Any woman reading this, I pray you attract a man who wants to PRIORITIZE and COMMIT to a real, lasting, healthy relationship with you that makes you both super happy.
#7 Could you show me how I can be the best partner for you? 0:56 #6 May I ask about your thoughts on monogamy? 2:32 #5 May I ask what you think would happen if we broke all of the rules and decided to live our best life possible?4:13 4# May I ask what you most love to do for fun/ Do you have any fun plans for the weekend? 7:53 #3 Could I ask what your biggest fears are in a relationship? 9:36 #2 May I ask how I could best support you to achieve your biggest dreams? 13:06 #1 Can I ask what was the last interaction we had that made you feel really good? 15:53
Adding to this amazing insights, I would highly recommend listening or reading "The Queen's Code", to know how to hold space with a man and TRULY listening to their response, even if its silence at first. It might take a little while for them to open, but it is always worth it. You might like the answer or not, but if you wait long enough they will actually give you the truth 🙏🏼
I broke up with my partner recently, and a workmate who's been my best friend 17 years ago showed up showing interest in me. Infact he showed interest 17 years ago. Is it really gonna be something romantic and committed relationship?
lislening to this I realize I have done everything wrong for decades......... Instead of dropping my handkerchief I have been handing it to him! llol...Seriously I stay in masculine. I decline offers for help. When I have done things right I was not self aware..just lucky.
Ditto If i hadnt started listening to you i would continue to do the same old masculine behaviors and destroying possible relationships Thank you Brody, your teaching is spot on.
I think that questions are a good way to trigger thoughts from a person, even if they don't have a good answer right away, thwir subconscious will continue to think it through for days after. I think of how counselors and therapists don't often tell their clients ebat to do but instead ask them questions that can really get them thinking and analyzing
What if the man responds "I want you to hold a safe place for me to express and share my feelings and heart". I feel repulsion with his response especially knowing he has mocked fc in the past stating " all you want to do is receive just admit it. If you dont you'll just flow away". I feel so much shame sadneas fear and repulsion. What is the mascukine version of a man expressing his heart and emotions? I feel like I'm competing with another female to share my feelings and be vulnerable. Please clarify. Thank you
This is the key to winning over any man. I realized this after getting out of my last relationship with a closeted man. He was the first man who challenged me because he didn't give me everything I wanted and it frustrated me. What I finally learned is that once you know what a man wants you give it to him, and once you give him what he wants he will give you anything you want. You just have to find out what he wants. Unfortunately for me I don't have male parts so I couldn't give him want he wanted.
I think you have come up with some really good questions. I posted you on my Facebook. I'm hoping that people take a look at what you have to offer because I was sincerely impressed with the depth of the questions provided. I wish that I had known these questions sooner for quite a few reasons, but mostly I think it's so important to get to know who your your person really is and what they really want so that you can make the relationship. However, it goes friendship or situationship whatever it is that you're looking for, be the best that it can be. So thank you for posting this. I was seriously taking a listen because I went through a bad breakup and I was wondering if there was something that I was missing that I could have done differently and I appreciate your post. The title was a little bit scary because I'm not into trapping anybody or manipulating people. Those questions are good and could be used for both men and women. Maybe not in the same terms like where you say that you're bringing out the guy's masculine side the helpful masculine side, but more like these are topics that should be covered if you're going to share your personal time with someone because time is one of the most precious things that you can give.❤
The last time I asked my bf a question like this (what makes me his person) he basically in a nutshell said he didn’t know, he didn’t know how to answer that and he said he didn’t really like these “deep, emotional questions” and another conversation we had later on he brought it up and said that he didn’t know what to say because I’m not really his person… I know he is still hung up on his ex. He still says she was the love of his life. I honestly want to tell him to go and be with her then. I’ve been depressed for months now because I realized that I’ve never been the love of someone’s life. And we’re about to have our second child together. That’s why it’s a little complicated for me atm
Why are you settling for this? I understand you have babies together, but you're wasting precious years of your life being with someone who doesn't see value in you. It is not a reflex on your value, but on his own character. If he knew that you're not his person why have 2 kids with you? Seriously! You deserve to have someone who truly loves you and not someone that is with you for obligation or convenience. At least he is honest, but you can break up with him without either of you leaving the home. I was living in the same home with my 1st husband for 4 years as roommates before I moved out. (I moved out because I wanted to live with a jerk). But because we were emotionally separated we split baby schedules so I would have 20 hrs of my own time every week. I was able to work on myself and feel a lot better. You can still help each other and not be in a relationship. This can open you to actually find a relationship with someone that chooses you over everyone else.
@@jvdmerittI would not recommend staying with a man in a living situation in a breakup situation, specially for a mother post partum! That’s a sure way for depression and anxiety! Speaking from experience of living like that for almost 3 years with small children, they will pick up on all that emotional turmoil as well.
@Ribas_darkkissa that's right. But idk if she could live on her own with her 2 children. Like, my family is not in the country so I didn't have anywhere else to go and the house was in both of our names. When we separated my daughter was 2 but I didn't move until she was 5 and going to kindergarten so I could work. If they could stay with family that would be the better choice.
@@jvdmeritt don’t worry I’ve asked him why he wanted a second baby everything was great the first year. I have 3 other children with my ex husband so I think it’s because I know I’m not gonna be in another relationship I don’t want to plus I have the 2 year old and the baby coming in the new year. Maybe I’m just waiting to see what happens until/after but I could live alone with my children, again, and I do have some support but I definitely am not the one trying to convince him to stay or something.
Could you show me how I can be a better partner for you? May I ask your thoughts on monogamy? May I ask what would happen if we broke all the rules and lived our best life? If there were no rules what kind of life what would you want
What if my bf is the one acting in his feminine and pulling back and not responding like you mentioned for the feminine to do? I constantly feel put back in my masculine because when I act feminine he is offended and treats/speaks to me like I am being selfish and self centered
Same here. I get told I'm selfish and that it's not all about my feelings. He redirects me that I need to focus on fulfilling his needs in order for him to feel inspired to give me what I want.
This is weird but someone who I liked very much, asked me "what your plans for the weekend"? but I knew he was with someone at that time... I said "no special plans" What do you think when a man who is with someone asks that question?
I personally hate the " do you have any fun plans for the weekend" question. 2 different guys recently asked me that and it caught me off guard....i always feel like I have to quickly come up with an interesting reply if i don't have amazing plans. Suggestions appreciated lol.
Be careful with the narcissists, ladies. All this "May I" this and "May I" attracts them. Don't become a narcissist magnet. "Magnetize Your Narcissist"? 🤔
@@fruitascension5089 ❤He Is Not in Love with you , and Even if you Did get him back , he wil Hurt you Emotionally over and over and over again ! Try to Find someone else I A leopard does NOT change their spots ! He does not care if he hurts your Soul !
Are these not leading questions? This feels like it puts the man in his feminine, by putting him into expressing his feelings, and the woman probing and initiating it.
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@@cnappier5255 it would seem that has already happened 😊
#7 Could you show me how I can be the best partner for you? 0:56
#6 May I ask about your thoughts on monogamy? 2:32
#5 May I ask what you think would happen if we broke all of the rules and decided to live our best life possible?4:13
4# May I ask what you most love to do for fun/ Do you have any fun plans for the weekend? 7:53
#3 Could I ask what your biggest fears are in a relationship? 9:36
#2 May I ask how I could best support you to achieve your biggest dreams? 13:06
#1 Can I ask what was the last interaction we had that made you feel really good? 15:53
Love these questions
Adding to this amazing insights, I would highly recommend listening or reading "The Queen's Code", to know how to hold space with a man and TRULY listening to their response, even if its silence at first. It might take a little while for them to open, but it is always worth it. You might like the answer or not, but if you wait long enough they will actually give you the truth 🙏🏼
I broke up with my partner recently, and a workmate who's been my best friend 17 years ago showed up showing interest in me. Infact he showed interest 17 years ago. Is it really gonna be something romantic and committed relationship?
lislening to this I realize I have done everything wrong for decades......... Instead of dropping my handkerchief I have been handing it to him! llol...Seriously I stay in masculine. I decline offers for help. When I have done things right I was not self aware..just lucky.
Ditto
If i hadnt started listening to you i would continue to do the same old masculine behaviors and destroying possible relationships
Thank you Brody, your teaching is spot on.
A man with true, strong masculinity will NOT be easily turned away from a woman being in her masculine.
I was in sales in the 1980s. And 90s and I learned how to have a firm handshake, Look people in The eyes , Accept an open door, and an offered elbow.
I think that questions are a good way to trigger thoughts from a person, even if they don't have a good answer right away, thwir subconscious will continue to think it through for days after. I think of how counselors and therapists don't often tell their clients ebat to do but instead ask them questions that can really get them thinking and analyzing
For a long distance relationship with a man you never met, we just communicate thru WhatsApp . How can you tell whether he’s lying or not.
Thank you ❤
What if the man responds "I want you to hold a safe place for me to express and share my feelings and heart".
I feel repulsion with his response especially knowing he has mocked fc in the past stating " all you want to do is receive just admit it. If you dont you'll just flow away".
I feel so much shame sadneas fear and repulsion.
What is the mascukine version of a man expressing his heart and emotions? I feel like I'm competing with another female to share my feelings and be vulnerable.
Please clarify. Thank you
This is the key to winning over any man. I realized this after getting out of my last relationship with a closeted man. He was the first man who challenged me because he didn't give me everything I wanted and it frustrated me. What I finally learned is that once you know what a man wants you give it to him, and once you give him what he wants he will give you anything you want. You just have to find out what he wants. Unfortunately for me I don't have male parts so I couldn't give him want he wanted.
Be careful who you "win over" 🐍
@@fruitascension5089 🤣😂🤣
Just curious how you knew he was closeted?
@@christaself2479 he told me
OH MY !
I think you have come up with some really good questions. I posted you on my Facebook. I'm hoping that people take a look at what you have to offer because I was sincerely impressed with the depth of the questions provided. I wish that I had known these questions sooner for quite a few reasons, but mostly I think it's so important to get to know who your your person really is and what they really want so that you can make the relationship. However, it goes friendship or situationship whatever it is that you're looking for, be the best that it can be. So thank you for posting this. I was seriously taking a listen because I went through a bad breakup and I was wondering if there was something that I was missing that I could have done differently and I appreciate your post. The title was a little bit scary because I'm not into trapping anybody or manipulating people. Those questions are good and could be used for both men and women. Maybe not in the same terms like where you say that you're bringing out the guy's masculine side the helpful masculine side, but more like these are topics that should be covered if you're going to share your personal time with someone because time is one of the most precious things that you can give.❤
Great Detail! How do you allow a man to lead?
The last time I asked my bf a question like this (what makes me his person) he basically in a nutshell said he didn’t know, he didn’t know how to answer that and he said he didn’t really like these “deep, emotional questions” and another conversation we had later on he brought it up and said that he didn’t know what to say because I’m not really his person… I know he is still hung up on his ex. He still says she was the love of his life. I honestly want to tell him to go and be with her then. I’ve been depressed for months now because I realized that I’ve never been the love of someone’s life. And we’re about to have our second child together. That’s why it’s a little complicated for me atm
Why are you settling for this? I understand you have babies together, but you're wasting precious years of your life being with someone who doesn't see value in you. It is not a reflex on your value, but on his own character. If he knew that you're not his person why have 2 kids with you? Seriously! You deserve to have someone who truly loves you and not someone that is with you for obligation or convenience. At least he is honest, but you can break up with him without either of you leaving the home. I was living in the same home with my 1st husband for 4 years as roommates before I moved out. (I moved out because I wanted to live with a jerk). But because we were emotionally separated we split baby schedules so I would have 20 hrs of my own time every week. I was able to work on myself and feel a lot better. You can still help each other and not be in a relationship. This can open you to actually find a relationship with someone that chooses you over everyone else.
@@jvdmerittI would not recommend staying with a man in a living situation in a breakup situation, specially for a mother post partum! That’s a sure way for depression and anxiety! Speaking from experience of living like that for almost 3 years with small children, they will pick up on all that emotional turmoil as well.
Please get to couples therapy before you have your baby, an emotional focused therapy!
@Ribas_darkkissa that's right. But idk if she could live on her own with her 2 children. Like, my family is not in the country so I didn't have anywhere else to go and the house was in both of our names. When we separated my daughter was 2 but I didn't move until she was 5 and going to kindergarten so I could work. If they could stay with family that would be the better choice.
@@jvdmeritt don’t worry I’ve asked him why he wanted a second baby everything was great the first year. I have 3 other children with my ex husband so I think it’s because I know I’m not gonna be in another relationship I don’t want to plus I have the 2 year old and the baby coming in the new year. Maybe I’m just waiting to see what happens until/after but I could live alone with my children, again, and I do have some support but I definitely am not the one trying to convince him to stay or something.
We are in a long distance relationship for a couple years . I want to spend a couple of days with him, should I ask him?
Hi just a quick question I am married are these questions fit for me too
Pamala DeMers; Thank you so much for asking the question about the larger age difference! Mine is 16 years.🎉
“How can I support you” - Yeah, nah. We’re done being Barbara the builder.
What happens if I’m involved with an avoidant?
I think I have been in my masculine because I have been single for so long and very independent. I need to become more into my feminine energy
Could you show me how I can be a better partner for you?
May I ask your thoughts on monogamy?
May I ask what would happen if we broke all the rules and lived our best life? If there were no rules what kind of life what would you want
What if my bf is the one acting in his feminine and pulling back and not responding like you mentioned for the feminine to do? I constantly feel put back in my masculine because when I act feminine he is offended and treats/speaks to me like I am being selfish and self centered
Probably watched porn
Same here. I get told I'm selfish and that it's not all about my feelings. He redirects me that I need to focus on fulfilling his needs in order for him to feel inspired to give me what I want.
Look up signs of a narcissist
@@Thrivingby he probably watches porn. Porn feminines men.
Hello
Thank you both❤
This is weird but someone who I liked very much, asked me "what your plans for the weekend"? but I knew he was with someone at that time... I said "no special plans"
What do you think when a man who is with someone asks that question?
I personally hate the " do you have any fun plans for the weekend" question. 2 different guys recently asked me that and it caught me off guard....i always feel like I have to quickly come up with an interesting reply if i don't have amazing plans. Suggestions appreciated lol.
Turn it back to him, e.g., "Why? 🫠 What do you have in mind? I love when a man can surprise me"
Just answer honestly & be ok w it. Then, if u want, bring up a recent or upcoming event
@jennhifermatviyak5429 I have done this and he retorted, I really don't have enough to do that
Thanks for this
How can you help your man if he isn’t feels g worthy enough of your love
What are your thoughts when a man says you can come over whenever you want
Be careful with the narcissists, ladies. All this "May I" this and "May I" attracts them. Don't become a narcissist magnet.
"Magnetize Your Narcissist"? 🤔
Yeah yeah Yeah , It Is all about Pleasing the man ! Bla Bla Bla !
He should want to draw ME closer. Just saying
Yes, this feels like the woman leading, by initiating these conversations. Just my thoughts, but I'm no expert.
How do I get my husband back when he has moved into another house with another woman?
Why the heck would you want to try to get a guy like this back!?? Love yourself, sister! 💓 Value yourself. Elevate!
@@fruitascension5089 ❤He Is Not in Love with you , and Even if you Did get him back , he wil Hurt you Emotionally over and over and over again ! Try to Find someone else I A leopard does NOT change their spots ! He does not care if he hurts your Soul !
He asked me question 5 ....
Are these not leading questions? This feels like it puts the man in his feminine, by putting him into expressing his feelings, and the woman probing and initiating it.
Most of them are inspiring him into his masculine to clarify his goals and visions to lead better
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Asking my ex before ic be is a gay and he answered that he will tell me if he is... does it means he is not sure of sexuality?
Thank you ❤@lorraineamicothemakeupartist