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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2017
  • Most teenagers row with their parents. But what happens if you leave home while you are still at school? And what is it like living alone while you are still a child? At the tender age of sixteen, Tony left home and was forced to fend for himself. He has managed to survive alone for the last two years... but only just!
    Tony is now eighteen and still very much a boy, but he has had enough with being unemployed, useless, skint, lonely and too ashamed of his life to go and face his mum. Tony: I’ve Lost My Family is a poignant film which follows his journey as he becomes a grown-up, and tries to reconcile with his family.
    As he begins to sort his life out, Tony makes some extraordinary discoveries that lead him in an entirely new direction. Maybe the family he has been looking for can be found somewhere else - and maybe there is a different way to go home?
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  • @anthonytaylor1723
    @anthonytaylor1723 6 лет назад +3812

    Whoever dug this up, my Uncle Ste (My dad's brother) thanks you as we lost the DVD years ago. And for all those looking for an update on my brother and I, we are doing fine. I work full time for a solicitors firm based in Leeds City Centre and my brother is living in Leeds with his fiance. Our Nan, Doreen Taylor, sadly passed away earlier this year. The rest of the family are doing great, one of my cousins had two sons since the documentary and her sister married her partner this year.
    Thank you for your kind comments. I'd forgotten how embarrassingly naive I was back then, not to mention clueless. Still making up stories, still a voracious reader and still watching Hollyoaks. Went to Liverpool earlier this year and I plan on moving there once I have saved up enough. Won't be for a few years yet though.

    • @weemarie1137
      @weemarie1137 6 лет назад +266

      Anthony Taylor that's brilliant news and thank you for the update, was really desperate to hear how you were doing x

    • @tonyj5918
      @tonyj5918 6 лет назад +70

      Glad to hear

    • @blueiris69
      @blueiris69 6 лет назад +155

      Thank you for the update. Sad to hear about your nan. My condolences. It's good to know you and your brother are doing so well. This is one of my favorite docs. You and Jon-Jon were adorable and I cheered for you when you found your brother! Take care :)

    • @DahliaVonHellion
      @DahliaVonHellion 6 лет назад +87

      Hahah you were a little cutie. Glad to hear you're doing well

    • @Trinkuh2
      @Trinkuh2 6 лет назад +41

      i would really like to read some of what your wright. If you have it any where on the internet. I wright to escape reality myself and make up a nicer one..and i'm 25. i also rp and other things..i have/had problems with my parents growing up but never left cause here in the usa there isn't many places for kids to go and little help.

  • @mrss525
    @mrss525 6 лет назад +1075

    21 minutes in and all I see is a sweet young man with a good heart. I would be proud to call him my son. I hope he goes far in life. All the best Tony.

    • @ofniethe
      @ofniethe 6 лет назад +9

      Mrs S he doesn't need love. He needs discipline! Pathetic this over protected generation

    • @candiceblack86
      @candiceblack86 6 лет назад +65

      ofniethe who over protected him?

    • @fletcheroluoch6574
      @fletcheroluoch6574 6 лет назад +39

      He really has a lovely heart very kind indeed

    • @mimikay5421
      @mimikay5421 6 лет назад +44

      ofniethe ... bitter much?
      he’s been without his family since 15 years old ...

    • @melaniegavin4006
      @melaniegavin4006 5 лет назад +12

      @Mrs S yeah I'd love to know what she did like the two of them running away is strange but there both lovely guy's so she did something right

  • @mozzarella2310
    @mozzarella2310 6 лет назад +747

    "Are you smoking CRACK?"
    Tony: "Nah we're just looking at the clouds" :)
    Oddly sweet moment.

    • @birb.
      @birb. 3 года назад +5

      Loved it

  • @mortensenegbert6619
    @mortensenegbert6619 6 лет назад +408

    (15:54) After being turned away from a job-interview: "I don't see what's wrong with jeans. They're nice, they're smart and they're durable. And they don't stain easy either." So endearing. Perfectly sensible and perfectly untouched by the dreary dictates of the workaday world

    • @blazefairchild465
      @blazefairchild465 2 года назад +11

      I had a foster daughter who was never taught anything about always being clean and presentable. She did not know the basics about how to bathe ,care for hair or clothes. Within a week she learned not Leave the house , without a morning shower and clean stuff on. She is now off on her own & , has a lovely cat & a job and lots of friends, Doing great ☺️

    • @waynekenzitt5164
      @waynekenzitt5164 2 года назад +4

      Sometimes, we don't have to go to interview in a suit as it can also depend on the job, but watching Tony, he made an effort in looking smart, and also attending his interviews, this incredible young man certainly improved himself, and being supported by his mate, I think Tony became more extrovert and certainly a great human being.

    • @beckstyles3467
      @beckstyles3467 2 года назад +3

      @@blazefairchild465 go to therapy nobody needs to shower every morning unless they have ocd

    • @halbhatia6651
      @halbhatia6651 Год назад +1

      @@beckstyles3467 why exactly would that mean they need to go to therapy? alot of people start to smell after 24h without a shower lad

    • @laidedges
      @laidedges 7 месяцев назад

      @@beckstyles3467so u like having doo doo crusts and dirty nails then. Nice . Don’t come near me

  • @brittneydawn516
    @brittneydawn516 4 года назад +454

    “Jon Jon once had a job selling cookies. So he’s quite an expert in the field of work” lol the shadeeeee 😂

    • @rubyy_922
      @rubyy_922 4 года назад +6

      Came here to say the same thing 😂😂😂

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ 4 года назад +9

      Jon Jon had one job more (and interviewing experience, not to mention work-culture experience) working than Tony had, and as a friend, it was not his responsibility to raise him to become an adult or to educate him about how to interview or what he should expect once he begins to work. That is the parent's responsibility, not a friend's responsibility.
      Jon Jon seems to be doing some of the parenting of Tony that his parents failed to do, even though he is sleeping the day away a good deal of the time.

    • @TheRealNova99
      @TheRealNova99 4 года назад +15

      I also came here to say the same thing. That is the best line in the whole documentary, even better since the narrator pulled it off completely deadpan.

    • @PinvinoPiggg
      @PinvinoPiggg 3 года назад +10

      Don't ever underestimate a cookie salesman 😀

    • @allisonovo
      @allisonovo 3 года назад +13

      le th okay then why is JonJon living off Tony if he has so much experience? Smh. Tony commented on this video and said he gave JonJon the boot after this documentary aired. As he should. 😌

  • @breezygodiva503
    @breezygodiva503 4 года назад +70

    "My names Tony. Everyone calls me Tony." I loved that.

  • @BINGBONGWOOWOO
    @BINGBONGWOOWOO 6 лет назад +260

    I adore this kid. What a bright, imaginative, and beautiful personality. I'm impressed by how much he reads and writes.

    • @waynekenzitt5164
      @waynekenzitt5164 2 года назад +3

      My sister would be proud of Tony and I would say that he's more intellectual than Jon Jon

  • @rosegold973
    @rosegold973 6 лет назад +459

    Him sitting down having donuts with his family and seeing how happy he was made me SO happy for him.. it's like he became complete. He has gone thru so much. He deserves to have joy in his life :)

    • @malinjohansson6942
      @malinjohansson6942 6 лет назад +3

      Rose Gold Exactly he seem like such a sweet person and now he probably Feels accepted

    • @rosegold973
      @rosegold973 6 лет назад +1

      Malin Johansson yes! I agree 🙂

    • @gabriellewallace8476
      @gabriellewallace8476 6 лет назад

      Rose Gold um their enclaires

    • @CD-cy9mg
      @CD-cy9mg 6 лет назад +6

      Gabrielle Wallace um it’s “they’re”

    • @gabriellewallace8476
      @gabriellewallace8476 6 лет назад

      Christian Dimayuga Ummmmmmm...mmm 1. You're not valid. 2. This isn't even your comment to respond to. 3. YOU'RE cancelled.

  • @lafierechienne7777
    @lafierechienne7777 5 лет назад +43

    A great kid,no drugs,no gangs,naive,lovely,respectful..I wish he was my son.Happy to know he's been doing good,he deserves all the best.

  • @just4craftsngiggles454
    @just4craftsngiggles454 4 года назад +53

    Aww “i never had a nan on me phone before” I cried so happy for you Tony

  • @taylormeadors4303
    @taylormeadors4303 6 лет назад +211

    probably one of the greatest documentaries i’ve ever seen. tony is such a beautiful person. he’s so strong, and i just pray that he’s doing well now. i related to his story in many ways regarding family life. truly amazing.

    • @c_m1142
      @c_m1142 6 лет назад +2

      you're such a beautiful person so can you give me your snapchat please

  • @theboss-vr1jj
    @theboss-vr1jj 6 лет назад +188

    look at that other boy giving tony advice when he doing nothing himself .

    • @Kim11546
      @Kim11546 4 года назад +13

      He didn't seem too excited for Tony either...

    • @jamestabbron8124
      @jamestabbron8124 4 года назад +17

      In all fairness I think hes just a bit depressed himself and needs some guidance, I think he tried to sound happy for him, probably a bit of jealousy hidden down there

  • @RynaCrash
    @RynaCrash 6 лет назад +385

    Alternative title: The world according to Jon-Jon

    • @JoshJWright
      @JoshJWright 6 лет назад +31

      23:15. I love how sarcastic the narrator is. They didn't like Jon Jon either. I love how they said "basically Jon Jon knows so much about jobs because he's sold some damn cookies" lol

    • @DaleDix
      @DaleDix 6 лет назад +8

      subtle as a brick. But delivered perfectly.

    • @amandanay8035
      @amandanay8035 4 года назад +5

      I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt until that “you want to be a librarian that’s nothing to be proud of”, so rude and uncalled for, and trying to say he had no care for his appearance behind his back and stuff like that, only 12 minutes in and I feel like he’s lost my respect pretty permanently

    • @Toffeeabi81
      @Toffeeabi81 3 года назад

      @@amandanay8035 I have partially sighted friends who are work in libraries they are good a it and love it. I was going to work In my local library but covid hit before i could fill in the Dbs and do the induction.

  • @Parknest
    @Parknest 6 лет назад +549

    I've been wanting to see the full episode. Thanks for uploading it. I work with Tony and he is in a better place. This was filmed in 2009 so he is now 26 years old.

    • @fern8088
      @fern8088 6 лет назад +45

      thank you for the latest..such an endearing young man..:)

    • @fletcheroluoch6574
      @fletcheroluoch6574 6 лет назад +40

      Wow say hi to him!! It's a really inspiring story. Does he still write poems?

    • @Parknest
      @Parknest 6 лет назад +16

      He's already commented on here.

    • @spynke8091
      @spynke8091 6 лет назад +6

      Parknest How brilliant. Things work in mysterious ways. Glad to hear hes where he needed❤❤❤

    • @Pcofwork
      @Pcofwork 6 лет назад +10

      Parknest. I hope Tony is happy and healthy. What an amazing person!

  • @JoyAnne63
    @JoyAnne63 6 лет назад +476

    Was surprised he had an apartment. He would be on the streets in the US.

    • @democracydignityhumanrights
      @democracydignityhumanrights 6 лет назад +14

      Joy Anne yep I lived in a tent for awhile hidden behind a rail road track and a fence enclosed with trees and a giant wall to keep the train quieter for the neighborhood on the other side.

    • @democracydignityhumanrights
      @democracydignityhumanrights 6 лет назад +3

      It was admittedly very fun at times. Really rough at others.

    • @wonka4
      @wonka4 6 лет назад +15

      Me too. Like he had it all, nice furniture, all of his books and clothes and electricity and water

    • @elicia2155
      @elicia2155 6 лет назад +46

      The Queen Of Fabalous Would you rather a bunch of homeless teens and people on the street then?

    • @dmcnamara9859
      @dmcnamara9859 6 лет назад +16

      Joy Anne:
      Young adults (that have been a ward of the State/County,etc.) in most States can get free/subsidized housing,welfare/food-stamps,Medicare,etc. until they turn 21 if they have a job, are in vocational training or are in school.
      And if they have some sort of Disability related to them being a Ward (when they were minors)....many are immediately eligible for SSI,etc. when they turn 18 and released from Local/State custody.
      So,the sappy stories you see and hear about here in the USA of our young adults coming out of Foster care,Institutions,etc....it's their ignorance,substance abuse,not abiding by Government aid guidelines,etc.
      We do take care of our kids when they turn 18; for the ones that got the horrible start in life...and then became Society's Dependent.

  • @itsbunessa
    @itsbunessa 6 лет назад +448

    Tony has such a childlike imagination. It's very endearing to watch.

    • @tonyaleong2356
      @tonyaleong2356 6 лет назад

      Vanessa Vestal youtube

    • @DerFreaQ
      @DerFreaQ 6 лет назад

      Tony Aleong Snapchat

    • @nunyabuisness7552
      @nunyabuisness7552 4 года назад +1

      Epitome of what is wrong with Millennial's. The idea of working all day 5 days a week was such a shock!

    • @theserver6008
      @theserver6008 4 года назад +12

      @@nunyabuisness7552 ok boomer

    • @kamala475
      @kamala475 4 года назад +5

      @@nunyabuisness7552 b o o m e r

  • @sheenap6864
    @sheenap6864 6 лет назад +93

    Watching and witnessing Tony's evolution from lost and hopeless to found and hopeful is so amazing! I hope he never contacts his mother again and just rebuilds his relationship with his brother and dad's family. His mother is clearly a trifling and wretched woman for throwing her two sons away when they were just little boys. I wish both Tony and Mark a happy bright future.

    • @rachelembleton6071
      @rachelembleton6071 2 года назад +1

      Now i dont think u should go there shes two amazing sons but be nice if bridges can be built you dont know What that mother was still may be going thru but she didnt murder or control them right its done them good not Harm you dont know full facts seriously some opinions suck

    • @user-gw7bs2pj9k
      @user-gw7bs2pj9k 9 месяцев назад

      @@rachelembleton6071 behave. The mother is useless.

  • @kellysloan8619
    @kellysloan8619 6 лет назад +44

    Tony has such an innocent vibe about him. He's so sweet and down to earth. Despite the hardships, he still remains to stay happy and carefree. I respect that a lot.

  • @mria621
    @mria621 6 лет назад +572

    So, Jon-Jon lives for free and lives off of Tony's check, and he sits there telling Tony the particular foods (he bought with Tony's money) that are *his,* and that Tony can "help himself" to anything else. WTF?

    • @JoshJWright
      @JoshJWright 6 лет назад +103

      mria621 I love how the producers of the show dissed him. When he (narrator) said Jon Jon is an expert at jobs because he's worked with cookies and then Jon Jon started giving advice to tony about what to do... That was hilarious. You could tell how sarcastic the narrator was.

    • @JoshJWright
      @JoshJWright 6 лет назад +7

      23:15

    • @Pcofwork
      @Pcofwork 6 лет назад +21

      Jon Jon is now an existentialist working as a life coach for wayward teenagers. Do not eat his peanut butter, or wake his black soul up!

    • @MargiesSims
      @MargiesSims 6 лет назад +67

      That was an arrangement between them and if it wasn't for Jon-Jon , Tony wouldn't have had anyone in the world and probably wouldn't have gotten the get up and go in him if he didn't have him with him.

    • @jaybee1248
      @jaybee1248 5 лет назад +33

      mria621 that’s what I’m saying his b____ a___ would be homeless and starving without tony. He has no job but is telling Tony he needs to work on his people skills🙄...while he sleeps all day and mooches off him

  • @pitbikeguyuk4001
    @pitbikeguyuk4001 6 лет назад +632

    Jon Jon is the typical 'know it all' kind of guy that actually doesn't know anything at all..

    • @tanyam8462
      @tanyam8462 6 лет назад +39

      Jon Jon reminds me of Jay from The Inbetweeners :-D

    • @dothedeed
      @dothedeed 6 лет назад +2

      Yes! lol perfect comparison

    • @girlfromsouth214
      @girlfromsouth214 5 лет назад +17

      Lots of young men go through this antagonizing, bullying stage, especially when they are envious of their close peers. Hopefully, he's grown up a lot since filming..... and stopped taking frigging horse tranquilizers.

    • @1987klr
      @1987klr 4 года назад +12

      He's a wrongun and a sponger!! Loving it that Tony might get a job so he'll have more money to sponge.

    • @PixelTheExtraTerrestrial
      @PixelTheExtraTerrestrial 4 года назад +5

      @@1987klr if you look on the comments he commented he works for a solicitor firm now mabie don't judge others

  • @jennikeet5877
    @jennikeet5877 3 года назад +29

    Oh I just adore that gorgeous boy! Shame on his mother, you can’t call her a mother! Tony is just so pure of heart and sweet, I am so pleased he found his brother and his Dad’s family. I wish him and his brother all the happiness and love in the world, bless him!

  • @val0077
    @val0077 4 года назад +41

    Tony seems like a genuinely sweet kid
    He's gone through so much and so many changes and he still sings as he skips around after getting a job.

  • @sarahfisher4219
    @sarahfisher4219 4 года назад +87

    how can you go through so much adversity and still be the intensely, genuinely nice person that Tony is? It really goes to show that you can overcome anything, if you choose to.

    • @notthedoctor8621
      @notthedoctor8621 3 года назад

      Because not everyone is entitled. And maybe he wasn't always like this

    • @catwomanvillain6576
      @catwomanvillain6576 2 года назад

      Agree with tony even if he struggled for starters but hr never give up or went smoking weed with jon jon🚬🤔🙄

  • @chowder8802
    @chowder8802 6 лет назад +33

    When Nan said "he's going to get spoiled" I was so happy finally :) What a sweet young man throughout all his troubles. Both the brothers. Heart warming and so so so glad he found love.

  • @janinearif7850
    @janinearif7850 5 лет назад +47

    Loved what Tony says at the end, the words he uses to sum himself up, he sees himself as a bookcase now not just a pile of books on the floor. It was a perfect way to describe himself especially as he loved books so much. I really enjoyed this documentary. Glad Tony is doing well.

  • @RavenBirdy
    @RavenBirdy 6 лет назад +54

    I was So so sad for him at the beginning but by the end I was almost in tears of joy. His life truly got flipped. So happy for him

  • @Juliana-kc1sv
    @Juliana-kc1sv 4 года назад +69

    i really do adore how this film started out with the setup of "I need to be good enough to see my mom again" and we expect a reunion, and then Tony finds his lost family of his brother/dad's side, and it concludes with him meeting them where they accept him as he is (when Tony tries to play down his new job and his brother immediately responds with "well it's a job, innit?" and (from his update) it appears as though his family is accepting of his sexuality and being). His house also begins by looking a little ragged around the edges and ends up looking modern and beautiful. He even ends it by saying "I don't regret leaving my mom" like.... I'm so happy that we're so lucky to see his period of growth for this kid. I watch these documentaries often but this is by far my favorite. Tony, I've read your update and watched this whole video, and I truly hope that you've continued to be able to flourish as the sweet guy you are. I'm happy that the last decade has been kind to you and your brother, and I believe that for such a truly good person such as yourself, only truly good things will happen. From a queer 19 year old from NYC who ran away from her own family home, with love, julie.

    • @norinefitzgerald5259
      @norinefitzgerald5259 4 года назад +4

      Julie O , beautiful message .. I wish all the best to you to.

    • @_..bert.._
      @_..bert.._ 4 года назад +4

      Julie, your beautiful spirit radiates from this comment. You've touched my heart with your kindness. ♡

  • @jeffreysetapak
    @jeffreysetapak 6 лет назад +41

    Poor dear, no one to love him and guide him properly.

  • @valleyiris2254
    @valleyiris2254 6 лет назад +55

    I'm so glad they all found each other. What a blessing. Tony was alone all that time--but no longer. ♥️

    • @EpicAMV911
      @EpicAMV911 6 лет назад

      NO he had his m8 jon jon to keep him away from the suicide bug.

  • @tommygalbally239
    @tommygalbally239 5 лет назад +31

    38 mins through, this is hitting me right in the feels. Tony is so grounded and an inspiration. He would be the most amazing support worker for underprivileged children and young adults with special needs. Pays well in London too. He has so much drive... So lovely to see in a young person.

  • @teridemedeiros975
    @teridemedeiros975 4 года назад +15

    His mother is really missing out on a fine young man. He just needs a bit of guidance and confidence. He's really adorable!

  • @MissysDomain
    @MissysDomain 4 года назад +140

    "Jon Jon once had a job selling cookies so he's quite an expert on the world of work." That made me laugh.

    • @waynekenzitt5164
      @waynekenzitt5164 2 года назад

      Once means he lost that job and telling Tony not to lose his job, basically Tony is more clever than Jon Jon

  • @fuifuturus9138
    @fuifuturus9138 6 лет назад +37

    Tony and his brother even walk the same! Love is great. I wanna be their friend! 😍🤗😍

  • @thepheniox91
    @thepheniox91 6 лет назад +130

    Wow they are soo similar like twins. They both had the same haircut in their profiles and when they met up they have long hair. Both struggling with getting a job. These guys were meant to met. That what I call fate of destiny.

    • @ryanblack3285
      @ryanblack3285 4 года назад

      Or serendipity

    • @flamefury5777
      @flamefury5777 3 года назад +3

      I was actually just finishing sixth form college at the time. Later went into another college

    • @CherryWongPhoto
      @CherryWongPhoto 3 года назад +1

      How Tony’s brother soothed him as they say in front of their father’s grave. So many years apart, yet still so close

  • @sandiklein1906
    @sandiklein1906 2 года назад +7

    How could a mom throw her wonderful sons away? Breaks my heart, much love and hope for a beautiful future

  • @Shmerica
    @Shmerica 4 года назад +57

    "I take a lot of pride in how I look and what I wear." Umm, you guys look exactly the same..

    • @dekup9000
      @dekup9000 4 года назад +6

      His hair be looking like it went skinny dipping in a grease pool

    • @ContactsNfilters
      @ContactsNfilters 2 года назад

      They're sweet. Reminds me of the tv show "the odd couple".

    • @pallavipatil4548
      @pallavipatil4548 2 года назад +2

      No. I think tony has a better style on what and how to wear than john john. 😂

    • @mygodrocksbiggo5086
      @mygodrocksbiggo5086 2 года назад

      @@dekup9000 and that's all u notice shallow or what

  • @DamianL
    @DamianL 6 лет назад +62

    My wife and I watched this and she was continually looking at me to see when I'd start crying. What a story. I really hope Tony and Mark are doing well. And that Johno, the little know-it-all, has buggered off.

    • @anthonytaylor1723
      @anthonytaylor1723 6 лет назад +87

      He got the boot after this was filmed. My family helped me see how much he was taking advantage

    • @DamianL
      @DamianL 6 лет назад +15

      So happy to hear you're doing well Tony. Sorry to hear about your Nan though. Take care mate.

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf 4 года назад +4

      @@anthonytaylor1723 his Tony, do you still have your kitty? She is so precious and absolutely beautiful 😍💕❤

    • @helenokeeffe1823
      @helenokeeffe1823 3 года назад +1

      @@anthonytaylor1723 Just seen this amazing doc starring you, so glad you are doing well, you deserve nothing but good things in life xx

    • @eunicestone838
      @eunicestone838 2 года назад +2

      @@anthonytaylor1723 yes he was taking advantage but you let him. I truly think he cared for you and maybe rethink your relationship. Really he helped you when you needed. I hope you two reconnect. Maybe he's up on his feet and realized where you are coming from. I pray you are well.

  • @grunclepossum6967
    @grunclepossum6967 6 лет назад +281

    Does anyone else hate Jon Jon? He lives off of Tony, does nothing to contribute, no job, and on top of it all is constantly criticizing the poor kid. I hope Tony's in a better situation now.

    • @MagaIstvan
      @MagaIstvan 6 лет назад +7

      they are friends.

    • @evabalogh3592
      @evabalogh3592 6 лет назад +11

      senegalus yes me too and plus the better staff is his from Tony money
      Jon Jon a blood sucker

    • @denysnavarrete9376
      @denysnavarrete9376 6 лет назад +1

      senegalus o

    • @lorenamontibeller3519
      @lorenamontibeller3519 5 лет назад +33

      senegalus I don't hate him, because he is a Good friend for Tony. He cares about him and they lived like brothers. Don't hate him, he is just a confuse kid

    • @susieQ666
      @susieQ666 5 лет назад +10

      @@MagaIstvan nope no friend ....jon jon is a user n a low life ... friends dont put friends down ...

  • @chutzpahboo
    @chutzpahboo 6 лет назад +67

    I know this is from 09 but I just want to hug him super tightly until he squeeks.

  • @Lava_Girl-
    @Lava_Girl- 6 лет назад +50

    The brothers are so alike!

  • @hollyobaby6949
    @hollyobaby6949 3 года назад +8

    Wow when he didn't complain his Christmas alone, but immediately thought of how he could buy them gifts this coming Christmas. I'm just thrilled for him. I'm so glad I watched this.

  • @lalakuma9
    @lalakuma9 6 лет назад +436

    Tony seems like a nice, intelligent kid, even if a little too trusting and dependent. His mom must be doing something wrong to have 2 of her kids run away. Also instead of looking for a librarian job, he should work in a book store. It requires fewer qualifications.

    • @eleanorhumphreys1376
      @eleanorhumphreys1376 6 лет назад +12

      Yeah, you need a Masters degree to be a librarian and even then, it's hard to find a job.

    • @leannemo7382
      @leannemo7382 6 лет назад +21

      Tony works for a solicitor (attorney) now. He and his brother (whose engaged) are doing great. :)

    • @bettyechols6405
      @bettyechols6405 5 лет назад +2

      Intelligent? In what world?

    • @bettyechols6405
      @bettyechols6405 5 лет назад +1

      @@leannemo7382 I find that hard to believe, unless he is the Janitor

    • @ella-bt8hp
      @ella-bt8hp 4 года назад +8

      @@bettyechols6405 he isn't an attorney he works for a solicitors firm perhaps on reception or something but who knows he could have gotten a degree.

  • @suzannestauffer2578
    @suzannestauffer2578 4 года назад +10

    What an amazing smile Tony has! I would be proud to have Tony and Mark as my sons. Wish you both forever happiness!

  • @laurafinch2821
    @laurafinch2821 2 года назад +4

    As soon as I heard you say if you don't find your family you'll get one, one of your own, I was thinking yes you can join my family anyday!
    Please publish your poems and use this documentary to your fullest...your so charismatic and just pleasant! I wish you happiness above everything as you deserve it! All the best..bless you.

  • @joannax1610
    @joannax1610 4 года назад +9

    My heart broke for this lad, then it filled with joy when seeing him with his brother and family! I can't believe how exactly alike in every way the 2 are!!
    Jon Jon is a bad friend, he just belittles him and keeps him thinking he needs him all the time! Typical user!
    So glad it ended in such a great way! Xx

  • @heatherbowlan9822
    @heatherbowlan9822 6 лет назад +63

    This gave me goose bumps along with happy tears , I'm so happy for the boys , everyone needs someone ,thank you for uploading ! ❤️🇨🇦🙏🏽🇨🇦❤️

  • @missredumbrella
    @missredumbrella 6 лет назад +9

    Really happy this young lad has found his family. I found my dad and brothers after 39 years and not one of them wanted to know. Tonys family are great people , I wish them all the best.

  • @LisaAAdams
    @LisaAAdams 6 лет назад +35

    This is such a lovely but bittersweet story. I'm a mom to three fantastic sons & I would absolutely do ANYTHING for my children. This program made my heart ache for Tony & his brother. Having children is the single most fulfilling thing I've ever done with my life; I cannot comprehend how a mother could just toss away her children like rubbage. I hope so much that Tony, his brother & his father's loving family are all doing well & offering each other the love & support we all need & desire. Tony has such a beautiful nature & I hope he soon learns for himself how truly amazing he is. It would be amazing to see an update on the family.

  • @Iworkwithnitwits
    @Iworkwithnitwits 4 года назад +4

    Tony reconnecting with his brother is the best part of this documentary.

  • @mrsc896
    @mrsc896 4 года назад +5

    To hear a child say he wants to see his mum but he’s worried what she’ll think of him 😩😢 any decent mum will always love you, I wish all children knew this

  • @lukefoster3397
    @lukefoster3397 6 лет назад +87

    “Clouds look like clouds” - JonJon

    • @taylordevore2563
      @taylordevore2563 5 лет назад

      Luke Foster 🤣🤣👍🏼

    • @maryshaffer8474
      @maryshaffer8474 5 лет назад +9

      Why couldnt Jon Jon get some respect? He kept the house going until Tony got on his feet. Food and Bills first then junk. I dont know why he didnt get benefits though.

  • @lindadobson9854
    @lindadobson9854 6 лет назад +169

    Awww....I think he's so sweet!. And why didn't jonjon get a job? He's happy to live on Tony??!

    • @yettabonez5777
      @yettabonez5777 6 лет назад +31

      Linda Dobson That's what I was thinking especially when Jon went to the market and comes back talking about what Tony can & can't have when HIS money paid for it all

    • @raggletaggle8827
      @raggletaggle8827 5 лет назад +19

      Agreed. And when he told Tony "Stop bitching" just because Tony put his foot down and said he would not allow black emulsion to be painted 'all over' HIS apartment - I felt really pissed. I think Tony let him off easy because he wanted JonJon to be an adoptive brother - and he probably thought it was normal for a 'brother' to be snarky like that. But the reality is - if I said something like that to my own blood siblings if I stayed in their homes and behaved the same way about the wall paint, I'd obviously expect them to call me out for being so rude and bossy. JonJon was taking advantage of Tony's kindness. JJ acted nice here and there, but I suspect he was just gaslighting sweet lonely Tony. He should count himself lucky Tony even said he could have his bedroom black - most people wouldn't even allow their friends to decide that.

    • @nunyabuisness7552
      @nunyabuisness7552 4 года назад +5

      jonjon might have a behind the scenes jobjob planting twolips on Tony.

    • @rainopdewilde509
      @rainopdewilde509 4 года назад +2

      well he ;ives on disability, maybe his illness got worse since he sold cookies back then. and now he doesn't think he can get a job now?

    • @cl9730
      @cl9730 2 года назад +2

      Reading a lot of very negative comments on Jon Jon here (maybe he was'nt perfect and all that but...) and they are way too mean in my opinion, like mobbing him out. Everybody loves the cute and lovely guy, let's go jump on the other one, hey? (No)
      He might be reading here, what do you know? He seemed depressed (clinically) to me - if that was the case I hope life have turned to the better for him too.
      Really good docu, glad I got to see it. Stumbled upon it.
      Really like the starting picture of Tony with a red umbrella. Sweeet!
      The best to you all guys!

  • @lovethatdragon2984
    @lovethatdragon2984 6 лет назад +86

    I'm so glad he found his family. Best of luck to them all in future.

  • @korky-7349
    @korky-7349 6 лет назад +25

    What a nice kid..I wish the best for him

  • @pinkydash8543
    @pinkydash8543 6 лет назад +45

    Tony is such a lovely lad. I hope he's doing well.

  • @heathercbc7287
    @heathercbc7287 6 лет назад +44

    At first I thought that Jon Jon was helpful to Tony by helping him spend wisely. As I get further into Tony's story, I see how JJ reacted when Tony got the job and was really disappointed. He seemed pissed and jealous.
    I'm so glad that Tony found his brother. What a lovely phone call,
    On another note, I was so sad to see the squalor that Tony and JJ lived in. Both in their flat, and in the flat they removed the washing machine from. It was something out of a third world country and I couldn't imagine that happening in my community. ( I live in rural Canada)

    • @generichuman2044
      @generichuman2044 5 лет назад +5

      I think Jon Jon is a nice person at heart but is someone who was still very childlike at the time. I think he's just quite lazy and was hoping that he could continue to just live with his friend and do nothing.

    • @Kim11546
      @Kim11546 4 года назад +1

      I felt jonjon was jealous too...

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf 4 года назад +1

      The squalor they lived in and their personal hygiene was horrific, that poor poor kitty should have been removed from them, they weren't fit to look after themselves or their home let alone another being, an entirely defenceless innocent being at that

    • @ellenorbjornsdottir1166
      @ellenorbjornsdottir1166 3 года назад

      If you pay your gas bill to FortisBC or Pacific Northern, you don't live rural. Rural starts where the methane gas ends and the propane begins.

  • @emzfiji5624
    @emzfiji5624 6 лет назад +41

    So touching ! Would love an update on how his life's going :) wish him nothing but happiness 💗

    • @JoshJWright
      @JoshJWright 6 лет назад +1

      Emz Fiji he's doing fine. His brother moved to his city. They keep in touch.

  • @RoundMelon
    @RoundMelon Год назад +12

    Tony is such a unique, imaginative soul and his brother Mark is also seems so creative & put together, despite what they have both been through. When they were reading their poetry it was really touching, the words they had written raw… I hope they are still writing, what a fantastic outlet they both had 🙂 I can imagine them doing something creative in life.
    I had the feeling not everything about their childhoods was told, but even reading through the lines you can see that both brothers are better off without their mother. Their fathers side of the family seem so welcoming, I genuinely teared up during their reunion. His Nan seems like such a lovely woman.
    Those two were (are) so incredibly resilient & you could see from their attitudes that they are better than the cr@p they’ve been put through. They’ll go far, I’m sure of it.
    Wishing them both the absolute best because they both deserve it after what they’ve been through. Hopefully they are doing great 😌

  • @elderwand08
    @elderwand08 6 лет назад +6

    Made me cry. Tony is adorable. Would love a brother like him! Hope he found happiness and kept it

  • @ashtree8898
    @ashtree8898 Год назад +2

    Love it when Tony gets the bar job and almost skips across the car park and cannot stop saying “I’ve got a job!”. I chortled away all by myself watching that. Wonderful, too, that the two brothers were reunited.

  • @lodersracing
    @lodersracing 4 года назад +15

    Fascinating documentary, glad that you found each other.

  • @justadude3595
    @justadude3595 6 лет назад +54

    they all look exactly the same as their father haha glad he found his brother

    • @lalakuma9
      @lalakuma9 6 лет назад +5

      They even had the same hairstyle, lol

  • @wandataylor4873
    @wandataylor4873 6 лет назад +11

    Tony is so precious.

  • @chocochick1238
    @chocochick1238 2 года назад +2

    I’m so pleased to hear that the young man in the documentary found his family and I wish him every success in his life.

  • @onceuponatime3918
    @onceuponatime3918 4 года назад +8

    I have just watched this and when you found your brother and your dad’s side of the family i was so happy for you. You both come across as lovely young boys trying to find your way around this planet despite the early struggles. I wish you both well in the future. X

  • @silverjinglebobspur1
    @silverjinglebobspur1 4 года назад +7

    This struck a lot of emotions within myself. I've ridden this ride, with my own life, not to the degree as this film, but enough to conjure demons of my own past. I'm an old man now, but, I still have feelings. Thank you for so openly sharing.

  • @fractal4284
    @fractal4284 6 лет назад +61

    Damn I miss the days of MSN Messenger and flip phones

    • @david-stevenmorris.4418
      @david-stevenmorris.4418 4 года назад

      Motorola has a new flip phone like the old Razor but much newer and better and equally expensive.

    • @alisamodin5187
      @alisamodin5187 4 года назад

      @@david-stevenmorris.4418 after I read your comment I googled it because I hadn't even heard of it and watched a video about it. It actually looks pretty sweet, but yeah, definitely expensive!

  • @MsTcup
    @MsTcup 4 года назад +5

    I LOVE this store. I watched this twice. Tony is a great kid and he deserves a good life. I wish nothing but the best for him, his bro and family. He’s got a good heart.

  • @RoibinDeargFiadhaich
    @RoibinDeargFiadhaich 4 года назад +6

    Wow, this whole documentary was a roller coaster of emotions. Wherever Tony and his brother are now I wish them the utter best ❤

  • @smstorm57
    @smstorm57 4 года назад +8

    I cannot imagine any mother throwing these boys to the wind. They have such potential and deserve a fighting chance. She must be a shrew.

  • @itsallgucci5005
    @itsallgucci5005 6 лет назад +4

    I'm so happy the brothers found each other again.

  • @HijackedGiraffe
    @HijackedGiraffe 6 лет назад +8

    I'm so happy for Tony that he found his place in the world! He really deserves to be happy! I'm glad he found his brother and his dad's side of the family too.

  • @timboweslyon6611
    @timboweslyon6611 6 лет назад +12

    One of the most heart-wrenching documentaries. Poor Tony. At least he found his brother. At last he has family. May God Bless them both.

  • @mh56487
    @mh56487 4 года назад +7

    oh god i was so happy when he got the job, he may have been lazy and not bothered to work in the past but when he started trying he got so likable. just an honest guy whos made a lot of misstakes in his life but is trying to turn it around

    • @gardenjoy5223
      @gardenjoy5223 3 года назад +5

      What mistakes? Leaving his abusive mother? That was no mistake. Going to school? That was no mistake either. It wasn't even a mistake to let Jon-Jon in, for he needed someone at that time and in his own - rather selfish - way Jon-Jon did contribute exactly what Tony lacked then. After school he looked for a job and got one and kept it. Then he went looking for his family, found them and blended in. And he was smart enough not to go back to his abusive mother. I don't seek 'a lot of mistakes'. I see a lovely guy, who's trying to make the best of life. The dirty room is a totally normal stage in the lives of many teenagers, most grow out of it more or less. And so did he.

  • @sixer6er
    @sixer6er 3 года назад +6

    Man this made me teary. Such a lovely soul is Tony. So glad it worked out for him and his brother. Wonderful that neither seemed bitter and angry. All the best guys if you see this xx

  • @denisechauvin1965
    @denisechauvin1965 3 года назад +6

    That was such a beautiful outcome for this young man and his brother. The world is filled with good things and good outcomes....

  • @MissNebulosity
    @MissNebulosity 6 лет назад +8

    +Real Stories, this is one of the BEST documentaries you've done. This was so surprisingly heartwarming. Excellent documentary work.

  • @w1lf1ewoo
    @w1lf1ewoo 6 лет назад +39

    I started watching this with a feeling of dread of feeling very uncomfortable, but I actually am very glad I saw it through and have been left feeling quite emotional...I grew up in a similar northern english town a generation earlier than Tony and had my share of time having left home, on the dole, in and out of menial bar jobs...but with optimism for the future...it all seems so long ago and far away...I hope Tony (and the other 2) are doing well and have found whatever they have been looking for.....Richard 46 (Hong Kong)

  • @CuriousRegard
    @CuriousRegard 6 лет назад +20

    This warmed my Frozen dark heart. I hope he has been doing well these past 7-8 years. I hope he is happy. :)

  • @violettagrant2328
    @violettagrant2328 Год назад +3

    It would be so nice to get an update to how everyone is doing.... this documentary really warms my heart....

  • @strawberrypez2938
    @strawberrypez2938 6 лет назад +25

    What a heartwarming story to see him at the end find his family. So glad he found his brother---now he has what he's been looking for. He's so sweet and kind and I wish only the best for him. God guide his steps as he continues on his journey

  • @teresatoft3512
    @teresatoft3512 5 лет назад +4

    I was so happy to see his reunion with his dad's side of the family, they were so understandings & accepting. Best of life to him.

  • @Superbustr
    @Superbustr 4 года назад +18

    This really stuck out to me: "Jon Jon once had a job selling cookies, so he is quite an expert in the world of work".

  • @lspbeautea4791
    @lspbeautea4791 4 года назад +3

    Broke my heart, & made it up again. Bless his wee heart. ❤️

  • @Luna.3.3.3
    @Luna.3.3.3 2 года назад +3

    This is the most beautiful, heart warming story I've seen in a very LONG time. 💕💕 I was crying with happiness! I hope the brothers make up for lost time with their nan and that side of the family - obviously, their mother doesn't deserve another thought ... imo

  • @mirandaschalen
    @mirandaschalen 6 лет назад +11

    Having no family at all, this made me laugh and cry, awesome kids, all of them! Turn in to fine young man i would say. Glad he found the missing part of his family

  • @agadorisabel
    @agadorisabel 6 лет назад +73

    I just found some of your poems online and I liked them. You must be in your 30s now. I really hope you have been doing well. You came across as such a kind person and you had such a hard time and yet managed to stay really great. I wish you all the best.

    • @anne-droid7739
      @anne-droid7739 6 лет назад +8

      This was made in 2009, when he was 18. So he's 26.

    • @salsburysteakjr
      @salsburysteakjr 6 лет назад +3

      Where did you find his poems online? I googled to see if there was any kinda update regarding his situation, haven't come across a bit of info.

    • @agadorisabel
      @agadorisabel 6 лет назад

      salsburysteakjr I googled his name and the word poetry. I think they are ones from the time of the filming.

    • @grecia.gabriela
      @grecia.gabriela 6 лет назад +3

      Agador Hi, What's his full name?

    • @SpicyRikers
      @SpicyRikers 6 лет назад

      Nevaeh Cerise think his name is Anthony Taylor, I'm sure I've seen him comment on this video a few times

  • @bgdyz4242
    @bgdyz4242 2 года назад +1

    Really enjoyed this documentary!! Probably the best I’ve watched in a while! I felt so much joy everytime these boys did, truly. Such a heart warming journey.

  • @your_belief_vs_everything
    @your_belief_vs_everything 4 года назад +4

    He doesn't remember cuddling his mum. How sad.
    This is why I hug my sons every chance I get. They'll never say they don't remember cuddling their mum.

  • @BlankName88
    @BlankName88 6 лет назад +5

    I can relate with him. My half sister recently found me after 20 years. You're nervous and excited at the same time.

  • @BBB-to4cc
    @BBB-to4cc 6 лет назад

    One of the best episodes I have seen, thanks for covering these inspiring stories.

  • @Boycie77
    @Boycie77 2 года назад +1

    Every time I watch this it makes me cry. So glad Tony found his brother and lost family. Hope he continued to grow into a confident young man.

  • @goobirtv8994
    @goobirtv8994 4 года назад +15

    "i got the job" ... "whos this"

  • @triple_gem_shining
    @triple_gem_shining 4 года назад +3

    what a heart felt documentary! love the way this was done.

  • @omennemo8844
    @omennemo8844 6 лет назад +1

    This is a good story. Thank you for uploading this.

  • @Emma.......
    @Emma....... 4 года назад +2

    I'm so glad I came across this documentary... Tony is amazing honestly the way he picked himself up and sorted his life on his own when many people would've crumbled. What a guy! I hope everything is still going good for him and his family he deserves happiness 😁

  • @staffylover1950
    @staffylover1950 6 лет назад +8

    I was so happy for him when he got the job!

  • @emmacrocodilejipssy5098
    @emmacrocodilejipssy5098 4 года назад +4

    So nice to hear your still seeing your family, it’s lovely to hear an update so thank you so much . Hopefully only beautiful things come your way, best of luck to you xo

  • @KhaiMusic
    @KhaiMusic 6 лет назад +2

    Best documentary so far! So happy for him!

  • @carleyanderson9862
    @carleyanderson9862 2 года назад

    Omg this has to be one of the best, heartwarming documentaries I have ever seen. Loved it!!