I allowed many “family” members and “friends” to mistreat me for years!! Til I woke up hunnie!… I love me!! I love my peace.. and love the boundaries I have in place. I’m a different person now and still evolving ❤
Having a Narc or abusive Mom makes you over think, you constantly trying to make excuses for their behavior. So the fact that we no longer need to try and sort out someone else's intentions and only focus on how it makes us feel. oooh wee that is hard to do but so powerful!
I'd love to hear an episode on how to give ourselves permission to identify and grieve the relationship we never had (the love that was withheld by our mother)...without getting impatient with our inner child and telling her to hurry up, wipe her tears and grow up cuz its over.
Yes! My mama always told me to shut up or don't think this or that. So, all I learned is how to hold anger. Eventually, I went no contact because my mom didn't respect the boundaries.
I didn't have the language for my experiences with people in my life and now I do. I allow myself to be verbally and emotionally abused and NEVER said anything. I thought it was me and I needed to change. I spent 52 years trying to figure out what is wrong with me, why they don't like me, and why folks keep taking advantage from me. I have NO boundaries. This is the first muscle I must strengthen. I am team ME!
My narc mom fell on hard times and I took her in. Biggest mistake of my life. Within 8 months, she tried to come in between me and my husband, when that didn’t work, she criticized my parenting every single day and started extremely near physical altercations with me. My child had never seen me in that state. It was so exhausting that she spilled her toxicity in my home. She’s finally on her way out and I will be going no contact. I thought she changed since she got baptized but nope still the same old narc mom who doesn’t care about anyone but herself. She even got my siblings to gaslight and dogpile me. Never again.
Can someone give me some advice on how to get a person/parent to stop contacting me especially after I have made it clear I do not want to be contacted anymore?. I set boundaries and now they do not like it.
I've been lurking around watching a few of your vids and they all hit. And like I know this is a sis thing but do you have something for masc folk or do you have someone to strongly recommend for masc folk
"How I feel is not up for negotiation!" Thank you x
I allowed many “family” members and “friends” to mistreat me for years!! Til I woke up hunnie!… I love me!! I love my peace.. and love the boundaries I have in place. I’m a different person now and still evolving ❤
Having a Narc or abusive Mom makes you over think, you constantly trying to make excuses for their behavior. So the fact that we no longer need to try and sort out someone else's intentions and only focus on how it makes us feel. oooh wee that is hard to do but so powerful!
I'd love to hear an episode on how to give ourselves permission to identify and grieve the relationship we never had (the love that was withheld by our mother)...without getting impatient with our inner child and telling her to hurry up, wipe her tears and grow up cuz its over.
This is discussed in Ep.028 in the video list on her page. ❤
Yes! My mama always told me to shut up or don't think this or that. So, all I learned is how to hold anger.
Eventually, I went no contact because my mom didn't respect the boundaries.
I didn't have the language for my experiences with people in my life and now I do. I allow myself to be verbally and emotionally abused and NEVER said anything. I thought it was me and I needed to change. I spent 52 years trying to figure out what is wrong with me, why they don't like me, and why folks keep taking advantage from me. I have NO boundaries. This is the first muscle I must strengthen. I am team ME!
My narc mom fell on hard times and I took her in. Biggest mistake of my life. Within 8 months, she tried to come in between me and my husband, when that didn’t work, she criticized my parenting every single day and started extremely near physical altercations with me. My child had never seen me in that state. It was so exhausting that she spilled her toxicity in my home. She’s finally on her way out and I will be going no contact. I thought she changed since she got baptized but nope still the same old narc mom who doesn’t care about anyone but herself. She even got my siblings to gaslight and dogpile me. Never again.
When I started setting healthy boundaries it changed my life. You are so right.❤
I would love to hear about being abandoned and now your mom is gone and how to grief and forgive to move forward
I so glad I found this podcast. It has been a tremendous help in my healing journey and transformation!! ❤❤❤
Whew I knew this one was gonna be a doozy for me as soon as I saw the title 😫
This channel has been so eye opening. Thank you for this. I never knew what it was I was suffering from. Now I know and can finally heal.
I don’t always comment. Always clear and on point .. amazing ❤
I just want to say how excellent your content is. The topics, the advice and the visual set up is top tier. Excellent work!!
Definitely interested hearing you discuss LOVE & GRIEF...God BLess you
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Many thanks ❤ for your content such a blessing. Listening daily. Please keep them coming ❤
Great episode! You offer amazing guidance, insight and real life application every time I watch ❤
Thank you Jennifer. This lesson is right on time.
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Can someone give me some advice on how to get a person/parent to stop contacting me especially after I have made it clear I do not want to be contacted anymore?. I set boundaries and now they do not like it.
I simply blocked , deleted and don't respond to flying monkeys.
If they want to go old school, they can send a letter.
#selforphan thats my boundary. dont call me. perodT!
How can I join your class
What is Dr Nedra’s @?
@nedratawwab
I've been lurking around watching a few of your vids and they all hit. And like I know this is a sis thing but do you have something for masc folk or do you have someone to strongly recommend for masc folk
Please stay on subject and theme🤔😮💨
I hope you do it even if they don't say they want it lol 1:00
Every video of yours that I watch, I always watch more than once to let the message resonate 🤍
Thank you so much for your content. It is so very much needed. 🙏🏽🙌🏽🫶🏾✊🏾
I really needed this today 🥲🙏🏻
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