Leave Simone Alone
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- Опубликовано: 13 авг 2024
- Simone Biles & Jonathan Owens have the internet on fire with many calling for a divorce for a comments the husband made on Ryan Clarks podcast. Are people quick to quit on relationships?
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0:00 What happened
6:10 The Internet Reacts
8:25 Careful Who You Ask For Advice 
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![YOU are the prize, not him [simone biles husband “i’m the prize”]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/iNumJSOMyk8/mqdefault.jpg)
He’s a moron if he didn’t know he she was. She should run
What does intelligence have to do with whether or not you know an athlete? Dumb comment
Why? Just for that reason? 😂
Not really. Gymnastics isn't very popular, and most people couldn't give a shit about the Olympics. Plus, he's in the NFL, so he's going to be absorbed in football until he retires. And she's not even attractive, so of course he wouldn't know about who she is.
@99fxr68 What a weird deduction lmao.
@@daleford8621i agree with all but the attractive part. She’s not ugly but not smoking hot but she’s in between and above average at best
Folks see a couple joking and smiling and get angry on behalf of someone who is incredibly happy by all accounts & recommend she get divorced. Truly bizarre behavior. Folks go straight to divorce over everything.
he wasnt treating a nubian queen like she should be treated Aba n Preach, she needs a real man like Myron gaines or Walter weeks.
@@pearlisa5atbestSimone needs Steve "the simp" Harvey or Dr. Moist Watkins. Hahaha lol
Most women can't stand when young women go against the current society. Women in general don't want to see men happy. They fall to realize when men are happy men share their happiness with their loved ones.
@@jwhite2005 Myron would lead simone through fear which is always the best way to gain love and respect from your partner
I agree, it defeats the purpose of marriage if you expect your partner to be perfect.
Social media: "protect black women"
Also social media: *bullies a black woman for not leaving her husband*
the enemies is always the one that you know
The pure unhinged space that is black twitter or “X” are just full of trifling miserable people
THE DEVIL MINIONS,,, THATS WHAT THEY ARE ...
literally not true.
@@ShantesTravelThingsit is the truth 🤷🏾♂️💯
The best thing I did for my relationship was to stop talking my business especially to certain people. I am now married and I truely believe if I hadn't made that change amongst other things, I would probably still be single. I def had some "friends" stop talking to me once I stopped talking my business about my love life.
Thats because your man is most likely trash.
Don't tell your friends bad things, especially more than once and expect them to like your boyfriend.
My friend's know that I have a 3 complain rule and either Imma tell you something to hurt your feelings or we can't be friends no more bc I don't allow trauma-dumping.🤮
Don't come here making those friends you trauma dumped on look bad. You told them some bad ish abt your boyfriend and that's what YOU told them. So yes, keep it to yourself.
Sincerely,
Tired Friend Delegation🙄
I had to cut off a few people because of my relationship. It got to the point where they would try and set me up with someone else. SMH!!! We have a daughter together and couldn’t be any happier. I wanted these people to be part of my life, but seeing how they act, I couldn’t.
This 🙌🏾
@@craziebarbietalks692it’s crazy man😢 I’m at a lost for words. Hope God continue to keep you and your family together. The amount of relationships I’ve a woman’s “friends” destroy with their projections is so messed up fr💯
You're a VERY smart young lady!
The people calling for her to divorce her husband can’t be reasoned with. When she showed that she was standing for her man people literally thought THEY were doing her a favor by coming after her husband. Even went so far as to screenshot and bookmark her tweets praying they breakup so that years later they have some “gotcha moment”
You can’t fix those people.
People are so miserable
And these are same people that sat divorce rate is high and people don't work on their marriages and want easy way out.
Keep that same energy for Will & Jada.
@@TuffLuv1984 they won’t keep the same energy because majority of people love toxicity
Well said!
I was roommates with JO and was in the wedding party. I can honestly say when he called me in 2020 to let me know he found the one, he said “bro, do you know Simone Biles?” He truly didn’t realize how big she was at the time.
They’re madly in love and are sitting back looking at the comments and posts together with no problems.
Pin of insider info
@@AbaNPreachya didn’t pin shite 😑
@@Chigo-nr8jg😂😂😂😂😂
They don't want to believe you lmao 😂😂😂😂
@@AbaNPreach appreciate it. As I continue to say, Misery Loves Company. Thanks for the nuanced approach!
People who are this involved in other people’s relationships are insane.
it's a sickness
That’s social media for you
If I posted about my relationship online I wouldn't be surprised if it got feedback. These people are famous.
Agreed… whatever works for her… if she pursued him and got him and they’re both happy… Blessings to them
And unhappily SINGLE!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
Relationships are a 2 way street. I was the one to first message my (now husband) on Tinder 7 years ago. All I said was “Hey”. At the time I didn’t realize that only saying Hey was apparently not a normal thing to do. But it worked for us, he initiated asking the first date, asking me to be his girlfriend and eventually asking me to be his wife. Both people matter and neither person is “above” the other in a healthy relationship. Their strengths should help you in your weakness and your strengths should help build up their weaknesses. You’re a team, you’re not opponents in a game of chess. There’s only ever one winner in Chess. A healthy relationship means both partners are winning together.
Met my partner the same way too. Cant remember who reached out to who but when we linked up, i made sure not to let him slip away.
They will not get what you're saying, which is why most of them will either constantly sabotage relationships that would be good for them or be doomed to be single for life. Insecurity won't allow them to even see the common sense in 2 people valuing each other equally
See! You get it!
The fact your comment isnt the most liked comment on here shows how sound opinions just fly over the face of bullshit, outrage and negativity on the internet.
I 100% agree with you and figured this out the hard way. Cause i come from the mindset growing up of the man should be the one doing all the approaching, all the decision making. From literally watching my parents live their lives this way. Then being told the kind of thing your saying. And realizing why its sooo important to have a partner who thinks, and lives their life in a similar manner.
@@davidsaucedo5287 facts bro
My wife poked me on FB back in the day. She saw my pics, she liked what she saw, she attacked. I was a professional bodybuilder and a cop. What started with her being interested in the physical and psychological aesthetic of someone like myself blossomed into love. My wife, on paper, is a MUCH better catch than I am. I lived life, perhaps a bit too well, and have some attachments and baggage. The fact that she even hit me up and moved past the smash only stage with me is a blessing I thank God for every day (Except when we fight), and here we are, a decade later. Don’t let anyone judge your relationships when they are healthy; yes, even if it’s not perfect, it still can be healthy. Listening to people tell you to break up of simple shit is wild. I’m happy Simone had sense and disregards the noise.
Yeah but he doesn't seem to see her that way
But do yu still consider your wife the catch or no?
her experiences mean nothing, you were 'chad', and females chase 'chad'
it aint that deep 😂💊
And attacked 😂
@@NotReallyAya. Why is that important fr? If she sees him as the “catch” it’s not the end of the world😂 in fact. I heaven heard this married women say this “men are the prize women are the winners” plus at the end of the day they’re happy
Misery loves company. If she’s not offended why are they? Miserable people love to project their negative feelings onto others.
What does having an opinion have to do with your happiness? disagreement doesn't equal unhappiness. your the unhappy one is you believe that.
Isn't it crazy how the last half of your comment is perfectly summed up by 3 words "misery loves company"
If jada sat in a chair and said all that about will you people would be hauling chairs through the internet .
@@impressionare3243…..what are you even trying to say?
@@PepeToTheMooon If Jada claimed to be the prize in the relationship, acted like she didn't like will at first, and fought with him over who the better actor is you would see this situation for what it is.
People being offended on somebody else's behalf is honestly weird behavior
To me it has to be due to self projecting of past experiences or bitterness. But who knows
fr as a woman I saw the interview and thought it was cute. Plus Simone seemed happy and that's what really matters
People are miserable with their own lives so they must see famous people unhappy also
Getting personally offended on other people's behalf is strange, but acknowledging and/or taking action against someone doing wrong to others is normal.
The way y'all are offended on will smith's behalf? That's not weird 😂?
Such a wholesome video, it's kind of disappointing that people are mad. And another sad thing is that if they ever do get divorced (which I hope they don't), people will point to this moment. But in reality, so much happens between people in relationships, the knowledge of which only belongs to those people, and only they need to know why something does or does not work out.
That's why the elders say, "don't be telling your friends everything, it's none of their business"
Crazy how happy Simone is, yet the majority of black Twitter and Instagram is dragging her relationship down with her husband more emotional distress for what? All it showed me is how miserable most people on social media is.
@renetorres3568 Its even worse on Instagram honestly. So many women attacking her relationship.
nobody is dragging her. they are dragging him but of you see what you wanna see.
Screw black Twitter.
@@ShantesTravelThingsdistinction without a difference, they're taking a huge s*it in their relationship and the man she chose to spend the rest of her life with
Same with will smith, those men are just crabs in a bucket trying to take him down because he's happy. That's how you people sound. There's TONS of married white couples sniffing this guy out.
The Internet: *Sees someone being happy*
Also The Internet: "How can I make them as miserable as me?"
We all know if jada pinkett said any of what simone husband said in that video you people would be hauling chairs at her through the internet.
@@impressionare3243 Jada Pinkett slept with her sons Best friend & told the world...Also had that man slap Chris Rock & openly admits to loving tupac more. ....wayyyyyy different.
@@impressionare3243you have no brain cells, you're thinking with your ass right now, and there's not a lot of it
😂😂
@@impressionare3243 Actually the difference is she deserves that 😂😂
Crazy how many people ended relationships because a stranger was available in front of them while feeling like their lover on the phone was too disconnected...
People need to get in front of each other and problem solve and build integrity
As a Brit whos never been into sports I don't know who either of these two are, but to me it just looked like a bit of banter in a normal relationship 🤷🏻♀️ my husband and I mostly communicate in cartoon refernces and jokes. Life doesn't always have to be so serious
I'm a Brit and I hate athletics but I definitely know who she is. Don't dismiss this as 'banter' though. He wasn't joking when he said it. He was being an a-hole. He also spoke about her as if she was chasing him and he was the prize. Just stupid and disrespectful to speak about his wife like that. You're talking about banter within a relationship not a man talking about his wife to the entire public like that. Not okay.
@@babypicassoeisenstein Shut up!
@@Trouble_Bubble36 no, dear. won't be doing that but of course you want women who call out misogyny to be quiet. grow up.
As a former gymnast I would just like to say she is the absolute GOAT, and how people could be confused that she wasn't afraid to holla at someone? She can do a fucking triple salto, she ain't afraid to rejected by a dude. I love them. I think they are cute together.
That ususes Adderall.... and then quits the Japanese Olympics because she couldn't perform without it.... oh yeah.. real GOAT behaivor...
99% of women can't hold up to rejection the way men can without building up massive insecurities... she still had a launching pad because they did already match... not like it was a cold call
@@chikkinpotpi3960 glad to hear you’ve never used pain medicine a day in your life!
@@chikkinpotpi3960bruh yall think adderall is the equilvalent to steroids. All it does it makes us adhd people feel normal, and the stunts she performs can result in her literal death or her being paralyzed. So if she aint in the right mind set or gets distracted easily then yea she shouldnt perform. She won enough, she aint got nothing else to prove so why risk it? People like to talk when they have no accomplishments themselves smh
I once fell off my bike, rolled into an upright position and walked away like Bugs Bunny. I almost died, not on purpose though.
It’s crazy cause this girl has actually dealt with alot. From being SA’d, to mental health issues, etc. And instead of the black community being glad she’s happy in life, they called her corny, and made fun of her for just being, well, her. It’s really weird.
They're calling her man out, not her. Cardi b defended her husband and see how he did her.
Misery loves company.
You're confusing yourself. Seeing a few comments doesn't mean the "community " is doing anything.
@@ptolemeeselenion1542that's right deflection so you don't have to use your brain
@@impressionare3243 CAP, CAP, CAPAROO lol. Definitely was seeing people snapping on them both. Calling him “sassy”😒, and calling her corny, weird, and stupid everywhere I looked. Even before this she was talked about and laughed at. She’s a woman who liked a man, went after him, and got him (which I’d argue should happen more). She’s not being the typical “girl boss” who thinks only about herself and thinks she’s above the man she’s with, or people in general. And people don’t like that.
This is honestly my first time seeing this story. Why do people even care? These people are complete strangers to most of us. Just because we see them on TV doesn't mean we know them. Let them be.
Thank you! People are so quick to speculate and judge others without any compassion or knowledge about a complex situation. Let people enjoy being together. She's been through so much and she's so strong. I agree--leave her alone. I am not going to say anything negative about them because I don't know their situation other than getting married, which is surface level. Whatever happens, I hope they both live a happy life.
I live in Houston, I've literally met Simone in an HEB, she is such a sweet woman it's heartbreaking to see how people talk to / about her
How's this cold treating you?
That girl has gone through heck and STILL won medals AND is a legend. (Side Note) gymnastics is EXTREMELY hard. Girl finds happiness and public garbage dumps on her. 🤦♀️
I love Orcs and Tigers.
@@Redpill-lv4it 🤨
Yup. People want THEIR version of happiness for others. That shows how little they care of the actual person and the happiness they actually found.
People are not dumping her. They're dumping on the husband complaining that he settled
@sparklemotion8377 LOL, not once did he say that. He simply told the story as it really happened, which is that she was the one pursuing him mostly. That's objectively what happened. Her fans have their panties in a twist that this guy wasn't simping over Simone. Clearly he loves her. He even said himself he wasn't intending to settle down at the peak of his career but she convinced him to. She went after a guy she wanted and got him. Her fans are butthurt cause he wasn't the one chasing her? Who cares?
We tend to forget, the keyboard warriors online will not say that in person most of the time....
The only part I agree with is when Aba said have the discussions about what you didn't like about xyz issues. I don't advocate for divorce I think that's extreme. But after watching that whole thing, guy could have handle himself better. He was off
Nah. He wasn't
Always crazy to me how people are so quick to judge other people relationship while most of them can't even get one.
Also, notice how they never show their faces and be the loudest mfs in the comments telling somebody how to live. Can't even show their face but trying to tell someone how to live.
Facts. Only good for a pumpndump but can’t keep a guy.
Getting a relationship is not hard. There were tons of married women and men sniffing him out.
I'm in a relationship and I still don't agree with the egotistical things Simon biles husband said in their interview. I guess i'm just used to kind men. People are allowed to have opinions and disagree, nobody asked them to post this online.
@@10onithe was kind, your relationship must be with yourself if that's how you think
Imagine bullying a person who is happy while they are lonely and miserable and says in the name of feminism what kinda losers are they.
Her boyfriend brought this on her. You can say whatever you want call them bitter but they're not wrong. Her "prize" will cheat on her and she won't be enough.
Wow, that’s bitter, why just not be happy for them. You people are just cruel to people.
@@impressionare3243Of course he will because dark skinned BW with natural hair aren’t supposed to be able to get men like this… I mean that’s the narrative BW always talk about when it comes to colorism…. Some BW continue to tell on themselves.. SMH
@mel54556 don't reply back to any of them, theywill gaslight you
What does this have to do with feminism?? This is about the fact that her husband obviously has a lukewarm attraction to her and people calling it out. Has nothing to do with politics. Just stop
I LOVE Simone! From the first moment I watched her do these incredible routines it was obvious she is a once-in-a-lifetime competitor. She is AMAZING!!!!!
Simone sets her eyes on what she wants and she gets exactly what she's after. Period. Alot of black women want to act like biblical Ruth was everything, but then wants to clown Simone for making herself available to the guy. If anything, learn to be flexible instead of stake and stiff, stuck in your house.
Lol.. It's gymnastics, who cares?
Dont forget she has an advantage because she takes Adderral which is basically speed.
@@shondacheesecake Adderall is not responsible for her skills. What she does is due to years of practice and natural ability. I was a gymnast in high school and I know what she has to do to be at the top of the sport. This young woman is nothing short of amazing.
@@aslemartinsen5284 what medals have you won
I like what Aba said about them being lucky to have each other. If he would’ve communicated this way, we wouldn’t be here.
If we switched the roles , we also would not have been here
@@curtishancock432 I disagree if everything was reversed, incl. status, there would be a shitstorm
@@curtishancock432 i agree with Rosa, I feel like the criticism Ayesha Curry gets is proof to this.
@@vindette8690 what criticism does she receive? I think the pushback against her was that she was on national TV, talking about wanting attention from other men.😂😂
@@rosa61217 what I mean is if Simone biles was a just a run of the mill gymnast and Jonathan Owens was a Superbowl winning, probowl safety, and she said she was the prize most women wouldn't give her pushback and most men wouldn't care ,except maybe some random redpill dudes.
This to me was a very revealing moment for the people who are usually behind these types of harassment campaigns. They really tried to defend someone who didnt want or need to be defended. I saw some people using her being assaulted by Larry Nassar to justify why she would be in a relationship with someone like him?? there was no reason for this to be as dramatic as it was.
She will agree when the prize eventually cheats on her. Typical story.
@mel54556 damn you are everywhere in this comment section lmao who hurt you 😂💀
@@impressionare3243 you sound miserable
@@yungsxma5578 You have to be hurt to say the truth? This is the only side of the internet disagreeing 😂. Aba and preach was wrong about the Keke palmer situation and they'll be wrong about this too.
@@JaredTSM That's all you can think of lol? Call me whatever, it's not gonna change the situation. Married men and women have been sniffing her husband out, that's not how a normal loyal husband acts, he will cheat and she will be mad at the internet for saying the truth.
Seriously, I couldn't agree more, a real relationship isn't all just unicorns and rainbows, sometimes there's a little shit and rain you have to deal with. The key is that you're willing to tackle adversity together and communicate, talk it through, if it gets heated, separate, calm down, most of the time during the downtime you're winding down you both are thinking it through together and will have better answers the next time you talk, people fail to realize in order for you to kindle a relationship, you have to tend to it every now and then
To me it depends on the type of argument a couple makes. Like if it's a petty argument like over a seatbelt or how one doesn't finish all or most of their food at a restaurant, I can let that slide but when it comes to values like integrity and honesty, those arguments are the redline
People aren’t built for it anymore. They’re looking for something that doesn’t exist and ultimately end up alone. Anyone that isn’t willing to go through the highs and lows, the imperfections of people and standing by those they love, has no business getting married in the first place. A lot of the people speaking out on this don’t have what it takes and never will.
I've noticed that when a man thinks he's 'the prize', he treats the woman like he's doing the woman a favor being with her. It seems like men have to feel like they are with someone that's out of their league even if slightly for relationships to have the best outcome. The best situation is if both people feel equally lucky to have found each other.
No, you didn’t notice that. That’s like me “noticing” some guys like strippers. It doesn’t matter. Whatever annoys you the most, is what you’ll see.
Honestly i think that's just a vast generalization of all men that's not necessarily through but whatever
I did notice/observe it@@Moshuun
@@doingitover40what you notice don’t mean you can decide what’s true lol😊
in those cases it's true@@walmanthegreat
Feminists have said for years they want equality and to remove gender roles. Yet when an actual independent successful woman goes out and pursues a man she really wants, somehow that's a bad thing? Have you ever considered that Simone Biles got to where she is in life by ACTIVELY pursuing things she wants in life rather than waiting for someone to do things for her?
it was never about _equality_ only *supremacy*
People make no sense..
Exactly! Even her man!
The entire country was focus on her an entire 5 seconds lol. NO but seriously, this girl was used as a political wedge when she didn't perform at the 2020 Olympics because she got twisties. The girl went through trauma after trauma. I'm glad she found someone that didn't know her. She knows he loves her without the famous part.
true
Exactly!
The smile on her face tells you everything she’s happy
That man knew who she was, he wants his own identity outside of being Simone biles husband. I gotta go with shannon and ocho on this one.
As a woman who's been dabbling in some female dating strategy content, I also often hear the advice that the man has to love the woman more than she loves him. This has always been something I've disagreed with because I just want someone who loves me just as strongly as I love him. If its unbalanced on either side it's gonna be tough and not sustainable. How do you measure love anyway, isn't it more like you either love someone or you don't?
Idk, while some female dating advice can be good, you always gotta take everything with a grain of salt.
I personally find the FDS stuff as unhinged as the manosphere redpill nonsense, but you make a good point about love.
I think that advice might come from the differences both sexes approach relationships- and I’m talking biologically. Women tend to be more emotionally sensitive when picking mates, while men seek largely physical or even status based aspects in women. There’s a difference is especially when it comes to how both sexes approach the sensation of falling out of love. You might have heard about the “honeymoon”phase of relationships and it is often mistaken as what deep love is. When really love is an enduring emotion consisting of chemical and spiritual connections. Many times, once this euphoric feeling ends is when most relationships die out. How this ties into it is that men, who tend to have lower sensitivity and bigger egos. They may be in denial that they might not be in love with their partner as much as they think. They end up cheating or finding something alternative rather than communicating the relationship is not working. This poor communication is a large aspect of why most relationships turn out poorly. But anyway this can really devastate women. As women are more emotionally in tune, they may still find ways to love their partner. The thing is… women have evolved to tend to understand how to love fully better than men. This makes sense because females are primary caretakers of children and children need unconditional love.
I’m not saying men can’t or shouldn’t love equally to the partner. It’s just that men tend to handle it poorly, and the party that tends to suffer more if it occurs is women. Thus, maybe this statement can actually be the equivalent of saying, “pick a man who is emotionally mature and has an understanding of love.” Because most men, really don’t, especially young men! It’s just how nature created each sex. Just my two cents on how this advice came to be!
@@sepulcher8263Oh for sure, a lot of it us unhinged, but it depends who you're listening to. Like SheraSeven for example is UNHINGED lmao. But then someone like Asha Christina for example offers some more balanced advice. Really though, it just boils down to having self respect and self worth, and to stick to your values in dating. And also to not try to run after a man if he's not putting any effort into you. Because a lot of women fall into this trap of trying to decode mixed signals from a guy and run after him, give him excuses for not reaching out in days or even weeks etc.
What I don't like about FDS though is the suggestion that men have to wine and dine you from day one, as if he doesn't want to get to know you better first.
Or that if a man hasn't proposed to a woman within 3 to 4 years, you're a "forever girlfriend" and he isn't serious about you... But what if you got together at age 20 or even earlier? Most adults these days want to take their time and might not feel ready to get married until their late 20s to early 30s.
This is why I think you gotta take every advice with a grain of salt.
Except his actions shows he doesn't love her as much. He was even found to be lying when his old tweets were dug up years ago showing him cheering her up by her name in the Olympics. The fact that he felt the need to lie on a world stage is a red flag
@@KaeMaiden Pretty sure he was talking about gabby douglas in the Olympics. Yeah the guy totally doesn't love her, that's why he went to therapy with her to help her deal with trauma from the nasser situation, yeah?
Some people complain about "dating outside your race". Now we have a happily married black couple and people are already seeking to destroy it. And let's face it most of it is coming from black women. Very sad to see.
Some people isn't the whole internet. There's white women and their husbands calllng him out, he's still only known as her husband.
They are literally saying that Simone should be be with Zac Efron (a white man) and that Johnathan should conduct himself like Alexis Ohanian, Serena Williams husband (another white man). These Black women wanted Simone Biles Owens to be married to a white man. Apparently only a white man can truly appreciate a successful Black woman. 🙄😒
He’s wealthy tho so…there you go.
Its very sad to see
Bruh.
These people are so crazy to me. The last time Simone Biles was in the media, was when they (probably the same ones) were going in on her for HER hair on her wedding day. Talking about her "edges". Some people just can't fathom that people can be genuinely happy with the person they chose and find every thing to nitpick on instead of finding some meaning in their own lives.
AND unfortunately most times, the negativity comes from other women. Also, I fail to see how someone's income or status is a signifier of "being the prize", nobody sees what they are to each other behind the scenes, and quite frankly, it's nobody's business. Leave that girl and her marriage alone! They've really just been hating since she said "I do".
A lot of people aren't happy, smiling on camera does not mean your happy.
No it was when she got more coverage than the first place winner
This!! People talking about her being the goat like who cares? She's his wife he doesn't have to care about her money status or victories..he's not her coach he's her husband..people are stupid!!
I hope her and her husband keep their lives as private as possible because there are so many people who just hate to see people happy. It’s sad and they will try to make you miserable like them.
M DOT R reference killed me 😂😂😂😂
It’s funny but sad to see how hypocritical her “supporters” are. They are trying to hype Simone up so much but are dragging her so far down at the same time acting as if she doesn’t know whats best for her, that she should divorce her husband for that comment, etc. If they truly believed in Simone as a person they’d be happy that she found someone who isn’t marrying her for her accomplishments but who she is as a person. They call her a queen but treat her like a peasant
A lot of women defend their husbands and then are wronged, it happened with Cardi B.
@@impressionare3243 and that’s their prerogative. At the end of the day unless it’s legitimate emotional physical or sexual abuse, nobody should feel like they are in the right to comment on someone else’s relationship publicly figure or not. Too many people are consumed with the lives of others and not focusing on how to make their own less boring. In no way was Simone being wronged in this situation. She’s in a relationship where she thinks that her man is the prize regardless of how much clout he has, a d her supporters should actually support her decision if they want her best interest at heart.
@@M2161 If you as a public figure post something on the internet people are allowed to say whatever they want. That is the internet. Her husband said ignorant things, people called him out.
@@M2161 You can be a fan of anyone and not support their decision in a partner. what
@@impressionare3243it was bw who bullied her for her edges, she knows not to listen to you clowns.
When you're a well known figure and people fawn over you, finding a person who's not as familiar with your public persona can be really refreshing. I appreciate an example of a woman making the first move to great success. I was told as a teenager that men like the thrill of the chase; don't come on too strong and let them know you like them. Glad maybe that is changing.
Having watched the whole interview with my boyfriend her husband fawns over himself, what's the need to do the same for her. You'll never see a relationship with a humble woman and egotistical man work out long term. I thought the person with more accomplishments under their belt would act that way but it was flipped in this case.
as a women I only date men who are interested in me. Not the other way around... Then we go from there.
@@CocoFranklinshouldn't a couple be interested in each other?
@@arkeshn729, it is her choice based on her own life experiences. Some men are into that kind of imbalance.
@@pjbpiano ultimately most things are about choices, but if women are the majority initiators of divorce maybe we are looking courtship the wrong way. Maybe some of these "he's the catch" marriages will last longer than the traditional courtship marriages that seem to be falling off of cliffs in less than 10 years.
I'm glad I listened to the full clip in regards to the Simone Biles/Jonathan interview before commenting. He told the story in a cute respectful way, and even mentioned he feared it was fake at first. Then he admits it was only his 3rd year in the league, and he didn't want anything serious so he hesitated- i.e. he knew if he stepped into anything with her, she was worthy of his full commitment, love, and respect. As for the "catch" verbiage, he didn't initiate it, he simply answered he always feel men are the catch. In his world of athletics, I could understand him feeling that way. It could also be the patriarchal society we live in that contributes to that viewpoint. However, nothing was degrading or mean spirited. Finally, Simone Biles looks so happy and fufilled-isn't that all that matters to a living legend?
Totally agree with you guys, people are so quick to judge others so they can make themselves feel better that they're looking at miniscule things to critique, people need to worry about themselves. Live and let live✌️
The sisterhood will never not sisterhood
I’m glad you said this. I seen some of these anti-men RUclips channels bash them and project their own issues onto them. Always be careful with people you get advice from about your relationship, especially jaded/jealous friends or family.
When the prize cheats on her, are they gonna be wrong?
@@impressionare3243 Why are you speaking negativity over this young couple?
@@impressionare3243you seem obsessed
@@impressionare3243why are you planning him cheating. You said ‘when’. Stop projecting.
It’s both the anti women and anti men channels that are the problem. Although I’d say there are way more ‘red pill’ channels than the latter. I believe it was a response to the growing anti women channels. If only people checked their own egos and just get along. We should be working together.
7:57, but it's true, if someone likes more than the other it doesn't work out. They should equally like each other
And also how do you measure who loves who more ?
The cat ladies have spoken 😂! She would be wise to continue ignoring them.
I see mostly women talking shit.
This is a perfect example of what KS was talking about, Simone did what a lot of women openly don't, actually persue, reciprocate and showed her value and he took her seriously.
They hate her because she disproves a lot of their talking points.
I hope they do great together.
I'll go a sequence further: she chose to compete for the top tier guy, placed a bet on herself for going after what she wanted, and she won. It worked out for her in the end, and I wish Mr. and Mrs. Owens a lifetime of fulfillment and purpose.
Like Simone is gonna listen to a bunch of nobodies on Twitter about her marriage. Misery loves company.
Why would will smith listen to a bunch of nobodies cry about his marriage?
@@impressionare3243are you on something? Nobody is talking about Will Smith.
Everyone warned keke and look what happened.
@TRC296 I am. You all know everything about marriage when it comes to will smith
@@rosejames5172 Yup smh
7:16 "I saw the articles... I say the response..." *Queue dramatic echoing sound from the floor*...
People love to project their bad experiences, decisions, and choices on others. This is a perfect example of it.
People still have a hard time accepting that a successful woman can pick and choose. She wanted him and she got him. She’s secure in herself so she doesn’t need his validation.
Simplest thing in the world.
It's obvious that Simone Biles isn't as insecure as they are.
She has a billion fans. She doesn't need her billionth and one fan to be her husband. She isn't looking for her romantic life to validate her achievements.
They're looking for that because they've never been so successful that they didn't have to second guess the legitimacy of thier achievements to the point they seek validation for their success from their significant other under the guise of "love."
Her legacy is secure. She doesn't NEED her husband to sweat her to feel like what she did matters.
This is before you consider all of the potential negative effects/aspects of her career on her (the SA case, the mental break she had, the adversity she had to put up with) that could make dealing with her legacy bitter sweet for her.
Him not approaching her as "The Superstar Simone Biles" could literally be healing for her, but their insecurity won't let them see that dimension of it smh.
These be the same black women that say "black women of high statues, should be picky and choosy with who they date" but when a successful black woman chooses someone one her financial level they'll find anything wrong with him.
@@infernityable1369 If he is her healing why is he on the interview claiming he's the prize and trying to make it like she was going for him and he wasn't with it? Your suppose to make your partner feel good, if you say all that in public in front of a camera you have to be insufferable.
People choose wrong all the time.
@@10onityou’re injecting your own trauma into a situation that’s none of your bizwax
Simone is giving the girls a masterclass in "How To Get A Man: Ego-free Edition" and they can't stand it 😂
Women that promote that is exactly why her husband said I wasn't checking 4her. I've heard men say to other men I didn't want her. She came at me & I ain't gonna turn down pussy but I don't like her she likes me. That's why Women should never be masculine and chase no man. If a man wants u he will come at you 💯
Naw
Speak for yourself mam
Is getting a man all your life is about 😂? Enduring anything to get a man, sounds amazing. When "the prize" cheats on her then what?
They wanted her to be with a white man. They are literally saying it all over social media.
Everyone is forgetting people don't really watch news/tv nowadays. Even more important, if a famous person finds someone that doesn't know them and they like each other, them not knowing them might be a highly desirable trait in a partner.
I thought “people” were just saying they would feel embarrassed IF THEY WERE IN HER SHOES. I don’t think we’re mad at baby Simone.
Preach is so right with the "you're red pill with lipstick". They became the exact thing they vowed to destroy.
they can't stand to see a man not putting his woman on a pedestal above him. they don't want equality, they want me to bow down to them. feminists are truly just red pill with lipstick, great phrase.
It feels like this is the reaction they usually get when they tell their 'How We Met' story at dinner tables and for Simone and her Husband, that's the actual inside joke. 1)That she somehow found someone who wasn't first drawn or knowledgable of her accomplishments, and was genuinely attracted to her without the fanfare around her and 2) That dude is kind of a dimwit to contemporary history. Couples have a shorthand about this sort of thing. He's meant to be the 'unwitting' butt of the joke in this story.
he wasnt attracted he said he wouldnt have pursued her if she didnt message him first lmao.how about yall watch the interview before saying some BS
@@lidiagizaw3828 if he truly wasn't attracted to her it wouldn't have went past the first reply.
He called himself the prize, he is no better than her. Don't leave that out.
@@10onitwho are we to tell him that? Not sayin his opinion is true but if that’s what he believes , then there’s nothing wrong with that
@@KalElinabox 😂😂😂 guys are only with those they are attracted to. 😂😂😂
I lost it at "Go Fries!"
You know, women are expected to learn from their mistakes. We know what it's like to be negged, we recognize when someone is smiling through the pain, we recognize red flags. We're supposed to learn, but we're not allowed to judge anyone I guess.
I hate the whole, "I'm the prize thing" like you should both be the prize. Why would you date someone who's not a prize to you. You should be proud of your lady and build her up, not make her look bad. In what world is dating the most decorated olympian of all time not dating a prize?
Exactly. I'm a big fan of Aba and Preach and I agree with a lot of their takes, but not this one. This is just some weird stuff to say about your spouse in public.
You people are so sad. Stop being so miserable and laugh a little. Not everything is so serious.
Exactly. The people calling for divorce are being stupid, but that doesn't mean what he said wasn't dumb. It's a little narcissistic if you ask me. Oh well. Time will tell if the relationship will go well or fall apart.
@@etienneb6167You are literally arguing to here goofy ass🤣🤣🤣
And about i'm the catch i personally think it can mean different things
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@@eddyalonsomoramorales6069 never said anything about arguing. I said stop being so miserable and laugh a little.
It’s absurd how people are so consumed with these people’s marriages and personal lives when it has no impact on their own. It’s a waste of time and shows how crazy people go to worship other human beings
They brought it to the interent. You can say the same about will smith.
Aba is completely right!! When I was pursing the NFL I did nothing else but training workout go home watch game film.. sleep eat and repeat.. didn’t have any life skills or on paper knowledge.. today is a different story and it’s so important to be well rounded
3:43 Simone Biles IS the Michael Jordan of gymnastics.
The way people overreacted about this is exactly why the divorce rates are so high. People dont want to work on nothing. people love projecting their fears/ insecurities/ problems on other people.
This has nothing to do with divorce rates. Folks aren't getting divorced for no reason
@@10onitthe divorce initiation rate of women being 80% speaks for itself
@@harsh3948 Good for them. Do better and maybe those women wouldn't divorce.
Divorce rates are higher because women are now working more in comparison to the 1950-90s. Due to their financial freedom, they have the opportunity to divorce men that were exhibiting those behaviours for decades.
As well as that, men are struggling to adapt to the role of a modern father. Before a father just had a role of being a breadwinner, but that has changed now and they are poorly adapted to their modern role.
Women are expected to work and look after the kids more, whilst men are just expected to work with less involvement with their kids.
Do more research on the stats you present, don’t only focus on learning about the side that benefits you
@@10onit I do even better by not marrying in the first place. Gotta make me a Baby Mama
The funniest one was the so-called packers fan who said that he was just a waterboy when the dude is on the ACTIVE roster as a safety. lol. She wanted her to leave him so badly over a meaningless 20 second clip. Ridiculous
8:14 in competition and chaos. Not collaboration and combining forces in harmony.
Don't take relationship advice from people who can't handle relationships themselves. I'd bet most criticizing these two ain't got a pot to pass in when it comes to marriage or dating. Put God first in the relationship for it to work. I hope these two last, but knowing how short fuse people are these days, who knows.
It’s quite concerning how effective Social media platforms can be used to bully and witch hunt.
If Simone’s husband feels he is the 'prize' in their relationship, it’s not our business, and he is entitled to feel that way.
In my opinion, the idea of being the 'prize' in a relationship is toxic, and both people in the relationship should respect and reciprocate each other’s feelings.
Married men and women have been sniffing her husband out, that's not how a normal loyal husband acts, he will cheat and she will be mad at the internet for saying the truth.
Thinking you're the prize in the relationship is insulting to the other person. He's playing for the same team, no better than her.
That's the only thing I took issue with out of all his comments. All this "I'm the prize", "you're the prize", "you're high value", "you're low value", "kang" and "qween" talk is getting really tiring and moronic. That being said, to demand that she divorce him over a silly comment is absolutely ridiculous. So we should all just be walking on eggshells now, scared to say anything wrong in case we get hit with divorce papers? This is why some people are trying to ban divorce all together, all because of stupid peoole that demand divorce over every little thing🙄
Right, but he engaged in the idea of one partner being “the prize” and even called himself the prize. You can’t denounce the idea as a way to defend him when he was the one who played into it.
Exactly! I don’t understand why someone needs to feel better than their partner. It’s just counter intuitive. Unfortunately, the concept of being the “prize” or the “catch" is prevalent in modern dating.
I don’t think I have ever more completely agreed with an Aba n Preach video. People are way too quick to call red flag and break up rather than talk it out. People think love is just agree with and support all I do. It’s closer to staying even when we disagree so we can talk it out and see where we compromise, where we support each other, and where possibly one of us is wrong.
To be fair it's only agree and support the woman. Heaven forbid it be a 2 way street.
@@NotAdultingToday care to clarify?
I think we are missing the point here: who is chasing who is not the issue, the interview has a tone of mockery towards Simone, who is a national hero. There IS a red flag when your partner humiliates you in public. Nonetheless we must stay out of it, up to them to work it out.
Who hurt you???
Go find healing.
@@Jeromeparker5150 IF your question was referred to my comment: I'm a forensic criminologist, and the fact you are reacting indicates that you are triggered. Peace to you!
@@gothikasweb3685 tf does your career have to do with anything.
Listen darling, after the video i only wrote my opinion on why people were triggered with the situation.This is my opinion (personal and professional) and you are not going to bully me out of it. Now, as I said, if you are triggered ... You could ask yourself why. Or not... It's not me that is "diagnosing" comments in the Internet 🤣.
The question was "how did you meet", in a usual response, the person answers with how they met yes, but also why they liked the person, why they were attracted, what they enjoy about their first encounter. NOT ONCE did he say anything nice about her. What was the chat like before meeting irl? Was she funny? Did y'all have a deep convo and link up ASAP? Was it a slow thing? He jumped to, "I'm the catch" when in a relationship you should see EACH OTHER as the catch. That reeks of insecurity on his part and it's not cute.
They didn't ask him how they meet they asked him how he pulled her..and he basically said he didn't pull her but SHE pulled him..people can stay mad about facts lol..
Lol another one getting mad haha😂😂
@@afrosamourai400yes they did. my point stands. He didn't say one nice thing about her or why he lives her. That's not a good look.
@@mgasukihanwa841Ain't no one mad sweetie. We just observant.
@@JoanieBean yeah, being mad and observant over someone else's relationship that has to look good against your check marks, right? 😂😂
I found this channel accidentally, and since then I have become a HUGE fan. I really like the perspective of these guys (especially Preach! He has become my defacto anti toxic relationship guru.) Imma have to subscribe!
It's a great channel
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nothing like a pretty woman with an open mind💯
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i'm no world-famous person like biles, but i assume it must be really nice for someone just taking you as you. no wonder she's so chuffed to be with a man who primarily is an elite athlete but also has some level of public persona. she must have loved that he wasn't clout-chasing with her but also fully got the situation she's in and can empathise with what she's going through.
i made a comment as well about this. a man that wont put her on a pedestal but can relate to her was probably very attractive
That ego of his will do their relationship badly in the future. She has accomplished far more things than her husband has but she's humble. Hopefully the internet humbled him because i've seen relationships collapse when guys act like that.
@@10onit lol found another hyena. You do realize men don’t date women based on fame status or achievements? Only women are obsessed with those things.
John and Simone aren’t in competition with each other
@10onit lol his confidence is the reason why she's with him.
@@getsugaallen6612 Did she say that? Nothing about that is confidence.
Ryan Clark face was everyone's face when he said he didn't know her!!! 😂🤣😂
The obsession with ending a relationship without trying to fix issues is why i dont wanna date.
i always put in the effort and get nothing in return, and they just end the relationship cos they "wanna discover who they are"
It's crazy that y'all didn't show the RUclips clip of Simone Biles from over a year ago that has 4.5M views on it...where she says her husband didn't know who she was when they first met.
It's remarkable how folks will keep theorizing and projecting on to these people without accepting their reality.
This will cheer people up ruclips.net/video/CZ5EZQ_IImc/видео.html
Essentially A LOT women are projecting their hurt egos over this.
Married men and women have been sniffing her husband out, that's not how a normal loyal husband acts, he will cheat and she will be mad at the internet for saying the truth.
Why would their ego's be hurt? I'm not getting that. Simone's husband was acting egotistical.
@@10onit How was he act egotistical by talking about how they met?
Thank you - it's totally misogynistic for people to jump all over her and tell her what to do! Would people jump all over a man for his wife choice if his wife said she was pursued! People's criticisms play into toxic gender stereotypes.
Amen!! The fact someone called him a "bad bish" is ironic as hell..if he acts "like a woman" and women get mad then the problem may be women's hypocrisy.
Will & Jada. Nuff said.
The point is that he gave an elaborate response on how she wanted him more and he didn’t want her at all, he didn’t have to do that
Look how quickly people call for divorce. It's crazy.
Yes, because they have perfect lives, wonderful husbands and families, and are successful. Right!
@deniseberman8633 Well it's like me telling a rich person to just go buy a mansion. I don't understand money like that just like someone doesn't understand marriage.
The fact that some women are calling this man arrogant for saying things in line with what we hear from women all the time (I'm a 10, I am the prize, I DESERVE...) is beyond hilarious
You act like those women don't get called arrogant and delusional 304s all the time as well. That behavior is just trashy and narcissist regardless of what gender is perpetuating it. Besides that "but they do it too" mentality doesn't hold up too well. If you're really against something you should be condemning it no matter who is doing it.
He’s not a woman.
It's feminine to call yourself a baddie. Even my husband called him suspect. Anyone sitting next to Simone Biles is not "the" prize in the relationship. No one knows who he is and she elevates him. Not the other way around. Do you see Travis Kelce calling himself the prize sitting next to Taylor Swift 😂😂😂....Come on now!
@@OneTwo-yw4ij🙄🙄
@OneTwo-yw4ij some of you ladies are calling him arrogant. You know why? Deep down, you know that this is ego driven behavior. But as usual, accountability is nowhere in sight when you all are doing things that you believe is in your benefit but complain when the very same thing benefits someone else. Double standards only become problematic when you all aren't benefitting from said double standard. 2 things
1) In a healthy relationship, both people should view each other as the prize and value each other equally
2) If anyone has any arguable excuse at all to call themselves the prize, it's him. Why? He is the .05 % dude, many of you, who are currently complaining, would want to be with. Not only that. Many of you would argue that any other man than that .05% would be settling. Men don't view it the same way for her simply off of her accolades and accomplishments. The brotha actually went on to say exactly why he is with her in the same interview, but y'all so triggered by him saying he didn't know who she was that many of you didn't even watch the whole thing to learn something.
In summary, think he is a monster for what he said? Own your part in that with the ridiculous standards some of you have that put him in that .05 % that you "deserve!"
Oh wait.....that would require accountability
#1 for a good relationship is communication. #2 is conflict resolution. There where always be hiccups. If you're in a relationship where there are no hiccups, thats a red flag in and of itself, because it means that one person (or both) are being passive and not bringing anything up, letting things slide, and not communicating with each other.
Its crazy how familiar the "your significant other not here to take care of you" angle is in America
People need to let her live her life. Even if he’s a liar it’s a lesson she has to learn on her on.
Are they putting food on her table or clothes on her back or paying her bills? Jealous.
I have a feeling people who are acting like the people against this man are dramatic will eat their words.
thats a wild backhanded compliment even if hes a liar... like what how you know that, and why would you say that.. that's out of pocket dude
Dafuq?!
@@rougemoonchild9429, "IF" meaning possibility. You're basically saying there is a 0% possibility that a person you never met is a liar! You have no way of knowing that, so "IF" is used appropriately here.
There is a big difference between hearing her name, and knowing who she is. I have probably heard the name of other VERY famous people i can't say I know who they are.
I would say they are both lucky, anyone who finds someone that makes them happy is lucky, regardless of fame.
I don't watch football and I don't know who some of the top athletes in the sport are. Not everyone watches every single sport. That being said, it's one thing to say that you didn't know who she was when you met, and another thing to act like you were the catch in the relationship and you didn't want to date her at first. I would never say I was the catch in my relationship nor do I think it's an appropriate thing to say in a relationship for a guy or girl no matter the achievements or lack thereof. When you say that, it puts you on a pedestal and makes you seem superior and the "better one" in the relationship, and puts them below you. Plain and simple, it's a problematic thing to say about your SO, especially in public. Now all THAT being said, sometimes people make mistakes in relationships and of course there are always things said and arguments ensue, doesn't mean it should be the end all be all in the relationship especially if he treats her right and vice versa. We have no idea what their private relationship is like so it's weird to tell them to break up over this. Your marriage will never last if you can't withstand those sorts of things together.
In every Marriage both man and woman should feel lucky to have each other, or it's just settling or tricking.
This is how reddit is lol. “My boyfriend said hi to my coworkers”
Reddit “Hes cheating break up asap”
One of my homegirl is hella invested in this and somehow she thinks all men are like this 😂 I understand her perspective due to Simone Biles resume (Which i knew)…but at the same time, who gives a fuc about other ppl’s relationship! These celebrity worship, ride or die stuff is weird 🤦🏻♂️
God forbid a man be confident right?
Husband needs to step in and straighten things out with her. Any sort of celebrity status makes you a target of all levels of hate and love.
My Dad was the peize and not in terms of being the better catch, just in terms of being such a good catch I have to think my Mum did well to bag him. He was an empath, an over achiever and just an all round lovely guy. RIP Dad.
They got so angry that the dude was concentrated on making it in the NFL. I don’t follow gymnastics either, why should he know who every person in the sport is? This is what misery looks like. Mind your business. These women need to do better.
I’m sorry, but I disagree. It’s fine if he truly didn’t know who she was. But at that point, she has a different problem, because how ignorant do you really have to be to not know the person dubbed “the greatest gymnast of all time”? That’s pure ignorance. It basically means you don’t read an ounce of news.
He knew who she was.
@@STasugxI don’t because I don’t care about gymnastics. Is that a problem for you? If so, oh well guess I’m “ignorant”.
You need to get a life.
@@STasugxI don’t bother with reading who the greatest gymnasts are probably ever. It’s not my thing. People can have different interests. Do you know who the greatest WNBA player is? What about MLB player? NFL? Who’s the best quarterback of all time in the NFL?
Are people supposed to be walking almanacs suddenly?
@@STasugx- she was also a guest cheerleader for the team he was with in 2019.
Same folks trying to cape for her are the same ones that dissed her hair and her fashion choices. Fake outage. Like why are people so damn invested in other people's lives and relationships. If the two of them are happy then i love it.
Yes! Some people think everybody should know their opinion.
They are living vicariously through Simone. They think she should have been with a white man. They are literally saying it all over social media.
Facts. I didn’t know she had got married or was even dating someone until the uproar about her hair on her wedding day. Women were going nuts on the internet about. Straight dogging her like she was a nobody.
Married men and women have been sniffing her husband out, that's not how a normal loyal husband acts, he will cheat and she will be mad at the internet for saying the truth.
This has nothing to do with hair tho. This is a man with a large ego and that is trouble in every relationship.
I make it a habit to tell my friends how happy and loved I feel in my relationship so that if I ever come to then with something they can give me advice knowing how often we are thriving. Same with my friends, if they tell me something about their partner I will try to advocate for their partner and not just blindly talk shit about them cause Ik they are just upset and half the time it’s minor inconvenience and misunderstanding from both their ends so I try to come at it from a neutral point
There are old tweets of him live tweeting about the gymnastics that's why people think he's lying.
Thank you, for saying this. I was honestly confused… and I thought I was the only one, I truly did not understand the rage. They got a lot off of this small part of their relationship.
I keep tellin my sister it's none of her business and that they are married for a reason, ion understand why people care so much about peopl they won't ever meet
13:02 Just f y there is a mcdonald's university it's located in chicago where mcdonald's started