Here’s what I do... It comes natural Walk with confident swagger Great posture Confidence Smile and joke Look them in the eye regardless who it is, man woman or child Be his equal (feminine confidence) Dress in classy fitting clothes Be able yo carry a conversation Listen, listen, listen Have values and boundaries Never touch a man even innocently I don’t know Never dumb down myself by agreeing when I don’t
Being the best version of my self every day. Enjoying myself, learning new hobbies and creative activities, spending quality time with others and with myself, keeping fit and healthy, being femenine but strong and confident... 💖💖💖
I am so pumped up about your videos. Been single for 10 yrs. Just started dating recently & implemented some of your advice. I am having a great time. I never thought it would happen for me at my age, 58 yrs-Wow
You hit hit the nail on the head. We have to fully embrace ourselves and show who we are. I was often criticized by men that I am too outgoing and bold. But hey, this is what I truely am and someone will be able to appreciate it. Thanks a lot for the clarification!
In the Mddle East countries ( mostly GCC countries ) women and men cover with Abayas for women and men wear Kanduras... so here it’s religious beliefs and culture in nature . Courting evolves very slowly for non traditional courting ways , such as those not in an arranged marriage . There are many meetings together and some with introductions by friends ... slower is better . So here the women exude their gorgeous smiles , their beautiful Arabic eyes , confident personalities and perfumed “Oud “bodies ... it’s an interesting and very effective part of culture and faith ... respect and conservative ways are a means to men wanting to look into who we are as potential partners ...
Sometimes our body type may not allow for tight clothing. On some women it looks ridiculous. If I were physically fit I would wear it. I dress in what looks right on me. It has nothing to do with lack of confidence. I do agree with the rest of them. My posture is tall, I smile, and I have no problem making eye contact. I greet people when I see them, even strangers.
😂😂😂 true that’s how I got a guy falling in love with me he wanted to get to the point in one time and I stopped him and told him no not just yet 😂😂 and some months later he is still into me with out getting the “point” 😅.
I try to wear fitted clothing but my mom body shames me for it. It makes me feel a little bit fat. But deep down I know I'm beautiful. Especially since I believe my mom is gorgeous and I happened to look a lot like her.
I totally agree with you 💯. Who wants to approach someone that looks sad, hurt, unfriendly. I am learning to put the past hurts in my rear view mirror be happy and move on.💪💪
Thank you!! I'm at 1:04 and going out of my mind... Another 2 mins would have had me twitching like a psychopath. Oh god, and another 1:34 mins for first tip. Dang... This shit better be good. ;)
I've been told I was beautiful since I was a young child! I speak & carry myself with high esteem, but if a man stares at me I find it irritating! I wear what I feel comfortable in! I'm a happily married bodybuilder! I have the eyes of my husband & his eyes are all I want!!!
I actually want to say this is so true..i just turned 36 and have just recently changed my whole outlook..everyday i am grateful, i am in an extroverted zone, kind to everyone, happy and confident, and take care of my body and mind, and it is unbelievable how good men flock to me and the men that cannot handle a good woman turn away..but this is all true what you are saying..
Very much needed topic for many woman. Society is lowering our confidence in so many ways... I have noticed that I am afraid to show my beauty, I hide it being tall and beautiful by nature... seriously? Not anymore!
Tight clothes is often considered sleazy here in the UK. Especially on mature women. We call it" mutton dressed as lamb." I wear what I'm comfortable in to suit the occasion. Feel more confident that way.
I actually have this and it’s what I always tell women that confidence is so important. It’s obviously easier when your a naturally beautiful person but even a beautiful person can be unattractive if they don’t have any confidence in themselves. I don’t care about the comparisons because I know I am beautiful and natural and strong minded and I also love Jesus and he gives you a whole different perspective on the world and why we are here anyways.
This is so honest and real. And I want to give a big HELL YES to all the women that have overcome some of their most challenging insecurities and setbacks, and made the choice to embody their femininity, and power. It takes work! This is what a high value woman embodies ^^. Thanks for sharing!
I loved this video. I wish I would’ve gotten this information when I was younger. Thank you so much! You are so helpful and uplifting. My mindset and confidence have already improved from watching your videos. In fact, I’m getting ready to break up with my boyfriend of almost five years because I deserve to be valued and treated right and I should’ve done it a long time ago.
Oh my gosh, YES! Please do a more detailed video on how to repel men! I'd prefer no strangers approach and harass me without having to look angry or internally dislike myself. Liking yourself, feeling great, and NOT having strangers make aggressive advances... THAT formula would. Be. Awesome.
Modesty in the way you dress should not repel men . In fact modestly doesn’t say anything about confidence at all. Biologically Men are looking for shiny hair, clear skin and eyes , those biological markers for health and fertility. Dressing in tight clothing and being provocative in that way is more likely to attract the wrong men than the right ones .
Omg! I love all your videos no matter how long your intro is bc I love learning and picking up things from other people's experiences. I try to focus on my strengths when I get insecure/jealous about other women. Confidence if something I don't have growing up but I'm working on it. When I put a new set of clean clothes everyday, that's when confidence come into play and that makes me feel great.
I really liked when u mentioned that if we appreciate and admire a beautiful art, a beautiful thing, etc then why not appreciate and like and even admire ourselves.... what a great insight!!!! Now I am learning to appreciate, to admire more myself (and still know and feel humble). After all, IT IS part of being CONFIDENT! Wow! I am already liking myself more now!!!!
These are the things that attract men: A youthful look, a warm smile, being interested in him and his story, faith in God, ability to love, kindness. Like yourself and show it in your grooming and in the clothing you wear.
U HIT IT RIGHT ON THE NAIL!! SOCIETY & SOCIAL MEDIA GIVES US A FALSE SENSE OF WHO WE SHOULD BE! VERY DETREMENTAL & UNREALISTIC! WE MUST STRIVE TO JUST BE THE BEST VERSION OF OURSELF! 🧞♂️ BE UR OWN KIND OF BEAUTIFUL! 🧞♀️
Girls listen up! Do not try to dumb yourself down or act to passive, trust me if a guy is intimated by your intellect, assertive manner or even being fit/strong, then he probably has a fragile ego and is not worth your time. I myself do boxing and I would consider myself to have a confident laid back attitude and ever since I stopped fearing I'm going to be to muscular/to masculine, I've had what you'd call 'high quality men' interested in me! I there is a video on power poses for woman that really helped me gain men's respect.
Sometimes when someone that is having a hard time excepting themselves or what is happening around them it's good to hear words in repetition. So it sinks in... God has his way of speaking through others.
@@yakdhaneworld9235 True that! Unfortunately, some of us can't even get to that level with men to give them the 3! Jason's attempting to get us to that point. Appreciate his effort!
I'm about the same size as you. I do that all the time too & it truly seems like some men have no problem with it. I also run into ppl I haven't seen in years who also had crush on me in H.S, wearing loose jean's & a simple T-shirt. These guys will not care at all. I'm also soooo clueless as to why some women think they need a certain outfit to make them appear confident. You should already feel that way.
I followed your words And it's great Help for me to attract the Man, whom i wanted to be with for lifetime, now I'm getting married, these were not the only but many other things you suggested, thanks Jason . Really great help
The way you describe “wear tight clothes” sounds like buying into the concept that only physically beautiful women who have the figure to wear tight clothes deserve to find a match. Why not say “wear clothes that flatter your figure” or “wear clothes that accentuate your curves”?
Women are always being told that they're doing things wrong, when did men get so blooming sensitive. Women have to jump through hoops to get a man it seems. Jeeze!
And if you actually get one, it is still hella tiring with them in a relationship, and most of the time you have to jump through loops there too. I don't have that problem, men generally treat me like shit, lol.
More importantly is that a person wears cloth she is happy with. Do not wear cloth that is tight or unmodest... just wear pretty clothing but that show confidence that is beautiful that show self...too many women dress horrible inmodest... do not follow the flow
You are so right, Jason! Being true to who you are and loving it, is the greatest beauty treatment there is! Thank you for your extremely wonderful and helpful videos. God bless!
so yeah.. I was in this mindset, and I attracted the most amazing man, but as I've been in a relationship with him for almost 5 months now, I have started to lose this amazing mindset, I started doubting myself, caring less about myself and more about him.. and unfortunately I have noticed he is taking me a bit for granted. Don't take me wrong he really loves me and all, but I have lost my high mindset quality value, and he can definitely feel and notice that, so to all the ladies out there, even if you have attracted the man of your dreams with this mindset, don't let it go, continue to take care of yourself and your own path and you will see amazing results and he will never stop pursuing you ❤️
Sometimes we're depressed when we've been told we're not good enough when we're young. It's not true. We're all perfectly made and perfectly who we're meant to be. DYT, (dressing your truth) is a great resource to understanding your best colors, style and personality and embracing you.
I have been researching "things that attract men" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - *4WhatHeWants. Com* Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got amazing results with it.?
You are also saying without saying-let go of judgments-of yourself and others and the current circumstance. If you let go of judgments you feel beautiful and feel and exude love. Our minds can’t have 2 incongruent thoughts-so in the clothing-you are saying you love and take care of yourself and don’t judge your body. And you said it well-if we want to have the connection and bond-we need to also bring this to the table-you can only experience love at the Level you give to yourself. The looking away and posture is also a place of judgement and-you don’t believe you are worth the attention and adoration. I am here, I am present and I can love being right here, right now. I can and do love life. That’s the appreciation and gratitude attitude. Say it often when you’re anxious or worried ladies!! Worry is a fear of judgment.
Not sure if that's a promotional spiel but saying that "you probably doing the attracting thing wrong" alienates rather than enticing the viewer to be in a listening mode. Just my thoughts always with good intentions 👂
Ginga Fairbairn yes I didn’t like the gross over generalisations that 99% of women repel men etc. like seriously where’s the research to back up those stats?
In my early 20s and figured all this out way before anyone else my age did. I'm single but it feels good to finally have people chase me instead of the other way around.
This has been a REALLY helpful, affirming video. It makes a lot of sense and in particular, helps me feel more hopeful about another relationship. I have begun thinking I don't know how to date or communicate with men in a romantic way anymore since my husband died. It's been 7 years and I feel ready but I seem to be doing something wrong. This video really helped me and I'm going to keep coming back to it. Thank you!
I absolutely loved that you made this video. As woman I meet all types of people. Quiet, loud,intelligent, not so intelligent but one thing I notice with people in general is that confidence to believe in whatever it is and stand ground just isn’t there. I’ve been very overweight, overweight, slim and not that slim and I just said this today to a friend in all the different phases the one thing that remained constant was MYSELF! So since this is my body and no one else’s I’ve got to appreciate, take care and love it! But I’ve been this way after being in 1 relationship that tore my worth down psychologically I was only 14 married at 18 wi 1 child. The power that my ex husband had over me was so bad that it got me to fear allowing my true self to be seen. So as I regained more acceptance for myself over the years I discovered that all the differences that I possessed were valuable. Because there isn’t another me in this world. I’m naturally pretty bubbly and always smiling but that’s because I believe that the world has many beautiful things and beings are one of them so let yourself best side show and so I do. ♥️
so basically be confident in yourself and love yourself. we can do this girls!! i do everything but confidence 100% the time, dancers know that posture is important ;
Yikes. I am guilty of making alot of these mistakes. I think I subconsciously believe that being confident is the same is being arrogant, but it's not. I'm definitely gonna try to work on #1 and #2.
I seriously needed this type of advice 😂 . I am 33 yrs old still single , shy , highly introvert that i dont even talk to unknown ppl . whatever you said should not be done , i do most of the time 😅 no eye contact , slouching . Imagining all that thinks to do scares me a lot . Can you make a vedio on ppl who are introverts as how to start open communication , how to flirt with a guy 😅.
KingdomArjun Arjun Hi when I was 61 years old and a widow I lost 65 pounds by walking in a nearby park. Brought my weight down to a normal weight. As I walked I repeated to myself this mantra. I am beautiful I am sexy I am loved Ok I said this too.... Men fall in love with me. Guess what??? It worked! Seriously it’s mind over matter. Another one I’d say is I am confident! I’m now married to a handsome man 3 years younger that is a former Green Beret. I’m now 66 and married him this past February 2019 He’s telling you the truth. You can do this! Good luck, you are beautiful, sexy and loved! ♥️
My problem is different 😅 . I am highly beautiful , just dont want unwanted attention or fall in trap of play boys ( these are types which waste your time a lot ) 😑 .
I have found that being me, not being fake or something I'm not has attracted more men. I am already confident, I like who I am, I dress in what I like, yes my clothes fit well, but not tight. I also have a positive attitude and genuinely love life and who I am.
Hello Jason, great video on being an authentic human being and being confident and proud of oneself-- supermodel mindset. Showing up for ourselves and in the world, making an impact, adding value for our relationships, and little things- like smiling sometimes, initiating eye contact and being open to talking more and expressing oneself...I used to be a shy introvert and it kept me invisible in my family and other relationships, now I am more balanced and enjoy having conversations and expressing with others about my own life and thoughts-- I feel this in a way set me free!
OMFG why should certain clothes make a woman feel confident.Women should feel confident in any type of clothing. Men see a woman with tight clothes, the reason they get attracted to us is cuz of our body shape & color we have on. If you have a hour glass, plus-size body or etc. Nowadays, men don't just go for women who have hour- glass body's or skinny women. Some guys like curvaceous bodies too. Colors are very psychological. Black is a color for mysterious, confidence, power and more...!! Red is a color of passion, love, anger, White is a color of purity, peace, spirituality and more. That's why men get soooo attracted to us, when they see certain types of colors on us and the well- fitted clothes we have on.
I have the head knowledge of these tips, but practicing it is a different story. However, the way you presented this information motivates me to exercise these tips.
THIS IS THE SECOND TIME I LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO! YES, IT'S SO TRUE, I FEEL BEAUTIFUL, I AM BEAUTIFUL AFFIRMATIONS WORK LIKE MAGIC! IT ALSO HAS THIS MAGNETIC PULL, WHICH BRING OUT OUR INNER BEAUTY AS WELL! IM IN A BAR, OFTEN QUIETLY LISTENING TO MUSIC, MEN APPROACH ME, WITHOUT ANY EFFORT ON MY PART! I JUST FEEL CONFIDENT TO JUST BE MYSELF, SMILE ENJOY OUR CONVERSATION! NO ONE & NOTHING IN LIFE IS A WASTE OF TIME! RIGHT NOW, IM EXACTLY WHERE I NEED TO BE!
The thing about being confident and loving who you are is great in catching the eye of men, but I have found once you are in a relationship, they try to degrade that very part of you. This is what keeps me from getting back into the dating scene.
@@noodlep2547 I agree about choosing the wrong men, but the issue in the beginning is they are very proud of my confidence until we are in a committed relationship, then starts the under-handed degrading remarks. I feel I have been tricked. I don't know how to test if they are authentic in what they say or do.
@@grit7733 This I obviously realize. The issue is in the beginning, they are very proud of my confidence until we are in a committed relationship, then starts the under-handed degrading remarks. I feel I have been tricked. I don't know how to test if they are authentic in what they say or do.
At 6.35, what if Im at an outdoor event where there will be lots of elegible men, but its icy cold out. Am I not supposed to wear a coat and muffler? Think about it...
In sum: be confident!!! And in order to be confident, you'll have to love + know yourself first!!! So if you haven't learnt that yet, don't even waste your time watching this video, work on yourself first, then come back!!!
I am 47. I've had three children no stretch marks on my tummy. I have beautiful curves. I wear tight clothing. Women hate me. Overtime that had beat up my self-esteem. I've had men turn their nose up and say that they like conservative women. I don't feel like I used to.
Great video, Jason, much appreciated. Now can you make another video where you teach women how to politely say no to all the men who would take their genuine friendly smile and confident posture as a sure sign the woman is open and willing to be approached. Over and over and over again, the smallest sign of friendliness and openness from a woman is take to signify sexual interests and men need very little encouragement to act on their impulses. Every woman has been there one too many times in her life, and therefore avoiding eye contact, wearing loose clothing and seeming shut off are actually way women employ to fend off unwanted sexual interest from men who mistake friendly, open postures and behavior as come-hither invitations.
I fell in love with a homeless man because he took wonderful care of me when we were friends, after I did not get as good of treatment and he started treating me wrong to keep me down instead of step up to future responsibility. I became embarrassed to be with him, and broke up with him on my birth month, but Im glad thats the same month I learned of Jason Silvers uplifting information who reminds me of my twin sister!
You are absolutely brilliant! I love how you pay homage to inspiration through secret messages (maybe just in my head). You are such a kind, giving, soul and your sense of urgency and unconditional love imbued in your video truly hit home. You open hearts and minds with your generous words of wisdom. You are one of a kind. Thank you for this wonderful contribution to society.
Not all of us have nice bodies? So how do we attract when we are not fit? I don’t need a fit man I’m looking fo someone who isn’t all about sex. Sex is great but I don’t have a great body so how can I do this with an unhealthy body?
Extroversion and introversion don't have anything to do with verbal liberty or posture :) Some extroverts act secluded, and some introverts carry themselves and communicate well. It's just a matter of how we charge energy and processes information. I can be confident and present, but I'll never be an extrovert.
Actually, some men have really enjoyed my introverted nature, it's "intriguing". Plus, I don't even mean to seem non-clingy, but I naturally recede into my own hobbies and interests as a comfortable state. It gives me heathly distance with people and men pursue me HARD whenever they've been interested. I don't need to actively *try* to be independent and appealing. I'm not trying to be arrogant, I hope it doesn't sound like that. It's just that I believe introverted women (should they find their confidence and maturity) actually have an edge over extroverts. Extroverts seem to get a handle on life quickly (in early 20s), but introverts seem to take longer. However, there's more of a "fully baked" quality to introverts once they learn to handle social situations with grace, and less need for "damage control".
I had to comment on this. The ending of this video is beyond encouraging. Seriously made me pumped to go out and do great things in the world and for others with my unique talents God gave me. Great tips too. Thanks!!
The only problem I see with that and I'm speaking from my own personal experience as when I'm walking down a hallway or I'm at the grocery store and I see an attractive man I'm not wanting to make overall eye contact because I'm thinking to myself what if he's married I don't want to look like a home worker or I don't want to feel that way with someone that I don't know that well in that will make me break that I contact because I don't know what his marital status is and I don't want to seem forward or uncaring or trying to break somebody up
It is all in the eyes. It should be as simple as "good morning". Look them in the eye with a smile and think "good morning". Now, look away. One down and more to go.
There is nothing wrong with giving eye contact. What if he is not married? You won’t find out by being afraid. He will just smile back and keep walking or if he is not married and he is interested then he will say something. But you need to be confident in yourself
I've been doing all of these with the mindset except the tight clothing (even though I have a really nice figure) because I feel colder than normal people. However, as summer is here I'm gonna start wearing less layers and see what happens
I like your videos, and you, yet as many have said, don't appreciate the super long, repetitive intro. You could reach your 10+ minute monetization length by keeping the intro shorter (and keeping our interest) while adding more quality substance in the middle. That way you can still be paid for views and have better viewer retention. Just a thought 😊
Men mostly tend to step into competition with a woman of supermodel type or want them as a trophy. I have been there. I learn how to play more stupid than I really am. It works as men are full of insecurities. Our life is short and high value SINGLE men in their forties (Is it even possible to come across one like this?) who can recognise the value of woman and want to commit are extremly rare species ☺.
I've been recently coming into my own, and feel really good that, unknowingly, I have four out of five of these locked down! (Need to up the ante on that posture 🤓).Thank you sooo much!
I did all these naturally because I love to dress up like a supermodel..he adores me when he sees me but he still takes off and hide when he wants he comes out to ask if he can come to have a relationship..typical acquarious man..
What do YOU do to exude sensual confidence?
Smile touch him a lot tell him i agree a lot with him and stay close to him than anyone else in the room
I smile a lot when I am in the grocery store. Not everyone will make eye contact with me but at least I try.
Being your best self, being humble and thankful for another day. Great video thanks =)
Here’s what I do...
It comes natural
Walk with confident swagger
Great posture
Confidence
Smile and joke
Look them in the eye regardless who it is, man woman or child
Be his equal (feminine confidence)
Dress in classy fitting clothes
Be able yo carry a conversation
Listen, listen, listen
Have values and boundaries
Never touch a man even innocently I don’t know
Never dumb down myself by agreeing when I don’t
Being the best version of my self every day. Enjoying myself, learning new hobbies and creative activities, spending quality time with others and with myself, keeping fit and healthy, being femenine but strong and confident... 💖💖💖
Most women don't want to "attract men", we want to attract and be attracted to the 'right man'.
✌🏽❤️💣
I live in my truth and if he doesn't like me being myself, I tell him goodbye.
Agreed and bye bye yes
True
I am so pumped up about your videos. Been single for 10 yrs. Just started dating recently & implemented some of your advice. I am having a great time. I never thought it would happen for me at my age, 58 yrs-Wow
You hit hit the nail on the head. We have to fully embrace ourselves and show who we are.
I was often criticized by men that I am too outgoing and bold. But hey, this is what I truely am and someone will be able to appreciate it. Thanks a lot for the clarification!
Yes! #PowerOfPolarity
@Nisha Rajah they were intimidated by you confidence.
Oh my god dont listen to them the first thing I have noticed in u is ur pic beautiful 😍
Nisha Rajah exactly, I am bold and outspoken but sweet and honest. And that is the kind of guy I attracted.
Concept: Have a Supermodel Mindset
1-Wear tight clothing
2-Eye Contact
3-Have a good posture
4-Smile
5-Being verbally free
Some heroes don't wear capes. Thanks. This dude is rambling on and on and on. Jesus christ 😒
Theinsomniac826 I like him anyway 😉 I like to listen to his voice 😊
God, thank you. 🙏🏼
Exactly x
In the Mddle East countries ( mostly GCC countries ) women and men cover with Abayas for women and men wear Kanduras... so here it’s religious beliefs and culture in nature . Courting evolves very slowly for non traditional courting ways , such as those not in an arranged marriage . There are many meetings together and some with introductions by friends ... slower is better . So here the women exude their gorgeous smiles , their beautiful Arabic eyes , confident personalities and perfumed “Oud “bodies ... it’s an interesting and very effective part of culture and faith ... respect and conservative ways are a means to men wanting to look into who we are as potential partners ...
Sometimes our body type may not allow for tight clothing. On some women it looks ridiculous. If I were physically fit I would wear it. I dress in what looks right on me. It has nothing to do with lack of confidence. I do agree with the rest of them. My posture is tall, I smile, and I have no problem making eye contact. I greet people when I see them, even strangers.
But do show a little leg. It's nice to see.
Here’s something that turns guys and girls off: Not getting to the point.
Sooo funny.
🤣🤣🤣
Absolutely right
Yeah😂
😂😂😂 true that’s how I got a guy falling in love with me he wanted to get to the point in one time and I stopped him and told him no not just yet 😂😂 and some months later he is still into me with out getting the “point” 😅.
Supermodels are not the happiest women in the world
I think that an eye contact and a smile are necessary when you want to attract someone
I try to wear fitted clothing but my mom body shames me for it. It makes me feel a little bit fat. But deep down I know I'm beautiful. Especially since I believe my mom is gorgeous and I happened to look a lot like her.
I totally agree with you 💯. Who wants to approach someone that looks sad, hurt, unfriendly. I am learning to put the past hurts in my rear view mirror be happy and move on.💪💪
Actual video starts from 3:11
4.45 for first tip
God, thank You xD
Thank you!! I'm at 1:04 and going out of my mind... Another 2 mins would have had me twitching like a psychopath. Oh god, and another 1:34 mins for first tip. Dang... This shit better be good. ;)
Wordy ugg
He uses to many unnecessary words. I almost clicked off
He does a good job being both teacher and coach because he explains things fully. He's giving a lot..
I've been told I was beautiful since I was a young child! I speak & carry myself with high esteem, but if a man stares at me I find it irritating! I wear what I feel comfortable in! I'm a happily married bodybuilder! I have the eyes of my husband & his eyes are all I want!!!
We must first love ourselves so that others can love us equally.Let's try to look at ourselves as a person we like and work on what we don't like.
I actually want to say this is so true..i just turned 36 and have just recently changed my whole outlook..everyday i am grateful, i am in an extroverted zone, kind to everyone, happy and confident, and take care of my body and mind, and it is unbelievable how good men flock to me and the men that cannot handle a good woman turn away..but this is all true what you are saying..
Very much needed topic for many woman. Society is lowering our confidence in so many ways... I have noticed that I am afraid to show my beauty, I hide it being tall and beautiful by nature... seriously? Not anymore!
Tight clothes is often considered sleazy here in the UK. Especially on mature women. We call it" mutton dressed as lamb."
I wear what I'm comfortable in to suit the occasion. Feel more confident that way.
😂🤣😄
I'm in my sixties and a little overweight so I would never wear anything tight fitting.
michele davies I think he means fitted or tailored to your body as opposed to tight
He means something that fits your body type not a tight shirt and mini skirt just something that complements you
Feeling confident in what you wear trumps a generic "wear tight clothing" any day
I actually have this and it’s what I always tell women that confidence is so important. It’s obviously easier when your a naturally beautiful person but even a beautiful person can be unattractive if they don’t have any confidence in themselves. I don’t care about the comparisons because I know I am beautiful and natural and strong minded and I also love Jesus and he gives you a whole different perspective on the world and why we are here anyways.
I attract high quality guys, I'm just so damn picky. They have to have what I want and what I like and if they don't, next.
This is so honest and real. And I want to give a big HELL YES to all the women that have overcome some of their most challenging insecurities and setbacks, and made the choice to embody their femininity, and power. It takes work! This is what a high value woman embodies ^^. Thanks for sharing!
I loved this video. I wish I would’ve gotten this information when I was younger. Thank you so much! You are so helpful and uplifting. My mindset and confidence have already improved from watching your videos. In fact, I’m getting ready to break up with my boyfriend of almost five years because I deserve to be valued and treated right and I should’ve done it a long time ago.
I'm a dude; this checks out.
Same here LOL
he aint foolin nobody lol
Oh my gosh, YES! Please do a more detailed video on how to repel men!
I'd prefer no strangers approach and harass me without having to look angry or internally dislike myself.
Liking yourself, feeling great, and NOT having strangers make aggressive advances... THAT formula would. Be. Awesome.
Modesty in the way you dress should not repel men . In fact modestly doesn’t say anything about confidence at all. Biologically Men are looking for shiny hair, clear skin and eyes , those biological markers for health and fertility. Dressing in tight clothing and being provocative in that way is more likely to attract the wrong men than the right ones .
Omg! I love all your videos no matter how long your intro is bc I love learning and picking up things from other people's experiences. I try to focus on my strengths when I get insecure/jealous about other women. Confidence if something I don't have growing up but I'm working on it. When I put a new set of clean clothes everyday, that's when confidence come into play and that makes me feel great.
Your jacket is da bomb! Shows your form off perfectly and the cut and fabric are amazing. Wear it when you want the power position.
I really liked when u mentioned that if we appreciate and admire a beautiful art, a beautiful thing, etc then why not appreciate and like and even admire ourselves.... what a great insight!!!! Now I am learning to appreciate, to admire more myself (and still know and feel humble). After all, IT IS part of being CONFIDENT! Wow! I am already liking myself more now!!!!
These are the things that attract men: A youthful look, a warm smile, being interested in him and his story, faith in God, ability to love, kindness. Like yourself and show it in your grooming and in the clothing you wear.
U HIT IT RIGHT ON THE NAIL!!
SOCIETY & SOCIAL MEDIA GIVES US A FALSE SENSE OF WHO WE SHOULD BE! VERY DETREMENTAL & UNREALISTIC! WE MUST STRIVE TO JUST BE THE BEST VERSION OF OURSELF!
🧞♂️ BE UR OWN KIND OF BEAUTIFUL! 🧞♀️
7:46 i like that you admit your own personal faults that your not where you wanna be. It makes you more human and relatable and worth listening to.
Girls listen up! Do not try to dumb yourself down or act to passive, trust me if a guy is intimated by your intellect, assertive manner or even being fit/strong, then he probably has a fragile ego and is not worth your time.
I myself do boxing and I would consider myself to have a confident laid back attitude and ever since I stopped fearing I'm going to be to muscular/to masculine, I've had what you'd call 'high quality men' interested in me! I there is a video on power poses for woman that really helped me gain men's respect.
Love your videos. Too much repetitive words and thoughts in the beginning. Took 3 mins to get through the intro. 🤦🏾♀️
Totally agree. Working on becoming more pithy! Hopefully my newer videos keep getting better.
@@jasonsilveryt No, I was drinking in every word. You really have a gift! Don't change.
Man is not complecated look: give him this 3 things : respect 50%, sex 35% and foods 15% ==》 he will not leave you at all
Sometimes when someone that is having a hard time excepting themselves or what is happening around them it's good to hear words in repetition.
So it sinks in...
God has his way of speaking through others.
@@yakdhaneworld9235 True that! Unfortunately, some of us can't even get to that level with men to give them the 3! Jason's attempting to get us to that point. Appreciate his effort!
I am size 4 or 6, normal size. I wear loose clothes sometimes just because these are stylish. And it seems OK with men.
I'm about the same size as you. I do that all the time too & it truly seems like some men have no problem with it. I also run into ppl I haven't seen in years who also had crush on me in H.S, wearing loose jean's & a simple T-shirt. These guys will not care at all. I'm also soooo clueless as to why some women think they need a certain outfit to make them appear confident. You should already feel that way.
So 99% of women repel men? Geez. Hahahaha.
Is it that women repel men or are men just fickle and non committal.
@@jamilak8161 what do you bring to the table for that commitment
@@zero1188 willingness to support a guy, love, respect, a home, car and a great attitude. Any other suggestions?
@Ocean Flower l agree but zero asked me what I am bringing....
There are a bunch of cowards..dats where the problem is....thinkin of marrying myself in future😊
He starts to give the 5 secrects in the 4.44 minute!
I followed your words And it's great Help for me to attract the Man, whom i wanted to be with for lifetime, now I'm getting married, these were not the only but many other things you suggested, thanks Jason . Really great help
The way you describe “wear tight clothes” sounds like buying into the concept that only physically beautiful women who have the figure to wear tight clothes deserve to find a match. Why not say “wear clothes that flatter your figure” or “wear clothes that accentuate your curves”?
Charmed 6266 agreed
I think he said clothes that fit not tight. Am I wrong because a lot of comments are saying he said tight clothes but I heard clothes that fit you.
Holing your shoulders back, talking, and smiling is good advice for life including job interviews.
It’s better to be just who you are
Hear, hear. I wish some of my sisters out there would listen to this. Self love is everything. Love this. Good job.
Women are always being told that they're doing things wrong, when did men get so blooming sensitive. Women have to jump through hoops to get a man it seems. Jeeze!
😁😁😁👍
It is the same when trying to get a fucking job.
No, all you have to do is go out in public and look pretty. You have no idea the kind of thought we put into courtship.
And if you actually get one, it is still hella tiring with them in a relationship, and most of the time you have to jump through loops there too.
I don't have that problem, men generally treat me like shit, lol.
at least this dude is positive. men feel the same way about women i think.
More importantly is that a person wears cloth she is happy with. Do not wear cloth that is tight or unmodest... just wear pretty clothing but that show confidence that is beautiful that show self...too many women dress horrible inmodest... do not follow the flow
You are so right, Jason! Being true to who you are and loving it, is the greatest beauty treatment there is! Thank you for your extremely wonderful and helpful videos. God bless!
so yeah.. I was in this mindset, and I attracted the most amazing man, but as I've been in a relationship with him for almost 5 months now, I have started to lose this amazing mindset, I started doubting myself, caring less about myself and more about him.. and unfortunately I have noticed he is taking me a bit for granted. Don't take me wrong he really loves me and all, but I have lost my high mindset quality value, and he can definitely feel and notice that, so to all the ladies out there, even if you have attracted the man of your dreams with this mindset, don't let it go, continue to take care of yourself and your own path and you will see amazing results and he will never stop pursuing you ❤️
Thank u. Its hard to be confident when yr in depression . So ya i see a link there. Stay blessed.
Sometimes we're depressed when we've been told we're not good enough when we're young. It's not true. We're all perfectly made and perfectly who we're meant to be. DYT, (dressing your truth) is a great resource to understanding your best colors, style and personality and embracing you.
I LOVE what you said about only comparing yourself to yourself!
I have been researching "things that attract men" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - *4WhatHeWants. Com* Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got amazing results with it.?
Hello,I’m from India.I can say - reading, begin classy and a better updated version of yourself is a key ingredients
You are also saying without saying-let go of judgments-of yourself and others and the current circumstance. If you let go of judgments you feel beautiful and feel and exude love. Our minds can’t have 2 incongruent thoughts-so in the clothing-you are saying you love and take care of yourself and don’t judge your body.
And you said it well-if we want to have the connection and bond-we need to also bring this to the table-you can only experience love at the Level you give to yourself.
The looking away and posture is also a place of judgement and-you don’t believe you are worth the attention and adoration.
I am here, I am present and I can love being right here, right now. I can and do love life. That’s the appreciation and gratitude attitude. Say it often when you’re anxious or worried ladies!!
Worry is a fear of judgment.
Not sure if that's a promotional spiel but saying that "you probably doing the attracting thing wrong" alienates rather than enticing the viewer to be in a listening mode. Just my thoughts always with good intentions 👂
Ginga Fairbairn yes I didn’t like the gross over generalisations that 99% of women repel men etc. like seriously where’s the research to back up those stats?
I am PROUD to say, I am 100% a supermodel who does ALL of these traits!!!
Good advice. “You can only compare yourself to your old self”. So true!!!
In my early 20s and figured all this out way before anyone else my age did. I'm single but it feels good to finally have people chase me instead of the other way around.
Annoyingly long intro
I agree! Sorry about that...I'll work on being more concise.
Yes too much waffling
Not really
Then dont watch it this video was great
@@jasonsilveryt Almost 3minutes.....
Awsome. Completely true. I have grown so much in the past 16 months. Loved your video! Great, confident teacher! Thank you
Your right it works if you want a high value man... Loved your content
This has been a REALLY helpful, affirming video. It makes a lot of sense and in particular, helps me feel more hopeful about another relationship. I have begun thinking I don't know how to date or communicate with men in a romantic way anymore since my husband died. It's been 7 years and I feel ready but I seem to be doing something wrong. This video really helped me and I'm going to keep coming back to it. Thank you!
I absolutely loved that you made this video. As woman I meet all types of people. Quiet, loud,intelligent, not so intelligent but one thing I notice with people in general is that confidence to believe in whatever it is and stand ground just isn’t there. I’ve been very overweight, overweight, slim and not that slim and I just said this today to a friend in all the different phases the one thing that remained constant was MYSELF! So since this is my body and no one else’s I’ve got to appreciate, take care and love it! But I’ve been this way after being in 1 relationship that tore my worth down psychologically I was only 14 married at 18 wi 1 child. The power that my ex husband had over me was so bad that it got me to fear allowing my true self to be seen. So as I regained more acceptance for myself over the years I discovered that all the differences that I possessed were valuable. Because there isn’t another me in this world. I’m naturally pretty bubbly and always smiling but that’s because I believe that the world has many beautiful things and beings are one of them so let yourself best side show and so I do. ♥️
so basically be confident in yourself and love yourself. we can do this girls!! i do everything but confidence 100% the time, dancers know that posture is important ;
Yikes. I am guilty of making alot of these mistakes. I think I subconsciously believe that being confident is the same is being arrogant, but it's not. I'm definitely gonna try to work on #1 and #2.
I seriously needed this type of advice 😂 . I am 33 yrs old still single , shy , highly introvert that i dont even talk to unknown ppl . whatever you said should not be done , i do most of the time 😅 no eye contact , slouching . Imagining all that thinks to do scares me a lot .
Can you make a vedio on ppl who are introverts as how to start open communication , how to flirt with a guy 😅.
KingdomArjun Arjun
Hi when I was 61 years old and a widow I lost 65 pounds by walking in a nearby park. Brought my weight down to a normal weight. As I walked I repeated to myself this mantra.
I am beautiful
I am sexy
I am loved
Ok I said this too....
Men fall in love with me.
Guess what???
It worked!
Seriously it’s mind over matter.
Another one I’d say is
I am confident!
I’m now married to a handsome man 3 years younger that is a former Green Beret.
I’m now 66 and married him this past February 2019
He’s telling you the truth.
You can do this!
Good luck, you are beautiful, sexy and loved! ♥️
My problem is different 😅 . I am highly beautiful , just dont want unwanted attention or fall in trap of play boys ( these are types which waste your time a lot ) 😑 .
KingdomArjun Arjun watch the other videos to learn how to avoid play boys
@@kingdomarjunarjun245 same Age , same attitude. Everybody tell that I am highly attractive. But I scares nices guys and I am afraid of bad ones;-))))
KingdomArjun Arjun...... you just described me to a T 🤣
I have found that being me, not being fake or something I'm not has attracted more men. I am already confident, I like who I am, I dress in what I like, yes my clothes fit well, but not tight. I also have a positive attitude and genuinely love life and who I am.
Incredible video, thank you so much xx
Be happy with who you are and confident. Different men like different types of women not just 1 percent.
Hello Jason, great video on being an authentic human being and being confident and proud of oneself-- supermodel mindset. Showing up for ourselves and in the world, making an impact, adding value for our relationships, and little things- like smiling sometimes, initiating eye contact and being open to talking more and expressing oneself...I used to be a shy introvert and it kept me invisible in my family and other relationships, now I am more balanced and enjoy having conversations and expressing with others about my own life and thoughts-- I feel this in a way set me free!
OMFG why should certain clothes make a woman feel confident.Women should feel confident in any type of clothing. Men see a woman with tight clothes, the reason they get attracted to us is cuz of our body shape & color we have on. If you have a hour glass, plus-size body or etc. Nowadays, men don't just go for women who have hour- glass body's or skinny women. Some guys like curvaceous bodies too. Colors are very psychological. Black is a color for mysterious, confidence, power and more...!! Red is a color of passion, love, anger, White is a color of purity, peace, spirituality and more. That's why men get soooo attracted to us, when they see certain types of colors on us and the well- fitted clothes we have on.
I have the head knowledge of these tips, but practicing it is a different story. However, the way you presented this information motivates me to exercise these tips.
THIS IS THE SECOND TIME I LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO!
YES, IT'S SO TRUE, I FEEL BEAUTIFUL, I AM BEAUTIFUL AFFIRMATIONS WORK LIKE MAGIC! IT ALSO HAS THIS MAGNETIC PULL, WHICH BRING OUT OUR INNER BEAUTY AS WELL!
IM IN A BAR, OFTEN QUIETLY LISTENING TO MUSIC, MEN APPROACH ME, WITHOUT ANY EFFORT ON MY PART!
I JUST FEEL CONFIDENT TO JUST BE MYSELF, SMILE ENJOY OUR CONVERSATION!
NO ONE & NOTHING IN LIFE IS A WASTE OF TIME!
RIGHT NOW, IM EXACTLY WHERE I NEED TO BE!
The thing about being confident and loving who you are is great in catching the eye of men, but I have found once you are in a relationship, they try to degrade that very part of you. This is what keeps me from getting back into the dating scene.
You're choosing the wrong men.
I agree with Grit; the best men will be proud of you ad your accomplishments, whatever they are . Don't lose heart - they are out there!
@@noodlep2547 I agree about choosing the wrong men, but the issue in the beginning is they are very proud of my confidence until we are in a committed relationship, then starts the under-handed degrading remarks. I feel I have been tricked. I don't know how to test if they are authentic in what they say or do.
@@grit7733 This I obviously realize. The issue is in the beginning, they are very proud of my confidence until we are in a committed relationship, then starts the under-handed degrading remarks. I feel I have been tricked. I don't know how to test if they are authentic in what they say or do.
@@MannyWC Find a man who seems less overtly proud of your confidence. Not degrading either, just doesn't mention it either way.
Great video and good distinctions on why these things matter: when I am authentic, I become confident and can grow more--this is based on self-love.
Apsolutly true. You can atract who ever you want, easily. Bravo
The supermodel mindset, as you call it, makes life soooo much more worth imo! That is how I operate most of the time and it make me feel alive. 😍
What we should know is that we are perfect in our imperfections
“Take more esteemable actions based on YOUR strengths...” That’s the best way to go. Thanks for reminding us to lean into best selves. So sweet.❤️
You can tell when a woman knows what she’s doing. That’s all a woman needs to show us.
Tottaly confortable to be myself , and yah we are powerful, pure beauty... And can't stop thinking like this. Rooooar
At 6.35, what if Im at an outdoor event where there will be lots of elegible men, but its icy cold out. Am I not supposed to wear a coat and muffler? Think about it...
In sum: be confident!!! And in order to be confident, you'll have to love + know yourself first!!! So if you haven't learnt that yet, don't even waste your time watching this video, work on yourself first, then come back!!!
I am 47. I've had three children no stretch marks on my tummy. I have beautiful curves. I wear tight clothing. Women hate me. Overtime that had beat up my self-esteem. I've had men turn their nose up and say that they like conservative women. I don't feel like I used to.
Great video, Jason, much appreciated. Now can you make another video where you teach women how to politely say no to all the men who would take their genuine friendly smile and confident posture as a sure sign the woman is open and willing to be approached. Over and over and over again, the smallest sign of friendliness and openness from a woman is take to signify sexual interests and men need very little encouragement to act on their impulses. Every woman has been there one too many times in her life, and therefore avoiding eye contact, wearing loose clothing and seeming shut off are actually way women employ to fend off unwanted sexual interest from men who mistake friendly, open postures and behavior as come-hither invitations.
I fell in love with a homeless man because he took wonderful care of me when we were friends, after I did not get as good of treatment and he started treating me wrong to keep me down instead of step up to future responsibility. I became embarrassed to be with him, and broke up with him on my birth month, but Im glad thats the same month I learned of Jason Silvers uplifting information who reminds me of my twin sister!
Thank you for no commercials, and for keeping it short.
You are absolutely brilliant! I love how you pay homage to inspiration through secret messages (maybe just in my head). You are such a kind, giving, soul and your sense of urgency and unconditional love imbued in your video truly hit home. You open hearts and minds with your generous words of wisdom. You are one of a kind. Thank you for this wonderful contribution to society.
Not all of us have nice bodies? So how do we attract when we are not fit? I don’t need a fit man I’m looking fo someone who isn’t all about sex. Sex is great but I don’t have a great body so how can I do this with an unhealthy body?
Extroversion and introversion don't have anything to do with verbal liberty or posture :) Some extroverts act secluded, and some introverts carry themselves and communicate well.
It's just a matter of how we charge energy and processes information. I can be confident and present, but I'll never be an extrovert.
Actually, some men have really enjoyed my introverted nature, it's "intriguing". Plus, I don't even mean to seem non-clingy, but I naturally recede into my own hobbies and interests as a comfortable state. It gives me heathly distance with people and men pursue me HARD whenever they've been interested. I don't need to actively *try* to be independent and appealing.
I'm not trying to be arrogant, I hope it doesn't sound like that. It's just that I believe introverted women (should they find their confidence and maturity) actually have an edge over extroverts. Extroverts seem to get a handle on life quickly (in early 20s), but introverts seem to take longer. However, there's more of a "fully baked" quality to introverts once they learn to handle social situations with grace, and less need for "damage control".
I had to comment on this. The ending of this video is beyond encouraging. Seriously made me pumped to go out and do great things in the world and for others with my unique talents God gave me. Great tips too. Thanks!!
Great video Jason, thank you. Being verbally free - is the most challenging for me. But I´m gonna try it!
The only problem I see with that and I'm speaking from my own personal experience as when I'm walking down a hallway or I'm at the grocery store and I see an attractive man I'm not wanting to make overall eye contact because I'm thinking to myself what if he's married I don't want to look like a home worker or I don't want to feel that way with someone that I don't know that well in that will make me break that I contact because I don't know what his marital status is and I don't want to seem forward or uncaring or trying to break somebody up
It is all in the eyes. It should be as simple as "good morning". Look them in the eye with a smile and think "good morning". Now, look away. One down and more to go.
There is nothing wrong with giving eye contact. What if he is not married? You won’t find out by being afraid. He will just smile back and keep walking or if he is not married and he is interested then he will say something. But you need to be confident in yourself
I've been doing all of these with the mindset except the tight clothing (even though I have a really nice figure) because I feel colder than normal people.
However, as summer is here I'm gonna start wearing less layers and see what happens
@@jasonsilveryt Aww that's cute ❤
#1 A woman with supermodel mindset - tight/fitted clothing showing curvature
#2 Eye contact
#3 Posture - chest open embracing the world, "I am here"
#4 Smiling - appreciation mode
#5 Verbally free - start talking
Darling you could have said all of this in 5 Mins. Great info but structure your stuff in a more palatable way. Thanks for the advice.
I like your videos, and you, yet as many have said, don't appreciate the super long, repetitive intro.
You could reach your 10+ minute monetization length by keeping the intro shorter (and keeping our interest) while adding more quality substance in the middle.
That way you can still be paid for views and have better viewer retention.
Just a thought 😊
Great video! I wholeheartedly agree...as a woman with a supermodel mindset I find it easy to stay in my feminine energy and that drives men wild!
Now I have to watch your 90- video playlist.
Men mostly tend to step into competition with a woman of supermodel type or want them as a trophy. I have been there. I learn how to play more stupid than I really am. It works as men are full of insecurities. Our life is short and high value SINGLE men in their forties (Is it even possible to come across one like this?) who can recognise the value of woman and want to commit are extremly rare species ☺.
I love how you explain the video. Its so precise even if your talking fast.
Thanks for the challenge.
I've been recently coming into my own, and feel really good that, unknowingly, I have four out of five of these locked down! (Need to up the ante on that posture 🤓).Thank you sooo much!
I do feel confident and am happy with myself I believe I will get someone eventually I'm just expanding my social circle at the moment
I did all these naturally because I love to dress up like a supermodel..he adores me when he sees me but he still takes off and hide when he wants he comes out to ask if he can come to have a relationship..typical acquarious man..
Thank you Jason,
You 're Amazon,
I'm learning a lot from your videos.