Cry it Out Alternatives - Gordon Neufeld
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- Опубликовано: 1 июл 2015
- www.kidsinthehouse.com/baby/sl... Gordon Neufeld, PhD Psychologist and Author, explains how kids should not be allowed to cry themselves to sleep, and shares a few alternatives that will help them sleep and create a strong connection with the parents.
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This is what I needed to hear! My son was absolutely traumatized by infant safe sleep, so I knew I didn't want to let him cry it out. I just didn't know the alternative. Thank you!
I remember my nurse told me to do this with my son 15 years ago and I listened to her now I feel so bad I just hope it had a minimal negative effect. He’s a well-adjusted kid now but you just have fears as a mum
Love this. We are very anti cry it out and think it is barbaric. All well said!
I only leave the room for a few minutes and if my son has trouble going down after I leave I will come back and sometimes try to comfort him till he's calm and walk out. If he's still having trouble after a couple minutes I'll just go qnd sit in there
Sometimes that's all he really needs to go to sleep; just having me in the room
And he's never developed separation anxiety, at least not to any noticable degree
very nice video... really makes sense ...
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My soon to be ex-wife suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder. She was a "cry-it-out" baby exhibiting higher than normal propensity to cry. I feel this was one of the biggest contributing factors to her disorder. She failed to learn healthy bonds and trust which continued into adulthood. Over-sensitive babies need more comfort, not less. Now 2 lives are ruined.
Hope she gets the help she needs with DBT. Borderline can be treated.
What about infants? How do we get an infant to sleep in their own room without crying it out?
Did u figure it out? I have a 9m old and am sick of all this cry it out info.
Stay with them and comfort them to sleep. My son is 22 months now and I nursed him to sleep for a long time. He weaned himself off milk 2 months ago and he would fall asleep cuddling me or holding my hand. Now he just likes for me to sit beside him when he falls asleep. In time, I know he will no longer need me to be in the room, but we should wait until they are developmentally ready and every child is ready at a different time.
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