Gurl this story had me on the edge of my seat, dude was straight bogus as well as that co worker. I know u happy u dodged that bullet. Btw way u look so much like keke Wyatt to me. Thx for sharing😊
As soon as that chick said my babies were her babies that is when I would've lost all my sense and rational behaviour. The audacity of Bob to bring the kids around her! You have the patience of a saint, God bless you
This was a good story time. I think Bob knew what he was doing when he asked you to go work at that job. There are men that feed off of the drama that ensues over them between two women.
I was thinking the same thing..... that was his way of letting you know he was hoeing around without actually saying it.... But the nerve of his ass putting you two against each other..... and she fell right in the trap... DUMB BROAD!
If you suspect your partner of cheating, bounce. leave. abandon ship. There are a ton of wonderful men who are good and faithful and loving. Don't waste your time on someone who's sketchy in everything they do.
Unless he puts a ring on it, you are all side chicks. I don't give husband privileges to a man with boyfriend status. He becomes my man when he becomes my husband .
I think ALL side chicks are told that they are the full on girlfriend, and that’s what they believe. Meanwhile, the girlfriend (or so she is told) thinks that SHE is the girlfriend. Hmm. Maybe all the females should be mad at the one telling stories: the guy.
i got rid of my "BOB" two months ago after dealing wit his bs for 5 yrs. the amount of stress thats been lifted from me...WHOA i cant even explain it lol smh
I hate that Bob put you through so much shit lol like it makes me so mad. I'm 17 turning 18 in December and have never had a bf and I hope to God I don't fall in love with someone like Bob.
Omg yo ex dude ain't shit. What is funny the chick couldn't wait to tell you she was messin wit yo ex dude and she love yo kids lol. People are soooo shady. She knew about you especially if she was staring at you from the time you started the job. She don't love herself
Girl I done teared up and damn near cried listening to your story...I can't relate to anything to this magnitude but I definitely know how stressful and hurtful this situation must have been for you! I hate when women go through things like this. Some guys are just scum of the earth.
+Joy8611 thats the point. anyone else would not have tried this. this man took a chance and pulled it off. He made two women fight over him. any other guy would have been two afraid to do it. with other stories she said, this guy tested the waters and won to the point where she finally said enough.
God allows us to go through things so that we can lead our loved ones in a different direction. Your wisdom alone will not allow your girls to have those same struggles in life. I look back over my life and think about the dumb choices that I've made and I could literally write a book!! ( You can too!! 😂😂) I'm just thankful God allowed me to live through it all!! You are a testimony baby!! You don't look like what you been through! I admire how you share your stories and add a bit of advice at the end. Young girls are more willing to listen to advice from a woman that has actually lived through it. I love your story time! Keep them coming!! 😍😍
Wow! This happened to me but I was the side chick and had no idea. I dated a guy for a year been to his house spent nights he spent night with me. We did everything together. Come to find out he was married, and not only that he was married to my best friend's cousin I felt so used, and I just found out that I was pregnant by him also. His wife lived their at the house the entire time. There were no signs I mean no signs that a woman lived there. Totally bachelor style. He had her stay/ living in the guest room. when I would come over he would threaten to beat her if she would come out. So she was in a very bad abusive relationship with him.......Well I don't believe having children with married men, I felt horrible but I did what I had to do, and pray to God for forgiveness..... She never left him.
Yes!! His wife is very afraid for her life. And he is bogus for bringing another woman to his house when his wife is in another room. Sooo sad, his wife needs prayer and help from God Amighty.
Right when he was in the middle of lying about being at his grandmas house, after you already knew he was at side chicks place.. I woulda swung on him.
I had a “Bob” when I was young and babbbbyyyy OMG It was ALLL BAD! I beat myself up for a while and it took a long time to get out of it. All I can say is thank god it’s over!
Bob put you through hell. I just don’t understand how some men could treat women like that, or even worse the mother of their child. Yet they have the nerve to call us crazy when we react to the stuff that they put us through. Lawd!! I’m loving you’re stories girl Lol This is getting me through work.
Girl I had a Bob and man o man it was tough getting out that relationship. We didn't have kids, but I know that would've made it even harder. You're strong girl and I understand staying with someone like that. Glad you got out and seem to be doing so much better and thanks for sharing these stories because you're giving so many women hope that there is someone else out there. Now I'm married to the best man I could only dream of. Wish I had the courage to tell my stories
+RikordingMyLife Thanks so much love and yes I tell these stories because they don't effect me anymore and I laugh at how silly I use to be. I want someone going through the same mess to hear how it sounds from some one else's experience. So they can wake up sooner rather then later.
I'm so glad that you finally managed to leave that piece of shit. I'm always so amazed how relationships like this last so long. I always feel there had to have been some red flags along the way that people just disregard. I guess love can be blind. My purpose in making this comment is not to blame the victim, but it is to tell people not to ignore the red flags. If it quacks and walks like a duck, it's probably a duck lol.
Girl this story is insane! I can't believe that dumb b tried it so hard! I would have reacted just like you. This is my first video of yours and I am addicted ♥️ You are awesome and you have gained a new subscriber 🙏🏼
Just for the record you were not young and immature when it came to the physical altercation that situation is called provoked, and far as that girl is concerned she was never pregnant.
😓😓😓😓😩😢😢😢😢😢 I'm in tears the entire time, I believe he was actually telling the other girl that stuff, that girl wasn't crazy for no reason. But fck that bih, she only treated you that way because she was jealous, she basically stalked you or how else did she get your number?? She's so desperate for a man she will fck with a 20 year old' girl's man...... Not to say I'm glad she lost her baby cause dat bih was neva pregnant but you never can win when you being dirty😂😂😂😂😂😂
I have two sons with my "Bob " and your stories are so similar to everything he put me through until he ended up in prison for putting hands on me Thank you for sharing these stories they give me so much hope
Sis, I just found ur channel and this is the first video I seen. I love the way you tell ur story. Had me laughing but I hate that u had to experience that pain as I have also dealing with one of those eewwuuuhhhaaass- lol- a few actually so I know exactly what it is. New subby!! Great advice
I swear I love your videos. I'm 19 and going through some similar things minus the babies. But you hit home with the black and mild and jumping on him lol.
You’re too young 🏃♀️ leave him now focus on u ..... finish your education get a career travel & date yourself don’t look for the next man enjoy you for a while pray about exactly what u want in a man wait till he comes to you GOD Answers prayers wait on GOD praise JESUS don’t be a side woman cuz karma is real & don’t except any type of behavior from a Man U are a queen 👸🏾 if no one said they love ❤️ u I do GOD and JESUS does and the rt man will as well
I love the stories!!! You still got these types of men out here!!! The ones that fuck up constantly, but don't won't to lose you!! But ain't man enough to keep you and do right by you!!! Keep sharing your story, people can learn from them!!!
This happens way too often! #me too! So sad! And it’s the disrespect from the side chick that she knew of you from the beginning of there fling not fighting over a man...
im confused he messing with a chick then invites his woman to work at the same place as the side so messy .. some men love drama so sad and who be on the phone chilling with gma?? some girls do lie and are delusional but in this case damn
I know this an older story and video..but it had me feeling all kinds a ways. ..I guess because situations like this is so (sad) ..yet so common. Glad your love was restored after the emotional abused of Bob (alias). 😉
Girl omg! Same! but she would have been that friend that will tell me this about her man get me to the point where I felt like beating his ass on site but then they'll pull up together next week kissing and hugging 😩😩 ughhh lol
+JusBasNBeauty Congrats on your happiness, Doll. Its a shame women have to go through this foolishness but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. love your storytimes. You have a positive aura about you, Bob was holding you back. Shine, lady,shine. 😘 Be blessed.
This sounds like my life story with my babies' daddy. When I left him, it was when I got to the point of wanting to kill him. I tried to attack him when he came home from his side girl's house. I would have killed him if my dad hadn't came home and pinned me to the ground and sat on me. And my dad sent my ex out the house and waited forever til I calmed down a bit and took him back to his MaMa house. At which point I packed nearly every single thing he owned and took it to the side girl house and said "You obviously want him a lot more and he want you. You'll see how hard it gets and I'll pray for you. If he hurts you, please move on before you lose your way." That kinda thing. She died about one to two months later. A few weeks after she left him because he started hitting her. I know he kept trying to get her back cuz she told me. Goes to show I was the one who came out lucky. He's still out and about and having kids left and right. Moving from girl to girl. Please protect yourselves from these kind of people!! Ain't no joke what kind of mess their mind is in for most.
Thank God you got out when you did! That is sad about what happened to that girl. You should never have the mindset of thinking that someone else's mate will treat you better, ESPECIALLY if you know only what he tells you!!! So sad for her, but happy for you!!!
girl i hear these stories and my heart completely breaks for you. i know these stories were a long time ago but i know they still hurt. i pray your little daughters never go through this. im so sorry you had to go through that
They still don't care, with having daughters. You would think about KArma, but when Karma hit's they don't think that it's because of their actions. You'll never see remorse.
I know this was posted 2 years ago, but I clicked on it anyway. I’m so glad you left Bob and I enjoyed your story time. I don’t have time for drama. I’m glad you finally decided to wake up and I pray for other women who was in the same situation and dealing with nonsense I hope that they open their eyes and run!
I wish I would of saw this 7 yrs ago....My story is so similar, its kind of scary. Left "Bob" when my son was 2mnths and never turned back. Now I am going to marry my best friend and have never been happier. So glad to hear you found happiness
I'm SOOOO sorry that happened to you! I hate that some men behave like cowards and treat good women poorly to feed their own insecurities. You're such a strong woman for coming through that and enduring. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Thank you for sharing! As I was listening it sounded like you were telling one of my old stories. My husband put me through that a few times! SMH wouldn’t wish that on anyone! Thanks for being strong enough to tell your truth and show how much youve grown!
I've been single since 2012 because of a "Bob". He ruined relationships for me to the point I made a promise to God that I will be single and celibate for life. I'm 45 years old and I refuse to be with anybody ever again! Yeah, it was that bad. Thank you for your story, im glad you found your king. Now I'm crying my eyes out.
duosbabymama you sound like me. I am 53 years old and it's been since 2009 and I told God the same thing. I am much better now because the pain was deep. Kudos to us
@@jacquelinebyrd8218 I guess it must be a 50s thing...lol. I said the same thing please remember to ask God first and listen and pay attention to the words that comes out of people's mouth. Please do not allow one person to stop you from moving forward and loving. I just know for me that I'm not going to give anyone love who don't deserve it. I want what I give and if the person can't give me what I am giving then I will show them the exit with no hesitation. We learn grow and live peace and blessings to you.
Girl you're on a whole other level. When we date lesser than....this is when we deal with this nonsense. You held yours and that's something to be proud of. You have an inner light these ppl can never achieve. They try to dim it...keep fighting the good fight. God bless gorgeous! 😘❤
When someone learn to evaluate themselves and change their life around It's called growing up. You grew up when you took that leap of moving on and not tolerating his nonesence. You did wonderful. Thank you young lady for realizing what life is really about and Knowing right from wrong. Think about the beautiful outcome after the growth. You didn't stay and put up with the sad trend that too many people waste their time and life for. I'm proud of you. You thought your self and children that life is better than that and you do have a choice. Don't matter what you do in life keep up the self evaluations and make the necessary changes going. God Bless you and your new family.
I am a new subscriber after listening to your story. It was sad and empowering at the same time. You are very beautiful and you deserved waaaaayy better than Bob! I have never been in this situation, but that doesn't mean that I can know how to handle and move from the situation if it was to ever happen or teach others about it. You are DEFINITELY an inspiration and I am so glad that you recognized your and your daughters worth and got the hell on. That side chick didn't know what she was getting herself in to from every angle. God bless you and your daughters beautiful! May all of you have a lifetime of happiness, peace and blessings!!!!!
As a brother who grew up with 4, now 3 sister 's. I'm just PROUD of the fact that U saw the light and moved on. May G'd Bless you and your family. Take care and B well and safe Baseemah. With love and respect Abdul rahman. Peace Out .
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Gurl this story had me on the edge of my seat, dude was straight bogus as well as that co worker. I know u happy u dodged that bullet. Btw way u look so much like keke Wyatt to me. Thx for sharing😊
I was JUST saying the same, she does like KeKe, Bloves!
Lol hey blove....just popped in and you here lol...great story huh but I would whopped that butt...lol
I love your channel
Bloveslife y
Bloveslife dude was cool as a cucumber! When she saw dude talkin to the other lady, he probly was sayin something about her...
As soon as that chick said my babies were her babies that is when I would've lost all my sense and rational behaviour. The audacity of Bob to bring the kids around her! You have the patience of a saint, God bless you
Thanks for watching
Exactly! You want me to send you to the ER for real.
Yes, that would have been enough for me if nothing else.
SheWhoShopsSales N. Fed bc x. 🇧🇧
Girrrrrrrl omg 😂😳😳
Soon as she mentioned she'd been with your kids....man, someone would have to die.
estadje LITERALLY
Girl
estadje Deadass, all that bragging I swear it’d of been a wrap for me. He’d of been dead and she’d of been in the hospital.
Okay!
Riley Nicole 😂😂🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
The shade when you put that "one week later" slide after you said Bob was coming to pick them up omg 😭😂😂😂
I don't even know who Bob is and I want to fight him.
+Shortytogood lol
exactly 😑
exactly 😑
ikr?
Ikr
This was a good story time. I think Bob knew what he was doing when he asked you to go work at that job. There are men that feed off of the drama that ensues over them between two women.
That was his was of stirring up jealously w/ drama! Messy guys love that kind of attention.
I was thinking the same thing..... that was his way of letting you know he was hoeing around without actually saying it.... But the nerve of his ass putting you two against each other..... and she fell right in the trap... DUMB BROAD!
I dropped a dude because he was trying to do exactly that. I was already pissed he lied about his age. I was 25 and he was 45.
Yes...some men unfortunately love drama...
Rizu's Best!🔥 no men don’t function that way. Insecure boys operate in this fashion.
I learned that the hard way... Love really isn't suppose to hurt you.
+MockingJai Tv Nope it should never hurt you
If you suspect your partner of cheating, bounce. leave. abandon ship. There are a ton of wonderful men who are good and faithful and loving. Don't waste your time on someone who's sketchy in everything they do.
I tried telling my girl that, but she refuses to divorce him, because of their kids, and their high school-sweetheart status. I just don't get it!!!
You are absolutely beautiful @strawberrycreampocky
we need a storytime on how you finally left his lying ass lol
yes!!
+tee smiley you got it I will do that one soon
Yessss!!
+JusBasNBeauty yes thats a good idea
it will be up on Friday!
Maaaann Call centers always come with drama. I hated working at one
Yess!
Shiiiiiit 💯😂
😂🤣😂🤣
Yes! It's always at one of those.
The sad part is she was ok with being with Bob knowing that he had a family girl I'm glad you moved on
+Gamila Sunshine I know thanks for watching beautiful
+JusBasNBeauty my pleasure
Yeah, she was pathetic. Smh
True, that girl took her daughter to do some dumb shit and people wonder why some kids act the way they do.
Bob doesn't seem like a very good thinker.
No not at all..lol
🤣
Bob lost one good faithful women.. LOVE YOU BE BLESSED AND YOUR FAMILY
Katkarinsky Katka and she's pretty can't miss with in and out beauty
Bob is a whole asshole
The next person I meet named Bob is getting cussed out because of this story time 👊🏾
lmao
Yes too funny
Ms. Chocolate lmao
LMAOOOOO!! Too many things!
lawd yassss!!
When the side chick said "I already know the address" girl i was dying 😂😂😂😂
yassssss😅😢😠😅
yes. I was dying too. lol. get face was like war bitch
😭😭😭😭
Me too
"I don't remember what happened to the lady on the other liiiinnnneeee.." LMFAO
+Just Jailyn lol
Lol!!!!!!!
Just Jailyn right.
my reaction asf 😂😂😂😂😂
Thats why he brought his friend for protection
The time we waste trying to see the potential in the "Bobs". SMH
Omg YES !! 👏🏽💯‼️‼️
The part where you tried to kill him with the screwdriver, I felt that part in my ENTIRE soul
The side chick tryna come out of her lane😂 they're getting braver and braver ! Love the video 👍🏽👍🏽
+Danniella Wright Those side chicks are a trip
Side chicks think they're the new "side GF." Hmph! GTFOH with those shenanigans!!
Unless he puts a ring on it, you are all side chicks. I don't give husband privileges to a man with boyfriend status. He becomes my man when he becomes my husband .
Ghetto mentality 🤦🏾♀️
I think ALL side chicks are told that they are the full on girlfriend, and that’s what they believe.
Meanwhile, the girlfriend (or so she is told) thinks that SHE is the girlfriend.
Hmm.
Maybe all the females should be mad at the one telling stories: the guy.
i got rid of my "BOB" two months ago after dealing wit his bs for 5 yrs. the amount of stress thats been lifted from me...WHOA i cant even explain it lol smh
Good for you🤗
Sherika Hill good!!
I hate that Bob put you through so much shit lol like it makes me so mad. I'm 17 turning 18 in December and have never had a bf and I hope to God I don't fall in love with someone like Bob.
I hope you never run into a Bob
Girl cross the street!
JusBas or, Kim. 🙄
did you meet a Bob lol
I Hope You Don’t Either Baby. Book Before Boys && If He Cheats Be Out THE FIRST TIME. He’ll Only Do It Again
Omg yo ex dude ain't shit. What is funny the chick couldn't wait to tell you she was messin wit yo ex dude and she love yo kids lol. People are soooo shady. She knew about you especially if she was staring at you from the time you started the job. She don't love herself
You favor Kiki Wyatt
I came to the comments to see if someone else would say this! and I think a similar situation happened with Keke aswell
she does!!!!
Isis Faust Lol yess tbh I think damn near every woman been through a similar situation so sad maybe not this extreme though 🤦🏾♀️
She does.... But prettier. Softer looking in the face.
Tiffany Davis p
Girl I put this on while I was cooking. Felt like I was talking to my home girl in my kitchen lol
i could deal with her sexing him but the comment about loving my children.... woooh!! blood pressure up!
Girl these girls get desperate! She’s about to be done the same exact way! I call karma!
He something else 😂 " she probably gay" tho?
+ShyLeeNija lol
The worst place to find this shit out is at work! Lbvs
Girl I done teared up and damn near cried listening to your story...I can't relate to anything to this magnitude but I definitely know how stressful and hurtful this situation must have been for you! I hate when women go through things like this. Some guys are just scum of the earth.
She looks like R&B singer “KeKe" Wyatt.😊
Blessed Blessed agreed
with a twist of Jill Scott
@@SSWBJC1 an a little of lela rochon
he is so triflin
+Naomi Khumalo yep
+Christani Inge lol
+Naomi Khumalo lmao!! your seeing it from a woman's view. men think he is a genius!!!
+agello24 if he was a genius he wouldn't have invited his live in gf to work with the sidechick
+Joy8611 thats the point. anyone else would not have tried this. this man took a chance and pulled it off. He made two women fight over him. any other guy would have been two afraid to do it. with other stories she said, this guy tested the waters and won to the point where she finally said enough.
This storytime was so juicy and good I had to subscribe! But Bob surely did not deserve you and I’m glad you don’t deal with that drama anymore💕
God allows us to go through things so that we can lead our loved ones in a different direction. Your wisdom alone will not allow your girls to have those same struggles in life. I look back over my life and think about the dumb choices that I've made and I could literally write a book!! ( You can too!! 😂😂) I'm just thankful God allowed me to live through it all!! You are a testimony baby!! You don't look like what you been through! I admire how you share your stories and add a bit of advice at the end. Young girls are more willing to listen to advice from a woman that has actually lived through it. I love your story time! Keep them coming!! 😍😍
+Mercedes Love Thanks you so much beautiful
Wow! This happened to me but I was the side chick and had no idea. I dated a guy for a year been to his house spent nights he spent night with me. We did everything together. Come to find out he was married, and not only that he was married to my best friend's cousin
I felt so used, and I just found out that I was pregnant by him also. His wife lived their at the house the entire time. There were no signs I mean no signs that a woman lived there. Totally bachelor style. He had her stay/ living in the guest room. when I would come over he would threaten to beat her if she would come out. So she was in a very bad abusive relationship with him.......Well I don't believe having children with married men, I felt horrible but I did what I had to do, and pray to God for forgiveness..... She never left him.
WOW!
Wow
She's probably scared for her life. 😢
Yes!! His wife is very afraid for her life. And he is bogus for bringing another woman to his house when his wife is in another room. Sooo sad, his wife needs prayer and help from God Amighty.
Sorry to hear this happened to you Angela. It's happening to so many women 😥
Right when he was in the middle of lying about being at his grandmas house, after you already knew he was at side chicks place.. I woulda swung on him.
+Oma Nessence lol
I LOVE the story had me laughing and ready for more tea lmao
I'm tired of Bob!!!!!! I want to fight him 😂
+Qween ofthapack lol
Lmao
My Hubby and I only made it to 12:30 when she picked up Bobs phone sooooo........ what did you say @ his funeral???
Mi-Mi Canterbury 😂😂
She didn’t attend & let the side piece speak
noyb noyb 🤣🤣🤣
I had a “Bob” when I was young and babbbbyyyy OMG It was ALLL BAD! I beat myself up for a while and it took a long time to get out of it. All I can say is thank god it’s over!
Bob put you through hell. I just don’t understand how some men could treat women like that, or even worse the mother of their child. Yet they have the nerve to call us crazy when we react to the stuff that they put us through. Lawd!! I’m loving you’re stories girl Lol This is getting me through work.
Girl I had a Bob and man o man it was tough getting out that relationship. We didn't have kids, but I know that would've made it even harder. You're strong girl and I understand staying with someone like that. Glad you got out and seem to be doing so much better and thanks for sharing these stories because you're giving so many women hope that there is someone else out there. Now I'm married to the best man I could only dream of. Wish I had the courage to tell my stories
+RikordingMyLife Thanks so much love and yes I tell these stories because they don't effect me anymore and I laugh at how silly I use to be. I want someone going through the same mess to hear how it sounds from some one else's experience. So they can wake up sooner rather then later.
Your not Kim are u?
I love this girl she has a way telling a story that keeps my attention and I love her story's
The part about the screwdriver 😂😂😂. Out for blood
Smh some women are so crazy like how are you mad at the girlfriend and your creeping with her man 🙄 you was sleeping with the enemy.
How do we know the side chick wasn't the main chick and JUSBAS wasn't the side chick?
Sheron Byrd she said they been together since high school and they lived together soo....
@@BagsofBay unfortunately that doesn't mean anything
your story got me maddddd af!!!! I had to calm down
thanks for watching
Same. Smh.
First time watching love your videos u got a new subie keep speaking the real
girl you need to post a storytime about how you left Bob
+Brittany Prodan I will
I'm so glad that you finally managed to leave that piece of shit. I'm always so amazed how relationships like this last so long. I always feel there had to have been some red flags along the way that people just disregard. I guess love can be blind. My purpose in making this comment is not to blame the victim, but it is to tell people not to ignore the red flags. If it quacks and walks like a duck, it's probably a duck lol.
Amen!
HELLO!!! 👍🏽
Sooo True!!!
So crazy when you realize how long we stay in mess...but ain't no feeling like being free!!😆😆💖💖dang bob!
+twerkedout711 Yep thanks for watching
Girl this story is insane! I can't believe that dumb b tried it so hard! I would have reacted just like you. This is my first video of yours and I am addicted ♥️ You are awesome and you have gained a new subscriber 🙏🏼
I hate BOB lol smh he was a certified mess
+chalee62 lol
Just for the record you were not young and immature when it came to the physical altercation that situation is called provoked, and far as that girl is concerned she was never pregnant.
Why this sound like baby boy
+AleyahLovee thanks for watching and I don't know
😂😂😂 I thought I was the only person thinking this
+JusBasNBeauty I loved the video though☺️ every body has moments girl I would have beat both of them she was just rude 😭
Lol.....m
AleyahLovee yes😂😂
😓😓😓😓😩😢😢😢😢😢 I'm in tears the entire time, I believe he was actually telling the other girl that stuff, that girl wasn't crazy for no reason. But fck that bih, she only treated you that way because she was jealous, she basically stalked you or how else did she get your number?? She's so desperate for a man she will fck with a 20 year old' girl's man...... Not to say I'm glad she lost her baby cause dat bih was neva pregnant but you never can win when you being dirty😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao.. thought I was the only one over here dead..
This is going to be my permanent face during basie's story time 😳... bob tried that!!!
+Miesha Langston lol thanks for watching
I have two sons with my "Bob " and your stories are so similar to everything he put me through until he ended up in prison for putting hands on me Thank you for sharing these stories they give me so much hope
every cheating dude always have that response when a girl is grilling you down. "She probably gay" smh
+Danielle Cross lol right
Sis, I just found ur channel and this is the first video I seen. I love the way you tell ur story. Had me laughing but I hate that u had to experience that pain as I have also dealing with one of those eewwuuuhhhaaass- lol- a few actually so I know exactly what it is. New subby!! Great advice
me too just found it and she's great so far
I swear I love your videos. I'm 19 and going through some similar things minus the babies. But you hit home with the black and mild and jumping on him lol.
How was the break up?
You’re too young 🏃♀️ leave him now focus on u ..... finish your education get a career travel & date yourself don’t look for the next man enjoy you for a while pray about exactly what u want in a man wait till he comes to you GOD Answers prayers wait on GOD praise JESUS don’t be a side woman cuz karma is real & don’t except any type of behavior from a Man U are a queen 👸🏾 if no one said they love ❤️ u I do GOD and JESUS does and the rt man will as well
I love the stories!!! You still got these types of men out here!!! The ones that fuck up constantly, but don't won't to lose you!! But ain't man enough to keep you and do right by you!!! Keep sharing your story, people can learn from them!!!
Bob was trying to save that bihh life 😂😂
But forreal he septic tank shitty 😕😕
New subbie btw pretty mama 😘
+Niya King lol not septic thank..lol thanks for watching love and welcome to my channel
This happens way too often! #me too! So sad! And it’s the disrespect from the side chick that she knew of you from the beginning of there fling not fighting over a man...
Yo storytimes give me lifee . I had a bob once but realized it ain't worth my time to keep dealing with him. Im definitely subscribing to you !!!
+Simone' Gadson Welcome to my channel
Gurl.... we live and we learn . Your better off without him. Swerve
Crystal Najar true
Had to pause and tell my hubby I love him. lol, really though. Can't imagine going through this! Thank you for the wisdom! 👌
+Walker Flocka thanks for watching
im confused he messing with a chick then invites his woman to work at the same place as the side so messy .. some men love drama so sad and who be on the phone chilling with gma?? some girls do lie and are delusional but in this case damn
i hope i never encounter a bob
+Joy Walton I hope you don't either
I know this an older story and video..but it had me feeling all kinds a ways. ..I guess because situations like this is so (sad) ..yet so common. Glad your love was restored after the emotional abused of Bob (alias). 😉
I got second hand fucking anger right now. I'm shaking like a leaf. smh.
Girl omg! Same! but she would have been that friend that will tell me this about her man get me to the point where I felt like beating his ass on site but then they'll pull up together next week kissing and hugging 😩😩 ughhh lol
+dfranco1008 Thanks for watching
+MarisaStar1 woosa love be happy that I left that nigga..lol The only thing I got good from him were my beautiful daughters.
+JusBasNBeauty Congrats on your happiness, Doll. Its a shame women have to go through this foolishness but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. love your storytimes. You have a positive aura about you, Bob was holding you back. Shine, lady,shine. 😘 Be blessed.
+MarisaStar1 thank you
"In my peripheral vision, I see this ape-lookin' girl" :D :D Basimah, you are HILARIOUS! Subscribed!
This sounds like my life story with my babies' daddy. When I left him, it was when I got to the point of wanting to kill him. I tried to attack him when he came home from his side girl's house. I would have killed him if my dad hadn't came home and pinned me to the ground and sat on me. And my dad sent my ex out the house and waited forever til I calmed down a bit and took him back to his MaMa house. At which point I packed nearly every single thing he owned and took it to the side girl house and said "You obviously want him a lot more and he want you. You'll see how hard it gets and I'll pray for you. If he hurts you, please move on before you lose your way." That kinda thing. She died about one to two months later. A few weeks after she left him because he started hitting her. I know he kept trying to get her back cuz she told me. Goes to show I was the one who came out lucky. He's still out and about and having kids left and right. Moving from girl to girl. Please protect yourselves from these kind of people!! Ain't no joke what kind of mess their mind is in for most.
But like you Bassi. I finally have a man who is right and willing to take care of me and my babies!!!! I love you Lady!! You are an inspiration!!
+Juliet Begay thanks so much love xoxox
+Juliet Begay omg wow that's crazy. The mess some of us use to put up with.
Wait I’m confused... did she die or leave him?
Thank God you got out when you did! That is sad about what happened to that girl. You should never have the mindset of thinking that someone else's mate will treat you better, ESPECIALLY if you know only what he tells you!!! So sad for her, but happy for you!!!
No one deserves this treatment so happy you’ve grown from this experience.
you should be able to sue Bob for everything he put you threw.....
lol I wish because I would be rich
Girl when I tell you, you had me hollering over here. Glad you can look back and laugh. It's true, hind site is 20/20!!
U are soooo pretty! ! why do we do this to ourselves? ?
+tiffany nelson Thank you and I was weak back then
I just found your channel yesterday Quarantine chronicles search 2020. Lol. Love your stories I'm binge watching
I don't know why but this story time made me like you as a youtuber even more, you seem like a cool person
Thank you
girl i hear these stories and my heart completely breaks for you. i know these stories were a long time ago but i know they still hurt. i pray your little daughters never go through this. im so sorry you had to go through that
Thanks for watching beautiful
Girlllll 😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I almost died watching this
Thank you for taking the time out to share your story. God knew that someone needed to see and hear this. Much love to you and your beautiful family.
And his karma is he has all daughters 😢
yess hunty......
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They still don't care, with having daughters. You would think about KArma, but when Karma hit's they don't think that it's because of their actions. You'll never see remorse.
How does that help these girls.
@@dahliathomas2407 exactly!
I love how you kept your composure calm for the most part.💅🏽
I'm dealing with a bob now. and I'm pregnant too!!! pray for me girl
I will pray extra hard
GET OUT
It may not be easy for you to leave now, but it's a must that you DO!!! Things can go from BAD TO WORST real Quick.
LEAVE!!!!!!!
Oh girl.. these damn bobs... and these snake ass chicks ... lawd... girl me too... It will get better i promise
Babe I've deal with a lotbof Bob's leave asap
I know this was posted 2 years ago, but I clicked on it anyway. I’m so glad you left Bob and I enjoyed your story time. I don’t have time for drama. I’m glad you finally decided to wake up and I pray for other women who was in the same situation and dealing with nonsense I hope that they open their eyes and run!
I wish I would of saw this 7 yrs ago....My story is so similar, its kind of scary. Left "Bob" when my son was 2mnths and never turned back. Now I am going to marry my best friend and have never been happier. So glad to hear you found happiness
+For the Love of Art Congrats love and thanks for watching
I'm SOOOO sorry that happened to you! I hate that some men behave like cowards and treat good women poorly to feed their own insecurities. You're such a strong woman for coming through that and enduring. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Thanks for watching
Can you do some storytimes about random bad experiences. I like your fiery attitude those make the best storytimes!
Thank you for sharing! As I was listening it sounded like you were telling one of my old stories. My husband put me through that a few times! SMH wouldn’t wish that on anyone! Thanks for being strong enough to tell your truth and show how much youve grown!
I've been single since 2012 because of a "Bob". He ruined relationships for me to the point I made a promise to God that I will be single and celibate for life. I'm 45 years old and I refuse to be with anybody ever again! Yeah, it was that bad. Thank you for your story, im glad you found your king. Now I'm crying my eyes out.
Thanks for watching
Dont let Bobs stop your life...i met many Bobs and im your age
I felt like you but im over that thinking..lets enjoy our lives
duosbabymama you sound like me. I am 53 years old and it's been since 2009 and I told God the same thing. I am much better now because the pain was deep. Kudos to us
duosbabymama
Please don’t let that stop you. I know your pain is real.
@@jacquelinebyrd8218 I guess it must be a 50s thing...lol. I said the same thing please remember to ask God first and listen and pay attention to the words that comes out of people's mouth. Please do not allow one person to stop you from moving forward and loving. I just know for me that I'm not going to give anyone love who don't deserve it. I want what I give and if the person can't give me what I am giving then I will show them the exit with no hesitation. We learn grow and live peace and blessings to you.
Girl you're on a whole other level. When we date lesser than....this is when we deal with this nonsense. You held yours and that's something to be proud of. You have an inner light these ppl can never achieve. They try to dim it...keep fighting the good fight. God bless gorgeous! 😘❤
Girl I seen the title and was like "oh hell no" and I had to watch it.
BASIMA IS FREAKING STUNNING BEAUTIFUL WOW!
That sidechick was crazy taunting you like that.... she did you a favour though cause clearly Bob was a worthless sorry excuse for a man.
When someone learn to evaluate themselves and change their life around It's called growing up. You grew up when you took that leap of moving on and not tolerating his nonesence. You did wonderful. Thank you young lady for realizing what life is really about and Knowing right from wrong. Think about the beautiful outcome after the growth. You didn't stay and put up with the sad trend that too many people waste their time and life for. I'm proud of you. You thought your self and children that life is better than that and you do have a choice. Don't matter what you do in life keep up the self evaluations and make the necessary changes going. God Bless you and your new family.
Girrrrrrrl I dont even know "Bob" and i'm like "where this nigga at"? Im ready to fight from all these crazy stories. Girl call me. I'm ready! lol
lol thanks for watching
I am a new subscriber after listening to your story. It was sad and empowering at the same time. You are very beautiful and you deserved waaaaayy better than Bob! I have never been in this situation, but that doesn't mean that I can know how to handle and move from the situation if it was to ever happen or teach others about it. You are DEFINITELY an inspiration and I am so glad that you recognized your and your daughters worth and got the hell on. That side chick didn't know what she was getting herself in to from every angle. God bless you and your daughters beautiful! May all of you have a lifetime of happiness, peace and blessings!!!!!
I hope I wasn't the only person sitting at the edge of the bed waiting to throw the fuck down lmfaoooooooooo
+makeuplover428 lol
As a brother who grew up with 4, now 3 sister 's. I'm just PROUD of the fact that U saw the light and moved on. May G'd Bless you and your family. Take care and B well and safe Baseemah. With love and respect Abdul rahman. Peace Out
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Your hair is so pretty
+MegaCutie86 thank you
I really just watched this whole story time every minute and I usually stop half way through 😂 automatic subscribe. You’re so funny