But we Kenyans from the coast like Kiswahili and view our upcountry compatriots as suffering colonial hungover or luck self-esteem in not mastering an African language.
Some of us are praying to cross path with a reserved and handsome gentleman like him...but they are very fewer while others are walking away.... Anway *only the wearer of the shoes know where its pinching...* Congratulations on your co-parenting...
Respectable man sorry about what happened hope God grants you true happiness ,you deserve to be loved and appreciated ...may God almighty intervene mightily 🙏🙏
I'll never forget when my son stared into my eyes after loosing my kids to a wife who ran way with. Even though we were all back in the same house again, he could see the worry and sadness in my eyes, it made me cry many times afterwards thinking of if I'd lose them again (never in front of him).
I am learning a lot from this video so much . Marriage is work and its two people who are flawed and need mercy. A re-bound sometimes is never real its just a re-bound and will probably crash if a individual has not worked on themselves. May the Lord bless you Sir and heal you
I respect this man. This is one side of the story. Heard from this discussion him saying he equally was planning a divorce against the wife. Anyways looks like they were both done. Happy they have moved on. Women are often committed to a point where when they decide they are done they will do everything to move on. Blessings to this man and his children....
That man is reasonable, he needs a reasonable woman like me. I am separated with my family because of the malice, ego, of a man. He even denies me access to my kids… I found a job in the USA and it was a relief since I was not able to make it in Kenya. I was to take my whole family plus him but he refused to cooperate…. He took me to court for no reason. … To cut it short … I had attained green card for us all. I am a working professional in the USA Who can decline such an offer? One day I will be happy….. Am single and ready to mingle!
What I have come to learn is that marriage is spiritual and thus when you get married without awakening you will find that you wanted some part to be filled by other person which only God can fill. I think what he's calling different core values is actually awakening to higher self and you don't know how to fight for the real thing. Until you understand what God has joined together no man put asunder you will know that you fight spiritual forces that interput your life not physical battles. Another thing don't fix God into your choices when you have not involved in the beginning and if you desire so let him build from scratch
1.Change of expectations. 2.Different core values ( affects how you communicate and behave). Surely this summarizes the reasons for marriage ending and in my opinion relationships in general.
Am in that state too and I feel you bro and I will be the happiest man when I will see my daughters in law to my two teenage boys asking me how did you make it dad.
Its not easy my brother ...I pray to be a good mother in-law to my son's wives,. My ex husband is a very good man but I can't tell what really happened he changed like animal and became womanizer...
Hmmh.... Nice 👍 I like the way the man has allowed the mum to have access to the children I mean that all we need in this world .. understanding besides our difference
Lord help us all and He can give us all the wisdom to move on. I may be wrong but could it be that your ex became careful and tactical after you asked her for divorce two years ago. Many people talk about male ego as if women sometimes have no pride in them. In fact at a point, I began to think there must be something like female ego. When a woman feels rejected, her ego can rise up and cause her to find a way before she gets dumped. Thank you for sharing your story sir, I admire and appreciate you. I pray both of you know the Lord Jesus. He is coming soon❤💖💗🧡💙💜💞💕
This is one subject we discuss casually but in reality it's one of the most painful! Went through it @ 27, 2 lovely kids in the equation! Now @ 57 I still feel the "HEAVY DENT"! Pls discard this RUBBISH OF MEN DON'T FEEL A THING!
Once you mention the 'D' word in a marriage and God is not the centre of it..boom..the devil runs away with it..marriage was built to last but some just want out once they jump into the ship..Divorce happens even before it manifests in the physical..what happened to compromise? Also a man needs to protect, provide and profess his love for his woman!! What he used to do initially in the relationship..If he is not doing any of this it eats him and sees himself less of a man..eventually leaves..women can detect things from miles away...
This man is very dubious. He doesn't say what causes the divorce. Going round and round without giving a clear answer of the questions that was asked. He is older than her, so he wants to control her, like a child. You never know what you have until you lost it.
@@KingofZamunda. Different core values for 20 years? This is hard to believe since he mentioned that they dated for 2 years. He also kept accusing the ex-wife. Marriage doesn't just break down, and both of them contributed to divorce.
@@diplomatdiplomat2800 I get where he is coming from, as a man maybe his naivety was to think that the wife was going to change. And that never happened. And i agree with you , it was both sides that sunk the marriage ship
People are passing through tough things bro take ♥ your story is almost mine because it's was two weeks to my wedding and the man change his mind he use to cry alot and ask him what is the problem he would keep guit I was heart broken till today I don't want any man in my life it's painful I understand you may GOD help you
@@janeachieng1691 take heart my sister. Every Eve has an Adam. Maybe he wasn't the one. Don't judge life by one person. There are 2 billion other Adam's. Let yours locate you and don't give up
Divorce is painful regardless of the reason especially if you have been married for many years . I can relate : when asking for help and your partner doesn’t want to participate in getting help .
@@iannprincejumah You seem to be tagging everyone. Let me introduce you to an important person you can tag on. His name is Jesus Christ and He is interested in having a loving relationship with you. Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Please consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and personal Savior ♥️♥️
Ha ha my dear if you was loving and kind she would NOT have left you if you were giving her love she would not have left you for love am talking from my experience.
The lesson in this wanjala is did u take time to ask her why she left ? Or she had to conform to ur ideals ? U said u stick to ur core values, marriage is about sharing compromising and accepting ur partner as an individual and not to be defined by the marriage.
The woman is working hard to secure of her children abroad and you are talking unnecessary things. You wanted divorce two years before, so the woman had to look for plan B. Which worked better for her. Most African men ,only wish to divorce a woman and see her miserable. You could not easily move on bc the woman was financially stable, so you could not challenge her with your side chick's period. This should continue to teach African men a lesson, that we are in the 21st century.
Kenyans, I really like your accent of English, very educated people, wish to visit the country.. Lots of love from SA
Love you back girl. You're most welcome 🙂
Yes beautiful country, many good people. I grew up there as a Ugandan.
Welcome to Kenya
We love you right back
But we Kenyans from the coast like Kiswahili and view our upcountry compatriots as suffering colonial hungover or luck self-esteem in not mastering an African language.
Some of us are praying to cross path with a reserved and handsome gentleman like him...but they are very fewer while others are walking away.... Anway *only the wearer of the shoes know where its pinching...* Congratulations on your co-parenting...
Nice talk! The man's reasoning is super.
Men hurt if they are left not if they are the ones who leave.
Respectable man sorry about what happened hope God grants you true happiness ,you deserve to be loved and appreciated ...may God almighty intervene mightily 🙏🙏
Well said 👍 Yah's interventions please.😇🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'll never forget when my son stared into my eyes after loosing my kids to a wife who ran way with.
Even though we were all back in the same house again, he could see the worry and sadness in my eyes, it made me cry many times afterwards thinking of if I'd lose them again (never in front of him).
I pray such a humble man to locate me
AMEN
On his way lol
I am learning a lot from this video so much . Marriage is work and its two people who are flawed and need mercy. A re-bound sometimes is never real its just a re-bound and will probably crash if a individual has not worked on themselves. May the Lord bless you Sir and heal you
He didn't have a Job by then, and remember for most women, nothing goes on without rent!!! No romance without finance 🐱🐱🐱.
That was the reason. So painful.
I respect this man. This is one side of the story. Heard from this discussion him saying he equally was planning a divorce against the wife. Anyways looks like they were both done. Happy they have moved on. Women are often committed to a point where when they decide they are done they will do everything to move on. Blessings to this man and his children....
You are one in a million you are a really gentleman... I wish you can locate me we are sailing in the same boat.
That man is reasonable, he needs a reasonable woman like me.
I am separated with my family because of the malice, ego, of a man. He even denies me access to my kids…
I found a job in the USA and it was a relief since I was not able to make it in Kenya. I was to take my whole family plus him but he refused to cooperate…. He took me to court for no reason. …
To cut it short … I had attained green card for us all.
I am a working professional in the USA
Who can decline such an offer?
One day I will be happy…..
Am single and ready to mingle!
Ooh we go through a lot in life😢hugs mumy🌹can you connect me to eny job their in US plss🙏🙏
All the best
Helo Lilian. I pray that God will heal and restore your life in an amazing way.
Ooh my gal ,,so sorry about that...may the lord heal you
Girl I love your attitude!
Men also get hurt.I remember how Benny Hinn was hurt but thank God he and his wife Susana got remarried.
He was the one who cheated on his wife
Unaona mtu amevaa suti ako smart anaongea pole pole lakini kwa nyumba
😂😂😂So true
Truth, such are the worst 😏
Turuuuu
What I have come to learn is that marriage is spiritual and thus when you get married without awakening you will find that you wanted some part to be filled by other person which only God can fill.
I think what he's calling different core values is actually awakening to higher self and you don't know how to fight for the real thing.
Until you understand what God has joined together no man put asunder you will know that you fight spiritual forces that interput your life not physical battles.
Another thing don't fix God into your choices when you have not involved in the beginning and if you desire so let him build from scratch
Thanks
Such a gentleman his so reserved I like him how can he be reached
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😝👏👏👏Ana achua na wewe ume ngoja.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤪🤪
He divorces when the replacement is at the door
Mhhhh will be different
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
He's got a nice voice
1.Change of expectations.
2.Different core values ( affects how you communicate and behave).
Surely this summarizes the reasons for marriage ending and in my opinion relationships in general.
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Men hurt so much silently and it kills them slowly.women are loud and will talk about it and play the victim.
May God help you find love again.
Chances are, this man was not loving on his wife, it doesn't matter what is happening in a married, intimacy and connection could bind a couple.
Am in that state too and I feel you bro and I will be the happiest man when I will see my daughters in law to my two teenage boys asking me how did you make it dad.
Its not easy my brother ...I pray to be a good mother in-law to my son's wives,. My ex husband is a very good man but I can't tell what really happened he changed like animal and became womanizer...
This is Geofre the leaderof epic at CITAM clay city
Wow such a lovely man .
Hmmh.... Nice 👍 I like the way the man has allowed the mum to have access to the children I mean that all we need in this world .. understanding besides our difference
My eyes are teary already. So 😔
God will provide a way out for you..
Your story resonates so much with mine
Very intelligent conversations! Welldone from 🇳🇬 Nigeria.
Mhhhhhhm💔
Lord help us all and He can give us all the wisdom to move on. I may be wrong but could it be that your ex became careful and tactical after you asked her for divorce two years ago. Many people talk about male ego as if women sometimes have no pride in them. In fact at a point, I began to think there must be something like female ego. When a woman feels rejected, her ego can rise up and cause her to find a way before she gets dumped. Thank you for sharing your story sir, I admire and appreciate you. I pray both of you know the Lord Jesus. He is coming soon❤💖💗🧡💙💜💞💕
This is one subject we discuss casually but in reality it's one of the most painful! Went through it @ 27, 2 lovely kids in the equation! Now @ 57 I still feel the "HEAVY DENT"! Pls discard this RUBBISH OF MEN DON'T FEEL A THING!
Its been seven years for me.It was painful at first but what I like most is am closer to God now.He's my beautifier.
The children agreeing to stay with u means u were a good Dad and I guess husband.
Today it's about sex and money sad world ....love is the 3rd wheel
No my friend, there's Jesus who keeps different people committed to their cows. Despite their differences.
May GOD heal you speadily Mr. Wanjala.
Oh God! This man is so humble and intelligent. May God give him a good woman who will be there for him and the children.
Indeed may he be blessed
I too am I that stage and forsure it's one of the most difficult moment in life.
So sorry, I'm sure marriage is hard. Only you understand what you are going through.
My dear brother lwanga we are battling with similar problems of divorce but God is faithful 🙏 give it time
I wish I could get in touch with your two guests.Lord you are faithful.
Hello Margaret, Yes, God Is faithful. I went through that twice but God Is faithful.
V
My perfect much,Tamima connect me with the man
Im divorced , when you are ready for it no pain.
Nothing can replace peace of mind in abundance. Solution to a dysfunctional marriage. 💃💃💃😎
Of coz it’s painful for 1partner who doesn’t want,always in divorce u find that 1partner is still in love
Very true!
I can attest that peace of mind is all that a person needs.
Once you mention the 'D' word in a marriage and God is not the centre of it..boom..the devil runs away with it..marriage was built to last but some just want out once they jump into the ship..Divorce happens even before it manifests in the physical..what happened to compromise? Also a man needs to protect, provide and profess his love for his woman!! What he used to do initially in the relationship..If he is not doing any of this it eats him and sees himself less of a man..eventually leaves..women can detect things from miles away...
Very difficult time.
Ooh my, the devil is the one qho breaks family. But at least that was a peaceful divorce
Strange thing is I love my boyfriend but I don't feel like marriage is necessarily.
What a gentleman 👏.
love this woman!
This man is very dubious. He doesn't say what causes the divorce. Going round and round without giving a clear answer of the questions that was asked. He is older than her, so he wants to control her, like a child. You never know what you have until you lost it.
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bro, they had different core values, he answered.
@@KingofZamunda. Different core values for 20 years? This is hard to believe since he mentioned that they dated for 2 years. He also kept accusing the ex-wife. Marriage doesn't just break down, and both of them contributed to divorce.
@@diplomatdiplomat2800 I get where he is coming from, as a man maybe his naivety was to think that the wife was going to change. And that never happened.
And i agree with you , it was both sides that sunk the marriage ship
@Ukpon Don't bring your marriage frustrations here.
Watch "A match made in heaven" by Jon corson
Why u do so sir God bless u
A quarter of a decade ago would be two and a half years ago.. I’m confused by the timelines here?!
,,25 yrs.
People are passing through tough things bro take ♥ your story is almost mine because it's was two weeks to my wedding and the man change his mind he use to cry alot and ask him what is the problem he would keep guit I was heart broken till today I don't want any man in my life it's painful I understand you may GOD help you
He meant a quarter of a century ago
@@janeachieng1691 take heart my sister. Every Eve has an Adam. Maybe he wasn't the one. Don't judge life by one person. There are 2 billion other Adam's. Let yours locate you and don't give up
Divorce is painful regardless of the reason especially if you have been married for many years . I can relate : when asking for help and your partner doesn’t want to participate in getting help .
Wise man
Wooooieee,sounds sad waiting
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@@iannprincejumah You seem to be tagging everyone. Let me introduce you to an important person you can tag on. His name is Jesus Christ and He is interested in having a loving relationship with you. Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Please consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and personal Savior ♥️♥️
She needs to work on the questioning process and be more precise.
Ha ha my dear if you was loving and kind she would NOT have left you if you were giving her love she would not have left you for love am talking from my experience.
The lesson in this wanjala is did u take time to ask her why she left ? Or she had to conform to ur ideals ? U said u stick to ur core values, marriage is about sharing compromising and accepting ur partner as an individual and not to be defined by the marriage.
This woman was playing you games with another man coz first he never took the kids & second she got married immediately after divorce same day.
She
Wanjala oli wae
Some women 😔
Have you heard her story?
@@ewm4266 Sometimes is hard for sure
The woman is working hard to secure of her children abroad and you are talking unnecessary things.
You wanted divorce two years before, so the woman had to look for plan B. Which worked better for her.
Most African men ,only wish to divorce a woman and see her miserable.
You could not easily move on bc the woman was financially stable, so you could not challenge her with your side chick's period.
This should continue to teach African men a lesson, that we are in the 21st century.
No century will change marriage principles. They are changeless and eternal.