Father Knows: Jealousy || Father Knows Something Podcast

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

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  • @judiesharp8060
    @judiesharp8060 9 месяцев назад +3

    When Morgan was talking about how awkward it would be to see an ex friend... It's anxiety! It doesn't mean you're not healed from it.
    I have severe anxiety, so I know what you mean! Our brain tends to overthink the situation ❤

  • @aatainaaamir1581
    @aatainaaamir1581 Год назад +54

    3:36 : 1st story
    15:10 : 2nd story
    25:08 : 3rd story
    36:28 : 4th story

  • @styledbygabi
    @styledbygabi Год назад +85

    For the story about the guy friend who got a girlfriend - my ex blocked me and I am forever thankful that happened. Got me to stop looking. Never looked back. Out of sight out of mind and my life feels better. So do yourself a favor and just block them

    • @aleahamarrie6415
      @aleahamarrie6415 Год назад

      I agree!

    • @KZesty
      @KZesty Год назад

      True true.

    • @styledbygabi
      @styledbygabi Год назад +2

      @@jessa9872 for real!! It’s like a control thing in the back of everyone’s mind trying to keep tabs on people. Like what are you keeping tabs for? I don’t have my ex blocked bc as long as I’m blocked I’m good and dandy. And they can lurk all they want. But the second I’m reached out to/unblocked by them then I’ll block lol. It’s like I’m testing my own control and it’s going very well so far

  • @literallyvanessa5819
    @literallyvanessa5819 Год назад +20

    22:57 I agree with Jerry. 100% I feel as if Morgan wasn’t over the whole situation WHICH ISNT A BAD THING. But the way she spoke made it sound like she still did care which anyone would tbh. We’ve all been there ❤️

  • @ivylovesrunning
    @ivylovesrunning Год назад +32

    Friendship submissions: some friends aren't meant to last a life time. Some are in our lives for a short period of time. If a friendship isn't caring, supportive, and they want the best for you, then it isn't a healthy and sustainable relationship.
    It is hard when you think a friend is always going to be there. It will take time. Grieve the friendship lost. Keep yourself busy with your interests. Block them on social media. If someone isn't going to take the time to be a good friend, then don't waste your time or energy on them. It is a sad, but true part of life that many people don't talk about.
    Good luck.

  • @holls3770
    @holls3770 9 месяцев назад +1

    First story: it’s hard to know someone isn’t right for you. Not every relationship needs a sit down talk to end it.
    Fizzle this out, let her know that you want only family there for your graduation. And don’t follow up with her. Let your life unfold! It can get fast after graduation.

  • @doniellecarrillo9321
    @doniellecarrillo9321 Год назад +20

    "Get to the part where it doesn't matter.." - Jerry
    Keeping this!

  • @RobVal-t8f
    @RobVal-t8f Год назад +60

    Hey I’m a Lash Artist from NC I listen to both podcasts with all my clients🥰 we love it soooo much thank you for the great content🖤 -Val

    • @tiairaparks3564
      @tiairaparks3564 Год назад +6

      Do you have a TikTok with your lash work? I’d love to follow and support.

  • @zulu32656
    @zulu32656 Год назад +16

    First story writer: Drop that girl! She’s not your friend or better yet she’s a terrible friend. You don’t need to allow toxic people in your life. Just break all communication with her pronto and enjoy a much happier life

    • @mrdavman13
      @mrdavman13 Год назад

      With friends like these you dont need no enemies

  • @KatChartreux
    @KatChartreux Год назад +14

    Good morning & night everyone🌙 ☀️

    • @Smoshyprincess
      @Smoshyprincess Год назад +2

      Just woke up from a 4-12 nap, I feel very seen 💛

  • @MilicaStaletovic
    @MilicaStaletovic Год назад +6

    Hi Mr. Jerry! I just want to thank you a lot for giving advice to us young ones that have no one to talk to.
    I listen to your podcast when I work, clean, or just walk in the park.
    You helped me gain emotional confidence to stand up for myself more, calm myself down and "keep it elegant" as you say, and you were keeping me company in my loneliest times.
    I wish great health to you and your family, best regards from a 27-year-old from Serbia.

  • @aatainaaamir1581
    @aatainaaamir1581 Год назад +26

    Can you drop a new episode everyday? U r my emotional support channel 😂❤️❤️

  • @ariellyons1488
    @ariellyons1488 Год назад +20

    Restraining order: bringing ample evidence is the key to getting one. Even if you’ve tried before, if you have more evidence than previously, then I would try again. This at least provides a court precedence even if you lose again. Eventually, something will happen and this past recorded behavior can help press charges.
    Our court system fails victims at every turn. I’m so sorry this is happening to you.

  • @amandagarcia4755
    @amandagarcia4755 Год назад +23

    Omg, are we not gonna comment on the 5 second clip of Jerry in a visor looking at the camera ? 🤣

    • @TwoHotTakes
      @TwoHotTakes Год назад +3

      Haha it’s a bag of Brussels on his head 😂

    • @bianca-2842
      @bianca-2842 Год назад

      @@TwoHotTakesthat makes it even better 😂

    • @KrystalMimms
      @KrystalMimms Год назад

      LMAO i saw it too😂😂

  • @thekarabouu
    @thekarabouu Год назад +6

    13:34 iconic. ty for sharing

  • @ashleysmiley109
    @ashleysmiley109 Год назад +9

    Jealousy is a normal human emotion. It happens even to the best of us. It's important to examine the feeling and determine why you are feeling that way. Only once you do that you can work to address the real issue. It's a common topic in non-monogamy circles.

  • @water9584
    @water9584 Год назад +2

    4 years ago, I ditched my whole "friend group". Or more specifically 3 of my closest friends and the rest of the people I actually didn't know that well or do that much with. They were just there.
    I ghosted them after I found out they wrote mean stuff about me in a group chat. Especially my closest friend. She initiated all of this conversation.
    I blocked everyone, deleted most of them and went no contact. At some point, I felt like I healed enough, so I unblocked my former friends because I just didn't care about them anymore.
    She started sending me a few Happy Birthday and 'I want you back' messages. I read them and just let them be. Never wrote back because she's not worth the effort for me. I sometimes thought about what I'd say to her if I'd meet her again.
    Last year at school meeting our teachers from our highschool time planned for us to all come back together, she was there as well. I ignored her and did my thing most of the time.
    At some point, she came over to me and started talking. And you know what? I talked to her, didn't really confront her, just told her that I didn't like what they did and then ghosted her and my other friends. We had an ok conversation.
    For me it was neutral, not weird at all. She told me a couple of times that she would love to reestablish our friendship. I never said anything to that because I for sure won't do that.
    When she was my friend, I liked her a lot and looked up to her because I always felt like she had everything I don't have. I don't understand how someone can suddenly turn into someone so different and hurt the ones closest to them.
    I will never understand her motives and I don't want to because this time is over for me. I'm living a completely different life now. The years after I left this group were very good years for me. I thrived. I have a partner now. :)
    Just wanted to tell everyone:
    real closure makes you completely unbothered by what happened. Of course you can miss the good times you had but it doesn't di anything negative with you. If a situation is awkward, there are still unsolved emotions within you. And that's also fine. We don't need to get a full closure of something. We just need to be happy! ❤

  • @kavakitten
    @kavakitten Год назад +9

    it makes me sad that it’s so common for friendships to suffer when people get in relationships. i understand that the writer messed up, but if there was forgiveness that was agreed upon, then that should’ve been put in the past. also, what is it with people sh!tting on things you enjoy? my ex did that and it got to the point where it made me uncomfortable to listen to some of my favorite artists! it’s so gross. i also lost a friend like this and it hurts so much, but you will find new friends and make so many new connections with people who will be better for you. 💕

    • @xankramer288
      @xankramer288 Год назад

      we are really living the same life

  • @yaisa111
    @yaisa111 Год назад +4

    The Toxic mom issue~ There comes a time in life when titles mean nothing and loyalty is about whats best for yOu. ✌🏽💞

  • @mml0082
    @mml0082 Год назад +2

    Jerry said it right - jealousy stems from lack of gratitude for their own life…

    • @mollyblower3868
      @mollyblower3868 Год назад

      Yea im poor and adopted but I had a middle class friend that was jealous of me

  • @pinkfish7173
    @pinkfish7173 Год назад +6

    Omg I was about to go to sleep I’m so glad you posted cause your podcast help me wind down at the end of the day!!

  • @osoe1989
    @osoe1989 Год назад +2

    The 4 th story about the narcissistic mom. I have a sister that is just like this and doing the whole inviting her and if she doesn't show up you can walk away? Narcs that use the word "Ostracize" will never take blame for anything. There is no telling them its their own fault cause nothing is their fault. I guarantee she will twist it into,She didn't show up because of how "uncomfortable" you girls made her feel or you ganged up on her or she has too many friends who love her to be around negative energy!!
    It's heartbreaking cause it's family, i love my sister but she is so sick and even words she said 30sec ago she will twist into something completely different. The number 1 rule of a true narc is to never accept blame. I hope this friends out ok for you girl's but sometimes letting go is the best for you and your mental health. 🧡

  • @alanamacneill88
    @alanamacneill88 Год назад +1

    Love when Morgan's dad or Uncle are on!

  • @ChampayneCole
    @ChampayneCole Год назад

    HEAVY on the jealousy in the DNA! It runs deep for many.. pops dropping gems less than 10 mins. in 👏🏽

  • @jessicaacre4276
    @jessicaacre4276 Год назад +8

    Hey gang! Get well soon Jerry! Love the sweater Morgan!

  • @grxce1128
    @grxce1128 10 месяцев назад +1

    I understand exactly what Morgan is saying. You can be healed/moved on from a situation, but you can still grieve for your old self and what you gone through / be upset at the principle of the situation.

  • @fishhugify
    @fishhugify Год назад +5

    I'm sad as my cat was put down today His name was Snufkin when he got in a scuffle he gained a lump on his head I called him affectionally called him Snuffles.
    I also nicknamed him Fluffules as he was a black fluffy cat during the winter and Sir as he reminded me of a teacher he was a man not a boy. Sorry I needed to get of my chest to a kind lovely caring group it seems 🐱🐾😢

    • @KZesty
      @KZesty Год назад +1

      I can't imagine the grief I would feel if I lost my kitty. So my heart goes out to you 💞 wishing you healing and peace

  • @kaseykasket
    @kaseykasket Год назад +2

    If it's still awkward you aren't healed from it

  • @Clownbunnycosplay
    @Clownbunnycosplay Год назад +4

    I personally think a little bit of jealousy is good, romantic/platonic whatever it is, I think it makes us human,

    • @sydneylittle9822
      @sydneylittle9822 Год назад

      I think it can be fine as long as you don’t blame the other person for the jealousy you’re experiencing, and instead use it as a self reflection tool to see what kinds of things you’re feeling jealous of for self work etc

  • @Lolo-kp4ge
    @Lolo-kp4ge Год назад

    I love that the show has chapters for every story
    Thank you

  • @mamatae1113
    @mamatae1113 Год назад +3

    Yay!! Goodnight guys ❤ Thanks for this! I’m happy I get to wind down after a crazy Monday with you! 😊

  • @jennlogs92
    @jennlogs92 Год назад +1

    My dads mom was completely unhinged when I was growing up. She’d call and leave threatening voicemails on our house phone, call with privacy block at all hours if the night, basically because my dad didn’t want to continue to a relationship with her anymore once her actions started to be directed towards me. We tried to get a restraining order and it was denied mostly because he just thought my dad was being too harsh. However we just completely would block her phone number if she called private we’d just hang out eventually she just kind of stopped and would do it less and less or when something “big in the family” was going on. I always just knew something was off with her and just disliked her for all the unhinged shit she put all of us through. However as an adult going into the nursing field and working in this healthcare field for so long once she died I found out a lot more about her mental health and she had been a diagnosed skitzophrenic for YEARS and no one actually got her the proper care she really needed which is so unfortunate and I give her more grace now as an adult but I feel like my dad protecting me from her saved me from even more trauma than she had already caused. So she definitely needs a lawyer because when we did it we didn’t have one because my dad figured all the evidence we had would just be enough but a lawyer helps make it become a little more “serious” in the eyes of the court

  • @vanessajceja984
    @vanessajceja984 Год назад +2

    Yay an episode to fall asleep to !! Goodnight fam 💤

  • @plottwistpleasethepodcast4469
    @plottwistpleasethepodcast4469 Год назад +1

    Just saying, ghosting can be the most harmful way to end a friendship. I get that the first story was for toxic reasons, but people are not experts on themselves. Sometimes, behavior continues because it is not addressed. And being ghosted by a friend impacts your trust in people forever.

  • @kaseymfs3651
    @kaseymfs3651 Год назад

    A friendship episode would be so great! Love the videos every week :)

  • @Loveecindy
    @Loveecindy Год назад

    I can really relate to the Toxic mom story at the end, I’ve contemplated sending something in very similarly. I unfortunately did make the choice to distance myself from my mother and go no contact after she blew up again over something that’s been ongoing for years. I decided I just can’t deal with that chaos anymore. My sisters and I are trying our best to stick together, but my little sister who lives with her currently doesn’t speak to us bc she is still heavily influenced by her. It’s sad but we know we’ll be here for her when the moment is needed. There is a very clear pattern on toxicity.

  • @lilfishboy253
    @lilfishboy253 Год назад +2

    13:34 Thank you for this insert 😂❤

  • @frochaa
    @frochaa Год назад +2

    Thanks for another great episode Jerry & Morgan ! Rooting for you to reach 100k 🎉

  • @mrs.rodriguez123
    @mrs.rodriguez123 Год назад +2

    The one with the stalking grandma, get a lawyer and/or move as far away as possible. She does not love anyone involved. She is dangerous. If she said even half of one of the things claimed, that's disgusting. That is abnormal in the worst way, and that child is not safe. It is not strangers that are the biggest threat to our children. It's the people we know.

  • @destinypoulter8859
    @destinypoulter8859 Год назад +1

    This is for the toxic mom submission- my mom died when I was 3 and when my step mom first came into my life she was wonderful until her and my dad's marriage fell apart and they separated before the divorce. She not only disappeared on me, but also on my 3 younger siblings that were hers biologically. Don't let her force herself into your life. If it is easier and less stress to only have contact with your sister then do that. No need to continue trying with your mom if she isn't putting in any real effort either. It'll be hard and weird at first but eventually it'll be good and normal like it's always been that way and the bliss from it will ring loud and shine bright in your life.

  • @Breeanaxo95
    @Breeanaxo95 Год назад +2

    Goodnight!!! Listening as my wind down for the day ❤❤

  • @tsawasanchez9571
    @tsawasanchez9571 Год назад +2

    Jerry, I hope you feel better 🫶🏽
    3:42 Pick me Friend
    15:12 Joe
    25:08 The Epitome of Enmeshment
    36:27 Toxic mom

  • @waldkind_
    @waldkind_ Год назад +1

    Jerry's voice sounds super handsome like that, ngl

  • @willow5235
    @willow5235 Год назад +4

    I’m getting my colonoscopy this Thursday! Im 18 and I’ve been having issues. ✨Jewish girl stomach problems✨Thank you Morgan for helping me normalize it in my own mind and I’m not afraid of it but I am for my prep tomorrow I’m gonna be pooping my brains out lol! Im gonna be high on Thursday from the meds and I’m gonna be watching two hot takes!

  • @destinyrain222
    @destinyrain222 Год назад +2

    I’m going to have to disagree with you guys on the first one. (edit to say I love Jerry and Morgan so no disrespect intended) If it was me, I would face it head on. I’m assuming you don’t want her there with him and his family for a reason, and I don’t blame you for that. You never know what she could say to them, especially if she’s trying to sabotage the relationship out of jealousy. I would not want a “friend” around my boyfriend and his family that has made it evident that she wishes she was in my spot in his life. A person like that is not a friend. My attraction for someone goes out the window as soon as my friend is in a relationship with that person. It makes it moot, as it should with any GOOD and loyal friend. It’s clear that her loyalty is not to you. You don’t owe her the kindness of letting her show up to YOUR graduation, because I PROMISE it’s not out of the kindness of her heart, but for your boyfriend. I would send her a message and let her know how you feel, and she’ll either come forward with the reason she’s been making you feel that way and you guys can salvage the relationship if she makes a change or she’ll deflect and act like a victim, and in that case there’s no reason to keep her around you. Either way, it’s addressed and you won’t feel uncomfortable and overthink about what she could be saying at your own graduation.

  • @marianovikov3621
    @marianovikov3621 Год назад +1

    OMG YAY!!! night night love u guys so much ❤️

  • @Smoshyprincess
    @Smoshyprincess Год назад +1

    Omg idk if I just missed it cause I always listen not really watch but the new intro??? So nice!!!

  • @emmaf.7023
    @emmaf.7023 Год назад +1

    No because sick Jerry sounds like he should be a talk radio personality 😅

  • @xenyis
    @xenyis Год назад

    The thing with Jerry's voice was fitting in this episode for me, because I am Ukrainian and we have this phrase "Frog is choking them" if somebody is jealous 😅

  • @kenzieshaye6818
    @kenzieshaye6818 Год назад +1

    Jerry next time your voice/throat is sore try hot tea with a honey flavored cough drop- the hot tea will melt the cough drop- it’s my favorite thing when I’m sick! it’s a game changer ❤

    • @jerrysiegel3354
      @jerrysiegel3354 Год назад +1

      Kenzie, I was doing all the above, Thank you for caring…xo. Dad

  • @kaitlyne.b.l2677
    @kaitlyne.b.l2677 Год назад +1

    Sultry Jerry!? We love to see it JERRY YOURE A SILVER FOX LOVE YA!!!

  • @mollyblower3868
    @mollyblower3868 Год назад +1

    Get well soon Jerry

  • @Naruta598
    @Naruta598 Год назад +1

    The intro is amazing 😂

  • @Paris-hu2hy
    @Paris-hu2hy Год назад

    Can you please do a mental health focused episode? 😊

  • @nena-dp9he
    @nena-dp9he Год назад +2

    who is this deeply voiced man and where’s jerry?!

  • @vanessasalcedo2897
    @vanessasalcedo2897 Год назад +1

    13:34 🤣

  • @munchie420monster
    @munchie420monster Год назад +2

    Jerry and morgan!!

  • @morganstotts1840
    @morganstotts1840 Год назад +1

    Hi guys! Love the show❤
    I’ve been debating on asking for advice on a pretty serious situation, how do I write in?

  • @Tinkerbellprincess2
    @Tinkerbellprincess2 Год назад

    For the MIL story, was there any documentation of the mother doing nothing while her son was abused? That could be helpful grounds for a lawyer to prove that she is clearly NOT a safe person and shouldn't be granted access to her grandchildren.

  • @AshlieJermaine
    @AshlieJermaine 5 месяцев назад

    Papa Jerry!!😢Sounds like you have a summer cold (I have one right now and it sucks). Your voice reminds me of when my husband gets sick and his voice gets deeper; he sounds like Sam Elliot, and I tease him by telling him to tell me about the Ford F150.😅
    I hope you feel better soon.

  • @Dayxpxp
    @Dayxpxp Год назад +1

    If it's still awkward I don't think you're over it??
    But very much agree, if there is anyone you follow, even if you like some of their content but they 💩 on other things that bring you joy, it's best to just unfollow.

  • @choleymoley
    @choleymoley Год назад

    @48:10 Analenix? Annie Lennox? 😂

  • @NicoleSlays
    @NicoleSlays Год назад +1

    Another great episode. I got to listen to this while enjoying my awesome dinner! So happy I get to enjoy the content ❤ love ya father knows something crew ! 🫶

  • @hereismika
    @hereismika Год назад

    hey, i just joined reddit cause i wanted to be more involved in tht and fks a bit more but i’m confused about how to vote on AITA posts? could someone explain to be how to put in a vote?

  • @robynmarable0102
    @robynmarable0102 Год назад

    What happened to the timestamps? I swore they were posted yesterday....

  • @caylamariexxx
    @caylamariexxx 3 месяца назад

    Jerry, please adopt me ❤

  • @FreshmenThesis
    @FreshmenThesis Год назад +1

    For so long, I didn’t subscribe to RUclips channels I guess I thought I’d get too many notifications but I honestly don’t ever get notifications on any channels (maybe I didn’t choose the setting for notifications) but just wanted to let anyone not subscribing for the same reason know that’s not at all a reason to not subscribe.

  • @mrdavman13
    @mrdavman13 Год назад

    I think Jerry sounds smooth and sexaaay

  • @sheilapohn7220
    @sheilapohn7220 4 месяца назад

    I think it’s highly unprofessional to keep frogs in your throat. Watch out for PETA.😜😜😜

  • @erinaslanian2474
    @erinaslanian2474 Год назад +1

    Goofball comment ❤

  • @user-xe1hb4xe4s
    @user-xe1hb4xe4s Год назад

    Just subscribed! Good luck getting to 100k 🫶