1. Oil hair the night before. Uses OG coconut oil which contains silicone. 2. When she uses K18, she doesn’t oil the night before. 3. Uses a scalp treatment like one that has salicylic acid. Massage in. 4. Comb hair before shampooing it. Olivia garden styler brush ( the wet brush was out of stock at Ulta). 5. Use a hard water filter on shower head to prevent brass. Doesn’t use a purple shampoo. 6. Wet hair a lot. 7. Uses K18 shampoo that she was sent for their launch. They have a low ph, the lowest she’s ever seen. 8. Emulsify shampoo in hands. 9. Massage shampoo in sections. 10. Washes every 7 days. 11. When she uses K18, she doesn’t use a pre shampoo oil and uses a clarifying shampoo. Then towel dries hair before applying. Emulsify the product and scrunch it in from the bottom up. Leave for 4 mins. 12. Wet hair and apply conditioner.
My hair has been my biggest insecurity for the past few years. I deal with PCOS, and hair loss is one of the symptoms I have. My hair used to be so sleek, soft and shiny. Now it’s brittle and I have lost a lot of it. Coming across your channel has completely changed my hair. I’m incorporating as many tips as possible and it has become soft and shiny again. I cannot thank you enough. Your tips are not the only reason I watch. You seem like you wouldn’t judge anyone for their hair or skin issues. ❤️
Speak to your doctor on how to help regulate your hormones. They may suggest medication, a specific healthy diet and exercise. PCOS is common so don’t be ashamed. There’s no cure but symptoms can be managed. For hair products use bond builders to help with strength and salon quality moisturizing products to help with dryness. Hope it gets better for you girl.
@@Aphrodite01 Luckily, I’m being treated for it. The hair regrowth journey is unfortunately a slow process, but that’s okay. I used to be ashamed, but I have to remember that my body is doing everything she can to support me.
@@Aphrodite01 There is a cure for that. Prolonged water fasts. Big Pharma would not want you to know that. Our body knows what to do when we get out of the way.
Abbey, I LOVE your videos! You are truly one of the most talented content creators on RUclips. I have changed to washing my hair once a week and have incorporated all of your wash day guidance. It has transformed my hair. I have shared you with all of my friends too. Keep these videos coming!! ❤️
Loved this video! Since you only wash once a week, it would be great if you could do a video showing us how you style your hair each day in between and what products you use on what days. I usually give up and wash by day 3 or 4 because I just don’t know what to do with my hair. 🤷♀️
I love your videos. To learn that sulfates and silicones are not evil has been an eye opener. It blows my mind when I see all the comments where people only wash their hair once a week. I am 66 and have always had an oily scalp. It was horrible going through school and my mother would only let us wash our hair once a week. My scalp and hair by then, was so oily she would put cornstarch into the roots and rub it in like you would dry shampoo. (Good thing I was a blonde). As an adult I tried going every 3rd day and when I had my dermatologist appointment, she noticed I had sebum buildup which can clog the follicles and therefore lead to hair loss. She said if you have an oily scalp you have to wash your hair every day! I comprised and have gone every other day, but when that day comes, the scalp is already oily. I cleanse my scalp well and only apply conditioner to mids and ends. Love your routine and keep up the great videos.
I have followed your wash day routine and my hair always feels so amazing for several days after wash day. I have learned many wonderful things from you about hair and everything else beauty related. I have tried many of the products you suggest and I just want to say thank you for all of your hard work and research as well as the willingness to share with all of us here. Thank you Abbey, and I pray for you often 💜
A shower filter showdown would be so informative to watch. I bought a 15 stage shower filter from Amazon and I don't think it did anything for my hair. I have recently purchased a Jolie filter which retails for $140. Haven't tried it yet, but fingers crossed it works. Had no idea that the one you use is so affordable and efficient!
Someone posted a test on Amazon of the chlorine level for this filter because I went to buy it and saw the failed test…I’d love a showdown too with actual chlorine testing for proof. They all claim to work but would be so helpful for them to be tested
Just did the k18 mask put in ends and half way up only, left in 4 min, then added the cer-100 then left in 10, then rinsed then towel dried, then added in my amika soul food mask and omg such a huge difference!! Hair was very bad after getting it bleached and colored I've never seen so much breakage. K18 worth allll the money too! 🥰 Thanks abbey for telling us all the info and the fact you contacted k18 so that we are able to still use conditioner as well.
I love washing my hair on Mondays after hot yoga. The heat and humidity are fantastic with the oils and scalp treatment. It is also laundry day so I feel like I am accomplishing a non personal task.
Thank you for filming this Abbey! I remember you saying filming your last wash day routine was a pain in the butt as far as camera logistics go, really appreciate you going through all that trouble again!
I am African American with "4c" hair however it acts loose curl - straight hair. oily scalp within 2 days. found you almost a year ago and many of your suggestions have really helped me.
Hey Abbey! Could we possibly have an updated video of how you style your hair each day? I'm trying to convince myself to only wash my hair once per week, but I get really lost on what the heck to do with my hair between washes (especially when I'm working out 3-5 days per week!)
Great video! I wash my hair twice a week and knowing myself, I wouldn’t be able to maintain all these steps. What step do you think makes the most difference in terms of repair after washing or where would you recommend people start? 😊
I know for me....using a really good conditioner was what helped my hair get back in shape! And using masks. I'd never really used them before and now that I do...wow! The difference is so noticeable!
I used to wash my hair every day or every other day for 26 years of my life until I found your channel and followed your tips 😊 Now I’m able to wash it once a week and it’s grown so much in only 8 months. Thank you so much for sharing your wealth of knowledge 🙌🏼
I have fine thin hair and probably androgenetic alopecia. As I get older I hadn’t been able to grow it past my shoulders because it would get so dry and brittle. I’ve made several changes, most are your tips. As of now my hair is almost bra strap length!!! It’s still thinning but the ends are so healthy, and shiny!!
Have you tried Minoxidil 5%? There’s also finasteride. As far as the thickness of the hair, there are products on the market to thicken the hair fibre. The most common ingredient that I know of is Stemoxydine. If your hair feels very hard and brittle, it could be from too much protein. The first thing I would do is find a very lightweight clear shampoo that is low ph, and follow up with a heavy duty moisture mask and then follow up with using oil on the ends of your hair. Remember that if your hair is very stubborn and rough on the ends, it’s probably splitting, so make sure you get that checked out as it could be splitting up the hair shaft and causing more breakage. Hope this helps.
Thanks Abbey!! When rinsing conditioner, how do I know when to stop rinsing? Should it be when the hair feels more squeaky clean or is it ok to stop rinsing even when it still feels "slippery"? Thank you
Question - what type of night cap/bonnet do you use to keep your pillow from getting ruined from the oil the night before wash day? I have been using oil in the morning of wash day and leaving it in all day for this reason. I wash Sunday and either Wednesday or Thursday depending on how oily my hair looks/feels.
I have to wash every other day because I have PCOS which makes my hair extremely oily. So for the health of my scalp I try to keep it clean as much as I can even though it damages my hair. Every two days seems to be the sweet spot, more often leads to irritation and less often leads to irritation as well. I also like to have salicylic acid in my shampoo to help with cleaning the pores as I tend to get bumps and sores from the excessive oiliness.
I have very thin fine and dry hair. I wash 3 times a week. And each day is different. One day is clarifying and K18 another day is just an ACV rinse and nothing else in shower and then one day is shampoo and conditioner in shower. Always Pureology leave in conditioner either after K18 or when I get out of shower. I feel like it's a process but so is my skin care routine at almost 50. I spend less time.in and use less makeup than in my 20s and 30s but spend way more time on hair treatments and skin care!
As always thanks for your professional and meticulous approach to your videos. Could you create a video an shine rinse video and talk about ingredients and fragrance. As a post menopausal woman, I have issues with smells. Amika is a no go for me because of the fragrance. Thanks, Abbey.
Thank you for including the simple 'back to basic' tips alongside the more advanced detailed tips. It sounds so stupid, but the part about ensuring that the ends of the hair are soaked in conditioner has been such a game changer for me already! I was previously falling down into the trap that you mentioned of naturally aiming the conditioner to the mid lengths then only spreading what's left of the conditioner onto the ends! 😳
My scalp and breakage has been an issue for me recently. So I started trying to incorporate your tips and I just got a dry shampoo so hopefully that helps. My scalp is so aggravating that I am on the verge of shaving my head. You give me hope.
Do you have a video about oils for your hair? Best oils? How to apply? Love your hair videos! It’s exactly what I needed to start my hair care journey!
I had no idea you could condition your hair (other than with leave in) AFTER K18. This is what stops me from using K18 as often cause I can barely get a brush through without conditioner. So happy I saw this.
My haircare routine is similar too but the key is to have discipline and be consistent to get a thick and full hair besides of inverting on quality items for my hair. It had already brought great results for me.
Monday and Friday OR Sunday and Thursday depending. With my fine hair I have gotten my wash days from daily, to every other day to twice a week in the last 4 years. What I found for my hair's healthiest appearance is twice a week. Ooh never tried a shine mask...maybe I will:)
My routine is similar to yours. I only wash once a week, usually on Sunday, because it would take way too long on work mornings! I love your hair content so much and all your product recommendations! ❤️ Ordering the K18 Shampoos now!
I was today years old when I realized I’ve been washing my hair incorrectly for my *whole life* 🤭 thank you for breaking this down for us, Abbey! I’m excited to try these steps out on my next wash day. 🤗
@aimrehembree1022 How were you washing it incorrectly? Calling your hair up on your head? Shampoo on your entire head? Not doing other products in addition to shampoo ? Not doing sections?
I am a bit confused as to when you use the products, is this more like a 3 in 1 routine? you first put coconut oil and then mention that you dont use k18 after you ve done that and how about the shine rinse do you use it in the same routine with k18 and the pre wash coconut oil. Do you ever oil your scalp or just the SA 2% scalp exfoliator? thanks so much for the clarification in advance xx
What? No leave in conditioner at the end? You’re the best and you have motivated me to take the time once a week to follow this routine (plus the Pureology Color Fanatic leave in). I’m 62 and my hair is in the best condition of my life and at least 6 inches longer than I could ever grow it before. I get compliments on it frequently…you are never too old and it’s never too late to have long beautiful hair!!!
I think she just forgot about it as she mentions still using it in new videos of hers! I use this or product too and it’s just amazing. Here’s to having long luscious hair forever no matter our age!❤️
It’s such a struggle in my brain about coconut oil 😩 I’m a white/platinum blonde and I’ve heard so many great things ab coconut oil BUT then I’ve had 2 different stylists over the years tell me to stay far away from it bc it doesn’t penetrate the hair and it can cause breakage. I can find the EXACT opposite info online. Ugh. The battle continues 😖 LOVE this updated video though!!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@InimeKai they definitely were not bc they offered nothing. I always brought it up to get their opinions. They were both so sure with their answer saying they tell their blondes to stay awaaaay from coconut oil. 😐
@@christieoquin0045very confused what hair color has to do with whether or not you can use coconut oil. I think porosity would be much more relevant. Also, pretty sure at least by now, it’s been proven that coconut oil can penetrate the hair shaft. That doesn’t mean it will work well for everyone though.
Good tip is to brush in the hair conditioner/mask - I use a tangle teezer or tangle angel to do it (just a regular brush is fine, but withour boar bristles). It will help with the product penetration and even distribution on hair :)
I am a new subscriber. My hair is very damaged. I cut off 6 inches. Still have damaged hair. What can I start doing to help my hair heal. I am 57 and have a lot of gray on the sides and roots. Can you please recommend some products.
I just want to thank you for sharing this! I bought most of the products you mentioned in this video and was amazed at how my hair felt after the wash day! Thank you so much for all the information you share!
Hey Abbey, have you had dialogue with K18 people and they advised that you can re-wet your hair, apply conditioner/mask, and then rinse? It’s just that the instructions explicitly say “do not rinse out”. I always just apply a leave in conditioner after the 4 mins. I never re-wet my hair or use a rinse out product afterwards. Thanks in advance, Jen.
I know Abbey has discussed this with K18’s team. She talks about it in a previous video titled Healthy Hair Wash Day routine. If you go to her channel and look at the Hair playlist, it is the first wash day video that occurs after her Olaplex vs K18 showdown.
I can’t believe the amount of product you have to use! I was the same exact way before I got a home water softener. I’ve tried the shower filters (LITERALLY ALL OF THEM) until I read an article that they are really not that affective…..even the pricier ones. You really should invest in a water softener. I now literally use a quarter size of each product I apply including shampoo & conditioner.
I have the exact opposite routine lol. I wash and condition my hair daily, using a deep conditioner once a week. I do also use a leave in conditioner on the ends and typically air dry. But it works for me. I have an oily scalp and fine hair for reference. But love your recommendations and wish I had the time for your hair routine lol. Thanks for such great content!
Ugh! Me too! I'm trying to go every other day now. The first two non-wash days went surprisingly well but yesterday (which luckily was a Sunday) did not. I woke up with an extra oily scalp but decided to see if I could correct it with dry shampoo. It worked for about an hour. The rest of the day my scalp had that hot, oily, itchy feeling that I think only oily fine haired women know. I could never wash only once a week, it would be so gross!
My hair routine is the OGX nourishing coconut milk shampoo and conditioner. I’ve used that one since I was 4. It smells and works soo good. Then after the shower I use the OGX nourishing coconut milk anti breakage serum or the OGX nourishing coconut hydrating oil mist. The oils smell sooo good too. I only use the OGX nourishing line.
I wash my hair every Friday night now. :)) I work all week with my hair in a ponytail so it helps me not having to wash it! I put rosemary oil in my hair and ogx argan oil for 1 hr then wash, hair mask, conditioner then when my hair is damp I put my Moroccan argan oil. I also use heatless curls every night
Hi Abbey! I wash on with on Thursday or Friday depending on my schedule!! Thank you so much for all your help on my hair!!! In the last 2 years I’ve gone from the worst shape it’s ever been in to now, the best shape it has EVER been in in my life (and length!!). I appreciate all your knowledge and advice ❤
I use the redken acidic bon conditioner for fine hair, because that is the type of hair I have but it just feel like it doesn't coat at all. I have to use a lot to start feeling it smooth. I don't even use the spray part yet.
Thank you so much for the update Abbey! You are helping so many of us and it’s really appreciated! I was wondering if what you do throughout the week has changed, & if so, can you do an updated video on that too please? 💞💕💗
Two things: what, if any, products do you put in your hair after washing? Like, leave-in conditioners, mousse, etc.? Second, I would love to see you review shine masks such as (Drybar Liquid Glass Instant Glossing Rinse). Thank you for your videos. I have thoroughly enjoyed utilizing your process.
Thanks for the updated video, these are my favorites! 😍 For more affordable shampoo/conditioner would you recommend L’Oréal bond repair or NatureLab Tokyo perfect repair?
I love your suggestions, the one thing that I can recommend to you all, is that when washing your hair, put head down, face facing down, that is the only way your fingers really can go under hair and you can wash the crown under hair, top, and sides, you can’t really get your fingers on your hair to wash the scalp when you have hair hanging down . It really makes a difference. 🎄❤️🎄
I’m going to try this! But with slightly different products, like the Hairitage ACV scalp treatment and Olaplex No. 3 treatment, also I got my detangle brush from the dollar store 😃
Feeling like your hair isn't clean on the days 6 and 7 obviously means you are not washing your hair often enough for your skin type. Especially if you are prone to having irritated scalp on the back of your head. Washing every 4 to 5 days could be ideal for you. Washing hair less does not make it less oily, as you know. Only hormones and diet affect that.
Thank you! I know that she's one of the people that advocates that she's moved to once a week washing, being an "oily/greasy" scalped person, but if it's not working for you, then it's not working!!! Your scalp produces the same amount of oil, no matter what you do. If you need to wash daily do it!!!! Scalp health is most important!!! I'm afraid people might try to stretch washes and lose hair bc of it.... not worth it. Science tells us that no matter what you try, oil production doesn't change. I think some ppl just get used to it being greasier for longer.
I use one of those little face wash foam makers instead of using my hands to foam the shampoo before applying it to my hair. Game changer. Plus, I use much less product. I only wish they were bigger.
Abbey can you please do another week long hair vlog? Love your videos! I would love to go a week without washing because my hair really transformed when I moved from washing it daily to every 2-3 days after watching your channel, but I can never go longer as I always tend to breakout (particularly along the hairline which makes logical sense) when I go without washing. But I admire your involved wash day routine! :)
If you have fine hair it gets oily faster and 2-3 days is good. Hair washing varies on your hair type, lifestyle, products you use and habits. If you sweat a lot or get breakouts don’t wash it only once a week bc it’ll make the problem worse. As long as your scalp is clean your hair will grow properly.
I wash once a week since watching your videos and I choose my wash night to be Saturday night before church on Sunday morning and by Wednesday I’m ready for a dry shampoo and updo look! It works perfectly for my lifestyle and schedule! I am 6 months pregnant and my hair has been super healthy and I’m worried that when I have baby it’s going to fall out or get brittle, it never has before (this is my 4th pregnancy) but I’m still irrationally worried because I’ve been working real hard on keeping it healthy. Any advice or good knowledge out of your book about post partum hair care??
I found that anytime I stopped using my prenatal vitamins after having my babies, that I experienced terrible hair loss. I had bald spots 😢. Perhaps it was more hormonal and vitamin deficiency than my wash routine as that really didn’t change. I hope your hair stays full and healthy!
This was an incredibly helpful video. I hadn't heard of shine rinses before and I'm eager to try one. I was wondering why you use both a hair mask and a conditioner? I had thought that a conditioner would be redundant if using a hair mask and so I have been skipping it.
Some people like to use a hair mask that is silicone free, but has lots of oils and or butters, then use a silicone conditioner to seal all of that goodness into their ends.
I wash my hair on a Thursday and a Sunday, I tried once a week washing for about a month but it left me feeling really gross and itchy! I wish I could do all the steps in this routine but normal hair washing shower routine already takes 40+ minutes 😩🥺
Omg yes same!! I tried going 5 days between washes but my hair became so dull and dry! Eventually I made it to twice a week and my scalp has never been better!! Also it takes me about 40+ mins showering lol I aint doing washing my hair more than twice a week😂
Hi, have you tried using a wide toothed comb in the shower to comb through the hair when you condition,I find it helps a lot especially for the tangle’s 😀❤️
I've always washed my hair almost every day b/c I run almost every day. I have a slightly oily scalp, do not bleach, do not blow dry or use heat styling, so it is in good shape. I think only my show cats have a more complicated wash day routine (degrease, 3 diff shampoos, rinse, dunk, blow dry by hand 1 hr) than you, but it is working for you so that's what counts.
This prob sounds silly but can you make a video or short about the water filter about how to set it up and what is does for your hair? Do you have to get a certain shower head or does it work with any of them?
I am confused, the way I understand is that the way K-18 hair mask works, is you leave it in your hair, & the directions say not to rinse out. In this video I saw you rinsing it out after 4 minutes. Let me know? Thanks
Re the salicylic acid scalp treatment: is it less effective if I have a lot of buildup, and would it be better for me to shampoo before using it? I have an oily scalp and by the time I do my wash routine, I have quite a lot of oil and dry shampoo buildup
Have you noticed a difference in beauty products bought from Amazon versus other retailers? I often go to buy products you suggest off of Amazon and see reviews that say it is 'fake' product. I've personally noticed a quality difference in Purology shampoos and strip lashes from Target vs. Amazon!
I received an unsealed, half empty lipstick. The applicator was definitely used. I’ve had to send so many facial & haircare products back with the same issues. I finally stopped buying these products from Amazon.
Would love a video on the shine masks! Is this the same as a Lameller Water? I'm using the L'oreal Wonder Water and while I like the results, the smell makes me nauseous so I would love recommendations!
Can you also do an update routine for how you incorporate the WoW products. Thanks. I’m curious if you use other products with it like a heat protector.
I have always washed Fridays since I can remember. My family and I always went to church on Saturdays, plus it was ready for the weekend. I just didn't stop this habit after all these years. When I go through phases when I get more greazy, my 2nd day of the week is usually Monday or Tuesday night, depending if there's something going on or how beat I look LOL. Now that I'm on Accutane, I'm back to one days on Friday.
Omg you have been a great help. My hair is very thin but not oily or dry.I will continue to follow your routine and suggestions to see if my hair improved.Overall I really trust you.
Hey Abbey, thank you for this video. I am someone who has to wash daily, as recommended by my trichologist due to DHT build-up. How often would you recommend this FULL routine, and what products would you recommend on a daily basis? xx
I'm so glad you said that you rinsed out the K18 after the four minutes. I just COULDN'T not use conditioner on my hair. Now I'll use the K18, wait 4 minutes, rinse and go with the conditioner. That makes so much sense! Girl, you're good! Great video....again!
I wash once a week on Sunday, but my scalp gets really itchy & flaky by day 5/6. I’ve never done a scalp treatment, so I’m going to try the one you used in this video! Thanks!
Wash your hair 2 or maybe 3 times a week to avoid that problem. Also you might need a medicated shampoo it could be dandruff, psoriasis, seborrheic dermatitis(sounds like this one), folliculitus, etc.
I am starting my hair journey with ur help, my hair si sooo bleached and damaged, im happy i found your videos and will let u know🥰 i bought K18 last year but didn t stick to it so i ll try again 😄, thank u kisses from Paris, Joyce
Recently I have found that putting mask/conditioner etc on actually wet not wrung out hair makes the product actually work much better- a bit like a curly hair routine with the bowl thing even though I dont have curly/coils
1. Oil hair the night before. Uses OG coconut oil which contains silicone.
2. When she uses K18, she doesn’t oil the night before.
3. Uses a scalp treatment like one that has salicylic acid. Massage in.
4. Comb hair before shampooing it. Olivia garden styler brush ( the wet brush was out of stock at Ulta).
5. Use a hard water filter on shower head to prevent brass. Doesn’t use a purple shampoo.
6. Wet hair a lot.
7. Uses K18 shampoo that she was sent for their launch. They have a low ph, the lowest she’s ever seen.
8. Emulsify shampoo in hands.
9. Massage shampoo in sections.
10. Washes every 7 days.
11. When she uses K18, she doesn’t use a pre shampoo oil and uses a clarifying shampoo. Then towel dries hair before applying. Emulsify the product and scrunch it in from the bottom up. Leave for 4 mins.
12. Wet hair and apply conditioner.
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Forgot the Shine Mask or did I not see it 🤔 cause I'm trying to figure out if shine mask can go on the same time as the ogx?
Question. Can I use the k18 leave in, then use the elizavecca cer 100, then amika soulf food mask all in one wash day?
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My hair has been my biggest insecurity for the past few years. I deal with PCOS, and hair loss is one of the symptoms I have. My hair used to be so sleek, soft and shiny. Now it’s brittle and I have lost a lot of it. Coming across your channel has completely changed my hair. I’m incorporating as many tips as possible and it has become soft and shiny again. I cannot thank you enough. Your tips are not the only reason I watch. You seem like you wouldn’t judge anyone for their hair or skin issues. ❤️
I agree, well stated🌹🌹
Wow❤️ that is beautiful!
Speak to your doctor on how to help regulate your hormones. They may suggest medication, a specific healthy diet and exercise. PCOS is common so don’t be ashamed. There’s no cure but symptoms can be managed. For hair products use bond builders to help with strength and salon quality moisturizing products to help with dryness. Hope it gets better for you girl.
@@Aphrodite01 Luckily, I’m being treated for it. The hair regrowth journey is unfortunately a slow process, but that’s okay. I used to be ashamed, but I have to remember that my body is doing everything she can to support me.
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There is a cure for that. Prolonged water fasts.
Big Pharma would not want you to know that. Our body knows what to do when we get out of the way.
Do you have a video on your “weekly hair routine”? Like the hairstyles and ways you refresh your hair throughout the week in-between washes?
Can you share an updated wash day routine, including what you do between washes and pre-wash day prep steps? 😀
Abbey, I LOVE your videos! You are truly one of the most talented content creators on RUclips. I have changed to washing my hair once a week and have incorporated all of your wash day guidance. It has transformed my hair. I have shared you with all of my friends too. Keep these videos coming!! ❤️
Thank you so much 🥰 and YAY!! 🖤
Loved this video! Since you only wash once a week, it would be great if you could do a video showing us how you style your hair each day in between and what products you use on what days. I usually give up and wash by day 3 or 4 because I just don’t know what to do with my hair. 🤷♀️
I love your videos. To learn that sulfates and silicones are not evil has been an eye opener. It blows my mind when I see all the comments where people only wash their hair once a week. I am 66 and have always had an oily scalp. It was horrible going through school and my mother would only let us wash our hair once a week. My scalp and hair by then, was so oily she would put cornstarch into the roots and rub it in like you would dry shampoo. (Good thing I was a blonde). As an adult I tried going every 3rd day and when I had my dermatologist appointment, she noticed I had sebum buildup which can clog the follicles and therefore lead to hair loss. She said if you have an oily scalp you have to wash your hair every day! I comprised and have gone every other day, but when that day comes, the scalp is already oily. I cleanse my scalp well and only apply conditioner to mids and ends. Love your routine and keep up the great videos.
I had ignored my skin and hair after having a baby. I followed you for hair and Dr Dray for skin. You both have transformed me completely. ❤❤
I have followed your wash day routine and my hair always feels so amazing for several days after wash day. I have learned many wonderful things from you about hair and everything else beauty related. I have tried many of the products you suggest and I just want to say thank you for all of your hard work and research as well as the willingness to share with all of us here. Thank you Abbey, and I pray for you often 💜
This is a lovely comment that made even me smile ❤️
A shower filter showdown would be so informative to watch. I bought a 15 stage shower filter from Amazon and I don't think it did anything for my hair. I have recently purchased a Jolie filter which retails for $140. Haven't tried it yet, but fingers crossed it works. Had no idea that the one you use is so affordable and efficient!
Someone posted a test on Amazon of the chlorine level for this filter because I went to buy it and saw the failed test…I’d love a showdown too with actual chlorine testing for proof. They all claim to work but would be so helpful for them to be tested
shower filters dont really work, you need a whole filtering system for the apartment. they work differently and actually neutralize the hardness
Just did the k18 mask put in ends and half way up only, left in 4 min, then added the cer-100 then left in 10, then rinsed then towel dried, then added in my amika soul food mask and omg such a huge difference!! Hair was very bad after getting it bleached and colored I've never seen so much breakage. K18 worth allll the money too! 🥰 Thanks abbey for telling us all the info and the fact you contacted k18 so that we are able to still use conditioner as well.
I love washing my hair on Mondays after hot yoga. The heat and humidity are fantastic with the oils and scalp treatment. It is also laundry day so I feel like I am accomplishing a non personal task.
Thank you for filming this Abbey! I remember you saying filming your last wash day routine was a pain in the butt as far as camera logistics go, really appreciate you going through all that trouble again!
I am African American with "4c" hair however it acts loose curl - straight hair. oily scalp within 2 days. found you almost a year ago and many of your suggestions have really helped me.
Hey Abbey! Could we possibly have an updated video of how you style your hair each day? I'm trying to convince myself to only wash my hair once per week, but I get really lost on what the heck to do with my hair between washes (especially when I'm working out 3-5 days per week!)
Great video! I wash my hair twice a week and knowing myself, I wouldn’t be able to maintain all these steps. What step do you think makes the most difference in terms of repair after washing or where would you recommend people start? 😊
I know for me....using a really good conditioner was what helped my hair get back in shape! And using masks. I'd never really used them before and now that I do...wow! The difference is so noticeable!
You can use conditioner instead of oil BEFORE shampooing on your ends. It will protect it from water and the harsher surfactants of shampoo.
Would love a video on shine rinses! I’ve started to see them come up but idk if they are a gloss or deep conditioner or what really
I used to wash my hair every day or every other day for 26 years of my life until I found your channel and followed your tips 😊 Now I’m able to wash it once a week and it’s grown so much in only 8 months. Thank you so much for sharing your wealth of knowledge 🙌🏼
Hi Rachel, what change have you done to your routine that make you go such a long way between your washes? Are you using all the same products?
What shampoo rec did you go with? I’m sooo curious!
Hi, which shampoo do you use that makes go longer inbetween washes?
I have fine thin hair and probably androgenetic alopecia. As I get older I hadn’t been able to grow it past my shoulders because it would get so dry and brittle. I’ve made several changes, most are your tips. As of now my hair is almost bra strap length!!! It’s still thinning but the ends are so healthy, and shiny!!
Have you tried Minoxidil 5%? There’s also finasteride. As far as the thickness of the hair, there are products on the market to thicken the hair fibre. The most common ingredient that I know of is Stemoxydine. If your hair feels very hard and brittle, it could be from too much protein. The first thing I would do is find a very lightweight clear shampoo that is low ph, and follow up with a heavy duty moisture mask and then follow up with using oil on the ends of your hair. Remember that if your hair is very stubborn and rough on the ends, it’s probably splitting, so make sure you get that checked out as it could be splitting up the hair shaft and causing more breakage. Hope this helps.
Thanks Abbey!! When rinsing conditioner, how do I know when to stop rinsing? Should it be when the hair feels more squeaky clean or is it ok to stop rinsing even when it still feels "slippery"? Thank you
Thanks for doing a update, your videos definitely help me understand how to care for my hair!
Question - what type of night cap/bonnet do you use to keep your pillow from getting ruined from the oil the night before wash day? I have been using oil in the morning of wash day and leaving it in all day for this reason. I wash Sunday and either Wednesday or Thursday depending on how oily my hair looks/feels.
I have to wash every other day because I have PCOS which makes my hair extremely oily. So for the health of my scalp I try to keep it clean as much as I can even though it damages my hair. Every two days seems to be the sweet spot, more often leads to irritation and less often leads to irritation as well. I also like to have salicylic acid in my shampoo to help with cleaning the pores as I tend to get bumps and sores from the excessive oiliness.
I have very thin fine and dry hair. I wash 3 times a week. And each day is different. One day is clarifying and K18 another day is just an ACV rinse and nothing else in shower and then one day is shampoo and conditioner in shower. Always Pureology leave in conditioner either after K18 or when I get out of shower. I feel like it's a process but so is my skin care routine at almost 50. I spend less time.in and use less makeup than in my 20s and 30s but spend way more time on hair treatments and skin care!
What does conditioning after deep conditioning do? Don’t they do the same thing? I would think it’s redundant
As always thanks for your professional and meticulous approach to your videos. Could you create a video an shine rinse video and talk about ingredients and fragrance. As a post menopausal woman, I have issues with smells. Amika is a no go for me because of the fragrance. Thanks, Abbey.
Thank you for including the simple 'back to basic' tips alongside the more advanced detailed tips.
It sounds so stupid, but the part about ensuring that the ends of the hair are soaked in conditioner has been such a game changer for me already!
I was previously falling down into the trap that you mentioned of naturally aiming the conditioner to the mid lengths then only spreading what's left of the conditioner onto the ends! 😳
Me too! Adding that "extra" bit of conditioner to my ends before I tie it up in the shower has really helped them!
My scalp and breakage has been an issue for me recently. So I started trying to incorporate your tips and I just got a dry shampoo so hopefully that helps. My scalp is so aggravating that I am on the verge of shaving my head. You give me hope.
Is your scalp itchy, red etc? Have you had a look at Kerastase shampoos for sensitive scalps?
For real if only that would be an easy fix... to shave or not to shave 🤔
Wash as often as you need to. Not everyone can stretch washes. Please consult a dermatologist for your scalp issues.
Do you have a video about oils for your hair? Best oils? How to apply?
Love your hair videos! It’s exactly what I needed to start my hair care journey!
I had no idea you could condition your hair (other than with leave in) AFTER K18. This is what stops me from using K18 as often cause I can barely get a brush through without conditioner. So happy I saw this.
Doesn't their site say to use a leave in conditioner?
My haircare routine is similar too but the key is to have discipline and be consistent to get a thick and full hair besides of inverting on quality items for my hair. It had already brought great results for me.
Monday and Friday OR Sunday and Thursday depending. With my fine hair I have gotten my wash days from daily, to every other day to twice a week in the last 4 years. What I found for my hair's healthiest appearance is twice a week. Ooh never tried a shine mask...maybe I will:)
My routine is similar to yours. I only wash once a week, usually on Sunday, because it would take way too long on work mornings! I love your hair content so much and all your product recommendations! ❤️ Ordering the K18 Shampoos now!
I was today years old when I realized I’ve been washing my hair incorrectly for my *whole life* 🤭 thank you for breaking this down for us, Abbey! I’m excited to try these steps out on my next wash day. 🤗
Haha!! 😆😁
@aimrehembree1022 How were you washing it incorrectly? Calling your hair up on your head? Shampoo on your entire head? Not doing other products in addition to shampoo ? Not doing sections?
How were you washing it incorrectly? Calling your hair up on your head? Shampoo on your entire head? Not doing other products in addition to shampoo ?
I am a bit confused as to when you use the products, is this more like a 3 in 1 routine? you first put coconut oil and then mention that you dont use k18 after you ve done that and how about the shine rinse do you use it in the same routine with k18 and the pre wash coconut oil. Do you ever oil your scalp or just the SA 2% scalp exfoliator? thanks so much for the clarification in advance xx
What? No leave in conditioner at the end? You’re the best and you have motivated me to take the time once a week to follow this routine (plus the Pureology Color Fanatic leave in). I’m 62 and my hair is in the best condition of my life and at least 6 inches longer than I could ever grow it before. I get compliments on it frequently…you are never too old and it’s never too late to have long beautiful hair!!!
I think she just forgot about it as she mentions still using it in new videos of hers! I use this or product too and it’s just amazing. Here’s to having long luscious hair forever no matter our age!❤️
I wash every 4-5 days I used to do every 7 but my scalp was getting so irritated! It got better with more frequent washing
It’s such a struggle in my brain about coconut oil 😩 I’m a white/platinum blonde and I’ve heard so many great things ab coconut oil BUT then I’ve had 2 different stylists over the years tell me to stay far away from it bc it doesn’t penetrate the hair and it can cause breakage. I can find the EXACT opposite info online. Ugh. The battle continues 😖 LOVE this updated video though!!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Were the stylists telling you that trying to sell you salon product lol? Might have monetary incentive there
@@InimeKai they definitely were not bc they offered nothing. I always brought it up to get their opinions. They were both so sure with their answer saying they tell their blondes to stay awaaaay from coconut oil. 😐
@@christieoquin0045very confused what hair color has to do with whether or not you can use coconut oil. I think porosity would be much more relevant. Also, pretty sure at least by now, it’s been proven that coconut oil can penetrate the hair shaft. That doesn’t mean it will work well for everyone though.
Good tip is to brush in the hair conditioner/mask - I use a tangle teezer or tangle angel to do it (just a regular brush is fine, but withour boar bristles). It will help with the product penetration and even distribution on hair :)
I am a new subscriber. My hair is very damaged. I cut off 6 inches. Still have damaged hair. What can I start doing to help my hair heal. I am 57 and have a lot of gray on the sides and roots. Can you please recommend some products.
Amazing as always Abby❤️ You are single-handedly responsible for my hair glow-up! God bless you girl. ❤️💖
I just want to thank you for sharing this! I bought most of the products you mentioned in this video and was amazed at how my hair felt after the wash day! Thank you so much for all the information you share!
K18 says not to rinse it out. Are there two different masks? Sephora only has the leave in one.
shine hair mask video please!!
Hey Abbey, have you had dialogue with K18 people and they advised that you can re-wet your hair, apply conditioner/mask, and then rinse? It’s just that the instructions explicitly say “do not rinse out”. I always just apply a leave in conditioner after the 4 mins. I never re-wet my hair or use a rinse out product afterwards. Thanks in advance, Jen.
I was wondering the same thing.
Yes, just air dry or apply a leave in after five minutes.
I know Abbey has discussed this with K18’s team. She talks about it in a previous video titled Healthy Hair Wash Day routine. If you go to her channel and look at the Hair playlist, it is the first wash day video that occurs after her Olaplex vs K18 showdown.
I can’t believe the amount of product you have to use! I was the same exact way before I got a home water softener. I’ve tried the shower filters (LITERALLY ALL OF THEM) until I read an article that they are really not that affective…..even the pricier ones. You really should invest in a water softener. I now literally use a quarter size of each product I apply including shampoo & conditioner.
I wash my hair once a week on Sunday. It’s a blessing in disguise! It feels like my hair loves me back.
I have the exact opposite routine lol. I wash and condition my hair daily, using a deep conditioner once a week. I do also use a leave in conditioner on the ends and typically air dry. But it works for me. I have an oily scalp and fine hair for reference. But love your recommendations and wish I had the time for your hair routine lol. Thanks for such great content!
Same here. I wish I could go more than 2 days without a wash!
Ugh! Me too! I'm trying to go every other day now. The first two non-wash days went surprisingly well but yesterday (which luckily was a Sunday) did not. I woke up with an extra oily scalp but decided to see if I could correct it with dry shampoo. It worked for about an hour. The rest of the day my scalp had that hot, oily, itchy feeling that I think only oily fine haired women know. I could never wash only once a week, it would be so gross!
Your scalp is oily because you wash it too often..
@@shally3468 I have tried skipping to see if the oil production was less but it just got greasier every day.
@@suemazrn that's pretty normal. It takes a few weeks / month to train your scalp
My hair routine is the OGX nourishing coconut milk shampoo and conditioner. I’ve used that one since I was 4. It smells and works soo good. Then after the shower I use the OGX nourishing coconut milk anti breakage serum or the OGX nourishing coconut hydrating oil mist. The oils smell sooo good too. I only use the OGX nourishing line.
I wash my hair every Friday night now. :)) I work all week with my hair in a ponytail so it helps me not having to wash it! I put rosemary oil in my hair and ogx argan oil for 1 hr then wash, hair mask, conditioner then when my hair is damp I put my Moroccan argan oil. I also use heatless curls every night
Your hair is so beautiful, I love watching your channel Abby💕
I’ve never had long hair. I’m loyally following your recommendations in the hope that by next year I’ll have an extra 5-6” in length. Thank youuuuuu 🥰
Hi Abbey! I wash on with on Thursday or Friday depending on my schedule!!
Thank you so much for all your help on my hair!!! In the last 2 years I’ve gone from the worst shape it’s ever been in to now, the best shape it has EVER been in in my life (and length!!).
I appreciate all your knowledge and advice ❤
I use the redken acidic bon conditioner for fine hair, because that is the type of hair I have but it just feel like it doesn't coat at all. I have to use a lot to start feeling it smooth. I don't even use the spray part yet.
I used to know nothing about taking care of my hair. Thank you for the tips and tricks 🤗
Thank you so much for the update Abbey! You are helping so many of us and it’s really appreciated! I was wondering if what you do throughout the week has changed, & if so, can you do an updated video on that too please? 💞💕💗
Two things: what, if any, products do you put in your hair after washing? Like, leave-in conditioners, mousse, etc.? Second, I would love to see you review shine masks such as (Drybar Liquid Glass Instant Glossing Rinse). Thank you for your videos. I have thoroughly enjoyed utilizing your process.
What's your routine when you get out of the shower re: hair products that you apply post-shower? Thanks!
Thanks for the updated video, these are my favorites! 😍 For more affordable shampoo/conditioner would you recommend L’Oréal bond repair or NatureLab Tokyo perfect repair?
Awesome!!! Thanks for the update!! 😍🥰
I do mine on Sunday…..to start off the week with nice looking hair.
I love your suggestions, the one thing that I can recommend to you all, is that when washing your hair, put head down, face facing down, that is the only way your fingers really can go under hair and you can wash the crown under hair, top, and sides, you can’t really get your fingers on your hair to wash the scalp when you have hair hanging down . It really makes a difference. 🎄❤️🎄
Would love a video on your favorite shine masks!
I’m going to try this! But with slightly different products, like the Hairitage ACV scalp treatment and Olaplex No. 3 treatment, also I got my detangle brush from the dollar store 😃
Feeling like your hair isn't clean on the days 6 and 7 obviously means you are not washing your hair often enough for your skin type.
Especially if you are prone to having irritated scalp on the back of your head. Washing every 4 to 5 days could be ideal for you.
Washing hair less does not make it less oily, as you know. Only hormones and diet affect that.
Thank you! I know that she's one of the people that advocates that she's moved to once a week washing, being an "oily/greasy" scalped person, but if it's not working for you, then it's not working!!! Your scalp produces the same amount of oil, no matter what you do. If you need to wash daily do it!!!! Scalp health is most important!!! I'm afraid people might try to stretch washes and lose hair bc of it.... not worth it. Science tells us that no matter what you try, oil production doesn't change. I think some ppl just get used to it being greasier for longer.
I use one of those little face wash foam makers instead of using my hands to foam the shampoo before applying it to my hair. Game changer. Plus, I use much less product. I only wish they were bigger.
Yes to the hair shine video!!!
I wash my hair on Monday ! Love your videos dear! Thank you so much
Abbey can you please do another week long hair vlog? Love your videos! I would love to go a week without washing because my hair really transformed when I moved from washing it daily to every 2-3 days after watching your channel, but I can never go longer as I always tend to breakout (particularly along the hairline which makes logical sense) when I go without washing. But I admire your involved wash day routine! :)
If you have fine hair it gets oily faster and 2-3 days is good. Hair washing varies on your hair type, lifestyle, products you use and habits. If you sweat a lot or get breakouts don’t wash it only once a week bc it’ll make the problem worse. As long as your scalp is clean your hair will grow properly.
Why do you use conditioner after a hair mask or the k18? I thought they all kind of served the same purpose and were interchangeable.
I wash once a week since watching your videos and I choose my wash night to be Saturday night before church on Sunday morning and by Wednesday I’m ready for a dry shampoo and updo look! It works perfectly for my lifestyle and schedule!
I am 6 months pregnant and my hair has been super healthy and I’m worried that when I have baby it’s going to fall out or get brittle, it never has before (this is my 4th pregnancy) but I’m still irrationally worried because I’ve been working real hard on keeping it healthy. Any advice or good knowledge out of your book about post partum hair care??
I found that anytime I stopped using my prenatal vitamins after having my babies, that I experienced terrible hair loss. I had bald spots 😢. Perhaps it was more hormonal and vitamin deficiency than my wash routine as that really didn’t change. I hope your hair stays full and healthy!
Appreciate your honest review on all products. Please keep doing what you do, uTube needs you.❤
Hi Abbey! I was hoping you could share a hair styling video. Like what products you use before blow drying and what not. Thanks!
This was an incredibly helpful video. I hadn't heard of shine rinses before and I'm eager to try one. I was wondering why you use both a hair mask and a conditioner? I had thought that a conditioner would be redundant if using a hair mask and so I have been skipping it.
Yes, never occurred to me you needed a regular one after a heavy one.
Some people like to use a hair mask that is silicone free, but has lots of oils and or butters, then use a silicone conditioner to seal all of that goodness into their ends.
I wash my hair on a Thursday and a Sunday, I tried once a week washing for about a month but it left me feeling really gross and itchy! I wish I could do all the steps in this routine but normal hair washing shower routine already takes 40+ minutes 😩🥺
Omg yes same!! I tried going 5 days between washes but my hair became so dull and dry! Eventually I made it to twice a week and my scalp has never been better!! Also it takes me about 40+ mins showering lol I aint doing washing my hair more than twice a week😂
Hi, have you tried using a wide toothed comb in the shower to comb through the hair when you condition,I find it helps a lot especially for the tangle’s 😀❤️
I've always washed my hair almost every day b/c I run almost every day. I have a slightly oily scalp, do not bleach, do not blow dry or use heat styling, so it is in good shape. I think only my show cats have a more complicated wash day routine (degrease, 3 diff shampoos, rinse, dunk, blow dry by hand 1 hr) than you, but it is working for you so that's what counts.
This prob sounds silly but can you make a video or short about the water filter about how to set it up and what is does for your hair? Do you have to get a certain shower head or does it work with any of them?
Thanks for this update queen ❤️ just saw your last hair care routine yesterday!
I am confused, the way I understand is that the way K-18 hair mask works, is you leave it in your hair, & the directions say not to rinse out. In this video I saw you rinsing it out after 4 minutes. Let me know? Thanks
Re the salicylic acid scalp treatment: is it less effective if I have a lot of buildup, and would it be better for me to shampoo before using it? I have an oily scalp and by the time I do my wash routine, I have quite a lot of oil and dry shampoo buildup
Have you noticed a difference in beauty products bought from Amazon versus other retailers? I often go to buy products you suggest off of Amazon and see reviews that say it is 'fake' product. I've personally noticed a quality difference in Purology shampoos and strip lashes from Target vs. Amazon!
I received an unsealed, half empty lipstick. The applicator was definitely used. I’ve had to send so many facial & haircare products back with the same issues. I finally stopped buying these products from Amazon.
Would love a video on the shine masks! Is this the same as a Lameller Water? I'm using the L'oreal Wonder Water and while I like the results, the smell makes me nauseous so I would love recommendations!
Hey! I loved this video!!! Can you share what products you use in your hair after washing? Like leave in conditioners serums / oils etc?
Can you also do an update routine for how you incorporate the WoW products. Thanks. I’m curious if you use other products with it like a heat protector.
I’m a Sunday wash-day girl. I love a Squalane based hair oil. Love the Haielle & The Ordinary’s scalp treatments.
pls do a video about squish to condish! it helps hair to get more moisturized, which is great when experiencing so much protein, that hair breaks!
Love love love your hair care videos, Abbey! Please do the shine mask video!❤️❤️🤗🤗
Yes please I'd really like to listen to you talk about your favourite Shine Masks
I have always washed Fridays since I can remember. My family and I always went to church on Saturdays, plus it was ready for the weekend. I just didn't stop this habit after all these years. When I go through phases when I get more greazy, my 2nd day of the week is usually Monday or Tuesday night, depending if there's something going on or how beat I look LOL. Now that I'm on Accutane, I'm back to one days on Friday.
Omg you have been a great help. My hair is very thin but not oily or dry.I will continue to follow your routine and suggestions to see if my hair improved.Overall I really trust you.
Hey Abbey, thank you for this video. I am someone who has to wash daily, as recommended by my trichologist due to DHT build-up. How often would you recommend this FULL routine, and what products would you recommend on a daily basis? xx
Do you find that you shed more hair after washing (first time combing or brushing) than you do any other day?
products mentioned:
- ogx coconut hair oil
- inkey list salicylic acid scalp treatment
- k18 peptide prep detox shampoo/conditioner
- k18 molecular repair treatment
- redkin acidic bonding concentrate
why do you rinse out k18 when it says on the bottle not to?
Do you not have any leave in conditioner? Or heat protection products you use? I'm confused
I'm so glad you said that you rinsed out the K18 after the four minutes. I just COULDN'T not use conditioner on my hair. Now I'll use the K18, wait 4 minutes, rinse and go with the conditioner. That makes so much sense! Girl, you're good! Great video....again!
I wash once a week on Sunday, but my scalp gets really itchy & flaky by day 5/6. I’ve never done a scalp treatment, so I’m going to try the one you used in this video! Thanks!
Wash your hair 2 or maybe 3 times a week to avoid that problem. Also you might need a medicated shampoo it could be dandruff, psoriasis, seborrheic dermatitis(sounds like this one), folliculitus, etc.
I am starting my hair journey with ur help, my hair si sooo bleached and damaged, im happy i found your videos and will let u know🥰 i bought K18 last year but didn t stick to it so i ll try again 😄, thank u kisses from Paris, Joyce
Recently I have found that putting mask/conditioner etc on actually wet not wrung out hair makes the product actually work much better- a bit like a curly hair routine with the bowl thing even though I dont have curly/coils
ALSO! Upside down washing over the bath is sooooo much better I feel like i have so much more control
I do believe water makes conditioner work better and distribute better