicks. I saw her in concert this year and quite frankly, it looked like it took a lot of money and effort or her to pull off. She didn't jsut pop into a thrift store and pull together an outfit. And those tresses couldn't have all been hers still. But we do love her, and her looks. But that's show biz stuff. I recently stopped dying my hair and decided to grow it out long. It was just too much upkeep. It is very curly and lots of grey. I have a vision in my head that I'd like to appear ertherial and artsy as I enter my 60's. Perhaps like a mermaid witch who reads Tarot cards, grows herbs to make tinctures and paints. However, I know I probably can't pull that off without a full on stylist to help me put outfits together. So I think that incorporating just a few boho peices into my otherwise preppy wardwrobe might be the key. In jewelry perhaps, or some sparkly eyeshadow and a fun boot and vest. Not over the top. I tend towards the monochrome look now, and try to incorporate one statement piece, like a hat, a sparkly leopard boot with a cashmere poncho. It's not quite boho unless I do big hair and a fun statement necklace or something drapey. It seems to only work for evening atire. Not practicle for daytime activities. However, those of us who are no longer worried about the male gaze or trying to impress a boss., who just want to have fun with fashion, where can we turn for examples? It is harder to pull off the trendy styles as we age . The world is less forgiving of us when we seem to sidestep our "place" in society. The younger trends are aimed at being sexy. And when we copy sexy, we get tagged as "hipsters," trying to attract, or appear cool to the younger generations. That gives way to the queston,; After a lifetime of responsibilities and pleasing our bosses, husbands, children, once the husbands have gone off with their younger partners, the kids have grown and the workplace has shoved us out the door, shouldn't we be alowed to rebel a little with our style? Can we not start our own trends? Or have we already, and we are simply being overlooked? Rather than copying the youthful trends, I would love to see more examples of older women doing their own styles and showing off our fun and unique personalities. I think some of us incorpoorate things from past decades that we enjoyed the most. The NY/Paris runway might not choose to display the older women's (and mens), styles, but certainly we can be found in the streets of ordinary places. And I'd say that we are due for more representation and our own lane in the fashion world.
Amen sister!!!! I don't want to look like I'm trying to relive my youth, but after all these years (i.e. experience) I think I am a good judge of what works for my body without looking silly. A key I found is to wear one unique piece and all the other pieces with it are classics. That way it looks like a considered choice and not your audition for a walk on role in a remake of the Brady Bunch/The Doors.
Rebel in a way that looks flattering on you. Consider opinions of professional stylists like Leonie, include a shot of self awareness and create your own look. So many designer, celebrity, or street style fashion is ugly frumpy or downright ridiculous! Don’t be a follower.
I know a lot of women who have always incorporated bits of Boho in their looks. Maybe just a few elements. If they’ve been rocking it a long time, I think it’s GREAT. If someone isn’t confident in it, it kind of goes wrong quickly.
I love shiny and metallic clothes this season, it brings me joy, I make sure to balance as well. I love, love my leopard jacket it looks so good on and is warm, it’s a classic. I grew up in NYC and we are pros at mixing highs and lows. Fashion is about fun, experimentation and coming up with your own personal style. It’s about balance, joy, fun, and most of all expressing yourself through clothes. Happy holidays 🎉🎄💕
I'm 43. I think wearing some of these trends is fine. No matter if it's trendy or classic, the look should always be intentional with details and proper grooming.
To the negative commenters- This is a professional stylist’s opinion about what is flattering vs unflattering on older women, not a civil rights or legislative forum. No one is saying you cannot wear whatever you want or look however you want. We all get that there are exceptions and also varying opinions about what is flattering. Please spare us another comment that you will wear whatever you want. Duh. Of course you will.
Boho is timeless and looks great at any age often as a single thoughtfully chosen piece worn with understated other pieces. A great flowy blouse in an ethnic print looks unique and lovely worn with a nice classic pair of jeans for example.
I mostly agree on all your suggestions 👍 my advice on the boho dressing is instead of going all out boho just tame it down a bit by adding just one or two accents of boho ., such as a belt or a funky hair scarf.
I agree with most except on the Boho. I live in an artsy town and many older women here wear Stevie Nicks style and look great. I’m planning on sewing a Boho style top to pair with jeans because I don’t want the flouncy material to overwhelm my petite frame.
100% correct on the ✔️loafers and ankle socks with skirts. Feel free to reminisce about the school uniform you wore at 12 years old, but maybe save yourself the embarrassment of walking out the door with it. Every other item is acceptable in select accessories and a modified or more simplified version of it. Thanks for the great vid 👍😊❤
Agree... I am 61 and wear most of these. It is all about how you style these items. don't wear mini skirts and loafers and boho is just not my thing...but bring the rest on. Especially will not part with my max mara teddy!
Leonie, I'm amazed that every item you brought up is a no for me also... I remember early on watching an influencer and buying into the chunky boot... I bought two pairs and ended up donating them to the thrift store after a couple of wears... I made that same mistake with a fringe suede jacket, which I donated as well... I love more of a sleek cleanline monochrome style... I want a look that appears effortless but stylist at the same time... Thank you for your wonderful videos...😊❤😊
I fully agree - german woman, 57 here. Thank you, I'm truly greatful for your confirmation of my inner thoughts. Sometimes I tend to question myself, as many women are. Now I will forget about it.
It’s all about editing and tweaking as we age. We can look current and stylish without looking like we’re playing dress up. We don’t have to give up looking good, but we don’t want to look foolish. Just like with our makeup up, we need to edit and refine as our skin inevitably changes to avoid the overdone mask look. Let’s look chic and stylish over trendy any day. Thanks for the video
I’ve incorporated Leopard into my wardrobe 30 years, plus. I agree a quality, sophisticated version is always key. In conclusion. I’ll keep wearing it. Both subtle and a little 😎❤️ at nearly 68 next week🐐♑️
I can only speak for myself, but I totally agree that some of this "second time around" dressing is tricky. As I get a bit older, I am careful to keep it classy with more classic style with a sprinkle of trends, the ones that suit me and my personal style. I love elevated athleisure and sneakers, modern jeans and a sophisticated full length wool coat with a cashmere scarf. I stick to three colors or less to keep it all less fussy. I stand with you on these opinions, Leonie!
I agree on the boho. I absolutely loved the boho style and then one day it just started to feel frumpy and no longer worked for me. Same with my cheetah, furry coat. Gave it all away. Feel better in my new era feeling comfy in my clothes
Ankle socks that match or coordinate with your sweater/jacket are gorgeous at any age. So much fun,you should try it. Your age or your height shouldn’t hold you back from trying this...just do it! You’ll love it ! I’m 70
Leone you are my go-to channel for fashion advice! You make these suggestions in a practical but gentle way :) I just picked up some short metallic silver boots that I will pair down with jeans & a white tee. Also, just picked up a 3/4 length leopard jacket, simple & not over fuzzy- think I could belt it up with a classy leather belt?? Would love to hear your thoughts or suggestions on wearing it! The boho is tricky (I'm in my 50's) but I find single pieces drawn in to a more modern fashion can work if mindful of balance. For example I have a maxi black wrap skirt with a single line of black fringe- paired with a modern white button down & boots looks very put together. Thanks for your videos!
I love all fashion videos to be in the know but honestly, this is the only video of yours that I 💯 agree with you. Age does matter & as we age, we don’t want to look like either we’re sadly clinging to our younger years or desperately trying to mimic 20 year olds.
I love the Boho ‘vibe’…I dont think the examples you showed are Boho chic, rather they are Boho exaggerated. When I think Boho I think Anthropologie and often find pieces there to get the vibe I’ve liked for a long time.
I agree with all your "no-trends", exept the Boho-one: I am 52 and in general I dress myself rather classic with neutrals and basics. But, specially in summer, I love it to play around with some boho elements, not too esagerated but just some details like a lightely bohemian summer dress or a blouse, I think that can be really chic and it's so much fun when it comes along in contrast with more polished an clean pieces. I love that mixture!
I agree with most but disagree with Boho. I remember being a teenager and being in awe of my boho art teacher who was in her 50s. I love a bit of boho. Lovely feminine flowing dresses or tops. I don't do fringing but big earrings and drapy long kimono style tops over vests and jeans. I'm there for it. Just like my art teacher! 😊 Do you! Fashion is for enjoyment and fun. Don't get bogged down by it. Rules are great if you feel a bit lost and don't know where to start, but just use them as guidlines. Xxx
Super helpful. I tend to dress too young out of laziness. I’m not the best at updating my wardrobe. Now that I’m 50 I wonder if that laziness is making me look like I’m trying too hard or trying to relive my youth. I’d much rather have that outside perspective as guidance on how I may come across when I’m wearing something too short or out of date ❤
I wish you would show examples of how we could possibly push the envelope a little by subtly incorporating the trends you suggest we stay away from (if we want to be a bit daring but not over the top tacky) while still being somewhat appropriate.theres a fine line between being trendy and stylish and looking silly because we're too old to look like we're dressing so young.
I remember my mother telling me that double-breasted jacket are unflattering because often the two top buttons coincide with where your nipples are. It's true and I never forgot it, especially if the buttons are gold, I straight away think of nipples. Double breasted jackets also make you look wider, I've always hated them so good riddance to this trend.
I have always thought the true BoHo women are born that way. It's not a style to them they just wear what they gravitate to. I love them, i want to be them, but I know that style feels forced when I try to do it.
I think you can look amazing in anything at any age if you wear it with confidence grace is one of y favourite mature women style icon's and she does it perfectly ❤
When I was a young woman, living in Seattle, I remember seeing these older women who were really stylish on the hill. They definitely had what you would call a "boho style" but it looked great. In fact, I thought that I would much rather look like these ladies as I got older than I would the more conservative women I am used to seeing. I think there are more boho type styles that look great on older women, such as wraps and ponchos, blouses with lacey cuffs or drapey sweaters. I would consider these all "boho fashion" but I think they look chic and classy on an older woman. Just my opinion...
Stopping by for the first time, honey the clothes shouldn't wear you, you wear the clothes, find your style and go for it, everyone is an expert, smh, life is too short for someone on the internet to tell me what to wear.
Good thoughts on styling... If I do metallic (I'm 53), I'll go neutral... beige, black, silver. Ralph Lauren does a sofisticated boho style that's nice. I admit, I love the 70s, early 80s style, but I try and find pieces inspired by that era. Love me some platform sandals 😆 Have a merry Christmas 🎄🎄🎄
Sound advice. I think I agreed with everything you said in this video. I love the BoHo look personally, and gravitated toward that in my 30s, 40s but stopped those looks when I turned 50. I’m more conscious, classic, and even conservative now. I think it just suits me better. Not an age thing so much but how I’ve grown as a person especially with work, new location, new hubby etc. ❤ these videos!! Really helpful and thoughtful content. I think our culture is still so impulsive about spending and fashion that I really appreciate more thoughtfulness and deliberation behind an image that we put out there.
Hi Leoni, I’ve been following u for years! I L ove this video Leoni! I’m 46 & I feel your right! I find so many stylish young ladies on here that have such great style but sometimes I think they look great on younger women but on us it makes us look older! For me it’s the classic style! Unless yr going to work, it can age us in my opinion, but like u say everyone should wear what makes them feel good and happy but that’s just my opinion on it! 😊💕😘✨🤩⭐️😍
Good morning Leonie, your trend videos are always fun to watch but it seems you opt in and out of trends very quickly. I'm 58 and petite and although I don't have your experience I think I'm quite good at spotting straight away if a trend is going to last and if it's flattering to someone in mid-life (we're not old!) For example this year I invested in a few suede jackets, bags and boots, one of the suede jackets is the exact copy of the one my Italian grandma wore in the 70s and I know I will treasure it forever (£229 from Zara, they've sold out of the brown one I bought but they've just brought it out in chic black). What I did not invest in was suede jackets with fringes, embossed logos, too boxy ones, etc. Another trend that's popular this year but that I think will go out of style very quickly is those enormous, thick, colourful (plaid) scarves, they just swamp you and are so unflattering, I prefer a faux fur scarf like Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy wore on her wool coat. I never liked any of the trends you featured in this video, and I could spot they looked cheap from the start, for example bright coloured teddy coats and shearling jackets, they just look too young, buy a dark-coloured not too voluminous faux fur coat instead to look timeless, chic and luxurious. I was never 100% convinced that wide leg jeans were good for me as I'm very petite. Eventually I bought a cheap pair from H&M. As predicted they make me look wider and they encourage overeating as they're a bit too good at disguising a bulging tummy so I suspect that after this season they're going to end up in a charity shop and it's back to my straight and bootcut jeans.
I'm 58, and if I've learned anything as I get older, it's that I am the only one who gets to tell me what I can wear, how I style My hair, & how I live. My hair reaches my butt, my front strands are bleached so I can paint them pink, turquoise or whatever color I like, I wear nose rings, mini skirts and low cut jeans. I'm not trying to be younger (I see myself in the mirror every morning, I know I'm 58) I buy the clothes that attract me (Whether they're trending or not) and live for myself, not for what others/society think/s I should do/be. The more me I am, the healthier I am.
I do wear chunky boots with wide leg trousers and it looks great. I like boho style, but not all over. The rest which Leonie shows us in this great video is nothing I can identify with.
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I agree with you on all counts, and as always there will be exceptions but overall these are insightful recommendations. I’ve always liked the boho look and for whatever reason it just doesn’t suit me, I end up looking like a mess.
Love the term "fashion time warp" because a lot of these trends mentioned are just not any better the second time around LOL. If I loved them the first time, I would definitely will wear them again like tie-dye or crochet. irregardless of season and whether they are in style or not. Because hey if we are the "invisible" generation then who cares WTF we wear right? And if I hated them the first time, not planning to revisit no matter how many times designers try to resurrect them. Could not pull off boho when I was 17 in the 70s and not gonna try now LOL.
I agree with the other styles but not with Boho. I think with Boho age is not the problem. For any age, I think Boho dresses look best on slim, tall "ballerina" type figures. As a petite senior, I personally would only wear the blouses.
I think at 55, I have finally decided that I am worth the time and effort to choose what expresses who I am. I think anyone who wants to wear a trend or something considered youthful should be free to do so. If you want to present a certain vibe, do it. Your age is irrelevant.
I feel like most of these Trends that you mention are not the most flattering to begin with. And yes, maybe you should wear them carefully, no matter what age, to not look frumpy. But on the other hand, who cares? If Grunge is your style, go for it. If you like the schoolgirl look, embrace it. It's the Person wearing the clothes who needs to feel good in it.❤
Leonie, I'm amazed that every item you brought up is a NO for me also... I remember early on watching an influencer and buying into the chunky boot... I bought two pairs and ended up donating them to the thrift store after a couple of wears... I made that same mistake with a fringe suede jacket, which I donated as well... I love more of a sleek cleanline monochrome style... I want a look that appears effortless but stylist at the same time... Thank you for your wonderful videos...😊❤😊
I understand your intention but don't agree. Our world now is so casual and most people don't have time to worry about what " goes together". I personally wear what makes me feel happy and usually don't care what others think...which is the gift of getting older. I think the key is to suit yourself when putting an outfit together and use what you have. I play with all of the trends you mention and my style is to avoid looking " classic". I don't care about looking cheap but want to look interesting. As we grow older I think comparing what different aged women wear is out of touch with real style. I think talking about adjusting your style to how you view the world as you age is a better guide.
Agree with your suggestions! May I also add duffle coats with horn toggle buttons. They’re too cute for me who’s in her 50s. Regret buying one 10 years ago😂
Softer lines no matter the age. So much better. Lol! I guess I truly do like classy presentation than harder lines & all that exposure. First impressions do count & brush up on your vocabulary. Doesn’t everyone want respect . Fashion can be fun if done with good taste. Shows you have deeper thoughts & presence & intelligence. Let’s clean up girls we don’t have to look cheap no matter what the trend! Make it classy! 🥰
Leonie, your advice is excellent as always, and your Christmas decorations are lovely. I'm 73 and have always had a classic, minimalist style, but I enjoy seeing other women who dress well, including some trends. I won't wear them and still love to see it done well on other women my age. By the way, that tweed coat is beautiful. And - you are not 67. Really?
I’m a hip 69(in my own mind) and I do think I can wear some metallic pieces and still look classy. I don’t wear a whole outfit of it, but certainly don’t object to a sequin skirt or top or a jean or pants with a nice sheen or a hint of metallic.
I did not like the legging trend the last time it was around 😜 but it sounds practical to use them in long boots, as they stay where they are supposed to be 😉
Boho softens the look and is very feminine which can be desired when you get older. I think it looks very nice at any age, but I would combine it with some modern classic/basic pieces so you don't look a copy from the sixties and stuck in time.
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I think ankle socks and loafers is not girly. Its just how people wear loafers.
I’m 64 and I’ve recently been wearing loafers, socks and a shorter skirt (with tights)! Oversized jacket. I always agree with you, but still wear what I fancy to stay current. I hope I look ok and get compliments!
If you're pulling this off, just go for it ❤
I’m 64 as well and I’m enjoying wearing all different kinds of styles depending on how I feel when I get up. My nieces have been an influence. One is a soccer playing engineering student and the other is a ballerina attending art school. I love how what they wear is a reflection of their personalities.
Same age same here!
57 here and I love my loafers!
I’m sure you look amazing!!!!
I am 33 but I hope at the age of 50+ I will still wear what I want and don’t give a f…
Good for you. But why bother watching advice videos if you don’t need any advice?
That's exactly what you should do. You will notice certain things will not be as comfortable but we all make mistakes once in a while. It's part of the fun.
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At 61 I’m all about wearing whatever I feel like. Couldn’t care less what anyone thinks! I’m loving loafers and socks! Maybe when u hit your 60s you’ll care less too. 😂 I’m same size 4 I’ve been for 45 yrs. So I’m all about wearing anything and everything. I’m obsessed with 60s vibes! I’m all about grunge too! ❤️Love my plaid flannel midi skirt with harness boots! 😎 I started my own RUclips channel a couple months ago. 100,000 views to date! Guess some out there agree with me. ❤️😂👍
Congratulations 🎉
I agree with you.❤️❤️❤️
I think most people wear what they like. Its always interesting to see what people think.For example I would wear shorts or a short skirt, but I think open shoulders and half your back showing looks cheap at a certain age. But then my friend thinks the opposite. Everyone has an opinion.
I’d love to watch your RUclips channel!
What is the name of your yt channel?
A lot of those things wouldn't be noticed and don't make a difference to anyone else. What I dislike most about the way fashion is used is it encourages us to be petty and judgy of each other.
Are you judging the judgment 😅 it's like judgment inception!
I find that aging and the sense that I’m “unnoticed” has given be a liberal license to take much larger fashion risks than I did in my youth. It seems to communicate a sense of self awareness than doesn’t always come across with a younger person.
Love hearing your opinions. 57 is still considered young. I am going to be turning 68 next month and I am still embracing wearing loafers, but I agree that wearing short skirts and ankle socks will NOT be something I will be styling. I gave up leggings years ago, but I like the English look of wearing them tucked into a riding boot and worn with a wool blazer. I like to stick to a classic look most of the time.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Usually I am in agreement with you, but I think almost all of these trends could be worn well by women 50 and older. I think the key bit of advice you gave was that you have to make some updates and adjustments. It is wet and cold where I live right now and I am wearing chunky chelsea boots and chunky loafers on repeat. I feel that they give my preppy leaning style a little edge. I am also on the lookout for a pair of vintage Frye engineer boots. I think they will add some tension to some of my tweedy-tailored items. Finally, I love some boho touches, especially in the summer. I often wear embroidered tops or tops with a little beading. From a practical standpoint they add interest to my outfits without me needing to add layers or a bunch of jewelry. There are some gorgeous older woman on social media right now who are breaking all of these rules and looking beautiful while at it.
The good thing about fashion is you can make wardrobe mistakes. Doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. Experimenting and playing with your wardrobe is fun & fresh.
Absolutely!
Best thing fo every age is choose the colors that go best w/ skin tone.
Regarding Boho. We can't all look like Stevie Nicks. I saw her in concert this year and quite frankly, it looked like it took a lot of money and effort or her to pull off. She didn't jsut pop into a thrift store and pull together an outfit. And those tresses couldn't have all been hers still. But we do love her, and her looks. But that's show biz stuff.
I recently stopped dying my hair and decided to grow it out long. It was just too much upkeep. It is very curly and lots of grey. I have a vision in my head that I'd like to appear ertherial and artsy as I enter my 60's. Perhaps like a mermaid witch who reads Tarot cards, grows herbs to make tinctures and paints. However, I know I probably can't pull that off without a full on stylist to help me put outfits together. So I think that incorporating just a few boho peices into my otherwise preppy wardwrobe might be the key. In jewelry perhaps, or some sparkly eyeshadow and a fun boot and vest. Not over the top. I tend towards the monochrome look now, and try to incorporate one statement piece, like a hat, a sparkly leopard boot with a cashmere poncho. It's not quite boho unless I do big hair and a fun statement necklace or something drapey. It seems to only work for evening atire. Not practicle for daytime activities.
However, those of us who are no longer worried about the male gaze or trying to impress a boss., who just want to have fun with fashion, where can we turn for examples? It is harder to pull off the trendy styles as we age . The world is less forgiving of us when we seem to sidestep our "place" in society. The younger trends are aimed at being sexy. And when we copy sexy, we get tagged as "hipsters," trying to attract, or appear cool to the younger generations.
That gives way to the queston,; After a lifetime of responsibilities and pleasing our bosses, husbands, children, once the husbands have gone off with their younger partners, the kids have grown and the workplace has shoved us out the door, shouldn't we be alowed to rebel a little with our style? Can we not start our own trends? Or have we already, and we are simply being overlooked? Rather than copying the youthful trends, I would love to see more examples of older women doing their own styles and showing off our fun and unique personalities. I think some of us incorpoorate things from past decades that we enjoyed the most. The NY/Paris runway might not choose to display the older women's (and mens), styles, but certainly we can be found in the streets of ordinary places. And I'd say that we are due for more representation and our own lane in the fashion world.
Amen sister!!!! I don't want to look like I'm trying to relive my youth, but after all these years (i.e. experience) I think I am a good judge of what works for my body without looking silly. A key I found is to wear one unique piece and all the other pieces with it are classics. That way it looks like a considered choice and not your audition for a walk on role in a remake of the Brady Bunch/The Doors.
Wow, yes try to give boho a chance. So fun and free to let you explore a new side of your personality! It’s fun - this from a beach FL girl!
I appreciated your thoughtful comment.
Rebel in a way that looks flattering on you. Consider opinions of professional stylists like Leonie, include a shot of self awareness and create your own look. So many designer, celebrity, or street style fashion is ugly frumpy or downright ridiculous! Don’t be a follower.
I know a lot of women who have always incorporated bits of Boho in their looks. Maybe just a few elements. If they’ve been rocking it a long time, I think it’s GREAT. If someone isn’t confident in it, it kind of goes wrong quickly.
Wearing elements of boho is definitely the key 👏🏼
I love shiny and metallic clothes this season, it brings me joy, I make sure to balance as well. I love, love my leopard jacket it looks so good on and is warm, it’s a classic. I grew up in NYC and we are pros at mixing highs and lows. Fashion is about fun, experimentation and coming up with your own personal style. It’s about balance, joy, fun, and most of all expressing yourself through clothes.
Happy holidays 🎉🎄💕
Love this comment! It's all about having fun with fashion! 😊
I'm 43. I think wearing some of these trends is fine. No matter if it's trendy or classic, the look should always be intentional with details and proper grooming.
Boho touches can be lovely for example a paisley scarf or fringed bag, but not top to toe. You can run the risk of the mad cat lady look🤣
I loved being the local mad cat lady 🐈..and other wildlife, but prefer looking a little cooler 🐨😁💛
Rofl! Single pieces paired with a modern outfit looks best imho... or at least 5 less cats of crazy lol
Totally!!!
Mad cat lady here👋 😂
Agree!
To the negative commenters-
This is a professional stylist’s opinion about what is flattering vs unflattering on older women, not a civil rights or legislative forum. No one is saying you cannot wear whatever you want or look however you want. We all get that there are exceptions and also varying opinions about what is flattering. Please spare us another comment that you will wear whatever you want. Duh. Of course you will.
Boho is timeless and looks great at any age often as a single thoughtfully chosen piece worn with understated other pieces. A great flowy blouse in an ethnic print looks unique and lovely worn with a nice classic pair of jeans for example.
I mostly agree on all your suggestions 👍 my advice on the boho dressing is instead of going all out boho just tame it down a bit by adding just one or two accents of boho ., such as a belt or a funky hair scarf.
I agree with most except on the Boho. I live in an artsy town and many older women here wear Stevie Nicks style and look great. I’m planning on sewing a Boho style top to pair with jeans because I don’t want the flouncy material to overwhelm my petite frame.
I agree. Stevie herself still dresses boho, and she is in her mid 70s.
I so agree!
It sounds like you have a great plan for a boho 👏🏼
I agree that I love boho. I live on a beach in FL and that is a common vibe!
100% correct on the ✔️loafers and ankle socks with skirts. Feel free to reminisce about the school uniform you wore at 12 years old, but maybe save yourself the embarrassment of walking out the door with it.
Every other item is acceptable in select accessories and a modified or more simplified version of it. Thanks for the great vid 👍😊❤
Thanks for watching and sharing ❤
I agree with pretty much everything! Im 68 still love fashion but do need to be careful to not go overboard
Wear it all with confidence!
Agree... I am 61 and wear most of these. It is all about how you style these items. don't wear mini skirts and loafers and boho is just not my thing...but bring the rest on. Especially will not part with my max mara teddy!
I agree 💯 with your suggestions. Fun video!
I'm so glad you liked it! 😄
I don’t like chunky loafers . I love the traditional slim classic loafers!
Always... .love it, your perspective is great
I'm so glad you liked it!
Leonie, I'm amazed that every item you brought up is a no for me also... I remember early on watching an influencer and buying into the chunky boot... I bought two pairs and ended up donating them to the thrift store after a couple of wears... I made that same mistake with a fringe suede jacket, which I donated as well... I love more of a sleek cleanline monochrome style... I want a look that appears effortless but stylist at the same time... Thank you for your wonderful videos...😊❤😊
I fully agree - german woman, 57 here. Thank you, I'm truly greatful for your confirmation of my inner thoughts. Sometimes I tend to question myself, as many women are. Now I will forget about it.
Grateful, btw ....😆
Love Boho and some 70’s chic ❤
It’s all about editing and tweaking as we age. We can look current and stylish without looking like we’re playing dress up. We don’t have to give up looking good, but we don’t want to look foolish. Just like with our makeup up, we need to edit and refine as our skin inevitably changes to avoid the overdone mask look. Let’s look chic and stylish over trendy any day. Thanks for the video
I’ve incorporated Leopard into my wardrobe 30 years, plus. I agree a quality, sophisticated version is always key.
In conclusion. I’ll keep wearing it.
Both subtle and a little 😎❤️ at nearly 68 next week🐐♑️
You've got it, keep rocking it! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I agree with that! Its not classy to dress like a college kid
I can only speak for myself, but I totally agree that some of this "second time around" dressing is tricky. As I get a bit older, I am careful to keep it classy with more classic style with a sprinkle of trends, the ones that suit me and my personal style. I love elevated athleisure and sneakers, modern jeans and a sophisticated full length wool coat with a cashmere scarf. I stick to three colors or less to keep it all less fussy. I stand with you on these opinions, Leonie!
I agree on the boho. I absolutely loved the boho style and then one day it just started to feel frumpy and no longer worked for me. Same with my cheetah, furry coat. Gave it all away. Feel better in my new era feeling comfy in my clothes
Ankle socks that match or coordinate with your sweater/jacket are gorgeous at any age. So much fun,you should try it. Your age or your height shouldn’t hold you back from trying this...just do it! You’ll love it ! I’m 70
Love this 🙌🏼
Thanks and Merry Christmas to you, dear Leonie! Love your decorations. Keep well.
Thank you and Merry Christmas to you too! ❤️
Leone you are my go-to channel for fashion advice! You make these suggestions in a practical but gentle way :) I just picked up some short metallic silver boots that I will pair down with jeans & a white tee. Also, just picked up a 3/4 length leopard jacket, simple & not over fuzzy- think I could belt it up with a classy leather belt?? Would love to hear your thoughts or suggestions on wearing it! The boho is tricky (I'm in my 50's) but I find single pieces drawn in to a more modern fashion can work if mindful of balance. For example I have a maxi black wrap skirt with a single line of black fringe- paired with a modern white button down & boots looks very put together. Thanks for your videos!
That sounds perfect Jenny!!!!!
Pretty much agree with everything you mentioned.
Yes! You nailed it!!! 😊
Thanks for watching! 🙏
Agree with all! That said I have an 80+ yr young friend--petite, creative/spiritual and on her boho sings.
For a woman who is 5’2” putting socks with skirts makes my legs look 2’ long 😂
I love all fashion videos to be in the know but honestly, this is the only video of yours that I 💯 agree with you. Age does matter & as we age, we don’t want to look like either we’re sadly clinging to our younger years or desperately trying to mimic 20 year olds.
Oof, not the leggings with stirrups as we called them in the 80's!
Yes, I completely agree with what you say about the BOHO-styling! 😊
I love the Boho ‘vibe’…I dont think the examples you showed are Boho chic, rather they are Boho exaggerated. When I think Boho I think Anthropologie and often find pieces there to get the vibe I’ve liked for a long time.
Totally agree with you. I don’t want to look cheap, a 20 year old or a call girl! Classic to modern classic for me.
Soft shoulder pads are perfect I like a slightly fitted blazer.
I agree with all your "no-trends", exept the Boho-one: I am 52 and in general I dress myself rather classic with neutrals and basics. But, specially in summer, I love it to play around with some boho elements, not too esagerated but just some details like a lightely bohemian summer dress or a blouse, I think that can be really chic and it's so much fun when it comes along in contrast with more polished an clean pieces. I love that mixture!
Presence speaks volumes!
It sure does!!!
Great video.
I'm glad you enjoyed it!
Boho Forever!
I agree with most but disagree with Boho. I remember being a teenager and being in awe of my boho art teacher who was in her 50s. I love a bit of boho. Lovely feminine flowing dresses or tops. I don't do fringing but big earrings and drapy long kimono style tops over vests and jeans. I'm there for it. Just like my art teacher! 😊 Do you! Fashion is for enjoyment and fun. Don't get bogged down by it. Rules are great if you feel a bit lost and don't know where to start, but just use them as guidlines. Xxx
Super helpful. I tend to dress too young out of laziness. I’m not the best at updating my wardrobe. Now that I’m 50 I wonder if that laziness is making me look like I’m trying too hard or trying to relive my youth. I’d much rather have that outside perspective as guidance on how I may come across when I’m wearing something too short or out of date ❤
I agree with all in this video. The boho look is hard to pull off.
I wish you would show examples of how we could possibly push the envelope a little by subtly incorporating the trends you suggest we stay away from (if we want to be a bit daring but not over the top tacky) while still being somewhat appropriate.theres a fine line between being trendy and stylish and looking silly because we're too old to look like we're dressing so young.
I remember my mother telling me that double-breasted jacket are unflattering because often the two top buttons coincide with where your nipples are. It's true and I never forgot it, especially if the buttons are gold, I straight away think of nipples. Double breasted jackets also make you look wider, I've always hated them so good riddance to this trend.
Merry Christmas Leonie. Hope you have a fab time with love and festive wishes from Debra from Mallorcaxxx
I agree to a certain extent…but the baseline is your own personal style & what you feel comfortable wearing..because then you can pull anything off!!
I have always thought the true BoHo women are born that way. It's not a style to them they just wear what they gravitate to. I love them, i want to be them, but I know that style feels forced when I try to do it.
I agree with everything you just said 🎄❤️
I think you can look amazing in anything at any age if you wear it with confidence grace is one of y favourite mature women style icon's and she does it perfectly ❤
And.Thank You for the free Skillshare link . I’m signed up ❤
You're welcome! I hope you enjoy it!
When I was a young woman, living in Seattle, I remember seeing these older women who were really stylish on the hill. They definitely had what you would call a "boho style" but it looked great. In fact, I thought that I would much rather look like these ladies as I got older than I would the more conservative women I am used to seeing. I think there are more boho type styles that look great on older women, such as wraps and ponchos, blouses with lacey cuffs or drapey sweaters. I would consider these all "boho fashion" but I think they look chic and classy on an older woman. Just my opinion...
My era was the 70”s and at age 71 I believe someone like myself can wear the boho style with ease and style because this was our time.
Stopping by for the first time, honey the clothes shouldn't wear you, you wear the clothes, find your style and go for it, everyone is an expert, smh, life is too short for someone on the internet to tell me what to wear.
Well ok, but if you dont want advice on what to wear, why spend time watching a video suggesting what you should wear?
@pamelab7235 it's a free entity, stay a wonderful weekend
Good thoughts on styling... If I do metallic (I'm 53), I'll go neutral... beige, black, silver. Ralph Lauren does a sofisticated boho style that's nice. I admit, I love the 70s, early 80s style, but I try and find pieces inspired by that era. Love me some platform sandals 😆
Have a merry Christmas 🎄🎄🎄
Sound advice. I think I agreed with everything you said in this video. I love the BoHo look personally, and gravitated toward that in my 30s, 40s but stopped those looks when I turned 50. I’m more conscious, classic, and even conservative now. I think it just suits me better. Not an age thing so much but how I’ve grown as a person especially with work, new location, new hubby etc. ❤ these videos!! Really helpful and thoughtful content. I think our culture is still so impulsive about spending and fashion that I really appreciate more thoughtfulness and deliberation behind an image that we put out there.
Thank you! I hate Jaguar leopard print!
Thx for sharing
Totally agree with you 👍
Thank you.
Hi Leoni, I’ve been following u for years! I L ove this video Leoni! I’m 46 & I feel your right! I find so many stylish young ladies on here that have such great style but sometimes I think they look great on younger women but on us it makes us look older! For me it’s the classic style! Unless yr going to work, it can age us in my opinion, but like u say everyone should wear what makes them feel good and happy but that’s just my opinion on it! 😊💕😘✨🤩⭐️😍
I’m 57 too. I think we should wear what makes us happy.
Leoni, I love those pants of yours! They are fabulous.
Thank you 🙏
Age is just a nimber, wear what you love and feel faboulous in!
Im always here watching you. I just now notice. Why is there a bathtub in your living room? I'm curious.
This is a studio I film in sometimes so not my living room lol 😜 😂
@Thestyleinsider. That's what I thought. I just had to ask, I thought its a new thing😄
Definitely don’t like BOHO for me-
Me either. I tried it & I feel uncomfortable wearing that style.
Boho ,done correctly,can make you look wonderfully eccentric and beautiful
It definitely can if you're confident with it! 😉
Is that a bath tub in your living room? Beautiful room😃🌟❤️🎄
Good morning Leonie, your trend videos are always fun to watch but it seems you opt in and out of trends very quickly. I'm 58 and petite and although I don't have your experience I think I'm quite good at spotting straight away if a trend is going to last and if it's flattering to someone in mid-life (we're not old!) For example this year I invested in a few suede jackets, bags and boots, one of the suede jackets is the exact copy of the one my Italian grandma wore in the 70s and I know I will treasure it forever (£229 from Zara, they've sold out of the brown one I bought but they've just brought it out in chic black). What I did not invest in was suede jackets with fringes, embossed logos, too boxy ones, etc.
Another trend that's popular this year but that I think will go out of style very quickly is those enormous, thick, colourful (plaid) scarves, they just swamp you and are so unflattering, I prefer a faux fur scarf like Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy wore on her wool coat. I never liked any of the trends you featured in this video, and I could spot they looked cheap from the start, for example bright coloured teddy coats and shearling jackets, they just look too young, buy a dark-coloured not too voluminous faux fur coat instead to look timeless, chic and luxurious.
I was never 100% convinced that wide leg jeans were good for me as I'm very petite. Eventually I bought a cheap pair from H&M. As predicted they make me look wider and they encourage overeating as they're a bit too good at disguising a bulging tummy so I suspect that after this season they're going to end up in a charity shop and it's back to my straight and bootcut jeans.
I'm 58, and if I've learned anything as I get older, it's that I am the only one who gets to tell me what I can wear, how I style My hair, & how I live.
My hair reaches my butt, my front strands are bleached so I can paint them pink, turquoise or whatever color I like, I wear nose rings, mini skirts and low cut jeans. I'm not trying to be younger (I see myself in the mirror every morning, I know I'm 58) I buy the clothes that attract me (Whether they're trending or not) and live for myself, not for what others/society think/s I should do/be. The more me I am, the healthier I am.
I do wear chunky boots with wide leg trousers and it looks great. I like boho style, but not all over.
The rest which Leonie shows us in this great video is nothing I can identify with.
Good advice 😊but couldn’t help noticing the bath in the background ,seems odd place for a bath 😂😂😂
This is a studio I film some of my vids in so I def don’t have a bath in my living room 😂😂😂
Ok Just so you know , Sorry if I offended you , wasn’t my intention ,it made me chuckle . You have a great space there to film in 🤗
Me encanta la moda ,sin importar la edad ;lo verdaderamente relevante es que sea comoda ,armonica , que se nos vea 😊😊😊
Shiny pieces are often intended with a little tongue-in-cheek. This week, make your intentions clear by styling with a red and white Santa hat. This is the week to wear your collection of sequin vests and satin button-ups in the context of last minute shopping, delivering end-of-year-tips, wrapping presents, decorating cookies and come-as-you-are cocktail pop-ups. Or if you're Nordic, glög parties. If you're not into pickled fish and glög, substitute with Irish coffee or hot cocoa and schnapps. Perhaps more important to your sense of personal style is a sense of humor, good humor, generosity, kindness and a twinkle in your eye. ❤️🎄❤️🧑🎄
I agree with you on all counts, and as always there will be exceptions but overall these are insightful recommendations. I’ve always liked the boho look and for whatever reason it just doesn’t suit me, I end up looking like a mess.
Love the term "fashion time warp" because a lot of these trends mentioned are just not any better the second time around LOL. If I loved them the first time, I would definitely will wear them again like tie-dye or crochet. irregardless of season and whether they are in style or not. Because hey if we are the "invisible" generation then who cares WTF we wear right? And if I hated them the first time, not planning to revisit no matter how many times designers try to resurrect them. Could not pull off boho when I was 17 in the 70s and not gonna try now LOL.
I agree with the other styles but not with Boho. I think with Boho age is not the problem. For any age, I think Boho dresses look best on slim, tall "ballerina" type figures. As a petite senior, I personally would only wear the blouses.
I think at 55, I have finally decided that I am worth the time and effort to choose what expresses who I am. I think anyone who wants to wear a trend or something considered youthful should be free to do so. If you want to present a certain vibe, do it. Your age is irrelevant.
Boho could be worn many different ways, and with a variety of different textures, clothing pieces, shoes, bags, etc, etc.🫠😉
I feel like most of these Trends that you mention are not the most flattering to begin with. And yes, maybe you should wear them carefully, no matter what age, to not look frumpy. But on the other hand, who cares? If Grunge is your style, go for it. If you like the schoolgirl look, embrace it. It's the Person wearing the clothes who needs to feel good in it.❤
Leonie, I'm amazed that every item you brought up is a NO for me also... I remember early on watching an influencer and buying into the chunky boot... I bought two pairs and ended up donating them to the thrift store after a couple of wears... I made that same mistake with a fringe suede jacket, which I donated as well... I love more of a sleek cleanline monochrome style... I want a look that appears effortless but stylist at the same time... Thank you for your wonderful videos...😊❤😊
I understand your intention but don't agree. Our world now is so casual and most people don't have time to worry about what " goes together". I personally wear what makes me feel happy and usually don't care what others think...which is the gift of getting older. I think the key is to suit yourself when putting an outfit together and use what you have. I play with all of the trends you mention and my style is to avoid looking " classic". I don't care about looking cheap but want to look interesting. As we grow older I think comparing what different aged women wear is out of touch with real style. I think talking about adjusting your style to how you view the world as you age is a better guide.
Agree with your suggestions! May I also add duffle coats with horn toggle buttons. They’re too cute for me who’s in her 50s. Regret buying one 10 years ago😂
It seems like the golden rule for when you’re over 50 is wear what you want to feel good in BUT don’t look like you’re trying too hard to look 25.
Softer lines no matter the age. So much better. Lol! I guess I truly do like classy presentation than harder lines & all that exposure. First impressions do count & brush up on your vocabulary. Doesn’t everyone want respect . Fashion can be fun if done with good taste. Shows you have deeper thoughts & presence & intelligence. Let’s clean up girls we don’t have to look cheap no matter what the trend! Make it classy! 🥰
We used to wear the stirrup under the foot inside the shoe. You wouldn’t put it outside of the shoe as it would dirty the fabric 😅
Leonie, your advice is excellent as always, and your Christmas decorations are lovely. I'm 73 and have always had a classic, minimalist style, but I enjoy seeing other women who dress well, including some trends. I won't wear them and still love to see it done well on other women my age. By the way, that tweed coat is beautiful. And - you are not 67. Really?
Totally agree about the loafers and socks makes you look like your trying to hold on to your youth when your over 50.
If I’m going to yoga class I’m wearing my normal leggings with a bit of the ankle showing. 😊
I gasped at shiny ✨ 😅
EEEK! Me too x
I’m a hip 69(in my own mind) and I do think I can wear some metallic pieces and still look classy. I don’t wear a whole outfit of it, but certainly don’t object to a sequin skirt or top or a jean or pants with a nice sheen or a hint of metallic.
Bronze or platinum would probably work best for over 50.
I did not like the legging trend the last time it was around 😜 but it sounds practical to use them in long boots, as they stay where they are supposed to be 😉
Boho softens the look and is very feminine which can be desired when you get older. I think it looks very nice at any age, but I would combine it with some modern classic/basic pieces so you don't look a copy from the sixties and stuck in time.