After over four years of following Teal, it still blows my mind that someone with her level of awareness, wisdom and compassion exists.. Not to mention that she's additionally made herself and her teachings so accessible and practically free.. Where I would be if it wasn't for Teal...
You’ve got that so right primarily early on we are convinced that we are not in charge of our selves and the truth of the matter that’s the only place- within our love and honoring for ourselves - where we can find the value and strength and clarity to live our lives being the best person we can be
Accept who you are, you do deserve to be loved & accepted for who you truly are, it takes balls but you can do this, ask yourself what you want to do with your life, big love ❤️
I thought I was going to stay for 5 minutes and then I stayed the entire time because she was soo real I couldn't help but stay and listen to all she had to say
I just relized my parents never loved me and probably never will. It was all fake. They never even knew ME. This is the most liberating feeling ever!!!!
49:18 "You know you are on the road of healing when you can say every single aspect of me that comes out is an opportunity to be with me.... when it does not matter how many fragments come up anymore.... Stop the pressure that you have to feel awesome right now" Thank you, Teal!!!
@@peterhalford7701fragmentations again11...a whole hour on stage for you1!...that would be possibly of relevance for us all...as the whole global awareness is stuck on this aspect of right and wrong isnt it
Dear Teal ~ I cried & cried, because I realize how I am driven to do things every day just to be acceptable in my own eyes & I don’t ever feel acceptable to me. I feel chased by vicious people giving me tons of things to do, and this list never ends. It’s like I have to swallow an ocean. It’s never enough. Whatever I do is never enough. I don’t get any validation or time out to rest. ~ So, I intentionally slow down the runaway train. It’s taken me years & years to slow it down. ~ Now, I do what I want, when I want, and nothing else. It’s a game changer. 🍰☕️🛍💌💐
BarbaraMerry Geng your comment really struck a chord with me. Thank you for speaking your truth. This has helped me see myself for being who I am and will become. Blessings 💙
BarbaraMerry Geng I explained this to my family the other day...I wonder if anyone got it. There was no comment. It took a lot of work and confidence for me to say f this I don’t want it like this anymore. Nobody is gonna hold your hand, especially not cowards.
How do you pay the bills? I would love to not work. I would just make art, travel, and spend time with people I like. My hell is I'm alone and broke and recovering from a string of addictions. I quit my job because I couldn't take the rat race. But I have to pay child support. I have to do something. I always tell my son I love him just for who he is. I let him sleep in or work hard on a project. It is up to him. He helps out all the time though because he is a good person. For him it is worth being sober. I hope to find a way out of the hell rat race too.
@@seeekeruv1606 journey out of 'challenging/difficult places can take time. first of all id like to congratulate you for recovering out of addictions. That takes character. feels to me like you are guided and in Angel hands already. You may not always feel it. That is ok. But it does feel like there are som Big Guys out there that are protecting you and feel respect and awe for your journey.
‘It ran in the family until it ran into me’. This was powerful! This woman who came up was so brave on stage, you go Queen! And thank you Teal, powerful as always 💕 this one was particularly enlightening!
53:06 I have lost my Mom, and a teacher said that to me in high school the fall after she passed away. Saying I just need to get over it and force myself to wakeup earlier in the morning to make it to school on time, I was 15 snd no longer had my Mom...Ms. Shain...think I may be LITTLE DEPRESSED? I wish I could have smacked the B*tch in the face lol But instead I fragmented and told myself even if I'm uncomfortable I have to conform so I can pass my grades and survive, My "child self" doesn't want me to work or have a corporate job, she wants me to sleep in and drink coconut milk and cook long healthy colourful meals and paint all day and pleasure myself, sing and dance and teach others like you do, Teal.
Ive watched this twice, the first time i had a panic attack breakdown, ive enacted changes in my life and i couldnt unsee what i saw and couldnt unlearn what she said. I just watched this a second time, and I feel happier this time around although its still very real. My heaven is “no pressure, be loved for who you are not what you produce for others”
The therapist I was seeing last year did not respond well when I told her that I didn't believe in positive thinking. She said to me "we are all pretending". It struck me as odd, and I quit attending therapy with her. I realized that she herself was living an inauthentic life and would not be able to help me. I'm thankful to have found Teal Swan, someone who is working with reality.
Teal has always had great workshops but here in this segment, it seemed like she was in her core element, a smooth flow that keeps you engaged with every second
never a single moment when I felt ok to just be, I am 62 and JUST now learning it's ok to just BEE 🐝 feelings empty some days, feeling very alone but learning to breathe and accept the moment as right now and I am OK Thank you Teal 💞
This is exactly my problem. I am always chasing productivity and achievement because of my relationship with my parents who never show me approval or love without achieving. So I have been driving myself so hard that I am physically and mentally exhausted. Thank you to Teal and this young lady. So much love to all of you... going to look at my hell now for a while.
I just learned more about my whole life in this video and my internal war from this video than any counseling session I've been to. Thank you, beautiful souls for this. Love and light to you both for this video. Teal, you are amazing. 😘
I‘m really sorry for you. I still believe that pretend play isn‘t solely negative and delusional, rather it helps the child to create abstracted narratives and enables him to simulate incorporating the spirit of a particular role, which is really important for the child to become creative with social roles. But it must be really sad to see the child playing pretend where its trying to compensate or displace the meeting of a physiological, psychological or emotional need in the game. (e.g. the child imagines two dolls as his parents who fight and it intervenes)
only teal swan can say your parents don't love you in front of an audience and actually really help the person lol... kudos to this chick, she's really really brave for doing what she did and I'm so proud of her.
Thank you so much Teal Swan! I had a burn out about 7 years ago. I went from very productive to, not wanting to do anything at all, I gave up and became a bum, it gave me lots of time to reflect about the absurdity of life, I'm finally rebuilding my life, but I'm glad I came across this, I want to build it correctly this time. And most of all heal the trauma, and fragmentation(which I didn't even realize until watching this.)
As a girl with a similar background to her, but with parents a shade more lenient than hers, my heart goes out to her. Although it was mostly me being too hard on myself, as is also her case, there is no doubt that toxic parental guidance ie the ways of parenting still stuck in the dark ages of emotional awareness is detrimental to one's self and to one becoming an adult.
After so so so many years of "soul searching" and trying to find out what is wrong with me and why I feel how I feel about myself and every aspect of my life, this video answered everything. Teal Swan is beautiful inside and out and for once I feel like a weight has been lifted. Now to get my family to understand me for me is my next obstacle. If I truly take on reality and accept that things don't have to work the specific way that we create in our minds, I may lose the people in my life that I thought I wanted or needed. This is so amazing yet so painful.
I had 2parents, one taught me I was powerful and the other taught me to be good. I have always trusted the parent that taught me to be powerful, sadly he died when I was 19 and I was left with the one that believed in being good....I am learning to trust the beliefs I want ❤️
Wow! I’m blown away! Thank you to Teal and the universe for sending me this to watch and obsorb. It’s extremely painful but I have came to the end of my pain now!
I love this woman and her teachings.. and the cherry on top of it all; I just adore how she presents so glamorous and feminine in her gorgeous dresses. Love you, Teal! I am not one to place any human form on a pedestal, but if there is one person on this earth that I would love to meet and have a cup of tea with.. it would be Teal 🫶
That was absolutely beautiful. I started watching it thinking this girl was really going to learn something about herself and slowly I realized it was me standing up there on that stage talking to Teal. I needed this. Thank you Teal. Thank you for all of your teachings.
That was an amazing demonstration. Everything is brutally clear and it’s the first time I could understand how different identities split off in the subconscious + play out. Fantastically done - thank you so much for your work 🦋
That's a blessing, you just have to realize, (like Else) how to use it as your blessing instead of your curst. Create your reality. Dwell in it each morning. Then walk in it all day. Repeat daily. After a couple weeks, it's automatic, and like you're living in a movie. 💕💯🙇🏼♂️
When Teal said "Who's next?" I was crying and said "Me!! Me!!!" lol. This is incredible and I SO relate to the topic, I'm sure I'm not alone there though. It's interesting because my hubby doesn't understand why I feel bad while "relaxing" and this video demonstrated it pretty perfectly. Thank you both so much for doing this and thank you to all who helped put it together! 💖💞
Have you done a video on society's obsession with "good vibes only" and "positivity" I feel you touched on in a lot in this video, but I really feel this obsession is insanely dangerous.
Facts. I was heavily caught in that web in the beginning of my spiritual journey, and it worked until the universe hit me with a right hook of darkness from what's really going on in the world. Everyone's all like Namestè. Nothing wrong with that but i feel it goes deeper.
Agree! I was stuck in that mind frame for awhile and then realized that it can lead to an even darker depression bc it’s apart of society’s “dream” and throws a curtain over what’s actually happening in reality. Once you face reality it can be even harder to digest.
True i am new in the realm of spirituality. I thought it is all about feeling good anyhowever you can, but to be honest comming from a third world country i cannot ignore what the vast majority were suffering from and i got lost a bit as to what really is spirituality, is it ignoring the reality and making my own reality inside my head or is it accepting the part of me that is feeling bad about my society and understanding it to help prevent further confusion sadness in my mind.
hmm but the question is can't you ? or do you think you can't ?was't she say to that girl your heaven is pressure free life where you choose what you want for you ,never be good enough in some one else"s dogma ,what I got from that ,was you can be good enough in your own skin ,do what need's to be done ,then do you watch tv ,love ,sky dive follow your passion ,.For me I believe Im never good enough at my passion ,but there's no skin in the game ,I simply do it for me and I dont give a rip ,if anyone else like's it or not ,for the most part they do or say they do ,every day mundane things I can never be good enough either or should I just not care ,and just do me as well as I can right now which is't good enough by most peoples standard's I never write comments I've only just found Teal,is't she great ,a true world teacher for today ,you can just tell she is the real deal ,aren't we lucky ,..GOD BLESS
Teal Swan is like the validation I didn't know I needed because I've been feeling bad for doing "nothing" even though it makes me sooooooooo happy and super content
Thank you for this, Teal. Your example of the mate who loves the woman who is not productive triggered a deeper understanding of why I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men into my life and how I try to prove I'm worthy of love by doing things to impress them (productivity). This is the coping mechanism I used to "be loved" by my mother because there seemed to be no other way to receive appreciation from her. And wven then whatever I did wasn't good enough. I can learn to just be with myself to connect with myself again instead of being productive to run away from who I am --who feels she is not good enough. I have been looking for another way to BEing instead of DOing. This has filled in so many blanks! 💖💖
Julie is the sweetest girl, I do hope she has a spiritual awakening, cause here demure of placid empathy, harnessed with self esteem will bring immense light to those around her.
Typical asian household!! I feel you girl!!😭 Edit: I always thought that I “know and understand” fragmentation. But now I finally get it, kind of. Thank you!!
It is like you were talking to me. I had asked the universe for an answer. And the answer comes through you. I loved how you explained it, you spoke to my soul. Thank you!!!
This touched me, and I shed a tear. It's very transformative to step out of what you were raised to know and start doing what actually feels good to you. What you actually deserve based on your energy/essence and what you are willingly to give, not what you can Do/Know how to do.
49:13, what she says and the audience reaction-oh my god! This video mind blowing 🤯 Probably the most helpful video I’ve seen. I am this girl. Thank you 🙏
Having Asian parents too, I'm grateful of my parents. Even they have different mindsets and we have so many disagreements. I move out since I was 18, and keep finding my own path.
Amazing. It's like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I've fallen victim to productivity too. While "being productive" there's always this dread about the next thing coming down the endless pipeline. Breaks are meaningless because with them comes the guilt that you're doing something wrong. It's impossible to feel good in the moment because even though you're already speeding down the freeway, fast is never fast enough. "Well maybe if I just work a little bit faster and a little bit harder I'll reach infinity sooner and only then can I take a moment to breath." Thanks for really opening my eyes.
I have the opposite problem of this girl's; I almost fear routine productivity because I subconsciously view it as time-wasting since I could die at any moment.
The I could die at any moment thing is actually total bs. We create our own realities 100% whether we are aware of it or not - this includes death. It seems that you are stuck in fear, for that, I’d meditate on your fear of productivity.
Man, I would LOVE to see a vid or blog post or anything from the girl in this video, telling us what she's doing today and how much her life has changed.
I did a meditation once about meeting my childhood self. At one point you call or ask an ascended master to come in and just offer you guidance. I saw a man come in a robe, picture was from far away in my mind. He said "Achieve less. Be more." I have the productivity bug. Even now I have laundry here I've got to do, dishes to put away and a house to clean. Always always feel not good enough.
Thank you Teal for this video. If you or anyone decides to read my comment I would appreciate help or advice. Yesterday I arrived home from work at 6pm unusual for me because that's usually the time I go into work; I had a headache and went to bed. During my dream I felt and experienced sensations and circumstances that made me feel completely alone and surrounded by death made me feel very hopeless and afraid. Feelings of being stuck and trapped. Upon awakening I still felt the dream in my present reality. Then noticed that's how I am living life in my present physical dimension. The day before yesterday all of a sudden I felt apathetic and horrible. Today I was told my papers for residential status has something wrong and also my dad almost had a stroke. Thank you for reading have a great day.
If possible, try to redirect your attention from the stream of thoughts that are racing through your head, to the sensations you feel in your body. What you will encounter probably will not feel very pleasant, but there's no real threat in becoming aware of the pain in your body so try to stick with it for a moment. Most likely your thoughts will forcefully try to draw your attention back to 'the problem' and pretend that more thoughts will lead to a solution - in the same way smoking a cigarette will seem like a solution. Look at your thought as the strongest addiction anyone will ever face, because that's what thoughts are. While you are aware of the pain in your body (without trying to eliminate it), realize that the part of you that is aware of the pain - awareness itSelf - cannot be hurt in any way.
relief and freedom came to mind. I love this avenue of teaching. Thank you both for being willing and open to this inner standing by sharing healing and teaching with great vulnerability and compassion ❤️
Amazing video, just realized how in denial I am and that no, I'm not actually happy. Seems as though everyone has their own hell to see, not just people who have especially shitty childhoods, but everyone, so it actually makes me feel better that the people who act like they have it together probably don't, so that I don't have to compare myself to them.
sarahpisces 0219 you don't need to compare yourself with others ! Comparisons are all about the ego. And you're only comparing your inside with what you see which is their outside. You have no idea how other people are on the inside because no one can see inside another's heartache. If others compare you they are objectifying you. Turning you into a symbol of what they do or don't approve of. That's not treating you like a human being but what HG Tudor calls 'an appliance '. The only way to really become authentic and therefore as happy as you can be, is to stop seeking validation fron outside.
Wow this was extremely powerful. A great reality check for all fellow fantasy-dolls.. I could really relate and thankyou for opening my eyes to the hell I have lived in and create for myself. Indeed I feel crappy and I could not understand why I just don't feel good. I've been trying so hard. But just like with the rocks, I keep on trying to be better, there is always something to improve. Always something to rush ahead to, to move towards to.. and it is draining me out... I'm tired of always having to be something else than I am. Trying to fit into the boxes of others. And I am tired of all the voices that prevent me from being in the moment and just enjoying life.. and I know that I try to push those voices away.. So let me try this new thing and just be with them.. I will have to face them first, before it can get better. Hell yes Im so done with it, with always working, having to heal etc... But the better it gets, the better it gets. Thankyou for all the insights Teal and wonderful brave girl! You are really a gift to the world
This was an AWESOME segment! I love how present & positive the energy is in the room & for this young lady. I know I took notes too! It helped me to understand energetically how to reharmonize our emotional bodies by healing. It also sheds light once again on how healing ourselves heals others! 💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜
True. I relate so much to the girl when I was younger. The only difference is I learned to balance what my parents want with what I want to be. But so many answers have been given to so many questions in my mind. Especially, the relationship part. It's true that people tend to seek what was shown to us by our parents in a relationship. I saw that in my siblings who married and neighbors etcetera.... but I'm glad that I subconsciously chose the other road without hurting the feelings of my parents and my family so much. No need to be super aggressive and angry at them. They also need healing, so a little sacrifice on that part. Not being a total a*shole to the people who raised me is also who I am and I intend to be.
Hi there, quick heads up, Teal teaches that we can’t actually “heal,” we can only integrate. I would consider checking out her stuff on integration (which is meant to help with the fragmentation mentioned here). The idea is to accept all parts of ourselves, rather than seeing certain parts of ourselves as requiring healing or repair. The simplest yet most radical thing I’ve heard in a while. Love Teal’s insights.
Teal, you were amazing at showing me exactly what goes on to the conscious when shame creates fragments. More importantly, now I know how to relate and heal the fragments within. Hope to some day meet you at a workshop, take care.
This girl is so brave and has no idea how her shame is helping others she may never meet.
True
Really appreciated her courage
This type of healing reminds me of Ana Forrest...
i bow to her for her bravery FOR REAL
She's too beautiful to feel so ashamed by strict parents and I hope she's in a much better place!!
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After over four years of following Teal, it still blows my mind that someone with her level of awareness, wisdom and compassion exists.. Not to mention that she's additionally made herself and her teachings so accessible and practically free.. Where I would be if it wasn't for Teal...
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What's so hard is I realized all of the things she is talking about here at 17 and am completely alone with know one who cares
A lot of people like her exist
All of us are just as incredible as you perceive her to be literally all of us
People "loved" me I am a very attractive girl and feel what others are feeling people used the crap out of me. Raped multiple times no one cares.
"If there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do us no harm."
Not even with a shotgun?
👏👏👏
@@marijana.majic. harm on an emotional level. harm on a physical level is still possible lol
You’ve got that so right primarily early on we are convinced that we are not in charge of our selves and the truth of the matter that’s the only place- within our love and honoring for ourselves - where we can find the value and strength and clarity to live our lives being the best person we can be
Omg yes.
I listened to this on my way to the supermarket. Now im here in tears shopping for salad 😭😭😭
Thank you! That was powerful!
So on point, so relevant.
If anyone is confused, the whole purpose of this is to demonstrate that we create our own living hell without realizing it.
I want a life where I don't have to work or be doing something or prove that I'm worthy to be loved and accepted.
You're being sarcastic, right ?
@@מיריכהן-ג2ר things get lost in text.
@@מיריכהן-ג2ר give love and acceptance and you might get it back. It's all in the company one chooses to keep.
@@מיריכהן-ג2ר see, things get lost in text. I understand you where defending her.
Accept who you are, you do deserve to be loved & accepted for who you truly are, it takes balls but you can do this, ask yourself what you want to do with your life, big love ❤️
"To get out of your hell, you have to see it. " This is a powerful message. Thank you, Teal.
Yes! I'm writing it down ❤
I thought I was going to stay for 5 minutes and then I stayed the entire time because she was soo real I couldn't help but stay and listen to all she had to say
I hope that awareness of yourself, and what your Higher Self really wants, did it's job, and that has changed your life. 💕💯🙇🏼♂️🙏🏼
It is May 25th 2022. I just discovered Teal 3 or 4 days ago. I am in awe and want more and more of her.
I just relized my parents never loved me and probably never will. It was all fake. They never even knew ME. This is the most liberating feeling ever!!!!
Exactly
Same here
49:18 "You know you are on the road of healing when you can say every single aspect of me that comes out is an opportunity to be with me.... when it does not matter how many fragments come up anymore.... Stop the pressure that you have to feel awesome right now" Thank you, Teal!!!
I know there's much more interesting things to say here but.. her pants are awesome
Eloïse Angelina Yes I love the pants also! For once I wasn't t fixated on teal.
The pants are awesome if she was out clubbing right clothes for the right occasion anyone else think that?
I certainly agree
@@peterhalford7701fragmentations again11...a whole hour on stage for you1!...that would be possibly of relevance for us all...as the whole global awareness is stuck on this aspect of right and wrong isnt it
she's gorgeous and so are her pants : )
Oh my goodness I REALLY relate to this girl so very much. It’s like “I have to prove that I matter and am worthy”
Samee😭😭
Dear Teal ~ I cried & cried, because I realize how I am driven to do things every day just to be acceptable in my own eyes & I don’t ever feel acceptable to me. I feel chased by vicious people giving me tons of things to do, and this list never ends. It’s like I have to swallow an ocean. It’s never enough. Whatever I do is never enough. I don’t get any validation or time out to rest. ~ So, I intentionally slow down the runaway train. It’s taken me years & years to slow it down. ~ Now, I do what I want, when I want, and nothing else. It’s a game changer. 🍰☕️🛍💌💐
BarbaraMerry Geng your comment really struck a chord with me. Thank you for speaking your truth. This has helped me see myself for being who I am and will become. Blessings 💙
BarbaraMerry Geng I explained this to my family the other day...I wonder if anyone got it. There was no comment. It took a lot of work and confidence for me to say f this I don’t want it like this anymore. Nobody is gonna hold your hand, especially not cowards.
BarbaraMerry Gen
How do you pay the bills? I would love to not work. I would just make art, travel, and spend time with people I like. My hell is I'm alone and broke and recovering from a string of addictions. I quit my job because I couldn't take the rat race. But I have to pay child support. I have to do something. I always tell my son I love him just for who he is. I let him sleep in or work hard on a project. It is up to him. He helps out all the time though because he is a good person. For him it is worth being sober. I hope to find a way out of the hell rat race too.
@@seeekeruv1606 journey out of 'challenging/difficult places can take time. first of all id like to congratulate you for recovering out of addictions. That takes character. feels to me like you are guided and in Angel hands already. You may not always feel it. That is ok. But it does feel like there are som Big Guys out there that are protecting you and feel respect and awe for your journey.
‘It ran in the family until it ran into me’. This was powerful! This woman who came up was so brave on stage, you go Queen! And thank you Teal, powerful as always 💕 this one was particularly enlightening!
I am listening to this for the third time and still amazed
“Because your family needed the HEAT” 🙌🏾 Teal’s wisdom is so scarce.
“Productivity is our transaction for love”. Well then.
That girls bravery helped thousands of people..
I hope she knows it by now. She's so valuable! So are you Mars Rover! We need you too! 💯💕🙇🏼♂️
53:06 I have lost my Mom, and a teacher said that to me in high school the fall after she passed away. Saying I just need to get over it and force myself to wakeup earlier in the morning to make it to school on time, I was 15 snd no longer had my Mom...Ms. Shain...think I may be LITTLE DEPRESSED? I wish I could have smacked the B*tch in the face lol But instead I fragmented and told myself even if I'm uncomfortable I have to conform so I can pass my grades and survive, My "child self" doesn't want me to work or have a corporate job, she wants me to sleep in and drink coconut milk and cook long healthy colourful meals and paint all day and pleasure myself, sing and dance and teach others like you do, Teal.
This has literally shifted my entire consciousness. HOLY WOW.
This just explained why I feel guilty when I’m having fun thank you Teal ❤❤❤❤❤
Ive watched this twice, the first time i had a panic attack breakdown, ive enacted changes in my life and i couldnt unsee what i saw and couldnt unlearn what she said. I just watched this a second time, and I feel happier this time around although its still very real. My heaven is “no pressure, be loved for who you are not what you produce for others”
The therapist I was seeing last year did not respond well when I told her that I didn't believe in positive thinking. She said to me "we are all pretending". It struck me as odd, and I quit attending therapy with her. I realized that she herself was living an inauthentic life and would not be able to help me. I'm thankful to have found Teal Swan, someone who is working with reality.
Teal has always had great workshops but here in this segment, it seemed like she was in her core element, a smooth flow that keeps you engaged with every second
never a single moment when I felt ok to just be, I am 62 and JUST now learning it's ok to just BEE 🐝
feelings empty some days, feeling very alone but learning to breathe and accept the moment as right now and I am OK
Thank you Teal 💞
Teal Swan is the mother we never had.
This is exactly my problem. I am always chasing productivity and achievement because of my relationship with my parents who never show me approval or love without achieving. So I have been driving myself so hard that I am physically and mentally exhausted. Thank you to Teal and this young lady. So much love to all of you... going to look at my hell now for a while.
I just learned more about my whole life in this video and my internal war from this video than any counseling session I've been to. Thank you, beautiful souls for this. Love and light to you both for this video. Teal, you are amazing. 😘
When you realise you spent your whole childhood playing pretend
Lateesha-Marie Tyler I feel you...
I‘m really sorry for you. I still believe that pretend play isn‘t solely negative and delusional, rather it helps the child to create abstracted narratives and enables him to simulate incorporating the spirit of a particular role, which is really important for the child to become creative with social roles. But it must be really sad to see the child playing pretend where its trying to compensate or displace the meeting of a physiological, psychological or emotional need in the game. (e.g. the child imagines two dolls as his parents who fight and it intervenes)
@@decimanightelf4135 I don't think they meant it literally. I took it to mean that they weren't being themselves ever.
@@souljacem I think they meant that they were never themself. I think they were being poetic.
True 😭✌️
35:10 "Productivity is our transaction for love, what if it didn't have to be?"
only teal swan can say your parents don't love you in front of an audience and actually really help the person lol... kudos to this chick, she's really really brave for doing what she did and I'm so proud of her.
Teal knocked this one out of the park.
Thank you so much Teal Swan!
I had a burn out about 7 years ago. I went from very productive to, not wanting to do anything at all, I gave up and became a bum, it gave me lots of time to reflect about the absurdity of life, I'm finally rebuilding my life, but I'm glad I came across this, I want to build it correctly this time. And most of all heal the trauma, and fragmentation(which I didn't even realize until watching this.)
The productivity-bug: when everything I do is a "should" including I "should" heal. thank you Teal
I've worked for 48 years, now I do as little as possible. You should see the reactions to my happiness.
As a girl with a similar background to her, but with parents a shade more lenient than hers, my heart goes out to her. Although it was mostly me being too hard on myself, as is also her case, there is no doubt that toxic parental guidance ie the ways of parenting still stuck in the dark ages of emotional awareness is detrimental to one's self and to one becoming an adult.
After so so so many years of "soul searching" and trying to find out what is wrong with me and why I feel how I feel about myself and every aspect of my life, this video answered everything. Teal Swan is beautiful inside and out and for once I feel like a weight has been lifted. Now to get my family to understand me for me is my next obstacle. If I truly take on reality and accept that things don't have to work the specific way that we create in our minds, I may lose the people in my life that I thought I wanted or needed. This is so amazing yet so painful.
I actually did this exact exercise with myself... and uncovered some interesting things. Thanks Teal!
I just keep watching this over and over and over again. I feel like there's so so much here. Like i need to learn more.
So powerful!
This beautiful girl is so lucky to get this lesson while she’s young! Hopefully it saves her from the wrong relationships.
“Productivity is our transaction for love”
“You can’t unsee it. Awareness is the only thing that has to happen”. Wow that was so powerful 🙌🏼👏🏼🙌🏼
This video is worth 10 years of therapy. Anyone who takes the time to really get this on all levels will improve their life by %100 🙌🌈🔥
Teal you saved me from self destructing today!
This is just Gold.
I had 2parents, one taught me I was powerful and the other taught me to be good. I have always trusted the parent that taught me to be powerful, sadly he died when I was 19 and I was left with the one that believed in being good....I am learning to trust the beliefs I want ❤️
Dawn Partridge wow this is so accurate for me! 😮 my dad died when I was 19 too. 😮
Amazing talk. Kudos to the woman who had the courage to get on stage. Thank you, Teal.
that girl is so pretty
She was literally hot 😩
#FragmentedLivesMatter
Lmao 😂
Hahahahahahahahhaha
they matter !!
Wow! I’m blown away! Thank you to Teal and the universe for sending me this to watch and obsorb. It’s extremely painful but I have came to the end of my pain now!
I love this woman and her teachings.. and the cherry on top of it all; I just adore how she presents so glamorous and feminine in her gorgeous dresses. Love you, Teal! I am not one to place any human form on a pedestal, but if there is one person on this earth that I would love to meet and have a cup of tea with.. it would be Teal 🫶
That was absolutely beautiful. I started watching it thinking this girl was really going to learn something about herself and slowly I realized it was me standing up there on that stage talking to Teal. I needed this. Thank you Teal. Thank you for all of your teachings.
“It’s like you’re turning up the heat, and your family needs the heat” I felt that. So much. At every core of my being.
I just love your authenticity teal, in every video I watch of you. I cant tell you how refreshing it is to see.
Lala Meme / Teal is wise & bold 🎽
true that
is she....
Present, oh the word explains itself. What a beautiful word.
That was an amazing demonstration. Everything is brutally clear and it’s the first time I could understand how different identities split off in the subconscious + play out. Fantastically done - thank you so much for your work 🦋
Truth will set you free choose who support you as you support them. ❤❤❤
I overly fantasize about so much of my reality. My imagination is too intense. Oh my god this is blowing my mind
That's a blessing, you just have to realize, (like Else) how to use it as your blessing instead of your curst. Create your reality. Dwell in it each morning. Then walk in it all day. Repeat daily. After a couple weeks, it's automatic, and like you're living in a movie. 💕💯🙇🏼♂️
please hug her, YES!! just jumped from 10 to 55 min and its amazing how clear you got her ...
Teal Swan emanates truth. It is actually amazing.
When Teal said "Who's next?" I was crying and said "Me!! Me!!!" lol. This is incredible and I SO relate to the topic, I'm sure I'm not alone there though. It's interesting because my hubby doesn't understand why I feel bad while "relaxing" and this video demonstrated it pretty perfectly. Thank you both so much for doing this and thank you to all who helped put it together! 💖💞
Have you done a video on society's obsession with "good vibes only" and "positivity" I feel you touched on in a lot in this video, but I really feel this obsession is insanely dangerous.
YES
Facts. I was heavily caught in that web in the beginning of my spiritual journey, and it worked until the universe hit me with a right hook of darkness from what's really going on in the world. Everyone's all like Namestè. Nothing wrong with that but i feel it goes deeper.
@@Liqhtning Me too!
Agree! I was stuck in that mind frame for awhile and then realized that it can lead to an even darker depression bc it’s apart of society’s “dream” and throws a curtain over what’s actually happening in reality. Once you face reality it can be even harder to digest.
True i am new in the realm of spirituality. I thought it is all about feeling good anyhowever you can, but to be honest comming from a third world country i cannot ignore what the vast majority were suffering from and i got lost a bit as to what really is spirituality, is it ignoring the reality and making my own reality inside my head or is it accepting the part of me that is feeling bad about my society and understanding it to help prevent further confusion sadness in my mind.
Bombs of wisdom. Absolute truth.
Yes. Until my last breath on Earth, I can never be good enough. 100% related
hmm but the question is can't you ? or do you think you can't ?was't she say to that girl your heaven is pressure free life where you choose what you want for you ,never be good enough in some one else"s dogma ,what I got from that ,was you can be good enough in your own skin ,do what need's to be done ,then do you watch tv ,love ,sky dive follow your passion ,.For me I believe Im never good enough at my passion ,but there's no skin in the game ,I simply do it for me and I dont give a rip ,if anyone else like's it or not ,for the most part they do or say they do ,every day mundane things I can never be good enough either or should I just not care ,and just do me as well as I can right now which is't good enough by most peoples standard's I never write comments I've only just found Teal,is't she great ,a true world teacher for today ,you can just tell she is the real deal ,aren't we lucky ,..GOD BLESS
No, it is about how others look at you . YOU ARE NEVER ENOUGH.
I've watched under a minute and I'm hooked. "How do I stop putting productivity in charge of my self-worth?" Great questions -- bravo, Julie!!
Teal Swan is like the validation I didn't know I needed because I've been feeling bad for doing "nothing" even though it makes me sooooooooo happy and super content
what a smart lady
Thank you for this, Teal. Your example of the mate who loves the woman who is not productive triggered a deeper understanding of why I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men into my life and how I try to prove I'm worthy of love by doing things to impress them (productivity). This is the coping mechanism I used to "be loved" by my mother because there seemed to be no other way to receive appreciation from her. And wven then whatever I did wasn't good enough. I can learn to just be with myself to connect with myself again instead of being productive to run away from who I am --who feels she is not good enough. I have been looking for another way to BEing instead of DOing. This has filled in so many blanks! 💖💖
I LOOOOOVED this one!! Thank God I'm alive with the internet and someone who understands!
Thank. God!... or the universe - what ever. :D
Just as you had a misconception of your parents, and what they should be or would be like, so is our misconception of 'God.' 💕💯🙇🏼♂️
Julie is the sweetest girl, I do hope she has a spiritual awakening, cause here demure of placid empathy, harnessed with self esteem will bring immense light to those around her.
Typical asian household!! I feel you girl!!😭
Edit: I always thought that I “know and understand” fragmentation. But now I finally get it, kind of. Thank you!!
That's true. Asians can relate to this so much, others would still be in denial.... It's our culture T_T everybody needs healing
Is that why so much suicide?
Very true!!
@@phoenixg4620 yeah you stop moving, you die. That is the mentality.
It is like you were talking to me. I had asked the universe for an answer. And the answer comes through you. I loved how you explained it, you spoke to my soul. Thank you!!!
This touched me, and I shed a tear. It's very transformative to step out of what you were raised to know and start doing what actually feels good to you. What you actually deserve based on your energy/essence and what you are willingly to give, not what you can Do/Know how to do.
What struck me, finally, was her genuineness & kindness.
It's just amazing.... just woow... love her so much... every sentence straight to the point... she's gorgeous
49:13, what she says and the audience reaction-oh my god! This video mind blowing 🤯
Probably the most helpful video I’ve seen. I am this girl. Thank you 🙏
i want to be Teal's friend... and constantly being hit by reality :D
Maybe I could help with that. :D I love wiggly reality.
You can be *my* friend! Am I good enough?
No please dont haha
This existed in all parallel realities
Teal is good hey... she's good at what she does
Having Asian parents too, I'm grateful of my parents. Even they have different mindsets and we have so many disagreements. I move out since I was 18, and keep finding my own path.
This is the ROOT of my issues! In many ways I've stuck myself in shame.
this is just amazing. Opened my eyes. i am so thankful Teal, you are divine! I think this video was sent to save me. You are divine!!! A godess.
@35:00. This is my life now. I am so grateful to have a love and a life that feels this way. Funny thing is I’m just now realizing my awakening.
This is genius Teal, we need more people doing your work.
Wow when we shame our kids...
Amen! Life is the end, never the means to an end.
This was so acurate! Feels so Good to hear this amout of thruth
Opposite of my issue omg before teal said pretend you were unproductive I was thinking honey change places with me
Amazing. It's like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I've fallen victim to productivity too. While "being productive" there's always this dread about the next thing coming down the endless pipeline. Breaks are meaningless because with them comes the guilt that you're doing something wrong. It's impossible to feel good in the moment because even though you're already speeding down the freeway, fast is never fast enough. "Well maybe if I just work a little bit faster and a little bit harder I'll reach infinity sooner and only then can I take a moment to breath." Thanks for really opening my eyes.
I have the opposite problem of this girl's; I almost fear routine productivity because I subconsciously view it as time-wasting since I could die at any moment.
The I could die at any moment thing is actually total bs. We create our own realities 100% whether we are aware of it or not - this includes death. It seems that you are stuck in fear, for that, I’d meditate on your fear of productivity.
Me too ...
What do you love to do? Do it as often as you can, follow your excitement. It can be anything. You'll be productive in doing that without fear
OMFG me too lel
Celeste Whoknows that is what i had !!!!
Man, I would LOVE to see a vid or blog post or anything from the girl in this video, telling us what she's doing today and how much her life has changed.
Yes!
I have the productivity bug. I kept crying and wearing and screaming at my computer watching this. this is exactly how I feel.
I did a meditation once about meeting my childhood self. At one point you call or ask an ascended master to come in and just offer you guidance. I saw a man come in a robe, picture was from far away in my mind. He said "Achieve less. Be more." I have the productivity bug. Even now I have laundry here I've got to do, dishes to put away and a house to clean. Always always feel not good enough.
Thank you Teal for this video. If you or anyone decides to read my comment I would appreciate help or advice. Yesterday I arrived home from work at 6pm unusual for me because that's usually the time I go into work; I had a headache and went to bed. During my dream I felt and experienced sensations and circumstances that made me feel completely alone and surrounded by death made me feel very hopeless and afraid. Feelings of being stuck and trapped. Upon awakening I still felt the dream in my present reality. Then noticed that's how I am living life in my present physical dimension. The day before yesterday all of a sudden I felt apathetic and horrible. Today I was told my papers for residential status has something wrong and also my dad almost had a stroke. Thank you for reading have a great day.
If possible, try to redirect your attention from the stream of thoughts that are racing through your head, to the sensations you feel in your body. What you will encounter probably will not feel very pleasant, but there's no real threat in becoming aware of the pain in your body so try to stick with it for a moment.
Most likely your thoughts will forcefully try to draw your attention back to 'the problem' and pretend that more thoughts will lead to a solution - in the same way smoking a cigarette will seem like a solution. Look at your thought as the strongest addiction anyone will ever face, because that's what thoughts are.
While you are aware of the pain in your body (without trying to eliminate it), realize that the part of you that is aware of the pain - awareness itSelf - cannot be hurt in any way.
relief and freedom came to mind. I love this avenue of teaching. Thank you both for being willing and open to this inner standing by sharing healing and teaching with great vulnerability and compassion ❤️
Amazing video, just realized how in denial I am and that no, I'm not actually happy. Seems as though everyone has their own hell to see, not just people who have especially shitty childhoods, but everyone, so it actually makes me feel better that the people who act like they have it together probably don't, so that I don't have to compare myself to them.
sarahpisces 0219 you don't need to compare yourself with others ! Comparisons are all about the ego. And you're only comparing your inside with what you see which is their outside. You have no idea how other people are on the inside because no one can see inside another's heartache.
If others compare you they are objectifying you. Turning you into a symbol of what they do or don't approve of. That's not treating you like a human being but what HG Tudor calls 'an appliance '.
The only way to really become authentic and therefore as happy as you can be, is to stop seeking validation fron outside.
outofthegoldfishbowl etcetera i know, thats what i realized
Wow this was extremely powerful. A great reality check for all fellow fantasy-dolls.. I could really relate and thankyou for opening my eyes to the hell I have lived in and create for myself. Indeed I feel crappy and I could not understand why I just don't feel good. I've been trying so hard. But just like with the rocks, I keep on trying to be better, there is always something to improve. Always something to rush ahead to, to move towards to.. and it is draining me out... I'm tired of always having to be something else than I am. Trying to fit into the boxes of others. And I am tired of all the voices that prevent me from being in the moment and just enjoying life.. and I know that I try to push those voices away.. So let me try this new thing and just be with them.. I will have to face them first, before it can get better. Hell yes Im so done with it, with always working, having to heal etc... But the better it gets, the better it gets. Thankyou for all the insights Teal and wonderful brave girl! You are really a gift to the world
This was an AWESOME segment! I love how present & positive the energy is in the room & for this young lady.
I know I took notes too! It helped me to understand energetically how to reharmonize our emotional bodies by healing. It also sheds light once again on how healing ourselves heals others!
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True. I relate so much to the girl when I was younger. The only difference is I learned to balance what my parents want with what I want to be. But so many answers have been given to so many questions in my mind. Especially, the relationship part. It's true that people tend to seek what was shown to us by our parents in a relationship. I saw that in my siblings who married and neighbors etcetera.... but I'm glad that I subconsciously chose the other road without hurting the feelings of my parents and my family so much.
No need to be super aggressive and angry at them. They also need healing, so a little sacrifice on that part. Not being a total a*shole to the people who raised me is also who I am and I intend to be.
Hi there, quick heads up, Teal teaches that we can’t actually “heal,” we can only integrate. I would consider checking out her stuff on integration (which is meant to help with the fragmentation mentioned here). The idea is to accept all parts of ourselves, rather than seeing certain parts of ourselves as requiring healing or repair. The simplest yet most radical thing I’ve heard in a while. Love Teal’s insights.
Teal you are a beautiful soul. Im so glad you are here! Thank you for all you share!
Wow, this helped! What an emotional ride! Thank you so much for sharing this Teal Swan. 💚
Teal, you were amazing at showing me exactly what goes on to the conscious when shame creates fragments. More importantly, now I know how to relate and heal the fragments within. Hope to some day meet you at a workshop, take care.