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Wow!! This video is a life saver. 3 months ago I experienced the worst heatbreak with my SP, and what I did, I was just affirming and tried to stay positive cuz I thought that if I let my heartbreak take over I would attract more negative into my life, but the reality is that its necessary to process your negative emotions and address your issues if you want to heal and attract Positive into your life!!! Thank you cori this is just a confirmation that I'm on the right path.
This has been a game changer! I saw a unfavourable circumstance yesterday (sp on a dating site) and had a gut wrenching feeling of absolute heartbreak. After 10 minutes I calmed down and saw it as positive feedback of where I need to work on my self concept x
This is soooooo important and I wish more coachs would talk about the importance of allowing our feelings to let them go. I understood all of this only recently, by reading the wonderful book "Letting go" from D. Hawkins and I recommend it to everyone!! Since I continuously acknowledge my feelings and take time to sit with them, I feel more and more stable, less and less emotive, and my actions towards my dreams already changed. Thank you Corri for emphasizing those things!
My therapist helped me really connect to my innerchild and she guided me to always remind the child of the ability to self assure. Using that practice has made me capable of dealing with this "feeling" with self assurance. This means no need of resentment of what might happen. It's really the resentment of what we think may happen that projects into the now and creates the uncomfortable reality
Well an SP did not choose me. In fact he rejected me directly and indirectly many times to the poin I become numb and cut ties with him. Well no big deal, life goes on. I am not dead, he was not large part of my life and he is in ny life or not, I am good. I know that I deserve someone who chooses me and I choose him. Mutual feelings are so important. I don't like to be honest affirm for a specific person or feel like I am forcing. But maybe this experience helped me to do a lot of work on myself. Good video
Corri... I am so grateful to you for this video. RUclips just played it on auto and it literally stopped me in my tracks. Yesterday I had a bad spiral when suddenly the worst case scenario popped up in my head and that made me feel awful. I kind of knew what to do and I acknowledged what was going on with me, and then I let myself feel that awful feeling for a while. Finally, when I became sort of bored with marinating in the fear, I started flipping my thoughts, which helped. But I really needed a practical guide to deal with it and now I have outlined exactly what my fear is. I can now also see that I would actually be okay if the worst case scenario happened (and as we know they hardly ever do, right?). I am much better today, and having great inner conversations in my head, feeling light and easy.
I watched this 10 days ago not really taking it in properly (it was late and I was sleepy) and I’ve watched it just now and I was crying so much then at the end I was smiling. You’re so right it’s not the fear of the person being with someone else it’s the feeling and emotions I feel that I can’t deal with. I went to a friends party and she’s been my friend since we were 3 and she completely ignored me and didn’t bother with me and I felt that feeling then last night I was told about my sp, it was pretty much stuff I already knew but I got triggered bc I felt like he was choosing a certain lifestyle over me and I was so upset but looking at it it’s the feelings I’m so scared of and this video helped so much I can’t thank you enough ❤️
I feel that i have to share this. I came to this video because a moment ago, i was feeling this aweful feeling i have towards one of co workers who i feel like she is intentionally not choosing me because of reasons like she doesnt like me just because.. so and so. So she is the one choosing teachers to lecture to students for extra pay, like part time aside from our regular pay. Though i feel like i am one of what i think best teachers available, she intentionally not choose me, always... and it makes me so upset. First, it makes me feel embarassed that im not chosen while others are, and also it slightly makes me feel rejected. It really is so so stressing for me, most stressing, actually. I feel like i want to move to another campus to avoid this embarassment.. Your video touched something inside me.
wow corri.. i’m speechless, i have never thought about it this way and i must say it is exactly what i needed 🥺 thank you a million times, this is so freeing!
I wanna send you hugs! If I ever come to the UK meeting you in person would be a blessing! I am feeling like your videos on my feed was a sign, I just know deep down he is struggling in his life without me because I accepted all the deepest darkest sides and he is desiring me, I am wanted by my specific person because I AM THE CATCH!💖🧿
This is so powerful! This was recently what I needed based on what I was thinking about yesterday. This gets to the exact root of the problem. I was indeed afraid of the feeling.
My mum would often choose others over me and bc of that I worry too much about it happening all the time, I even spoke to my sp about it and he understood but idk how to solve this, a part of me is always worried she’ll do it again and bc of that I worry people I really care about will do It which is my sp, when he went out with his friends and didn’t come to see me it broke my heart ( silly I know) bc I hate being second best or not good enough 🤦♀️ it’s embarrassing and idk what to do tbh
This is my current reality. It’s sad… very sad because it’s not what I’d do. They’ve chosen someone else despite outwardly confirming their love and desire for me. As sad as it is I know it’s not the end of the world, I’ve not been chosen before. Though I guess this time I know there’s nothing wrong with me… why would I hang on to a person who wouldn’t choose me. Why would I hang on to crumbs when I can get a whole cake elsewhere
What if we have a belief that we are not chosen by SPs because they are insecure and affraid of us, affraid that they won't be good enough for us, so they leave...Should we do a whisper technique and tell them it is safe to love us, safe to trust and that they can be themselves with us... Among building our self concept and healing our insecurities in relationships...
Unfortunately I’m living it everyday. I have to see him with his chosen everyday and it’s painful. I know that what you are saying is true, it gets overwhelming sometimes. It’s from childhood and I know it, it’s a manifestation of what I’ve faced my whole life. It is fear and sadness
I watched 2 mins of this video 4 months back and immediately ran away because i was scared. Today, I feel much more confident and ready to listen to you corri with genuine intention of fighting the fears. Just wanted people to know that each one of us have different tolerance and acceptance level, walk your own path and take time if need be :)) Hands down one of the best video by you corri, lots of love❤ Also can you elaborate a little about what you mean when you said “when you release it”? Is it an action?
When you have allowed the feeling to exist and when it has been felt and experienced, you feel a shift like it has come through you and the intensity of the emotion has lessened. Like when you are crying alot until you stop crying, the emotion has been released ❤️
My main fear is that she doesn't see me the way I see her, and she doesn't feel for me the way I feel for her. Also, I feel quite inadequate, because as a man I should have more experience that her, and honestly I'm terrified she would think less of me because of this 😔
Go towards this feeling on inadequacy. She is mirroring this feeling within you for you to heal it. Gently ask yourself where the feeling began, allow yourself to feel it and know that it is safe for you to feel xxx
I was finally in the state of my wish fulfilled and woke up this morning feeling immensely loved by my SP. This video made me fall out of the state and until now I’m feeling sad and I’m capable of being loved 😞
@@createwithcorri I had already made them aware and I have been working to free them. I know this was your good intention and what you say in the video is very important. The only problem was that I watched the video at the wrong stage. Of course that means my work wasn't done, but I was aware of that. I will “reset” my internal work. ❤️
I think this is the best video you have ever uploaded ! Such a beautiful message and reminder to ourselves. Thank you for finding the words always that I can never find myself 🌈🌻
I had to say we are not just friends and SP is ignoring me. I went straight to he has chosen someone else over me. Does anyone else feel lost? And how do I change it
Not dwell. Consciously move towards the fear so that you can show it you are not afraid of it. I knew this video would seem counter intuitive to many who have been watching videos about living in the end a lot, but this technique is much deeper and challenges those deep rooted fears and insecurities at their core, which can be very scary to do. Trust yourself. Xx
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Yess, reminds me of something I read, "The mind replays what the heart wants to heal"
Lightbulb moment here. 💡🤯
Whoaaaaaaa 😭😭😭
Woah, this is bang on
I love this thank you 🙏
I have never felt chosen by any of my partners…. I know this comes from not being the chosen daughter in childhood. Thank you for this.
Wow!! This video is a life saver. 3 months ago I experienced the worst heatbreak with my SP, and what I did, I was just affirming and tried to stay positive cuz I thought that if I let my heartbreak take over I would attract more negative into my life, but the reality is that its necessary to process your negative emotions and address your issues if you want to heal and attract Positive into your life!!! Thank you cori this is just a confirmation that I'm on the right path.
This has been a game changer! I saw a unfavourable circumstance yesterday (sp on a dating site) and had a gut wrenching feeling of absolute heartbreak. After 10 minutes I calmed down and saw it as positive feedback of where I need to work on my self concept x
This is like the Sedona Method's triple welcoming exercise.
This is what I needed. Can you do another video on this and how to properly allow yourself to feel without allowing it to kind of consume you
This is soooooo important and I wish more coachs would talk about the importance of allowing our feelings to let them go.
I understood all of this only recently, by reading the wonderful book "Letting go" from D. Hawkins and I recommend it to everyone!! Since I continuously acknowledge my feelings and take time to sit with them, I feel more and more stable, less and less emotive, and my actions towards my dreams already changed. Thank you Corri for emphasizing those things!
My therapist helped me really connect to my innerchild and she guided me to always remind the child of the ability to self assure. Using that practice has made me capable of dealing with this "feeling" with self assurance. This means no need of resentment of what might happen. It's really the resentment of what we think may happen that projects into the now and creates the uncomfortable reality
I understand this but its still depressing
Well an SP did not choose me. In fact he rejected me directly and indirectly many times to the poin I become numb and cut ties with him.
Well no big deal, life goes on. I am not dead, he was not large part of my life and he is in ny life or not, I am good.
I know that I deserve someone who chooses me and I choose him. Mutual feelings are so important.
I don't like to be honest affirm for a specific person or feel like I am forcing. But maybe this experience helped me to do a lot of work on myself.
Good video
Corri... I am so grateful to you for this video. RUclips just played it on auto and it literally stopped me in my tracks. Yesterday I had a bad spiral when suddenly the worst case scenario popped up in my head and that made me feel awful. I kind of knew what to do and I acknowledged what was going on with me, and then I let myself feel that awful feeling for a while. Finally, when I became sort of bored with marinating in the fear, I started flipping my thoughts, which helped. But I really needed a practical guide to deal with it and now I have outlined exactly what my fear is. I can now also see that I would actually be okay if the worst case scenario happened (and as we know they hardly ever do, right?). I am much better today, and having great inner conversations in my head, feeling light and easy.
Totally agreeing - this is one of your best videos so far. 🌻 Gotta love this deep approach. ❤️
Wow, I just did the most violent shake when I conjured this feeling. This was what I needed. Thank you!
I watched this 10 days ago not really taking it in properly (it was late and I was sleepy) and I’ve watched it just now and I was crying so much then at the end I was smiling. You’re so right it’s not the fear of the person being with someone else it’s the feeling and emotions I feel that I can’t deal with. I went to a friends party and she’s been my friend since we were 3 and she completely ignored me and didn’t bother with me and I felt that feeling then last night I was told about my sp, it was pretty much stuff I already knew but I got triggered bc I felt like he was choosing a certain lifestyle over me and I was so upset but looking at it it’s the feelings I’m so scared of and this video helped so much I can’t thank you enough ❤️
❤️❤️❤️ so lovely to hear it helped you!! Well done for feeling 💕😊
@@createwithcorri it was so beautiful thank you so much 💕💕💕
What happened? How did everything turn out? How are you? Thanks 😊
Breathe in. Breathe through. Breathe deep. Breathe out. 😌😌
I feel that i have to share this. I came to this video because a moment ago, i was feeling this aweful feeling i have towards one of co workers who i feel like she is intentionally not choosing me because of reasons like she doesnt like me just because.. so and so. So she is the one choosing teachers to lecture to students for extra pay, like part time aside from our regular pay. Though i feel like i am one of what i think best teachers available, she intentionally not choose me, always... and it makes me so upset. First, it makes me feel embarassed that im not chosen while others are, and also it slightly makes me feel rejected. It really is so so stressing for me, most stressing, actually. I feel like i want to move to another campus to avoid this embarassment..
Your video touched something inside me.
wow corri.. i’m speechless, i have never thought about it this way and i must say it is exactly what i needed 🥺 thank you a million times, this is so freeing!
I wanna send you hugs! If I ever come to the UK meeting you in person would be a blessing! I am feeling like your videos on my feed was a sign, I just know deep down he is struggling in his life without me because I accepted all the deepest darkest sides and he is desiring me, I am wanted by my specific person because I AM THE CATCH!💖🧿
This is so powerful! This was recently what I needed based on what I was thinking about yesterday. This gets to the exact root of the problem. I was indeed afraid of the feeling.
Best coach out there, hands down
😊❤️🥰 thank u!!
One of your best videos! Don’t know how I didn’t see this before 🌻✨❤️
My mum would often choose others over me and bc of that I worry too much about it happening all the time, I even spoke to my sp about it and he understood but idk how to solve this, a part of me is always worried she’ll do it again and bc of that I worry people I really care about will do It which is my sp, when he went out with his friends and didn’t come to see me it broke my heart ( silly I know) bc I hate being second best or not good enough 🤦♀️ it’s embarrassing and idk what to do tbh
This is my current reality. It’s sad… very sad because it’s not what I’d do. They’ve chosen someone else despite outwardly confirming their love and desire for me. As sad as it is I know it’s not the end of the world, I’ve not been chosen before. Though I guess this time I know there’s nothing wrong with me… why would I hang on to a person who wouldn’t choose me. Why would I hang on to crumbs when I can get a whole cake elsewhere
Where have you been the past two and a half years Corri? Your an angel for the manifesting community.
Ahh!
I feel like I already knew this in my head but didn’t know how to process it.. this was so helpful! Thank you!
What if we have a belief that we are not chosen by SPs because they are insecure and affraid of us, affraid that they won't be good enough for us, so they leave...Should we do a whisper technique and tell them it is safe to love us, safe to trust and that they can be themselves with us...
Among building our self concept and healing our insecurities in relationships...
Your SP is a mirror for you…
This resonated so hard! Thank you! Not just with a specific person but with life in general.
Unfortunately I’m living it everyday. I have to see him with his chosen everyday and it’s painful. I know that what you are saying is true, it gets overwhelming sometimes. It’s from childhood and I know it, it’s a manifestation of what I’ve faced my whole life. It is fear and sadness
Thank you for this empathic and compassionate video ❤️
Wow powerful ❤ Thank you so much! 🙏🏼
Have you ever tried to stop loving Jhonny in order to protect yourself from the feeling of not being chosen?
Yes, but it didn’t work. The lesson wasn’t there x
@@createwithcorri same. The solution is not to stop loving them or let go of the desire 😌
Best coach!
❤️❤️❤️
Your videos are always on point
Wow! Truly amazing video and I feel a big aha moment inside of me.
I watched 2 mins of this video 4 months back and immediately ran away because i was scared. Today, I feel much more confident and ready to listen to you corri with genuine intention of fighting the fears.
Just wanted people to know that each one of us have different tolerance and acceptance level, walk your own path and take time if need be :))
Hands down one of the best video by you corri, lots of love❤
Also can you elaborate a little about what you mean when you said “when you release it”? Is it an action?
When you have allowed the feeling to exist and when it has been felt and experienced, you feel a shift like it has come through you and the intensity of the emotion has lessened. Like when you are crying alot until you stop crying, the emotion has been released ❤️
@@createwithcorri understood ❤️ sometimes we feel since the intensity is high, we might be manifesting it into our reality, how to deal with that?
@@Khushi-pm3pr only if you believe that is true x
I have done it already and it works! ❤️
I needed to hear this 🤔
so powerful thank you so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was literally needed is this one!! Thank you Corri
Great video ❤ powerful 🙏thank you
This is exactly what I needed to hear today❤ and I really love you💞💞. You are exactly an angel😇
Love from India
Thank you.
Yes please I love this
Having so many insights ❤🎉 thank you Corri!
My main fear is that she doesn't see me the way I see her, and she doesn't feel for me the way I feel for her. Also, I feel quite inadequate, because as a man I should have more experience that her, and honestly I'm terrified she would think less of me because of this 😔
Go towards this feeling on inadequacy. She is mirroring this feeling within you for you to heal it. Gently ask yourself where the feeling began, allow yourself to feel it and know that it is safe for you to feel xxx
I was finally in the state of my wish fulfilled and woke up this morning feeling immensely loved by my SP. This video made me fall out of the state and until now I’m feeling sad and I’m capable of being loved 😞
Those feelings were brought into awareness by this video in order for you to process and release them ❤️
@@createwithcorri I had already made them aware and I have been working to free them. I know this was your good intention and what you say in the video is very important. The only problem was that I watched the video at the wrong stage. Of course that means my work wasn't done, but I was aware of that. I will “reset” my internal work. ❤️
Anyway, it will be a good exercise to practice how to get out of that state 😄
This was very helpful. Thank you.
thank you
I think this is the best video you have ever uploaded ! Such a beautiful message and reminder to ourselves. Thank you for finding the words always that I can never find myself 🌈🌻
Thank you
I had to say we are not just friends and SP is ignoring me. I went straight to he has chosen someone else over me. Does anyone else feel lost? And how do I change it
Did you ever had the fear of not being attractive to men you find attractive/ conventionally attractive men?
This works❤🫶
The feeling was that it wasn’t me he chose
What if I just can not find what feeling I am avoiding?
Sounds like you are trying to think your way there. Drop from your mind to your body. Feel without analysing to trying to give it words
Such a good answer, thank you ❤
Whenever I try to do this, I fear it will manifest, how to get rid of that?
That’s part of the exercise - facing the fear! Lean into it to overcome it! X
@@createwithcorri thank you for answering ❤️
So I should now dwell in the state of the Wish unfulfilled?😳
Not dwell. Consciously move towards the fear so that you can show it you are not afraid of it. I knew this video would seem counter intuitive to many who have been watching videos about living in the end a lot, but this technique is much deeper and challenges those deep rooted fears and insecurities at their core, which can be very scary to do. Trust yourself. Xx
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So happy I found your channel thank you
thank you