Shaun had dinner with his girlfriend’s parents to talk about this hemorrhoid 😂😂…

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  • @mikeb4198
    @mikeb4198 2 месяца назад +13213

    From awkward to super wholesome situation, Shaun nailed that hard....

    • @Snowy_bearsss
      @Snowy_bearsss Месяц назад +34

      the conversation or his girlfriend

    • @marshmallowgal
      @marshmallowgal Месяц назад +11

      @@Snowy_bearsssoh my gosh hahaha

    • @CenturyBlade
      @CenturyBlade Месяц назад +5

      @@Snowy_bearsssyes

    • @Ecstxsy1
      @Ecstxsy1 Месяц назад +1

      @@Snowy_bearsssboth?

    • @hafoola
      @hafoola 7 дней назад +1

      LOLL​@@Snowy_bearsss

  • @TheSieve08
    @TheSieve08 2 месяца назад +5941

    The relief Shaun had when her dad started laughing 😂

  • @mistakemaster6882
    @mistakemaster6882 2 месяца назад +15963

    Honestly in a lot of these scenes it feels like people are about to explode but then it all simmers down right before the bursting point. It always ends with a "that went better than expected"

    • @CK-ou3es
      @CK-ou3es 2 месяца назад +98

      ya the show has a formula

    • @katiewhitson1552
      @katiewhitson1552 2 месяца назад +209

      as an autistic person, that is what talking to neurotypical people feels like, especially if you do not know them very well!

    • @hannahbonanza
      @hannahbonanza 2 месяца назад +93

      @@katiewhitson1552so maybe it shows how interactions feel for him! that would be an interesting theory

    • @Mxrasaki
      @Mxrasaki 2 месяца назад +52

      ​@@katiewhitson1552yeah things are scary when talking to a neurotypical it feels like I'm constantly in a fight or flight situation ( ;∀;)

    • @Dloin
      @Dloin 2 месяца назад +8

      Almost like a hemorrhoid

  • @momof3creation207
    @momof3creation207 2 месяца назад +9928

    Love it he Introduce himself in his own way

    • @abbyz.
      @abbyz. 2 месяца назад +3

      No replies is crazy

    • @Willy._Willz
      @Willy._Willz 2 месяца назад +2

      True

    • @henrystyles69
      @henrystyles69 Месяц назад

      Hemorrhoid surgery is like getting pegged by a black dude named racquise

  • @NafisaMubasshira
    @NafisaMubasshira 2 месяца назад +2017

    He made the environment so comfortable 🥰 and specially in his own style..such a lovely man

  • @teagenthetiefling5296
    @teagenthetiefling5296 2 месяца назад +2190

    “How do you feel about vaccines?” My autistic heart dropped, knew right where that was going.

    • @goowoo69420
      @goowoo69420 2 месяца назад +34

      Me too 💀

    • @GizmoRBLX
      @GizmoRBLX 2 месяца назад

      Wait do ppl rlly think vaccines can cause ASD?

    • @jaypaint4855
      @jaypaint4855 2 месяца назад +14

      *RFK Jr. Intensifies*

    • @Tony29103
      @Tony29103 2 месяца назад +90

      I feel bad cause I thought for a split second "oh doctor vacines.." Then when Lea said what she did I was like "oh that angle..."

    • @heatnicoleher
      @heatnicoleher 2 месяца назад +78

      I forgot that this was filmed before c0v!d, so that's where my brain went.

  • @MinxieJynx
    @MinxieJynx 2 месяца назад +254

    Shaun is not only good at his job, he's good at using his job as an example to better solve a problem

  • @Furrina89
    @Furrina89 2 месяца назад +739

    Coming from a doctors' family, this would be the best ice-breaker, but I would be at the next table while they shop-talk

  • @ravleenliu4946
    @ravleenliu4946 Месяц назад +169

    The way that he likens the evening to hemorrhoid surgery is surprisingly accurate to my brother with autism! Sometimes he’ll present things in a socially “awkward” way but his points are always really valid. And the brutal honesty can be uncomfortable when you’re not used to it but sometimes it’s just what you need!! Someone to tell you like it is! Love this representation so much ❤️❤️❤️

    • @hannahrobbins1017
      @hannahrobbins1017 Месяц назад +4

      My coworkers say it’s my secret weapon for dealing with awkward stuff - to just flat admit it is awkward 😂

  • @clarejennings5049
    @clarejennings5049 2 месяца назад +604

    "Is it hard? .... For you?"
    If it was then he would probably be a nurse.

    • @Ana_Ines3420
      @Ana_Ines3420 2 месяца назад +57

      Being a certified nurse is not as easy as you think. They have to study many years, and it's not about how to wipe a patient's "derriere" or how to make the bed, believe me; 3 of my maternal aunts were nurses.

    • @Doodfood.
      @Doodfood. 2 месяца назад

      @@Ana_Ines3420certified nurse moment

    • @beansontoast5996
      @beansontoast5996 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Ana_Ines3420that’s what he said

    • @shamabegum3167
      @shamabegum3167 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@beansontoast5996I don't think so.. the English isn't conveying it as well

    • @TOBY-jy7bz
      @TOBY-jy7bz 2 месяца назад +8

      ​​@@Ana_Ines3420it's still easier than being a surgeon. Not saying being a nurse is easy, but in contrast...

  • @econmatters1160
    @econmatters1160 2 месяца назад +396

    The father has keen eyes.

  • @hollyb6885
    @hollyb6885 2 месяца назад +193

    OMG. I’ll treat many get-togethers like hemorrhoid surgery from now on. That is GOLD!

  • @rachelsarmientotack
    @rachelsarmientotack 2 месяца назад +167

    Man said in a nut shell.... Nothing we do or say here will ultimately change our circumstances or our ideals, but getting to know each other a bit over dinner conversation can at least make us more comfortable with accepting the facts of the matter.
    If that's not the greatest nugget of wisdom I've heard all week 😊

  • @paulineisme
    @paulineisme 2 месяца назад +287

    Is it me or do the female actors actually look like mother amd daughter?

    • @Benz2533
      @Benz2533 2 месяца назад

      Actor is guy and actress is for girl.

    • @Korkzorz
      @Korkzorz 2 месяца назад +14

      Yep I thought that too 😂

    • @jacobtorres1835
      @jacobtorres1835 2 месяца назад +26

      Probably part of why they cast the mom as the mom lmao

  • @bombdotcom2168
    @bombdotcom2168 2 месяца назад +43

    "If we're so impossible to talk to, why even have us here?" GOD THAT ACTIVATED SOME NEURONS

  • @navibanfield1591
    @navibanfield1591 2 месяца назад +75

    The little okay at the end captured my whole damn heart ❤

  • @Lav3nd3r13
    @Lav3nd3r13 2 месяца назад +50

    "To hemmeroid surgery! 🍷" 😂

    • @natalianavratilova8678
      @natalianavratilova8678 Месяц назад +2

      love how he gently said to them they shouldn't be pain in the ass 😂😂

  • @avobug
    @avobug 2 месяца назад +62

    people just cant seem to wrap the concept around their minds that just because someone has autism, doesnt mean theyre dumb and incompetent. while yes, tasks that are simple for others may be a bit more difficult for them, doesnt mean they cant do it. it means they do it their own way that works for them.

    • @MindyB2004
      @MindyB2004 2 месяца назад +9

      FACTS. But then sometimes, people just won’t let autistics do things the way that works for them, and it’s frustrating when you have an actual system that works for you, but it just keeps getting rejected because it “isn’t good enough.”

    • @avobug
      @avobug 2 месяца назад +8

      @@MindyB2004 THISSS!!! im not sure if youve seen the video about down syndrome and she talks about how people dont think theyll be able to do something, so they dont let them try to do it, so they never learn how to do it, but that video applies to a lot of other disabilities as well, autism being one of them. and, off topic, but the fact that people still assume vaccines = autism pisses me off, no matter how many times its been disproven.

    • @patriciaramsey5294
      @patriciaramsey5294 2 месяца назад +4

      I have facial agnosia (aka face blindness) which means I can't process names and faces. When I was a child, for example, I would draw pictures of people and their faces would be blank.that's I 'saw' them. I relied on journals with people's names and physical descriptions that I tried to memorize to get thru school and then jobs as I grew older. I didn't have many friends because I just could not remember them. Even today people think I am faking and call me names. When I turned 50 and when Brad Pitt revealed he has same problem I gave up using journals. People at large will not understand things like autism, asperger's syndrome , Tourette's syndrome or facial agnosia. 'Imperfect' people like me must be accepted, just like the blind, deaf and physically disabled. We want to be accepted, not pitied. I wish all of us would be accepted, not just famous people like Brad Pitt, Lou Ferrigno, Marlee Matlin and Itzhak Perlman.

    • @the_indecisiveartist_5850
      @the_indecisiveartist_5850 2 месяца назад +3

      I think the reason her parents were so offput was because Lea was talking for Shaun, which could give off the feeling he is incompetent and needs someone to help him. But, in his own way, he responded for himself in a respectable manner, explaining what he does, and making a connection

  • @deep.fried.uterus
    @deep.fried.uterus 2 месяца назад +96

    his little “okey :}” at the end was so cute😭😭

  • @cenarn562
    @cenarn562 Месяц назад +12

    I love how he won them over and respected his woman and more importantly HIMSELF while doing so. I love Dr. Murphy!

  • @kimhyunwoo8983
    @kimhyunwoo8983 2 месяца назад +17

    Man I’m always amazed at how realistically this show displays the interactions and way people treat people with autism, obviously besides the crazy superhuman doctor memory stuff this show is surprisingly good at it’s depictions

  • @RSPPP.
    @RSPPP. 2 месяца назад +14

    The dad seems more chill while the mom is more disrespectful☠️😭

    • @BanMurnerReal
      @BanMurnerReal 2 месяца назад

      When isn't it that way💀💀

  • @TheAnimeKid23
    @TheAnimeKid23 Месяц назад +13

    He said it, he said the thing, “I AM A SURGEON”

  • @the_indecisiveartist_5850
    @the_indecisiveartist_5850 2 месяца назад +25

    Aww. That was sweet. I like how he got on their good side by being himself. If Lea talked for him the whole time, it would be harder for him to gain her parents respect. Somtimes you have to let your partner give thier own impression. Babying them like a mother would by saying things for them will make it worse.

  • @Brin-en8bl
    @Brin-en8bl Месяц назад +5

    Remember, when a character makes you mad it’s just the actor doing a really good job

  • @JohnSheppard105
    @JohnSheppard105 2 месяца назад +25

    "i am a sturgeon 🐟"

  • @coolkid3844
    @coolkid3844 2 месяца назад +17

    The ending was actually really sweet

  • @ang5798
    @ang5798 2 месяца назад +5

    It's almost as if treating people with the expectation of malice will beeed hostility, and letting them be free diffuses tension.

  • @cluehearts
    @cluehearts 2 месяца назад +4284

    the anxiety-autism of blurting out random shit is so real

    • @eisahafeji3859
      @eisahafeji3859 2 месяца назад +23

      Word

    • @voxakumasimp2667
      @voxakumasimp2667 2 месяца назад +10

      Fr

    • @co8008
      @co8008 2 месяца назад +70

      It wasn't random at all though. He wanted to make a point and used an excellent analogy to get it across. The point was relevant to the situation, the analogy effective, and at the same time strange enough to diffuse the tension that had been building in the room.

    • @AceFaz
      @AceFaz 2 месяца назад +22

      ​@@co8008
      Still random to blurt out the first 2 words and take a pause. Lol

    • @thompson8354
      @thompson8354 2 месяца назад

      Well the non autistic people are talking about Vaccines at a dinner table, I think he's the most normal one there lol

  • @ShaneTheCrazyArtist
    @ShaneTheCrazyArtist 2 месяца назад +7

    Nah the minute she said “especially when she told us about you” after bringing up vaccines I knew where this was going and I was punching the air

  • @achliscantplay4202
    @achliscantplay4202 2 месяца назад +3

    Every. Single. Interaction. When there is no clear purpose, and just "socializing"... Is now "hemorrhoids surgery" in my vocabulary.

  • @kaylathompson9418
    @kaylathompson9418 2 месяца назад +35

    Like a week ago, I saw the clip of his prepping for this dinner
    *The algorithm hath brought me back*

  • @CMT_Crabbles
    @CMT_Crabbles Месяц назад +4

    Exactly, sometimes you just have to agree to disagree and learn to get along with people despite your differences. You can't force people to change their minds, people can be ridiculously stubborn.
    Taking a holier than thou approach will only ruin any chances of reconciliation and burn bridges.

  • @Mossymoss69
    @Mossymoss69 2 месяца назад +5

    Bruh I would RIOT if one of my partners parents asked “is it hard? For *you*?” Like bruh in that hypothetical case I would’ve gone to medical school and gotten certified for surgery, autism doesn’t have anything to do with that.

  • @LauraHenderson-wx6xy
    @LauraHenderson-wx6xy 2 месяца назад +24

    I would not have married into this family for a million dollars. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @jollyquinn430
    @jollyquinn430 Месяц назад +1

    "I am a surgeon." HE SAID THE THING!

  • @mrreichtanglethepolandsnatcher
    @mrreichtanglethepolandsnatcher Месяц назад +2

    HE IS A SURGEON , LET HIM COOK

  • @skinkrawler4363
    @skinkrawler4363 2 месяца назад +8

    Aww 😢 he's so sweet

    • @shimmershine6902
      @shimmershine6902 2 месяца назад +1

      He wasn’t sweet when he was calling that little girl a terrorist though

  • @VeneraBerens
    @VeneraBerens 2 месяца назад +4

    😂🎉❤THIS IS GOLD AND IM USING AT FAMILY GATHERINGS THAT START TO GET OUTA CONTROL 😂🎉❤AS AN AUTISTIC SENIOR CITIZEN WOMAN I JUST LAUGHED MYSELF INTO GRABBING MY INHALER

  • @scotts7741
    @scotts7741 Месяц назад +2

    That's a unique way of calling them pains in the ass.

  • @InsaneLaughter01
    @InsaneLaughter01 2 месяца назад +6

    You’d think that the antivaxxers would be tipped off that all educated and liscensed medical workers agree vaccines are safe. When the professional is telling you something, maybe listen.

  • @solaris_v16
    @solaris_v16 2 месяца назад +1

    It makes me feel better every time someone likes Dr. Shaun

  • @the_memeface
    @the_memeface 2 месяца назад +3

    If Lia's family is Asian the parents is gonna eccept this man almost instantly 😂

  • @madscientist2513
    @madscientist2513 Месяц назад +2

    “I am a surgeon”😂😂😂

  • @gemmaparas6014
    @gemmaparas6014 2 месяца назад +2

    For a guy who couldn’t understand people connection, Dr. Shaun, finds a venue for improving the communications channel of people and turns the situation into a level ground.

  • @ShamefulToaster
    @ShamefulToaster 2 месяца назад +5

    Bro has the parent rizz

  • @mcvenne8935
    @mcvenne8935 2 месяца назад +3

    He is a surgeon. Confirmed.

  • @Kawika.
    @Kawika. 13 дней назад

    Bro single handedly made the inlaws like him in record time. Truly a god among men.

  • @deccs002
    @deccs002 2 месяца назад +2

    the mom is so passive aggressive omg

  • @box-kit
    @box-kit 2 месяца назад +2

    I strive to be this level of awkward and conversational at the same time

  • @nancyreading8387
    @nancyreading8387 Месяц назад

    Every second of this clip feels so dang real! The mom n daughter look related, mom n dads expressions, like dads look of surprise, moms "excuse me" dads laugh and approval, Seans gestures and divulging what he's told in private and Leas pauses and natural concern! All on point! Writers and directors also deserve an award!

  • @googleuser8740
    @googleuser8740 Месяц назад +1

    I love the awkward pointing

  • @DSWK_
    @DSWK_ 2 месяца назад +2

    Just to make the overbearing parents comfortable.

  • @user-ub1dn9eo4p
    @user-ub1dn9eo4p 2 месяца назад +1

    I have to agree with the parents here. If a question makes you feel uncomfortable that’s on you

  • @rtrwntchkl
    @rtrwntchkl Месяц назад +1

    if i get money every time i said “ Vaccines doesn’t cause autism “ towards people about my son, i’d be rich😂

  • @danagorham2083
    @danagorham2083 Месяц назад +1

    Direct approach may be hard to swallow in the long range.. but, it is appreciated down the line.

  • @user-sc6rp3pu2y
    @user-sc6rp3pu2y Месяц назад +1

    Wasnt that actress in one episode of house md? Her daughter was elle fanning i think. She didn't want to get pregnant and was deceiving her husband

  • @DarkRedKitten
    @DarkRedKitten Месяц назад +1

    I wouldn't want to introduce anyone to parents like this.

  • @Liz-qm9tb
    @Liz-qm9tb Месяц назад +1

    I hate how the only thing she wants to talk about is his autism.

  • @MerceditaMallari535
    @MerceditaMallari535 2 месяца назад +2

    He nailed that hard situation 👏👏

  • @lastsummerday
    @lastsummerday 2 месяца назад +26

    I AM THE SUGEON! ❤

  • @realsrvbhtngr
    @realsrvbhtngr 2 месяца назад +1

    Dad really thought Shaun made some "dad joke" 😂😂

  • @bethderrico5259
    @bethderrico5259 Месяц назад +1

    That mother is one of the worst actresses I’ve seen on a series show.

  • @jordanbarnhart8548
    @jordanbarnhart8548 14 дней назад +1

    “I am a surgeon”
    Me when I lie

  • @czar6203
    @czar6203 2 месяца назад +1

    YYOOO that line was FIRE🔥🔥🔥

  • @bgreene110
    @bgreene110 2 месяца назад +3

    Dude has the cheat code

  • @theresaastley3459
    @theresaastley3459 Месяц назад +1

    😂😂😂 BRILLIANT !!! 😂😂😂
    WE ❤ DR. SEAN MURPHY !!!!!!

  • @efrendeguzman2059
    @efrendeguzman2059 2 месяца назад +3

    He looks like adult sheldon

  • @aramidebilqees3900
    @aramidebilqees3900 Месяц назад

    I just fell for leas father laughter, hes quite connects the dots so quick

  • @drenn2015
    @drenn2015 Месяц назад +1

    I always hated lea here.From very start she knew shaun liked her but she kept on taking advantage while sleeping around.Only when shaun got in meaningful relationship with that pathologist ,she was not ready to let shaun go.Selfish.

  • @duyanhpham9227
    @duyanhpham9227 2 месяца назад +2

    „This list“ she should have put it onto the list of things not to talk about

  • @annemccarron2281
    @annemccarron2281 Месяц назад +1

    I loved this show. The wroters were phenominal.

  • @homelikewater
    @homelikewater 2 месяца назад +6

    I love this show

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 Месяц назад +1

    My mom said this was a good show.

  • @gt4941
    @gt4941 2 месяца назад +2

    What kind of surgeon tho. He does everything

  • @TheMike0088
    @TheMike0088 2 месяца назад +1

    I can not hear this man say "I am a surgeon" without my brain gping "Dr. Han!"

  • @HToonz
    @HToonz Месяц назад +2

    “To hemorrhoid surgery🍷

  • @TH-c1k2
    @TH-c1k2 Месяц назад +1

    It’s so funny and yet relatable 😂

  • @AmandaNer
    @AmandaNer Месяц назад +1

    How witty these writers r brilliant

  • @rubesdiiaz2667
    @rubesdiiaz2667 Месяц назад +1

    I need to stop watching theses shorts because I just started watching this show and I haven’t gotten this far yet but daaaang I’m so intrigued 😅😅

  • @AfiDeSouza-qf6nf
    @AfiDeSouza-qf6nf Месяц назад +1

    Its feels good meaning your loves family.

  • @betterthinking4573
    @betterthinking4573 2 месяца назад +2

    Make the best out of a bad situation I suppose 😂

  • @barbarabenoit3667
    @barbarabenoit3667 Месяц назад

    In this scene, Shaun is best at communication and socialising of all people in the room.

  • @elizabethnavarro716
    @elizabethnavarro716 Месяц назад +1

    We love you a lot, Shawn.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @southerngypsy1894
    @southerngypsy1894 2 месяца назад +1

    I know I'd be a hell of a surgeon, but "no thanks" on Medical School....

  • @ashleyalexander7388
    @ashleyalexander7388 Месяц назад +1

    Sighhhh. You can't cure wilful ignorance

  • @davidt.6666
    @davidt.6666 2 месяца назад +3

    I have yet to see this show because it wasn't streaming on one of the streaming programs I have.

  • @pivottech8881
    @pivottech8881 Месяц назад +1

    Haemorrhoid surgery 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🦅🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Division_78
    @Division_78 18 часов назад

    Shaun brought that home like a champ 😂

  • @Winterdragonflower
    @Winterdragonflower 2 месяца назад +1

    The parents are like Richard and Emily gilmore

  • @user-gy1qv6fm2y
    @user-gy1qv6fm2y 2 месяца назад +1

    The mom was on Tommy boy movie as Tommy's love interest.

  • @brittany7573
    @brittany7573 Месяц назад

    I know not all autistic people are the same, but in my experience, they usually don't care about direct questions. Asking if your diagnosis makes a certain activity harder is not always insulting. It could be genuine curiosity. Most people with autism I have met are more than excited to teach themselves.

  • @MarianaCarvalho-gu8zx
    @MarianaCarvalho-gu8zx 20 дней назад

    I have absolutely intolerable parents who think they're above everyone else and try to gaslight you... this is exactly how I could see it play out if I were to try and introduce someone to them.

  • @elvisneedsboats3714
    @elvisneedsboats3714 2 месяца назад +3

    I never watched this show but if it all this good, I really missed out!

  • @tiegz9770
    @tiegz9770 Месяц назад

    Note to self: When meeting his parents and things get awkward at dinner, talk about hemorrhoids✅

  • @OwusuaMends-BuahTetteh
    @OwusuaMends-BuahTetteh Месяц назад

    Sometimes we worry too much especially about things we can’t control sometimes it helps to let things happen naturally 😊

  • @Alicen9499
    @Alicen9499 Месяц назад

    This show is called the good doctor for anyone who is wondering ❤

  • @daisyspeaks7479
    @daisyspeaks7479 Месяц назад

    Besides the lie about "maxines don't cause autism", this is an awesome clip, and only from watching this little clip, I love those two parents!!

  • @obiageliezike2474
    @obiageliezike2474 Месяц назад

    😂😂😂 understanding parents who gave birth to understanding daughter.❤❤❤

  • @CadRachel
    @CadRachel Месяц назад

    The way he said okay 😢