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  • Опубликовано: 5 янв 2025

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  • @ToddVDating
    @ToddVDating  2 года назад +37

    Hope you enjoy this second sneak-peak behind the scenes of the recent Phoenix/Scottsdale program. This one is a bit more intimate and less "punchy" than the last one, but I think the information here is equally valuable... if not more so for a lot of my audience.

    • @zvigel3128
      @zvigel3128 2 года назад

      Hey Todd, the Online Dating Messaging Guide is still not sent out via E-Mail

    • @juicecaja
      @juicecaja 2 года назад

      Do you still do live coaching tours?

    • @Matlockization
      @Matlockization 2 года назад

      I thought I'd come back to your channel and like what I see.

  • @wrappedinblack8937
    @wrappedinblack8937 2 года назад +75

    I can't believe it has been over 5 years since Todd V has been on his own... time goes by

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery Месяц назад +1

    *Great conversations flow when you make the other person feel seen and understood. Techniques like mirroring, open-ended questions, and subtle humor can work wonders in keeping the dialogue engaging.*

  • @mco4972
    @mco4972 2 года назад +21

    Todd, you deserve so much for helping so many guys

  • @jarrettraymond7765
    @jarrettraymond7765 2 года назад +43

    So I’ve checked out Todd’s videos for a while and implemented a lot of his practices and I’ll tell you it has been fantastic results
    The only thing is, I realize that I have to implement the phrases and teases to my strengths and not as a script that he says

    • @jarrettraymond7765
      @jarrettraymond7765 2 года назад +4

      Use what he says as a foundation to create your own phrases that are working for you. And I mean “working” for you. Don’t use phrases that appear to be making things go bad

    • @ckbkid1
      @ckbkid1 2 года назад +1

      Exactly! Honestly I’ve consumed all his free content and I used his and a bunch of the other PUA and honestly my life changed completely I don’t use exactly what they say like a script but more of a foundation and play to my strengths and damn from where I was 7 years ago it’s night and day

    • @YungKingz__
      @YungKingz__ 2 года назад +3

      As long as you know the format of game you should be good..the phrase/verbiage are easier to come up with once you the format

  • @jaredtweed7826
    @jaredtweed7826 Год назад +7

    todd is the only one still teaching game. literally everyone else moved on to business instead (e.g. RSD Tyler, RSD Max, Valentino Kohen, etc)

    • @artesian12
      @artesian12 7 месяцев назад

      Kyle Froonjian is totally teaching game right now

  • @eia2704
    @eia2704 2 года назад +6

    I really appreciate this breakdown of what beginner, intermediate & advanced is. A better understanding of where you are

  • @arshie26
    @arshie26 3 месяца назад

    Todd just keeps giving these amazing technical/tactical roadmaps
    💯🙌

  • @hsmafro
    @hsmafro 2 года назад

    Just wanted to say thank you... All the way back from 2013 and still now a days... thank you.

  • @incognitoalister
    @incognitoalister 2 года назад +12

    I started my masculine journey with Todd like 4 years ago… been thru kevin samuels andrew tate f&f AMS etc…. Never saw myself getting as good as i am now and im still just 25 getting started lol good luck gents; never quit

    • @aptek3967
      @aptek3967 Год назад

      Redditor

    • @xjoemallardx
      @xjoemallardx 3 месяца назад +1

      Todd actually likes women unlike those other clowns.

  • @Thunderfistboxing
    @Thunderfistboxing Год назад

    Your advices are gold my friend..Since i started game my life changed to the best!

  • @xXHotaroXx
    @xXHotaroXx 2 года назад +6

    Hey Todd - that's the best thumbnail in the last 20 videos of yours so far.
    Looks clean - very clear message and good style ! Best of all, doesn't look so gimmicky.

  • @TheRawlings
    @TheRawlings 2 года назад +1

    Love the new format!

  • @gameing1613
    @gameing1613 2 года назад +1

    Appreciate the consistent content more then u may ever know todd

  • @ReeceJulie
    @ReeceJulie Год назад +1

    I love this hairstyle for you. You looked like Modric for a sec.

  • @crazymusicman13
    @crazymusicman13 Год назад

    @7:28
    When the narcissist just openly looks for targets

  • @dangalt9802
    @dangalt9802 2 года назад

    nice to see you live!)

  • @softcoverbat2769
    @softcoverbat2769 2 года назад +2

    Todd looking like his RSD counterpart

  • @Faeriefungus
    @Faeriefungus 2 года назад +3

    Fav pua 4 sure

  • @eraserhead9252
    @eraserhead9252 2 года назад +2

    The only one that is still in game

  • @ZombieEnjoyer13
    @ZombieEnjoyer13 2 года назад +3

    I fucking love you Todd.

    • @captainalex157
      @captainalex157 Год назад

      he is that uncle every boy needs

    • @JamJar61RS
      @JamJar61RS Год назад

      he's literally single handedly changed my life in less than a year

  • @prof.puggle1631
    @prof.puggle1631 Год назад

    I do wonder though, about how one really draws up the most complete and concise cost/benefit time limit per set? (eg. I go on 20min tops in my first interaction, then break away even if taxi home was an option right then and there, maybe 10-15min in). At this stage, I'm all plan A, every time [I don't actually believe in having a plan B in general, to be fair] and so yes a blowout pangs therefore, even if I did pull 1 or 2 sets later, with why not an even better outcome in the end.. 🤔

    • @prof.puggle1631
      @prof.puggle1631 Год назад

      Like today, my best set was my first set. Yet, my first set had the worst outcome.. [Over theorising?]

  • @northsand
    @northsand 2 года назад +2

    Todd you have to take care of your physical form. Game is not just about looks but you have to set the right example for your students.

    • @emilifutgol
      @emilifutgol Год назад

      He's a dating / game coach. Not a fitness coach

    • @masamangtao6417
      @masamangtao6417 Год назад +4

      To be fair, if he is successful without optimized looks, it says even more about the effectiveness of his game

  • @infinitymusiceurope
    @infinitymusiceurope 2 года назад

    Amazing!

  • @masamangtao6417
    @masamangtao6417 Год назад

    It's funny how these techniques in "advanced game" are based on simulating a situation where you're not sure about the girl, you're evaluating her, disqualifying her, etc... But recently, I keep ending up on dates where that is ACTUALLY the case-I don't like her enough, I'm genuinely concerned about some red flags she has, etc... and it's not a good thing lol.

  • @fred3000
    @fred3000 7 месяцев назад

    Value in this vid is insane

  • @Bumble-Beee
    @Bumble-Beee Год назад

    King!

  • @prof.puggle1631
    @prof.puggle1631 Год назад

    I did my 3 today. One agreed dinner same eve! Nice
    Sample size.. yes indeed 😉

  • @CrusaderSlick
    @CrusaderSlick 2 года назад

    I have a question about teasing. If I for example ask a girl if she rides and she responds negativly I can obviously just say that I was talking about horses and that I'm not that easy. But what do I do if she responds positivly? "Yeah I do ;)". Should I still play hard to get or should I accept the frame? Thanks, Slick.

    • @SUBSCRlB3D
      @SUBSCRlB3D Год назад

      If she says yeah, keep going. You're on the right track.

  • @usphenckz
    @usphenckz 2 года назад

    bro, you gotta make a book of game.

  • @SuperSymbiote1
    @SuperSymbiote1 2 года назад

    What is an Ivory tower in game?

  • @andyreidsmustache9247
    @andyreidsmustache9247 2 года назад +2

    Todd speaks facts. I was too push pull hard to get with a solid 8. yea well. But even subtle hard to get will get girls instantly into you

  • @marioottaiano475
    @marioottaiano475 2 года назад +2

    I always do game without saying anything, I love that is challenging. I believe attracting a girl without saying any words and just with body language, eye-contact and gestures is master, I love it, but I noticed that it is also an excellent screening mechanism because it works like a nuclear bomb with more confident and high level girls and scares away shy girls who don't believe in themselves and second guess their personality, because if you don't say anything they think you want to fool them

    • @dendanskehelt4296
      @dendanskehelt4296 2 года назад

      Very interesting. Got videos or someone making videos about this?

    • @marioottaiano475
      @marioottaiano475 2 года назад +2

      @@dendanskehelt4296 No, this is something I do by my own because I like it, but I usually do it in bars and clubs, on the street is very difficult because things are way way faster there is no space and no time to do this, you have to act quickly, but essentially look at her from up to down as you were judging her without saying any words, you will see the confident girl will start to talk to you and to chase you, while the shy girl will run away thinking you are too good for her, and this is very easy to see because you will see her starting blushing, fumbling, panicking and feeling inadequate, to me it's a very good mechanism to differentiate among girls who have social and life experiences and girls who have not

    • @dendanskehelt4296
      @dendanskehelt4296 2 года назад

      @@marioottaiano475 Interesting. I have tried to give the elevator look to a chick at my gym. Even made her turn around for me to show off her body.

    • @marioottaiano475
      @marioottaiano475 2 года назад +2

      @@dendanskehelt4296 yeah, that's what I'm talking about, but as I already told you based on my experiences this can be done in places and situations where the girl is there, I mean while walking is really difficult and I noticed different kind of reactions. You can have as I told you the difference between the confident girl who will start to talk to you and the shy girl who will panick and run away, then you can have the girl who shit tests you giving you some weird look or telling you something that could sound offensive, but it is not, then there will be girls who offend you and in this case just go away, it's not worthy and then I saw the girl who shows no reaction and in this case you have two options based on my experience or you start to talk to her, but the likelihood that she will play hard to get is really high or you leave her alone because most of the cases the girl who shows no reactions just wants to toy you, in the end as Todd says you need words, but attracting a girl without saying anything to me is really exciting

    • @dendanskehelt4296
      @dendanskehelt4296 2 года назад

      @@marioottaiano475 It's definately something I want to try more.

  • @EstrategiasCabarellos
    @EstrategiasCabarellos 2 года назад

    Todd’s peacocking

  • @yass912
    @yass912 2 года назад +7

    What are the fundamentals of Game for a beginner

    • @ruis1005
      @ruis1005 2 года назад +8

      Practice

    • @jarrettraymond7765
      @jarrettraymond7765 2 года назад +1

      Go this his channel he has video after video explains begin practices

    • @marimoerostraw
      @marimoerostraw 2 года назад +4

      probably, a clear structure to follow ~Open -> Premise -> Evaluate -> Narative -> Close (look up Todd videos for elaboration)
      good Eye Contact (relaxed, but steady),
      good Vocal Tonality ("breaking rapport", speak clearly and not in a rush),
      and don't Qualify yourself (don't justify or try to prove yourself to her, don't try to impress her)
      make sure you keep things Man-to-Woman (flirt/tease/etc) and take the Lead (physically/verbally/etc) throughout the interaction to keep the ship steered towards Pussy Island,
      don't just wait passively for things to happen on their own

    • @exxie1
      @exxie1 2 года назад +1

      Just have fun with whoever you are with, better with strangers. Make it to a point that it's a good time just because you are there

  • @aygunzeybek275
    @aygunzeybek275 2 года назад

    My English is not my native language, he speaks very fast and uses a lot of idiomatic expressions so I couldn't understand what he meant exactly,
    He says,like this things, '' keep the conversation up to a certain point, "women don't want to be perceived as being easy'',
    I couldn't understand well the rest of the video. Could you please write down what he meant as brief, item by item, thank you very much.

  • @kitkatt1723
    @kitkatt1723 2 года назад

    I’m so mad I missed you in person 😢

    • @KlutzyBoss
      @KlutzyBoss 2 года назад

      You tryna learn game? :P

  • @emanuelsarbu7070
    @emanuelsarbu7070 2 месяца назад

    I think if you try to give anything a backstory you always have something to talk about

  • @blkabdullah1234
    @blkabdullah1234 4 месяца назад

    🎉

  • @keltecdan
    @keltecdan 2 года назад +4

    Whatever happened to talking to a woman to get to know them and find things you have in common with and qualities you actually like? This doesn’t seem natural. It seems like you have so many techniques and ways of coming across that you have to do that is outside of who you are. This all seems to be more complicated than what it needs to be.

    • @BigGamingBossMan
      @BigGamingBossMan 2 года назад +1

      This is how it is bro. There’s proper and more effective ways and techniques to do this if you want actual results. You need to know what you’re doing

    • @ts4426
      @ts4426 2 года назад +1

      As ideal as that would be, women love a man that will play the game with them. If you don't, there is little mystery or intrigue for the girl.

    • @hsmafro
      @hsmafro 2 года назад +1

      that is why is called game, and the ones that have 'game' are waaaaaaay above average

    • @j_jones_
      @j_jones_ 4 месяца назад

      Women want to be seduced. They want to be challenged. Todd is showing principles and techniques that facilitate the woman chasing you instead of aimlessly hitting the right and wrong buttons.

  • @gregbrady8454
    @gregbrady8454 2 года назад +2

    Todd lay off the cheetoos dude

  • @Nicephore
    @Nicephore 2 года назад

    Could you raise the volume on your videos? I can't hear anything.

  • @dominick951
    @dominick951 2 года назад +1

    Advanced? I can barely do basic game

  • @dklindo7554
    @dklindo7554 2 года назад +1

    Dam it.... i wanted to be the first to comment....

  • @talianun3259
    @talianun3259 2 года назад +3

    Coach Greg Adams says game is pointless

    • @BigGamingBossMan
      @BigGamingBossMan 2 года назад

      Who the fuck is Greg adams

    • @joshspiker
      @joshspiker 2 года назад +2

      CGA is mostly correct. In 2022, if you're looking to get into some sort of relationship, having game alone isn't going to be enough. You must bring much more to the table for her to take you seriously (e.g., clout, looks, money), besides having strong verbal skills. Now, if you only want to get a one night stand, having good game is critical, along with good looks. You always need to have some level of game when you're dealing with girls, but it doesn't carry as much weight as it used to.

  • @ghostfacefitness
    @ghostfacefitness 2 года назад

    Teach f closes

  • @frimguy1054
    @frimguy1054 2 года назад +2

    looking chubby Todd

  • @seanbeads6330
    @seanbeads6330 2 года назад

    What's your iq Todd?

  • @TheCosmicLord
    @TheCosmicLord 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for the great content. I have created an in depth sheet for field reports that has helped me progress tremendously. I think it would be very helpful for your students and would be willing to sell it to you. Shoot me a msg if interested

  • @acristianban
    @acristianban 2 года назад

    Who is in AZ that goes out? Reply I’m down to go at times.