Speaking of nerding out... Great video! God bless you both :) I was like a giddy schoolgirl when I saw you two did this video together! Limerence happened with my childrens father and his affair partner. He chose her & divorced me last year thinking the grass is greener with her. I'm a standing spouse and Marriage Helper has helped me understand his behavior & my behavior, put the pieces together in my mind and come up with a game plan to stand for our marriage even in the midst of divorce & limerence. As a person of faith, I find forgiveness as you both mentioned in this video is paramount. Learning about and working my PIES have also helped me tremendously! Yay PIES!
Infidelity is a very subjective thing. One person might consider a 1-on-1 meal with a person of the opposite sex a form of cheating, while another might see it as a friendly lunch. One person might see porn as an easy sexual outlet, the other might consider it as being unfaithful. It's not my (or anyone else's) job to decide what constitutes fidelity for you. It's up to you to decide what's ok and not ok in your relationship with your partner.
Speaking of nerding out...
Great video! God bless you both :)
I was like a giddy schoolgirl when I saw you two did this video together!
Limerence happened with my childrens father and his affair partner. He chose her & divorced me last year thinking the grass is greener with her.
I'm a standing spouse and Marriage Helper has helped me understand his behavior & my behavior, put the pieces together in my mind and come up with a game plan to stand for our marriage even in the midst of divorce & limerence.
As a person of faith, I find forgiveness as you both mentioned in this video is paramount. Learning about and working my PIES have also helped me tremendously! Yay PIES!
Thank you for the comment, and for sharing your story.
Sending you all the best. (I'll have her on again soon, I hope!)
So good! Thank you!
Pricilla is a fantastic MH coach!
Can A one time thing and micro/online cheating be considered an affair???? I seriously would like to know. 💙 💙
Infidelity is a very subjective thing.
One person might consider a 1-on-1 meal with a person of the opposite sex a form of cheating, while another might see it as a friendly lunch.
One person might see porn as an easy sexual outlet, the other might consider it as being unfaithful.
It's not my (or anyone else's) job to decide what constitutes fidelity for you. It's up to you to decide what's ok and not ok in your relationship with your partner.