My girl was telling me about how her homegirl lies to guys she intentionally made my girl look bad saying she did this and that all over the phone with the guy she was playing and she said “I will never do that to you” ina baby voice But when they hung up she started laughing devious ina way that’s like evil saying “I got him in my trap he’s so in love with me” Focus on yourself y’all these bitches crazy
The thing about me is I wait for choosing signals: meaning if they smile or stare at me I will approach. if they don’t do any of these I won’t even bother to approach because they are not making themselves approachable. I have always stick to doing this. I don’t like to blow up their egos.
Yes bro only if they show signs of interest if you’re not noticing any of these signs don’t make your move or try to pursue a girl who’s not even interested in you or for someone who doesn’t reciprocate back trust me man not all girls will make it obvious but hey if you’re interested in someone just shoot you’re man either you make it or you miss just don’t try to force or rush things it’ll happen naturally if it was meant to be the worst thing she can say to you is no
@@EricGraham94 well wdym man most of the time girls will never just approach a guy majority of the time you as the guy have to have balls to go up to them she’s not make the move you as the guy have to make the move
I’m a shy guy but like I reject women haha 😂 idk man there’s different types of shy guys the confident ones and the Simp ones whenever I get into relationships I only spoil if the women treats me well. Cus ultimately I know if they are dumb to me I’ll just keep my jet skies to myself.
@@tuejtn9734 nah man I’m shy but confident at the same time. It’s weird, I look good but I don’t like when people stare, eveytime i talk it’s like a magnifying glass on me. So I get shy at times, but never scared or anxious
that is the key, unlinking attraction from submission, I'd say the feminine agenda growing up has led to this, but in reality we should consider ourselves as the "dominant" one in the relationship, and reinforce that belief thru masculine characteristics and self improvement, great video kam
Law of attraction is more relevant than ever now. We’re only gonna be able to attract what we want based on our current level in life. That means we gotta up our quality of life ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS and NEVER stop!
Great channel bro, i like many ideas from your videos. Well im the shy guy, but that's my real personality, changing personality to chase women it's waste of time, many effort and faking all the time. Like a shy guy and when you learn this things, you can realize how women who are interested on you put from their part to talk and socialize with you. That keeps you away from girls who aren't showing signals and don't losing your time simping.
I never chased girls but I never attempted to talk to them in the first place. How do you deal with that and put in some effort to have a relationship but not chase?
Let them come to u bro why should I bend over backwards for someone who doesn’t want u she should qualify for u not you do all the work if she’s already interested in you there’s nothing to prove or show for it
It’s funny because I can be confident asf when it comes to girls I’m not attracted to but the ones I am attracted to I have an extremely hard time idk why this happens to me maybe because I’m attracted to them and I feel some type of way about them or I see them differently idk 🤷♂️ why does this happen to me please drop a comment below 👇 on what y’all think
Same here but ima push thru there's this girl i like thats giving me choosing signals like shorty be staring at me and she waved at me in the halls lmao ima approach tommorow even though I be getting mad anxiety ima just force myself
@@k9fetti you can do it bro don’t be afraid who cares what if ppl stare or what they think about you they prolly just stare at her but don’t do nothing but just admire her from afar cuz they don’t have the balls
@@adrianchico8886 Dawg I tried and I had the oppurtunity but I didn't do it smh and she was waving at me and smiling at me in the hallway so i guess ima try monday cuz she clearly interested I just needa force myself to deal with the anxiety
@@k9fetti bro who cares what other people think of u like I said they probably don’t have the balls to do it stop doubting yourself bro and thinking you’re not good enough the longer u wait the harder it’s gonna get take ACTION!! Girls like it when a guy is direct and takes the initiative
@@adrianchico8886 Yea bro I appreciate the advice im gonna push through and do it i'm tired of constantly thinking about it so I'm just gonna get it over with and see what happens I'll update you
I literally had a girl gave me all the signs in the world gave me the number and everything then I ask if she’s talking to some she says yes like how tf does that even happen
Trust me that happene most to every body girl gave me her phone her insta just for me to finally ask her out she likes somebody else they is playing with your emotions like kam said if they like you they will tell you or show you body language they is just playing wit your emotions all I can say Is stop trying so hard I'm telling you they will try to get in your head try n compliment you and once you start build feelings and ask her out she will reject you they can tell when you like them so rather they play hard to get or reject you leaving you sad n lonely all I can say is just focus on yourself try to get thru and keep moving
I fw some of ur views and i dont with others bro. All ima say on behalf of ur homie all ima say is they probably didnt know better. Im not saying its all good but i hope u dont feel so skeptical when it comes to opening up to potentially new people. The most best way to put it is that most guys just don’t know how to care on that level unfortunately
*I actually did watch the video this time and liked it* But again chasing woman is pointless because say you get her. All your going to do is put her on a pedestal and use her as some type of trophy. And when you leaves you. Your going to watch your investment walk outta your life. And be salty, especially if she walks outta your life because of another man. *a lot of dude's that lifes only revolve around woman, typically. Don't have goal for themselves. All they care about is trying to get her to notice him* and woman notice that and start to think he is just a basic ass dude. And they are not attracted to basic
Is it bad even for guys to put their girlfriends on a pedestal? It seems guys will do anything for them and stop self improving when they do get a girlfriend
Honestly just focus on yourself. If you don’t meet any women or don’t get anywhere with them then just do your own thing. You realise that most encounters, conversations, and dates that you’ve been on is because the man asked the woman out. The man initiated everything. Yes, men are leaders but we shouldn’t be doing all the work. If she’s interested then she will make things happen.
can you tell me how you connected with God more and the Lord and how they made you so wise? please tell me I really love the Lord!!! Amen 💞💞💝💕💕💕💖💖❤️❤️💖💖❤️💕
I don't even need to be told that I am the most useless human being a planet. I mean I watch "self-improvement " videos to get better. Why the fuck couldn't I figure this stuff out why fuck man I am absolutely useless.
"If a women is attractive all she has to do is just stand there" FACTS!! I started dying at this lmao
Focus on ya'll grind don't chase women let them chase you💯
Law of attraction bro 👍
@Jack 🙏🏼 amen!
Most of the time even if a woman is attracted to you they wont chase, most they do is show you choosing signs
@@xavier440x most will chase and some will give you choosing signals
Yessir
If she likes you, you'd know, if she doesn't like you, you'd be confused
My girl was telling me about how her homegirl lies to guys she intentionally made my girl look bad saying she did this and that all over the phone with the guy she was playing and she said “I will never do that to you” ina baby voice
But when they hung up she started laughing devious ina way that’s like evil saying “I got him in my trap he’s so in love with me”
Focus on yourself y’all these bitches crazy
Thas crazy cuhz 🤦🏽♂️
Bro I think it’s just better off just to focus on ourselves girls or women as I should say are DISTRACTIONS in todays world
Jezebel.
Tf
wtf 😭
The thing about me is I wait for choosing signals: meaning if they smile or stare at me I will approach. if they don’t do any of these I won’t even bother to approach because they are not making themselves approachable. I have always stick to doing this. I don’t like to blow up their egos.
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Yes bro only if they show signs of interest if you’re not noticing any of these signs don’t make your move or try to pursue a girl who’s not even interested in you or for someone who doesn’t reciprocate back trust me man not all girls will make it obvious but hey if you’re interested in someone just shoot you’re man either you make it or you miss just don’t try to force or rush things it’ll happen naturally if it was meant to be the worst thing she can say to you is no
Naw bro just don’t approach period lol
@@EricGraham94 well wdym man most of the time girls will never just approach a guy majority of the time you as the guy have to have balls to go up to them she’s not make the move you as the guy have to make the move
@@adrianchico8886 it’s not worth the risk man; one minute she’s giving choosing signals, the next she’s playing games
This timing is crazy because I’m in this exact situation rn. Thanks for helping us out bro, keep up the good work💯
can you help me try to figure out if this girl really fwm or not?
I’m a shy guy but like I reject women haha 😂 idk man there’s different types of shy guys the confident ones and the Simp ones whenever I get into relationships I only spoil if the women treats me well. Cus ultimately I know if they are dumb to me I’ll just keep my jet skies to myself.
ongod women dont shoot they shot @ me often but when they do i clip eem 😂
You aren’t shy if you’re confident, you’re just introverted. Shy means being reserved and nervous. You sir are reserved and confident
Same bro girls have shot their shot at me and I turn them down lmaooo
@@tuejtn9734 nah man I’m shy but confident at the same time. It’s weird, I look good but I don’t like when people stare, eveytime i talk it’s like a magnifying glass on me. So I get shy at times, but never scared or anxious
U aint shy then ur just quiet
Chase excellence, not people !
You can't buy attraction, the girl knows if she will sleep with you within the first minute of meeting you. That's what you forget to mention
15:40 the best part
I appreciate scripture towards the end of the video. God is good all the time.
that is the key, unlinking attraction from submission, I'd say the feminine agenda growing up has led to this, but in reality we should consider ourselves as the "dominant" one in the relationship, and reinforce that belief thru masculine characteristics and self improvement, great video kam
Law of attraction is more relevant than ever now. We’re only gonna be able to attract what we want based on our current level in life. That means we gotta up our quality of life ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS and NEVER stop!
amen brother
More than just the real ones need to see this
I feel so blessed to stumbled upon you're channel bro you make some decent content keep it up king they really help a lot !
Great channel bro, i like many ideas from your videos.
Well im the shy guy, but that's my real personality, changing personality to chase women it's waste of time, many effort and faking all the time.
Like a shy guy and when you learn this things, you can realize how women who are interested on you put from their part to talk and socialize with you. That keeps you away from girls who aren't showing signals and don't losing your time simping.
I saw that tykwondoe terminology when you said limp, W man’s Kam😂❤
that eminem reference is top tier
*M&M
@@interesting2491 The Rapper not candy
@@MF_DOOMer *Wrapper
@@interesting2491 W
Wish I would’ve seen this 4 years ago 😂
I never chased girls but I never attempted to talk to them in the first place. How do you deal with that and put in some effort to have a relationship but not chase?
Wait till they make it obvious to u or come up to you
@@yurrrr3885 fr
Let them come to u bro why should I bend over backwards for someone who doesn’t want u she should qualify for u not you do all the work if she’s already interested in you there’s nothing to prove or show for it
Focus more on your self and this video is great to hear.
It’s funny because I can be confident asf when it comes to girls I’m not attracted to but the ones I am attracted to I have an extremely hard time idk why this happens to me maybe because I’m attracted to them and I feel some type of way about them or I see them differently idk 🤷♂️ why does this happen to me please drop a comment below 👇 on what y’all think
Same here but ima push thru there's this girl i like thats giving me choosing signals like shorty be staring at me and she waved at me in the halls lmao ima approach tommorow even though I be getting mad anxiety ima just force myself
@@k9fetti you can do it bro don’t be afraid who cares what if ppl stare or what they think about you they prolly just stare at her but don’t do nothing but just admire her from afar cuz they don’t have the balls
@@adrianchico8886 Dawg I tried and I had the oppurtunity but I didn't do it smh and she was waving at me and smiling at me in the hallway so i guess ima try monday cuz she clearly interested I just needa force myself to deal with the anxiety
@@k9fetti bro who cares what other people think of u like I said they probably don’t have the balls to do it stop doubting yourself bro and thinking you’re not good enough the longer u wait the harder it’s gonna get take ACTION!! Girls like it when a guy is direct and takes the initiative
@@adrianchico8886 Yea bro I appreciate the advice im gonna push through and do it i'm tired of constantly thinking about it so I'm just gonna get it over with and see what happens I'll update you
13:41-14:15 Needed that ngl.
Could you ask for a girls number who your not even friends with? Like someone you barely just met on the first day?
yes you can or better yet ask for a social most of us girl dont like giving out number out
Oh okay thanks for your advice. But if you don’t mind me asking, why don’t girls like giving out their number?
@@impale8023 Shi ma boy it depends on the girl n if she give it to you then she somewhat interested
I literally had a girl gave me all the signs in the world gave me the number and everything then I ask if she’s talking to some she says yes like how tf does that even happen
Trust me that happene most to every body girl gave me her phone her insta just for me to finally ask her out she likes somebody else they is playing with your emotions like kam said if they like you they will tell you or show you body language they is just playing wit your emotions all I can say Is stop trying so hard I'm telling you they will try to get in your head try n compliment you and once you start build feelings and ask her out she will reject you they can tell when you like them so rather they play hard to get or reject you leaving you sad n lonely all I can say is just focus on yourself try to get thru and keep moving
Facts on facts
Glad I wasn’t the only 1 to bring up em song when I’m nervous it makes me laugh nd calm down 😂
That’s crazy I been binge watching ur videos and saw ur ig and we got a lot of mutuals u went to olu and I went to vp haha
I fw some of ur views and i dont with others bro. All ima say on behalf of ur homie all ima say is they probably didnt know better. Im not saying its all good but i hope u dont feel so skeptical when it comes to opening up to potentially new people. The most best way to put it is that most guys just don’t know how to care on that level unfortunately
*I actually did watch the video this time and liked it*
But again chasing woman is pointless because say you get her. All your going to do is put her on a pedestal and use her as some type of trophy. And when you leaves you. Your going to watch your investment walk outta your life. And be salty, especially if she walks outta your life because of another man. *a lot of dude's that lifes only revolve around woman, typically. Don't have goal for themselves. All they care about is trying to get her to notice him* and woman notice that and start to think he is just a basic ass dude. And they are not attracted to basic
Bro I went from chasing women last year to sending dms to women and if they left me on sent on read I don’t text back again
I let them chase me also
can you help figure out if this girl really fwm or not?
can you help figure out if this girl really fwm or not?
@@cyonejohnson21 sure
cam: brings up TV advertisement
me: remembering the times i was acting up when i saw victoria secrets when i was giga young
This isn’t related to the video but a girl I haven’t spoke to in 2 years just text me and said she wants to link out of nowhere.
Prolly wants something
Decline that offer she’s a leacher don’t even waste your time bro it’ll drive her crazy
Don't text back
@@Geordieboy16 but bro she lives 16 minutes away from me
@DREAMS x VIBES she’s a teenager bro I am to we both 18 she keeps texting me and I’m finna pull to get the cheeks probably.
We need a new storytime at 50k subs
Is it bad even for guys to put their girlfriends on a pedestal? It seems guys will do anything for them and stop self improving when they do get a girlfriend
yes, very bad
The lord Says Cast Your Anxieties onto him you shouldnt be worried about nothing finished vid Fully
Thanks for the vid its something I needed to here
bro you should make a video strictly on god. i love how you’re including him into your videos
Him: “Chasing women is pointless”
Me: Who said Women?
Bruh 😂
they're girls, not women
Bro giving me Andrew Tate vibes
what if she got a boyfriend bruh, i can’t just ask her out that would be weird so i wait? forget about her?
Honestly just focus on yourself. If you don’t meet any women or don’t get anywhere with them then just do your own thing.
You realise that most encounters, conversations, and dates that you’ve been on is because the man asked the woman out. The man initiated everything. Yes, men are leaders but we shouldn’t be doing all the work. If she’s interested then she will make things happen.
Who cares what they want
Bro thats facts
True
Does phone matters when u pull to girls
No
I'ma say to sum girls
can you tell me how you connected with God more and the Lord and how they made you so wise? please tell me I really love the Lord!!! Amen 💞💞💝💕💕💕💖💖❤️❤️💖💖❤️💕
15:20 fax 😂😂
Relatable video
Ur a Tyrone light men
don't bring that cringy lingo into this channel
L lingo
I don't even need to be told that I am the most useless human being a planet. I mean I watch "self-improvement " videos to get better. Why the fuck couldn't I figure this stuff out why fuck man I am absolutely useless.
What is your discord bro?