Honestly in a lot of these scenes it feels like people are about to explode but then it all simmers down right before the bursting point. It always ends with a "that went better than expected"
The way that he likens the evening to hemorrhoid surgery is surprisingly accurate to my brother with autism! Sometimes he’ll present things in a socially “awkward” way but his points are always really valid. And the brutal honesty can be uncomfortable when you’re not used to it but sometimes it’s just what you need!! Someone to tell you like it is! Love this representation so much ❤️❤️❤️
Man said in a nut shell.... Nothing we do or say here will ultimately change our circumstances or our ideals, but getting to know each other a bit over dinner conversation can at least make us more comfortable with accepting the facts of the matter. If that's not the greatest nugget of wisdom I've heard all week 😊
I would have said fine, leave. You’re not a prisoner and I will NOT let anyone disrespect my partner in MY home. Get out. And don’t bother ever contacting me until you’re prepared to apologize to Shaun. As an autistic person myself, ablest bullies can go straight to Hell.
@@lourdesroman6769 I disagree. I don’t think being a doormat is handling the situation “better”. I don’t owe anybody proof of shit if you’ve already started the interaction by disrespecting me. You’re not getting any respect from me when you’re not even prepared to afford me something as basic as human dignity in my own bfs home. Talking down to me like the fact I have autism somehow “must” mean I’m incompetent at my job would earn you being shut down and kicked right out. You seem to think me having boundaries surrounding the way I will and won’t tolerate being treated is somehow petty?
Aww. That was sweet. I like how he got on their good side by being himself. If Lea talked for him the whole time, it would be harder for him to gain her parents respect. Somtimes you have to let your partner give thier own impression. Babying them like a mother would by saying things for them will make it worse.
people just cant seem to wrap the concept around their minds that just because someone has autism, doesnt mean theyre dumb and incompetent. while yes, tasks that are simple for others may be a bit more difficult for them, doesnt mean they cant do it. it means they do it their own way that works for them.
FACTS. But then sometimes, people just won’t let autistics do things the way that works for them, and it’s frustrating when you have an actual system that works for you, but it just keeps getting rejected because it “isn’t good enough.”
@@MindyB2004 THISSS!!! im not sure if youve seen the video about down syndrome and she talks about how people dont think theyll be able to do something, so they dont let them try to do it, so they never learn how to do it, but that video applies to a lot of other disabilities as well, autism being one of them. and, off topic, but the fact that people still assume vaccines = autism pisses me off, no matter how many times its been disproven.
I have facial agnosia (aka face blindness) which means I can't process names and faces. When I was a child, for example, I would draw pictures of people and their faces would be blank.that's I 'saw' them. I relied on journals with people's names and physical descriptions that I tried to memorize to get thru school and then jobs as I grew older. I didn't have many friends because I just could not remember them. Even today people think I am faking and call me names. When I turned 50 and when Brad Pitt revealed he has same problem I gave up using journals. People at large will not understand things like autism, asperger's syndrome , Tourette's syndrome or facial agnosia. 'Imperfect' people like me must be accepted, just like the blind, deaf and physically disabled. We want to be accepted, not pitied. I wish all of us would be accepted, not just famous people like Brad Pitt, Lou Ferrigno, Marlee Matlin and Itzhak Perlman.
I think the reason her parents were so offput was because Lea was talking for Shaun, which could give off the feeling he is incompetent and needs someone to help him. But, in his own way, he responded for himself in a respectable manner, explaining what he does, and making a connection
@@the_indecisiveartist_5850 Yes, exactly! I haven't watched the whole show so the only knowledge I have of this scene is only from this short, but from what I'm seeing I think the girlfriend is meddling too much. Like I understand that she's protective of him and doesn't want her parents to have misconceptions about autism, but she should've just let them communicate and make the parents see for themselves what kind of person he is. It's just giving an impression that she doesn't trust him enough to handle himself in social situations like this that might happen often in the future. Just because he's autistic, doesn't mean he shouldn't be treated like an adult
Being a certified nurse is not as easy as you think. They have to study many years, and it's not about how to wipe a patient's "derriere" or how to make the bed, believe me; 3 of my maternal aunts were nurses.
Man I’m always amazed at how realistically this show displays the interactions and way people treat people with autism, obviously besides the crazy superhuman doctor memory stuff this show is surprisingly good at it’s depictions
Every second of this clip feels so dang real! The mom n daughter look related, mom n dads expressions, like dads look of surprise, moms "excuse me" dads laugh and approval, Seans gestures and divulging what he's told in private and Leas pauses and natural concern! All on point! Writers and directors also deserve an award!
Exactly, sometimes you just have to agree to disagree and learn to get along with people despite your differences. You can't force people to change their minds, people can be ridiculously stubborn. Taking a holier than thou approach will only ruin any chances of reconciliation and burn bridges.
😂🎉❤THIS IS GOLD AND IM USING AT FAMILY GATHERINGS THAT START TO GET OUTA CONTROL 😂🎉❤AS AN AUTISTIC SENIOR CITIZEN WOMAN I JUST LAUGHED MYSELF INTO GRABBING MY INHALER
Bruh I would RIOT if one of my partners parents asked “is it hard? For *you*?” Like bruh in that hypothetical case I would’ve gone to medical school and gotten certified for surgery, autism doesn’t have anything to do with that.
For a guy who couldn’t understand people connection, Dr. Shaun, finds a venue for improving the communications channel of people and turns the situation into a level ground.
There is so much judgment towards him and it’s amazing how he was awkward and saying about his patient that he did with hemorrhoid surgery. How funny. Doctors like this are amazing and they change peoples lives forever.
You’d think that the antivaxxers would be tipped off that all educated and liscensed medical workers agree vaccines are safe. When the professional is telling you something, maybe listen.
Oftentimes autism makes it a struggle to communicate with people and "read the room" so we learn to use humor to defuse situations. This show nailed it 🤣
Hmmm. This is not the point of the scene, but I can tell you as someone who had haemorrhoid surgery that you would not be comfortable within two months of having that surgery. It’s excruciatingly painful and takes weeks before you feel somewhat normal and have reduced pain. So, in fact that poor patient would have been in even more pain leading up to his death from cancer. Just saying. These medical shows usually have some pretty good consultants. But not with this case.😅
I always hated lea here.From very start she knew shaun liked her but she kept on taking advantage while sleeping around.Only when shaun got in meaningful relationship with that pathologist ,she was not ready to let shaun go.Selfish.
I know not all autistic people are the same, but in my experience, they usually don't care about direct questions. Asking if your diagnosis makes a certain activity harder is not always insulting. It could be genuine curiosity. Most people with autism I have met are more than excited to teach themselves.
From awkward to super wholesome situation, Shaun nailed that hard....
the conversation or his girlfriend
@@Snowy_bearsssoh my gosh hahaha
@@Snowy_bearsssyes
@@Snowy_bearsssboth?
LOLL@@Snowy_bearsss
The relief Shaun had when her dad started laughing 😂
Yes
Just like hemmroid surgery! 🤓
Love it he Introduce himself in his own way
No replies is crazy
True
Hemorrhoid surgery is like getting pegged by a black dude named racquise
Honestly in a lot of these scenes it feels like people are about to explode but then it all simmers down right before the bursting point. It always ends with a "that went better than expected"
ya the show has a formula
as an autistic person, that is what talking to neurotypical people feels like, especially if you do not know them very well!
@@katiewhitson1552so maybe it shows how interactions feel for him! that would be an interesting theory
@@katiewhitson1552yeah things are scary when talking to a neurotypical it feels like I'm constantly in a fight or flight situation ( ；∀；)
Almost like a hemorrhoid
He made the environment so comfortable 🥰 and specially in his own style..such a lovely man
We agree!
😂😂😂😂😂❤
“How do you feel about vaccines?” My autistic heart dropped, knew right where that was going.
Me too 💀
Wait do ppl rlly think vaccines can cause ASD?
*RFK Jr. Intensifies*
I feel bad cause I thought for a split second "oh doctor vacines.." Then when Lea said what she did I was like "oh that angle..."
I forgot that this was filmed before c0v!d, so that's where my brain went.
Shaun is not only good at his job, he's good at using his job as an example to better solve a problem
Like what he did when he learned to drive
Right like wayta?!
The way that he likens the evening to hemorrhoid surgery is surprisingly accurate to my brother with autism! Sometimes he’ll present things in a socially “awkward” way but his points are always really valid. And the brutal honesty can be uncomfortable when you’re not used to it but sometimes it’s just what you need!! Someone to tell you like it is! Love this representation so much ❤️❤️❤️
My coworkers say it’s my secret weapon for dealing with awkward stuff - to just flat admit it is awkward 😂
Saying “u’ve read a lot of stuff” to a human library gives me 2nd hand embarrassment
its like telling sheldon i can teach you.
Coming from a doctors' family, this would be the best ice-breaker, but I would be at the next table while they shop-talk
Man said in a nut shell.... Nothing we do or say here will ultimately change our circumstances or our ideals, but getting to know each other a bit over dinner conversation can at least make us more comfortable with accepting the facts of the matter.
If that's not the greatest nugget of wisdom I've heard all week 😊
"I am a surgeon." HE SAID THE THING!
OMG. I’ll treat many get-togethers like hemorrhoid surgery from now on. That is GOLD!
Is it me or do the female actors actually look like mother amd daughter?
Actor is guy and actress is for girl.
Yep I thought that too 😂
Probably part of why they cast the mom as the mom lmao
The little okay at the end captured my whole damn heart ❤
The dad seems more chill while the mom is more disrespectful☠️😭
When isn't it that way💀💀
real.
"If we're so impossible to talk to, why even have us here?" GOD THAT ACTIVATED SOME NEURONS
I would have said fine, leave. You’re not a prisoner and I will NOT let anyone disrespect my partner in MY home. Get out.
And don’t bother ever contacting me until you’re prepared to apologize to Shaun.
As an autistic person myself, ablest bullies can go straight to Hell.
@emilycooper442 Shawn managed it better that you would have.
@@lourdesroman6769 I disagree. I don’t think being a doormat is handling the situation “better”.
I don’t owe anybody proof of shit if you’ve already started the interaction by disrespecting me. You’re not getting any respect from me when you’re not even prepared to afford me something as basic as human dignity in my own bfs home.
Talking down to me like the fact I have autism somehow “must” mean I’m incompetent at my job would earn you being shut down and kicked right out.
You seem to think me having boundaries surrounding the way I will and won’t tolerate being treated is somehow petty?
The father has keen eyes.
I love how he won them over and respected his woman and more importantly HIMSELF while doing so. I love Dr. Murphy!
Aww. That was sweet. I like how he got on their good side by being himself. If Lea talked for him the whole time, it would be harder for him to gain her parents respect. Somtimes you have to let your partner give thier own impression. Babying them like a mother would by saying things for them will make it worse.
Or maybe we shouldn’t be disrespecting people in the first place?
I prefer that.
people just cant seem to wrap the concept around their minds that just because someone has autism, doesnt mean theyre dumb and incompetent. while yes, tasks that are simple for others may be a bit more difficult for them, doesnt mean they cant do it. it means they do it their own way that works for them.
FACTS. But then sometimes, people just won’t let autistics do things the way that works for them, and it’s frustrating when you have an actual system that works for you, but it just keeps getting rejected because it “isn’t good enough.”
@@MindyB2004 THISSS!!! im not sure if youve seen the video about down syndrome and she talks about how people dont think theyll be able to do something, so they dont let them try to do it, so they never learn how to do it, but that video applies to a lot of other disabilities as well, autism being one of them. and, off topic, but the fact that people still assume vaccines = autism pisses me off, no matter how many times its been disproven.
I have facial agnosia (aka face blindness) which means I can't process names and faces. When I was a child, for example, I would draw pictures of people and their faces would be blank.that's I 'saw' them. I relied on journals with people's names and physical descriptions that I tried to memorize to get thru school and then jobs as I grew older. I didn't have many friends because I just could not remember them. Even today people think I am faking and call me names. When I turned 50 and when Brad Pitt revealed he has same problem I gave up using journals. People at large will not understand things like autism, asperger's syndrome , Tourette's syndrome or facial agnosia. 'Imperfect' people like me must be accepted, just like the blind, deaf and physically disabled. We want to be accepted, not pitied. I wish all of us would be accepted, not just famous people like Brad Pitt, Lou Ferrigno, Marlee Matlin and Itzhak Perlman.
I think the reason her parents were so offput was because Lea was talking for Shaun, which could give off the feeling he is incompetent and needs someone to help him. But, in his own way, he responded for himself in a respectable manner, explaining what he does, and making a connection
@@the_indecisiveartist_5850 Yes, exactly! I haven't watched the whole show so the only knowledge I have of this scene is only from this short, but from what I'm seeing I think the girlfriend is meddling too much. Like I understand that she's protective of him and doesn't want her parents to have misconceptions about autism, but she should've just let them communicate and make the parents see for themselves what kind of person he is. It's just giving an impression that she doesn't trust him enough to handle himself in social situations like this that might happen often in the future. Just because he's autistic, doesn't mean he shouldn't be treated like an adult
"Is it hard? .... For you?"
If it was then he would probably be a nurse.
Being a certified nurse is not as easy as you think. They have to study many years, and it's not about how to wipe a patient's "derriere" or how to make the bed, believe me; 3 of my maternal aunts were nurses.
@@Ana_Ines3420certified nurse moment
@@Ana_Ines3420that’s what he said
@@beansontoast5996I don't think so.. the English isn't conveying it as well
@@Ana_Ines3420it's still easier than being a surgeon. Not saying being a nurse is easy, but in contrast...
"To hemmeroid surgery! 🍷" 😂
love how he gently said to them they shouldn't be pain in the ass 😂😂
Man I’m always amazed at how realistically this show displays the interactions and way people treat people with autism, obviously besides the crazy superhuman doctor memory stuff this show is surprisingly good at it’s depictions
The ending was actually really sweet
He said it, he said the thing, “I AM A SURGEON”
Remember, when a character makes you mad it’s just the actor doing a really good job
This show is called the good doctor for anyone who is wondering ❤
"i am a sturgeon 🐟"
the mom is so passive aggressive omg
Nah the minute she said “especially when she told us about you” after bringing up vaccines I knew where this was going and I was punching the air
Every second of this clip feels so dang real! The mom n daughter look related, mom n dads expressions, like dads look of surprise, moms "excuse me" dads laugh and approval, Seans gestures and divulging what he's told in private and Leas pauses and natural concern! All on point! Writers and directors also deserve an award!
That's a unique way of calling them pains in the ass.
Exactly, sometimes you just have to agree to disagree and learn to get along with people despite your differences. You can't force people to change their minds, people can be ridiculously stubborn.
Taking a holier than thou approach will only ruin any chances of reconciliation and burn bridges.
It makes me feel better every time someone likes Dr. Shaun
😂🎉❤THIS IS GOLD AND IM USING AT FAMILY GATHERINGS THAT START TO GET OUTA CONTROL 😂🎉❤AS AN AUTISTIC SENIOR CITIZEN WOMAN I JUST LAUGHED MYSELF INTO GRABBING MY INHALER
It's almost as if treating people with the expectation of malice will beeed hostility, and letting them be free diffuses tension.
Every. Single. Interaction. When there is no clear purpose, and just "socializing"... Is now "hemorrhoids surgery" in my vocabulary.
HE IS A SURGEON , LET HIM COOK
Aww 😢 he's so sweet
He wasn’t sweet when he was calling that little girl a terrorist though
I get teary at these clips. I found series 1 through 5 brilliant. The writers should be congratulated and the actors very well chosen.
Like a week ago, I saw the clip of his prepping for this dinner
*The algorithm hath brought me back*
Bruh I would RIOT if one of my partners parents asked “is it hard? For *you*?” Like bruh in that hypothetical case I would’ve gone to medical school and gotten certified for surgery, autism doesn’t have anything to do with that.
I would not have married into this family for a million dollars. 🤦🏻♀️
What about a million and one dollars?
@@BrocoliMan2002 Nope ! 🙂↔️
If someone’s parents treat me like that, It’s a straight breakup for me.. No turning back
I love the awkward pointing
For a guy who couldn’t understand people connection, Dr. Shaun, finds a venue for improving the communications channel of people and turns the situation into a level ground.
There is so much judgment towards him and it’s amazing how he was awkward and saying about his patient that he did with hemorrhoid surgery. How funny. Doctors like this are amazing and they change peoples lives forever.
I strive to be this level of awkward and conversational at the same time
“I am a surgeon”
Me when I lie
He is a surgeon. Confirmed.
Direct approach may be hard to swallow in the long range.. but, it is appreciated down the line.
I have to agree with the parents here. If a question makes you feel uncomfortable that’s on you
You’d think that the antivaxxers would be tipped off that all educated and liscensed medical workers agree vaccines are safe. When the professional is telling you something, maybe listen.
I AM THE SUGEON! ❤
I wouldn't want to introduce anyone to parents like this.
Dad really thought Shaun made some "dad joke" 😂😂
😂😂😂 BRILLIANT !!! 😂😂😂
WE ❤ DR. SEAN MURPHY !!!!!!
I loved this show. The wroters were phenominal.
Bro single handedly made the inlaws like him in record time. Truly a god among men.
Bro has the parent rizz
If Lia's family is Asian the parents is gonna eccept this man almost instantly 😂
Just to make the overbearing parents comfortable.
I just fell for leas father laughter, hes quite connects the dots so quick
Oftentimes autism makes it a struggle to communicate with people and "read the room" so we learn to use humor to defuse situations. This show nailed it 🤣
How witty these writers r brilliant
but leas parents still told her that she shouldnt date shaun😢
What kind of surgeon tho. He does everything
I felt relieved when father started laughing😂
Besides the lie about "maxines don't cause autism", this is an awesome clip, and only from watching this little clip, I love those two parents!!
Hmmm. This is not the point of the scene, but I can tell you as someone who had haemorrhoid surgery that you would not be comfortable within two months of having that surgery. It’s excruciatingly painful and takes weeks before you feel somewhat normal and have reduced pain. So, in fact that poor patient would have been in even more pain leading up to his death from cancer. Just saying. These medical shows usually have some pretty good consultants. But not with this case.😅
Dude has the cheat code
“I am a surgeon”😂😂😂
Wasnt that actress in one episode of house md? Her daughter was elle fanning i think. She didn't want to get pregnant and was deceiving her husband
I can not hear this man say "I am a surgeon" without my brain gping "Dr. Han!"
My mom said this was a good show.
I always hated lea here.From very start she knew shaun liked her but she kept on taking advantage while sleeping around.Only when shaun got in meaningful relationship with that pathologist ,she was not ready to let shaun go.Selfish.
😂😂😂 understanding parents who gave birth to understanding daughter.❤❤❤
Sighhhh. You can't cure wilful ignorance
Is this the actor from ‘Charlie and the chocolate factory’ movie
I hate how the only thing she wants to talk about is his autism.
“To hemorrhoid surgery🍷
Haemorrhoid surgery 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🦅🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I never watched this show but if it all this good, I really missed out!
He looks like adult sheldon
„This list“ she should have put it onto the list of things not to talk about
He nailed that hard situation 👏👏
Name of this movie please ❤
I need to stop watching theses shorts because I just started watching this show and I haven’t gotten this far yet but daaaang I’m so intrigued 😅😅
We love you a lot, Shawn.❤❤❤❤❤
I love this show
What's the title of the movie please.
ABSOLUTELY FUCKING HILARIOUS! "TO HEMORROID SURGERY!" 🥂
That mother is one of the worst actresses I’ve seen on a series show.
I know I'd be a hell of a surgeon, but "no thanks" on Medical School....
Shaun brought that home like a champ 😂
What's the movie name?
if i get money every time i said “ Vaccines doesn’t cause autism “ towards people about my son, i’d be rich😂
It’s so funny and yet relatable 😂
I know not all autistic people are the same, but in my experience, they usually don't care about direct questions. Asking if your diagnosis makes a certain activity harder is not always insulting. It could be genuine curiosity. Most people with autism I have met are more than excited to teach themselves.