A sincere man will close the tabs he has opened after finding the one 😊and if he keeps searching after getting you just know he's a no way go zone 😁. Thank you sir❤️
6yrs ago I went through this reality checked in after I said yes, meynnnn the guy had issues and when I asked that we postpone the wedding till we were both ready for marriage, he refused. I just opted out! He was furious but I knew I was safe. Thanks Benjamin always 🙏🏽
Toxic relationships are not only Love relationships. Narc's also prey on even friendships and work...colleagues especially when they are in a senior position.
Benjamin Zulu is a bundle of wisdom!! Kai!! The last point got me. Wow! One truly has to be very observant before saying I do. Must people overlook a man with drive.
So true Mr Benjamin, that is why l am waiting and looking to go the right part. Some time you are just afraid to trust a man but your wisdom is teaching us alot.
Just reminded me some guy could always say he hate me for no reason only to realize he never owns up his mistake and he wonders how I do it everytime he tries to pin me down
Aiyaiiii just learned that one needs to be cautious when one comes saying they know what they want... Don't want to waste time... When the deal is too good....
@@binzarililian4289 me too😢 wish to know u more atleast we will understand each other ju people hardly understand such situations of living with narcissist who started as an angel in a hurry to marry
I once told a guy before i date him we build the relationship based on friendship and getting to know each other(courtship),,,he said we wont be friends either and that cant happen coz hizo ni vitu za kitambo inshort he wanted the relationship to just go with the flow😂😂,,its when i realized the guy was a narcissist ,,only wanted benefits quickly without following the processs to build the relationship 😂😢😢😢😢
I just blocked one today I told him the same that we should know each other fast at least for 6months he told me that I'm giving him conditions ilblocked his ass 😂😂😂😂
"Wen you are honest,your intuition is very sensitive to insincererity ",,,so true
This 💯
A sincere man will close the tabs he has opened after finding the one 😊and if he keeps searching after getting you just know he's a no way go zone 😁. Thank you sir❤️
Good one!
“Intuition is your smoke alarm”
6yrs ago I went through this reality checked in after I said yes, meynnnn the guy had issues and when I asked that we postpone the wedding till we were both ready for marriage, he refused. I just opted out! He was furious but I knew I was safe. Thanks Benjamin always 🙏🏽
This was a very smart move and mature of you.
Weakness attracts weakness and strength attracts strength, change your vibration to positive and you will attract a peaceful person
@@NabukwangwaKisakaAlso broken people attract broken people hence misery
Toxic relationships are not only Love relationships. Narc's also prey on even friendships and work...colleagues especially when they are in a senior position.
It's better to have broken engagements than broken marriage thanks Lilly❤
Compare a man with himself......hmmmm, where was he 3 years ago. Don't marry a stagnated person. Serious Word!
If you do not want pain, follow the process. PROCESS, is your friend
Cheiiiiii this has saved me a whole lot... I don't want to end up being the man because of a stagnated individual ❤
Benjamin Zulu is a bundle of wisdom!! Kai!! The last point got me. Wow! One truly has to be very observant before saying I do. Must people overlook a man with drive.
Thanks Benjamin. I am always learning daily from you. This is so encouraging.
Happy to hear that!
So true Mr Benjamin, that is why l am waiting and looking to go the right part. Some time you are just afraid to trust a man but your wisdom is teaching us alot.
Beware of church people too, do due diligence and follow your intuition. Some are looking for anchors ⚓
Follow your heart and Carry your brain with you
Just reminded me some guy could always say he hate me for no reason only to realize he never owns up his mistake and he wonders how I do it everytime he tries to pin me down
Very very enlightening
Keep your intuition alive is your friend
Keep the marriage package sealed.
Being with pretender lier man ni gharama but listening to banjamin zulu is like bringing light into darkness
Lily is so pretty and well spoken. Well done 🎉
Nothing to offer, nothing to loose
You just described my circumstances, all of it 😢
I call them demonised human beings, broken people break others.
This man is speaking senses ,be blessed 🙏
This man has got wisdom wuee
He also does a lot of reading.
Thank you both for this wonderful episode. So much to learn 🙏
“You don’t buy a car long distance” 😮
Repair begins at awareness
Bz thanks the distance between want and do it has enlightened me
Ijust blocked one today a 45 years divorcee asking me to send him photis when itold him im above that he got mad at me 😂😂😂😂
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Ive learnt here today on point with every word👏👏👏
Benjamin
God bless you sir!
Aiyaiiii just learned that one needs to be cautious when one comes saying they know what they want... Don't want to waste time... When the deal is too good....
I fell for this😢
@@binzarililian4289 me too😢 wish to know u more atleast we will understand each other ju people hardly understand such situations of living with narcissist who started as an angel in a hurry to marry
I almost fell for this thank God I didn't 😢
Zulu oozing wisdom, God bless you sir
They can not be consistent 🤝
Thanks Benjamin,on point
I once told a guy before i date him we build the relationship based on friendship and getting to know each other(courtship),,,he said we wont be friends either and that cant happen coz hizo ni vitu za kitambo inshort he wanted the relationship to just go with the flow😂😂,,its when i realized the guy was a narcissist ,,only wanted benefits quickly without following the processs to build the relationship 😂😢😢😢😢
Thats what lend me to this mess that am in now.. i regret every day for not following my heart warning me.
Exactly
@@newlymade.8774im sorry hey
@@newlymade.8774me too 😢
I just blocked one today I told him the same that we should know each other fast at least for 6months he told me that I'm giving him conditions ilblocked his ass 😂😂😂😂
This is very true, I love this, keep your intuition a live
Good advice but too much laugh can't understand the content..
The accuracy of this video is tops
Wueh,"dating lasting longer than marriage.."😂😢
I wish I could listen to this before settling 😢
It is never to take a U-turn if you feel like all isn't well
@@faith25471i nid this too
Thank you sir for this great insight.very inspiring
the information about the narc is true..... I when through that last year...
Weah earth is hard sir😁we didn’t know oh
So much wisdom
I got these at the right time,thank you sir i will never ignore your wise words
A "salvage vehicle!"
Preach Zulu
Thank you sir.
😂😂😂😂he's 27 and was married for 5 years with two children.
😂😂😂😂,b careful or either you will b the next.
Thank you
May you live long Benjamin Zulu
Hello Benjamin am a Kenyan bt am in Bahrain but u would like to get that book how will it reach to me pliss🙏
www.benjaminzuluglobal.com
1k is not 8 dollars love. It's about 15.
aai wewe unaongelea .. in 1990.. 8 dollars is 1200
Wisdom. Can I get soft copy of the books please?
That makes the two of us
Yes, visit www.benjaminzuluglobal.com
HOW CAN I GET THAT BOOK PLEASE
www.benjaminzuluglobal.com
👌💫
Omg 😢
I love you Lilly 🥰🥰
Benjamin my piriton
Wow....This was so timely. Thank you Benjamin for the gems.
Keep your intuition alive, it cant fail you
Sound sound please