If they don't respect you they are disrespecting you.. Cut them all off

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  • @FallacyAsPraxis
    @FallacyAsPraxis 2 года назад +37

    Seriously, dude. Get the dog...even if you live in an apartment. Dogs have amazingly positive transformative power. Unlike people they are always happy to see you when you come in. Always loyal, always and by your side, and always protective of you. People are full of crap. Jealousy and disrespect from them is a given.

  • @kirabarsmith9353
    @kirabarsmith9353 2 года назад +58

    So true, Terry. I've known decent people who surrounded themselves with toxic jerks, and they became toxic too.

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 2 года назад +7

      Yup

    • @dakoderii4221
      @dakoderii4221 2 года назад +6

      1 Corinthians 15:33
      Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.

    • @AceAgallah
      @AceAgallah 2 года назад +2

      Bad company corrupts good morals

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад

      Sad but he is too empathetic ... He follows everybody even psychology women oh my god

    • @miguelcruz2682
      @miguelcruz2682 Год назад

      REAL mature ppl must learn NOT!!! To SALE OUT!!... Be strong BE RED PILLED!!.💥👊🙌

  • @lorraine4755
    @lorraine4755 2 года назад +16

    They want all the respect in the world but don't respect you.

    • @CC-pu6qn
      @CC-pu6qn 2 года назад

      Can we say this again!

    • @JayXDaggerErebus
      @JayXDaggerErebus 2 года назад +2

      It's two way street. If someone don't respect you they can't expect us to respect them back.

    • @100kromance
      @100kromance 2 года назад +1

      True

    • @Flokix4
      @Flokix4 3 месяца назад +1

      And that's why they will ALWAYS fail.

  • @FaithFashionFinances
    @FaithFashionFinances 2 года назад +23

    so important to know the difference between respect and disrespect. I use to pass covert narcissim off as someone just making a joke but it's actually very disrespectful. I set boundaries with people like this today

  • @boop5287
    @boop5287 2 года назад +41

    Joel, The narcissist I had to cut ties with always made me feel lonely. I always felt like I was by myself even if I was with him or next to him. And I realize now that’s because he was empty and lacking so yea essentially I was alone. He never respected me enough and didn’t make me feel valued- not romantically but as a person of worth.
    These people are lost man and they will drain you dry. Best thing you can do is get far away from them and ask God to help you seek good people

    • @gailgray6653
      @gailgray6653 2 года назад +3

      Me to, i felt lonely with my x narc. I never feel lonely being single, lol i like my own company.

    • @gailgray6653
      @gailgray6653 2 года назад

      @amy grace 😊warm greetings from Australia. God bless.

  • @DailyPositiveAffirmatives
    @DailyPositiveAffirmatives 2 года назад +52

    Compassion is such a rare quality. It’s so much easier to criticize others than work on ourselves. Glad you pointed out how problematic even thinking negative thoughts about strangers speaks volumes about the spiritual state one is in. Keep up the quality content!

    • @t2d2420
      @t2d2420 2 года назад +4

      So true, and well said sad when people judge other men woman down on there luck.....

    • @Ragnar452
      @Ragnar452 2 года назад

      Yet compassion and respect dont equate. I can be a psychopath and still respect people.

    • @jaykylehd20
      @jaykylehd20 2 года назад

      My tablet keeps freezing

  • @Blegh855
    @Blegh855 2 года назад +15

    I think it’s nice to listen to someone who’s mind is clear and talks about real shit. That’s rare these days.

    • @phoenixfromtheashes2364
      @phoenixfromtheashes2364 2 года назад

      Ofc rare thaths why i has nothing near me just me haha who thinks clearly and stay stable no chemical food gmo and shit like that no alcohol no drugs no ciggs np nothing not even weed u know how its just sad there nothing like u

  • @treexkzknaxkz
    @treexkzknaxkz 2 года назад +27

    At least u know where u stand with those ppl, keep one eye open while u sleep brothers, focus on the grind and watch your back

  • @taurahelms3068
    @taurahelms3068 2 года назад +18

    Agreed. If you see people and you don't like how they look, just keep walking. You went out to run errands and do productive stuff.

  • @pamelagunn234
    @pamelagunn234 2 года назад +9

    You can't know people until you are with them. Everyone's lives are different. I've worked with special needs, kids that probably will end up in prison and drunks at a bar. When you have experienced the worst in people you develop a dark humour sometimes and its not about energy. It's about knowing human nature- the worst of it sometimes. Doesn't make me a dark person it means I get that side of life maybe better than other people.

  • @youngchris787
    @youngchris787 2 года назад +13

    Screw them people man you're awesome.

  • @roslynjohnson6310
    @roslynjohnson6310 2 года назад +24

    A great life coach with an abundance of confidence. He shows us how to have a backbone and stand up for ourselves.
    💕🙏😊

  • @BurntPopcorns
    @BurntPopcorns 2 года назад +13

    You are wise beyond most older people I know

    • @simplyme2926
      @simplyme2926 2 года назад

      Yup...im 60 this year...he is truth

  • @samustheshollie6300
    @samustheshollie6300 2 года назад +8

    It took me time being a very compassionate man but I finally came to my senses they want to fight with physical I fight with words done and out OVER 10 4 over n out

  • @elanahammer1076
    @elanahammer1076 2 года назад +13

    We cannot change others nor should we try. Change is a choice of reason and the epitome of self love. 🤔❤️🇺🇸

    • @deedeemoore6096
      @deedeemoore6096 2 года назад +2

      I totally agree I co sign this comment !! Change is up to that person its not our job or our business to try to change people !

    • @daynesmith5281
      @daynesmith5281 2 года назад +2

      Change yourself especially when others are sneaky snakey go behind your back discuss you and can't be real with you

    • @sylviamjames
      @sylviamjames Год назад

      Shows their immaturity, also there is humor , and we all need need laughter, Bible says it’s medicine for our souls. But sheer stupidity, dark humor, just ugly from we do not have to even give it time of day.! Praise God! For good 😘🙏 6:34

  • @eleverett77
    @eleverett77 2 года назад +12

    Crazy this came out today.. he said he loves me so so much, a few minutes later said, I guess I don't love you.. after expressing disrespect and hateful treatment..

    • @brendaleverick3655
      @brendaleverick3655 2 года назад

      So sorry!

    • @Adrian19032
      @Adrian19032 2 года назад +1

      I would say don't play into any mindgames just leave! People who play with your emotions once will do it again. It's a game to them and you lose by playing that game. Your energy is better spent elsewhere. If you go, in time this wound will be nothing but a fading memory but if you stay it will be one of many. And trust me: the longer that goes on the longer you will hurt.
      If you're in doubt though, and this is the first time it's happened, ask why the person said that and if the answer don't make sense: don't answer back, just leave.
      There are good people out there who needs you. You learn to discern so that you can make room for them.

  • @godsnobody2915
    @godsnobody2915 2 года назад +35

    Terry, this was really profound. There's no lack of respect...there's just respect or disrespect. Thank you for the way you share your wisdom and thoughts.

  • @richardmeyer1837
    @richardmeyer1837 2 года назад +7

    Thank You Terry 🦁

  • @leveledfeats
    @leveledfeats 2 года назад +2

    Truth. When you start coming on the up and up, and you begin improving yourself and gaining momentum in your success, some people will refuse to give you the respect you deserve, especially when you have worked your ass off to get where you are. They will continue to hate and disrespect you for no reason because they can't handle how you got good. They will say you were lucky or had it easier. In the past they always looked down on you and you never crossed mind. So when you reach greatness these same people still don't want to acknowledge it. It's backwards

  • @miguelcruz2682
    @miguelcruz2682 Год назад +1

    Real mature ppl must learn NOT to SALE OUT!!!. BE STRONG RED PILLED!!.💥👊🙌

  • @xannypharaoh8033
    @xannypharaoh8033 2 года назад +9

    I appreciate this Channel so much💼. I honestly don’t even care about the topic of people . I take these lessons and add this to my own personal as a man. I’m all about my own life and others can go

  • @t2d2420
    @t2d2420 2 года назад +4

    I always see the lil things they do to show how transparent they truly are I don't need to talk about anyone I let them talk about themselves.....

  • @stephaniesallie8968
    @stephaniesallie8968 2 года назад +6

    Speech speech speech. We love you. Our Truthful Terry Joel Jr. Amen. N May God bless you n us. An all of the leaders of the world. . xo

  • @doolittleranch8302
    @doolittleranch8302 2 года назад +15

    I needed this, thank you brother!

  • @striderwins
    @striderwins 2 года назад +8

    you spit some real knowledge , this shit be having me laughing .

  • @Spiritual_Gangsta
    @Spiritual_Gangsta 2 года назад +6

    Cheers 🍻 Brotha...spit it 👍🏻 👌

  • @queenb9668
    @queenb9668 2 года назад +9

    Saw you hold up that timmies cup , ehhhhh Sending Love from Toronto ! Please keep the messages/confirmations coming 😃💚

  • @joshuawood1428
    @joshuawood1428 2 года назад +4

    Amen brother

  • @buttnakedsignatureseasonings
    @buttnakedsignatureseasonings 2 года назад +1

    The title says it all. Realized they were blessing 🙌 blockers 🚫. As soon as I let them go. Took off like a rocket 🚀 too the Light from hell. Drop the 🎤

  • @belovelyloveofgod
    @belovelyloveofgod 2 года назад +1

    FOR ME IN MY HOUSE, IF I SMILE TO BIG OR LAUGH TO MUCH THEN I MUST BE BROUGHT DOWN. FOR ME TO FEEL HAPPINESS IS FOR OTHERS TO FEEL HATE TWORDS ME, TRUTH! I JUST GOTTA GET MY BABYGIRL GROWED UP, MY HAPPINESS IS SACRIFICED N IN IT MY SELF LOVE.🌹🌞🔥❤🕊

  • @bruce8339
    @bruce8339 2 года назад +7

    Damn right YESSSSSS💯✅‼👍🏾

  • @deedeemoore6096
    @deedeemoore6096 2 года назад +1

    If they don't respect themselves they most certainly.are not going to respect others and it best to leave people alone that don't respect boundaries . and they shouldn't have to show you more than once that they don't care .Leave them Right where they stand !!

  • @JJ-dk1lr
    @JJ-dk1lr 2 года назад +5

    I am dealing with this right now.

  • @planethumanitarian1215
    @planethumanitarian1215 2 года назад +5

    Well I am not speaking to anyone except
    My roommate and some immediate
    Family
    Mine make up bad things about me even family friends

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 2 года назад +6

    If you have a good job and have decent credit, you might qualify for a mortgage. You should look into it one of these days. You might be surprised to find that you can get your own house sooner than you thought. Then you could get your dog that you want. Peace and good luck. ✌️🏼

  • @shaunasayres-farr9093
    @shaunasayres-farr9093 2 года назад +4

    👿 Goal = Divide & Conquer

  • @risenphoenix3365
    @risenphoenix3365 2 года назад +3

    Yes thank you! I know I have let it go.

  • @lenorejustine8522
    @lenorejustine8522 2 года назад +2

    Sending you love and light your sister in Christ ❤

  • @planethumanitarian1215
    @planethumanitarian1215 2 года назад +4

    Thank you sir for this clarity as well if no one said today I'm so proud of you I enjoy all your videos many many stars 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @Marykatetalks789
    @Marykatetalks789 2 года назад +1

    Had this happen before! It stopped after a few years and I know how to forgive but will keep certain boundaries to protect my peace ✌️😊

  • @copaboy
    @copaboy 2 года назад +3

    The way subjects are on point, its almost as though its hive mind.

  • @anthonym9716
    @anthonym9716 2 года назад +1

    Yeah Condescending people everywhere. They look down at you because they have there own insecurities deep down

  • @sueauger8715
    @sueauger8715 2 года назад

    Insecure people must tear others down to build themselves up. It's a manipulative move instead of leveling up themselves.

  • @MiamiVisor
    @MiamiVisor 2 года назад +2

    I never thought about it as one or the other, but you're right. Thanks, brother.

  • @retarteddwarf2182
    @retarteddwarf2182 2 года назад +4

    On fire today man. Great energy. Wayyy up on the truth scale. What do you really need? You gotta figure it out and do some healthy weeding out. It's a process. Learn it. Live it. Love it.

    • @retarteddwarf2182
      @retarteddwarf2182 2 года назад

      @@browncatwithblurredbackgro2461 Would Gifted Giant not trigger you so hard? I understand.

  • @Spiritual_self_mastery
    @Spiritual_self_mastery 2 года назад +5

    Good stuff as always bro!! You got me with that Tim Hortons cup 😂 so Canadian of you 😉😇

  • @Aftonu
    @Aftonu 2 года назад +1

    Bro I love the honesty and truth exposure. Please keep it going. 💪🏾🙏🏾

  • @multi_verse8636
    @multi_verse8636 2 года назад +1

    All the traits they gave us are actually something of their own

  • @daddyj847
    @daddyj847 2 года назад +1

    If your left eye twitches you’re stressed, if your right eye twitches you’re on the right path .

  • @CinematicComics
    @CinematicComics 2 года назад +1

    from the start, your speaking my language bro-crimson tide=Mac jones on my fave team-the New England patriots!keep up the great work!!!

  • @boop5287
    @boop5287 2 года назад +3

    Whatcha drinking? I’m a big iced coffee fan 👍
    Dunkin’ junkie all the way

  • @michelinelanglais8786
    @michelinelanglais8786 2 года назад

    Mans best friend 🐕‍🦺🐾
    Another great video

  • @rawfit12424
    @rawfit12424 2 года назад +3

    AHHH, I am getting SUCH ASMR from that ice... Loving it along with the content.

  • @jackreyes1340
    @jackreyes1340 2 года назад +1

    Always be on your side brother

  • @staceyjordan4390
    @staceyjordan4390 2 года назад

    I really appreciate your point of view! It is really refreshing to see your videos! You are wise beyond your years! I am older than you and still you have showed me a lot of things that are really happening in my life! God bless you🤗

  • @candyosborne214
    @candyosborne214 2 года назад +2

    Speaking the truth 🙌

  • @Tech_1587
    @Tech_1587 2 года назад

    Terry, I had the most loyal and loving dog before I let the narc into my life. People would say that dog always had one eye on me and was always by my side. The narc was jealous of the loving bond we shared. When the narc went into her rages the dog would go hide in the bedroom. Eventually the narc tried to control the dog and break our bond. Less than a year after the narc came, the dog died. I was heartbroken but the narc showed no compassion or empathy, only saying I spent too much money trying to save my dog. I suspect something but have no evidence. Four years later, I still shed tears for that dog. When the narc is finally out of my life and I am in a good place I'm going to get two dogs. Never let a narc near your pet's they will destroy everything you love. #chosenone #nojab4me #redpilledAF

  • @rekhaa5146
    @rekhaa5146 2 года назад +1

    I agree with you Terry
    👍🏻❤️💯🌟

  • @TheSteveTheDragon
    @TheSteveTheDragon 2 года назад +1

    I was hanging out with a group for a couple years but almost every single time, they'de drop a bomb with a back-handed or subtle jab at my character. I finally had enough. I'm really sad because they're normally fun people to hang around with, but I've had enough of the 5% poison they've been administering and even worse, I'm sure they're one degree away from the narc that initiated gangstalking for decades on me.

  • @homesprings7220
    @homesprings7220 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for making my night

  • @cedricgoddford1062
    @cedricgoddford1062 2 года назад

    Yes sir you are always on point with everything you say. 💯💯💯

  • @tammydoiel3918
    @tammydoiel3918 2 года назад +2

    Thank you

  • @arjee9703
    @arjee9703 2 года назад

    Men criticize their girlfriends constantly when no one else is around. Now you understand why women are sick of the disrespect and move on to get the respect they deserve.

  • @theraptureisnearbelieveinj7695
    @theraptureisnearbelieveinj7695 2 года назад

    I myself have used food as a coping skill for a lifetime of abuse. I would venture to say that many of the overweight people out there have had many traumatic experiences. Something to think about before judging, or wanting to be snarky with people who have been seriously hurt by others.

  • @susanterblanche1809
    @susanterblanche1809 2 года назад +1

    Thank you very much! Great video.💯🔥

  • @144stricken8
    @144stricken8 2 года назад

    The best thing to do with friends and family that try to make life hard for you pray for them and go to own way

  • @TheRedDevil_NC
    @TheRedDevil_NC 2 года назад

    Words to live by. Left my wife after years of blatant disrespect. Its like they dare you to do it because of the financial ramifications. Leave and go no contact, kids or not, or you will slowly lose whatever self worth you have left.

  • @thevaultkeeper
    @thevaultkeeper 2 года назад

    Great video. This hit me at the right time.

  • @nichochan8681
    @nichochan8681 2 года назад +1

    I see he's got the Tide merch on.

  • @Blegh855
    @Blegh855 2 года назад +1

    God bless you Terry

  • @m.scarborough6885
    @m.scarborough6885 2 года назад +2

    Thank you bro

  • @olaitsana2952
    @olaitsana2952 2 года назад

    I here you..they turn on you when you start you tube, for example ..whatch out for the green eyed monsters and Narrcicists they can be so nice..and get off on bringing you down..This is mostly family for me with so much jealousy..stay strong all💖

  • @SaritWorld
    @SaritWorld 2 года назад

    Thank you so much brother. Unfortunately your words resonate deeply with me. You are accurate in my view.
    I know what you mean and sadly i must let them go.
    Thank you for saying it how it is.
    Better to be alone than surrounded by enemies.

  • @planethumanitarian1215
    @planethumanitarian1215 2 года назад +2

    Yes true they are shocked I cut them off
    Like the Queen in Alice in wonderland

  • @loversmoreno6382
    @loversmoreno6382 2 года назад +1

    The problem Is .... Its my family 😌

  • @staceydelbucchia2576
    @staceydelbucchia2576 2 года назад +2

    It's demonic...I praise God y give him glory...God bless you Bro...thank you y have a great weekend🙏💙🤗

  • @The6lackSh33p
    @The6lackSh33p 2 года назад

    Sometimes it's best to let go 💯‼️

  • @Gnuts78
    @Gnuts78 2 года назад

    👍Very good advice thanks for putting a feather in the Caps of your viewers💪

  • @vivianelle.6084
    @vivianelle.6084 2 года назад

    I love dogs too. I have two and volunteer at a no kill sancuary walking them.

  • @sumaiyahakoojee5718
    @sumaiyahakoojee5718 2 года назад +1

    We have no control of other people's thoughts and feelings and life..but we have control over our own lives. so it's true if they don't respect you and your property you have to cut the rope and hand them over to their creator..because if you don't they will always invade into your dimension and space with out your permission..forgive them smile buy them a little present and walk away...

  • @philu4621
    @philu4621 2 года назад

    Man i felt the maturity rise out of me at work tonight...and i can just see these guys hatred for me...its like for God's sake I spent most of my life living with REAL brain trauma and always reading or watching videos like this...I think anyone who put in that kind of work deserves to rise...its like damn guys can you please let me breathe and take your bitter hands off of my throat (metaphorically)...bring it Terry this is good stuff...helping young men navigate through all the bs obstacles we have thrown at us by cowards and wicked selfish men... amen bro

  • @amitasharma4770
    @amitasharma4770 2 года назад

    Thank you for the vids, we must educate our children daughters and sons to be with Goodness and Good ppl, also in general deserving ppl who are ready listen and some who are awaken or are coming into this awareness, Thank you so much for the videos and inspiring stories and words of strength Nameste

  • @SurroundedByClowns1926
    @SurroundedByClowns1926 2 года назад

    I’m always ready to receive your video’s champ and will always be ready the fact I’m always excited to hear from you says that we’re more or less the same maybe with some indifferences of ways in thinking/living and not all for the wrong reasons either ☺️☺️☺️

  • @katalynbabe
    @katalynbabe 2 года назад

    If it happens several times. Yes! Especially unwarranted! Unfortunately I've found it was mostly my family members. & frenemies
    & they're ALL Cutoff.

  • @SergioMunoz-ls8oj
    @SergioMunoz-ls8oj 2 года назад

    Your titles are on point.

  • @multi_verse8636
    @multi_verse8636 2 года назад

    And all the traits they denied us having is who we are

  • @ladyreepatton6342
    @ladyreepatton6342 2 года назад +4

    Thank you Terry☺️ so proud of you .💖 Blessings

  • @CREAMYRICAN
    @CREAMYRICAN 2 года назад +1

    He gave me everything except respect and some act right…

  • @tommythomas1166
    @tommythomas1166 2 года назад +1

    Bro! Literally... I've been seeing sparkles or something from the corner of my eye lol.... soon as you mentioned your eyes twitching... wtf.

  • @BurntPopcorns
    @BurntPopcorns 2 года назад

    Sporit of Judgement ...cast it out

  • @gailgray6653
    @gailgray6653 2 года назад

    I want an iced coffee 😊. I miss my dog so much, when he died it was like loosing a child. He was a huge white bull arab, he weighed more than me.❤. Thanks Joel, i could never grow weary of your talks.

  • @simplyme2926
    @simplyme2926 2 года назад

    I hears a power surge right before your twitch statement

  • @ashlierbz
    @ashlierbz 2 года назад

    This is facts

  • @tremainenelms2165
    @tremainenelms2165 2 года назад +1

    @TerryJoelJunior Nice Haircut

  • @kaisoofficial
    @kaisoofficial 2 года назад

    I literally love u

  • @annacassell8556
    @annacassell8556 2 года назад +1

    Can't stop laughing to get past that point lol

  • @CC-pu6qn
    @CC-pu6qn 2 года назад

    I don’t know about that dog thing. I had one last that was depressed, didn’t know what was what. Took good care of him, but kept trying to get free, unlocked our door and exposed us to be victimized.

  • @pamelagunn234
    @pamelagunn234 2 года назад +1

    Last thing I'll say is that I don't fat shame. I point out that overweight people who believe that life is that much harder for them aren't always right. Pretty people can get hurt as much and suffer as much or more as an overweight person. Comparison is never wise but there are plenty of people who have no problem assuming a pretty girl has it made or is lacking quality and depth.

  • @dividedwefall652
    @dividedwefall652 2 года назад

    Because they have put me in a position that I have to depend on them

  • @sibiria8816
    @sibiria8816 2 года назад

    Wow im just speechless what a tragedy This is i had no idea maaan 😇