Who Has The Most Lovers? Polyamorous People Rank Themselves

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    0:00 intro
    0:30 number of partners by appearance
    1:52 when did you know you were polyamorous?
    3:28 how much free time do you have?
    7:00 how do you deal with feelings of jealousy?
    10:01 how do you feel about marriage?
    10:41 final ranking
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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  Год назад +100

    do you enjoy love + dating content? maybe you should click here 👀*wink wink* lovecommanectar.co/3RI5e2K

  • @juliasewell3300
    @juliasewell3300 Год назад +4600

    Please never have Mia on an episode again until she learns to not laugh at people for sharing really personal things about themselves. Wow. I feel sorry towards Justin, he seems like a very genuine person.

    • @stef62777
      @stef62777 Год назад +10

      which one is mia??

    • @toriibooh
      @toriibooh Год назад +188

      @@stef62777 the girl who kept saying she didn't like being at the end and wanted to move herself up, then moved her self down at the end

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +51

      @@toriibooh She was helping them. She ended up being on the higher end, meanwhile the girl in platforms kept instigating to be high up when she was really low with only 1 partner.

    • @clairem5164
      @clairem5164 Год назад +2

      Preach

    • @laetifico
      @laetifico Год назад +71

      I don't see what was wrong with Mia. She wasn't dissing him by laughing, she was even agreeing. I think she understands the world and how it is to have polarising conversations in the real world.
      Also it always bugs me when people are like how dare you laugh or smile this is serious. I am being serious but being serious doesn't mean you can't laugh or smile. Justin is a comedian. His entire job is about having light hearted/funny serious conversations.

  • @rrrrebecca
    @rrrrebecca Год назад +6488

    didn't like at all how they laughed at justin when he said heterosexual. he just spoke facts. the whole time.

    • @flowd7451
      @flowd7451 Год назад +222

      Because their sad people

    • @retro_tcb
      @retro_tcb Год назад +324

      They live online

    • @mralex2492
      @mralex2492 Год назад +1

      They're sad insecure confused people, who think that because you're heterosexual it's unnatural, because it's so normal to be gay today probably.

    • @skrittle555
      @skrittle555 Год назад +232

      the venn diagram of poly people and insecure people is a circle.

    • @Lostmyspoons
      @Lostmyspoons Год назад +138

      They are insecure, Mia especially

  • @umvemnyama
    @umvemnyama Год назад +8720

    Mia and that other girl really treated Justin terribly. I really admire that he insisted on speaking about serious topics and just engaging in stimulating conversations

    • @TimelyMk
      @TimelyMk Год назад

      Mia was so annoying like i wish she would have just stfu

    • @EtherealBeing
      @EtherealBeing Год назад +429

      Yeah they seemed really full of themselves and full with the spirit of egocentrism. Gross

    • @lovexlina
      @lovexlina Год назад +7

      what number

    • @NadiaSeesIt
      @NadiaSeesIt Год назад +144

      @@EtherealBeing that's what polyamorous people are - narcissists

    • @lemonhead5
      @lemonhead5 Год назад +203

      why were they laughing at him bru💀

  • @ranibowsprimkle4185
    @ranibowsprimkle4185 Год назад +8424

    I really liked Justin's vibe and it kind of seemed like the group (especially Mia) got weirdly hostile toward him toward the end for no reason. Laughing when he tried to explain feeling closer to other hetero men felt especially rude.

    • @Posplan
      @Posplan Год назад +577

      He seems like a great guy. It might be that him as a comedian brings laughter even when he's not planning to, but vibes were indeed weird. He handled it really respectfully while standing up from himself. Nice social skills.

    • @jininberry8204
      @jininberry8204 Год назад +135

      He was in on the joke though. He understood what was going on.

    • @MrsRen
      @MrsRen Год назад +55

      I think they just took the fact he was a comedian as carte blanche to make him the butt of as many jokes as possible. I didn't see it as that bad.

    • @Ambi1021
      @Ambi1021 Год назад +6

      I agree.

    • @oversensitivenipples
      @oversensitivenipples Год назад +239

      bruh nobody was being rude, they were all joking around. she laughed because justin is very hetero and called himself hetero in the most hetero way, he understood why she was laughing and stayed deadpan for her amusement. vibes were great, yall dont know how to read a room.

  • @annabellemaciak7119
    @annabellemaciak7119 Год назад +6137

    Justin had some really thoughful insights. I don't have any clue why someone would laugh and act so disrespectul when he was just sharing his truth

    • @ishy6875
      @ishy6875 Год назад +5

      There's his truth, and then there's the truth.

    • @nadiaishimwe3663
      @nadiaishimwe3663 Год назад +70

      @@ishy6875 the idiocy in this comment. With this topic, there’s no *one* truth.

    • @ishy6875
      @ishy6875 Год назад +2

      @@nadiaishimwe3663 Your inability to refute a single I've said is pretty telling.

    • @Homesick47
      @Homesick47 Год назад +28

      @@ishy6875 lol cuz all you said was "nah that's true" there's nothing of substance there to even argue wit. It's literally a child like argument.

    • @SB-qf4mt
      @SB-qf4mt Год назад +37

      @And so it begins I just think it's kind of disrespectful and it made me uncomfortable watching the video when he was talking and Mia was laughing. Even if it may not have been towards him, her passive aggressive behaviour from beginning to end of the video threw me off and kind of made that particular part feel like it was disrespectful and maybe inappropriate assuming she's an adult.

  • @rozmansj
    @rozmansj Год назад +1319

    Mia was so disrespectful. Justin looked extremely uncomfortable.. and just tired. I can’t imagine the frustration of trying to get out a meaningful thought and constantly being interrupted.

    • @rozmansj
      @rozmansj Год назад +21

      @And so it begins Mainly, I’m speaking on how Mia and the other person cut him off with the laughing, as he started speaking about his sexuality. I’m just wondering what was so funny about that(?) His delivery didn’t seem to be invoking humor.

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz Год назад +1

      ​@And so it begins someone didn't pay attention

    • @Sul516
      @Sul516 7 месяцев назад

      He looked very comfortable

    • @leeannabrown5578
      @leeannabrown5578 2 месяца назад

      She was not being nice.

  • @aimee679
    @aimee679 Год назад +3505

    I don't get it. She is put into first place by everyone but then she ends up having 1 partner. She could move herself down, it's not about who is the mole or something. Seems to happen more often in Ranked

    • @intuitivelogic5159
      @intuitivelogic5159 Год назад +297

      The first two rounds are more about stereotyping based on information other than the actual numbers , so she should have followed along exactly how she did

    • @AlzMarioWolfe
      @AlzMarioWolfe Год назад +185

      She was stereotyped because she mentioned having a bunch of poly roommates earlier on

    • @shrimp1762
      @shrimp1762 Год назад +56

      She was probably told beforehand to not move down:/

    • @l3n1san
      @l3n1san Год назад +46

      When you have +4 in a game of Uno do you yell it out for everyone to know?

    • @aimee679
      @aimee679 Год назад +80

      @@l3n1san that is not the point. I guess the point used to be to make an accurate estimate of the outcome

  • @rainbownarah
    @rainbownarah Год назад +1016

    yeah they definitely need to have more older, mature people like justin on here who can actually have insightful conversations...

    • @everythingisawesome2903
      @everythingisawesome2903 Год назад +27

      and less people like Mia, she makes polyamorous people look bad.

    • @Cookiebunnysweetumserr
      @Cookiebunnysweetumserr Год назад +8

      That’s not what we’re here for these videos are supposed to be light and fun who tf wants to listen to deep convos on RUclips 😂.

  • @tijmen131
    @tijmen131 Год назад +2623

    Mia is the type of woman who acts like she is open minded and progressive but instantly talks down to anyone who isn't as woke as she is

    • @user-360johnn
      @user-360johnn Год назад +9

      Typical

    • @everythingisawesome2903
      @everythingisawesome2903 Год назад +113

      Mia is the type of person who won't value someone opinions just because they are straight.

    • @misfits12o
      @misfits12o Год назад

      Quite an assumption to make of someone you’ve never even met or had a convo with lmao. Wonder if you’d be brave enough to say that in person but probably just another insecure keyboard warrior anonymously lashing out at people on the internet.

    • @tanie3543
      @tanie3543 Год назад +58

      She kept getting mad for the smallest things like CALM tf down it's just a game. She's so mean to people for no reason... Can't believe she can have more than one partners lmao

    • @lorimcadoo5143
      @lorimcadoo5143 Год назад

      she wasn't even woke just pretty pretentious w a big ego wanting everyone to see her as someone w multiple partners

  • @silklavender
    @silklavender Год назад +3145

    Mia’s the kind of person you immediately dislike after having one conversation

    • @MEGIDIOT
      @MEGIDIOT Год назад +22

      😂😂 so true

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +66

      No she’s not, she seemed like a funny and nice person. I hate how the comment judge someone based on one interaction :/

    • @WELVAS.
      @WELVAS. Год назад +34

      Wow that's quite confident of you to say. We are seeing snips of what they discussed. Some of the things she did was disrespectful, but that doesn't mean that's who she is as a person. Reading into it wayyy to much and being rude yourself.

    • @samia1780
      @samia1780 Год назад +55

      @@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Hi Mia

    • @Ms.forgettable223
      @Ms.forgettable223 Год назад +31

      I agree BECAUSE I’ve seen her in another video and didn’t like her in that one either, something about her is just there that you can’t look past that I just don’t like when she’s interacting with people 😂

  • @Tenseiken_
    @Tenseiken_ Год назад +788

    Damn, Mr. Beard guy has a really listenable voice when he slows down and gets in this low range. I like that.

    • @frogmanjr
      @frogmanjr Год назад +14

      Omg me too his voice is idk how to say it smooth?

    • @antibullshit
      @antibullshit Год назад +5

      His voice reminded me of Kendall's from Succession

  • @fueki03
    @fueki03 Год назад +3707

    Mia is so passive aggressive it's annoying

    • @brendacarrasco6930
      @brendacarrasco6930 Год назад +146

      She was just in “build a boo” four days ago and she was chill there lol

    • @lucyservo6574
      @lucyservo6574 Год назад +225

      I think she might have been nervous and was overcompensating, but it came across so rude and passive aggressive.

    • @moiradarling97
      @moiradarling97 Год назад +116

      Being nervous doesn’t make being rude to others okay.

    • @ilsanking4334
      @ilsanking4334 Год назад +13

      Who’s Mia

    • @nora7888
      @nora7888 Год назад +137

      @@andsoitbegins_for me, personally, 8:27 and 9:28 when she was laughing at him felt a little rude just bc he was sharing personal parts of himself and she was being a little disrespectful by laughing but idk

  • @hey7492
    @hey7492 Год назад +1318

    Mia is the chronically online poly that we get bad reputation thanks to, and Justin and the others are how poly irl people usually are.

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +10

      The other girls also laughed at Justin and Mia was only pointing out how controlling Justin was, Mia is not at all as bad as these comments are saying

    • @bratzglamoruslife123
      @bratzglamoruslife123 Год назад +44

      @@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 they laughed because she started laughing. She is passive aggressive and clearly has anger/communication issues.

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz Год назад

      ​@@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 stfu, Karen

    • @nicholasm4013
      @nicholasm4013 Год назад +17

      @@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 you’re as chronically online as she is 😂

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +3

      @@nicholasm4013 sorry Nicholas but that’s projection there

  • @goldc4859
    @goldc4859 Год назад +1773

    ‘Mia’ THOUGHT she was being the main character but failed miserably at that attempt. She was so annoying for no reason.

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +10

      Really? I think Justin was trying to be the main character, just look at how he behaves and cuts people off?

    • @FactsInCheckk
      @FactsInCheckk Год назад +54

      @@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 you trynna defend mia in every comment

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +2

      @@FactsInCheckk because she doesn’t deserve the hate and I’m surprised to see this much for her and none for Justin when he actually did things wrong. It reeks of misogyny.

    • @liviclare
      @liviclare Год назад +28

      @@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 I am all about calling out misogyny but get serious this girl was annoying as heck and rude for no reason

    • @everythingisawesome2903
      @everythingisawesome2903 Год назад +11

      ​@@FactsInCheckk because she is Mia from alt account.

  • @SimchainIsrael
    @SimchainIsrael Год назад +1955

    This one was actually kind of upsetting to watch. Folks laughing at someone when their talking about their sexuality is just not cool. BLUGH.

  • @eduardowolf8890
    @eduardowolf8890 Год назад +2985

    Laughing at justin when he said he was heterosexual is very mature of you’all (sarcasm)

    • @geopoonaniluva4141
      @geopoonaniluva4141 Год назад +253

      Were you expecting maturity from polys?

    • @magnificusdominusduxchad4229
      @magnificusdominusduxchad4229 Год назад +153

      They need to be with multiple people at once to feel fulfilled, what do u except

    • @eduardowolf8890
      @eduardowolf8890 Год назад +73

      @@magnificusdominusduxchad4229 but that doesn’t mean they can’t be mature I’ve met very mature and forward polyamorous people before.

    • @eduardowolf8890
      @eduardowolf8890 Год назад +85

      @@geopoonaniluva4141 that’s sort of assuming that all polyamorous people aren’t mature.
      Justin is polyamorous and comes off as very mature

    • @AlzMarioWolfe
      @AlzMarioWolfe Год назад +31

      @@geopoonaniluva4141 We aren’t all like these weirdos in the video, no need to stereotype. I’m personally just dating two guys and they’re dating each other, too, that’s all there is to us. It’s not much different. I’m actually straight too, being a woman.
      It’s also a closed relationship.

  • @top5footballclips
    @top5footballclips Год назад +1577

    Mia is taking this thing like a competition 🤣

    • @vanessacisneros4731
      @vanessacisneros4731 Год назад +33

      She seems very competitive.

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад

      Not really, she was just trying to speak and Justin kept cutting her off and controlling where everyone’s placement was

    • @annunow921
      @annunow921 Год назад +87

      @@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Mia is that you?

    • @vos7619
      @vos7619 Год назад +31

      @@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Hi Mia

    • @MofoGoLoco
      @MofoGoLoco Год назад

      Haha competitive for a hoe title lol!

  • @mitchboland9591
    @mitchboland9591 Год назад +2445

    I know that polyamory is becoming more common, but every single jubilee video over the topic really makes people in the those sorts of relationships seem selfish/rude. Justin seemed so nice and they were hostile for no reason.

    • @justignorethis4168
      @justignorethis4168 Год назад

      Maybe they are hostile for a reason they have issues wanting to all flex their mental illness

    • @3rdfitzgerald
      @3rdfitzgerald Год назад +59

      You're waking up Neo

    • @sarahp3914
      @sarahp3914 Год назад +58

      @And so it begins The only time I saw a couple people be rude was when they were laughing at him for sharing something about himself. Otherwise the group seemed pretty polite to each other to me

    • @jessicajessica8690
      @jessicajessica8690 Год назад +2

      I think it's a little different when it's a long term marriage or relationship that opens up verse casually dating multiple people.

    • @xdeath9079
      @xdeath9079 Год назад

      That's because they suffer from mental illness 🤷‍♂

  • @prettyfly7873
    @prettyfly7873 Год назад +810

    Mia being on here when she was just on Build-A-Boo… guess that relationship isn’t going to work out lol

    • @coldplayfan7357
      @coldplayfan7357 Год назад

      People like her are superficial and only do things to gain clout and popularity.

    • @peanutbuttercup5561
      @peanutbuttercup5561 Год назад +64

      I had the same thought 😅

    • @namjoons1367
      @namjoons1367 Год назад +23

      Yea but aren’t these episodes filmed a while before they actually get uploaded?

    • @JustLetMeFly94
      @JustLetMeFly94 Год назад +121

      My guess is all of these people on dating shows join just to get exposure and gain popularity not to actually find a partner.

    • @emmabunch-benson4795
      @emmabunch-benson4795 Год назад +14

      Honestly a lot of these people seem like actors or wanna be actors so

  • @dotslashdotslahsdotslash
    @dotslashdotslahsdotslash Год назад +314

    Not gonna lie but I thought there would be at least one with 20+ partners. 👀

  • @arianawhatareudoinghere301
    @arianawhatareudoinghere301 Год назад +1012

    just saw mia in a nectar episode and thought she was really nice. she is like a completely different person in this one.

    • @graceh_
      @graceh_ Год назад +43

      LMFAO IKR

    • @EtherealBeing
      @EtherealBeing Год назад +1

      You can tell she's a snake by the way she talks. Kind of gross honestly

    • @soIve_et_coagula
      @soIve_et_coagula Год назад +136

      probably because she talks less there

    • @itskylie4534
      @itskylie4534 Год назад +32

      was looking for this comment lmao

    • @malinsensuppe
      @malinsensuppe Год назад +4

      truue i thought the same thing

  • @Sir_Tanooki_Dookie
    @Sir_Tanooki_Dookie Год назад +1588

    Mia is the type of person that I cringe just thinking about having to have a conversation in passing at work. The type of person you can always hear before you can see.

    • @strawbabbie
      @strawbabbie Год назад +6

      yeah lol like every topic needs to relive around her

    • @zdf74
      @zdf74 Год назад +15

      why this comment hating on mia so hard😭 she seemed cool i was literally thinking i would go on a date with her

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +3

      @@zdf74 same she seemed really cool in build-a-boo I think Justin just made her more aggressive bc he was so controlling.

    • @Sir_Tanooki_Dookie
      @Sir_Tanooki_Dookie Год назад +1

      @@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 @zdf202 I am a RavenClaw by “Sorting” and have came to terms with my way too real description with its insecurities. I fear her by nature, but will never hate her for that. I seek to move in and understand and befriend as a Pisces. Take what a said as a first response but not necessarily the truth for Mia.

    • @Sir_Tanooki_Dookie
      @Sir_Tanooki_Dookie Год назад +11

      Also just reading Mia at the surface level, this is what I observed. She seeks the attention of all for insecurities she has in herself, but presents herself as a carefree no shits given individual but finishes every reaction with a calculated expression of her being the vulnerable one. Her reactions with Justin seemed to be completely over calculated in the sense that he was more disapproving towards her, so she had to display her beliefs of him holding judgment over her was his weakness even though it was her insecurities of him making her display her predetermined judgments of him. Her prejudice made her become close minded; which, contradicted any of her statements that made her feel so important and forward thinking. This is just my guess at a Surface level.

  • @trevor4530
    @trevor4530 Год назад +208

    Anya literally looks like a forest fairy and I love that for her

  • @yaawns
    @yaawns Год назад +296

    Gonna need Justin to make some audiobooks or something, could listen to him talk for ages!

    • @egamerej
      @egamerej 6 месяцев назад

      DAS WHAT IM SAYIN

  • @rozmansj
    @rozmansj Год назад +408

    Justin’s words on the conversation with other heterosexual men were so thought-provoking, and meaningful.

  • @Sameoldsameold67
    @Sameoldsameold67 Год назад +369

    Was laughing necessary after Justin said he’s straight?

    • @mimimimi00000
      @mimimimi00000 Год назад +106

      That was so disrespectful, I felt SO sorry for Justin

    • @lizzyezekiel116
      @lizzyezekiel116 Год назад +51

      Fr like how would you fight for the freedom to love who you wanna love and then laugh at someone who love who they wanna love😂 the hypocrisy is fabulous 💀

    • @MA-ek1xl
      @MA-ek1xl Год назад +3

      @@lizzyezekiel116 that's feminism.

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads Год назад

      We KNOW that being straight isn’t cool. I’m being sarcastic.

    • @MA-ek1xl
      @MA-ek1xl Год назад

      @And so it begins we all know queer people think they’re better then straight people and that many straight people are lying about being queer or all have urges. It’s what happens when you think you’re oppressed yet have the loudest voice.

  • @heykelly
    @heykelly Год назад +344

    I'm totally cool with poly relationships, but a lot of the issues such as fear and jealousy that they associate with monogamous relationships don't exist in my long term monogamous relationship. I think healthy and unhealthy relationships can exist all relationship styles

    • @waveyvlogs
      @waveyvlogs Год назад +6

      They said that

    • @alala4027
      @alala4027 Год назад +6

      Those issues may not exist for you but I'm sure you deal with complex feelings that maybe are not experienced as much in polyamorous relationships. Jealousy isn't something to avoid, like they said in the video, when you experience jealousy you get to learn more information about yourself and meet yourself on a deeper level whereas if you didn't experience it at all, you wouldn't have as much of an opportunity to meet that part of yourself. Like if a person doesn't want to be poly because they would be jealous, that's just avoiding a part of them that could help them grow to face. Of course people can do whatever they want and have boundaries. But being monogamous doesn't make it go away. it might still be there within them and it's just laying dormant. Avoiding something doesn't make it go away if it exists. Facing it helps it dissipate. But jealousy can happen in both poly and monogamous relationships.

    • @zakiyacarter3714
      @zakiyacarter3714 Год назад +2

      I agree with the replies that they stated this but also with you that there is also the underlying assumption from the group that lack of communication in mono relationships fuels jealousy and puts a lot of the onus on the person feeling jealousy or getting abused. Plus having shared romantic feelings towards one person would probably not resolve many hetero problems but fuel them. Alas to say, painting with broad strokes tends to miss many parts of the canvas. People have been poly forever but mono tends to be sufficient for most

    • @kaskaskas
      @kaskaskas Год назад

      they might not exist in your one monogamous relationship but fear and jealousy are normal things that exist in a lot, if not most monogamous relationships. your one relationship doesn't take that away lmao

    • @Sul516
      @Sul516 7 месяцев назад

      Yeah they definitely acknowledged that they deal with same stuff as monogamous people just in a different setting. I think it was Mia who said that which was very insightful.

  • @lauren22x
    @lauren22x Год назад +311

    hope the girl from build a boo let the other girl know she’s poly before agreeing to go on a date 🙄

    • @egygizda
      @egygizda Год назад +95

      my thoughts exactly. i think mia should have said it before she let the boo maker choose her over all those other girls.

    • @stephanieparker1625
      @stephanieparker1625 Год назад +4

      facts

    • @katherinemartinez5848
      @katherinemartinez5848 Год назад +3

      Was thinking the same thing…

  • @Meppity
    @Meppity Год назад +540

    Thank you so much for having me on!! It was really lovely meeting everyone and discussing a part of my life that I never typically talk about. ~ Anya 💛

    • @karan_karan_karan
      @karan_karan_karan Год назад +58

      ur a queen and ur outfit was sooo cute! where is ur top from is it balmain or loewe it looks boujee

    • @eliasderry
      @eliasderry Год назад +9

      Omg! How did I not make the connection that this was u??

    • @oasis5212
      @oasis5212 Год назад +5

      i love ur art ur inspiring and i loved u on this ep 🖤

    • @amarised
      @amarised Год назад +15

      typical Anya slay

    • @RacingPepe
      @RacingPepe Год назад +10

      You are beautiful and your accent is really nice to listen to

  • @heavenlyhashbrown1
    @heavenlyhashbrown1 Год назад +349

    Not to undermine the panel, but Justin seems the most average and relatable to the majority of viewers who may be thinking about a poly-relationship. I think a more in-depth discussion with him and his partners would be really helpful.

    • @MarkArness
      @MarkArness Год назад +20

      I agree, except for the part where their poly journey started by recruiting a unicorn. Not judging them for it, but too many people think the easiest way to ease a monogamous relationship into polyamory is by "adding a third" and that has its own set of advanced challenges.

    • @youtubechannelchannel9363
      @youtubechannelchannel9363 Год назад +5

      who wants to encourage polyamory lol? a literal ailment in society

    • @stefan98TH
      @stefan98TH Год назад +4

      ​@@youtubechannelchannel9363 care to elaborate? seems prety polyphobic to me

    • @youtubechannelchannel9363
      @youtubechannelchannel9363 Год назад +1

      @@stefan98TH it’s primitive!! it’s barbaric, animal-like decadence. one of the main traits of modern society is monogamy. its a pillar of construction of our cultures.

    • @sae311
      @sae311 Год назад

      ​@@MarkArness adding a third even in media just ruins the couple for me lol it never works out just ruins the whole dynamic n riddles it with jealousy n becomes abt making ppl equal unstead of cherishing ur unique bond with ur og partner n new partner. Alot of ppl must confuse being open to being poly lol and even with triads i have never read about a healthy one.

  • @aspebb
    @aspebb Год назад +326

    Justin saying he was straight and getting laughed at for it was pretty disrespectful. I get that there are nuances, but if that were the other way around it wouldn't be glanced over like that.

    • @whatoh3407
      @whatoh3407 Год назад +3

      Ya idek whats so funny? These are the people that believe everyone would be gay if they just tried it once.

  • @madisonbell6045
    @madisonbell6045 Год назад +65

    i love that every single person collectively agrees that mia is shitty person

  • @timblom7364
    @timblom7364 Год назад +34

    Justin is just wonderful, what a mature, genuine person. He reminds me of my favorite people who are self-aware, confident but still open.

  • @angiii
    @angiii Год назад +38

    Mia gives off such an immature vibe. That's so rude to laugh at someone when they're trying to open up. Imagine if the tables were turned and Justin started laughing at her.

  • @verityharris8551
    @verityharris8551 Год назад +391

    I love Anya’s outfit and their whole vibe!

    • @lunamartinezzz
      @lunamartinezzz Год назад +23

      Yes! She has a beautiful style and seems very calm

    • @sandmanclips7297
      @sandmanclips7297 Год назад

      I'm really close to 700 sobs I'm currently at 693 if anyone could help that would be great

    • @Meppity
      @Meppity Год назад +19

      Ahhh thank you so much! That means a lot 🥹💛

    • @shayne-1880
      @shayne-1880 Год назад +2

      And she was one of the few who didn’t laugh at Justin

  • @eveisla
    @eveisla Год назад +74

    mia and d’nayza are literally so chronically online it’s insane

  • @lilguyonhiswaytothemall
    @lilguyonhiswaytothemall Год назад +268

    I hate the whole "if people are polygamous it'll stop/reduce domestic abuse" argument. Like there are very dangerous monogamous and polygamous people. I was groomed by polygamous men when I was aa teenager, and have met so many polygamous people when in the dating scene who would objectify me and were jealous of anything I did even though we'd never even been on a date.
    It's definitely not all polygamous people, there are lovely people who are polygamous. But just like monogamous people the community has issues and dangerous people in it who will pray on others, get jealous and be abusive to their partners
    EDIT: I MEAN POLYAMORY! I'm dyslexic and the two words basically look identical to me, and I'm not going to risk changing them as I'm worried my autocorrect might correct some words as polyamory and others as polygamy, so will confused more people with inconsistencies. So yeah ai mean polyamory, sorry for the confusion

    • @Threehundredandsixtyeight
      @Threehundredandsixtyeight Год назад +28

      We’re talking about polyamory not polygamy

    • @sarahp3914
      @sarahp3914 Год назад +24

      100% agree, abuse is not because of a relationship structure, it's because of problems inside the person who's abusing. Abuse can happen in any relationship, between any types of people. The onus is on the individual who is behaving poorly, not on the relationship structure.

    • @Noise_floorxx
      @Noise_floorxx Год назад +6

      I think that his argument made sense. A lot of domestic abuse comes from control and jealousy and if people were able to speak about it more openly and be honest with how they feel and where it truly vibes from, it wouldnt bottle up as much and explode. Of course there will be shitty people everywhere but jealousy is at the root of a lot of violence.

    • @nexus9384
      @nexus9384 Год назад +10

      polygamy and polyamory are two VERY different things

    • @tammy5466
      @tammy5466 Год назад +3

      Polygamy and polyamory aren't the same thing

  • @jadebroadhurst4697
    @jadebroadhurst4697 Год назад +705

    Please don’t ever bring Mia back, so rude and childish

    • @whatoh3407
      @whatoh3407 Год назад

      Or the girl with the platforms. They were both pretentious assholes. Idk who they think they are.

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +3

      She didn’t do anything that the others didn’t also do. Justin was rubbing everyone the wrong way.

    • @andr33aa
      @andr33aa Год назад +64

      @@andsoitbegins_ how was justin rude at all.... he seemed so geniuine, didn't even talk back rudely when he was laughed at for his sexuality, instead he literally apologised. i understand thinking he came off strong maybe because he's a comedian but in no way was he rude to the others

    • @KateCarew
      @KateCarew Год назад +10

      @@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 no he wasn’t, unless you were there?

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +2

      @@KateCarew So Mia wasn’t either, unless you were there?

  • @lucyservo6574
    @lucyservo6574 Год назад +180

    Wow Justin was so open and thoughtful, and he was very intelligent too!

  • @sadscientist9995
    @sadscientist9995 Год назад +37

    Mia said “jealous is hot” I want an explanation on this. It’s hot when someone is feeling jealous of her? Like one of her partners is jealous she is sending time with another and she likes that?
    If the jealous partner is into that then it’s fine and it can work, but if they aren’t then that could be very toxic, as in she’s attracted to her partner feeling a negative emotion

    • @Mole-Esther
      @Mole-Esther Год назад +4

      Yes because it makes you feel more wanted I guess

  • @The_Guitar_Guy_
    @The_Guitar_Guy_ Год назад +38

    I don't know why I was so suprised they all had 5 or less partners

  • @amandas9706
    @amandas9706 Год назад +31

    I think Justin is just older than all of them and is speaking from his experience and the rest of them are just immature and think they know everything.

  • @isabeltoralbo9277
    @isabeltoralbo9277 Год назад +105

    I have the fattest crush on Justin.
    That voice, his kindness, his humour, his awareness, oof. 🥵

  • @gen-zhippie2203
    @gen-zhippie2203 Год назад +23

    crop black tank top girl- when she said after she became poly, she got less jealous? Like you can resolve those issues of jealousy within yourself, without being poly? Just because your monogamous, doesn't mean you can't deal with jealousy in a healthy, self reflecting way

  • @roi3541
    @roi3541 Год назад +139

    So the girl from build a boo got a girl with 3 partners... Nice!

    • @MA-ek1xl
      @MA-ek1xl Год назад +23

      funny how that didn't come up in the episode lol

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 Год назад +139

    It's already hard dealing with one person's baggage let alone multiple. It's definitely cool to have multiple sex partners but more power to you if you can actually make something work relationship wise

  • @emowriterchik
    @emowriterchik Год назад +20

    that mean girl laugh when justin said he was straight made me cringe...

  • @alitzzy
    @alitzzy Год назад +22

    Thanks, Jubilee, for the representation. :)
    I very much appreciated Justin's choice of words and topics, hoping to see him again in a future video.
    I also feel like the men in this video spoke kindly and openly about their views, wish I could hug you for it.

  • @cherishwashington6986
    @cherishwashington6986 Год назад +63

    is it me or were the beliefs on being able to talk to your partner, being honest and having open communication, just normal things that people should have in all relationships across the board??

    • @waveyvlogs
      @waveyvlogs Год назад +2

      Yes it is but in a lot of monogamous relationships I’ve been in and have experiences there isn’t a lot of room for it

    • @Mole-Esther
      @Mole-Esther Год назад +19

      @@waveyvlogs thats on you and your partner not because it's monogamous

    • @marmar90000
      @marmar90000 Год назад +2

      ​@@Mole-Esther No, it's pretty common for a lot of monogamous relationships because A LOT is taken for granted. It's great that you and your partner are able to do this, but you are actually the exception instead of the norm.

    • @baoxology9958
      @baoxology9958 5 месяцев назад

      ⁠@@marmar90000 Your point? It’s the same for polyamorous relationships too.

    • @marmar90000
      @marmar90000 5 месяцев назад

      @@baoxology9958 Hello, 10 months later. I was specifically responding to a comment that has since been deleted. I don't remember what that comment was, but its disappearance is making my comment seem 'random' or 'disjointed'.

  • @kathleenreilly828
    @kathleenreilly828 Год назад +198

    Wow, watching people laugh about being heterosexual was insane. I knew it was coming but witnessing it happen was crazyyyy!!

  • @napoet_02
    @napoet_02 Год назад +17

    I don't get why they were laughing when Justin stated that he was heterosexual. Very immature of them but respect to him for handling it well. Hope they apologized after this was filmed.

  • @elingranath
    @elingranath Год назад +25

    Anya has such gorgeous eyes! Really pretty eyeliner too!!

  • @kinjiru1
    @kinjiru1 Год назад +314

    I could tell straight away Mia was going to have bully vibes.

    • @neerin4178
      @neerin4178 Год назад +55

      those roots really gave it away

    • @luxursunsets
      @luxursunsets Год назад +5

      @@neerin4178 literally

    • @bliss7166
      @bliss7166 Год назад +2

      @@neerin4178 hahahahhaha

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +9

      No need to insult her looks

    • @mimi-xx
      @mimi-xx Год назад +5

      her vibe was weird but so is this comment lmao, she was mostly fine throughout the first half

  • @miniruss123
    @miniruss123 Год назад +23

    That was so mean they laughed when Justin said heterosexual

  • @hgab22
    @hgab22 Год назад +49

    A lot of them seem to be hesitant, or felt embarrassed to be towards the top of the line. Which is interesting to me because I wonder if still even within the polyamory community. There is a shaming against having more than X amount of partners.

  • @BINGBONGWOOWOO
    @BINGBONGWOOWOO Год назад +157

    Okay… I think Mia was having a little bit of mean spirited humor. I don’t think she’s a horrible person. Let’s all calm down. Justin is going to be okay (very nice guy btw). We’re all going to be okay. Let’s not try so hard to make sure that Mia is not okay. We’ve all had awkward days/ moments, not all of them are filmed.

    • @mageds2684
      @mageds2684 Год назад +25

      Very true, and very wise. However, that’s not gonna stop me from hating her in this video. She knew this was filmed and was consciously making the decision thinking she would be the star of the video. I’m guessing the fam she had gotten from previous videos got to her head and now she believes the internet takes her side, even if she’s too blind to see past her bad attitude.

    • @whatoh3407
      @whatoh3407 Год назад +4

      Ehh im okay with hating her.

    • @kp-bh8eh
      @kp-bh8eh Год назад +3

      fr people acting like judging a straight person for being straight is equally as bad as judging a queer person for being queer

    • @Mole-Esther
      @Mole-Esther Год назад +4

      @@kp-bh8eh it is just as bad lmao no one should be judging anyone

    • @kp-bh8eh
      @kp-bh8eh Год назад +6

      @@Mole-Esther it’s not nice but there is no history of oppression with straight people

  • @RavenRaven96
    @RavenRaven96 Год назад +129

    This is one of the worst episodes based on the passive aggressiveness and obnoxiousness.
    Denaja,
    She was trying to be a mole and keep the top spot. Even though she KNEW she had 1 partner.
    There was 1 serious conversation in this whole video by Justin and they LAUGHED at him.

    • @marvinmiller2983
      @marvinmiller2983 Год назад +11

      This isn't an Odd One Out episode lol, this show is supposed to explore stereotypes, how we judge others, and how our initial judgements about someone could be completely wrong. It wouldn't be very interesting if they guessed the whole lineup correctly so when everyone else guessed that she was at the top, so she stayed at the top even though she knew damn well that they were wrong. I agree with you on the other point though...

  • @jackd241
    @jackd241 Год назад +7

    why’s everyone being so rude about mia she just laughed at the wrong moment because maybe she expected something else or was just awkward from interactions with people it was a ten second moment 💀

  • @strawfairy104
    @strawfairy104 Год назад +15

    What are those two laughing at? The heck. It’s givin me yOU caNt siT wIth uS energy

  • @rinrinring
    @rinrinring Год назад +15

    I find other peoples alternative lifestyles really interesting. Love this channel.

  • @keithmutamba1395
    @keithmutamba1395 Год назад +44

    D’NAYZJA looks like an anime villain. I would watch that anime.

  • @toetail8665
    @toetail8665 Год назад +37

    She knew she had 1 partner but decided to stay at the top? Why? Idk these people are iffy

    • @chrishansen8119
      @chrishansen8119 Год назад +5

      1st round is based off of first appearances, and how people stereotype you.
      The open discussion had her saying "I'm trying to tell y'all"
      She didn't give any indication that she had the most partners, and in fact, if you listen to what she says, it's pretty clear that she doesn't have a lot of partners

    • @l.s.11
      @l.s.11 Год назад +1

      Yeah, it felt like she didn't understand the assignment in that regard.
      But it can be tricky to be instructed with "you can't say how many partners you have" - so what, you just let others move you around?
      Same with the one with 0 partners (Anya?) - she should've stayed put at number one because she knew no number is greater than her 0.
      Kind of an iffy concept.

    • @kiiwiisoup
      @kiiwiisoup Год назад +1

      I thought the point was that you had to let the others rank you? Like they couldn't have a say in where they were ranked, other had to do it based on what they hear ig idk

  • @danzwku
    @danzwku Год назад +21

    why did I expect to get those Disney numbers in the end up in the 1000s 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @alisiademi
    @alisiademi Год назад +24

    Here to support Jacob who I went to high school with!! They are also vegan and super cool!

  • @starkitty14
    @starkitty14 Год назад +203

    I found out that I'm not polyamorous because I'm content giving my affection to one worthy person. More power to you poly people, though!

    • @coldplayfan7357
      @coldplayfan7357 Год назад +24

      Great. I also do prefer a relationship based on mutual respect where partners are connected to each other through emotional bond and are loyal,instead of someone casually sleeping with dozen other while also carrying multiple different diseases like herpes,STDs or AIDS

    • @alangarde2928
      @alangarde2928 Год назад +19

      @@coldplayfan7357 Me too! That's why I'm poly and don't sleep around and have mutual respect for partners I deeply love and am commited to!

    • @coldplayfan7357
      @coldplayfan7357 Год назад +8

      @@alangarde2928 Just don't give your multiple partners dozens of life threatening diseases

    • @AlzMarioWolfe
      @AlzMarioWolfe Год назад +5

      For me, I consider myself primarily monogamous too, but I am currently in a polyamorous relationship with two men. The three of us are all equally intimate with each other, so I always considered it pretty close to being the same as a monogamous relationship. It’s nice. Call me monoflexible maybe? Like heteroflexible but for number of partners? Lmao

    • @Theoneandonlybish
      @Theoneandonlybish Год назад +15

      @@AlzMarioWolfe nah you arent monogymous lmao

  • @magnisky
    @magnisky Год назад +11

    I found it funny that all of them talked about being really busy and not having enough time. 😂 it’s hard to maintain one relationship already.

  • @PorkShark
    @PorkShark Год назад +9

    "someone that i keep in touch w/ + expect them to do the same"
    ...that's just a *NORMAL FRIENDSHIP*

  • @abbyede7942
    @abbyede7942 Год назад +70

    Mia rubs me the wrong way

  • @sage3260
    @sage3260 Год назад +13

    justin is giving complete zachary quinto vibes and i love it

  • @vivianewaters3495
    @vivianewaters3495 Год назад +11

    2.50 being in a monogamous relationship doesn't automatically mean you're selfish, thats so wild. dont rrly care if ur poly but why hate on others choices for no reason?

  • @michaeltnk1135
    @michaeltnk1135 Год назад +44

    Why are they acting like polyamory is a sexuality? It’s a life style

    • @Mole-Esther
      @Mole-Esther Год назад +5

      Oml exactly I was so mad lmao

    • @marmar90000
      @marmar90000 Год назад

      No one said it was. It's a **relationship style**. I think it's just you that's confused 🤔🤔

    • @michaeltnk1135
      @michaeltnk1135 Год назад

      @@marmar90000 No, they were definitely treating it as if it were a sexuality. They said things like “when did you realize you were poly”

  • @headsonthefritz
    @headsonthefritz 10 месяцев назад +3

    This comment section is wild. There's so many judgements being made on these people's character based on a video that's not even fifteen minutes. Jubilee is known to edit with the intention of portraying people in a bad light to get more engagement and you're all falling for it.

  • @oreocooki3375
    @oreocooki3375 Год назад +3

    I loved Justin's personality so much!

  • @kimelbert3347
    @kimelbert3347 Год назад +6

    They're all so funny and seemingly comfortable with each other. Rather than the awkward "not trying to offend you" vibes I get from most other groups in this series.

  • @daniellakioto
    @daniellakioto Год назад +17

    I am never writing negative comments, but this Mia is absolutely disrespectful and annoying. She completely made me mad by how she is talking to people.

    • @vezuvius
      @vezuvius Год назад

      @@andsoitbegins_ no one asked?

  • @jessi3434
    @jessi3434 Год назад +15

    Justin has such a nice voice

  • @Tubbles
    @Tubbles Год назад +6

    Next, y'all should test if teachers can identify if text (or art, music, ect) is written by ai or a person.

  • @djjorge87
    @djjorge87 Год назад +6

    Now that was absolutely a ton of self soothing

  • @maryajayscene
    @maryajayscene Год назад +15

    This was a very informative video about polyamory! I think it’s cool to see the different types of poly relationships that are represented 😊

  • @darkangelprincess101
    @darkangelprincess101 Год назад +7

    I love the way Justin slowly and sneakily moves when he finds out that one woman is a dominatrix

  • @motiemo
    @motiemo Год назад +5

    By the way, polyamory is fluid. You do not have to permanently switch to poly forever. It depends on the relationship. I've been in poly relationships in the past but my current is just me and my husband and we have a baby now. We are monogamous. We have discussed introducing others but he gets very timid so I would never want to pressure him into anything and I'm very happy with just him. Honestly, being poly is exhausting. I'm too busy nowadays to be concerned with adding people into my relationship lol

  • @dianabialaskahansen2972
    @dianabialaskahansen2972 Год назад +5

    Being mono, I have a difficult time imagining people just casually dating around like these with multiple partners. The only one I could somehow relate to was Justin, where it seemed to be two very long term relationships and all of them being together.

  • @alexare6655
    @alexare6655 Год назад +80

    Mia has no chill. Girl let Justin talk. Mia chill tf down. I got weird vibes from her from build a boo. She the type of person to think she's cool but literally has no chill.

    • @alexare6655
      @alexare6655 Год назад +8

      @And so it begins literally everyone here and in the comments disagrees with you but you keep believing whatever you want lmao.

    • @poni-sz2pm
      @poni-sz2pm Год назад

      @And so it begins I think you just hate men

    • @poni-sz2pm
      @poni-sz2pm Год назад

      @And so it begins >using incel as an insult cause the only value that I have is sex

    • @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360
      @actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Год назад +1

      Justin was talking over other and pulling them by their clothes to rearrange them. They laughed at him once and they’re the bad guys here?

    • @alexare6655
      @alexare6655 Год назад +1

      @@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 again no one saw it that way other than you. Justin didn't come off bad and actually handled Mia laughing at him for being heterosexual really well. And what is that anyway? Laughing at someone's sexuality? As if you can't believe there are straight people? Girl grow tf up.

  • @monkey93xf
    @monkey93xf Год назад +3

    Omg Meppity needs to talk about this on the channel

  • @jacobcollins8649
    @jacobcollins8649 Год назад +2

    It's just them laughing, sometimes it's just a response not an offense

  • @WillTheGreatest
    @WillTheGreatest Год назад +3

    Very interested in the convos that come from this but I know aba and preach finna have a field day

  • @ADayInTheLifeofBS
    @ADayInTheLifeofBS Год назад +15

    Saying the monogamous community like every monogamous couple has breakup secs is wild

  • @sondersoul1
    @sondersoul1 Год назад +12

    the “real” at the end had me laughing for like 3 mins 😂😂

  • @seungminisamaterialgirl1420
    @seungminisamaterialgirl1420 Год назад +2

    I hated how Justin poured his heart out and they just laughed the other boy was the only one really listening

  • @rishaa682
    @rishaa682 Год назад +12

    I could never have the energy for this

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 Год назад +7

      imagine coming home from work and dealing with the emotions of 5 separate adults.

  • @skeletalarkeus5728
    @skeletalarkeus5728 Год назад +6

    I feel like they directed some characteristics such as how to deal with jealousy as being a polyamorous trait when in reality it's just the sign of a mentally and physically stable individual. Probably worded that poorly but yeah

    • @marmar90000
      @marmar90000 Год назад

      Yeah, it's pretty badly worded. Can you rephrase so we can understand better?

  • @dontshityourself
    @dontshityourself Год назад +104

    I love seeing different relationship styles being exposed instead of being treated as "taboo." Even though it might not be for me personally, it's still nice to see.

  • @nickmoss4213
    @nickmoss4213 Год назад +3

    D’Nayzja is giving Yvie Oddly and I LOVE it

  • @crystalclear6660
    @crystalclear6660 Год назад +44

    It seems like poly people seem to △⃒⃘ℓωαуѕ think they’re better than monogamous people. That they are more “evolved” than us.They seem to have a very narrow view of what people are like in monogamous relationships.

  • @nadinecontreras8566
    @nadinecontreras8566 Год назад +11

    Why was it okay for them to laugh when he said he identified as heterosexual

    • @hewpack5407
      @hewpack5407 Год назад +2

      Because of the way he said it. Idk why everyone is simpin so hard for Justin and taking everything so seriously.

  • @ceradaddygibson
    @ceradaddygibson Год назад +5

    Justin was the best representative of a poly person. Kinda grossed out by the laughing at him etc. Ick. Lots of weird superiority complexes happening

  • @haileywilson6694
    @haileywilson6694 Год назад +1

    Justin has a nice voice, very clear and smooth

  • @bklynkat23
    @bklynkat23 Год назад +23

    Omg this group was perfect. Casting nailed it again. They legit had me rolling the entire episode when they would move each other around.
    The final results surprised me especially D'nayzja! I did have a feeling that Jax would be the anchor after the ALL my partners line. It was great hearind all of their stories.
    I loved the addition of the number of partners including dates ranking at the end.

  • @niannynuiunyion21
    @niannynuiunyion21 Год назад +3

    not me agreeing with all of the and questioning if im poly 😭