Gus Thomas same, I had two best friends but just used me for art and tried to make me lose all my real friends. And their the Reason why I barley trust anymore
shy Girl Please don't.P L E A S E.My sister did the same exact thing and when I questioned her she said it made things better for her.But she killed herself not too long after.Its not something I like bringing up but I feel in this community it's ok.Just try to stop please.
Story time: Back in 2008/9 I met a girl whom I'd quickly become good friends with and with whom I also fell in love, and for years I harbored this feeling in me and didn't act on them. Why didn't I just confess? Well, she was in a relationship with someone else, it's sort of a long roler coaster of a story so I'll cut to the chase. A few years ago, she had a bad break up. At this point I'd known her for like 6 years, but I stood by her and her ex (they were both my friends and fuck picking a side when it comes to people I genuinely care about), I talked to her and calm her down when she tells me she's afraid all the people she cares about are going to abandon her, eased her pain when she had fits of anxiety, held her hands, hugged her tight, made sure I could do anything in my power to make her feel better, because I cared and loved her deeply. One day, when I noticed she was much better, when she no longer grieved over her past relashionship and had managed to find her inner strenght to go on, while I was taking her to the bust stop, I took a deep breath and told her I'd love her since all those years ago, but that our relashionship didn't had to change, because just being around her made me happy. Fastforward a few weeks, and we start holding hands while walking in the street, we kiss in private, and have some TLC whenever we're alone in each other's house. Even though at no point we made anything or said anything that would make our relashionship "official", we gave off a pretty strong boyfriend-girlfriend vibe (a lot of our friends commented on this too). Now, two years ago, while I was being dragged through the mud and writting my Masters Thesis, I was in a very bad place, metally speaking: I lived with my parents and they were in the middle of an ugly divorce; the stress of writting the thesis took a very heavy toll on me since my thesis coordinator was this belgium fucktard that never felt helpful or useful, so I had to pretty much wing the whole thing; I became isolated from my friends and rarely left the house to the point where this girl was basically the only human contact I had outside my parents, I'd be awake in the early hours of the morning just staring into the night and conteplating not so happy toughts, etc. This was the sort of mind-set I was in, when suddendly, this girl I've been talking about, she just stops talking to me. I make all sort of strides to go out with her, but she just doesn't engage in conversation. Every answer she gave me were two to three word sentences. Every plan I try to make with her, she quickly shoots down with the same alternating excuses: she doesn't have time, she has to study, she has to tutor her nieces, etc. Five months of this go by and I finnaly get to see her for the first time in five months. We go to a sort of Japan Festival celebration kind of thing. There, I find out she's been hanging out with some of her friends all throughout these months. "For months she had no time for me, but still went out with her friends?" I thought to myself. "Something's not right here, but maybe I'm jumping to conclusions too soon. I don't want to make a scene and risking our relashionship over nothing. I don't want to lose her, I guess I better not mention this.".... Like a dumbass... A few more months go by, the same routine of the previous five months go right back into full effect. When September rolls around, I give up, completely and utterly. I Stop talking back to her. She doesn't ask what's wrong over Skype (she was basically the only person I had in there to talk to anyway), she doesn't talk to me on facebook, she doesn't even sends me a text. I just go AWOL for all she knows or cares.... and she never bothered to contact me again to know what I was up to or how I was doing. Now in Febuary of 2016, I go to the Cosplay Photoshoot event we do here in Lisbon every year, when I notice this very girl walking by with her friends, and, as soon as she sees my face, she comes down with the fastest case of chicken neck I've ever seen. Basically, she avoided me the entire time didn't even bother coming up to me and just say hi. Never heard from her since then, didn't have anymore reasons to seek her out and get some answers anyway. Maybe I'm too afraid of what the answers might be, maybe I'm too hurt to want to even see her, maybe I'm just done being used by people, maybe I just don't give a flying asshole sniffing turd of a fuck to care anymore about someone who, at one point, felt like the only friend I had who then discarded me in the trash like yesterday's freshly squeezed out toothpaste. This was my betrayal story, sorry for the long read. And if you managed to sit through all my barely comprehensible whinning, go get yourself a cookie, man.
Be careful of taking out knife, that can be more dangerous then leaving it. Sorry if I am being too critical on the metaphor but if you're going to pull a blade out you need to prepare for the bleeding.
I have a feeling when Max says fuck you to us, he means he loves us, wish there was a word that was fuck and love put together, fuv? Lock? I'll go now.
whenever i get super angry or filled of negative emotions, i always come to Max's videos so he can take out my anger for me. Hearing someone who can insult others in the most brutal and honest way out loud is my stress relief. Because i don't have the ability to scream the things i want to say to backstabbers. Thank you.
I once saw a kid at school. he didn't really have any friends. so I became his friend. or so I thought. you see. the person i was befrending was quite "selective" apprently. He often used me to bring laughter to people he wanted to impress. wether it was totake something from me and hide it so i couldn't reach. And I could see his shitface seeking the attention to the "cool" kids. WHY DID I EVEN BOTHER TO SUPPORT HIM AND BE A FRIEND TO HIM. WHEN ALL I GOT IN RETURN WAS...... BACKSTABBING
ikr, When I tried to befriend the new transfer at our school and make him feel at home he used me for a few days, then he began pulling my chair out from under me and locking my bag in the staff room, and pushing me around, and tackling me hard in PE, even during basketball and tennis.
I doubt anyone will read this but I really don't have any friends. throughout school people have talked behind my back. Recently, someone who I was pretty good friends with never stood up for me when I was always there for her. I got mad at her and stopped talking to her. After that she broke up with her boyfriend and was struggling. I decided to put my grudge aside and try to help her. I talked it through with her. to my knowledge, she felt better. Now she's ignoring me. I want to hang out with her but she never agrees to. What do I do? I could just leave her be.. I could talk to her... Thanks to whoever is reading this...
Spoiled Limeade if i was you i would ignore her too, when she in bad time, "fuck you i dont care" if you aren't worth the time for her after all that, then there's a better person for you than her
Lemme tell ya somthin', if she is ignoring you ignore her. And when she is struggling or decides to talk to you say "Why should I? I don't care" Flip her off and walk away.
Aged like milk. Bro backstabbed Muta, Charlie, and quite figuratively backstabbed Night docs. Man Night docs was the worst one. Man almost offed himself. Talk about getting beat up and bullied? Nah Bro lived in his house FOR FREE and DID NOT clean up after himself or do chores. And then he lied to his friends and family that he was an abusive POS.
This! Surrounded with all those lovely people during high school, comes the end of it and most walk their own ways, usually away from you. Ahh those were the days.
I love you. And everyone here. I know I don't know all of you personally and most likely seem like that one person who knows nothing and is just saying this. But, almost all of you are probably here for the same reason. You relate to this. And even if you don't relate to this video and relate to another one of his. it's freaking sad, but, at least we're all here for each other. in this comment section anyways. I love you all.
I loved the illustrations, and I related to your stories. There's not anything that I can say to improve. I loved the video, and people may say it's depressing, but it really helped me with my loss of a friend who I've known for years. Your voice also helped me last through yet another panic attack. Thanks Max ❤️
I know what your going through and I am attacked, gangstalked and I have been dealing with backstabbers, and they never stop they leech of one person and making them pay and they always hated me Northern VA Is filled with them and they never mean anything and fake friends yeah I have dealt with that a lot in my life and I don't have any friends either. I know that people hate me and they wont' stop hey Max, can you do one on gang stalking b/c that is what I am going through since 2016-2019 I need some help!
freja Lenschow There is always gonna be people eating off kindness. I always say to myself don't give what you can't afford to give. We should see it as a lesson. it is indeed a scumbag you have met, but I've seen much worse. Remember to not let thoughts and instinct take over your life. Now go and do what you should be doing! ;)
freja Lenschow my best friend from grade seven used to everything with me. until she decided i wasnt good enough and started hanging out with a group of friends who picked on me for no reason. and she'd invite me to hang out and then she'd pull me to hang with them. then laugh when they would call me all those disgusting names i didn't deserve.
my favorite part about your life sucks videos is that you speak deeply and truthfully about things, but at the end you turn it around and change my perspective to something more positive. it really does help me out alot.
Honestly I love these videos. I have had so many backstabs. Many taken out. But, one last year. Still there, makes me cry every day. No one gets that knife. All the others are being and are healing. But this one, the one caused by physical and emotional abuse. Just won't go away.
There is this one guy who backstabbed me. Another person who i thought was gonna pull out the knife hugged me with the intent to push the knife deeper. :/ welp that got deep :/
This was really sad, but to be honest, finding comfort from your internet fans is like a black hole. If one day, something bad happened to you and ruined your reputation, those fans of yours would be the first one to plunge the knife back in.
I once had 2 "close friends" whom I told my secrets too. I told them the deepest ones as well. Thought we were family, they came over almost every day after school, my mother made them food and took them home when it was too cold to walk home, we used to play video games and talk about life, until one day, they both betrayed me, told everyone my secrets, I became infamous for the rest of high school and the worst part is that they lied to my face after I confronted them about it. I didn't wanna show up to class, I can tell by everyone's faces how they felt about me, I made new friends but they also knew and kept talking behind my back like the rest of my school... I knew all of this because of my ex. I wear a mask to cover my face whenever I'm out in public, I hate being looked at now.
Max, thank you for all that you've done for me you can't even imagine how much you have helped me in life with depression, family problems, losing close people and such and again thank you.
It took me so long to finally watch it because i knew it would hit me quite strong and it did, oh it did... First the memories of betrayal and then even worse a fear, the fear that i could be a backstabber or even worse too and that i only need to loose control over myself to create a huge amount of pain, this made me quite suicidal. Its probably created because i simply dont know who/what i am anymore, i dont know anything, im in 100% conflicted feelings about everything. But great as you are, you made me feel alot better coming to the good part and i was very close to crying, wich means alot for someone who hasnt cried in over 10 years now. Thank you, love you all, stay strong ❤
I feel like max. But continuing to support mama will always be my best doing of supporting. Thank you for pulling the knife out of my back max. It’s nice to know that one person, even if I don’t know them, even without knowing about my past, will always support us. So I will always do the same. Toodles!
Thank you so much. I repeat felt like there was no joy, no meaning in this world. I was always worried that no one liked me, that people pretended to like me. I would always think they wanted something from me. That I was never good enough to be looked at as a real friend to them. But after watching this video it made me know that people do care, that if I died they wouldn't care. This made me so happy that I cried tears of joy. Again, thank you so much for making me feel like I have meaning.
Here because I just finished episode 3 of Hot Wet Soup. After everyone talked so highly of your content, I was compelled to check it out. I must say that this is probably one of the first times that the hype was actually worth it and met up, if not, surpassed expectations. Though this is the first video of your's that I've watched, I can tell I'm already going to be a fan of yours for a long time! Keep up the amazing work and thank you for the videos!
there wasn't any people who can make me cry. but this did this really reconciles with me and I fucking love it. your a fucking genius man now if you excuse me I'm wiping the tears out of my eyes.
Your are very different from others Max, but in a good way. First, you take my interest, then make me overthink about my life and actions, and then without realizing it, i cry... But from happiness of course. The words "I am here for you" make me so calm, so satisfied, but also so sad, because there's no one except my mom that would ever say that. Your videos are giving me that strange, but good, feeling and i don't know what that is, but i like it. So thank you for that feeling and thank you for being here for us, we appreciate your kindness and there's no way to ever thank you enough for what are you doing. Just thank you ^_^
you made me relize that im not alone that people do care just because i lost one friend doesnt mean im alone, thank you so much, i know you do this for everyone but it means alot to me, you helped me, thank you, thank you for making me relize im not alone.
I really feel lonely I feel I have 60 backstabbers right now I'm always gonna cry if my best best best friends backstab me I'm seriously gonna cccccrrrryyyyyy omg ..............................................................................................................................................................
thanks for making these videos max it helps me deal with my depression and stress its nice to know that someone actually understands and cares about you even through a simple youtube video .
my eyes have been brimming with nonexistent tears with every episode i watch becuz i've cried to much over the same shit that happens to you when it happens to me and i realize i shouldn't have cried. i probably have every type of anxiety known to man but... i never thought a guy like you, a mortal being on this hopeless planet that understands, wont tell you to "get over it" or "suck it up uyour overreacting" but instead your telling the honest truth in a way that makes it acceptable to cry over, i dont know what happened to my tears, but just know your videos click with me, trigger memories and recent events, and that even if im new here i already know what your whole existence till now has probably been about becuz i went through that, shit i still AM going through that....
Take a leaf from my book, I try to treat everyone equaly no matter what, be nice to everyone. Treat you how i would like to be treated myself. For example like i bearly know you, but i consider you my friend even if i have other friends I known for years, you are still as an equal friend to any of my others. *He sighs* I just wish you would notice me, and talk to me. Notice me, for fuck sake because, you might lose me forever. Like happyness. You only know you have happyness when that happyness is gone, when you WERE happy. I think it was one of your videos or somewhere else i heard it from but yeah. You only know you are happy when you are sad. I really need a friend and i am to afraid of opening up to you more because of how shitty the youtube comments and the internet can be, so please. I want to open up to you but i am afraid. So talk to me, any time, i got twitter, skype and steam. I am always open for accepting a new friend, no matter who or what they may or may not be. This is an invitation Max. Please accept me the same way i accept you. Take care Max. xx
this made me cry, I cried because I can relate to the way he feels. I have been stabbed in the back so many times and I always feel useless. thank you max, thank you so much for making me happy.
yep, it's remarkably hard to break that mold for most people. And the temptation to just always be an asshole is there. Sometimes I wish I could be as callous and cruel as some people and not be the one getting pushed around all the time, but my conscience and guilt won't let me. The most terrible thing I've ever done to another person is knock them down and punch them a couple times until they stopped trying to attack me, because it was in self defence. I don't steal or harass people, and the worst I do is a white lie here and there promising to get my homework done or go to sleep. Yet everyday, someone seems to set out to make my life miserable. just earlier this week I had a bunch of my work stolen and someone else passed it off as theirs, they destroyed some projects they didn't care about, and then they just laughed. I do think about getting back at them occasionally, but it feels far to cruel to do anything. again, I've only acted in self defence once when someone decided to beat me up. They landed a good number of solid blows to before I thought them a lesson. they got out of it without even any bruises. I pulled every punch I through because running through the back of my mind I was thinking about how I didn't really want to hurt this horrible person who harassed me constantly. Some good came out of the event though. They respected me a lot more after that event and although I still have issues with many other people who like to harass me I'm on pretty good terms with that person now. I visit him to fix his computer every once in a while too. So people can change, even if they have been assholes for 9 years. as to everyone being one, I guess to that I would say "well, that depends, What do you consider an asshole to be?" how much do they have to be living human garbage to be considered one?
Max, I love your videos so fuckin much man. It's so nice having somebody, even somebody who's not close or a personal friend to understand how we feel. Don't change. You're rad.
Your awesome max, i'm glad you uploaded this numerous times in my life won't my friends have in barest me and made it so I got an ass beating from people much bigger than me through life just to laugh at me. And hearing that I'm not alone about this type of s**t is really refreshing and it gives me hope. Thanks dude.
Defranked I like his content and his point of view on his topics, but you're right he acts like everything bad that happens to him is the worst thing imaginable
Our minds are shit like that, they overplay things sometimes. Just because some problems are relatively small doesn't mean our minds won't make them big, and the reality we think we live in is the only reality we feel.
quiet statements are worthless. you seem like the type of person to say "hey youre problem is smaller than someone elses so get over it". easier said than done. the mind of a person is fragile and these things happen in third world countries too :/
as someone who's been betrayed and back stabbed for 5 years of a shitty friendship, trust me it hurts. Judging by his family issues, school issues, this is probably one of the first times he's been able to release his emotions out to people, so expect it to be angry and extreme, as he's most likely held it all back for a long time.
Oh no! Max stop making me cry by your truthful words! But really though, I only relate to a select few of these videos, but to think there is someone out there like you, Max, that has experienced ALL of these things, makes me want to cry for you. it hurts my heart to see wonderful people being hurt. You're are one of the most mentally strongest. I don't understand how you keep getting back up after being beat down so may times, only to delver a smile. I honestly don't understand, I really don't. And after all that you still share these story's, for people that relate and you help them. Max you are on of the most brilliant, creative, and strongest people on this earth. You are a god, thank you.
Max is my therapist No one EVER described backstabbing as accurately and perfectly as he did. I still feel the pain of a friend who I dedicated myself to and yet she stabbed me like a cold hearted carefree bitch and when this scar again starts to bleed I come back to this video to calm myself and remind myself I still have other people who worth my time and affection Love u max
Thank you!, I watched your videos for some time now and I can say that you are awsome guy that experience to much shit in your life.You almost are definition of a good person getting the worse from life.You are really understanding and sensitive.You know what you are saying and you say it with passion.I loved that about you.I Like it when you put sometimes a joke in your video but overall you still keep it serious(i am refereeing to your older videos i think they are called "dear guy you thinks he knows everything")I love to watch your videos to hear your experiences and stories from your past .You are helping me to understand people and how past or experiences affect a person(i want to be a physiologist[specifically art therapist]when i grow up so your videos help me to reach my goal).Sometimes i have bad days when i feel like i am worthless,useless,alone,idiot ect but thanks to you I know i am not the only one experiencing those fellings.So thank you Max for sharing your stories and experiences.You are doing great job,i hope that you keep doing what you doing because I love it.
*Been backstabbed my whole life. Whether at home, whether at school whether at the job, whether it's anywhere. And I try and tell myself it's okay because people who this to me are not people I need to ever be around anyway. I just fly away from them in the hopes I never surround myself with people like that ever again. It's clearly one of the reasons why I stay alone, and choose to trust no one.*
The only ONLYYY person on earth who really cares about people with problems is Max and that is why I love him, I'm depressed and I have soo many problems in life but Max always just calms me down and teaches me the good in life and tells me to stay away from the bad. Thanks Max❤
Thank-you Max for all the content you upload. I have a lot to improve within my self, life doesn't seem to want me to improve it. Thank-you Max you make me want to continue living. Thank-you for being a bridge, there are too many high ladders. People see me as incapable, or dumb. They keep trying to steal my curiosity, and I have a lot of curiosity. I love you Max, Stay Alive.
damn that brandon and trevor plot twist tho
SharpShooter 1 I found out from GTA 5 not to trust anyone named Michael or Trevor.
*Only trust Lamaars in this world*
TopKekM9 that made me think of so many things.
A true comrade is here for your
vadiks2003 XD you made my day
SharpShooter 1 I thought Brandon would be lying and get max into a fight with Trevor when Trevor did nothing and neither did max
backstabbers are the reasons i have trust issues. theyre the reasons i cant tell people i love them. tell people how i feel
Gus Thomas backstabbers are my social anxiety, the reason I stay in my house all day because I can't see myself as a first in someone's mind anymore
Gus Thomas i feel ya buddy .
Gus Thomas same, I had two best friends but just used me for art and tried to make me lose all my real friends. And their the Reason why I barley trust anymore
for me too :(
I know how it feels..especially when the backstabber is part of your own family :)
I hate my "friends"
Ƒlυƒƒlє Sιηgѕ ill keep them for awhile.. They backstabbed me and ill Get my revenge
StyLo i like me too
StyLo and you
undead boi You aren't the only one
William picot me too
one thousand degree knife vs back
ConHasACamera omg, hahahahaha
ConHasACamera LOL
Not that funny but still nice!
Contertainment (gone gothic)
Gives a burning heart
Sometimes,The Person You'd Take a Bullet For Ends Up Being The One Behind The Gun
Damn THATS DEEP
True
This video got me tears, Max, thanks for reminding me that there are people that actually love me..
- Nameless101 made me cry too :(
- Nameless101 same i was crying so much after this
video just reminded me why I do cut myself
shy Girl Please don't.P L E A S E.My sister did the same exact thing and when I questioned her she said it made things better for her.But she killed herself not too long after.Its not something I like bringing up but I feel in this community it's ok.Just try to stop please.
TamaDingDong how do you know those aren't my intentions though
Story time:
Back in 2008/9 I met a girl whom I'd quickly become good friends with and with whom I also fell in love, and for years I harbored this feeling in me and didn't act on them. Why didn't I just confess? Well, she was in a relationship with someone else, it's sort of a long roler coaster of a story so I'll cut to the chase. A few years ago, she had a bad break up. At this point I'd known her for like 6 years, but I stood by her and her ex (they were both my friends and fuck picking a side when it comes to people I genuinely care about), I talked to her and calm her down when she tells me she's afraid all the people she cares about are going to abandon her, eased her pain when she had fits of anxiety, held her hands, hugged her tight, made sure I could do anything in my power to make her feel better, because I cared and loved her deeply.
One day, when I noticed she was much better, when she no longer grieved over her past relashionship and had managed to find her inner strenght to go on, while I was taking her to the bust stop, I took a deep breath and told her I'd love her since all those years ago, but that our relashionship didn't had to change, because just being around her made me happy. Fastforward a few weeks, and we start holding hands while walking in the street, we kiss in private, and have some TLC whenever we're alone in each other's house. Even though at no point we made anything or said anything that would make our relashionship "official", we gave off a pretty strong boyfriend-girlfriend vibe (a lot of our friends commented on this too).
Now, two years ago, while I was being dragged through the mud and writting my Masters Thesis, I was in a very bad place, metally speaking: I lived with my parents and they were in the middle of an ugly divorce; the stress of writting the thesis took a very heavy toll on me since my thesis coordinator was this belgium fucktard that never felt helpful or useful, so I had to pretty much wing the whole thing; I became isolated from my friends and rarely left the house to the point where this girl was basically the only human contact I had outside my parents, I'd be awake in the early hours of the morning just staring into the night and conteplating not so happy toughts, etc.
This was the sort of mind-set I was in, when suddendly, this girl I've been talking about, she just stops talking to me. I make all sort of strides to go out with her, but she just doesn't engage in conversation. Every answer she gave me were two to three word sentences. Every plan I try to make with her, she quickly shoots down with the same alternating excuses: she doesn't have time, she has to study, she has to tutor her nieces, etc. Five months of this go by and I finnaly get to see her for the first time in five months. We go to a sort of Japan Festival celebration kind of thing. There, I find out she's been hanging out with some of her friends all throughout these months. "For months she had no time for me, but still went out with her friends?" I thought to myself. "Something's not right here, but maybe I'm jumping to conclusions too soon. I don't want to make a scene and risking our relashionship over nothing. I don't want to lose her, I guess I better not mention this.".... Like a dumbass... A few more months go by, the same routine of the previous five months go right back into full effect.
When September rolls around, I give up, completely and utterly. I Stop talking back to her. She doesn't ask what's wrong over Skype (she was basically the only person I had in there to talk to anyway), she doesn't talk to me on facebook, she doesn't even sends me a text. I just go AWOL for all she knows or cares.... and she never bothered to contact me again to know what I was up to or how I was doing. Now in Febuary of 2016, I go to the Cosplay Photoshoot event we do here in Lisbon every year, when I notice this very girl walking by with her friends, and, as soon as she sees my face, she comes down with the fastest case of chicken neck I've ever seen. Basically, she avoided me the entire time didn't even bother coming up to me and just say hi.
Never heard from her since then, didn't have anymore reasons to seek her out and get some answers anyway. Maybe I'm too afraid of what the answers might be, maybe I'm too hurt to want to even see her, maybe I'm just done being used by people, maybe I just don't give a flying asshole sniffing turd of a fuck to care anymore about someone who, at one point, felt like the only friend I had who then discarded me in the trash like yesterday's freshly squeezed out toothpaste. This was my betrayal story, sorry for the long read. And if you managed to sit through all my barely comprehensible whinning, go get yourself a cookie, man.
Well, if the whole size of the thing wasn't enough of a hint :v
sorry that happened to ya man
I Hear That From Males In Anti Sjw Places
I'm sorry dude, the same thing happened to me a couple months back.
sabitsuita i ain't geting a cookie im getting a taco right now
I keep my knives in my back all the time! For safekeeping.
:P
PeaNutter505™ I keep em in my wrist, it's more convenient
Armoon Cowdhury I keep mine in my pocket.
I need a device that I can throw all these knives I have collected caused by former friends over the years
Be careful of taking out knife, that can be more dangerous then leaving it. Sorry if I am being too critical on the metaphor but if you're going to pull a blade out you need to prepare for the bleeding.
Vincent Martin not pulling the blade out would cause much worse problems
It could depending where the blade was (if it was a real thing). Careful was the keyword in this.
If it's serrated it could cause more problems pulling out
True
All I seem to ever meet are backstabbers.
Jay Rob Yeah.
Yep
Jay Rob same
That's why I'm a loner and I wish I always was
Right.....
is it wrong that I've been stalking this channel and waiting for a new video?...
p.s I hope everything goes well for you Max
PTV Turtles it's not wrong it's just you supporting him
Nope.
PTV Turtles isn't that basically what subscribing is?
I have a feeling when Max says fuck you to us, he means he loves us, wish there was a word that was fuck and love put together, fuv? Lock?
I'll go now.
You posted this on my birthday....
Thank you.
Blu Lare happy birthday
Blu Lare Happy Birthday buddy, wish you all the best!
Blu Lare happy birthday
Blu Lare happy birthday🍕
Thank you all, you are all so kind. :)
TRUE FRIENDS STAB YOU IN THE FRONT!!
Lia S. i was going to comment that lol
Lia S. so true
Lia S. I was thinking of that song!
Wouldn't that be worse though? It'd have more chance of hitting vital organs...
Nah, true friends will stab OTHER PEOPLE for you.
whenever i get super angry or filled of negative emotions, i always come to Max's videos so he can take out my anger for me.
Hearing someone who can insult others in the most brutal and honest way out loud is my stress relief. Because i don't have the ability to scream the things i want to say to backstabbers.
Thank you.
I once saw a kid at school. he didn't really have any friends. so I became his friend. or so I thought. you see. the person i was befrending was quite "selective" apprently. He often used me to bring laughter to people he wanted to impress. wether it was totake something from me and hide it so i couldn't reach. And I could see his shitface seeking the attention to the "cool" kids. WHY DID I EVEN BOTHER TO SUPPORT HIM AND BE A FRIEND TO HIM. WHEN ALL I GOT IN RETURN WAS...... BACKSTABBING
ikr, When I tried to befriend the new transfer at our school and make him feel at home he used me for a few days, then he began pulling my chair out from under me and locking my bag in the staff room, and pushing me around, and tackling me hard in PE, even during basketball and tennis.
Darn you guys have friends?
I doubt anyone will read this but I really don't have any friends. throughout school people have talked behind my back. Recently, someone who I was pretty good friends with never stood up for me when I was always there for her. I got mad at her and stopped talking to her. After that she broke up with her boyfriend and was struggling. I decided to put my grudge aside and try to help her. I talked it through with her. to my knowledge, she felt better. Now she's ignoring me. I want to hang out with her but she never agrees to. What do I do?
I could just leave her be..
I could talk to her...
Thanks to whoever is reading this...
Spoiled Limeade if i was you i would ignore her too, when she in bad time, "fuck you i dont care" if you aren't worth the time for her after all that, then there's a better person for you than her
Late Reply but I think you should just nicely ask her about it,,
Spoiled Limeade just send her this video
Lemme tell ya somthin', if she is ignoring you ignore her. And when she is struggling or decides to talk to you say "Why should I? I don't care" Flip her off and walk away.
How did it go? Feeling better now?
This video aged well
Aged like milk.
Bro backstabbed Muta, Charlie, and quite figuratively backstabbed Night docs.
Man Night docs was the worst one.
Man almost offed himself.
Talk about getting beat up and bullied?
Nah
Bro lived in his house FOR FREE and DID NOT clean up after himself or do chores.
And then he lied to his friends and family that he was an abusive POS.
@@dio2076 charlie is a pedo
this relates to everyone during highschool years, for me anyways
I will pray for your safe passage of high school friend
superman prime888 thank you, I appreciate that
This!
Surrounded with all those lovely people during high school, comes the
end of it and most walk their own ways, usually away from you.
Ahh those were the days.
Lefa
I know what you mean
where i once saw beauty i now see SHIT
welcome to the awakened. Ignorance is bliss, but we reject that.
Yes when you realize that mama max is a weeb
tbh kinda sounds like an AVGN quote
I love you. And everyone here.
I know I don't know all of you personally and most likely seem like that one person who knows nothing and is just saying this. But, almost all of you are probably here for the same reason. You relate to this. And even if you don't relate to this video and relate to another one of his. it's freaking sad, but, at least we're all here for each other. in this comment section anyways.
I love you all.
Artemis Art i needed that.
Love you to man hope you have a great day
Phew! Good thing nobody back stabbed me on the way to this vide-AHHHHHHHHHH
That heavy is a spy!
It seems I am not the only spy...
That text is a Spy!
I love how you see the positive things even in your darkest moments. You earned my respect ♡
I loved the illustrations, and I related to your stories. There's not anything that I can say to improve. I loved the video, and people may say it's depressing, but it really helped me with my loss of a friend who I've known for years. Your voice also helped me last through yet another panic attack.
Thanks Max ❤️
6:09 that's like the nicest insult I have ever heard.
And that's why I don't have real friends...
yep
I know what your going through and I am attacked, gangstalked and I have been dealing with backstabbers, and they never stop they leech of one person and making them pay and they always hated me Northern VA Is filled with them
and they never mean anything and fake friends yeah I have dealt with that a lot in my life and I don't have any friends either. I know that people hate me and they wont' stop hey Max, can you do one on gang stalking b/c that is what I am going through since 2016-2019 I need some help!
ok
Fake friends are the worst...
i had a friend i did anything for. i even smuggled cigerettes for her and dident ask her to pay.. but she treats me like shit
sry but she never was your friend then. But it's not a loss, it's a win for you. :)
LemurenGaming i see now
freja Lenschow There is always gonna be people eating off kindness. I always say to myself don't give what you can't afford to give. We should see it as a lesson. it is indeed a scumbag you have met, but I've seen much worse.
Remember to not let thoughts and instinct take over your life. Now go and do what you should be doing! ;)
freja Lenschow my best friend from grade seven used to everything with me. until she decided i wasnt good enough and started hanging out with a group of friends who picked on me for no reason. and she'd invite me to hang out and then she'd pull me to hang with them. then laugh when they would call me all those disgusting names i didn't deserve.
freja Lenschow One of my best and only friend is a backstabber but she self harms and has symptoms of bipolar disorder
I swear I saw Trevor at my local 7/11 like the waste he is
Paithen I didn't I'm just making a joke about how he's a loser
SarlacMeetBoba but you were still at your local 7/11, so, aren't you also a waste?
ElinaXT I wasn't an employee
ElinaXT ROASTED
"Shut that gorgeous mouth of yours"
Max, Please never stop making videos. 😂
my favorite part about your life sucks videos is that you speak deeply and truthfully about things, but at the end you turn it around and change my perspective to something more positive. it really does help me out alot.
hey mama max
lately iv been upset over my cat
she ran away a year ago
i think she's dead
and it hurts
Mrs floof ball omgg monster musume
thanks
Its OK theres alwase gana be someone to lift the pain
alright
i used to have so many cats and kittens
they all either died or left
this is one of the most relatable video i have ever seen.
I once could've died thanks to a Backstabb, from a friend i once trusted...
That's horrible. Glad you made it through. Backstabbers are some of the worst people out there.
Firestar9114 Thanks...
Honestly I love these videos. I have had so many backstabs. Many taken out. But, one last year. Still there, makes me cry every day. No one gets that knife. All the others are being and are healing. But this one, the one caused by physical and emotional abuse. Just won't go away.
There is this one guy who backstabbed me. Another person who i thought was gonna pull out the knife hugged me with the intent to push the knife deeper. :/
welp that got deep :/
i know how you feel mamamax i also hate it when i get backstabbed in survival games :(
MinecraftKidGamer69 ha ha ha ha LMAO ROFL LOLOLO OMG IM DYING LOLOLO
Cringe.
MinecraftKidGamer69 can you just stop?
MinecraftKidGamer69 Piss off...
You all sure know how to damn comment. Just call people cringe.
chill out he's not being serious. check his channel
I love how deep you get and how you creat this immense atmosphere in the video
thats why i stopped giving my friends nice gifts. they just shit all over it and currently my "best friend" also backstabbed me
Thnx a lot for this video. It feels better to know someone goes through the same BULLSHIT i'm going through
Your videos always make me feel so much better whenever I feel suicidal/depressed/lonely. Thank you, Max.
This was really sad, but to be honest, finding comfort from your internet fans is like a black hole. If one day, something bad happened to you and ruined your reputation, those fans of yours would be the first one to plunge the knife back in.
can I beat up Brandon?
Reichs Meme I can hold the best grudges bro
Tao/rinaolia oshino ill help
Reichs Meme
Yeah, don't hold grudges, but it's gey.
It's gay. XD
Just kidding.
From your name I can assure you the only person you could possibly beat up is a small disabled amputated infant
Tao/rinaolia oshino worse, read the milk fic
I'm here for you max! Always will! ✌
I once had 2 "close friends" whom I told my secrets too. I told them the deepest ones as well. Thought we were family, they came over almost every day after school, my mother made them food and took them home when it was too cold to walk home, we used to play video games and talk about life, until one day, they both betrayed me, told everyone my secrets, I became infamous for the rest of high school and the worst part is that they lied to my face after I confronted them about it. I didn't wanna show up to class, I can tell by everyone's faces how they felt about me, I made new friends but they also knew and kept talking behind my back like the rest of my school... I knew all of this because of my ex. I wear a mask to cover my face whenever I'm out in public, I hate being looked at now.
Max, thank you for all that you've done for me you can't even imagine how much you have helped me in life with depression, family problems, losing close people and such and again thank you.
Happy Chinese New Year Max! :D
I find your voice relaxing and feel safe for some reason.
Hello, My "friend" just stole my crush. She would've been my first girlfriend in two years, I'm heartbroken
DRAGONslayar105 sucks dude.
DRAGONslayar105 same thing happened to me and it sucks
F
Love the positive message! I agree completely! Someone ALWAYS got your back. no one is ever really alone. Nice!
It took me so long to finally watch it because i knew it would hit me quite strong and it did, oh it did... First the memories of betrayal and then even worse a fear, the fear that i could be a backstabber or even worse too and that i only need to loose control over myself to create a huge amount of pain, this made me quite suicidal. Its probably created because i simply dont know who/what i am anymore, i dont know anything, im in 100% conflicted feelings about everything. But great as you are, you made me feel alot better coming to the good part and i was very close to crying, wich means alot for someone who hasnt cried in over 10 years now. Thank you, love you all, stay strong ❤
"is that where knives go"
IM SORRY BUT THAT WAS SO FUNNY.
Max, this is really deep, I love you because you are real with us
Btw my name is Brandon :/
that was pretty gay, i liked it
But I thought knives were straight * do do sh*
Hell ye
For you
Incest
Heh not kidding ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
KFlorent13 😭😂😂😂😂😂
the gay stuff is always the best
I feel like max. But continuing to support mama will always be my best doing of supporting. Thank you for pulling the knife out of my back max. It’s nice to know that one person, even if I don’t know them, even without knowing about my past, will always support us. So I will always do the same. Toodles!
Thank you so much. I repeat felt like there was no joy, no meaning in this world. I was always worried that no one liked me, that people pretended to like me. I would always think they wanted something from me. That I was never good enough to be looked at as a real friend to them. But after watching this video it made me know that people do care, that if I died they wouldn't care. This made me so happy that I cried tears of joy. Again, thank you so much for making me feel like I have meaning.
I can actually relate to this comment so fucking much its painful rn
Well I had a spare knife on me, so I figured why the hell not?
anyone else feel like Max is reading our minds and putting them on the internet so we can have something to relate to?
we love you max.
Whenever I watch your videos I always cry because you make me feel so good. Thank you for making my life worth living.
Here because I just finished episode 3 of Hot Wet Soup. After everyone talked so highly of your content, I was compelled to check it out. I must say that this is probably one of the first times that the hype was actually worth it and met up, if not, surpassed expectations. Though this is the first video of your's that I've watched, I can tell I'm already going to be a fan of yours for a long time! Keep up the amazing work and thank you for the videos!
My friends act normal towards me but i know they are talking shit behind my back... I just know...
You're to paranoid
i know that no one will see this, but everyone, especially you, are incredible
You should DEFINITELY do a "draw my life" video.
Amin torabi this would be long af
That would be irrelevant
@@godzillafart6531 what? Brandon is that you
Yep
there wasn't any people who can make me cry. but this did this really reconciles with me and I fucking love it. your a fucking genius man now if you excuse me I'm wiping the tears out of my eyes.
Your are very different from others Max, but in a good way. First, you take my interest, then make me overthink about my life and actions, and then without realizing it, i cry... But from happiness of course. The words "I am here for you" make me so calm, so satisfied, but also so sad, because there's no one except my mom that would ever say that. Your videos are giving me that strange, but good, feeling and i don't know what that is, but i like it. So thank you for that feeling and thank you for being here for us, we appreciate your kindness and there's no way to ever thank you enough for what are you doing. Just thank you ^_^
U know
When the knife gets pulled out,the blood pores out faster.
No matter where you go, you can't avoid fucking Ghostie....
*Jk I love u ghostie*
you made me relize that im not alone that people do care just because i lost one friend doesnt mean im alone, thank you so much, i know you do this for everyone but it means alot to me, you helped me, thank you, thank you for making me relize im not alone.
Thank you for making this video Max- it's so relateble and this is the only video on the internet that actually helps with what I'm going through.
Why dose max speak in 3rd person
I wanna know that to
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Doctor Comedy because "Max" can be anybody. You, me and many can be him
He is telling a story. They are often told in 3rd person to appeal to more people.
Because it's a good perspective from where to look at stuff.
Max i wanna give you a fucking hug so badly uugh i love you and your channel 😘😭😊
I really feel lonely I feel I have 60 backstabbers right now I'm always gonna cry if my best best best friends backstab me I'm seriously gonna cccccrrrryyyyyy omg ..............................................................................................................................................................
So how did it go
Are you Antarctica? Cause you're acting like a girl thats as white as it
thanks for making these videos max it helps me deal with my depression and stress its nice to know that someone actually understands and cares about you even through a simple youtube video .
my eyes have been brimming with nonexistent tears with every episode i watch becuz i've cried to much over the same shit that happens to you when it happens to me and i realize i shouldn't have cried. i probably have every type of anxiety known to man but... i never thought a guy like you, a mortal being on this hopeless planet that understands, wont tell you to "get over it" or "suck it up uyour overreacting" but instead your telling the honest truth in a way that makes it acceptable to cry over, i dont know what happened to my tears, but just know your videos click with me, trigger memories and recent events, and that even if im new here i already know what your whole existence till now has probably been about becuz i went through that, shit i still AM going through that....
Life suck : Back benchers 🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪
just equip the razorback
*Whips out ambassador*
Take a leaf from my book, I try to treat everyone equaly no matter what, be nice to everyone. Treat you how i would like to be treated myself. For example like i bearly know you, but i consider you my friend even if i have other friends I known for years, you are still as an equal friend to any of my others. *He sighs* I just wish you would notice me, and talk to me. Notice me, for fuck sake because, you might lose me forever. Like happyness. You only know you have happyness when that happyness is gone, when you WERE happy. I think it was one of your videos or somewhere else i heard it from but yeah. You only know you are happy when you are sad. I really need a friend and i am to afraid of opening up to you more because of how shitty the youtube comments and the internet can be, so please. I want to open up to you but i am afraid. So talk to me, any time, i got twitter, skype and steam. I am always open for accepting a new friend, no matter who or what they may or may not be. This is an invitation Max. Please accept me the same way i accept you. Take care Max. xx
I agree with your philosophy, Kantian ethics are truly the way to go. Unfortunately people like us still tend to get burned a lot by backstabbers.
Firestar9114
Yeah... *He sighs*
You're videos are beautiful. I always get all teary eyed, they hit home so hard. Thank you
This channel is such a good, comforting, relatable thing.
lol I don't relate to this
*cough* cause I don't have any friends to backstab me *cough*
Same thing with me
you should get that cough checked out man. sounds like the flu
I’ll be your friend!
Same
I love you
this made me cry, I cried because I can relate to the way he feels. I have been stabbed in the back so many times and I always feel useless. thank you max, thank you so much for making me happy.
All of your videos make me almost cry and think how good my life actually is
Hi I'm too early I have no life
Same
everyone is an asshole
well 90%, the rest are introverts because we deal with this kind of stuff... yay.
yep, it's remarkably hard to break that mold for most people. And the temptation to just always be an asshole is there. Sometimes I wish I could be as callous and cruel as some people and not be the one getting pushed around all the time, but my conscience and guilt won't let me. The most terrible thing I've ever done to another person is knock them down and punch them a couple times until they stopped trying to attack me, because it was in self defence. I don't steal or harass people, and the worst I do is a white lie here and there promising to get my homework done or go to sleep. Yet everyday, someone seems to set out to make my life miserable. just earlier this week I had a bunch of my work stolen and someone else passed it off as theirs, they destroyed some projects they didn't care about, and then they just laughed. I do think about getting back at them occasionally, but it feels far to cruel to do anything. again, I've only acted in self defence once when someone decided to beat me up. They landed a good number of solid blows to before I thought them a lesson. they got out of it without even any bruises. I pulled every punch I through because running through the back of my mind I was thinking about how I didn't really want to hurt this horrible person who harassed me constantly. Some good came out of the event though. They respected me a lot more after that event and although I still have issues with many other people who like to harass me I'm on pretty good terms with that person now. I visit him to fix his computer every once in a while too. So people can change, even if they have been assholes for 9 years. as to everyone being one, I guess to that I would say "well, that depends, What do you consider an asshole to be?" how much do they have to be living human garbage to be considered one?
Can I be your friend?
Max, I love your videos so fuckin much man. It's so nice having somebody, even somebody who's not close or a personal friend to understand how we feel. Don't change. You're rad.
Your awesome max, i'm glad you uploaded this numerous times in my life won't my friends have in barest me and made it so I got an ass beating from people much bigger than me through life just to laugh at me. And hearing that I'm not alone about this type of s**t is really refreshing and it gives me hope. Thanks dude.
This is such a first world problem channel though. Like don't get me wrong max, I love your videos, but you really overplay some things sometimes
Defranked I like his content and his point of view on his topics, but you're right he acts like everything bad that happens to him is the worst thing imaginable
Our minds are shit like that, they overplay things sometimes. Just because some problems are relatively small doesn't mean our minds won't make them big, and the reality we think we live in is the only reality we feel.
quiet statements are worthless. you seem like the type of person to say "hey youre problem is smaller than someone elses so get over it". easier said than done. the mind of a person is fragile and these things happen in third world countries too :/
Defranked I'm sure everyone is very glad that the CEO of Oxfam watched one of Max's videos, amirite?
as someone who's been betrayed and back stabbed for 5 years of a shitty friendship, trust me it hurts. Judging by his family issues, school issues, this is probably one of the first times he's been able to release his emotions out to people, so expect it to be angry and extreme, as he's most likely held it all back for a long time.
are you calling me a bad person for maining spy? fuck you too
this is a joke
i actually main demonan
Pol'sProductions i use pyro
Pol'sProductions i main Mercy .. wait ... wrong game
I main zero suit Samus... wait
Oh no! Max stop making me cry by your truthful words! But really though, I only relate to a select few of these videos, but to think there is someone out there like you, Max, that has experienced ALL of these things, makes me want to cry for you. it hurts my heart to see wonderful people being hurt. You're are one of the most mentally strongest. I don't understand how you keep getting back up after being beat down so may times, only to delver a smile. I honestly don't understand, I really don't. And after all that you still share these story's, for people that relate and you help them. Max you are on of the most brilliant, creative, and strongest people on this earth. You are a god, thank you.
Max is my therapist
No one EVER described backstabbing as accurately and perfectly as he did.
I still feel the pain of a friend who I dedicated myself to and yet she stabbed me like a cold hearted carefree bitch and when this scar again starts to bleed I come back to this video to calm myself and remind myself I still have other people who worth my time and affection
Love u max
Thank you!, I watched your videos for some time now and I can say that you are awsome guy that experience to much shit in your life.You almost are definition of a good person getting the worse from life.You are really understanding and sensitive.You know what you are saying and you say it with passion.I loved that about you.I Like it when you put sometimes a joke in your video but overall you still keep it serious(i am refereeing to your older videos i think they are called "dear guy you thinks he knows everything")I love to watch your videos to hear your experiences and stories from your past .You are helping me to understand people and how past or experiences affect a person(i want to be a physiologist[specifically art therapist]when i grow up so your videos help me to reach my goal).Sometimes i have bad days when i feel like i am worthless,useless,alone,idiot ect but thanks to you I know i am not the only one experiencing those fellings.So thank you Max for sharing your stories and experiences.You are doing great job,i hope that you keep doing what you doing because I love it.
I searched up videos to get me sad. worked but then it took a turn to your channel. i like this place.
*Been backstabbed my whole life. Whether at home, whether at school whether at the job, whether it's anywhere. And I try and tell myself it's okay because people who this to me are not people I need to ever be around anyway. I just fly away from them in the hopes I never surround myself with people like that ever again. It's clearly one of the reasons why I stay alone, and choose to trust no one.*
The only ONLYYY person on earth who really cares about people with problems is Max and that is why I love him, I'm depressed and I have soo many problems in life but Max always just calms me down and teaches me the good in life and tells me to stay away from the bad. Thanks Max❤
Thank-you Max for all the content you upload. I have a lot to improve within my self, life doesn't seem to want me to improve it. Thank-you Max you make me want to continue living. Thank-you for being a bridge, there are too many high ladders. People see me as incapable, or dumb. They keep trying to steal my curiosity, and I have a lot of curiosity. I love you Max, Stay Alive.
Thanks man! You helped me get over hard times a few weeks ago. Now I feel much better and you get part of the merit.
Sincerely: Thank you!
You're so inspiring (for writing I mean) I love your videos, not just for the inspiration but also for the hard work and wise words you share.