Yes the Desi competitiveness and obsession with marrying a doctor and what type of car a guy drives is super cringe. I’m always hearing friends discuss other women in the community and their weird obsession with being light skinned because it would give them the mobility to marry rich.
LISTEN. In era when my channel was getting me invited to fancy youtube things, and vidcon and stuff like that I got so swept up in the glamour of it all, and the free stuff, and the luxury in these small doses right? I was like, wow, i really could get used to this. And then one vidcon I was doing one of the last panels on the last day and when I was leaving I saw all the people that had spent thousands on these elaborate displays and photo areas and ~brand activations~ just tearing down their displays and THROWING IT AWAY. never have i pivoted so fast on the luxury/consumer lifestyle. Sure, I still sometimes get swayed to buy stuff I don't need, but more often then not it all makes me feel a little ill now. i'm so glad you spoke about this.
"there is a point where people will not respect you" ugh yes, thank you Tazzy. I pride myself on choosing to be around people who feed and nurture me, that I feel safe around - and yet I still ran into some chaos inducing crazy person.
I am going to ask God to set me free from my shopping addiction. As a christian i believe that value doesn’t come from your status, money etc. But from you being a good and faithful person to God and people around you. Thank you for this video🙏 God bless you amen💕
Hello Tazzy, I stumbled upon your channel some years ago already, and I since then always really enjoyed your content and especially these "sharing deep thoughts" sessions :) I am from the other side of the Atlantic, from another culture, religion, etc., but I always found myself or totally sharing your experiences or so happy to learn about your culture. And very often, even if you are talking about topics rather unknown to me (like for example over marriage, I'm not married, not planning on getting married, but...) i still find so many interesting thoughts that can apply to my life and experience. Anyway, in short, thank you Tazzy 🌼 ((sorry, my English isn't the smoothest!))
I almost never comment on yt vids and I consume a lot of minimalism/mindfulness content (the oxymoron ik) but I genuinely think your delivery and insight is really great. Just had to say it. Also you touch on a lot of things I personally struggle with too. Can’t wait for more of your vid 🙆♀️
I Agree with what you are saying. I genuinly find that Materialism in of itself is bad & as a Society there is so much promotion of Material Consumption-- often of super cheap made materials processed oversees. On top of that I find that the most unhappy people are the ones that over shop, as looking to fill a void. Even the Buddha had a big problem with this as he grew up with all the Riches and he didn't find happiness, then he did 180 and lived in poverty and he did not find happiness there either. Ultimately we need to live in comfort and not go on either extreme and seek inner peace and if there is one area to grow and consume- it is in the intangibles of our mind and soul. I worked in a bank for Manu Years and saw wealthy people- they just the same as everyone else. At some point everything becomes stagnant and what made you happy yesterday will soon no longer so it is onto the next thing in a long cycle.
Girl tazzy , I loveeeee you for the sake of Allah . Your words are gem and it’s rear to find people like you . I like the “ how is it gooooooing “ your trademark 👌🏽👌🏽
Its so true. I have my own bussiness and i cant stop working and developing it… i need to buy flat, then i need new car, then a house, then i need to buy 3 flats to rent it, then a land - it never finish
John 1:14 14 The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.💖
Thank you for the content really informative but I think you need to edit the audio a bit, especially on the bass, there is a "dum dum sub sound" on your vid.
Thank you for your insightful sharing on such an important topic! There are so many issues in social media/media that Muslims have to grapple with or reconcile in this day and age. If you're interested, was wondering if you could also share your thoughts on Muslim representation in media, especially with the new series Ms Marvel? Would be interesting to hear your thoughts as a Pakistani Muslim :)
she talked about seeing the value of investing in life long education right before that ad, personally I don't see any problem with making a few bucks from tried and tested products that are actually useful and value driven. it's the insincerity of some that are primarily salespeople before they are content creators which irks me. Tazzy is someone who approaches serious topics with tact and discretion which likely takes time and planning and this may be sustainable way to keep making videos without affecting her income too much.
﴿اعلَموا أَنَّمَا الحَياةُ الدُّنيا لَعِبٌ وَلَهوٌ وَزينَةٌ وَتَفاخُرٌ بَينَكُم وَتَكاثُرٌ فِي الأَموالِ وَالأَولادِ كَمَثَلِ غَيثٍ أَعجَبَ الكُفّارَ نَباتُهُ ثُمَّ يَهيجُ فَتَراهُ مُصفَرًّا ثُمَّ يَكونُ حُطامًا وَفِي الآخِرَةِ عَذابٌ شَديدٌ وَمَغفِرَةٌ مِنَ اللَّهِ وَرِضوانٌ وَمَا الحَياةُ الدُّنيا إِلّا مَتاعُ الغُرورِ﴾ [Al-Ḥadīd: 20] English meaning (20) Know that the life of this world is but amusement and diversion and adornment and boasting to one another and competition in increase of wealth and children - like the example of a rain whose [resulting] plant growth pleases the tillers; then it dries and you see it turned yellow; then it becomes [scattered] debris. And in the Hereafter is severe punishment and forgiveness from Allāh and approval. And what is the worldly life except the enjoyment of delusion.
My late Abba used to say "Want what you have, and you'll be happy/content"
You are brilliant and your content is about important stuff but delivered in such an authentic and accessible style-your own voice. Keep going.
This is so so so important. I needed to hear this because I have definitely let myself get consumed by social media and wanting the best thing.
Pleaasse make a long podcast! I would really like to listen to you talk while I am doing chores or working out, heck even chilling. Good job girl!
I legit do that with her videos
Yes the Desi competitiveness and obsession with marrying a doctor and what type of car a guy drives is super cringe. I’m always hearing friends discuss other women in the community and their weird obsession with being light skinned because it would give them the mobility to marry rich.
I find being confident and kind much more appealing. 😔
Season 2 of Indian Matchmaking drops this week and I can’t wait to see your commentary on that as well.
It's also widely prevalent in Irish women. They're the same.
LISTEN. In era when my channel was getting me invited to fancy youtube things, and vidcon and stuff like that I got so swept up in the glamour of it all, and the free stuff, and the luxury in these small doses right? I was like, wow, i really could get used to this. And then one vidcon I was doing one of the last panels on the last day and when I was leaving I saw all the people that had spent thousands on these elaborate displays and photo areas and ~brand activations~ just tearing down their displays and THROWING IT AWAY. never have i pivoted so fast on the luxury/consumer lifestyle. Sure, I still sometimes get swayed to buy stuff I don't need, but more often then not it all makes me feel a little ill now. i'm so glad you spoke about this.
More content like this, please!!!!!!!!!!!The thirst is real for thought-provoking conversations in this day and age.
"there is a point where people will not respect you" ugh yes, thank you Tazzy. I pride myself on choosing to be around people who feed and nurture me, that I feel safe around - and yet I still ran into some chaos inducing crazy person.
It's so cute....your microphone looks like a little hedgehog & you're having a deep conversation with him 😸💜
I'm loving the rate at which you're coming out with content right now🤩 I'm living for this
Great video! I am not religious but I think that no matter what feeling of unworthiness we can feel, nothing we can buy will fix that. We are enough.
Man I just love you. May Allah grant you barakah! 💗
I am going to ask God to set me free from my shopping addiction. As a christian i believe that value doesn’t come from your status, money etc. But from you being a good and faithful person to God and people around you. Thank you for this video🙏 God bless you amen💕
Unbelievably relevant and necessary reminders, thank you Tazzy 💫
Hello Tazzy, I stumbled upon your channel some years ago already, and I since then always really enjoyed your content and especially these "sharing deep thoughts" sessions :) I am from the other side of the Atlantic, from another culture, religion, etc., but I always found myself or totally sharing your experiences or so happy to learn about your culture. And very often, even if you are talking about topics rather unknown to me (like for example over marriage, I'm not married, not planning on getting married, but...) i still find so many interesting thoughts that can apply to my life and experience. Anyway, in short, thank you Tazzy 🌼
((sorry, my English isn't the smoothest!))
I almost never comment on yt vids and I consume a lot of minimalism/mindfulness content (the oxymoron ik) but I genuinely think your delivery and insight is really great. Just had to say it. Also you touch on a lot of things I personally struggle with too. Can’t wait for more of your vid 🙆♀️
Lovely video! I like the list you shared. I'm glad I got this video recommended.
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Love your vids so much pls don’t stoppppp
Tazzy your perspective on things is so refreshing and the quality of your content is amaaazingggg
Love what you do❤
Agree with everything! Such well thought out and important content mashallah. Idk how you don't have more subscribers tbh
Thanks for the skill share link! I’m so grateful for this free opportunity to expand my knowledge and learn something new :)
Your videos are articulated very well and it's appreciated. Thank you
been thinking about this a TON lately. youre right, it IS empty 😭
Yes sometimes it’s just 1 piece that you can get and solve many outfits . You nailed it .
I Agree with what you are saying. I genuinly find that Materialism in of itself is bad & as a Society there is so much promotion of Material Consumption-- often of super cheap made materials processed oversees. On top of that I find that the most unhappy people are the ones that over shop, as looking to fill a void. Even the Buddha had a big problem with this as he grew up with all the Riches and he didn't find happiness, then he did 180 and lived in poverty and he did not find happiness there either. Ultimately we need to live in comfort and not go on either extreme and seek inner peace and if there is one area to grow and consume- it is in the intangibles of our mind and soul. I worked in a bank for Manu Years and saw wealthy people- they just the same as everyone else. At some point everything becomes stagnant and what made you happy yesterday will soon no longer so it is onto the next thing in a long cycle.
HAHAHAHA best skillshare ad transition i’ve ever seen !!!
Needed this reminder rn tyy
Especially loved this chat, thank you x
I feel so validated!! Thank you so much for this.
Girl tazzy , I loveeeee you for the sake of Allah . Your words are gem and it’s rear to find people like you . I like the “ how is it gooooooing “ your trademark 👌🏽👌🏽
Its so true. I have my own bussiness and i cant stop working and developing it… i need to buy flat, then i need new car, then a house, then i need to buy 3 flats to rent it, then a land - it never finish
Love this vid ❤️
Love your content. Been looking for more RUclips channels that do the kind of content I want to delve into and discovered your channel.
Couldn’t agree with you more .
Dang girl you were really saying some things!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Keep up the good work! May Allah bless you and your family ❤️
The sponsor senttt me! Signing up though xx
esp after she was roasting marketing 😂😂
Great commentary ✅
Great video!! New follower i saw you on Hallese"s podcast and loved your honesty and humor
Thank you, Tazzy
Great content
I totally agree with you Tazzy this world has so much to offer. We are being controlled by mass media and having a certain lifestyle.
I now have to put a heating pad on my neck from nodding in agreement so much. 😀
I was raised Christian and Righteous Gemstones is HILARIOUS.
Then came skillshare and I said, "Huhhhh! I know what you did there...."
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Yes keep making videos!!
John 1:14
14 The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.💖
Please please please talk about your wedding planning… we really need tips
I feel what worse is when you dont go with these like lifestyle or trend your own family start to judge you for it.
I hit the 999 like button to hit your 1k ... great video
😊good stuff !!!!
Preach!
If you want to continue educating yourself especially in religious knowledge id highly recommend rabata institute
Yes! Jannah Institute is also excellent.
Thank you for the content really informative but I think you need to edit the audio a bit, especially on the bass, there is a "dum dum sub sound" on your vid.
Fashion comes from within -so be your own kind of beautiful. I go for quality than quantity.
Great video… I watch Joshua Becker and he’s a game changer! Love his videos!
Thank you for your insightful sharing on such an important topic! There are so many issues in social media/media that Muslims have to grapple with or reconcile in this day and age.
If you're interested, was wondering if you could also share your thoughts on Muslim representation in media, especially with the new series Ms Marvel? Would be interesting to hear your thoughts as a Pakistani Muslim :)
Adorable sister love it
Love your videos and the ASMR microphone is a nice bonus haha x
You should make an vid with Israa again
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️👍🏻👍🏻
Alhamdulillah.
Can you please remove the sharp noise at the start of the video. Those of us wearing headphones are in pain
Muslim lifestyle like in Dubai?
talking about overconsumption, marketing and capitalism but at the same time advertising skillshare... 🙄🙄
she talked about seeing the value of investing in life long education right before that ad, personally I don't see any problem with making a few bucks from tried and tested products that are actually useful and value driven. it's the insincerity of some that are primarily salespeople before they are content creators which irks me. Tazzy is someone who approaches serious topics with tact and discretion which likely takes time and planning and this may be sustainable way to keep making videos without affecting her income too much.
Someones pounding a table or something in the background every now and then. Not good with headphones.
﴿اعلَموا أَنَّمَا الحَياةُ الدُّنيا لَعِبٌ وَلَهوٌ وَزينَةٌ وَتَفاخُرٌ بَينَكُم وَتَكاثُرٌ فِي الأَموالِ وَالأَولادِ كَمَثَلِ غَيثٍ أَعجَبَ الكُفّارَ نَباتُهُ ثُمَّ يَهيجُ فَتَراهُ مُصفَرًّا ثُمَّ يَكونُ حُطامًا وَفِي الآخِرَةِ عَذابٌ شَديدٌ وَمَغفِرَةٌ مِنَ اللَّهِ وَرِضوانٌ وَمَا الحَياةُ الدُّنيا إِلّا مَتاعُ الغُرورِ﴾ [Al-Ḥadīd: 20]
English meaning
(20) Know that the life of this world is but amusement and diversion and adornment and boasting to one another and competition in increase of wealth and children - like the example of a rain whose [resulting] plant growth pleases the tillers; then it dries and you see it turned yellow; then it becomes [scattered] debris. And in the Hereafter is severe punishment and forgiveness from Allāh and approval. And what is the worldly life except the enjoyment of delusion.
Tazzy dropping wisdom gems and I’m totally here for it👏🏽🤍