listen, no one irl is going to care about you. And you know more than me that people on the Internet don't actually give two cents about you. Now accept that and learn how to be satisfied with yourself. Why do you need others to care about you when you can care about yourself? Don't be dependent on people, learn how to be independent.
Ramesh Murugaiyah i get what you are saying but that’s not true. There are some people out there who actually care and want to help u just have to look for them. If no one cared videos like this wouldn’t be made and videos like this wouldn’t have views.
@@therealestdrea true. But they'll only care for a certain time. Maybe for a week. Or a month. Or a year. Maybe ten years. But eventually they'll stop caring. Everyone will eventually leave. And what's going to happen then? Are you just going to collapse because the person you depend on for love is gone? Well that's exactly what's going to happen. So instead of that, if we can learn how to take care of our own needs and love ourselves without needing someone else to do it, won't we be happier? That doesn't mean we shouldn't have relationships tho, it's just that we shouldn't get too attached and dependent on someone. Maybe it's just the way I think, but it makes sense in my head.
Ramesh Murugaiyah no it makes sense I understand what you’re saying and I agree. Learning to be there for yourself and supply your own needs is important and when you do learn it won’t matter whether someone is there or not because either way your fine.
Elise ! Exactly....Severe happiness with bestfriends. Then looking behind a screen seeing them hanging with other people never wanting to talk to me no more. So lonely
mrguyshooterguy Being alone is a choice. Being lonely isn’t. Being alone means you can remove yourself from the presence of other people. Being lonely, means there was no one there to begin with.
the worst feeling is thinking everyone hates you but then not having anyone to talk to about it because... everyone hates you. so your stuck trapped in your own thoughts that slowly consume you
Breadbug I wouldn’t be so sure about that. Sure many therapists know how depression works scientifically, but very few (in my experience) truly understands the experience of depression. It’s like the difference between book smarts vs street smarts. It’s one thing to know the science but another to live the reality.
"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone." Robin Williams
All my life I have never seen it or felt it. No more hugs. No more text-messages. No more miss calls. No more "I miss you". No more "I love you". No one care about me, no one is not asking like "where you", "everything is alright? "...... Didn't I deserve it?
@@yodaadoy2863 Bro, if you don’t mind, I’ll tell you, I used to be an ordinary boy, but now I’m becoming more and more aware, I met a girl who changed my life I thought I meant something to her, but it turned out not.((( and now I understand that I don’t even have real friends. I am constantly alone I spend the whole day among people, but I feel that I am alone, nobody needs me. and now I learned to hate, now I like being alone(
@Leo Redfern yeah, I got that more as a "I'd rather be dead than make it to 40 without anyone" I do know it's more likely for your interpretation to be correct, but I still asked because if my assumption was the right one then I wanted to try and talk with him, you know, just in case...
wow u suck at socializing. just ask them a bunch of questions dude, like what do you like or do you watch anime? do u like shane dawson? and then keep going. its not that difficult bro. its just really boring
@@chihabgm7796 from personal expierience i tried several times to talk about lots of topics but in the end its just ended only me asking them and i was manage the conversation just myshelf to make people like me but no it didnt happend...
The silent type crying where you sit there nofding your head agreeing with most of the negative things he says and taking them as negative affirmations. Yes me too
There's so many people out there who are suffering from depression and anxiety and are lonely. Some even bullied. Even though this world has about 7 billion people it feels like I'm the only one who's lonely. Where are the other lonely people in this world? We can all help each other out.
Same man, can't fucking express how true that it is, if I ever live long enough I hope to download my conscience into perpetual simulation in the future.
That's why I talk to myself and stay home 24/7. I'm weird,crazy,nice, loving, and no one likes me. I know how you feel. Dude, I wish I could give you a hug!
@SpeedX I get that you people online saying you want to be friends want to do something good, really, your intentions are incredibly noble. But loneliness is a big thing, it can't be solved trough some online chatting. Even some real friendships online might not be enough.
What I wouldn't do to have a real friend. But us ugly people are undesirable. I should go out for something to eat. Whoever wants to join me, it's my treat.
The reason why i'm very sad is that people these days are fake. And i seem to always be lonely even if i'm in a big crowd of people and i feel like their just there to judge me. I am very glad that you made this video.
For real yah, almost everyone in my group of friends are at the same College, so they still have been seeing each other often. I see them once every 2-3 months now.. Sometimes I'll discover that they were all at a party or they organized a party and they'd forget to invite me. It hurt for months. Going from seeing them everyday in HS and partying with them all summer long. And then, after our first year in College, I dont see anyone almost. I only see people at work and at school, thank god. Many of my coworkers appreaciate me and I meet several chill people in my classes. This video really hit home.
Jon Lurn i went through the same shit but you know what the best fucking thing to do is? forgot those douches and be the best person you can be and people will come around because they like you for who you are
3 years after watching this video, I found someone who makes me truly happy. I've been alone my whole life and it feels like a miracle. I am so grateful to have this person in my life.
thats true.. i feel you. people thinks im annoying cause i keep reaching out despite of the lack of replies.. it would feel good to be heard.. we hear y right now
that's true. I got so tired and drained from always being the one to make all the effort, contact friends, help them out, put so much into friendships and get no support or anything back so I thought that they can get in touch with me first for a change. I heard from only 1 person in over 9 months so far!
I'm 17 and I swear to GOD I was much happier than I am now. I had joined basketball, visited my dad a lot, and in general just kinda enjoyed myself.Moved to Selma, joined a band(which I didn't really liked btw but I felt like I had a second family there) but now I don't do anything but stay home and browse RUclips.
Sovereign I'm the same I feel everyone just thinks I'm disgusting n stare at me thinking it. I suffered from agoraphobia for a long time and still have elements of it now the anxiety and paranoia. I feel your pain hun. God bless you n live you xx
I'm 19 and just started feeling so lonely. I was okay being an introvert before but now I feel like this isn't life. It's getting worse, no matter how many new video games you play or how many TV shows you watch, the feeling just doesn't go away. I just can't stop myself from crying every night and making up scenarios in my mind that I'll never get into.
Think of it the calm after the storm like just enjoy the peacefulness before you get bottled up by it however long that takes "crying clears the windows to the soul"
Bhav Tatz I felt numb yesterday, more than numb... I felt the biggest void I've ever felt. I'm trying as hard as I can to not cry rn. Hope you get better.
A person thinking that a simple group can solve it complex problems can not be solved with simple answers my dude. Look at capitalism it is destroying relations
@@comrademartinofrappuccino yeah but if we make some kind of group chat,and talk I'm sure we can feel better,yeah you are right that's not gonna solve a problems but,you can feel better,my friend was always depressed and she never had friends but then she started to talk on insta in some group and she is now very positive
- madeleine - Same, not that I don‘t want friends but I feel unable to meet people anymore because I‘m just tired of everything all the time (especially social stuff) for the past 7-8 years.
@madeleine p. Its well with you. The more the society gets cosmopolitan, the worse people get with respect to their Sociopathy. Be willing to get out of your comfort zone; meet friends from different parts of the world and you will be amazed..
No friends, girlfriend, personality, or happiness... just me and my bed which I spend most of my time in. The happiest day of my life will be the last day of my life. Maybe then I’ll be happy. (:
I hate when people are like ranting and others are like: "I have it worse than you." Or "There's people out there who have bigger problems than you get over it." Like okay, I get that there may be people who have it worse than me but, like I can't do anything about that. And depression doesn't have to have a reason. If a guy who is homeless is happy, don't tell me "There's people that have bigger problems than you m."
It makes sense both ways. Theres always a reason to be happy and theres always reason to be sad. What defines the person is what they choose to focus on and how much they can endure.
omg i hate that shitty line when people say to you why are you depressed get over it and you are so weak to get over it... no morons i don't know how to get over it thats the reason why so many people around the world don't share their feelings
People who say that are either clueless about the difficulties you are facing or well and truly don't give a shit.It's best to confide in others,fuck those people.
Hi ccam, "There's people out there who have bigger problems than you get over it." Yes, I hate when people use lines like this as well. I sometimes respond by asking them something like: "If you accidentally smashed your thumb in a car door, would it make you feel better if I said: 'Don't feel so bad. There are people out there who have it worse than you. There are some people who don't even have thumbs or hands etc.'" Of course, I can be thankful for having a thumb even though its smashed, but being thankful will not do much to diminish the intense agony I might be feeling in my thumb at the moment.
In 41 ,still lonely ,stopped looking for love.just really tired ,tired of everything.it's been too long.nothing changes why try at this age ,just waiting for our Father in heaven to call my name.please forgive me.
Let me tell you something. You have to get out of your comfort zone. God put you in this planet for a reason. And he said to bring a smile to everyone.
Well, I'm sure you're guys' god won't want you to be sad; but to find a meaning, to be happy. Now, I'm an atheist myself, but I'm sure you can find someone out there, who will care for you. Even when times are tough, you can achieve great things. "If you don't do what you could do now, it won't happen later." -Me.
i found true love when i was 16 and didnt tell her now shes moved on so i missed my chance :( Its worse to have found it and fucked it up than to never have found love at all. But maybe you will find it one day i hope you do bro. And if you do one day just remember to BE HONEST and share your feelings done fuck it up like i did.
And yes, music movies tv shows video games are life savers , i would of committed suicide without them , because ill be left with loneliness, only loneliness.
This is fucking true. The ugly truth: Chances are that many of us wouldn´t be lonely if we would have been born a few decades earlier when people couldn´t just hide in their room and play video games and live in the internet. Many of us are not ugly at all and are not socially awkward by nature. We could benefit alot from another lifestyle. When i´m completely honest with myself, i hate facebook, youtube ,video games, smartphones. All that crap made it easier to not have real human relationships. It probably fucked up my youth. The truth is we are simply not made to be happy living alone and consuming all that shit. The video game that delivers more joy than good sex will never ever be invented. Because our brains are not made that way. So we have to accept our nature and try to live a more natural lifestyle and meet people. I know it is damn hard but it is the only way to feel more alive and happy.
You´re a smart guy. You found better words than me. I can relate to everything you said. Sometimes it makes me sad to see people walking around, looking at their smartphones. The think they are doing something useful to maintain a friendship or whatever, but fail to realize that they are missing the chance to get to know a new person in real life. There is this paradox that people in a city are acutally more at risk of being lonely than people in the countryside because there are so many people available, that most of them just don´t care much about each other. I think that the whole internet/facebook development has only intensified that problem. There are basically endless opportunities to know other people and communicate with them, no matter where they are. It is so easy to have 1000 friends on facebook but not a single real one. I´m not saying that everyone has this problem. Extroverted people usually won´t have too many problems. Even though they might also have a hard time, creating meaningful relationships. But some of the introverted guys and girls are some kind of victims of this technical process, at least in my opinion. Anyway, clair de lune, i hope you don´t have to type on a screen alone all the time ;)
No they don't. They will hate you alive or dead. You don't care about the squirrel that you ran over while driving to work right? What makes me different? Yep.
One thing I HATE about school is that....*every time we do group projects, I am usually the odd one out. EVERY time the teachers say "now everyone please go into their own groups" MY HEART FREEZE. I feel I have an anxiety attack. Like a sense of dread hangs over me. I don't want to be alone. And I know I WILL be alone. And I am alone. School sucks.*
Chara Dreemurr fuck school they all think they are better than you etc and you are a worthless piece of shit(some people that are bullying you)if) Personally I'm experiencing almost the same thing with a lot of things.I have school friends and I'm sad in some situations.I'm going on 8th grade I'm 13 and I see almost everyone as stupid shits they are acting shitty a lot and the 14-15 girls are hoes(some of them) some lost their virginity in that age .Some are smoking in that age (I'm talking about boys&girls) at least kids in my age have girlfriends and society skills.When I'm around a girl I slightly can talk even if it's no reason even if I have no feelings about her.I have bad society skills and I'm weak and can cry easily.
Chara Dreemurr that is exaitly what i feel but then those who try act nice to get good numbers and they say me "u can come with us" and they look so annoyed bc i come with them. then they just left me out then i ask my teacher could i go bathroom or what it is called and i go there think everything and boom! im crying
hot i don't enjoy the way that people come to places like this on the Internet and start these big circle jerks of self pity. If you believe that you can't be successful in life because you "won't conform to the norm" then why do you complain about being lonely? It's normal to be social, we as humans are social creatures. Those who chose to truly be antisocial are happier and more content when they are alone. This is also normal, the society that we live in today gives us complete and total freedom (at least in America) to make yourself happy. If your happier when your alone then be alone. If your happier with people make friends. I personally have a problem with feeling alone. I fear being alone and i believe that being alone is the only aspect of my life I hate. When I was in middle school I was just like a lot of you that I am talking to right now. I would put myself in these very depressed states by choice, watch sad videos, think sad thoughts, surround myself with sad people, etc. I was also incredibly skinny and very unconfident. As I became a freshman in high school I looked around me and all of these people that I used to call "narcissistic psychopaths" seemed genuinely happy. I realized that it's human nature to want to be accepted, to want to feel loved, to make yourself happy. I then started to observe the people around me how they talked, acted, carried themselves, how they dressed, and ultimately how they made themselves happy. I started to work out every day, I joined the wrestling team, I made new friendships, I started to pay attention to what made every one happy. I bounced around a little bit I tried the stoner thing the country thing the jock athlete thing.This is how I ultimately found my own happiness. It may sound dumb or maybe even played out, but my personal secret to happiness is to destroy you self oppression. Any one who confines themselves to one lifestyle is some one who is not truly happy. If you want to make money you can fucking make money. If you want to lose weight you can fucking lose weight. If you want to be social be fucking social. Make change, change stops when you oppress yourself. People will complain about how they fall into society and they will do nothing about it. This course of action leads to nowhere but sadness. Happiness doesn't find you you fucking find your happiness. I now have quite a large group of friends, a very athletic and attractive body, and most importantly a new outlook on life. Many of you may not believe me, others of you may resent me, and lots will believe that I am weak minded, but hopefully a few of you will realize that you can find your happiness in life. I wish every one the best of luck and truly hope that you all find what makes you happiest. (Just know that life will always have struggles, and within those struggles you are presented with a choice. The choice to be happy)
I have bone cancer, and nobody gives a shit to me until I tell them then they have pity. They're not trying to be friends with me or anything they just walk away feeling sorry... I'm lonely the doctor is the one who I speak the most I feel like I'm mental sometimes and nobody helps
White Kinara you don’t know me and I don’t know you but it may seem like no one cares but I guarantee that someone cares... I care.. again I have no idea who you are but you have purpose we all do and you matter never forget that... your amazing and I wish nothing but the best for you and blessings upon you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am pretty lonely and am loved by people very rarely. I just had a internship as a elementary school teacher. The kids loved me and I loved them. I never was loved by so many people at the same time just for existing and being there. So as I said goodbye to the class today I turned around and saw the entire class of kids waving me goodbye. That was so heart warming that now hourse later I am crying because of it.
martial arts,music and history I’m still young 16 years old but I can partially understand what you’re going through. Through the perspective of the kid however. In 3rd grade we had a teacher similar to your situation. She was great made a lot of great memories for us kids. On the day she left I can only remember her crying discreetly. I guess I just didn’t understand at the time what she was going through. My point is that as a kid with a teacher like that we really did love the teacher so I’m sure those kids did truthfully love you. Being a teacher is one of the most important job in our society but they often don’t get the respect deserved and the pay. Keep doing what you’re doing I respect you for being an educator.
Its currently 1:27 A.M and its my 18th birthday today but only 3 people wished and now im laying on bed in my empty house and i don't even have anyone to talk to it just feels worst
i used to have friends...girlfriend...job..future,after a health problem i have lost everything,i m fighting years..night after night with emptiness....all hope is gone
καλα με προυποθεσεις,ακολουθω μια αγωγη..μια σχετικη προσοχη και ολα καλα.Ειναι περιεργη η μοναξια που εμεινε,αλλοτε φιλη και ευκαιρια για εξελιξη και αλλοτε ενα σκοτεινο βαρος. Ισχυει αυτο για το εξωτερικο!!ακουγα ελληνικα-δικος μου ανθρωπος ελεγα..χαχααχα!!
nikos 2742 σου ευχομαι να πανε ολα καλα! (προσωπικα φοβαμαι περισσοτερο τις πληγες της ψυχης βλ.καταθλιψη παρα τις πληγες του σωματος).... εγω προσωπικα, παω βολτες, για ψωνια, θερινο σινεμα (τοχω ξεσκισει, εχω γινει σχεδον η μασκοτ τους) βιβλια, διαβασμα, παζλ πολλα... φυσικα ολα αυτα alone... Ξερεις τι με πειραζει στην δικη μας κοινωνια? Που σε κοιταζουν περιεργα.. ακομα κ στις μεγαλες πολεις (βλ.Αθηνα).. Μη δουν ανθρωπο μονο του στο σινεμα, αμεσως σε κοιτανε λες κ εισαι κακομοιρης.... Αλλα εμαθα να το ξεπερνω. Αγνωστος μεταξυ αγνωστων, who gives a φακ..
οι πληγες της ψυχης ειναι αγωνας με πικρη γευση,οι πληγες του σωματος δεν πονανε τοσο-ειναι επιφανεια.Την καλυτερη δουλεια κανεις!!μου φαινεται επιασες το νοημα,πολλες μερες τωρα γυρναει στο μυαλο μου να κανω το ιδιο..και ας με βλεπουν οπως θελουν..το κανω για μενα κ οχι για αυτους.Στην Ελλαδα το εχουμε αυτο το κολληματακι,να σχολιαζουμε κ να κρινουμε γενικοτερα..
I feel like this everyday. I am Autistic and I suffer from depression and anxiety. I have a best friend that used to live across the street from me but moved 5 miles away two years ago and the recently moved to a city 20 miles away. Every since he moved from my neighborhood, I became pretty lonely. I’ve been suffering from depression and anxiety since the beginning of high school, I’m 21 now. Most of my peers now have either got engaged and are married and having a child. I never had an relationship with anyone and I still don’t. I feel like I’m still a teenager mentally and I’m trying to make friends but every time I try to meet someone, I usually see them once or twice and never again after that. Growing up, I’ve never really had any friends and was always isolated from everyone.
Hey man, I am 21 as well and I never had relationship neither. Heads up man! Someone is there for us. I am not even looking for it anymore I'm just minding my own business and whatever will be will be.
Autism really ruins social life. Im autistic too and I cant handle it anymore. I just want to be “normal” where i dont have to try so hatd to mask away my autism
@@drew4074 i didnt give up and now I have a great big friendship after months of trying and it couldnt be happier. Your right life does get better tysm for putting out encouraging words. I pray that you have good luck sending virtual hugs to you and everyone reading this 😁
Sane till I got a gf then we split up and I never wanted to go back to that lonely black whole and I've tried to meet gold but nine where Inttested now I'm getting sucked back I to that black whole and now I feel like I'm back in that whole back where i started but now instead of thinking i wanted to be alone I don't want to be alone I want to get out of the whole it's like a cold dark prison cell that u are in and there's no way out and no one getting u out I fucking hate it
I have no friends. I sit alone in class and at lunch. I’m really quiet and awkward and I don’t know how to start a conversation unless people talk to me, but no one ever tried too or tried to become my friend. Some days I sit and let tears fill up and I try to hold in my cry because I’m just so alone and I want someone to talk too. I want to text people and get to hangout on the weekends and do fun things but I spend it alone or with family. I just want a friend
Ik it sounds easier than it actually is but try meeting people with common interests. Also I'd recommend another video from this same exact channel; "how to get a girlfriend/boyfriend". It's pretty good and he goes through a lot of important topics to turn you into a more interesting and likeable person. We can all improve ourselves.
Yeah man. I had the best friends I’ve ever had but then I had to move away. And now I have friends that just do nothing but insult each other and now I’m part of all of this. I know this is just some random internet reply to you but I don’t really have anyone to tell about this. It really sucks when you’ve been at the top but now you’re stuck at the bottom for no reason.
Kevin Venter you dont understand. If you have fake friends youre actually lonely but for a time you thought you have friends and then you realise you dont and you're actually lonely. Having fake friends is that what he explained in the video and the for a long time.
I feel the same damn way... This is the result of me respecting every gender, race, etc of every species? Being pushed around, excluded, spat on, just why? Just receiving it is one thing, but when it's not there when you need it and you've given it...
Where does he even say he’s lonely because he doesn’t have “pussy?” Humans thrive on the idea of reproduction, yes, because it means a lot to humans. It’s not just about sex, though. Like animals, humans don’t just want a sex partner. It’s a teamwork. Humans don’t truly want to be alone. They just want to be with someone that appreciates them.
@@otomachiunagi4208 Nah but you can really hear the angst and desperation throughout this entire video. Thats pretty much what hes playing at, and its kind of sad really
Dractive Ahh same i have one friend tho Im not with here on my sparetime But she cares about everyone she somethimed Ask how Im doing and that means a lot. But anyway she not a near friend just someone i know. But everyday i feel like a ghost unsept that one time in 2 months that The one person talk to me
I watch this video from time to time. Everything you mentioned, I feel constantly. "I'm probably ugly, boring, and weird. No one will ever give a shit" and I cry every time at around 6:20. It's a never ending cycle. This video gives me hope, I move on, do my own thing, and then after many months...boom, out of nowhere, that painful feeling hits me again. Like recently, I met this good looking young woman. She's into the same things as me. We were supposed to hang out but then, she ghosted me. I literally didn't do shit to deserve that but yet, I feel like I fucked up. "Oh well, this is my faith I guess" It's going to be okay. This feeling usually goes away in a day or two.
I'm SOOOOO socially akward, walking past someone you know and not speaking to them, I be feeling like my mouth is sowed shut, I let people talk about me and I don't react, I feel like I'm not wanted everywhere, everywhere I go I can see people get that feeling that they think I'm WEIRD. I honestly want to leave this Earth but then and again I don't bcuz their is more to life and great things that I haven't experienced
Everywhere i go sit down in public, and 1 person and even sometimes nobody that i know is there, everybody tries to get away from me. Like if someone has said something about me and i can't think of what it is. I'm nothing hideous and have ben told by old betraying friends that i actually am pretty and good looking; i still doubt that when people seem to be so reppeled from me.
I will just say that the people you're walking past are propably awkwardly thinking the same, I know it's hard, but maybe at least try to say hi/hello.
I miss my childhood bestfriends. They genuinenly cared about me, coming over to my house everyday. I wasnt someone who was just there for my “bestfriend” when she was bored then toss me away when her funnier bestfriends came. I was someone who mattered to them, and they listened to what i said and acted on it. We all genuinely loved each other so much. And now i have no one. No genuine bestfriends who think abt me all the time. No childhood bestfriends who come over to my house to play cod and minecraft. Nobody.
Being lonely has made me into such a depresses and lazy person. I want nothing more than to lie in bed all day everyday. I don't even want to do the things I thought were once fun to me. My closest friend lives an hour away so we only get to talk over the phone. The only human contact I have is my family and therapist. But when I'm not at therapy, I'm in bed sharing my affection to my pet snakes. They are the only thing that I have to express my love for. Over the years I've gotten more stressed, anxious, and fearful of other people. I've lost a ton of friends due to backstabbers and drifting apart. Let me tell you, it is an awful feeling to drift from someone who was once a good friend. And anxiety doesn't help the matter. I find it super hard to make friends due to my anxiety and trust issues with other humans. And me being of the Cancer zodiac, I am affectionate and long for physical and emotional contact. I crave someone I can always rely on. Someone I could call whenever I need emotional support. Someone who can share the same emotional feelings I do. I just want to connect and feel like I matter to someone other than my family. If loneliness isn't forever, I really fucking hope it ends soon. Because I can't take this.
What you've wrote is exactly what's happened to me and how I feel as well, it fucking sucks. I wish there was a way to get to know people who feel the same way. I'd love to talk to anyone.
Yeah, that'd be amazing to have something like that. Just any lonely person on the internet could go there and talk about their problems to people who understand, instead of being ignored.
I am heading towards 50, that is not bad in itself, but I feel ugly, and I can’t get my weight off. I know if I do, then as soon as I stop trying really hard, it will all go back on. All I can do is try and control it as best I can from getting worse. I can’t wear the clothes I want to. Sometimes I find cold and flu tablets help my mood, but that is no answer. I will continue to feel ugly and fat.
@@eloisebrynlee I believe in you. You CAN lose the weight even if you are older. Try calorie counting with the app called "Lose It". It helped lose the weight and keep it off. Just know that all things worth your while is going to take time. Therell be set backs but just try to hang in there. I stopped for a little and then got back up on recording my consumption bc i just grew tired of my clothes not fitting and i told myself to think back why im doing this. I like fashion so i always looked at clothes other ppl fit that i couldn't. I also always look at myself in the mirror to see what i want to keep or keep off. What helps is to weigh yourself once every week at the same time (ex. Every Tuesday @8am nude on scale haha) I always weigh myself nude tbh Weight loss is also a mental build in the process. I dont do it bc i hate my body, I do it bc I love my body. At ur age watch out for certain foods bc of age requirements. Carbs and fats help feel satiated. Learn what's your body type to get a clearer idea of whats good for your particular body. Going to a doctor for a check up 1st would be best to know your current state. I may seem annoying but i really wanna help you & others lol Much love & God bless you all :)
Well at least you have friends all i have are small ppl that walk past me in the halls and say hi... I sit at lunch with them and i talk ti them in school and we laugh and stuff but yet i dont have a single number in my phone not a single friend or gf to hangout with... The only numbers i have are my parents and i dont give my social media becasue all i do is use instagram for memes
Loneliness and hardwork always live in my life but it doesn't give any pain beacuse there is no fear of losing someone in loneliness and there is no fear of failing after hardwork
I wish I had something to say better than 'hang in there' because I'm so sick of putting up with this exact shit as well, but if you're ever in Colorado and would like to ski, you're welcome to come ski with me. Hope you've been doing okay
dude idk ,i think u should stop thinking about minor issues like these i think u should be doing something valueable can light up this goddamn world or someone's life just be like a candle we all gather around it to light up our lives >>>> amirite hehehehehheehehe , ur fellow human from the goddamn iraq
Teacher: What did you do instead of your homework? I cutted, had a panic attack, cried myself to sleep to sleep and lots of useless shit Me: Stuff teens do
not to brag but im gay
no im not actually gay its called memes
Griswold Aspen yes son it will be cold the coming years but we will get through together
Griswold Aspen if you do it with me
Tyson Sprinter oh were just getting started
I envy u because its easier to find love when ur gay. Western women are so superficial, most seem to have an attitude problem towards men
Feeling alone in a crowded room is the worst.
TheAnax 11 That’s the worst feeling
There’s like 25 kids in my class but it’s like no one notices me or tries talking to me
TheAnax 11 oh my god that just gives me flashbacks to every time that has happened to me
yea it's like the world is rubbing it in ur face
That's exactly what I was gonna say..
I’m okay being completely alone but it’s only when I’m surrounded by other people do I understand what makes it miserable
The worst part of loneliness is that having no one to say that you're lonely.
Or when you do and they don't give a shit.
Hi
@@AngelicZelda444 yes
Exactly i never really opened up to my parents and i dont have friends to talk to cus im a loner life is hard 😢
@@hungrypanda2717 I'll be your friend
its worse when on school holidays when everyone goes places and meet people and you sit in a room until the next terms or school year starts.
that's literally me right now
i feel u. watching mystories and ig posts of people hanging out and having fun when ur just at home watching youtube
Relatable tbh
Nova xd ooomg same every holiday i feel that
Or when you just scroll through social media seeing people hanging out and doing awesome things and you’re just by yourself at home :’)
loneliness is like being dead while still breathing.
True
Na sometimes Id be rather dead tbh. Not saying I dont wanna live but I dont wanna feel this it just makes me feel so worthless and it just gets worse.
@@acid2213 same, it's feels like you're disappearing from existence or slowly turning into dust
Yea, I feel like this, my gf started dating someone else when quarantine started.
@@Omega-jg4oq it literally feels like I never existed before
I've been lonely since middle school.. i'm 30 now.. haven't got any human friends.. only my dogs whom I deeply love
Try to go to festivals Clubs excetra go to places where people come in a group btw are u Dutch ?
Me too, I've reached 46, that's 322 dog years,and yes, when I've been the mutt nobody wants all along,I understand dog years.
I'll be ur friend
@@HonderdtachtigCC Yes I'm dutch.. my name gave it away? haha
@@durrrii9757 Ahw.. that is sweet! Human kindness
People treat me like a god
They ignore my excistence unless they need something
Knattex thats the truest statement ive ever heard
Damn, you should run for presidents
true
Yes
Knattex this made my day
*when people on the internet care about you more than the people in real life*
Gina Wisteria This is soo true
listen, no one irl is going to care about you. And you know more than me that people on the Internet don't actually give two cents about you. Now accept that and learn how to be satisfied with yourself. Why do you need others to care about you when you can care about yourself? Don't be dependent on people, learn how to be independent.
Ramesh Murugaiyah i get what you are saying but that’s not true. There are some people out there who actually care and want to help u just have to look for them. If no one cared videos like this wouldn’t be made and videos like this wouldn’t have views.
@@therealestdrea true. But they'll only care for a certain time. Maybe for a week. Or a month. Or a year. Maybe ten years. But eventually they'll stop caring. Everyone will eventually leave. And what's going to happen then? Are you just going to collapse because the person you depend on for love is gone? Well that's exactly what's going to happen. So instead of that, if we can learn how to take care of our own needs and love ourselves without needing someone else to do it, won't we be happier? That doesn't mean we shouldn't have relationships tho, it's just that we shouldn't get too attached and dependent on someone. Maybe it's just the way I think, but it makes sense in my head.
Ramesh Murugaiyah no it makes sense I understand what you’re saying and I agree. Learning to be there for yourself and supply your own needs is important and when you do learn it won’t matter whether someone is there or not because either way your fine.
when you introduce 2 friends and they become better friends than you and leave you in the dust.....
That happened to me :(
Someone be my freind
Yeah I do it all the time and always regret it
My 2 best friends quit talkin to me :/
I did this and now my whole friend group has replaced me...
Sometimes I get jealous about others having friends.
I relate
I’ll be your friend
I do have a couple of friends, but meh, they are always doin their own shit and I'm by myself almost all the time
Same, including getting jealous about friends talking to a lot of other friends.
I have friends......fake ones
The hardest is when you knew happiness and now have the live with loneliness
Makes you obsess about how it was & how you let it slip away. But I'm glad to have known some degree of happiness & wish the same for everyone.
What's happiness? What the hell are you talking about?
I don't think i remember what happiness feels like. Now i just feel...empty, if that makes sense
Elise ! Exactly....Severe happiness with bestfriends. Then looking behind a screen seeing them hanging with other people never wanting to talk to me no more. So lonely
I know right!!!! it.so hard when you had friends for a long time and then they go away and ditch me😞
I like being alone but not loneliness, if it makes sense
Same
Yes it does. Relatable.
Yeah same..
mrguyshooterguy
Being alone is a choice.
Being lonely isn’t.
Being alone means you can remove yourself from the presence of other people.
Being lonely, means there was no one there to begin with.
Introversion
No friends squad where we at
👁
Then get a imaginative mind and make friends that’s how I’m getting through when I don’t have my one friend
Here
i'm here
Ye
the worst feeling is thinking everyone hates you but then not having anyone to talk to about it because... everyone hates you. so your stuck trapped in your own thoughts that slowly consume you
I'm also experiencing the same thing
You guys need someone to talk to?
Have you overcome the situation?
@@madao8890 I don't think I ever have felt lonely actually.
Actually I was surrounded by a lot of people but now I'm kinda left alone. That's why I feel lonely.
Max is like a therapist who has been through depression and actually knows how it works.
Yes
I'm studying psychology, and lots of people in my class have struggled with a mental disorder. That's what inspired them to do it.
Breadbug I wouldn’t be so sure about that.
Sure many therapists know how depression works scientifically, but very few (in my experience) truly understands the experience of depression.
It’s like the difference between book smarts vs street smarts. It’s one thing to know the science but another to live the reality.
Absolutely
Hey bud, lots of therapists and rehabilitation specialists have mental disorders and addiction problems too. The effective ones.
"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone." Robin Williams
amazing quote m8
that was super motivating.
Yup that quote domes up me and the relationship with my friends
+India
same here :p
:)
dude still killed himself
this spoke a lot for me, thank you
3 years late
ok
cried to this vid....the feeling of being sorrounded by people by you still feel alone..deymmm...
I want to die 😖
+DIY Crafts just think once about your parents :)
LugiaXen2602 yeah exactly..sometime even when you and your friends are having fun..you still feel empty inside..
LugiaXen2602 youre still young though...hopefully youll meet more people..
LugiaXen2602 :)
All my life I have never seen it or felt it.
No more hugs.
No more text-messages.
No more miss calls.
No more "I miss you".
No more "I love you".
No one care about me, no one is not asking like "where you", "everything is alright? "......
Didn't I deserve it?
How's it going?
You have satan
Ohh i can relate... we are here for ya brother
@@eyelessjack8260 depression is a terrible thing, but all is well now
@@yodaadoy2863 Bro, if you don’t mind, I’ll tell you, I used to be an ordinary boy, but now I’m becoming more and more aware, I met a girl who changed my life I thought I meant something to her, but it turned out not.((( and now I understand that I don’t even have real friends. I am constantly alone I spend the whole day among people, but I feel that I am alone, nobody needs me. and now I learned to hate, now I like being alone(
I'm sitting here and crying.
I just hope it's getting better...
It will 👍🔥
it gets worse when you get older
We are all in the same boat man I feel exactly what you going through
Haven't you listen to the man you have to man up and do something about it!
Babies help a lot.
26
It just gets worse.
I don't plan on being a single 40 year old.
What do you mean by that last line?
@Leo Redfern yeah, I got that more as a "I'd rather be dead than make it to 40 without anyone"
I do know it's more likely for your interpretation to be correct, but I still asked because if my assumption was the right one then I wanted to try and talk with him, you know, just in case...
Dark
34 never had a girlfriend. I'm thinking about ending.
@@Filth_McNasty have you considered talking to a therapist?
Loneliness is okay, until it cripples you to the point of crying
true
What I'm doing rn
Thats tough, eventually you'll find out a way to become happy
BlurryFaced Bandito sickick
Mega sads
me trying to get rid of loneliness :-
Me: can we talk
Other person : yes
Me: how are you
Other person : fine
:
:
Only this
I understand you, unfortunately I make the same short conversations as well.
Yes I know this feelings
Welcome to the world of loneliness
yea me too i really understand you its sad...
wow u suck at socializing. just ask them a bunch of questions dude, like what do you like or do you watch anime? do u like shane dawson? and then keep going. its not that difficult bro. its just really boring
@@chihabgm7796 from personal expierience i tried several times to talk about lots of topics but in the end its just ended only me asking them and i was manage the conversation just myshelf to make people like me but no it didnt happend...
Literally sat crying through this. Thank you my friend.
💔💔💔💔💔
Me too
Same
I feel
The silent type crying where you sit there nofding your head agreeing with most of the negative things he says and taking them as negative affirmations. Yes me too
Being an introvert...it’s hard sometimes
i felt that
It's more than just that
very very hard
@Eunice Wekesa too
True i keep thinking should i change myself
The intro scared the living hell out of me
You must be new, take a seat, get ready uncomfortable and enjoy
Same i almost got a freakin heart attack 😥
Hong kong 97 theme
SAAAAAME
GD Nautilus I though I comment. Almost passed out.
There's so many people out there who are suffering from depression and anxiety and are lonely. Some even bullied. Even though this world has about 7 billion people it feels like I'm the only one who's lonely. Where are the other lonely people in this world? We can all help each other out.
CreativeUS Mx me too
right here fam
Here mate 😥 ... :(
hey m8
Yeah that too.
My parents think videogames are wasting my time, without realizing they are the reason im still alive.
damn i can feel u , the same for me
Same man, can't fucking express how true that it is, if I ever live long enough I hope to download my conscience into perpetual simulation in the future.
@@tacoshock8242 bruh that would be very nice.
Games kept me alive
Same for me but I'm really good at them
Does anybody get a like cold chill down their back when they fell empty
get up on outta here with my eye holes
That feeling is called “Dread”
get up on outta here with my eye holes because you’re scared of being alone, everyone is.
i feel an empty feeling that makes me want to cry, though i can’t, because of repeated repression of feelings
Yeah.
My heart is having a thorns and cold and my hand is shaking like i can't move
Not gonna lie, I teared up a bit while watching this. Love you Max
me too man
no shit man, i fucking cried
same
Idem.
I cried too
That's why I talk to myself and stay home 24/7. I'm weird,crazy,nice, loving, and no one likes me. I know how you feel. Dude, I wish I could give you a hug!
I've never have had a boyfriend. Got picked on everyday at school. Depression...I its all I have really.
But, Most people commit suicide.. And that's so stupid. Your right. 😌
So, MamaMax. Thanks.
I'm the same as you
*****
No, My dad commited suicide.
I'm just fine
I hate how much I can relate to this ...
Yestimani Degleau i do too...
I hate it when my suffering is worst than the explanation of this video...
Same
Yestimani Degleau so true
Same yo :(
I just want to hug every single person who's feeling lonely today just remember that you're not alone and live life to the fullest
Thank you atleast the internet cares
Thank u !
really? I'm not alone?
Nah, life will never get better.
Stop lyin' to me, I AM alone
Loneliness isn’t feeling alone... loneliness is knowing nobody cares, even the ones you expected to care...
Fuck...
alone is a feeling a lone is well what you said
SpeedX what no
@SpeedX Nobody trusts being online strangers wanting to be friends especially after that whole "Logan" shenanigans
@SpeedX I get that you people online saying you want to be friends want to do something good, really, your intentions are incredibly noble.
But loneliness is a big thing, it can't be solved trough some online chatting.
Even some real friendships online might not be enough.
The most truest purest words I’ve heard
What I wouldn't do to have a real friend. But us ugly people are undesirable. I should go out for something to eat. Whoever wants to join me, it's my treat.
No I got it covered
Agreed
+Dakota North
I'd definitely join you
Count me in thanks
The reason why i'm very sad is that people these days are fake. And i seem to always be lonely even if i'm in a big crowd of people and i feel like their just there to judge me. I am very glad that you made this video.
Ella Sansolis I feel you girl lol. Hang in there, and I will too.
Ella Sansolis Same and its tough i just someone to talk to
TheJaylienHD yeah
JR7 yeah same
Ella Sansolis Well good luck i wish you the best be careful in this dangerous cruel world
the worst is when you care for them so much but you know they don’t feel the same way about you :(
My so called friends are too busy to hangout but in reality im just not a priority.
Hits you doesnt it.
Jon Lurn It would be awkward if your “friends” saw this haha
@@User-gd5un They dont have a reason to watch this, they have friends.
For real yah, almost everyone in my group of friends are at the same College, so they still have been seeing each other often. I see them once every 2-3 months now.. Sometimes I'll discover that they were all at a party or they organized a party and they'd forget to invite me.
It hurt for months. Going from seeing them everyday in HS and partying with them all summer long. And then, after our first year in College, I dont see anyone almost.
I only see people at work and at school, thank god. Many of my coworkers appreaciate me and I meet several chill people in my classes.
This video really hit home.
Agreed
Jon Lurn i went through the same shit but you know what the best fucking thing to do is? forgot those douches and be the best person you can be and people will come around because they like you for who you are
This guy gets it. He understands how life is for some of us 👏👏👏👏👏 Thanks, bro
Whoever goes through all of this too,
could we be friends? 😕😢😊
Sure
tosin jacobs I'll be your friend. And I mean that in the most honest and most sincere way possible. I feel lonely as well
blackmambadrogba07 awww 😃😄
tosin jacobs is Tosin your name?
blackmambadrogba07 Nah, it's Mickey, actually 😇😅✌
3 years after watching this video, I found someone who makes me truly happy. I've been alone my whole life and it feels like a miracle. I am so grateful to have this person in my life.
I hope i have the same fate as you.....
God bless you - I hope to experience that one day too
The worst thing is always being the person to start the message
angelo valenz can truly relate, are you in need of any communication?
thats true.. i feel you. people thinks im annoying cause i keep reaching out despite of the lack of replies.. it would feel good to be heard.. we hear y right now
Jacqueline M true then you just to feel bad for youself why dont they want to stay because they want to not because youre holding on to them
that's true. I got so tired and drained from always being the one to make all the effort, contact friends, help them out, put so much into friendships and get no support or anything back so I thought that they can get in touch with me first for a change. I heard from only 1 person in over 9 months so far!
i am that.... everytime, when i don't start a conversation then there's no one
I miss the old me, When I actually enjoyed things that I love. But I can't anymore, but hey my depression never leaves like my friends did🙃
I'm 17 and I swear to GOD I was much happier than I am now. I had joined basketball, visited my dad a lot, and in general just kinda enjoyed myself.Moved to Selma, joined a band(which I didn't really liked btw but I felt like I had a second family there) but now I don't do anything but stay home and browse RUclips.
אי אפשר לסמוך על אנשים. בסוף הם תמיד נוטשים
Been isolating myself for 2 years now I cant even go outside without feeling anxious or feeling being watched all the time
same!!
This is so me
Relatable
Sovereign I'm the same I feel everyone just thinks I'm disgusting n stare at me thinking it. I suffered from agoraphobia for a long time and still have elements of it now the anxiety and paranoia. I feel your pain hun. God bless you n live you xx
One day I want to go to the shops and get some bread ;-;
I'm 19 and just started feeling so lonely. I was okay being an introvert before but now I feel like this isn't life. It's getting worse, no matter how many new video games you play or how many TV shows you watch, the feeling just doesn't go away. I just can't stop myself from crying every night and making up scenarios in my mind that I'll never get into.
It hurts so much and no one just understands or really even seem to care how I feel.
5H1TP05TB0T 5000 Honestly, why are you even on this video commenting? This video was made for others to relate to and share their opinions.
because people like you make me want to kill myself
DONT TEL ME WHAT TO DO I HAVE AUTISM
st0p cyberbullying me
im gonna tell my mom
This is way too relatable...
Way, way, way too relatable.
Ivan Ljujic get a random guy off the stret to be your fraind it sometimes works
@@Vairy_2972 sometimes?
Same -_-
Yup
kholood almegadi No tf it doesn't, half the time its a drug addict
I had so many people take advantage of me many times.
Max not gonna lie, this is your best video so far. It really touched me and to be honest I cried a bit.
Thank you max.
This shit is relatable
really? U say that "being" Hitler?
But I thought he was dead ._.
Oh god not another one
Never gonna give you up, trust me Rick
I hate those moments after I'm done crying and I just sit there emotionless !
Think of it the calm after the storm like just enjoy the peacefulness before you get bottled up by it however long that takes "crying clears the windows to the soul"
it's the time you became strong and fuck hour thoughts and live
Bhav Tatz I felt numb yesterday, more than numb... I felt the biggest void I've ever felt. I'm trying as hard as I can to not cry rn. Hope you get better.
I normally freak the fuck out and just want too break shit and if do start to do stupid shit, after it I break down crying
i wanna hug every lonely soul
He should really do fan meet ups, but without him. So we can all hug each other. That would be great.
Me too... 😞
**pretend hugs you**
We should make an IG group chat or something for all of us
*hugs you*
That's how I feel most of my life. I've never had a friend and obviously a girlfriend. Loneliness is such an exhausting state of soul
Who is this in your dp ?
@@bangbangyaya23 In my what?
@@mentalcelstefan7086 I think he means profile pic
We should all start a group where all these peoplel that feel lonely can come together!
A person thinking that a simple group can solve it complex problems can not be solved with simple answers my dude. Look at capitalism it is destroying relations
@@comrademartinofrappuccino yeah but if we make some kind of group chat,and talk I'm sure we can feel better,yeah you are right that's not gonna solve a problems but,you can feel better,my friend was always depressed and she never had friends but then she started to talk on insta in some group and she is now very positive
Facebook
I’d still be too shy
@@NotSoArtificial you don't.
Who wants a friend? :)
I do
Me too
me
I do
kaleb balderston ME!!
im 20 but i feel like 15 because of what ? i've been living the same day for years ...
edit: thanks for the likes
hey other me thanks for infiltrating this timeline!
I hope it gets better
Feels like I been going thru life in auto pilot mode, and now I’m stuck with the hardships
I’m 20 year old too and I’m the exact same person
Same, this is Why i hate routine. I feel like every week is just one long, painful day
Pros of being alone? You’re stronger than every single person around you
Cons: Being too weak to use it
Legends Never Die well yeah...anxiety i guess
loneliness is painful, it hurts...so much
ibl4m3yrem0m
I can relate.
I had friends at one time.
They all left.
the last time I felt like I had friends was 6th grade. they also all left
Nice
@@achild5864 same life
Same my guy
Me too
I'm fucking crying so much, I got to the point that I don't even know if is it worth to live
Cande Argañaraz , same some times I feel I'm nothing
lisa 1D glad to know that "we're not alone"
Cande Argañaraz , yeah finally I knew that I'm not alone it makes me feel that im not the only one in this world who have this feeling
Cande Argañaraz me literally right now.
I always tear up when someone else says that about themselves. But I think about it all day and it stopped phasing me😩
I’ve been lonely for so long that I don’t even really want friends anymore.
- madeleine - Same, not that I don‘t want friends but I feel unable to meet people anymore because I‘m just tired of everything all the time (especially social stuff) for the past 7-8 years.
@madeleine p. Its well with you. The more the society gets cosmopolitan, the worse people get with respect to their Sociopathy. Be willing to get out of your comfort zone; meet friends from different parts of the world and you will be amazed..
No friends, girlfriend, personality, or happiness... just me and my bed which I spend most of my time in. The happiest day of my life will be the last day of my life. Maybe then I’ll be happy. (:
Jesus loves us all 🙏❤️
Life....
My life is same, i want to die
I feel ya dude
This right here on what you said is also my life.
I don't wanna be in a relationship..i just want some good friends..maybe just one or two..i need friends
same
Me to. Literaly I have 1 sort of friend and he's a grade lower than me.
Hey if you just want someone to talk to, give me a shout 😄
I wanna give you a hug
I need a friend too
I wish everyone who feels this way including me could just hang out
Yatzee2e me same
I wish
Same ;-;
yeah right.. and eat some doritos mnt dew, play games, listen to music :( and remember old undertale ;C
I would love this so much
The only thing keeping me from isolating is RUclips
And minecraft, god we live the exact same life and i play treasure wars
@@jakefromstatefarm7363 the life we live
and now you're isolating. with youtube.
@@waynet8729 Ironic
@@waynet8729 I was about to say that. But it's no different for most of us.
I hate when people are like ranting and others are like: "I have it worse than you." Or "There's people out there who have bigger problems than you get over it." Like okay, I get that there may be people who have it worse than me but, like I can't do anything about that. And depression doesn't have to have a reason. If a guy who is homeless is happy, don't tell me "There's people that have bigger problems than you m."
It makes sense both ways. Theres always a reason to be happy and theres always reason to be sad. What defines the person is what they choose to focus on and how much they can endure.
ccam its like our problem power scale is like same like ur problem being my problem like its not finna effect me u dig
omg i hate that shitty line when people say to you why are you depressed get over it and you are so weak to get over it... no morons i don't know how to get over it thats the reason why so many people around the world don't share their feelings
People who say that are either clueless about the difficulties you are facing or well and truly don't give a shit.It's best to confide in others,fuck those people.
Hi ccam,
"There's people out there who have bigger problems than you get over it."
Yes, I hate when people use lines like this as well. I sometimes respond by asking them something like: "If you accidentally smashed your thumb in a car door, would it make you feel better if I said: 'Don't feel so bad. There are people out there who have it worse than you. There are some people who don't even have thumbs or hands etc.'" Of course, I can be thankful for having a thumb even though its smashed, but being thankful will not do much to diminish the intense agony I might be feeling in my thumb at the moment.
In 41 ,still lonely ,stopped looking for love.just really tired ,tired of everything.it's been too long.nothing changes why try at this age ,just waiting for our Father in heaven to call my name.please forgive me.
Stay strong
Love u bro, keep looking❤️
Let me tell you something. You have to get out of your comfort zone. God put you in this planet for a reason. And he said to bring a smile to everyone.
Well, I'm sure you're guys' god won't want you to be sad; but to find a meaning, to be happy. Now, I'm an atheist myself, but I'm sure you can find someone out there, who will care for you. Even when times are tough, you can achieve great things.
"If you don't do what you could do now, it won't happen later."
-Me.
i found true love when i was 16 and didnt tell her now shes moved on so i missed my chance :( Its worse to have found it and fucked it up than to never have found love at all.
But maybe you will find it one day i hope you do bro. And if you do one day just remember to BE HONEST and share your feelings done fuck it up like i did.
And yes, music movies tv shows video games are life savers , i would of committed suicide without them , because ill be left with loneliness, only loneliness.
unicorn fantasty Same! People say that can't be true but youtube prevents me from being alone with my suicidal thoughts.
Until you grow tired of them. These materials never stop coming but our life is going. Just something I realized.
This is fucking true. The ugly truth: Chances are that many of us wouldn´t be lonely if we would have been born a few decades earlier when people couldn´t just hide in their room and play video games and live in the internet. Many of us are not ugly at all and are not socially awkward by nature. We could benefit alot from another lifestyle.
When i´m completely honest with myself, i hate facebook, youtube ,video games, smartphones. All that crap made it easier to not have real human relationships. It probably fucked up my youth.
The truth is we are simply not made to be happy living alone and consuming all that shit. The video game that delivers more joy than good sex will never ever be invented. Because our brains are not made that way. So we have to accept our nature and try to live a more natural lifestyle and meet people. I know it is damn hard but it is the only way to feel more alive and happy.
You´re a smart guy. You found better words than me. I can relate to everything you said. Sometimes it makes me sad to see people walking around, looking at their smartphones. The think they are doing something useful to maintain a friendship or whatever, but fail to realize that they are missing the chance to get to know a new person in real life.
There is this paradox that people in a city are acutally more at risk of being lonely than people in the countryside because there are so many people available, that most of them just don´t care much about each other.
I think that the whole internet/facebook development has only intensified that problem. There are basically endless opportunities to know other people and communicate with them, no matter where they are. It is so easy to have 1000 friends on facebook but not a single real one.
I´m not saying that everyone has this problem. Extroverted people usually won´t have too many problems. Even though they might also have a hard time, creating meaningful relationships. But some of the introverted guys and girls are some kind of victims of this technical process, at least in my opinion.
Anyway, clair de lune, i hope you don´t have to type on a screen alone all the time ;)
Im just bored of everything in this life there is nothing for me to do
First 3 minutes of this video I’m literally thinking: “damn this sums up everything I am”
*people don’t care if you are alive*
*people care when you are dead*
Edit: holy shit thank you guys for the likes, remember love your self.
Thank you
You are so right
xRqinyyYT exactly and when you are alive they notice how alone and sad you are but don’t care to help.
No they don't.
They will hate you alive or dead.
You don't care about the squirrel that you ran over while driving to work right? What makes me different?
Yep.
I always wondered why
One thing I HATE about school is that....*every time we do group projects, I am usually the odd one out. EVERY time the teachers say "now everyone please go into their own groups" MY HEART FREEZE. I feel I have an anxiety attack. Like a sense of dread hangs over me. I don't want to be alone. And I know I WILL be alone. And I am alone. School sucks.*
Chara Dreemurr fuck school they all think they are better than you etc and you are a worthless piece of shit(some people that are bullying you)if)
Personally I'm experiencing almost the same thing with a lot of things.I have school friends and I'm sad in some situations.I'm going on 8th grade I'm 13 and I see almost everyone as stupid shits they are acting shitty a lot and the 14-15 girls are hoes(some of them) some lost their virginity in that age .Some are smoking in that age (I'm talking about boys&girls) at least kids in my age have girlfriends and society skills.When I'm around a girl I slightly can talk even if it's no reason even if I have no feelings about her.I have bad society skills and I'm weak and can cry easily.
I have seen that's phase on 2015 now graduated believe me , focus on study it won't matter if you became successfully,and people who matter will come
Chara Dreemurr that is exaitly what i feel but then those who try act nice to get good numbers and they say me "u can come with us" and they look so annoyed bc i come with them. then they just left me out then i ask my teacher could i go bathroom or what it is called and i go there think everything and boom! im crying
Yea i get that feeling too everytime my name is called and the teacher says: "Step out to the chalkboard please"
Hate that as well, however I usually just become friends w/teachers so that they let me work alone.
i have no friends, doesnt help that i have social anxiety so i cant make friends
Same, i'm a junior in highschool
so all hope is lost for me.
@@yunggod1981 just try to talk to some girls try to be funny make people laugh help people if there failing try this
Yay me too.. it sucks
FluxxFN I have social anxiety and awkwardness.
@@karstenmeanor6515 He just said he has social anxiety
"man i wish i had a girlfriend that i can lay my head as she stares in awe as i slay all these demons"
god damn that one hit home
same
Y'know TT
Actually that would be cool.
I want more then anything to just simply hang out with a guy and play video games 😔✌️
How to win at life:
- Genes
- Ego
- Money
- Follow the norm to fucking DEATH
sad but true
true, not true true 100% NOT TRUE
You forgot being a psychopathic narcissist.
hot i don't enjoy the way that people come to places like this on the Internet and start these big circle jerks of self pity. If you believe that you can't be successful in life because you "won't conform to the norm" then why do you complain about being lonely? It's normal to be social, we as humans are social creatures. Those who chose to truly be antisocial are happier and more content when they are alone. This is also normal, the society that we live in today gives us complete and total freedom (at least in America) to make yourself happy. If your happier when your alone then be alone. If your happier with people make friends. I personally have a problem with feeling alone. I fear being alone and i believe that being alone is the only aspect of my life I hate. When I was in middle school I was just like a lot of you that I am talking to right now. I would put myself in these very depressed states by choice, watch sad videos, think sad thoughts, surround myself with sad people, etc. I was also incredibly skinny and very unconfident. As I became a freshman in high school I looked around me and all of these people that I used to call "narcissistic psychopaths" seemed genuinely happy. I realized that it's human nature to want to be accepted, to want to feel loved, to make yourself happy. I then started to observe the people around me how they talked, acted, carried themselves, how they dressed, and ultimately how they made themselves happy. I started to work out every day, I joined the wrestling team, I made new friendships, I started to pay attention to what made every one happy. I bounced around a little bit I tried the stoner thing the country thing the jock athlete thing.This is how I ultimately found my own happiness. It may sound dumb or maybe even played out, but my personal secret to happiness is to destroy you self oppression. Any one who confines themselves to one lifestyle is some one who is not truly happy. If you want to make money you can fucking make money. If you want to lose weight you can fucking lose weight. If you want to be social be fucking social. Make change, change stops when you oppress yourself. People will complain about how they fall into society and they will do nothing about it. This course of action leads to nowhere but sadness. Happiness doesn't find you you fucking find your happiness. I now have quite a large group of friends, a very athletic and attractive body, and most importantly a new outlook on life. Many of you may not believe me, others of you may resent me, and lots will believe that I am weak minded, but hopefully a few of you will realize that you can find your happiness in life. I wish every one the best of luck and truly hope that you all find what makes you happiest. (Just know that life will always have struggles, and within those struggles you are presented with a choice. The choice to be happy)
How to win at life:
Believe in Yeshua the messiah
I have bone cancer, and nobody gives a shit to me until I tell them then they have pity. They're not trying to be friends with me or anything they just walk away feeling sorry... I'm lonely the doctor is the one who I speak the most I feel like I'm mental sometimes and nobody helps
White it OK I here for you I know how the world is but it will be alright you will find someone someday just have hope in yourself😃
Stay strong dudes , and I'm so shocked that life to much hard than I looks
We can,chat right here :)
White Kinara you don’t know me and I don’t know you but it may seem like no one cares but I guarantee that someone cares... I care.. again I have no idea who you are but you have purpose we all do and you matter never forget that... your amazing and I wish nothing but the best for you and blessings upon you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Bone cancer..? Oh my god... Thats a thing? Jfc im so sorry. Thats one of my worst fears honestly.
I am pretty lonely and am loved by people very rarely.
I just had a internship as a elementary school teacher.
The kids loved me and I loved them. I never was loved by so many people at the same time just for existing and being there.
So as I said goodbye to the class today I turned around and saw the entire class of kids waving me goodbye.
That was so heart warming that now hourse later I am crying because of it.
martial arts,music and history I’m still young 16 years old but I can partially understand what you’re going through. Through the perspective of the kid however. In 3rd grade we had a teacher similar to your situation. She was great made a lot of great memories for us kids. On the day she left I can only remember her crying discreetly. I guess I just didn’t understand at the time what she was going through. My point is that as a kid with a teacher like that we really did love the teacher so I’m sure those kids did truthfully love you. Being a teacher is one of the most important job in our society but they often don’t get the respect deserved and the pay. Keep doing what you’re doing I respect you for being an educator.
Its currently 1:27 A.M and its my 18th birthday today but only 3 people wished and now im laying on bed in my empty house and i don't even have anyone to talk to it just feels worst
Happy birthday ! It 5:30 pm were I live and I’m gonna turn 18 tomorrow as well
Happy birthday! ❤️
Happy birthday
@@SC-ir1qr happy birthday brother ❤
@@munimuni- Thank you so much❤
I almost cried! This is so fucking relatable
Edit: yay 3 likes thnx
Orange Fruit ❤️
Same here
Same
Looks like you got a few more than 3 likes!
Orange Fruit I was the 200th like
i used to have friends...girlfriend...job..future,after a health problem i have lost everything,i m fighting years..night after night with emptiness....all hope is gone
το δουλευω... ;)
nikos 2742 επειδη διαβασα για θεμα υγειας... ολα καλα τωρα? μιλα ελευθερα, ολοι ξενοι ειναι δω.. (νιωθω οπως οταν πας στο εξωτερικό κ απο μακρυα ακους να μιλανε ελληνικα κ νιωθεις λες κ βρηκες συγγενη.. χσχαχα! αν δεν σουχει τυχει, χανεις! χαχαχα!!)
καλα με προυποθεσεις,ακολουθω μια αγωγη..μια σχετικη προσοχη και ολα καλα.Ειναι περιεργη η μοναξια που εμεινε,αλλοτε φιλη και ευκαιρια για εξελιξη και αλλοτε ενα σκοτεινο βαρος.
Ισχυει αυτο για το εξωτερικο!!ακουγα ελληνικα-δικος μου ανθρωπος ελεγα..χαχααχα!!
nikos 2742 σου ευχομαι να πανε ολα καλα! (προσωπικα φοβαμαι περισσοτερο τις πληγες της ψυχης βλ.καταθλιψη παρα τις πληγες του σωματος).... εγω προσωπικα, παω βολτες, για ψωνια, θερινο σινεμα (τοχω ξεσκισει, εχω γινει σχεδον η μασκοτ τους) βιβλια, διαβασμα, παζλ πολλα... φυσικα ολα αυτα alone... Ξερεις τι με πειραζει στην δικη μας κοινωνια? Που σε κοιταζουν περιεργα.. ακομα κ στις μεγαλες πολεις (βλ.Αθηνα).. Μη δουν ανθρωπο μονο του στο σινεμα, αμεσως σε κοιτανε λες κ εισαι κακομοιρης.... Αλλα εμαθα να το ξεπερνω. Αγνωστος μεταξυ αγνωστων, who gives a φακ..
οι πληγες της ψυχης ειναι αγωνας με πικρη γευση,οι πληγες του σωματος δεν πονανε τοσο-ειναι επιφανεια.Την καλυτερη δουλεια κανεις!!μου φαινεται επιασες το νοημα,πολλες μερες τωρα γυρναει στο μυαλο μου να κανω το ιδιο..και ας με βλεπουν οπως θελουν..το κανω για μενα κ οχι για αυτους.Στην Ελλαδα το εχουμε αυτο το κολληματακι,να σχολιαζουμε κ να κρινουμε γενικοτερα..
They only care when your dead
you're
I wish they did
Fact they only ask and act like they care when they see u crying or Hurd that don’t last long it only last 1M it suck
MrTopHat and something goes like this “he/she was a very nice person I ever know, I can’t believe he/she gone... I remember when blah blah blah
Ted Cleveland for real
I feel like this everyday. I am Autistic and I suffer from depression and anxiety. I have a best friend that used to live across the street from me but moved 5 miles away two years ago and the recently moved to a city 20 miles away. Every since he moved from my neighborhood, I became pretty lonely. I’ve been suffering from depression and anxiety since the beginning of high school, I’m 21 now. Most of my peers now have either got engaged and are married and having a child. I never had an relationship with anyone and I still don’t. I feel like I’m still a teenager mentally and I’m trying to make friends but every time I try to meet someone, I usually see them once or twice and never again after that. Growing up, I’ve never really had any friends and was always isolated from everyone.
Hey man, I am 21 as well and I never had relationship neither. Heads up man! Someone is there for us. I am not even looking for it anymore I'm just minding my own business and whatever will be will be.
I can relate to most of everything you stated, only I am 15 years older and I have got lucky, but never found love.
Autism really ruins social life. Im autistic too and I cant handle it anymore. I just want to be “normal” where i dont have to try so hatd to mask away my autism
Stay strong! Never give up! We strong together.. i hope i live there near u so we can be friends
@@drew4074 i didnt give up and now I have a great big friendship after months of trying and it couldnt be happier. Your right life does get better tysm for putting out encouraging words. I pray that you have good luck sending virtual hugs to you and everyone reading this 😁
I’ve tried so hard to trick myself into believing that I actually like to be lonely.
I tried too, but it always comes back to haunt me
Me too, but then I just get closed to myself and I don't want to get out of my house or talk to anyone.
Sane till I got a gf then we split up and I never wanted to go back to that lonely black whole and I've tried to meet gold but nine where Inttested now I'm getting sucked back I to that black whole and now I feel like I'm back in that whole back where i started but now instead of thinking i wanted to be alone I don't want to be alone I want to get out of the whole it's like a cold dark prison cell that u are in and there's no way out and no one getting u out I fucking hate it
I keep talking to myself pretending a friend is there
I try to tell myself I'm normal and snap out of it, but not so easy when there's nobody to talk to or understand you
I have no friends. I sit alone in class and at lunch. I’m really quiet and awkward and I don’t know how to start a conversation unless people talk to me, but no one ever tried too or tried to become my friend. Some days I sit and let tears fill up and I try to hold in my cry because I’m just so alone and I want someone to talk too. I want to text people and get to hangout on the weekends and do fun things but I spend it alone or with family.
I just want a friend
Ik it sounds easier than it actually is but try meeting people with common interests. Also I'd recommend another video from this same exact channel; "how to get a girlfriend/boyfriend". It's pretty good and he goes through a lot of important topics to turn you into a more interesting and likeable person. We can all improve ourselves.
I can definitely relate, even as a young 21 year old woman/college student
I rarely talk not just at school but outside of school too I hang around large groups of people so no one can ask me am I fine because I'm by myself
I'm here if anyone needs an ear. Or.. eyes, in this case..
Its like that for me its harder when you get older and when you are in the real world
The worst is when you only have fake friends. 😭😭😭😭
You have friends
Yeah man. I had the best friends I’ve ever had but then I had to move away. And now I have friends that just do nothing but insult each other and now I’m part of all of this. I know this is just some random internet reply to you but I don’t really have anyone to tell about this. It really sucks when you’ve been at the top but now you’re stuck at the bottom for no reason.
Not at all...being alone is alot worse
Kevin Venter you dont understand. If you have fake friends youre actually lonely but for a time you thought you have friends and then you realise you dont and you're actually lonely. Having fake friends is that what he explained in the video and the for a long time.
I have meet fake friends it hurts so much lost my best friend that I thought he was a best friend.
this popped up in my reccomended and made me cry, cathartic cry, thank you.
This is basically how I am, But I give love but don't receive love in return...
I feel the same damn way...
This is the result of me respecting every gender, race, etc of every species? Being pushed around, excluded, spat on, just why?
Just receiving it is one thing, but when it's not there when you need it and you've given it...
@@dunndunn3850 Thank you someone gets it!
Same
It receives in a different way,,,
Hey
Do you want to chat? I would like to give you some attention .-.
Damn RUclips is actually recommending good videos
Then why'd you click on a terrible and biased one then?
Where does he even say he’s lonely because he doesn’t have “pussy?” Humans thrive on the idea of reproduction, yes, because it means a lot to humans. It’s not just about sex, though. Like animals, humans don’t just want a sex partner. It’s a teamwork. Humans don’t truly want to be alone. They just want to be with someone that appreciates them.
@@otomachiunagi4208 Nah but you can really hear the angst and desperation throughout this entire video. Thats pretty much what hes playing at, and its kind of sad really
I call myself a ghost. At school no one pays attention to me is like if I was invincible. And that is not only at school.
How did you master it?
I can relate too, It is like a ghost, you don't get recognized until you do something.
@ZemosOner lol true
Invisible. Invincible means you can't be defeated...
Dractive Ahh same i have one friend tho Im not with here on my sparetime But she cares about everyone she somethimed Ask how Im doing and that means a lot. But anyway she not a near friend just someone i know. But everyday i feel like a ghost unsept that one time in 2 months that The one person talk to me
I watch this video from time to time. Everything you mentioned, I feel constantly. "I'm probably ugly, boring, and weird. No one will ever give a shit" and I cry every time at around 6:20. It's a never ending cycle. This video gives me hope, I move on, do my own thing, and then after many months...boom, out of nowhere, that painful feeling hits me again.
Like recently, I met this good looking young woman. She's into the same things as me. We were supposed to hang out but then, she ghosted me. I literally didn't do shit to deserve that but yet, I feel like I fucked up. "Oh well, this is my faith I guess"
It's going to be okay. This feeling usually goes away in a day or two.
I have like a group of friends but I still feel lonely they all have a best friend and I'm always their last choice 😕
inşallah ne yaptığını bilen ve sana bağlanacak arkadaşlar edinirsin ;)
Aylatepe fuck you
Fireflyxoxx just leave her, she doesn't deserve to be friend with you.
Aylatepe me 2 but i think it is the way we act that makes us their last choice
We are the overburdened ones
I'm SOOOOO socially akward, walking past someone you know and not speaking to them, I be feeling like my mouth is sowed shut, I let people talk about me and I don't react, I feel like I'm not wanted everywhere, everywhere I go I can see people get that feeling that they think I'm WEIRD. I honestly want to leave this Earth but then and again I don't bcuz their is more to life and great things that I haven't experienced
I feel you man
Everywhere i go sit down in public, and 1 person and even sometimes nobody that i know is there, everybody tries to get away from me. Like if someone has said something about me and i can't think of what it is. I'm nothing hideous and have ben told by old betraying friends that i actually am pretty and good looking; i still doubt that when people seem to be so reppeled from me.
I am the same person
Darryl Hyde be friends with nature.
I will just say that the people you're walking past are propably awkwardly thinking the same, I know it's hard, but maybe at least try to say hi/hello.
I'm shy and lonely. And I'm kind of happy for it. Of course loneliness is painful but I'm trying be always positive. Behind my smile is loneliness.
It's around the same for me. I just tend to withdraw myself. I'm not shy. I just tend not to be able to blend with people.
There are also people that have a lot of friends and still are lonely .
@@johnerikson828
Sometimes
@@johnerikson828 someone mentioned me? Just kidding none of my friends care about me
I miss my childhood bestfriends. They genuinenly cared about me, coming over to my house everyday. I wasnt someone who was just there for my “bestfriend” when she was bored then toss me away when her funnier bestfriends came. I was someone who mattered to them, and they listened to what i said and acted on it. We all genuinely loved each other so much. And now i have no one. No genuine bestfriends who think abt me all the time. No childhood bestfriends who come over to my house to play cod and minecraft. Nobody.
Being lonely has made me into such a depresses and lazy person. I want nothing more than to lie in bed all day everyday. I don't even want to do the things I thought were once fun to me. My closest friend lives an hour away so we only get to talk over the phone. The only human contact I have is my family and therapist. But when I'm not at therapy, I'm in bed sharing my affection to my pet snakes. They are the only thing that I have to express my love for.
Over the years I've gotten more stressed, anxious, and fearful of other people. I've lost a ton of friends due to backstabbers and drifting apart. Let me tell you, it is an awful feeling to drift from someone who was once a good friend.
And anxiety doesn't help the matter. I find it super hard to make friends due to my anxiety and trust issues with other humans. And me being of the Cancer zodiac, I am affectionate and long for physical and emotional contact. I crave someone I can always rely on. Someone I could call whenever I need emotional support. Someone who can share the same emotional feelings I do. I just want to connect and feel like I matter to someone other than my family.
If loneliness isn't forever, I really fucking hope it ends soon. Because I can't take this.
What you've wrote is exactly what's happened to me and how I feel as well, it fucking sucks. I wish there was a way to get to know people who feel the same way. I'd love to talk to anyone.
cant believe im on the same boat like u guys 2
" pet snakes "
screw snakes i have pet dragons to talk to
they are in my mind :D
Yeah, that'd be amazing to have something like that. Just any lonely person on the internet could go there and talk about their problems to people who understand, instead of being ignored.
XxStormHorsexX hello, can we talk?
It only gets worse as you get older
I’m 22 and realizing it
I am heading towards 50, that is not bad in itself, but I feel ugly, and I can’t get my weight off. I know if I do, then as soon as I stop trying really hard, it will all go back on. All I can do is try and control it as best I can from getting worse. I can’t wear the clothes I want to. Sometimes I find cold and flu tablets help my mood, but that is no answer. I will continue to feel ugly and fat.
I’m not excited
@@eloisebrynlee I believe in you. You CAN lose the weight even if you are older. Try calorie counting with the app called "Lose It". It helped lose the weight and keep it off. Just know that all things worth your while is going to take time. Therell be set backs but just try to hang in there.
I stopped for a little and then got back up on recording my consumption bc i just grew tired of my clothes not fitting and i told myself to think back why im doing this. I like fashion so i always looked at clothes other ppl fit that i couldn't. I also always look at myself in the mirror to see what i want to keep or keep off.
What helps is to weigh yourself once every week at the same time (ex. Every Tuesday @8am nude on scale haha) I always weigh myself nude tbh Weight loss is also a mental build in the process. I dont do it bc i hate my body, I do it bc I love my body.
At ur age watch out for certain foods bc of age requirements. Carbs and fats help feel satiated. Learn what's your body type to get a clearer idea of whats good for your particular body. Going to a doctor for a check up 1st would be best to know your current state. I may seem annoying but i really wanna help you & others lol
Much love & God bless you all :)
Sad but true
I do have friends but i still feel lonely
Me too , it feels like they are there... but arent.
Sara Bejinaru I know how you feel😔
sae sae same
Welp, life is monotonous. That's not lonely. right?
Well at least you have friends all i have are small ppl that walk past me in the halls and say hi... I sit at lunch with them and i talk ti them in school and we laugh and stuff but yet i dont have a single number in my phone not a single friend or gf to hangout with... The only numbers i have are my parents and i dont give my social media becasue all i do is use instagram for memes
I never had friends or a boyfriend for most of my life.
I've never had a gf that actually loved me ever before..
Fuck dating
I find it too overrated and it's just fucked up.
I’m sorry but I find that extremely hard to believe if you are the person in your profile pic
xFersureMatt Same goes for you.
f:AKSDFKam.sd'f I see why you say that but just let it be bro
I cried...I haven't cried in forever. This really touched my heart, I love it so much.
Hii
Loneliness and hardwork always live in my life but it doesn't give any pain beacuse there is no fear of losing someone in loneliness and there is no fear of failing after hardwork
This is my quote
I understood ypu Evie :/
Same, I know how it feels as a dude in highschool.
Im crying, this is how I feel everyday of my life and I'm fighting to keep myself alive from myself
Wanna be buds on steam?
i know that feeling...if u want to chat i am there for u
I wish I had something to say better than 'hang in there' because I'm so sick of putting up with this exact shit as well, but if you're ever in Colorado and would like to ski, you're welcome to come ski with me. Hope you've been doing okay
Reactor Engineer being steam friends isnt going to help him in any way he probably needs real friends
dude idk ,i think u should stop thinking about minor issues like these i think u should be doing something valueable can light up this goddamn world or someone's life just be like a candle we all gather around it to light up our lives >>>> amirite hehehehehheehehe , ur fellow human from the goddamn iraq
Not to brag, but welcome to the lonely bus.
but if let's say people get into the bus, wouldn't it be not-so-lonely anymore?
*User has left the lonely bus*
*User has joined depression bus*
I’ve been in it for quite a bit
I get on the bus almost ervy day and it is mostly lonely (me reading a book while other talk about nothing of intrest)
Teacher: What did you do instead of your homework?
I cutted, had a panic attack, cried myself to sleep to sleep and lots of useless shit
Me: Stuff teens do
@@waynet8729 but I'm in my 20s
@@ItsTomRay do what your heart desires mate
@@waynet8729 I will, thank you :)
Not all stuff teens do, but it's unfortunate for the ones that do.
Pain is progress, kia kaha (stay strong) 🔥🐉💯