16 Personalities Giving Relationship Advice
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- Опубликовано: 23 сен 2024
- The 16 Myers Briggs Types Giving Relationship Advice
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INFJs, we're just THE BEST ! ! ! ! ! Like The Grand Pope on the Top of the 12 houses of the Zodiac.
Please making these videos, make longer ones, make movies, I just can't stand this lockdown anymore.
hey I love your videos💓
As soon as I heard 'solved all their problems' I knew it was INFJ time. But God forbid we solve our own pft
"But God forbid we solve our own pft" JAJAJAJAJAJaja *sigh* I felt that one too hard 🥵✌
Listen, I wish I had someone to listen to and advise me the way I listen to EVERYONE and advise them. I enjoy helping out though
Indeed, God grants us the ability to be speechless and dumb about our own problem but very caring, innovative, creative for solving others, and the super power to be glutton to absorb all the miseries, listen to them and keep them all in silence....
And the best part is when say it depends on them to choose whether to follow our advice or not and then they didn't follow it, and things get worse and the evil cycle continues....
LMAO SAME. But then making sure you leave room for error just in case you're wrong. But you're pretty sure you're not. But. Just in case.
I think so. I always be my friend advisor about their problems(love,life,work or anything) and they always follow my advice .(I’m really appreciated.) But when I tried to solve my problem I got struck in many ways and they didn’t seem to understand me. Maybe we(INFJ) should care more about our feeling and be the better advocate for others :) (in my opinion ❤️)
Dump him
- INTJ
😂😂😂my advice....proud INTJ
@@btslittlemixarmixer1654 me too
On point 😂
Mhm
When you put it that way ... yeah, I don't remember ever giving anyone a reason to NOT break up. ha ha ha ha
Just imagine taking off and putting on 16 shirts every day
Thats what i was thinking
The effort is priceless 😅😩
I don't even use one. 😂
Istp clothes never changes
@@Bimskuuy neither does others
Intp- NASA white shirt
Infp- light pink
Enfp- dark pink
Enfj- brown
So on
Me as in INFP: “you know.... I’ve never exactly been in this situation because I don’t go out a lot... or have any friends other than you, BUT I have thought about what I would do if this happened to me about a thousand times already and this seems like the most reasonable solution.”
Friend: “you know what? I think you’re right.” *does opposite of what I said anyways.*
This is so accurate that I can't even describe it. ;u;
Ugh! I don't even know why they keep coming back for advice if they don't listen anyways, lol.
OH WAIT ACTUALLY... YEAH.
GIRL THIS IS SO ACCURATE
Accurate, but it actually WORKS somehow LMAO xD Intuition?, understanding of the human nature? I don't know, it just works XD
"Don't come to Judge Judy and expect Oprah" - I may need that one on a t-shirt.
I was just thinking that myself....
Me too...
SAME, I was about to quote it here but @Iza bet me to it!
Savage
That one got me 😂😂
The INTJ one should be, "Why should I give any advice anymore? No one listened to me the last time."
Exactly.
True
YES
Because I give advice and it’s never taken...
AAHHHHHHHHHH SOOO RELATABLE AS AN INTJ OH MY GOOOOOOOOODDNESS
infj be like: doubt is my main personality trait. i will help you with anything and everything, but always say idk to minimize the chance of being told i was wrong and getting yelled at. : )
"Doubt is my main personality trait" damn you're so right
So true
It happened to me once, not anymore, I learned and now my signature is "idk thou, you do you" 😂
But still give advice when it's needed or asked.
Seriously? Stand up for yourself. So what if someone yells at you. It makes you stronger and shows people their flaws lol Love you though 😝
Enneagram 6 be like:
*INTP:* * Has no experience of being in a relationship *
*Also INTP:* * Gives the best relationship advice *
Yes😭 as an INTP, I do
True 🤣
Probably because we spend too much time thinking on our own😂😂
my friend : *ask me where ik all this stuff n advice when i nvr even date a guy*.
Me who learn about human relationship through film, book, internet : Well about that... .
My friend who jump in conclusion that i have dated a guy before : OMG DONT TELL ME THAT YOU... .
Me wondering how did she get that idea from : BRUH I CANT EVEN TALK A CLERK WHEN BUYING STUFF IN SUPERMARKET
basically my everyday w my friend
As an INTP i can say that people ask advice from me all the time,i can give golden advices to others but when it comes to myself
I' can't even collect my thoughts
INFP: *Offering harsh and real criticsm on Shakespeare since 2020*
Edit: Honestly, whether Shakespeare's plays are messed up or not, he's my guy 😂 (INTP btw)
Isn't it like criticising your Own personality? Shakespeare was an INFP too.
@@iyaiya7571 I'm INTP, but even I can't argue with this.
INFP here, criticizing it ever since I've first read it
@@iyaiya7571 That feeling I hated Shakespeare and I found out we're both INFPs hahahaa
Honestly I didn't like the idea of Romeo and Juliet even before I realized their ages. Or that they both ended up dying.
00:00 -> ENFP
00:09 -> ISTJ
00:15 -> ESFP
00:26 -> ISFJ
00:43 -> ENTP
00:54 -> ISTP
01:05 -> ENTJ
01:14 -> INTP
01:24 -> ESTP
01:41 -> INTJ
01:47 -> ESTJ
01:58 -> ISFP
02:09 -> ENFJ (☺)
02:19 -> INFP
02:32 -> ESFJ
02:43 -> INFJ
03:00 -> Frisky pony 😁
Thank you.
I want the frisky pony shirt!!! Gaaahhh!! Lol!
I might not have any personal experience with relationships but if you wanna hear my opinion based on my observations from TV shows and random psychology studies, I'm here for you (INTP)
INTP's can relate 😂😂😂 I give pretty solid advice even though i have ZERO experience
Exactly
Army?
same haha
As an INTP, this is so relatable.
As an INTJ I’ve literally said something like that,
“Well it must be bad if you’re asking *me*” 😑
It's not like we can't help. It's just a making-a-deal-with-the-devil sort of help :P
Slayer3264 very much so
Wait I don’t get it
I just tell them to f*** off. Giving relationship advice to others is like asking them to act rationally and think with the upper head in a situation that they can't. And the worst part, when they screw up they are going to blame you for it, because they are incapable of putting the blame on themselves or their partners.
So just tell them to f*** off.
Too rational for a lot of people. They want you to open your brain for them and then you discover that they don't really want to get out of their problem.
I've waited a long time for a cool ENFJ line and here it finally is: "It's not an ultimatum if you say it nicely"
I'm an INFJ one but I felt that in my soul
Oh my word YES! He nailed it with this one. ENFJ: We KNOW what you need to do, but so afraid of offending you by telling you.
...but it’s really up to you. 🤷🏼♀️
As an ENFP that one was nice.
As an ENFJ, I felt that and the INFJ and ISFJ ones lol. Like, "It's not an ultimatum if you say it nicely. Your decision though, I don't want to ruin your life. Here, have some ice cream."
As an INTJ, I can give really good reasons to break up with someone.
😅😅😅😅😅😅
I could do the opposite too, just to watch the reaction and make a good Reference book about it, just to know what not to do.
Me as a INTJ gives good advice but is the one that needs the advice the most
Yeah, me be like:
"listen here, you'll never be disappointed. If you never expected. You'll never regret. If you never hoped. You'll never be betrayed. If you never trust. And you'll never be afraid of losing. If you never have a feel of possession."
Idk man
@@zhxv2594 lmao this is ME... i feel u
During the entire Romeo and Juliet bit, I was nodding along and going "Right?!" so I'd say the INFP one is very accurate
Oh definitely. That is Not relationship goals.
The story is literally about foolish young love and how a four day relationship resulted in the deaths of several people. It’s not peak romance, it’s tragedy.
@@abigailjudd40 Yeah, basically what happens when you're impulsive, overly emotional, and don't think things through.
@@abigailjudd40 Damn I never really knew what romeo and juliet was like until today 😂😭
and I've heard that both of them were INFPs
Perfectly nailed the INTJ one as usual, we're the last person you ever want a relationship advice from despite our seemingly 'full of wisdom' look from the outside
Idk as an intj I find it really easy to give relationship advice to other ppl. Most of the time there's a fairly obvious solution or a way to get the person what they want.
Though I have actually given advice that has really fucked up someone's relationship before because I didn't consider emotional repercussions though lol.
@@GamingUbered Yeah, and I'm literally talking about your latter statement lol
@@josephjoestar77 😂😂😂😂😂
@@josephjoestar77 But I think that occurs at varying frequencies for different people. I would say the basis for the advice is likely to be sound and whether or not you neglect emotional consequences is related to how self aware the intj is and/or how they value emotions. Basically my point is that 'the last person you ever want relationship advice from', is wrong even taken as a hyperbole.
@@GamingUbered I mean I agree with you, it's just we're not responsible for the consequences our advice will give to anyone. Except when we told specifically not to hurt your partner, I personally won't give the advice to anyone fully knowing it will absolutely destroys their partner's feelings if that's what happened instead 😂
INFP:
Giving good relationship advice: CHECK
Trying to really fix someone's problems in relationships: CHECK
The advices actually work out in 90% of the cases: CHECK
Being confident to get a relationship, cause you actually have pretty good know how about it: depressed stare into the ground until you decide to just wank and watch anime
This is too accurate
"Why you bully me."
JK, this is relatable.
I'm in this comment, and I think I don't like it 😔
Darn it
@KnightlySkye I think the Problem for us as INFP's is more to actually trust our advice then giving us one. And also we are masters in having problems with making decisions. So, thats combined is the main cause of this issue. (Only my thoughts about it)
As an INTJ, I do give advice. I actually like doing it, because it allows me to analyze all of the myriad of options that could have led to this particular problem. Usually, my mind jumps straight to the worst case scenario, and trawls back to shore from there, until I have a complete spectrum of varying ideas about what could possibly be happening and a solution for each. Then I cross-reference them, and simmer it down to a solution that would be the most applicable to the most amount of hypothetical scenarios. And then I tell them to do that.
If they come to me for advice the SECOND time, having not used the advice I had given them the first time, and having escalated a bad situation as a result, THEN I will blow them off. You have one chance to use my advice, and if you don't, then you have made your own bed, so don't come trying to drag me into it with you. (The only exception to this rule is if new information was acquired after the advice was given, because of course new information requires recalculating.)
This sounds a bit similar to the INFJ. I should mention the main INTJ/INFJ difference here. INFJ's give advice to help you feel better, because they care about your feelings, and have a desire to see humanity improve. INTJ's give advice because doing people-math is fun, and finding solutions is fun, and if you take our advice and it works, then we win at giving advice. This isn't about your feelings; this is about us validating our assessment of you and your relationships. We simply must check if the knight does indeed move in L formation. To miscategorize a pawn as something greater would be a grave mistake on our part. And this is why we get upset when people don't follow our advice. "You denied me my social experiment?! Give me back my science! Ree!" -- Not that we'd ever admit it out loud.
So accurate!
Yes!
LMAO why is this so true
I thought you were going to end with, "..and that hypothesizing took so long that s/he solved the problem by the time I ran the people math." I like your comment so much. The people-math aspect is definitely me, although I am not an ISTJ.
Wow. You verbalized it sooooo well. It really IS just people-math to me. 😂😂
ENFP 0:00
ISTJ 0:08
ESFP 0:14
ISFJ 0:26
ENTP 0:42
ISTP 0:53
ENTJ 1:04
INTP 1:14
ESTP 1:23
INTJ 1:39
ESTJ 1:46
ISFP 1:58
ENFJ 2:09
INFP 2:19
ESFJ 2:32
INFJ 2:42
jessa 🙏
People who post time stamps in the comments are doing God’s work.
OP’s are lazy
INTP was hilarious lol. So was ESTP.
@@ineternitypast I got more annoyed that Frank James doesn't put these in the description when I realized Leann & Michelle do in their Enneagram vids.
ISTJ'S answer was spot on! Unless it's a life-threatening emergency, your drama can wait.
ENFP: Building someone up with genuine feeling before tying it together with an off-hand jest. Yep.
Including unicorns in our compliments : ✔
@@glimmerhutcherson139 SOME conversations, k? There's other fun things to talk about too.........
This entire comment thread is yes
I feel seen
Distractions are my specialty 😏
INTP: *Who needs ladies when you have your Sim harem*
Midad Hamza too true
@@yujia2846 Ultimate bachelor life 😂
lol I do love making harem for my sims 😂
@@jellyfishi_ same tho. I like to be objective in everything so my friend expects me to be coolheaded when giving relationship advices. my source is from the numerous romance comics I've read xD
Ikr xD
ISTP here and “I don’t think we’re at that point yet” is my life’s motto
Same here 😂
Definitely
I knew it was Istp before the label even appeared because I connected so hard 😤
@@alexandrathepainter yes
Same. >_
"Don't touch the dark chocolate- unless you want to see a side of me you've never seen before" -Me on my period
Accurate lol 😂
Well, I don't have that issue. I'm sure that nobody in my family likes it as I do... even when it's 'only' 70% Cocoa.
Omg😂 imagine if FJ makes 16personalities on their period😂
Taimon Delwar I’d die watching Frank bust out his wigs and do that one 😂
Taimon Delwar YES 16 PERSONALITIES ON THEIR PERIOD🙌🏽🙌🏽
“Don’t come to Judge Judy and expect Oprah” just won the internet 🤣🤣🤣
Signs of being in deep trouble:
*Coming to an intuitive thinker for love advice*
Yes
Midad Hamza or an extroverted thinker
Any other INTPs out there who like giving advice to their friends? No? Awww
@@FlameCatXVI I don't mind giving advice, I just don't get why people ask me for it so often when I'm probably the least qualified person to talk about relationships they know. I'm happy to give advice on anything I actually think I know enough about to be helpful.
They ask, so I give them the advice but they just ignore me lmao
INTJs are actually quite capable of giving good relationship advice. (Married one) It's the high Ni that makes them good at picking out potential strengths or weaknesses in a relationship. The "problem" is the Te means that they 1) don't care that much or 2) won't give advice on "feeling" stuff very gently. They will give pragmatic relationship advice if anything. Which can be a good thing depending on the situation.
Depending on:
1) If the person asking is a fellow Thinker Type, than they will understand you, but if their spouse is a Feeler, their advice might not work well.
2) If the person asking is a Feeler, they might just break down and start crying all over the INTJ, which will overwhelm , and greatly annoy the INTJ...
However, if they are emotionally bonded with, and are great family/friends, if they do know the INTJ well, hopefully it won't offend them to hear the direct blunt honest truth.
"It's not an ultimatum if you say it nicely." This is an ENFJ motto and we live by it.
The INFJ was spot on! I give my friends a lot of advice (not just about relationships) and every time I text them, I follow up with "Oh but that's just what I think..." or "I'm not sure if this is accurate btw🤷♀️" or the iconic "but Idk 🤷♀️" 😅
Does it work?
I do the same thing too! My advices work 99% but I am never sure about it when I am giving them. Even when I understand that it works I am still thinking THIS TIME IS DIFFERENT it probably doesn't but I will write it! 🙃😁
Same
INTJ here and all of my friends come to me for relationship advice that they genuinely thank me for later on. I've successfully solved many many relationship issues for my friends, so, please, give all INTJs a break from everybody who believes that we cannot handle emotions and relationships.
You know it's bad when you ask xNTx for relationship advice
S. S. Cookies Go tell them Cookie, I’m proud of you for standing up for us INTP’s.
I'd say I give better *objective* advice than my Feeler friends. Their form of advice is usually just affirmation or some form of encouragement. Sometimes you need actual solutions. Oh and as a thinker they've told me I can be calm and grounding when they're overthinking/stressing out or being irrational.
The INFP is so accurate! This is honestly how I would respond if someone were to mention Romeo and Juliet.
ok this is kind of a random comment but thank you for writing actual subtitles, frank!! as someone who's hearing impaired and sound sensitive, relying on subtitles on youtube is something i've done a lot lately and way too many people think using the autogenerated ones is enough, which it really isn't
Some of the inaccuracies are hilarious, I love seeing how wrong it is compared to the actual dialogue...
I've watched almost all of his mbti videos and to be fair, this was by far the MOST accurate thing that's ever said about an INFJ
16 Personalities as RUclips commenters 😂
*y e s*
YASS
@Vee Quilfe Nu-uh. That's just stereotyping them by their base descriptions. And honestly, that's hard to read. Look at how simple most comments are. We need to break down which types are most likely to have short comments or long comments, follow trends of other commentors (I've seen this one in the comments but I'm going to write it the same way or my way anyways), relate very personal experiences, why and how they reply, and how and why they use emojis.
I am an entp and am completely different online
Mostly because when i argue with random people on yt comments, the comments are spread out over a few weeks so i gradually lose interest, where as if i was face to face, i could keep it going
@@aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa790 yes! There are dozens of small factors in the equation for each personality's behavior, most or all of which should be taken into account to make the most accurate representations. For instance, I'm going with the assumption that you're one of the xNTx because of how analytical your comment was - but surely there's more to it than the basic traits.
“I wouldn’t have suggested it to you if I thought you’d actually do it!”
That sounds like an ESTP motto for all of life
Okay, but seriously, the ENTP hit really close to home... maybe even too close to home. My parents have been and are always coming to me for advice (why? no clue) and I give them my Emily Blunt-ness two cents, and they get mad at me for it, and basically turn their frustration at me. But then I try sprinkle a little sugar, and then get mad that I’m not being helpful???
And stupid Rona had to stick me back home to be the family emotional punching bag... Oh whoopty-freakin-doo 🙃
Ughhh, I’m sorry for ranting, y’all. I don’t ever get this pissed, but this week in particular was just a hot mess, and that bit from 0:44-0:54 is the highlight of it all, I wish I could just blast on high for the world to hear.
well i appreciate the emily bluntness
I know about being the emotional punching bag -intp i hope they take it easy on you...if you're mom is real mean. Distract her while she's saying a sentence ...say *you have a long chin hair sticking up* then she will panic about her face and feel you helped her by not letting her go in public like that. It worked on my narcissistic mother
ENTP/ENFP are really good at advice, the issue is ENTP run on emotional deficit, so that feelings stuff is not our territory. ENFP never follow their own advice, and that isn't a good look for more critical types. Here is my advice -- just validate people's opinions no matter how dumb they are just to get them out of your face. The world is flat? Sure buddy, Einstein has nothing on you, Mr Genius.
Suggest that they make a couples therapy since they are not satisfied with your advice. (There are probably even online sessions available during Corona.) If they keep on turning their frustration on you, tell them that it is the role of a parent to offer advice, not the role of the daughter. It is important for you to set some boundaries. If this doesn´t get your parents to work on their problems, hopefully they´ll at least find another way to let off their steam.
Good luck :)
entp here and i feel this on a different level. like, why do you ask me for advice if you didn’t want it? i’m not here to lie to you, if you’ve done wrong, i will tell you. i wouldn’t have said anything in the first place but you had to seek validation for your shitty behaviour and i’m not gonna do that.
sorry. i also had a tough week :/
ME, an INFP: many of my friends come to me for relationship/ love life advice. They always say this in the end, "Wow you are a good listener and what you said really open my mind, *BUT HOW COULD YOU'RE STILL SINGLE? SINCE BIRTH?*"
also me: use the couches don't play card.
I feel called out 😂
Next: MBTI types watching movies?
I can see INTJs suppressing the urge to spoil the ending for everyone as they are able to magically comes to the movie's conclusion thanks to Ni
@@josephjoestar77 :C People are genuinely shocked when I do this. I AM NOT A WITCH!
ThE tAlKeRs🥵
INFP: "I know EVERY trope that's about to happen and I LOVE IT. Why am I crying? BECAUSE DID YOU SEE THE TEARS BEHIND HER EYES WHEN HE SMILED AT HER. p o e t i c c i n e m aaaaa"
As an INTP, I cannot supress the urge to make comments every 5 seconds and then guess what the ending will be like (only being correct 3% of the time) and if we're watching the movie at home, pause it every 5 seconds to go on a long rant about how UNREALISTIC something is 😂
Some ideas:
-mbti making excuses
-mbti giving oscar speeches
-mbti as talk show hosts/guests
"It's not an ultimatum if you say it nicely" 😄😄
digging the manipulative yet nice ENFJ
@DannyGirl Haha I hear you, I'm the same and this made me feel so called out (I'm an INFJ / sometimes get results as ENFJ)
That is a nice enfj
With entp tho, you would say it with no intention of being nice, you dont care if they are offended as long as they get the point
Wow. As an ENTJ, that is 100% accurate. That is basically what I did for my friend.
Right!! I'm an ENTJ too and they nailed it!
ENFP: What is she smoking? *Cuz id like to get some*
ENFP - I was smoking while watching the video. Couldn't handle being first - had to rewind cuz I missed it ('where did he do ENFP?? huh??') 😄
@@9Geeple same 😂😂
Does ENTP have this same problem??? I hate smoking, and I want to encourage/persuade/convince people to not smoke around me or my house ~
I was like, "I wouldn't say THAT!" But then I realized that's the trend of my advice giving: I end up empathizing with the opposition, though I still think they're wrong, and I want some of the fun they think they're having. 🤣
Recent conversation:
Friend ranting: "She posted THIS stupidity again!"
Me: 😒 smh
Also me: "Is she having fun at her new job? I'd have fun at her job."
Snowflake Star ⭐️ I don’t smoke Tobacco! That’s a Whole different substance and it’s Banned! One time when I was 13 - in an alley- and I turned Green - never again Ever. 🤙🏼
“Don’t come to Judge Judy and expect Oprah.” XD
INFJ: Hey, here's some advice and the key issues in your relationship that if you do what I say will probably help you a lot.
Also INFJ: But idk though I might be wrong \._./
Even better when they don't listen to your advice and things end up worse.
So A C C U R A T E 😂
ALWAYS.
100% true lol
Never go to the elves for council...
Thaumatomane what does that comment even mean 😂😂
"don't come to judge Judy and expect Oprah" I'm gonna use that from now on. Thanks!
You can’t cut my wings, you can’t take away my song! 🤣😂🤣😂
*I WANT TO BREAK FREE* music intensifies
I would never ask anyone for relationship advice. But ISFPs have given me unsolicited advice my entire INTJ life. This is why I take Xanax.
I LOVE ESFP's friendship. They're so adorably supportive
INTP: you’re coming to me for relationship advice? Cos you’re definitely not the the 1st real person I’ve spoken to since Minecraft’s release.
Even more accurate 😁
Ikr! Who on earth would come to an intp for advice about anything emotional or relationship related, even the idea makes me laugh from the absurdity!😂
Hear me out, I’m an INTP and a lot of people come to me for relationship advice and it works even though I prefer to be single, it’s because I’ve seen signs by my family and friends to what messes it up or fixes it and I recommend off of my observations, never been wrong even though I’m not personally experienced with relationships
@@TopGsBugatti Wow. People listen to your advice? Can't relate.
@@TopGsBugatti That's probably because of your Fe function. You understand others well, or at least seem to grasp their nature quite accurately.
And because you're logical and honest (just telling you as an INTP, 'cause I don't actually know you cx), people will naturally look for your opinion on things. At least, that's what I think I would do as an INFP (except if I suspect I'm making you guys uncomfortable, then I's rather drop it).
I don't mind people's honesty as long as it's respectful, I like it actually, and I could just ignore it if I'd thought differently or believe they're mistaken (there's no reason to get mad unless the person you're asking attacks you or our feelings personally, of course! xD). People ask for others' POV just so that they can reflect better on their problems without being too subjective, or so I believe. But sometimes people take things personally, so I think adding "that's just how I see it/that's just MY opinion, but you might think differently", sentences like those... it might help others to actually realize THAT, that they're asking YOU and not themselves, that you might see things differently... and that they may or may not gree with you. And it's not a bad thing.
I hope this helps! Know that some people appreciates your honest opinion, and that as long as you value others' feelings too, it will probably be ok! ^^ (sorry if I wrote any mistake).
"Do Not come to Judge Judy and expect Oprah!" 😂😂
As an INTP who has lots of relationship experince with fictional anime boys,
𝘆𝗲𝘀
They look better, treat someone better, are fastly replacable in case they dissapointed you :)
Or maybe maybe get with a male INTP, that anime guy isn’t gonna pay your bills or please you physically
Donovan Dunn, my hand pleases me physically quite enough.
Hello,Kageyama 'I look good no matter what position I'm playing' Tobio😂😂
I'm quite well-known for 'essay-length texts' among my family and close friends...but hey, that's my way of compensating for being absent from the group for most of the times
Father being an INFP can't write or talk, and I do all the writing and talking... ~ Very awkward, and mostly non-existent one-sided communication here...
I sent all the e-mails, and the greeting cards, but he can't really respond with much of anything, that extremely reserved private inner world INFP problem...
You should trademark the Judge Judy- Oprah quote. That was gold!
Exactly
^^^
I can hear ESFP's sassy voice all day. Always look forward to this type, and have never been disappointed 😂
Even though I'm a intp, infj is way too relatable and I feel called out
IKR i literally either completely refrain from giving my opinion or try not to force it on them because they ALWAYS come back to me saying they hated it... idk tho ahah dont wanna take responsibility ahaha 🤷♀️ (struggles of the INTP)
"idk tho" everytime hahaha
But with people I'm not close to, the first half of ENTP is me pretty much word-for-word
I'm an enfp (sometimes i get infp on tests) and, yeah, same.
Friends: "I could really use some relationship advice."
Me INTP: Crap...
First thing that comes into my mind as an intp is just enjoy yourself,why go for others.
I as an intp, listen and think a lot before giving them best possible suggestions and then I'm like, see what's the best for you.
But very few people come to me for advice 😐
@@Rita_Arya cause truth is something people don't like to hear unless you sugarcoat stuff up.
@@hachiman205 sad truth :(
Okay but like I as an intp I would rather take advice from someone who's never been in a relationship than from someone who's been rejected thrice. Or my extroverted friends, for that matter. Maybe just inXX's to be honest.
Nothing brings me more joy in these trying times than a fresh new 16 personalities video
As an ENTJ, I have to say that was totally accurate. I literally said that to a friend last week when he told me about his girlfriend.
Based on all the relationships that was in my head I'm certified enough to give the best advice.
Or just "dump him,he doesn't deserve you" works all the time ~ infp
Every time I see one of these types of videos in my notifications, I’m like “this oughtta be good” grab my popcorn and settle in for a hilarious truth bomb
infj is so meeee when i'm giving advice like i always end my advice with "i'm not sure if it's going to work" and "it is still up to you if you follow it or not" something like that 😅
Once I heard "you're coming to me for advice?" i knew it was intj
Same haha
Fact is, they don't actually want any advice, most people just want you to validate their decision to leave, because they feel scared and wishy-washy.
If, they actually wanted advice they'd go to anyone else! Most people don't like to take INTJ's advice on anything, regardless, they just hear you out, and ignore it anyway! ~
Don't come to judge Judy and expect Oprah. 😄 I'm stealing it.
I loved that line too 😂
Hahaha that was hilarious! Totally using that, too!
The way you said "Baby girl" 😆😆😆
Great video as always. Well done! :)
ENFPs always give impressive advice😂and ruin them at the end...
ENFP- but how is a little joke at the end ruining it. I do it to so that my passionate take on that friends' worth sounds genuine 🙈
@@234ritzz I do that too! Give my best advice then crack a lil joke at the end. It helps just give em a laugh and lightens the mood up while still taking them seriously 😊
INFJ: Guilty as charged. I've had that exact internal dialogue before.
Wow! This is very accurate. I am an ISTJ, and I avoid, and sometimes don't really care about, relationship topics.
These faces in the thumbnail just killed me! I just imagine you stopping your videos on the strangest faces you can & being like “yup, that’s the one” 😂😂🤣
Next: 16 personalities "can you buy me pads" edition 😂
That's funny. As an ISTJ my go to relationship advice is "Just break up" regardless of the problem.
"You don't come to Judge Judy and expect Oprah" Loooool my favorite part XD
Suggestion -->
16 Personalities Searching for Things on RUclips
Please yes
That's a really good idea and I think we could all relate to that.
ISTP: how to fix a leak with a piece of string 😂
@@seg1912 😂😂😂
@@seg1912 lol you're not kidding my last RUclips search is how to fix my phone's charger smh 😂
gdi frank. i am an INTP but in 2 out of 3 cases i relate more to the INFJ in your videos than to my own type... you make me question my type all over again... for the 12th time...
I'm an intp but i always send idk 🤷♀️ after everything to not take responsiblity for any bad opinions
More like...you could do this, or this or that, but maybe it's thins...IDK you have to do what you think is right
Same
Honto ni man that's relatable.
@@djayt1215 lol why so accurate?
@@djayt1215 same 😂
Infj always knows they could be wrong about the situation. 😂 I'd definitely be sending that "but idk 🤷♂️" after giving advice. This was a good one.😊💜
As an ENFP who is freshly out of a relationship with an INTJ I laughed so hard at those both way too hard. 🤣 Thank you for your amazing entertaining videos 💕
im an enfp, so how is it feels like dating an intj? 😂
right, how was it? -INTJ
I'm curious about that too - INTJ
I've never thought ENFPs should be with INTJs. We can't tolerate ppl who always want attention. We need a lot of independent time.
Your decision is correct.
@@eltedelarosa I don't know. For me, the only people whom I immediately like upon meeting are ENFPs. I adore them. They can be tedious, sure. But their soul and little heart is just beautiful. I've just never met a male ENFP. Where are my adorable knights in clumsy armour?
2:42 exactly me🤣 "do exactly this this and that to be back on track. .. But idk 😬 you decide. Good luck" every single time😀
INFP giving relationship advice is like
Virgin giving advice on sex.
So trueeeee omg 😂😅
IKR whenever someone complains about their relationship with me I'm like: Next time ask me how to invent cure for cancer I have equal knowledge of both subjects.
@@ladyferocity8269 haha. Actually i have more knowledge in hoe to cure cancer than how to manage relationship.
True! I mostly base my advice on what I see at trope reviews and psychological studies and they mostly work for those who actually listened to me and followed them. But some just falls asleep whenever I give any advice so🤷
It's funny because my 15 year old virgin girl me was talking to a 16 year old girl who had lots of sex already, 8 years ago - and I was the one knowing that a woman has 3 "openings" and she thought we would only have 2.... Like she thought we would pee out of the same place, where she's having sex....like??????? I was so shocked 😂
"You're coming to me for advise. That's not a good sign." - INTJ
Lolololol
As an INFP I related way too much to mine, do you know how hurt I was when my sister came home with 2 cats named Romeo and Juliet. She said she named them that because they were a couple and were meant to be ._. Both of them ran away after having them for a couple months because my sister left the front door open.
This is peak karmic justice. Sorry about you and your sister tho.
@@Maid_of_Spiders Its okay, that happened a couple of years ago and my sister didnt take care of them very well. We kind of expected it to happen at some point just because she refused to let us help her take care of them and she didnt pay attention or feed them regularly.
Dang
Lost my cats the same way, people don't know how to close doors...
Never forget to add in the essential "but idk" at the end of your advice so you won't be held accountable in case it backfires
I love the fact that INFP is always on the thumbnail.
What's your personality type James?
BTW love you and your videos a lot!
I wonder. Are infp even that rare. Lol.
@@aviralsinghal1274 I suspect at least 50% of internet meme culture, especially the self-deprecating kind, is INFP in its root. Maybe they(along with other IN people) are just natural internet creatures.
Junwu Wang yes, us IN people are the creatures of the internet and CEOs of using self-deprecating humor as a coping mechanism for both online and in real life
@@feyiy483 Too true 😂
@@aviralsinghal1274 All of us Introverted Intuitives live here, we have no real lives! Muhahahahaha! *Cackles evilly* ~
Extroverts go out and party/socialize, we remain here, and soak up information like a sponge... ISFJ and ESFJs are Healers, working as Nurse/Doctors and saving lives....
Yet, many of us "INXXs" prefer to just stay behind here, and read up on information that other people researched and posted :).
0:15 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is to much.... I can't!🤣
oh my gosh im ALWAYS saying "i dont know" bevore giving ANY advice!
but then people are like: wow thats actually really good advice but SoMEtHinG makes me question it......*me boiling inside*
"You can't clip my wings, you can take away my song," lol I loved it
Intp and infj are like the most rare types but in comments there seems to be so much
The whole ""rarity"" of certain types is really not backed up by any solid data from a wide population and is just clickbait material for certain articles or videos 👀
ikr (intp gang)
0:26 yep... DON’T MESS WITH MY CHOCOLATE!!!! -ISFJ
ISTP-yeah, I just scoff at my friends and tell them to find someone else. You can't make sushi swim, you can't make me talk about feelings
Why? It be interesting to get an Istps perspective.
Sushi swims just fine if you attach a little motorised fin to it. :P
Kifudancer 😂👍
I tend to want to be a helpful ISTP so I activate Fe (INFJ mode)... but I've learned over time people aren't going take practical advice and do whatever anyways... so why bother? Meh
@@StardustDNA yes people need time to come to that conclusion themselves, until then they live in denial. I wasn't asking that though. Sometimes I talk to people to get their perspective on things so I get to see a different angle which I haven't considered. I like learning new things and analyzing. It's not because I need advice. It's for fun.
Ha I cannot tell you HOW MANY TIMES I've written an essay length text and then added "But I dunno, that's just what I think" onto the end. Spot on👌 ~INFJ
INTJ WAS SO ACCURATE I LOST MY MIND 😆😆😆😆😆😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
These vids are getting more and more wild😂😂ENTP out in the middle of nowhere
stan frank james for clear skin
INFJ: Let me be absolutely empathetic and perfect in how to save / solve this issue.
Also INFJ: [*throws up hands in a panic*] BUT-
So many are so very true! But would an ISFJ really live in a home where the knives were hung with all the points facing upwards . . . ?
🤣🤣🤣 Debunked! Good eye!
I appreciate your videos. You either teach me something or make me laugh . Thank you 😊
These sketches confuses me. I like them, but they make me question if I really am an INFJ. I feel like an INFJ, but sometimes I don't get it. I can't predict the future or feel people's feelings. I feel if the mood changes or when people are suspicious.
I also don't want to be like "omg I'm an INFJ I'm so rare!" Even though it's understandable that some people want to be rare and ordinary. I'm only fourteen so I might not be an INFJ or a 5w4, but I kinda hope I am. It really sucks when you, the person that should know you the most, aren't even able to identify yourself with one single type. I feel very alone.
Thank you if you took your time to read this, really.
And great video! Funny as always. (:
You're fourteen, you're still growing!!! Enneagream reveals itself when you're about 25, when you've had to make choices independently from your environment, when you don't rely on a structure to support you. Give yourself time and identify with what you like more than how you act.
Well, I'm sixteen, and I'm INFP, but it's not a 100% like me, sometimes I relate to INFJ or even ENFP, I really like being an INFP tho, it's like, really messed up sometimes but it's cool :D (sorry for writing this text, I just wanted to say that it's not like everyone is 100% of their personality types)
It's easy to mistype yourself as a teenager, or just to not be sure of your type during those years. Let it go, don't worry about getting it "right" until you've had more experience. Especially when you see how you handle adult relationships, how you behave in the workplace, etc., your type may become more clear to you.
Often it gets clearer, as soon as you learn about cognitive functions. I wasn't sure what NT type I was, but cognitive functions revealed that I'm almost definitely an INTJ. On the other hand, I don't really relate to the INTJs in FJ's videos.
Cassiopeia I’m in a similar situation but I’m 16. I nearly always get INFP on tests but I consider myself an INFJ because I don’t relate to anything INFP but everything INFJ. When you take the tests, don’t go by the letter code you’re given though. Look at the percentages also. When I take it, I get like 55/45 on J and P, which makes sense.
Also I suggest taking a cognitive functions test. This pretty much verified for me that I’m an INFJ, but also don’t take the tests too seriously! After all, every INFJ is different. My best friend is an INFJ but we are very different.
IDK tho🤷🏽♀️
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ENTJ - perfect!
But the Judge Judy line was hilarious! Put that one on a shirt and probably every NT will buy it.
ISTP: spot on. I'll be your best man at the wedding, but don't expect the speech to have any emotional appeal in it. In fact don't expect a speech
The INFJ is sooo me! It's spot on. People who ask advice to me just about anything gets my POV of the problem and how I best solve it. But it's only an imagination not that I've suffered from the problem so I always attach "that's just my view"/"it may not always work out"/"I honestly don't know" in the end >•
INTJ here. I just realized now that every time someone actually asked me for love advice the situation is so complicated, bad OR too dumb that they don't want their 'closer friends' to know o.o