How to tell a guy doesn’t like you through his text messages | 7 signs he doesn’t like you

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  • How to tell if a guy doesn’t like you by his text messages | 7 signs he doesn’t like you as a girlfriend.
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    A lot of times I get emails from women who are confused by a guy who they believe are sending mixed messages in his texts. Or That he seems like he may like them but they don’t know how much or in which way. They often send me screenshots of text messages from guys who are clearly after something but not their heart. Others are obviously in the friend zone but they somehow have missed the the signs. Then their are others who want love and are clearly only being offered eggplant emoji.
    These are signs he’s not pursuing or doesn’t like you as a serious girlfriend.
    He doesn’t ask you much about yourself or text you questions that will open up a larger conversation. Guys who keep it short and fun may be nervous but if your already familiar with each other then short frivolous conversations, and meme sharing should ultimately lead to real talks. If you feel like nothing of significance is being shared on his end he may not like you as more than a friend.
    Most of his text messages include the words selly fine hot or some other indicator of physical attraction. But he won’t converse in a way to learn about what’s important to you. Y’all have to realize that guys will try to finesse you by giving you a false sense if importance. It’s easier to build selual tension than to build a genuine rapport. When men disregard building a genuine rapport it’s usually because they are only trying to grow the attraction and not the connection. The is a difference. He only flirting but not connecting with you.
    He makes no effort to be important to you. He never checks on your emotional well being or tries to seem interested in your overall happiness. When a guy is trying to impress a girl he tries to show he cares by asking about her feelings and trying to be a shoulder to lean on. He may pry for pertinent information and attempt to become a part of your circle of trust or support system. If you’ve been texting for a while and notice a guy avoiding any talk about your life problems he isn’t interested in anything serious.

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  • @spencerchase8328
    @spencerchase8328 6 лет назад +5867

    How to tell a guy doesn’t like you....#1 you looked up this video...

    • @Caleb_Marlena
      @Caleb_Marlena 6 лет назад +33

      Spencer Chase bahahaha for real

    • @MisssKayy
      @MisssKayy 6 лет назад +304

      #facts women always know. They just need validation.

    • @InnerRise
      @InnerRise 6 лет назад +171

      dang
      ....... you just killed my entire spirit from the holy to the ghost.

    • @spencerchase8328
      @spencerchase8328 6 лет назад +34

      InnerRise I mean....I ended up on this video somehow too. Just trying to keep it real 💯😂

    • @tarkitadeloatch8715
      @tarkitadeloatch8715 6 лет назад +6

      😂😂😂

  • @SunkissNia
    @SunkissNia 6 лет назад +3221

    when he ghosts you - that's how you know. don't believe him when he says he was just busy... smh nah

    • @whoisbillgates1050
      @whoisbillgates1050 6 лет назад +64

      SunKissNicole well my crush works over 40 hours a week and takes classes at a college as well as high school classes so I’m like aghhhh idk

    • @jackie12333
      @jackie12333 6 лет назад +30

      What if he actually is

    • @tropicbound1026
      @tropicbound1026 6 лет назад +309

      @@whoisbillgates1050 takes 30 seconds to text. If he/She wanted to text , it WILL happen! My brother-in-law gets put in remote desert areas for his job .. he will climb the mountains at night trying to get cell reception to check on my sister. If they really care, #1 priority will be to show you - you are important.💘

    • @marchbabi323
      @marchbabi323 6 лет назад +218

      SunKissNicole This guy ghosted me, and had the nerve to pop up 8 months later. Boy bye! 👋

    • @SunkissNia
      @SunkissNia 6 лет назад +62

      @@marchbabi323 girl yes, do you! Please, forget that guy je wasnt going to bring shit to the table anyways but drama. So do you girl

  • @yr5425
    @yr5425 4 года назад +507

    That’s why u don’t focus on one man until he proves himself. Keep your options open, go on dates etc, keep your mind occupied. If he truly cares, he will show you.

  • @EllePlowPlow
    @EllePlowPlow 3 года назад +218

    1 - he doesn’t ask you much about yourself
    2 - he builds attraction without trying to get to know you
    3 - jumps the gun on sexy talk
    4 - he makes no effort to be important to you
    5 - he makes no effort to make you smile
    6 - he takes a long time to reply or doesn’t reply at all sometimes
    7 - he makes no effort to elevate relationship past text messages

    • @EllePlowPlow
      @EllePlowPlow 3 года назад +1

      How to tell if a Guy Doesn’t Like You By His Text Messages

  • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
    @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 5 лет назад +1046

    "He's only flirting, but he's not connecting with you".... I really felt that one 🙁.

  • @DayaTom
    @DayaTom 5 лет назад +700

    Trust your gut ladies.. we fall for attraction way too often, only to realize later on there's no genuine connection. And he never truly understood us.

    • @annc7739
      @annc7739 4 года назад +3

      Yep 😢

    • @kwetsephetla3597
      @kwetsephetla3597 3 года назад +9

      Just broke things off with someone who was making very minimal effort but called himself my “boyfriend”. I was sick and he didn’t even bother to call and check on me. I realised that this guy was only keeping communication open so that I can always be available when he wants to sleep with me.

  • @marieanne1989
    @marieanne1989 5 лет назад +1265

    I’m officially retiring from dating,tired of stitching my heart back each break up..
    😂😂

    • @shalissahicks6556
      @shalissahicks6556 5 лет назад +45

      I truly feel you.. I'm over these dudes..

    • @julieinsley4159
      @julieinsley4159 4 года назад +11

      You don't need to do that Hun 🤗....your a beautiful woman....

    • @427skies
      @427skies 4 года назад +12

      Same. I'm over it.

    • @kbeard5130
      @kbeard5130 4 года назад +8

      April1989 OMG YASSSSSSSSSSSS ....and it is incessant!!!!!!!!! They NEVER stop

    • @joniajohn4716
      @joniajohn4716 4 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Myerskidschannel
    @Myerskidschannel 6 лет назад +1969

    My feelings are hurt, but I am grateful for this video. Thank you.

    • @Senzigal
      @Senzigal 6 лет назад +18

      Brittany MYERS me too but I’m glad he shared this with us

    • @NotYourTypicalMermaid94
      @NotYourTypicalMermaid94 4 года назад +4

      I am too but grateful for the information

    • @amymuth628
      @amymuth628 4 года назад +3

      Mines too

    • @ellenoka
      @ellenoka 4 года назад +5

      Same, I'm literally crying

    • @speakintothemicb
      @speakintothemicb 4 года назад +7

      @@ellenoka I can promise you that as time go by it gets easier and eventually you move on. 💙💎

  • @stacyrensburgoliver
    @stacyrensburgoliver 5 лет назад +1017

    My crush ignored two of my texts. Number deleted. Moving on 😂.

  • @asandamkhize6018
    @asandamkhize6018 4 года назад +196

    This video should’ve been titled “ 7 reasons to focus on yourself”

  • @BabyeeeeDoLL
    @BabyeeeeDoLL 6 лет назад +3066

    My husband don’t like me 😂😂

  • @lauraldeman841
    @lauraldeman841 6 лет назад +679

    I'm glad I walk with the lord. Don't walk in society ways. I wait for a man that puts God first

    • @dedrahbell2075
      @dedrahbell2075 6 лет назад +11

      Laura L Deman Amen 🙌🙌🙌💯

    • @tiffanysimms4454
      @tiffanysimms4454 6 лет назад +18

      Laura L. Deman, Exactly. God is first and foremost in my life. I make that plain up front, no exveptions.

    • @smming46213fg
      @smming46213fg 6 лет назад +4

      AMEN!!!!!🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @andriantaylor2727
      @andriantaylor2727 6 лет назад +8

      AMEN. GIRL U TOOK THE WORD OUT OF MY MOUTH???

    • @melaniebelk75
      @melaniebelk75 6 лет назад +2

      You go girl

  • @artistinme8049
    @artistinme8049 6 лет назад +557

    When he don't text you back til the end of the day or not at all OMG SO TRUE

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 6 лет назад +9

      Artist In me that's a sign saying you need to get a life loser

    • @notsobright7257
      @notsobright7257 6 лет назад +17

      I think so. When a guy who likes me texts me, I ignore his messages for quite a long time. I play hard to get. So it depends

    • @RobinZipporah
      @RobinZipporah 5 лет назад +13

      Stop texting & request a MAN phone & actually TALK. TWO texts tops!! If he won't talk, then he CAN'T talk! Boy, BYE.

  • @gloriawalker3537
    @gloriawalker3537 5 лет назад +305

    I'm a 50 something year old and this advice that this young man is giving is so true . Things he is saying my mother told me . Wisdom is timeless .

    • @margaritam.9118
      @margaritam.9118 4 года назад +10

      gloria walker I wish my mother told me that. It’s too late:(

    • @quicksilver0294
      @quicksilver0294 4 года назад +2

      @@SimplyaLady92 🤣🤣🤣

  • @jmw1192
    @jmw1192 5 лет назад +1796

    Every person was thinking about someone through the vid... And analysing lmao

  • @marchbabi323
    @marchbabi323 6 лет назад +779

    And this is why I'm single and remaining that way.

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 6 лет назад

      marchbabi323 are you sure it's because you have aids

    • @bettybogale6720
      @bettybogale6720 6 лет назад +21

      Redfather nah ur mouth 👄 trashy asf

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 5 лет назад

      @@bettybogale6720 oh did I trigger you do you need a safe space

    • @bettybogale6720
      @bettybogale6720 5 лет назад +6

      Redfather awwwwww it’s so cute that you think that you have some affect on my life. I’m just stating the facts your icky yucky person. I wouldn’t even consider you as my trash you’re worse than trash

    • @anonymousok9089
      @anonymousok9089 5 лет назад +3

      Redfather WTF

  • @Luvurselffirst
    @Luvurselffirst 6 лет назад +647

    Be careful with all of this advice because some men can do all of these things to show you he's interested etc and smooth ghost you like he never knew you.

    • @chanthana7694
      @chanthana7694 6 лет назад +36

      So so true. Put them through a test then you will see whether they can walk the talk.

    • @tanyastevens9553
      @tanyastevens9553 6 лет назад +7

      Word! For real, smh that's crazy!
      😐

    • @jewell2352
      @jewell2352 6 лет назад +5

      Exactly

    • @jewell2352
      @jewell2352 6 лет назад +13

      That what u called presisant because he sure not consistent= equal long term

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 5 лет назад +1

      Jasmira facts

  • @amypiliposian5908
    @amypiliposian5908 5 лет назад +96

    Ladies, all this means is love yourself!!! Don’t put your happiness in a guys hands. Respect yourself on all costs!

  • @Devorshe
    @Devorshe 5 лет назад +1100

    Honestly I rather a guy just say hey I don’t want to fwu 😭 like damn it’s NOT HARD to be honest.

    • @jujumama
      @jujumama 5 лет назад +47

      But then he won't get any

    • @MsLaBajo
      @MsLaBajo 5 лет назад +38

      Yeah but they don’t owe us anything. It’s easier to educate ourselves on these things than it is to expect them to have the courteous and respectful character a man needs to have in order to send that “Sorry but I’m not interested in you” text.

    • @ginar7182
      @ginar7182 5 лет назад +3

      Yaaassss🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @beauteeful2000
      @beauteeful2000 4 года назад +5

      Some don't know how to take the truth💁

    • @Bumblebee-jl3ur
      @Bumblebee-jl3ur 4 года назад +32

      Right! Just say you don't like me ga'damn. Then I can move on sheesh!

  • @vernonpetersen6280
    @vernonpetersen6280 5 лет назад +299

    One of the first signs he doesn't like you is when he blocks you. You're welcome.

  • @carolloraine223
    @carolloraine223 6 лет назад +352

    Im Single and Happy!
    Alone but not Lonely!!!
    Wishing everyone a great 2019!

  • @CryStealHeart
    @CryStealHeart 6 лет назад +1708

    This is so depressing that all men do is play games 😢😢😢

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +178

      Women do the same sh*t. It’s a people thing.

    • @Xanivert
      @Xanivert 6 лет назад +34

      Women do the exact same shit, and I can bet they're even worse than men

    • @CryStealHeart
      @CryStealHeart 6 лет назад +78

      Even men say most men treat women badly and that there are a few good men out there. Most people say some women are awful. So the ratio is way off base.

    • @towncarplushsmooth7357
      @towncarplushsmooth7357 6 лет назад +2

      Crystal Diamond Reborns ,that's bs

    • @stephenprice3357
      @stephenprice3357 6 лет назад +1

      Hoes do the same shit, probably more than men

  • @yohanndomoison3771
    @yohanndomoison3771 6 лет назад +222

    And I like this part : hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is!! Sometimes, we just have to be realistic so as to move on!

  • @patricegray1450
    @patricegray1450 4 года назад +80

    That's why I give them the same energy they give out towards them

    • @shanafondon8767
      @shanafondon8767 4 года назад +7

      Now this make sense ..do males like they do us females. I bet most wont find it funny like they think they do.

  • @blossomearth2257
    @blossomearth2257 4 года назад +252

    My heart kept on sinking bit by bit, throughout the video.

  • @threecturner354
    @threecturner354 6 лет назад +702

    Imma go to heaven single and im cool with that

    • @victoriaodey73
      @victoriaodey73 6 лет назад +1

      Threec Turner lol y

    • @withlovestephaniedenise7024
      @withlovestephaniedenise7024 5 лет назад +20

      Threec Turner peace of mind knowing your body is a living sacrifice holy and acceptable.
      I’m content being celibate. I want a husband but I’m not turning tricks for one.

    • @amymor7
      @amymor7 5 лет назад +5

      Me too girl

    • @morningsunshine0216
      @morningsunshine0216 5 лет назад +11

      Threec Turner hell naw I thought I was okay with being celibate but now I want the D. Lol
      I’m not just talking about screwing random guys but just 1 guy

    • @norachavez9555
      @norachavez9555 5 лет назад +3

      Same

  • @charmander1370
    @charmander1370 5 лет назад +830

    Girls be cutting off apps and numbers after this 😭😂😂
    Edit: This is the most likes I've gotten on a post. Just know, Jesus loves you!

  • @flickeringlight4307
    @flickeringlight4307 5 лет назад +142

    In short: validate your damn self, look in the mirror and boost yourself up, be independent and not needy. If you love yourself, nobody can really break you. Yes, obviously, it will hurt. When you love yourself, you will dust that shit off and keep it moving. 💪

  • @Taytimethursday
    @Taytimethursday 5 лет назад +172

    “Text somebody else cuz he ain’t about 💩!” 😂🤣 Gosh I love how straight fwd u are.

  • @dreamceline2093
    @dreamceline2093 5 лет назад +209

    It’s immature to string people along. 🙄 Just say “I’m not into you like that.”

    • @BrittneySamoneSilver
      @BrittneySamoneSilver 5 лет назад +32

      Unfortunately, most of them will never say that because they like feeling in control and keeping the option open for benefits.

  • @warriorgoddessyaaasantewaa4773
    @warriorgoddessyaaasantewaa4773 6 лет назад +402

    "Word?", "For real?", "That's what's up"..."You so crazy"...lol

  • @yotiexclusive8939
    @yotiexclusive8939 3 года назад +28

    I had this guy I liked. He was so charming and consistent. He would text me through out the day and still call me later on. zi just realised he stopped texting me as much as he did before. Each time I'd ask him, he'd tell me he was busy. This went on till he stopped texting or calling completely. After some months his brother died and I went to the funeral because I wanted to be there for him. I saw him but I couldn't talk to him. After that day I continuously sent him messages to console him. Later he posted a girl I know on his social media account and captioned it, "her". I was so heartbroken and I cried that day. It still hurts when I see him. This video just made me realize my worth.

  • @mwayoe
    @mwayoe 6 лет назад +216

    Thank you for this video. I really hate the way men say they don't want to hurt our feelings so they just keep giving short texts or not answering at all but then they follow up and say I'm sorry I've just been busy. Why can't y'all just be upfront and say you're a really nice woman but I am not interested? Me as a woman, if I am not interested in someone I will apologize first of all to soften the blow and let them know I'm not interested at all (period) there is no reason to keep in contact with me. It's actually a courtesy in my opinion.

    • @LilliR4116
      @LilliR4116 6 лет назад +37

      Lol, you know what line I can't stand? When they say, 'You deserve so much better!'
      Well if you think I deserve better then why are you here wasting my time and getting us emotionally involved in the first place? That there screams to me, I like you, I wouldn't mind sleeping with you and hanging out, but really, I have no intentions. MEN, JUST BE HONEST AND STOP PLAYING WITH PEOPLES EMOTIONS. ...you either want a relationship with the girl or you dont, and you need to be upfront from the beginning, of what your intentions are, that way nobody gets hurt because you both want the same thing, a fling, a relationship or just an evening of sex.

    • @mwayoe
      @mwayoe 6 лет назад +11

      Lilli R (sigh) the world would actually be a better place if it were only that easy. I hate the excuses too. Thank God for people like Kev Hick to help us figure this shit out BEFORE we get hurt

    • @LilliR4116
      @LilliR4116 6 лет назад +3

      @@mwayoe True! Although people dont want to make it easy they want things difficult, then they complain of how unhappy they are 😊

    • @N1SPECIAL
      @N1SPECIAL 6 лет назад +3

      They might do that for a small confident boost. Dunno not a man

    • @kejijuliet6168
      @kejijuliet6168 5 лет назад

      I

  • @motivationandmeditations7600
    @motivationandmeditations7600 4 года назад +166

    "SO MANY OF YAL ARE WILLING TO PUT YOUR LIFE ON HOLD FOR A MAN WHO YOU HAVEN'T EVEN HEARD HIS VOICE YET"👀 PLS STOP.

    • @itsgabbieagain
      @itsgabbieagain 4 года назад +14

      He didn't have to call me out like that 😭

    • @yellowbabymarshmellow3040
      @yellowbabymarshmellow3040 4 года назад +3

      Wow...he pierced into my soul.

    • @annapuczyowska8772
      @annapuczyowska8772 4 года назад +4

      Damn i also feel called out

    • @AmberSumerall
      @AmberSumerall 4 года назад +9

      Also, he forget to point out that men gets away with a lot by texting. He can have a woman laying right next to him and his woman doesn’t even know he’s texting you.

  • @crystaldblevins
    @crystaldblevins 5 лет назад +159

    #7 should be #1. Texting and not putting in effort to see you, go on a date or talk to you. Great video as always.

    • @jaxfl8945
      @jaxfl8945 5 лет назад +8

      I agree, if he's just texting, he's not really interested. Drop him fast. I just did that to 2 men recently... Nobody is too busy to get on phone and have a convo or plan a date. Especially him asking the important questions.

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 3 года назад +1

      @@jaxfl8945 what if he dont like talking

    • @aleayh
      @aleayh 2 года назад +3

      @@redfather5342 then he shouldn’t be in the dating game🙄

  • @treeleaf7920
    @treeleaf7920 6 лет назад +842

    Well this made me feel like shit lol

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +26

      😂

    • @Senzigal
      @Senzigal 6 лет назад +9

      tree leaf I wanna cry 😢 the truth hurts

    • @jamsng
      @jamsng 6 лет назад +1

      Lol 😄

    • @totkins9966
      @totkins9966 6 лет назад

      Lol

    • @lelizzy2746
      @lelizzy2746 5 лет назад

      @@Senzigal your not alone

  • @sarahm.8954
    @sarahm.8954 6 лет назад +28

    Damn shame at 34 I had to search out a video like this, but I’m glad I did. You dropped straight facts & truth was it was what I already knew. Moral of the story... “ain’t no future in fronting.. to yourself” Me and my little hurt feelings took the L and kept it moving. Great video 😊

  • @emilyeverwish4790
    @emilyeverwish4790 6 лет назад +241

    Attraction vs. Connection..
    #fact 😏

  • @BrittneySamoneSilver
    @BrittneySamoneSilver 5 лет назад +21

    At the end of the day, it comes down to keeping your legs closed, letting a man chase you and letting his actions back up his words. The truth is that all men are not the same and men communicate differently. But with God, discernment, and celibacy...you can see who is who with the quickness!

  • @whawrongwiddat
    @whawrongwiddat 5 лет назад +21

    Some men just don't like texting...they prefer calling and some men just don't know how to hold a conversation

  • @gegobless1
    @gegobless1 5 лет назад +80

    If a guy wants to move on let him move on.

  • @alienwatch8830
    @alienwatch8830 5 лет назад +18

    This guy is a hidden gem, he really tells it how it is ! Probably the most logical, intelligent and honest advice. Well done 👍🏻

  • @americablessgod1273
    @americablessgod1273 5 лет назад +66

    False sense of importance -- after he already knows you --
    Verbally flirting to grow sexual attraction, not emotionally connecting to grow an emotional relationship.
    Bold sexual innuendos can be reckless and disrespectful, not caring if he offends you. Finesse a sexual tension of sexual attraction, but disregard a genuine reputation. Dismissed all but your sex value. Hard to have a conversation.
    INDIFFERENCE is the opposite of love. Short responses vs paragraphs. Takes long to respond.
    Makes no effort to make you laugh, smile, or be entertaining, charming. No excitement to talk to you.
    Makes no effort to elevate, progress or growing that relationship from text to voice to in-person.
    Doesn't text questions that lead to real, significant talks. No depth of growth, volume, interpersonal depth.
    No effort to be important to you, circle of trust or support system. No interest in your overall wellness, no questions about your feelings, not showing you he's there for you, your life, and your issues.
    He's already talking to someone else, and doesn't care that you are.

  • @sylviabaskin2933
    @sylviabaskin2933 5 лет назад +21

    The fact he is only texting you, In my opinion say it all.

  • @alliv3052
    @alliv3052 5 лет назад +92

    “Text somebody else. Cause he ain’t about shit.” 😂 The sad part is that it’s so damn true and so damn simple to do!

  • @nickandchrismom
    @nickandchrismom 5 лет назад +14

    " He's trying to build attraction not connection. He's flirting not connecting with you" this smacked in the core ( in a good way) good stuff! I needed to hear this for the next time.

  • @Vanni2012
    @Vanni2012 6 лет назад +52

    This video made me realized the guy I was talking too had mixed signals and was not ready.

  • @lulupeachie4667
    @lulupeachie4667 6 лет назад +103

    I like how honest he is. Great vid.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +1

      😁

    • @lulupeachie4667
      @lulupeachie4667 6 лет назад +2

      Omg thank you for liking my comment^^ I love when RUclipsr interact with ppl who watch them.

    • @saelaverdad8183
      @saelaverdad8183 6 лет назад

      But why not just be honest with Kim, straight from the jump? Good vid though

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад

      She wasn’t stable

    • @nafisahherbert3755
      @nafisahherbert3755 3 года назад

      @@KevHick 😭😭 @ "she wasn't stable"😂😂. Dats a really legit enough reason b/c u didn't wanna die🤣🤣...

  • @beautifulpoet1
    @beautifulpoet1 5 лет назад +361

    This SOOOOOO SOOOOOOO hard to listen to, but damnit he's right. Ladies resist the urge to make excuses for the behaviors hes described in this video. Take it at face value. We KNOW what it looks and feels like to be cared for. Think about the guys that liked you but you weren't into their ass. Remember how he jumped through hoops for you? Well is your current love interest coming with that same energy? HELL TO THE NAW -- that's what we're watching this video lol. Yep I said we because I'm going through the same shit lol. But we live and we learn. So yeah, if you aren't getting what you need, just walk away. Dont explain yourself - he knows wtf hes doing -- just leave.

    • @rgwynn88
      @rgwynn88 5 лет назад +4

      I love what you said . Thank you

    • @dyanathole2893
      @dyanathole2893 4 года назад +3

      It's so true everything is saying happened to me , I was chatting with this guy for 6 month all I got from him hell we just broke up 3 day's ago.

    • @agirlinaruba4954
      @agirlinaruba4954 4 года назад +5

      Mine ghosted me for no reason at all with no explanation..so I guess that was my answer so I just left it at that. Now I am not dating cause I am seriously afraid of men.

    • @smartmouth0229
      @smartmouth0229 4 года назад

      Lillian Jai what about the jumping through hoops in the beginning. Then they just stop?

    • @melissakendhammer6893
      @melissakendhammer6893 4 года назад

      You too are not really going on a Monday or Friday evening I

  • @kaphy
    @kaphy 5 лет назад +51

    ....you confirmed everything on my mind. Was over here thinking I'm prolly over thinking... chileeee...i been right the entire time. Just pulled the plug!

  • @belleleurhomedecor2824
    @belleleurhomedecor2824 6 лет назад +363

    Lawd he hit the nail on the head.... you never heard his voice.... omg that’s a relationship headed nowhere😥

    • @heathere415
      @heathere415 6 лет назад +11

      Belle Leur Home Decor I know right. Girl, I remember when I was a shortie me and my girls use to call the guys we like and be like, "yeah, he sound good." LOL😂😂

    • @jamsng
      @jamsng 6 лет назад +1

      @Robin D ofcourse text alone is not good plus we have skype and facetime now

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 5 лет назад

      Toni-Ann Stewart Yes !!!! Seriously ! No reason why you can’t have some kind of video connection with today’s technology!!!

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 5 лет назад +1

      After a week or so of a good momentum , he should be talking with you over your google phone number ...

  • @narcfreekeekee9168
    @narcfreekeekee9168 6 лет назад +59

    Ive been getting rid of men left and right. The last one was making sexual innuendos by the 4th conversation. I gave him one last chance to show me something, he comes by my house i made him dinner he ate my food and thought he was gone get lucky. I ran him out of my apartment, he never contacted me again. Im fine with that im done with the chase i will replace.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +13

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 “boy if you don’t getcho horny ass outta here!” 😂

    • @rosieoisten7585
      @rosieoisten7585 5 лет назад +1

      😂😂🤣🤣gosh you funny but good one, buh if I was u I wouldn't even feed his hungry ass

  • @VegasLady81
    @VegasLady81 5 лет назад +15

    I have never understood men, because I've never had a good one in my life. They've all cheated and lied, and I treated them good. I'm glad there's guys like you who will clarify what our gut intuition has already waved in our faces. The fact is, when women like a guy, we have a tendency to stay stuck on him until or unless he throws it right in our faces that he was interested at first but we bored him to death. I suck at conversations, and sometimes, I don't text the guy I like, because I'm not sure what to say. I know he likes me, because he said it, but still has yet to prove it. He lives in Denver, I live two hours away in Pueblo. The other day, the guy I like sent me a picture of some random girl, and said "What are you doing?" Well, I answered his question, then asked "Who's that girl?" His reply was: "I don't even know her". I was thinking, well then how did you get her pic, and why did you send it to me? That to me screams "I am pretending not to know this chick, but this is the reason I've been falling back on texts, but I'm not man enough to tell you the truth." Boy, please. If you send a random pic of another woman to a woman you claim to like, and then say you don't know her, chances are, you're a liar, and you're sending me that pic, so that I know I'm not the only woman you're eyeballing. Sad thing is, she was way prettier than me. Speaks volumes. I didn't make an issue out of it, because I don't like drama. I guess he's just texting me until someone else comes along. My friend says, "Did you ask him out? Denver's not that far". I said, "Yes, but he said he doesn't have a car", yet he sent me a pic of himself seated in what looked to be the driver's seat of a vehicle. *Lies, bud. I just don't understand why he just won't come out and say "Hey, I am interested in someone else, so I don't want to hurt your feelings, but this isn't gonna work". I hate it when men do that. I'm glad you're doing your RUclips vids, because dumb b*tches like me need guidance, sometimes, and not because we don't know what he's doing, more like we need to hear the confirmation of our own gut instincts from a male perspective. Thank you for sharing this. Now I know I was right. He's with someone else, and I'm just wasting my time.

  • @rere416
    @rere416 5 лет назад +68

    Well damn...your wife is bless too have u in her life and y'all. Are blessed to have found each other.....💯

  • @Sevenwndrs7
    @Sevenwndrs7 5 лет назад +157

    "For real?
    "That's what's up"
    "You so crazy"
    LMAO! Your face was killin me lol!

  • @Xzawn
    @Xzawn 6 лет назад +535

    Lmao ur nonchalant facial expressions and low voice 🤣

    • @Sam-fe3pr
      @Sam-fe3pr 6 лет назад +11

      Steph Beauty Artistry A MOOD 😂. That’s how I look like when I talk about men and dating 🤣.

    • @cherrykissesism
      @cherrykissesism 6 лет назад +47

      He tired of telling us the same shit over and over again 😂😩

    • @jamsng
      @jamsng 6 лет назад

      😂

    • @bettycooper9383
      @bettycooper9383 5 лет назад +2

      Steph Beauty Artistry He's gorgeous as fuck* 🍒💋🍒

    • @charmander1370
      @charmander1370 5 лет назад

      cherrykissesism 😂😂😂

  • @KevHick
    @KevHick  6 лет назад +581

    I’m not answering no more questions about Kim(not her real name). That shit was in 2005. She will be OK 👌🏾😂

    • @marzdabull
      @marzdabull 6 лет назад +1

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls lol

    • @zeldabear272
      @zeldabear272 6 лет назад +11

      LOL I adore you

    • @PhaMa1002
      @PhaMa1002 6 лет назад +6

      🤣

    • @tisha7252
      @tisha7252 6 лет назад

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls 😂😩😂

    • @aquafina6544
      @aquafina6544 6 лет назад +18

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls, omg this was so good. I dont know how i missed this one. Its a big problem. I meet guys on line and all they wanna do is text empty nothings or make me drag conversation out of them. Im so tired of these bum ass dudes that wont even meet for lunch.

  • @fee179
    @fee179 5 лет назад +22

    I love Kev's voice and demeanor so caring in a nonchalant tone lol

  • @msv6674
    @msv6674 5 лет назад +84

    Texting in my opinion isn't even worthy of my time in a man. No matter what a guy texts

    • @EfeAikpokhio
      @EfeAikpokhio 4 года назад

      Yh ur right thanks for opening up my eyes

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 3 года назад

      Whats wrong with texting

    • @TheLadyBlerd
      @TheLadyBlerd 3 года назад +5

      @@redfather5342 texting is good for short direct messages TO someone you've already have established a relationship... it is terrible way to try and hold a conversation and build meaningful rapport. It's well known how often words alone are misinterpreted for their tone and intention, especially short phrases can be highly ambiguous without proper context AND timing. Key n Peele did a whole sketch between just friends on how quickly things can get out of hand when folks text more than talk.
      But when you don't know someone well... texting, as a primary way to communicate, is laziest way to get to know someone, especially in dating. Between options of going on a date, talking over the phone/video chat, or even writing a thoughtful email.... prioritizing texting benefits those who want to put in the least effort into achieving their goal (of either wasting your time outof boredom, or simply to get sex/free meal). Texting/DMing requires little to no investment in building a meaningful connection with someone based on mutually exchanging deeper thoughts and values about each other's character as whole person... texting also restricts getting to know someone on solely THEIR terms rather than seeing how they share space with others and react to situations (or even you) with in realtime... it's for these reasons why many catfish, players, and the deeply insecure prefer texting (and keeping texting convos light) over all other options of connecting/communicating because they don't have to risk showing their true selves.
      It's important to choose to date and invest your time into someone that values you enough to make a significant effort into getting to know you and sharing of themselves in meaningful ways rather than accepting the least amount of effort required into getting to know you or someone hesitant to demonstrate their true values and character.

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 3 года назад

      @@TheLadyBlerd you talk too much

    • @AT-pw9dx
      @AT-pw9dx 3 года назад +1

      @@TheLadyBlerd your damn right!

  • @thecombara6891
    @thecombara6891 5 лет назад +19

    For me, I much prefer to be ghosted. It's just easier for me, then I know straight up he's not interested, and I don't have to waste any time wondering.

  • @stajarenee7106
    @stajarenee7106 6 лет назад +61

    Well that was a hard pill to swallow. You definitely hit the nail with this one and gave me clarity. Thank you!

  • @msthang5366
    @msthang5366 6 лет назад +459

    Sounds like every man I have met.. DAMN

  • @evelgreytarot8401
    @evelgreytarot8401 6 лет назад +122

    I feel envious of the girls getting the eggplant emoji. I usually get sent the actual pic. Out of the blue. No context. Just "Hey what're you doing?" and before I can reply BAM! Didn't even get to finish my coffee

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +55

      That’s a sign they have no respect for you! It’s blatant disrespect. You are just a hole to to stick it in, if they are doing that. It’s like if women hardly knew a guy and sent him a pic of their car note and or rent statement but where dead serious like “pay this”. He would feel disrespected. This is even worse than that. No guy is saying to his friends “yeah bro I met this lovely queen 👸🏽 so I sent her a dick pic to encourage her to fall in love and run away with me.” It’s more like “I sent the lil bitch a picture of this dick. She know she wanna give me some p😻ssy”....Never let that slide if you value respect or your reputation.

    • @Elena-er7zp
      @Elena-er7zp 6 лет назад +11

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls I'm doing this the next time. BAM! my education loan. PAY IT!

    • @l.christinejones8164
      @l.christinejones8164 5 лет назад +10

      please. block then ghost him. keep it moving.

    • @rosieoisten7585
      @rosieoisten7585 5 лет назад

      🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

    • @imabeloveddaughter
      @imabeloveddaughter 5 лет назад

      if I ever get egg plant or real pic, hell get no reply, the member not that attractive!

  • @TheKatangeseDollar
    @TheKatangeseDollar 5 лет назад +13

    That’s what I’ve been talking about. None of the men that have expressed interest in me have ever respected my boundaries. No real conversations initiated, just sexual innuendos. Thank heavens by doubts have been validated.

  • @kattvaughn9427
    @kattvaughn9427 5 лет назад +74

    "Til this day, I don't even know how Kim got my number"😂😂😂😂😂Kev, you know you were not right

    • @august21xp
      @august21xp 4 года назад +1

      Katt Vaughn 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ComradeFromRhody401
      @ComradeFromRhody401 4 года назад +3

      He’s got some explaining to do LOL clearly that’s what he’s doing here ha ha

  • @abrigirl
    @abrigirl 6 лет назад +66

    I pray i get blessed with a man with the same characteristic such as yourself. My bf rn doing all this to me and it really hurts 🙂

    • @mhry4098
      @mhry4098 6 лет назад +17

      girl leave 😩

    • @shekinahgloryharrell
      @shekinahgloryharrell 6 лет назад +8

      Random Thoughts but he didn't have good characteristics either, he was giving the girl short replies instead of telling her he wasn't interested

    • @DCCLXXXVI
      @DCCLXXXVI 5 лет назад +6

      He’s not your bf. you’re just his side chick

  • @eslack7702
    @eslack7702 6 лет назад +14

    This brother is THE TRUTH! Thanks for the real talk, as always Kev. It's discouraging in some ways but it protects us in others so, I gotta thank u for lookin out !

  • @Dreamgirlhav
    @Dreamgirlhav 6 лет назад +725

    You're the brother that every girl needs♡ #word #forreal #thatswassup lol

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +20

      😂😂 thank you

    • @ABCDuwachui
      @ABCDuwachui 6 лет назад +3

      ms_hav 1 shit I'd give him bomb ass head erday

    • @dennisbd7444
      @dennisbd7444 6 лет назад

      bigjayking24 Yeah I could relate. My sisters don’t listen to shit I say🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @dorynekikonyogo6087
      @dorynekikonyogo6087 6 лет назад

      That’s Right

    • @tyrondacoleman2694
      @tyrondacoleman2694 6 лет назад

      ms_hav 1 IKR

  • @HeyTwinTv
    @HeyTwinTv 5 лет назад +110

    Welp, that just answered my question...

  • @jiajia3554
    @jiajia3554 5 лет назад +12

    I like how chill the guy is when breaking it down to u... n he broke me down for sure.

  • @nicolecary791
    @nicolecary791 6 лет назад +113

    WORD, FORREAL, THATS CRAZY....LOL

  • @charlenemyers7599
    @charlenemyers7599 6 лет назад +22

    Dang!! Things you already know, but haven't accepted til you were called out. Thanks for your wisdom.😏

  • @glamstar_vhumbi
    @glamstar_vhumbi 5 лет назад +69

    this actually made me shed a tear... i need love and affection but all i'm getting is a d**k emoji

  • @anacabrera2890
    @anacabrera2890 5 лет назад +21

    when he started talking abt how he was replying to that girl... that was all the confirmation i needed. he doesn’t like me so i finna get over him.

  • @sharonmaganda5904
    @sharonmaganda5904 5 лет назад +73

    I can now officially say have never had a boyfriend

  • @tricethomas9653
    @tricethomas9653 5 лет назад +45

    the look on your face when you said "text somebody else" 😂😂😂😂

  • @emmaleighjuarez3866
    @emmaleighjuarez3866 5 лет назад +10

    Omg this helped so much! This guy said he liked me but I didn’t know if it was true but turns out it is. He does almost none of these! Thank you so much! 💙

    • @whitneyallman8365
      @whitneyallman8365 5 лет назад

      I love the way you spell your name it’s different. ❤️

  • @christinamatteo1953
    @christinamatteo1953 6 лет назад +9

    Kevin, I love the fact that you give information in every sentence. You are crystal clear in your opinions and facts. I will listen to all of your videos.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +1

      Thank you 😁

  • @mirabellemirash5228
    @mirabellemirash5228 4 года назад +22

    There is a guy I met. He use to text me alot and always asked about my well-being. But as time went onn he asked me to be his gf I accepted we use to play alot and spent time together during weekends. but few weeks later everything changed. He can text me 2 times a day and sometimes he won't even text at all. I just wander why someone will make another person fall for them when they ain't feeling no shit for the person. But am grateful cuz i walked away after noticing all these. I never actually told him. It's over but I guess he understood from the way I responded to his texts.

    • @monicathompson9751
      @monicathompson9751 3 года назад

      Sounds like a Narcissists !!!!

    • @mirabellemirash5228
      @mirabellemirash5228 3 года назад +7

      @@monicathompson9751 now he is back again begging me like crazy even bought an iPhone for my birthday but I rejected it. Just told him I don't want him anywhere close to me. Not even as a friend.

  • @ATownWitch
    @ATownWitch 5 лет назад +224

    People actually text for months and haven't even talked on the phone? Wth? That's equivalent to having a danm pen pal🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Gtfoh

    • @bamekwafela3275
      @bamekwafela3275 5 лет назад +1

      True that

    • @nalaa9618
      @nalaa9618 4 года назад

      @Shi Rome wow you really gave up...A queen would never give in on the first dates. It should take weeks/months in person before you let him in

    • @mariapazmartinez4862
      @mariapazmartinez4862 4 года назад

      LOL 😂😂😂 True

    • @candacecasey5634
      @candacecasey5634 4 года назад +1

      Except that you don't have to buy stamps 😂

    • @timewithtea.529
      @timewithtea.529 4 года назад

      @Shi Rome relatable every man I’ve dealt with I’ve been manic at the time and they don’t understand. You can’t explain to people like that because they don’t want to listen x

  • @katoloniable
    @katoloniable 6 лет назад +4

    You are so well spoken, I love your straightforward non condescending approach. Great advice.

  • @llp400
    @llp400 6 лет назад +16

    You are the most realistic guy I’ve ever listened too 🙏🏾

    • @shanafondon8767
      @shanafondon8767 4 года назад

      Probably cause hes done most of this stuff to someone else...we all needs to think about this and what he just said

  • @symrahchristopher9738
    @symrahchristopher9738 6 лет назад +14

    You keep it real with us and I so appreciate that. Something about the tone in your voice makes the information u share sink in much faster. Lolol

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад

      😁😁thank you for watching

  • @suspirodelmoro1430
    @suspirodelmoro1430 3 года назад +2

    "that's what's up" sent me; you hear that one often enough and you KNOW dude is tuned out of the exchange or the entire situation.

  • @queenof2kings299
    @queenof2kings299 4 года назад +10

    "What should I do?"
    Me & Kev: "Text somebody else"😂😂

  • @Joestillstalksme
    @Joestillstalksme 6 лет назад +116

    As usual 😁 the TRUTH the whole TRUTH and nothing but the TRUTH!... 😒

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +1

      😁😁😁

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 6 лет назад

      Do not listen to him. He is a narc. He strung that woman along to protect his own image but is telling everyone it was not to hurt her. Narc are never upfront with how they really feel about you

  • @marciemorfin3921
    @marciemorfin3921 6 лет назад +35

    You are not only smart you are handsome. Thanks for the wise advise

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +1

      Thank you for watching 😁

    • @marciemorfin3921
      @marciemorfin3921 6 лет назад +1

      Oh I will be watching 😀

    • @jerryvasquez50
      @jerryvasquez50 5 лет назад

      I don’t know why but reading this made me die

  • @mohoganii
    @mohoganii 6 лет назад +56

    I don’t know how I ended up here, but you’ve got a new subscriber.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +1

      😁thank you. I love the name!

    • @mohoganii
      @mohoganii 6 лет назад

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls thank you!

  • @Respectations
    @Respectations 5 лет назад +30

    My next relationship...no texting will be allowed in the beginning...Ull need to call; like the old days....das wassup. 😁

  • @bdaily9107
    @bdaily9107 4 года назад +21

    Here after the guy who claims I’m his girl... hangs up on me after I told him I wasn’t comfortable sending sexy pics sigh 😔 one day I’ll find someone that’ll want me

  • @sunnydaze80
    @sunnydaze80 6 лет назад +9

    these tips are very helpful, but like you said, these dudes will finesse you. I totally fell for a dude once who texted me in complete sentences 😂😂

  • @yolandasosa8070
    @yolandasosa8070 5 лет назад +4

    Kevin Hick Thank You For Your Advice!! You Answered exactly what I needed to know and had a gut feeling when a man doesnt text you back right away or doesn't say much when he does.. Its time to kick him to the curb.

  • @Koukouna154
    @Koukouna154 3 года назад +3

    Don’t allow someone you met few weeks ago to have you tripping. He ain’t nobody. Take him off that damn pedestal.

    • @julissasmessages4493
      @julissasmessages4493 3 года назад +1

      Thanks for your comment,and for being part of my channel, send me a message on my unique WhatsApp +1 (604) 373-5949 to ask for help❤️!

    • @Koukouna154
      @Koukouna154 3 года назад +1

      @@julissasmessages4493 Thank you

  • @shelbyspellman3046
    @shelbyspellman3046 9 месяцев назад

    When I watch these type of videos , I recognize the value of these conversations but also the lack of self awareness we have within ourselves to not be aware of the energy we feel w/ people and the energy they bring . Self love really is the foundation to having discernment.

  • @jennalynn3851
    @jennalynn3851 5 лет назад +4

    Hey Kev! New subscriber here! I love how you’re so honest and don’t sugar coat anything. You’re so wise beyond your age. You just lay everything out there and unlike some of these “videos” don’t take forever to get to the subject. Thank you!

  • @bitchexpress
    @bitchexpress 6 лет назад +24

    I can't stand text games. I'm in my 30's but get with younger men a lot. I'm still trying to understand WTF with texts...this video is helpful, as are your others! Thx Kev 🐣💕 I'm hatchin' now lol...

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад

      My pleasure 😇

    • @bitchexpress
      @bitchexpress 6 лет назад +1

      rose dickerson 👎

    • @MisssKayy
      @MisssKayy 6 лет назад +2

      rose dickerson exactly! Little boys are always going to play games.

    • @aprilmiller4422
      @aprilmiller4422 5 лет назад

      I can't do it. I'm 33 the youngest id date is 27 and even that's almost too young

  • @MissChrissyJaye
    @MissChrissyJaye 5 лет назад +124

    Dying @ “yo so crazy” 😂😂😂 that’s so mean

    • @aleayh
      @aleayh 2 года назад +1

      That wasn’t funny Kevin could’ve just been honest with ‘Kim’ instead of being boring on Purpose so that she can go away he could’ve been upfront and honest too with how he felt about the girl 🙄

    • @SapphicSis
      @SapphicSis 2 года назад

      @@aleayh men would rather led a woman on then be honest and be like “i’m not even gone lie, i’m not interested in furthering anything with you” it’s like they think it’s nice but it’s really passive

  • @jaicbacote3494
    @jaicbacote3494 6 лет назад +218

    But, that seems like your personality 😂😂 you aren’t very “animated” anyway. U are VERY laid back. Like the house could be in fire and you’d be all calm whilst everyone else is hyped up 😂😂

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 лет назад +32

      😂I’m usually calm under pressure

    • @yaayens
      @yaayens 6 лет назад +2

      Charlene Moore 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I REALLY GET YOU!

    • @stephnajarro
      @stephnajarro 6 лет назад

      Charlene Moor

    • @Nelfa183
      @Nelfa183 6 лет назад

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls that's a goid thing ! I like the way you talk about all these topics it says a lot about you !

    • @tanyastevens9553
      @tanyastevens9553 6 лет назад

      @@KevHick
      You must be a Sagittarius.
      ??

  • @vegvixxxen829
    @vegvixxxen829 5 лет назад +33

    Well I guess all these guys that don’t like us, like each other, oh golly 🤦🏽‍♀️