@Gary Lee Well, turns out transidentity is actually (and more and more, as studies keep being performed) backed up by science, not only on the point of brain structure, but also with genes, according to actual studies, that you can easily find by googling it, on many sources (because it doesn't seem like you did any research on this specific subject before even throwing hate and non-facts at it.) Think about it, transgender people aren't new in our world (search for Magnus Hirschfeld, the religious role of transgender people in Ancient Greece cults, or even the knight of Eon.) Transgender people have been around since the very depths of history, and there are also credible clues for that, unlike some other communities (which aren't even in the same subject.) Turns out that, for example, gene receptors of androgens in young transgender girls, are longer than those of cisgender men, which affects the binding of hormones like testosterone, even in the early life of the individual. Another fact about a trans woman's brain is that it has been ; again, one example amongst many others, in the great diversity of studies that have been done with transgender individuals ; shows that the cortical thickness is as important as the cortical thickness observed in a cisgender woman's brain, unlike cisgender AND transgender men, who tend to present thinner cortices (affects the way the brain actually processes and organises informations, which can also have a role in your perception of the community around you, based on your gender). Those are facts, and the only differences between the transgender brain and the cisgender brain are those who tend to appear with the maturation of the individual (according to both education, how the individual is raised in a society, and the developpement of the body related to the influence of the sex and its hormones later in life), and that become noticeable with puberty. But the genes (the DNA you did talk about) and the basic functions of the brain in it's role, with it's social environment, stay the same, and transgender individuals actually share a greater amount of caracteristics with their cisgender versions than with the individuals that only share the same sex with them. Some girls are born with masculine caracteristics, and XY chromosomes are unfortunately concerned by this possibility, just like an XX for a guy. Genetics aren't a restricted mechanic at all, pretty much everything is possible with it. So yes, transidentity is actually backed up by science, biology and history. Get over it. I would also add that describing womanhood or manhood with only what comes out of between the legs is pretty sad, and in addition to that, completely false.
@Gary Lee what you're actually talking about are trans issues. I have a family member, my sister, that is a trans girl (age 17, 3 months on HRT), and nothing of what you said never happened in the case of her transition. Although my parents had some kind of hesitation, which is perfectly normal, they were worried about her health, and the medical team took that in account. That is why we have psychologists being here for both parents and children when transition is brought up, both parties must agree and understand each other. My sister was very comprehensive of that, and with all the support she had from the family, we all did what was right to do for her. Maybe things happen differently in my country (I am from France), but these are legal and social issues brought up by the movement. Just like my sibling, I am transgender myself, and I don't agree with underaged kids transitioning. Just because I exist as a trans person doesn't mean that I agree with everything that happens in the movement, which faces a huge ideoligical problem nowadays. This is why I prefer to rely on the medical field. I take my own responsibilities as a person involved in a medical condition, and wait the time I have to wait to make sure I respect everybody's rights around me. Transitioning takes a lot of energy and self-awareness, which children don't necessarely have. As a kid, I was non-conforming, that's for sure, but not being fully aware of what caused my lack of confort on many levels of my life, so early in my life, I discovered myself through art and open-minded friends. As a kid, I developped myself in a way that strengthened me, and I overcame dysphoria, partly because gender roles and bodies are not as important when you are a kid. Things got tougher during teenage years, that is where I also continued to learn about myself, and for myself. Many times, transition was brought up, but I wasn't feeling completely sure that it was the moment. Now, I am sure it wasn't because I didn't have the maturity to carry all of this. I am absolutely not supportive of children (directly) transitioning, because yes, me and my sister were very depressed, but we always lifted each other up, and found a way to be and to live our childhood to the fullest we could get it. I regret absolutely nothing, but now that the time has come, both me and my sister want to live our lives without that extra weight. We didn't choose to be born that way, we share that, but we did the right thing at the right moment, and adapted depending on the situation, as human beings. Trans people come from all origins, all colors and experiences in life. We are individuals, and we don't all feel and think the same. I quitted the transgender movement because I didn't agree with everything, and I didn't find myself in the right place to actually be able to build a better world for all of us. I don't want to live in a world where children are making the biggest mistake of their lives to later have to deal with my condition. I don't want to live in a world where I have to anounce my pronouns every time I walk in a room. But still, I am transgender, I deal with it, and I make sure to work on myself, for me and my surroundings to be comfortable, I take reponsibilities for everything that happens to me. My sister and me didn't choose to be born in such a body, but we work hard to be successful in our social life. Even if it implies being extremely passable, we consider everything our responsibility, as a response to our own problem. So please don't associate every single person that deals with an abnormal situation to what the loudest minority of us might have said or done. From one country to another, from one person to another one, it is never the same (and that is also true for people within the medical field, but when studies show results that aren't isolated, you can't compare it to the mistakes of some of them). All we asked for is decent respect and civism, we deal with the rest of it, and are tired to be called out for existing. This is nothing better than any other kind of discrimination, and we just want it to stop. I get your point, and share a part of it with you. But I don't want to be associated with people I disagree with, and an image that is the product of widely spread misinformation.
Had my first experience with a ladyboy in Thailand end up spending my vacation with her she is a wonderful woman. I didn't know she was ladyboy until we were intimate she got scared for a moment but I told her it was OK .. I hate this world she should not have to be afraid when being intimate with someone..
I watched it,liked it...watched it all the way thru. I would date a Translady ...and proudly( for the right girl.) I'm glad the guy in the video stayed with her after his buddy bailed!
Si que va estar muy buena , ame la escena donde eres honesta con los chicos y es muy parecida a la realidad 😣 Te deseo muchos éxitos en este proyecto 💝✨
Love this. Thankful for all of you!! I just don’t date. It’s ok. Sometimes I definitely feel asexual. What I really need most is human touch and companionship anyway... one of the worst things about being transgender and coming out is that you are isolated from normal relationships because you are different. Females tend to think that you will touch them and males don’t want you to. It’s hard to have any relationships... You guys bring up a VERY important point about transgender people being above the curve in mental health and self-acceptance. That’s HUGE! And a big growth opportunity for others too if they get to know you! ❤️
Stephanie R. thi is uncanny, you read my mind, I feel the very same thing After taking T blockers for 2 years all my feelings went away. I never was very active but that is ok with me.. I think everything plays in the head anyway. have a nice day.
i finished transitioning (completed bottom surgery) earlier this year. i was in the process of transitioning for quite a few years prior. unfortunately, i had more bad experiences with men than good experiences. my last boyfriend swerved back and forth between "i love you for who you are" and "youre making me gay .... " or "all my friends are telling me youre a guy in a dress and gay for dating you ..." as a result, i tend to do everything to hide that im a transwoman as opposed to a CIS woman. i too have been told im deceitful for not saying im trans at the very begining of every conversation with men. but, youre right, there is so much negativity towards transwoman and such a feeling that were mentally ill or crazy or wierd that its hard to come right out and say it. i look pretty good for sure, but i still have people run out of bathrooms when they see me in the bathroom or insist on calling me sir; mostly for the purpose of completely making me like im some wierdo or embarrassing me in front of a crowd. so its really hard to be honest, and im not the bravest of women either. you all are so full of the strength i would love to have ...truly, bless you LLL, Esq
Curious, is it possible to identify yourself as a man with consideration for any changes you have been through? Imagine this category, or concept; a man is a person who was born with specific organs . If the person somehow loses or modified those organs, they are still a man, just a regular man. The body may function differently, but the functionality or appearance of the body neither raises nor lowers the value of the man. You are always valuable as a person, especially if you're a good person. Regardless what your body looks like, the person is still a man , and if they are a good person then they are a good man. Can that concept exist? Can one embrace that thinking? Can it be common? Thank you
Well, one thing I really like and am very turned on by is that many or most trans women I have met have always been very well dressed and ultra feminine, and that's just great and I love it !
Great message girls. Indeed that self confidence, strength and courage to live our lives expresses in many ways, and one of them is how beautiful we look when we are fulfilling our lives. Keep strong and brave girls. 💜
@@TheCarolinaGutierrez14 You are welcome. I just happen to know the feeling and I love it. I am blessed to share that same joy you carry for living and sharing your beloved life. 😊
OMG! This is so precious and needed. World needs more like this. More I ment videos, books, songs, any kind of examples that shows people the reality. I truly believe that very soon we will not need to hide anymore. We are people and have same rights as any others have. We can be precious for this world and do our best to make it prosperous and colorful. I love you Carolina and how much you do for the community and all of you wonderful people who did this video and other actions to show the real us. Who we really are and how we really feel. A big big big thank you!
"Trans women have done the work to be the best, most authentic versions of themselves and that alone is worthy of your time and attention." This is *the* absolute, most hilarious delusional argument I have ever had the pleasure of being presented to me. I haven't laughed like I did to that line in years. It's a stunning self-contradictory statement: "I am more authentic than the genuine thing because I grew hair, put on a dress, and possibly went through multiple surgeries to become something I am not, in an attempt to because as far away from my authentic self and that's what makes me more authentic than what is literally authentic." 😂
Minoan Light, Hi, it's about your attitude if you're open and friendly it will be easier. 'smile' is the key, your pix looks too serious almost 'annoyed' ? look at mine = a little better don't you say ? good luck have a nice day.
I agree some trans women are not passable. But think about it: Are all women passable as women? Some look like men and are straight. Not all men are passable as men, there are heterosexuals who look like women. The problem is to get to know each other first, there are people for all tastes, but you have to get close first.
This is so fantastic. Very informative, powerful and strong messages. I have shared this on my Facebook page. Hugs and stay safe dear. Love the video and music. Great
Wow! I am a male who likes women and femininity, I like trans women as long as there not freaky with green hair and crazy makeup! I would date one, don't know any that I know of as you say! Lots of them on youtube!
@@TheCarolinaGutierrez14 I know I have said this to you in the past but I do believe you are the most beautiful girl in the world. oh by the way that's not meant to be creepy that is just a positive statement to you🌹
Wow! What a wonderful Video! This should be on television. I Love it! And I Love all of you. As short as this video is, it really says a LOT. Wonderful job!
@@TheCarolinaGutierrez14 Hola carol te pido que por favor leas mi comentario si puedes hacerme el favor de tomarte unos minutos para leerlo te agradecería muchisimo
This was a very informative video. I don't mean to compare, however I can't help but to say that most transwomen tend to be more feminine than most cis women are today. And I'm not ashamed in any way to say that I'd be more than honored to date, and even one day make a transwoman my wife. At the end of the day, transwomen are human beings like everyone else.
I love this video and it gives me a good helping of strength. I am still earlier in my transition and you give me someone to look forward to viewing. Thank you for being you.
No matter who we are, there will always be people who dont approve of us or like us. That's ok, they dont pay your bills. We have to love our selves. What's important, is who we are on the inside. What a terrible shame to dislike a person and not know that they are as beautiful inside, as in your case, as beautiful on the outside. Be well and always find happiness. There are many who will appreciate you for you.
This video is wonderful! As you mentionned, a trans woman is the most beautiful and accomplished personality for a human being. You're so inspring! Thank you!!
My daughter came out as trans earlier this year, and my oldest friend came out as trans several years ago. I am somewhere in the middle ground myself. I think a lot like a woman, and a lot like a man. But I realised a long time ago, that I would be equally comfortable in either a male or a female body. I am and have always been open about my feminine side as a man. In fact I describe myself as a man with a strong feminine side, and have done so since the mid 80's. Sexually, I am attracted to femininity. I find that men will often open up to me about their feelings, and women often enjoy talking with me. I have a lot of female friends, both cis and trans. As my Dad taught me as a child in the 60's and 70's. It is important to treat each person as the individual that they are. Because everyone is different.
What a wonderful video!! All of you girls make us proud!! We are women, and we just want to be respected and treated like that... @Caroland you are one of the most beautiful trans women than I have ever seen, and not only physically (that you do are gorgeous) but also because of how you are, what you say, and everything that you share on your videos. I love to watch you, and to know that you achieved all your dreams of being and integral woman, thanks to your bravery and you effort. I didn´t do it, and I believe it is too late at my age (I am more than 50 years old), but anyway I enjoy and feel happy knowing that some persons like you and the other women in this video have done it. I admire you, and I send you a big kiss!! PD: cuando puedas, por fa coloca más videos en español... Eres irresistible con tu acento de colombianita... Uff, me desarma toda!! ;o)) Besos!
A short film that did not say anything negative about the men that are attracted to them, thank you. The "fragile" masculinity that you spoke about hopefully there are red flags before it goes too far. He is not only a problem for trans women he is a problem for women and men in general.
Well, I am amazed! I must be be 100% honest and say, first I don't know why I pressed to see this video except for the FACT that the woman in this scene is absolutely wonderfully beautiful! Shame both men reacted negatively when you came out with the truth... saying that you were a transgender. Their facial expressions automatically changed! On this note I would like to say the following... I for one would have acknowledged being surprised, because of how beautiful and feminine you look, but more importantly on how you handled yourself when communicating that fact! I believe you can't go wrong with someone who dares to show their worth and beauty, from within. I have never ever been with or even thought of getting to know a transgender... Generally speaking after seeing a top notch quality individual like yourself, I would have given this moment a chance... Seriously :-)
I love you all so much & thank you for your work even though now that I have been with several trans women, I'm no longer into non-trans. Sorry to make a distinction but it's wonderful one.
espectacular, simplemente genial, me encanto al igual q todos tus videos. lo compartiré en todas mis redes sociales, esto tiene q verlo todo el mundo. mil felicitaciones y bendiciones para ti caro, te adoro, besos y abrasos desd Venezuela :*
Gabriela Saez gracias!!! Me encanta que te haya gustado tanto y muchas gracias por compartirlo :) necesitamos que este mensaje le llegue a muchas personas sobre todo en nuestros países
I was very surprised, the video is a great tool to explain everything about us. you ladies are much prettier than most of us. but I am not unhappy . have a nice day.
Fue Lindo Escuchar Todo Eso. Son seguras De Si Mismas Sin Importar lo qke La gente Piense Sobre Ellas. Son Un Ejemplo de Que No importa Lo De Afuera Si No Lo Qke Ay En el Interior✔💯❤
De verdad que estoy orgulloso de la persona que eres te convertiste en uno de los mayores ejemplos de igualdad y tolerancia del mundo sigue asi eres un diamante en bruto sinceramente amaria salir con una chica como tu saludos desde Venezuela - Edo Monagas.
Great video. I have a transgender girlfriend who are the most wonderful woman I have ever met. I`m heterosexual but secure on my own sexuality and have no problems with that. A relationship are more than sex
Min 3:35 70% is a lot of million of people. Well I would like to know a beautiful transgender like you. I do not know how different is the feeling because I have to live the experience, but I can tell say you something everybody deserve respect and this is something that I learned early in my life from my parents. All of you are so beautiful. Best Regards
All because a woman is Trans it does not disqualify them from having a safe, loving accepting relationship. As a straight man I have dated Trans women before. I adore them and have a heart for them.
Julz Amidala yay!!! I’m glad you love it and that is exactly the purpose :) to give a voice to all of our sisters and speak up for what’s right and educate 💜💜💜
Caroland Tu aparición al principio me dolió tanto 🥺 Por qué me a pasado mucho No soy mala persona solamente quiero alguien que me quiera en mi presente en mi pasado y mi futuro. No busco aceptación de nadie solo respeto y listo. Llevo 4 años sin pareja y aún no llega el indicado pero me amo y se que algún día llegara alguien Si no llega prefiero mejor Estar sola que mal acompañada 😊
LatinaKamilla thank you sis!!! 💜🖤💜🖤💜🖤💜🖤💜 I’m so glad we got the Spanish subtitles for this edition cuz you know your hermanas in Latin America and all over the world need this message out there
Caroland yaass i didn’t even notice that! Come on work effort! I wish my Spanish was better so I can talk and make Spanish videos like you cuz some subbies been asking me pero tengo que practicar! Jaja keep slayin Sis!! Love love love
I love how she gives him so much attitude because he calls her 'Gorgeous' but she thinks nothing of him calling her a cool 'girl' as opposed to woman. Great writing in this commercial😝😝😝
Omg you are all beautiful! I choked up watching this....so well done...yeah it's so hard to meet transwomen....there is something special about transwomen...couldnt take my eyes off an of you and yes your femininity is special❤❤ well done ladies
Great video as a straight guy I feel attracted to femininity never been attracted to guys some trans women are stunning yes it does make you question yourself but it’s the attraction and the person that matters
I'd have thought I died and went to heaven if a woman that gorgeous showed interest in me and then told me she was transgender. I can't imagine a more wonderful surprise.
@@carmichaelmoritz8662 what difference does it make if you back door a cis woman or you back door a trans woman ? A back door is still just a back door.
Personally I think one of the most attractive things about a woman is whether or not she takes care of herself. Did she do something with her hair? Is her makeup on point? Does it look like she put some thought into what she's wearing? That's hot, it says something about how she regards herself. It's not insecurity but rather, I'm worth it. Those actions are a sign of confidence. Trans girls embody that by virtue of being trans.They have had to fight for every ounce of their femininity. So, it's actually very natural in my opinion to be attracted to them.
That makes sense that attraction would be a natural response, but is it fair to women to say that simply by dressing ones self up and or modifying ones body with surgery, that a woman is only an image of glamour? Not saying your definition says that, but that their definition is saying that all you have to do to be a woman is wear women's clothes or have dynamic surgery. I'd think that's insulting to women
Que bonito vídeo 😊 muchas gracias y muchas felicidades!!! 🎉🎊🎊✨ Veo tus historias en fb, pero también extraño tus vídeos en youtube, te veo desde hace 5 años gracias por toda la información y buenos momentos que nos brindas 🤗❤✨ Soy una mujer trans, mi novia me ha aceptado por quién soy y cómo soy desde un principio, me ha ayudado a aceptarme y saber que está bien ser yo misma, es algo muy bonito por que es la primera persona que me brinda su apoyo de esa forma y podemos hablar de lo que sea, es una luz en mi vida ✨ Se llama Yessica y la amo ❤✨ Te mando un abrazo enorme Carolina te deseo siempre todo lo mejor ❤✨
What an amazing film! 🙌🙌 A well done to everyone involved!
Trans, Cis, Martian, who cares! Beauty is beauty and we are all unique individuals! 💜✌
She's intelligent , Attractive and straightforward. Why should it matter?
Gary Lee facts
Todd Toure simple, many tgirls ( p/op or pre) have been lured, beaten etc. ‘cause of hate of the lgbt comm.
These guys really need to stop calling their inverted penis a vagina. It's unbelievably offensive to real women.
@Gary Lee Well, turns out transidentity is actually (and more and more, as studies keep being performed) backed up by science, not only on the point of brain structure, but also with genes, according to actual studies, that you can easily find by googling it, on many sources (because it doesn't seem like you did any research on this specific subject before even throwing hate and non-facts at it.) Think about it, transgender people aren't new in our world (search for Magnus Hirschfeld, the religious role of transgender people in Ancient Greece cults, or even the knight of Eon.) Transgender people have been around since the very depths of history, and there are also credible clues for that, unlike some other communities (which aren't even in the same subject.) Turns out that, for example, gene receptors of androgens in young transgender girls, are longer than those of cisgender men, which affects the binding of hormones like testosterone, even in the early life of the individual. Another fact about a trans woman's brain is that it has been ; again, one example amongst many others, in the great diversity of studies that have been done with transgender individuals ; shows that the cortical thickness is as important as the cortical thickness observed in a cisgender woman's brain, unlike cisgender AND transgender men, who tend to present thinner cortices (affects the way the brain actually processes and organises informations, which can also have a role in your perception of the community around you, based on your gender). Those are facts, and the only differences between the transgender brain and the cisgender brain are those who tend to appear with the maturation of the individual (according to both education, how the individual is raised in a society, and the developpement of the body related to the influence of the sex and its hormones later in life), and that become noticeable with puberty. But the genes (the DNA you did talk about) and the basic functions of the brain in it's role, with it's social environment, stay the same, and transgender individuals actually share a greater amount of caracteristics with their cisgender versions than with the individuals that only share the same sex with them. Some girls are born with masculine caracteristics, and XY chromosomes are unfortunately concerned by this possibility, just like an XX for a guy. Genetics aren't a restricted mechanic at all, pretty much everything is possible with it. So yes, transidentity is actually backed up by science, biology and history. Get over it.
I would also add that describing womanhood or manhood with only what comes out of between the legs is pretty sad, and in addition to that, completely false.
@Gary Lee what you're actually talking about are trans issues. I have a family member, my sister, that is a trans girl (age 17, 3 months on HRT), and nothing of what you said never happened in the case of her transition. Although my parents had some kind of hesitation, which is perfectly normal, they were worried about her health, and the medical team took that in account. That is why we have psychologists being here for both parents and children when transition is brought up, both parties must agree and understand each other. My sister was very comprehensive of that, and with all the support she had from the family, we all did what was right to do for her. Maybe things happen differently in my country (I am from France), but these are legal and social issues brought up by the movement. Just like my sibling, I am transgender myself, and I don't agree with underaged kids transitioning. Just because I exist as a trans person doesn't mean that I agree with everything that happens in the movement, which faces a huge ideoligical problem nowadays. This is why I prefer to rely on the medical field. I take my own responsibilities as a person involved in a medical condition, and wait the time I have to wait to make sure I respect everybody's rights around me. Transitioning takes a lot of energy and self-awareness, which children don't necessarely have. As a kid, I was non-conforming, that's for sure, but not being fully aware of what caused my lack of confort on many levels of my life, so early in my life, I discovered myself through art and open-minded friends. As a kid, I developped myself in a way that strengthened me, and I overcame dysphoria, partly because gender roles and bodies are not as important when you are a kid. Things got tougher during teenage years, that is where I also continued to learn about myself, and for myself. Many times, transition was brought up, but I wasn't feeling completely sure that it was the moment. Now, I am sure it wasn't because I didn't have the maturity to carry all of this. I am absolutely not supportive of children (directly) transitioning, because yes, me and my sister were very depressed, but we always lifted each other up, and found a way to be and to live our childhood to the fullest we could get it. I regret absolutely nothing, but now that the time has come, both me and my sister want to live our lives without that extra weight. We didn't choose to be born that way, we share that, but we did the right thing at the right moment, and adapted depending on the situation, as human beings.
Trans people come from all origins, all colors and experiences in life. We are individuals, and we don't all feel and think the same. I quitted the transgender movement because I didn't agree with everything, and I didn't find myself in the right place to actually be able to build a better world for all of us. I don't want to live in a world where children are making the biggest mistake of their lives to later have to deal with my condition. I don't want to live in a world where I have to anounce my pronouns every time I walk in a room. But still, I am transgender, I deal with it, and I make sure to work on myself, for me and my surroundings to be comfortable, I take reponsibilities for everything that happens to me. My sister and me didn't choose to be born in such a body, but we work hard to be successful in our social life. Even if it implies being extremely passable, we consider everything our responsibility, as a response to our own problem.
So please don't associate every single person that deals with an abnormal situation to what the loudest minority of us might have said or done. From one country to another, from one person to another one, it is never the same (and that is also true for people within the medical field, but when studies show results that aren't isolated, you can't compare it to the mistakes of some of them). All we asked for is decent respect and civism, we deal with the rest of it, and are tired to be called out for existing. This is nothing better than any other kind of discrimination, and we just want it to stop.
I get your point, and share a part of it with you. But I don't want to be associated with people I disagree with, and an image that is the product of widely spread misinformation.
I wish I could meet someone as honest, open and compassionate as you. 💕
Eres una tentación Carolina.yo no tendría ningún problema en conocer ,una chica tan bella como tu
As a transgender woman myself, I appreciate this immensely! Love the PSAs! I need you and the girls to make a series!!!
I agree. I need to meet more girls regardless of type.
Had my first experience with a ladyboy in Thailand end up spending my vacation with her she is a wonderful woman. I didn't know she was ladyboy until we were intimate she got scared for a moment but I told her it was OK .. I hate this world she should not have to be afraid when being intimate with someone..
you went out of the closet,congrats
I watched it,liked it...watched it all the way thru. I would date a Translady ...and proudly( for the right girl.) I'm glad the guy in the video stayed with her after his buddy bailed!
Si que va estar muy buena , ame la escena donde eres honesta con los chicos y es muy parecida a la realidad 😣
Te deseo muchos éxitos en este proyecto 💝✨
es una basura
Love this. Thankful for all of you!!
I just don’t date. It’s ok. Sometimes I definitely feel asexual. What I really need most is human touch and companionship anyway...
one of the worst things about being transgender and coming out is that you are isolated from normal relationships because you are different. Females tend to think that you will touch them and males don’t want you to. It’s hard to have any relationships... You guys bring up a VERY important point about transgender people being above the curve in mental health and self-acceptance. That’s HUGE! And a big growth opportunity for others too if they get to know you! ❤️
Stephanie R. thi is uncanny, you read my mind, I feel the very same thing After taking T blockers for 2 years all my feelings went away.
I never was very active but that is ok with me.. I think everything plays in the head anyway. have a nice day.
Olivia 🥰👍🏻
@@spiralsun1 Hello
i finished transitioning (completed bottom surgery) earlier this year. i was in the process of transitioning for quite a few years prior. unfortunately, i had more bad experiences with men than good experiences. my last boyfriend swerved back and forth between "i love you for who you are" and "youre making me gay .... " or "all my friends are telling me youre a guy in a dress and gay for dating you ..." as a result, i tend to do everything to hide that im a transwoman as opposed to a CIS woman. i too have been told im deceitful for not saying im trans at the very begining of every conversation with men. but, youre right, there is so much negativity towards transwoman and such a feeling that were mentally ill or crazy or wierd that its hard to come right out and say it. i look pretty good for sure, but i still have people run out of bathrooms when they see me in the bathroom or insist on calling me sir; mostly for the purpose of completely making me like im some wierdo or embarrassing me in front of a crowd. so its really hard to be honest, and im not the bravest of women either. you all are so full of the strength i would love to have ...truly, bless you
LLL, Esq
Curious, is it possible to identify yourself as a man with consideration for any changes you have been through? Imagine this category, or concept; a man is a person who was born with specific organs . If the person somehow loses or modified those organs, they are still a man, just a regular man. The body may function differently, but the functionality or appearance of the body neither raises nor lowers the value of the man. You are always valuable as a person, especially if you're a good person. Regardless what your body looks like, the person is still a man , and if they are a good person then they are a good man. Can that concept exist? Can one embrace that thinking? Can it be common? Thank you
Well, one thing I really like and am very turned on by is that many or most trans women I have met have always been very well dressed and ultra feminine, and that's just great and I love it !
Great message girls. Indeed that self confidence, strength and courage to live our lives expresses in many ways, and one of them is how beautiful we look when we are fulfilling our lives.
Keep strong and brave girls. 💜
Lorelei Penn thank you thank you 😊
@@TheCarolinaGutierrez14 You are welcome. I just happen to know the feeling and I love it. I am blessed to share that same joy you carry for living and sharing your beloved life. 😊
Lorelei Penn YES! Nailed it!
Wow felicitaciones, Dios bendiga a todas las personas transgénero.
igna laletra gracias 🙏🏼 💜
-> JAJSJDJJJG LMAO AUE MAMADA WEY JAJSJDJ
I came over from Sam's page and I believe everyone deserves love no matter what gender or sexualities.
OMG! This is so precious and needed. World needs more like this. More I ment videos, books, songs, any kind of examples that shows people the reality. I truly believe that very soon we will not need to hide anymore. We are people and have same rights as any others have. We can be precious for this world and do our best to make it prosperous and colorful. I love you Carolina and how much you do for the community and all of you wonderful people who did this video and other actions to show the real us. Who we really are and how we really feel. A big big big thank you!
So good! Great job sis. So proud of what we made. 🤍🙏🏽
Rain Valdez the experience of a lifetime, what an incredible group effort 💜💜💜💜
"Trans women have done the work to be the best, most authentic versions of themselves and that alone is worthy of your time and attention."
This is *the* absolute, most hilarious delusional argument I have ever had the pleasure of being presented to me. I haven't laughed like I did to that line in years.
It's a stunning self-contradictory statement: "I am more authentic than the genuine thing because I grew hair, put on a dress, and possibly went through multiple surgeries to become something I am not, in an attempt to because as far away from my authentic self and that's what makes me more authentic than what is literally authentic."
😂
I know you’re secretly attracted to trans women
It’s easy when trans woman is passable and attractive. Try this with some non passable trans woman.
Minoan Light, Hi, it's about your attitude if you're open and friendly it will be easier. 'smile' is the key, your pix looks too serious almost 'annoyed' ? look at mine = a little better don't you say ? good luck have a nice day.
I feel ya, but it's still not easy for me even tho I've recently begun to pass.
I agree some trans women are not passable. But think about it: Are all women passable as women? Some look like men and are straight. Not all men are passable as men, there are heterosexuals who look like women. The problem is to get to know each other first, there are people for all tastes, but you have to get close first.
You are so right. If all of them were non-passable, the video would be a disaster.
This is so fantastic. Very informative, powerful and strong messages. I have shared this on my Facebook page. Hugs and stay safe dear. Love the video and music. Great
Wow! I am a male who likes women and femininity, I like trans women as long as there not freaky with green hair and crazy makeup! I would date one, don't know any that I know of as you say! Lots of them on youtube!
So nice to see gentlemen that appreciate our beauty... ❤️
ok boomer
Good to see you do your homework Mateo! There's yet another division among us human beings, Millennial!
Same
Thank you very much for this I do hope you have more content for the public to understand. I love each and everyone of you. you are truly amazing💋
brian hutchinson we love you 💜
@@TheCarolinaGutierrez14 I know I have said this to you in the past but I do believe you are the most beautiful girl in the world. oh by the way that's not meant to be creepy that is just a positive statement to you🌹
Wow! What a wonderful Video! This should be on television. I Love it! And I Love all of you. As short as this video is, it really says a LOT. Wonderful job!
Me gustó saludos desde República Dominicana espero que suban más vídeos como este
gea rubio besos para todos los Dominicanos!!! 💜💜💜💜💜 gracias por tu apoyo
Wonderful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you all for these super affirming messages, crying, in all the right ways! xoxo
Beautiful video, well done ladies 🤗💗✨
Beautiful video Caroland i love it! Claps 4 for all the T-Girls!👏👏👏
Beautifully done! Proud of you ladies ❤️
ISLEY REUST thank you my love! 💜
Caroland ❤️
♡♡♡
@@TheCarolinaGutierrez14 Hola carol te pido que por favor leas mi comentario si puedes hacerme el favor de tomarte unos minutos para leerlo te agradecería muchisimo
Quiero muferes como estas
This was a very informative video. I don't mean to compare, however I can't help but to say that most transwomen tend to be more feminine than most cis women are today. And I'm not ashamed in any way to say that I'd be more than honored to date, and even one day make a transwoman my wife. At the end of the day, transwomen are human beings like everyone else.
I love this video!!! All of you women were so real and respectful about the advice you gave! I am so proud to be a part of this community ❤️
I love this video and it gives me a good helping of strength. I am still earlier in my transition and you give me someone to look forward to viewing. Thank you for being you.
Muy buenas actuaciones, espero que esto cambie verdaderamente para siempre.
Todos somos seres humanos y todos merecemos respeto !!!
No matter who we are, there will always be people who dont approve of us or like us. That's ok, they dont pay your bills. We have to love our selves. What's important, is who we are on the inside. What a terrible shame to dislike a person and not know that they are as beautiful inside, as in your case, as beautiful on the outside. Be well and always find happiness. There are many who will appreciate you for you.
This video is wonderful! As you mentionned, a trans woman is the most beautiful and accomplished personality for a human being. You're so inspring! Thank you!!
No, sorry, that's weird. Anyone can be bad, lol. There's a reasonable middle between villainising and romanticising trans.
I cracked up when she said she was trans and the dude's started laughing and the trans person had a straight face! That was some funny stuff!
My daughter came out as trans earlier this year, and my oldest friend came out as trans several years ago.
I am somewhere in the middle ground myself. I think a lot like a woman, and a lot like a man. But I realised a long time ago, that I would be equally comfortable in either a male or a female body.
I am and have always been open about my feminine side as a man. In fact I describe myself as a man with a strong feminine side, and have done so since the mid 80's.
Sexually, I am attracted to femininity.
I find that men will often open up to me about their feelings, and women often enjoy talking with me. I have a lot of female friends, both cis and trans.
As my Dad taught me as a child in the 60's and 70's. It is important to treat each person as the individual that they are. Because everyone is different.
Sabes una cosa se que seguirás creciendo y tú para mí eres la chica de mis sueños con todo respeto
What a wonderful video!! All of you girls make us proud!! We are women, and we just want to be respected and treated like that...
@Caroland you are one of the most beautiful trans women than I have ever seen, and not only physically (that you do are gorgeous) but also because of how you are, what you say, and everything that you share on your videos. I love to watch you, and to know that you achieved all your dreams of being and integral woman, thanks to your bravery and you effort. I didn´t do it, and I believe it is too late at my age (I am more than 50 years old), but anyway I enjoy and feel happy knowing that some persons like you and the other women in this video have done it. I admire you, and I send you a big kiss!!
PD: cuando puedas, por fa coloca más videos en español... Eres irresistible con tu acento de colombianita... Uff, me desarma toda!! ;o)) Besos!
Fabulous acting by my incredibly talented, wonderfully kind, very dear friend. I’m so blessed that I got to know you 👏🏼❤️
- En la dramatización le dijieron lo que es a Caroland, osea una angelita...
Gracias por ayudarme con tus videos, eres la mejor, hermosa y no entiendo como alguien podría rechazar a alguien como tú ☺️❤️
armandito0604 YT GrAcias a ti por todo tu apoyo y cariño 💜💜💜💜
Love it the production quality is great and you are all so gorgeous. Daniella
A short film that did not say anything negative about the men that are attracted to them, thank you. The "fragile" masculinity that you spoke about hopefully there are red flags before it goes too far. He is not only a problem for trans women he is a problem for women and men in general.
I respect Lit Girls
DownUnder and we respect you 💜👏🏽💜👏🏽💜👏🏽
Thank you Caroland. 😎
Thanx my lovely sisters for this nice film. It's great! Love y'all 😘
Utterly brilliant! Well done ladies!
Michael Gearhart thank you 🙏🏼
Well, I am amazed! I must be be 100% honest and say, first I don't know why I pressed to see this video except for the FACT that the woman in this scene is absolutely wonderfully beautiful! Shame both men reacted negatively when you came out with the truth... saying that you were a transgender. Their facial expressions automatically changed!
On this note I would like to say the following...
I for one would have acknowledged being surprised, because of how beautiful and feminine you look, but more importantly on how you handled yourself when communicating that fact!
I believe you can't go wrong with someone who dares to show their worth and beauty, from within. I have never ever been with or even thought of getting to know a transgender...
Generally speaking after seeing a top notch quality individual like yourself, I would have given this moment a chance...
Seriously :-)
I love you all so much & thank you for your work even though now that I have been with several trans women, I'm no longer into non-trans. Sorry to make a distinction but it's wonderful one.
The truth beautifully spoken by several wonderful trans-women! thanks for putting this out there to help educate
My friends these women are very beautiful women. Ladies we appreciate you and we love you!!!!!!!
espectacular, simplemente genial, me encanto al igual q todos tus videos.
lo compartiré en todas mis redes sociales, esto tiene q verlo todo el mundo.
mil felicitaciones y bendiciones para ti caro, te adoro, besos y abrasos desd Venezuela :*
Gabriela Saez gracias!!! Me encanta que te haya gustado tanto y muchas gracias por compartirlo :) necesitamos que este mensaje le llegue a muchas personas sobre todo en nuestros países
Yep, doing my part to make it a safer place for trans woman/girls and my trans brethren too.
Authentic and honest, strong, confident and a functional Woman.
🤗🌱☯️✨
"Respect The Spectrum" This has to be one of the most beautiful, moving and most positive posts. Well done Caroland. xxx Liked and shared and saved.
Woww me encanto!! Muchisimooooo!!
They have said great truths in a few words. Thank you. Very well done
Me dio mucho coraje pensé que se iría también pero me encantó cuando se quedó...
WOW!! This was both beautiful in sentiment, and beautifully made..
This needs to be a "Super Bowl" ad🏳️🌈🔝🛐💛❤💝💙💚💜🖤🤗🤗🤗😙
Está muy bueno el video Caro, muy buen mensaje y excelente producción, felicitaciones a todas. Por cierto te ves tan hermosa como siempre reina. 😄
I was very surprised, the video is a great tool to explain everything about us. you ladies are much prettier than most of us. but I am not unhappy . have a nice day.
i like you i hope to meet you
Fue Lindo Escuchar Todo Eso.
Son seguras De Si Mismas Sin Importar lo qke La gente Piense Sobre Ellas.
Son Un Ejemplo de Que No importa Lo De Afuera Si No Lo Qke Ay En el Interior✔💯❤
I love this video! It is so accurate. A trans woman does do more for self improvement. We are strong. I’m very happy you made this video!
De verdad que estoy orgulloso de la persona que eres te convertiste en uno de los mayores ejemplos de igualdad y tolerancia del mundo sigue asi eres un diamante en bruto sinceramente amaria salir con una chica como tu saludos desde Venezuela - Edo Monagas.
Great video. I have a transgender girlfriend who are the most wonderful woman I have ever met. I`m heterosexual but secure on my own sexuality and have no problems with that. A relationship are more than sex
Who is the lady with her hair on one side. She's stunning.
I think you're talking about Cassandra James.
god only knows aren’t they all! :) I believe the side hair is actress Cassandra James, isn’t she spectacular 💜
@EL Gabacho Necio Khloe Kay, to me, the most beautiful woman on earth.
@EL Gabacho Necio I'm pretty jealous of anyone who has the opportunity to spend time with you. I'm just in awe of how breathtaking you are.
God only knows...thats a pig in a wig with lipstick
Min 3:35 70% is a lot of million of people. Well I would like to know a beautiful transgender like you. I do not know how different is the feeling because I have to live the experience, but I can tell say you something everybody deserve respect and this is something that I learned early in my life from my parents.
All of you are so beautiful. Best Regards
All because a woman is Trans it does not disqualify them from having a safe, loving accepting relationship. As a straight man I have dated Trans women before. I adore them and have a heart for them.
Excelleeeeeeeeeent .!!!!!!!!!!! Great Video, go right to share! :-)
That they know of.... word. Carolina you rocked that moment at the bar! Thank you all for sharing so much truth, you affirm me ❤️❤️❤️
Julz Amidala yay!!! I’m glad you love it and that is exactly the purpose :) to give a voice to all of our sisters and speak up for what’s right and educate 💜💜💜
@@TheCarolinaGutierrez14 Thank you, yes. Love and elbow rubs❤️❤️❤️
BRAVO!!! Great message.
Leisa Lane thank you 💜💜💜
Congratulation!!! I like it so much, send you a big hugh and kisses from Colombia
Caroland Tu aparición al principio me dolió tanto 🥺
Por qué me a pasado mucho
No soy mala persona solamente quiero alguien que me quiera en mi presente en mi pasado y mi futuro.
No busco aceptación de nadie solo respeto y listo.
Llevo 4 años sin pareja y aún no llega el indicado pero me amo y se que algún día llegara alguien
Si no llega prefiero mejor
Estar sola que mal acompañada 😊
this was so awesome. great content and production. ❤❤
Very nice ladie's! really enjoyed the vid, me cassa tu cassa! xx
Masterpiece. I love you all ❤️ 🧡 💛❣️ 💗 💖❣️ 💕😊
SUPER wonderful short film! There is some AWESOME information for the guys watching, so I hoped they paid attention! 🙏😜✌
Obsessed with this!!! 😍😍😍
LatinaKamilla thank you sis!!! 💜🖤💜🖤💜🖤💜🖤💜 I’m so glad we got the Spanish subtitles for this edition cuz you know your hermanas in Latin America and all over the world need this message out there
Caroland yaass i didn’t even notice that! Come on work effort! I wish my Spanish was better so I can talk and make Spanish videos like you cuz some subbies been asking me pero tengo que practicar! Jaja keep slayin Sis!! Love love love
LatinaKamilla puedes practicar conmigo cuando quieras
I love how she gives him so much attitude because he calls her 'Gorgeous' but she thinks nothing of him calling her a cool 'girl' as opposed to woman. Great writing in this commercial😝😝😝
but he's not a girl or a woman , he's a dude. shame on a gay man for trying to fool a straight man
Omg you are all beautiful! I choked up watching this....so well done...yeah it's so hard to meet transwomen....there is something special about transwomen...couldnt take my eyes off an of you and yes your femininity is special❤❤ well done ladies
Very well produced and most informative. These ladies deserve respect.
Great video as a straight guy I feel attracted to femininity never been attracted to guys some trans women are stunning yes it does make you question yourself but it’s the attraction and the person that matters
I love your channel and videos on RUclips and they are very amazing to me and what is the best way to talk to trans women
James Senik so glad you enjoyed and yes I’m so happy message for across so well 💜
Your welcome
Great video,great message
Perdón se me olvidó darles las gracias, a todas y cada una de ustedes, mis felicitaciones.
I'd have thought I died and went to heaven if a woman that gorgeous showed interest in me and then told me she was transgender. I can't imagine a more wonderful surprise.
Hello gorgeous'n pretty girl! nice to watch again one of your videos.
My girlfriend is transgender and I love her
bet you put it in the back door lots eh . putting it in the pooper is not good .
@@carmichaelmoritz8662 what difference does it make if you back door a cis woman or you back door a trans woman ? A back door is still just a back door.
@@VladimirBlarp it's all disgusting when it comes to the poop area. Yuck.
Well done ladies 🌟💐
The woman in the green is gorgeous.
Siempre al pendiente de cada vídeo saludos
Carlos Alejo ramirez gracias besitos 😘
Quiero ver más capítulos y subtitulados, donde los veo 😱
Minuto 2:19 lo sentí como si Carol fuera yo,pensar en ese momento me da mucho miedo 😪
Hola! Soy Omar de Argentina y me parecio espectacular! Si eres feliz como eres punto final para mi
Se castro y promueve la castracion como una panacea...obviamente no lo es
This is just BEAUTIFUL! and this has to be seen.
I do not usually make comments, I do want to tell you that this is a excellent vidieos.
Omg!!!! Girl thank you for putting this out!!! Love it and definetely relate to all of this.
Personally I think one of the most attractive things about a woman is whether or not she takes care of herself. Did she do something with her hair? Is her makeup on point? Does it look like she put some thought into what she's wearing? That's hot, it says something about how she regards herself. It's not insecurity but rather, I'm worth it. Those actions are a sign of confidence. Trans girls embody that by virtue of being trans.They have had to fight for every ounce of their femininity. So, it's actually very natural in my opinion to be attracted to them.
That makes sense that attraction would be a natural response, but is it fair to women to say that simply by dressing ones self up and or modifying ones body with surgery, that a woman is only an image of glamour? Not saying your definition says that, but that their definition is saying that all you have to do to be a woman is wear women's clothes or have dynamic surgery. I'd think that's insulting to women
Que bonito vídeo 😊 muchas gracias y muchas felicidades!!! 🎉🎊🎊✨
Veo tus historias en fb, pero también extraño tus vídeos en youtube, te veo desde hace 5 años gracias por toda la información y buenos momentos que nos brindas 🤗❤✨
Soy una mujer trans, mi novia me ha aceptado por quién soy y cómo soy desde un principio, me ha ayudado a aceptarme y saber que está bien ser yo misma, es algo muy bonito por que es la primera persona que me brinda su apoyo de esa forma y podemos hablar de lo que sea, es una luz en mi vida ✨ Se llama Yessica y la amo ❤✨
Te mando un abrazo enorme Carolina te deseo siempre todo lo mejor ❤✨
This video is a bomb! Thanks Sammer Bhavinani
Bacano te deseo lo mejor
Thank you all for your courage to live your truth.
Video maravilhoso. Saudades de Voce Carolina...Beijos...Ursula