I married a trans woman, and it taught me some stuff!
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- Ok guys, time to get a little serious! Today we're talking about dating trans people, and what that might teach us about ourselves - if anything at all!
Did this make you think? Do you have some questions you might want us to answer in a future video? Let us know in the comments!
A lot of people are curious about what it is like dating - or marrying - a trans person, and some might be in the situation that one of their loved ones has just come out. Hopefully our videos can provide some insights, some laughs, or even just some distraction from life? Who knows!
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I'm a cis girl and my gf came out as trans some time ago, though shen can't start her transition yet. I like to watch videos like this. It makes me feel seen in some way.
You two are so beautiful. I wish you all the best
Aw that means a lot to us! Happy we could help a little bit ❤ thank you so much and thank you for being here :')
Meee too, Elizabethhhh!! Im cis girl with transwoman! She is not only the most beautiful, kindessttt, lovinggg, giving person, but she's also my first girlfriend! Someone pinch me! 😆 Thank you Wives Vs. World for sharing your wonderful lives with everyone! Great videos! They are very helpful! I want to learn all that I can! 👍🏽
What is your sexuality?
@@cometobelieeve do you have a Facebook? If you'd like we could talk over there, I'd be happy to help :3
@@elizabethtudor5948 yes I do. Can I add you?
I can't tell who looks prettier...
You both look absolutely gorgeous!
Thank you so much
I was smiling throughout the video, you both are so cute and gosh so smart as well
Are you indian
I am transgender and I want to become a woman my name is Julie
I am cis and my fiance came out as trans only earlier this year, to myself and the world.
She still drives me insane and I still want to live the rest of my life with her.
But I am struggling with all of the changes happening all at once. It's a lot of information to wrap my head around 😅
Of course, it's a big change! Especially if it's all very sudden. But it's beautiful that you still love her and that you're doing your best 🥰 We hope for the best for the two of you and wish you so much good luck on the journey :')
Hi I understand fully where you are coming from, as this is my journey too with my beautiful partner 🤗❤
@@WivesVsWorld Think about it, it's not that suddenly, you must have noticed something. over time.
So if she becomes a he are you still a lesbian
I'm the same
Thank you for making this. I recently started dating a woman who is trans and at first I was a bit unsure of how to approach the relationship due to inexperience. I'm very happy I've give her a chance, though, because we've been having a lot of fun together and it's definitely changed the way I think for the better. I was scared at first at what people would think but in the short time I've known her, I've grown into a much more self confident man.
This is adorable and it makes me so happy to hear :') Thank you for that ❤ I wish you all the best and good luck with the relationship! - Anya
I'm so jealous lol I told my husband that I'm FTM and want to transition eventually and he does support me and is kind, but we'll end up getting divorced. We've been together for almost 18 years (I realized this about myself like 8 years ago) so it hurts. Our life has made it hard for me to medically do anything about it so I've been miserable all these years. It's hard to say I love you to someone you know doesn't fully accept you or will leave you eventually. I'm really scared and sad.
You two are so beautiful and sweet to one another! I hope I find someone as accepting of me one day!
bosh, please get the divorce soon, nobody is to blame, that's life
Im sorry God bless you u got do what's best for you
That's a really difficult situation to deal with. If there's no way for you to stay together, I hope you can still be friends and care for one another in that way. My partner is a trans man and I love him so much. He's known that I've been struggling with my gender since the beginning of our relationship two years ago, but now I'm starting to actually accept myself and take action to stop hiding myself. We hope that we can stay together, but we've also come to accept that the only way to truly know is to give it a shot. I hope that everything goes well for you in the future ❤
I love 💘 Trans women . Glad I married one. A vear loving caring person .
So...... I read the first sentence and was like " Here we go again, some another perv trying to fantasize transpeople. Then I read the second line and it became very wholesome.
Yaaay congrats
Are you a guy or a girl and what is your sexuality?
The pfp is clashing with the sentiment in a big way
Gender roles are a social construct. Gender is how you feel inside as a person, how you identify regardless of physical sex, or sexual preference or how society sees you. You know what you are inside without having to look in a mirror.
That's right. Sex is between your legs, gender is between your ears. 💕
And how you feel inside is influenced by society.
Yes I am a trans woman 👩but felt like because I wanted to be a woman I would fancy men but I don't I fancy other trans women or women it took me a long while to come to terms with this
Gender is who you go to bed as, sexuality is who you go to bed with :)
@@sherriking7917 so true gender is just a label society put on people. I consider myself as a trans woman and I have wanted to be a woman all my life it is now becoming like an addiction to me when I dress up I feel happy and alive and when I don't I feel moody and irritable j have also believe you fall jn love with the person not their gender
3 things I learned from this video:
1. You two are so cute together!
2. You both have beautiful souls!
3. You are just 2 humans with cute beautiful souls.
Thank you 😊
The whole discussion was so interesting 😊
As a cis woman I didn’t have to think deeply about all of this in the beginning of my life, and I started to question gender and what it meant to me, when I met trans friends. It’s very interesting and put a lot of things into perspective. I recognized my privilege and am a slightly better person, and as a woman it was an important moment of introspection in general.
I don’t know if you already talked about it, but I’m really interested to hear how you met ^^ you’re two young women and you’ve been together for a long time, this is really special and I’m curious to hear your love story :)
If it’s not too personal of course !
👋 from France 😊
We're so happy you think so! Right? Learning from trans people can really give you a new perspective!
We're definitely going to make a video on how we met, but it's a bit of a long story so we're gearing up for it, haha. But thank you so much for letting us know that you're interested
You guys are so lovely together! And I just LOVE your chill, emotionally intelligent approach. Thank you for this affirming content!
I just started transition MTF, love way you look at gender being not just this or that, there is spectrum from one side to other . Thanks for sharing your experience . You two are truly live birds ❤️
That's wonderful to hear! We wish you so much luck and love on your journey ❤ so happy you relate and found it useful! 🥰 thank you!
I (a trans girl) put a lot of thought into what exactly gender is and specifically what it means to be female, due to my very religious conservative childhood. I have come to the following conclusion.
Gender is a category of people which people are placed into based on a combination of their actions/behaviors, appearance, and mannerisms.
What is a “person”?
How do we define “us” as entities or individuals?
The ages-long question to which we ponder gender, race, ethnicity, our occupations, where we live, our incomes, the education we may have - and from “where” -
So many questions.
This conversation is thought provoking!
So happy you found it interesting! Thank you for watching ^^
It's so sad to see underrated RUclipsrs like you not getting the recognition you deserve. Seriously, I just found your channel and you two are super entertaining and fun to watch and I love your energy. I'm super excited to check out your other videos and to watch anything new you come up with!! ♥♥
Thank you so much for you kind words!! ;A; We're so happy to hear that!! Yeah, we've just started out and are still new to it all, so hopefully the rest will come along the way 🥰
Totally agree...
Me as a trans woman I'm dating a csi gendered woman too
YEEEEAAAAAHHHHH
😎
My ideas about gender and sexual orientation are very similar to Anya's. I tend to also be more attracted to people who are a bit out of the square sides of the binary gender box.
I had a partner who came out as a trans-woman while we were dating and for me it was like, 'oh, okay. Well, I still like you for who you are as a person.' We are no longer together for other reasons but we are still friends. But her transition definitely made me realize a lot of things about myself and my views about gender expression.
A suggestion for a future video: Anya, can you talk about your lolita timeline? Like, what was your first brand item? Do you have any photos of your first attempt? Did you ever have any "ita" outfits? Has your preferred style changed over time? Do you go to meetups/are you friends with any other lolitas? Just some ideas for you for videos.
So happy to hear there are like minded people out there! Happy to hear it went well even if it didn't work out
You both are priceless people. Thank you so much for your channel. Your words and mindset are so true, so easily said and it's encouraging to spread those thoughts, and all that love, to educate and fight for what is right. Many countries and politics are hard to change and it's incredible to see that again north of europe is able to show to the world how it is to treat equally its citizens and make it the norm. Inspiring. Ladies, you are inspiring people, being yourselves. Take care.
Thank you for that considerate comment! Even where we live being LGBT+ can be difficult, but we want to use our time and effort to make things less so! If we can somehow show a little bit of love, a little bit of happiness, to someone - anyone - we've done our job : )
You guys doing those head tilts are cracking me up! I just watched our German Sheoherds do a bunch of that this afternoon and you guys remind me of them tilting your heads back and forth.😂😂😂😂
I do believe with myself coming out as trans and being married to Cis a woman as well, that we have taught each other so much about behavior and honestly expressive freedom. Being from Denmark too, i can agree on our general dress code being very bland. I have and are often shifting between wearing anything from Leggins, jeans to dresses I do prefer dresses in summertime OMG the freedom it gives. I did not come out before i turned 31, so it was an interesting experience seeing family and friends adjust. watching you guys here is such a peaceful and relaxing part of my day, it always cheers me up and helps me holding my head up high regardless of how my day might of been. Thank you so much for sharing your content with us. Elsker jer og jeres inhold, tusind tak
Thats a beautiful story, thanks for sharing and very, very good for both of you!!
You both are an amazing inspiration. Thank you from the deep of my heart
Great video, i'm trans woman with cis girlfriend, she was so broken when i found out my sexual identity, but your video make her smile again and give us hope together. Btw you are so cute and happy, i love you girls
One of the most interesting and info "t. video" I watched. Wonderful job.
We're happy you liked it!
MY GOODNESS!!! LOVE THIS! You two are adorable!!!
Thank you so much!! You're too kind ;__;
I watched your newest video first then have been watching them all, you two are so cute together ! I’m trans female & haven’t decided what I want from a partner but hopefully whatever happens will make me as happy as you ❤😊
I still find the topics of gender expression and stuff like that confusing sometimes but I always find it very interesting to hear about so I enjoyed this video and I look forward to more! As a side note, yall should really crank up the volume WAY UP on these videos because they are very very quiet! my speakers are at 100% and I almost can't hear D:
Yeah it sure is a confusing topic so it merits some exploration and discussion, haha! So happy you enjoyed it
Your videos and channel is so amazing. I can’t believe it doesn’t have more subs.
Thank you! We may not have a huge following, but our subscribers make up for that by being the kindest viewers imaginable, and that's worth a lot ❤️
You girls are absolutely adorable 💋 and your English quite brilliant! What I don’t understand why I gave you your first like here!?
Well it's good to see you notice each other well and take it in but i personally would not know what to do in that case I mean I would feel a little embarrassed due to the fact it can never be hidden the fact it's a hard pill to take you both have the courage to say it in front of millions of views in a normal state of mind
Cheers for the cute and informative video! I used to date a trans woman 25 years ago, back when you couldn't talk about it to anyone. And I had never heard of anyone else dating a transgender person anywhere in the entire world except 15 years later. It felt like it was a lifetime sentence in solitude until some friends openly stated they're nowadays dating someone who's trans. After that I could confess to myself I'm transgender as well, have a boyfriend and stepkids. Keep being open about success and happiness!
Thank you, you two are what I see as ideal. good luck honesty will guide you
Thank you so much ❤
You two are amazing! Seriously as a trans lesbian, this meant so much to me
The two are so georgeos!!
thank you for sharing. Inspiring.
That's so crazy that Anya would be told stuff like "you'd be prettier if you didn't wear all this frilly stuff" because you would think that dressing in a very feminine way is what would be expected of women in general? so it's very interesting that maybe the style or norms are different in Denmark. I know I certainly find it very beautiful myself when girls wear dresses! (though I like more masculine outfits as well!) I think as long as someone wears what they want to, they can always make it work
Right? It's kind of interesting that there's often a lot of pressure on women to be ~feminine~ and then it's like - no, not *that* feminine. Wearing what feels right is definitely the most attractive thing a person can wear imo!
y'all are so cute :) I really needed this today
Thank you so much, that makes us so happy
I am glad did you to have Accept each other for who you are
Ong I love you two together, such a good vibe 😃
Would really love to be at a dinner party with you lovely ladies. Such thoughtful and insightful conversations.
Aw that's such a wonderful compliment 🥰 thank you so much ❤
I have no words just wow!! You guy's looks stunning 🥰
You’re both so Sweet and Beautiful! Wow 🤩 I am a Transgender 🏳️⚧️ Lesbian Christian Woman 👩 but unfortunately I haven’t been able to start transitioning yet :(
Thank you this video, I myself learned from a trans person.. I hope the world hear the message you want to convey..that it’s okay to love whoever you want and what gender preference they are.. That we don’t need some validation to whether ur a lesbian or gay or any part LGBTQ+ that I’m a person and I can love whoever I wanna love. And whatever I wanna be..
Sorry i think My words are rumbling, English isn’t also my first Language ☺️ 🌈🌈🌈
Thank you so much, we hope so too ^^ If we can spread the message and some positivity to just a few people and have an impact that way, we'll be so happy
My first video of u guys, very educative. U should tag your keywords, so lots of people can benefit from this knowledge
We're happy you think so! We'll try to improve our tagging ^^
@@WivesVsWorld thanks for the positive feedback
love you 😍 from Ghana in Africa
How all im cis girl Going out with trans girl, We have been together for 4 years ,she came outs about a year and a half ago.
We have only just started our journey As she has only just recently started taking blockers. She tells me how much she loves me, Yet she is always pushing me away. I absolutely adore her and love her to bits what im finding very difficult to find is groups the I can talk with and maybe able to give us some advice 🤗❤
you two are sooo cute.. omg those little kisses
so sweetttt TT__TT
instant subscribe and looking forward to more videos!
Oh my God, I love Anya‘s cackling laugh!!!
It's seriously the best 😂❤️
1. I'm a fan and supporters of LGBTQ.
2. Both of you are beautiful and cute to watch.
3. All your videos are entertaining.
I hope you have a lot of followers and subscribers in the future. Love you both. (:
Thank you so much for the kind words!
Thank you your very beautiful couple you make me feel better I am in the process of change I haven't found anybody That will accept me for who I am
New subscriber here. Y'all have come so far! ❤😢
Aww, thank you so much - it's wild to look back and see the progress made 😅
The way you listen to her is so sweet and beautiful and loving
Aww this is such a nice compliment ❤️
You are living my dream. I have so much to talk to you both about. Wish y’all was here in the USA 🇺🇸🥺😞
Very well said!
I AM ACTUALLY LIVING FOR YOUR CHEEK DIMPLES
Y'all are so adorable together and definitely couple goals ^_^
omg u guys are so cute together!
You are both quite attractive both in looks and personality.
Thank you so much, how kind of you
What a wholesome video, you are a great couple!
Thank you so much! : )
you both are beautiful!
Wow you have the best wife in the world. This is the first video of yours I found. Now I'm subscribed.
We'll both accept that compliment ; )
Welcome to the channel!
You Girls are the best! :)
Absolutely Beautiful!!! Love It So Much!!! 💜💗❤👄🏳️🌈
you two are so cute together!
Aww thank you so much, that's so nice of you 🥰
I am a cis woman who has dated trans women and it's so refreshing to see myself and my relationships represented in this video. Thank you
Amazing 🙌🏻
I'm a 61 year old transwoman who has been on estradiol for 7 weeks, my aggression is now gone, I don't really get angry. Yeah!
you both are so cute! so fortunate and beautiful
😊 thank you
Brilliant, honest video and don’t let anyone knock your command of English. I know English people who are less coherent.
Praise be that the algorithm has brought me this wholesome content 🙏
So happy to have you here ❤️
Very inspiring.
So happy you think so
I am impressed with this video. I would have never guessed the lady on the left was transgenger! Sorry for being impersonal buy I haven't heard a name yet. You ladies are passionate yet not pushy, aggressive, or obnoxious.
13:10 “Apprehensive” would have worked haha
Hahaha : )
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what a beautiful couple!
Wow you are both the luckiest woman i the world and I would love to meet someone like you and I have only started transitioning and it is hard when your partner does not support you.
So beatiful vídeo!!
Thank you so much! 🥰
Fabulous xx
This is my dream relationship 😭😭😭❤
to the girl on the the left. ur hair color is grt8
You girls are soooo cute. I just hope I can have a good transition and look as good as you with a pretty girlfriend as well ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
🤞❤❤❤
You’re such a beautiful couple!
Thank you!
Lovely couple 💕💕
Thank you
Gonna be superficial here! The blond lady has very cute dimples! There I said it. LOL Very cool video ladies!
You both are very beautiful and informative. I'm still a bit confused was your first dates as two girls or a boy and girl, sorry? If B and G has the G had surgery? I'm a closet CD. I want to come out but still afraid, unlike you.
They started dating before transition. The rest is really none of anyone's business.
I couldnt tell who was trans, so take that as a compliment
Fellow trans girl here to say, "All transgender people are Trans Queens of The Seven Seas"
Lovely video, but it’s very quiet
As a lesbian what was your original attraction to a "male" person who had not yet transitioned.
You look great as a couple.
I eventually realized I was a male lesbian with a birth gender defect. Always wanting a relationships with a woman.
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I wish you two would come up with some new videos..
You are in luck! We have a new video up this Sunday, with more to come!
Agh, goals
Cute, thanks
Yall are so cute
Thank you so much :')
Iam new too your channel your a gorgeous looking couple hugs 💜 .society unfortunately and sadly try's too box people in as according too gender 😥, iam came out as crossdresser at at 50 iam now 60 and married
I just came from a studio killers song and found out that the vocalist was a guy (I take that meaning that their a transwomen probably not sure) but the song was about how she was in love with a women. Now that got me thinking: as a transwomen is it okay to date a lesbian woman? Sorry if I'm being ignorant I just want to understand. I think I may be getting confused as being transgender is more of a personal body image that a sexual orientation? I dunno so who better to ask than this community right? I mean no offense.
trans women are women. Some of those women are going to be lesbians. You're welcome
The new TV drama base on the same graphic comic called "Y: The Last Man" Is very thought provoking in that a virus kills all mammals with a Y chromosome with only mammals "XX" surviving!
I wish my wife felt the same way. She says I married a man. Not a woman. I feel I am the same person. My wife views it as two different people. I didn’t realize I was transgender till about 3 years ago. When I first mentioned to my wife I did cross dress when younger and wanted to revisit doing it again and then about 2 months later I told her I believe I am transgender woman. Which I never connected or considered before.
Hopefully things work out ❤️❤️
Sending love, and happy New Year!
I luv girls in dress’s so fem💞
Okay didn't expect to see Danish people 🥰
Haha, well here we are 🥰❤️
@@WivesVsWorld yes here you are 🥰 i guess you know that i'm a Dane too 😂 it was like watching mrs. Robot and seeing them talking Danish and Swedish 🫣 so weird when you didn't expected it.. 😅
But i like your content so far 🥰
I have nearly just started or 2 years in since i came out, but only 3 month on hormons.. but hey i'm started 🥰🎉
This isnt intended to offend you but hearing some of the things you said got me thinking "Oh my fucking god, if it werent for like 2 guys, i would be a lesbian" and missed most of the rest of what you were saying bc i had a huge epiphany 😂. And even those two guys theyre really cool but its sometimes hard to tell what i feel for them is love or not. One of them im just FWB with and the other one i feel like im crushing on but im starting to doubt that its actually romantic and sexual attraction i feel for him. Tbh i only feel romantic attraction to women and enbys
and i can only really ya know "get off" to women and enbys so these feelings are sorta conflicting
I wish you reply me. I'm so lonely as a 49 year old trans looking for a partner to love