10 Tips For a Successful Relationship - Teal Swan
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
- Relationships create the means for our personal evolution. And so in order to have successful relationships, we need to learn how to flow with the current of that change. We need to learn how to cultivate harmony while allowing that change within us to take place. Talk about difficult. It is the work of several lifetimes. Unconditional love is an exchangeable term with enlightenment. And so it is a thing we will be practicing for the rest of our lives. Some days you'll have an easier time with it than others. In this episode Teal shares ten tips, which will help us to have successful, enjoyable relationships.
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1. 1:55 Cultivate unconditional love instead of attachment
2. 5:25 Cultivate love for yourself
3. 6:50 Work to discover and to release your fears relative to relationships
4. 10:53 Communicate completely
5. 12:10 Stay on the same page
6. 15:45 Do not be specific about who you want to be in a relationship with
7. 17:58 Start to recognize and begin to heal your ‘love reincarnations’
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We needed classes like this in school lol
Randy Almaguer 100% agree on this
But then we won't be mindless drones with any introspection. ):
@@maxpain45678 Correct. That's exactly what school is about. It's there for social control, not true self development.
🦻🏼🐚“Could You Say That Louder!”
Agree ☝️
When people say love yourself first this quote: “Stop telling people no one will love them until they love themselves. Stop planting the idea in peoples brains that they are unworthy of love because of their own struggle.”
I love this, we need t0 know love is shown to know that extended our love from ourselves to others is what we are here to do.
People are greedy and dont want to extend anything and that's sad because we always need each other. People think they are soooooo independent it urks my nerves
Thanks ! !!
I think the 'love yourself first' part refers to the fact that you'll bring the wounds and trauma that prevent you from loving yourself in the love for another, like projection, and it'll throw a wrench in the relationship eventually. It doesn't mean you're unworthy of love, it means you're incapable of loving others fully. You'll be downplaying your wants and needs, you'll sacrifice yourself for another, allow boundaries to be crossed by another..this will lead to resentment, arguments and a general feeling of discomfort within the relationship.
Love yourself first does not equate to be unworthy of love or being unlovable!
@@rey_nemaattori yes, but it can easily be understood this way. I find it very important that she reminds us that we are worthy of love no matter what
@@rey_nemaattori so beautifully said
Gary Chapman and the five languages of love:
1) words of affirmation
2) physical touch
3) acts of service
4) quality time
5) gifts
(minute 31)
Remember you have a 'relationship' with EVERY other being you interact with. Whether it is a intimate relationship, sexual relationship, friendship, professional and even incidental relationships,(the stranger you meet in passing). You have as much control over what that relationship is as does the other person/being; They don't have more control or less control than you do! You (or they) may impose that control either more or less than the other but that doesn't diminish or increase the control of the other even tho it will often cause the other to impose less or more control themselves. You are responsible and capable of making any relationship you have what you want it to be.
Teal Scott is such an amazing woman! The amount of intelligence and courage to find the knowledge that helped her is not an easy task!
What happens a lot of times in dead relationships is that people stay in them because familiarity breads comfort. They do not break up until one meets someone else then they have reason to break with the unhappiness that has become so familiar.
so true. .
This is called the "Tarzan affect" you grab the next vine before letting go of the first one.
Don't let your bad relationship history influence your present. If you are aming at finding true love and being happy, say no to bad memories and start living in the present. If you are feeling hopeless and you keep asking yourself how to find true love,
this animated video in my channel "finding your soulmate 6 steps to finding true love" will answer your questions and give you the insight into the things that you should take in
consideration when looking for true love. you can watch it now
Randy Almaguer and then continue the same patterns with the new relationship.
I'm breaking out of a dead relationship of eight years because I found someone else. That someone else is me. :)
Damn 10 years later and this video is right on point with me right now. Ive been feeling some insecurity with a person Im dealing with (through no fault of their own at all) but its hard to get out of my head sometimes. This video really helped me think about what it is I want and that theres nothing wrong with that and its okay if who you are with cannot give you that. Theres someone who can.
I rarely write a review, but Teal your videos and topics, and sharing yourself has really touched me deeply ... you are the sweetest wonderful woman. Keep it up...hugs xx
Thank you for these tips. Each and every tip was a wake up call for me. I have made too many sacrifices for others in the name of prioritizing their needs over my own.I have been slowly dying spiritually and experieicing alot of physical and emotional stress as a result.Time to RE-AWAKEN
Anything you do that benefits your life is the tip to cultivate unconditional love. Wow
Dear Teal , feeling deep gratitude for Your Presence on this planet ! sending You much Love & Blessings
This is the best relationship advice I have ever heard and I have read and heard a lot ! It shows a larger vision about relationships and how they fit into our lives, as opposed to just concentrating on particular issues within the relationship. Thank you so much !
An additional point I would make is that people can react in two ways to their upbringing. The first way is how you describe - finding lovers/friends who mirror traits of their parents/primary caregivers in order to feel some kind of 'resolution'. However, I also have found that sometimes one can seek the total OPPOSITE of what you experienced, (normally negative) as another method in order to self-heal. (E.g, find a very warm affectionate person to compensate for cold, unloving parents)
I agree.
Thanks Teal 😍
I could have used this 25 years ago, lol. Good video.
my guides lead me to this video.. i asked them to help me with my relationship problems, i was watching youtube videos then one video lead to another and now im here... Thank you Teal and thank you guides!
This made so many things make more sense. I needed an explicit explanation of the difference between love and attachment as I must admit to having confused the two as being one and the same for many years now. So, thank you Teal for providing that for me since I feel like I really needed to hear it!
It's really great when you use examples from your own life. It makes your points come alive and eases comprehension. Also it shows that you're not governed by fear but true love and compassion.
MKP165 wait so used to be a stripper?
OMG, my first panic attack occurred 1 day after a long time girl friend no longer wanted to speak with me. I knew there was a connection- just didn't know what. Thank you Teal!
I love watching her. My only issue is everytime I watch her I get even more confused of who and what I am..She brings a light to me that carries a dark shadow.. With that being said, I need to watch more videos.
I think people fear the war of a break up..the chaos, the high drama far outweighs what they suffer they think. They think they lose to much materially, to hard to start over at ground zero, afraid how hard to live on one income!!! The humiliation of the friends and families learning of the failed or broken relationship..being hated, being looked down on or they are heartbroken to lose you too!! Or the divide of pets..so many hold out till someone can rescue them, emotionally, financially, asset wise, not have to adjust to empty bed can't sleep problem. Etc.
THANK YOU TEAL! YOU ARE LIKE A LITTLE CANDLE IN MY LIFE, REMINDING ME CONSTANTLY WHO I AM. I GUESS WE ALL TEND TO FORGET SOMETIMES. I LOVE YOU!
I love your videos Teal! They’ve been such a huge help in my life especially lately, thank you 💕
i started with 3rd eye opening now i see how i can love my girlfriend and how she is been trying to show love i didn't see thank you from bottom of my heart may the universe guide all of us to our true self's in this life time or the next.
Thank you Teal. Very positive and helpful. Thank you for your time and for sharing and service :)
I can't be more thankfull for all wisdom you are sharing with all of us.. I must admit that my life and my mental health started improving since I've discovered your channel. Thank you 😊 💓 ☺️. Love,Peace n Unity..
I felt this video as a masterclass of how to build healthy relationships. Thank you so much!
It's always pleasure to know that someone is beyond their personal state. People watch videos and sometimes can not tell difference between "physical avatar" and "real wisdom". But those ones will understand; the ones already gotten over their avatar and moved beyond their personal perception. Who able to tell between "mind" and "intelligent consciousness" of itself (as being) . What you tell people is your intelligent consciousness and you're aware. And your personal experience is helping others no matter how painful it may seem. You chose to take the hardest path to tell people its possible: TO LOVE no matter what. Those who dislike you merely saying "I am not over my prejudice and personal state- I can not comprehend or accept beyond of my own"framed" perception because I never had to deal with myself" Therefore, thank you Teal for showing us there is no limit in universal love.
Omg only starting watching you're vids few days ago.. Im amazed by what u have to say .. I love or spirit ..x
Same here bro liberating aren't they
Thank you SO much Teal, this video has helped me out of a dark place. The part about the primary carers specifically actually caused me to have a huge epiphany. I now see the pattern which has run through all of my romantic relationships, and why I feel the way I do and thus take the actions I have to basically force the same issues to keep arising, causing me pain and my partners frustration. I sought out something to help me with my relationship issues because I am now in a new relationship and really wanting it to work, however finding myself feeling the same awful emotions. I really didn't expect to find something so on the money, and your father experience is the same as mine and I can finally understand why I keep doing what I do! I thank the Universe for leading me here!!! Much love to you
OMG! I love TEAL SCOTT! I am hooked on watching your videos! You are an amazing woman and I thank you so much for sharing yourself with the world. You have moved me and inspired me and brought me to tears. I identify with you and the things you say. I pray you keep on doing what you are doing for the greater good of all! Peace from Julia
I heard your story. You are an indigo child. The majority of us has gone through childhood trauma, but this was meant to awaken us and to make us as deep as we are now. As you are now. You heal yourself by healing others. ❤
THANK YOU TEAL! I really appreciate your presence in this world! I am so glad I was open enough to see into your message. I have read some of the books you have mentioned. Your message totally resonates with me! Thank you for having the courage to do all these videos! Thank you for being a messenger for Source!
Teal you touch my soul so deeply and give me so much courage to find and express my real self that I truly believe that you are an angel in my life.
Thank you so much!
I really admire you for your courage, honesty, and such great insight into these matters of relationships, love, self-healing, etc. I really appreciate how you post all these videos and they're so well done, well edited, nice backgrounds and everything! Maybe one day I will read one of your books. But I love what you do and I admire how courageous you are to post these videos and even admit stuff about yourself. I am really enjoying your videos!! :)
John Sabp - and you're here commenting because..?
John Sabp .
thank you for showing me this...I never let anyone in or tell anyone if i have a bad day or phone up someone .Why should i burden other people with my life...always thought this way can't remember when it began. ...thank you for showing me this and to try and communicate with human's harder.
While I appreciate all your thoughts and insight, on this topic, I think love is as easy as letting it happen. Love is not a struggle, or an intellectual challenge. It is easy as breathing in and out. When it becomes complicated it is not love . But contraction.
Love this classic. Putting it in my favs list. Thanks for all you do Teal and the way you love humanity. ❤ Love you. Please stick around.
You touch my life on a regular basis. thank you for sharing your gift. have a good week ;)
Hi Teal, I just found your channel yesterday and I must say, the way you explain things and lay them out is exceptional. You have changed my way of thinking in only 24 hours. Thank you for making these videos and I look forward to hearing more of your words of wisdom
This was uploaded 7 years ago?? Feels like today.
Repeat negative experiences, only shows inattention. Some people need this knowledge.
Discover the couple's love language is just one result of love. Because you pay attention to the person you love. I advise against doing anything you do not enjoy to get the love of another person, but if you enjoy the happiness of the other, in consequence of doing what he / she likes, then fine.
Your videos are Grandiose!
you are the bomb...you answered many of my questions i have not been able to find anywhere! Just to two of your videos is all it took. Now i need to practice to be love and share it without having too many ??? and feeling empty. You are Awesome Teal!!
n Sorry 4 my english...pardon me...bt i m learning....luv n light from me☺.....if u see dn plz rply me...i'l feel so hapy n proud...it's my first coment.!
good job! ^ o ^
That is so nice. I hope you continue to learn ❤️
🙌🏻 👌🏼😄
FYI...my kittens always unconditionally love me too!
I genuinely appreciate your videos. I don't watch them just to get a better connection with others but in order to understand my unresolved issues as well as work to form a connection with whom I've been trying to hide within myself for a long time. Thank you, you're such a lovely soul
Teal, what about relationships with negative people? I have a roommate who I have grown close to however her outlook on life is extremely negative and draining. I have started to remove myself and distance myself once I realized the negative impact it has on my life. I feel so bad though.I truly want to help but I'm positive there is nothing I can do.
+Lajune Mcmillian don't feel guilty because you can't help her. she is in her path for the best, nobody can be helped if they don't want to, try to visualize her finding her own strenght.
im in the same situation w/ a friend i want to help..but she doesnt want any help and is negative...i guess i must take care of myself for a while, maybe u should too. just take a break maybe
corsican lulu
Lajune Mcmillian when you start focusing on yourself you will help her see how to do it for herself. This is how you help
Send her a few great books-the love language of gifts. :)
He is giving me space to get to terms with myself and being the person I need to be. This even comes from the gifts he gives me. We are not living together (yet), but even living in diffrent countries untill the right time is there for us to live together. First we need some closure with our old lives, and then who knows what will come for us...
thankful you exist
This is much of what have been trying to explain to people for so long about relationships! Thank you Teal for putting this all together so nicely.
Thank you for the 5 love languages. I asked universe to teach me harmony and suddenly started getting the urge to gift my art pieces to my friends or simply give them a call. Today I penned down what I like to get in return. It's a sweet feeling of knowing that I am capable of loving people in my life.
I love you!....Wait, I am attached to you.
Hahahah that's improvement
Really ??? 😬
Lol
@@VV-pt2gg So you wouldn't move heaven and earth to find a life
partner with Teal's qualities??
I genuinely have to try and distance myself from the desire I experience whenever I watch these presentations, and I'm completely sure I'm not unique in this..
Again as a divorced father of two beautiful kiddos who is also navigating the challenges of being a bisexual/gay Empath I see your message. I appreciate you. I'm learning and growing because of you and others like us. Thank you. The next level of clarity for us as a whole is to reach as many as we can with these messages of abundance and functionality that raises vibration. I'd like to pass on what I gain from this work and other bright loving stars like Amanda Flaker, Judy Orloff, Teal Swan my grandmothers who from a young age instilled the value of truth...but are no longer on this plane but still guiding and guarding me. Unfortunately my gifts at this moment don't include recite or the words that will effectively resonate. I know that I will get their but to start my self training,I'd like to ask permission to pass your messages along pretty much word for word in order to reach a population that is in desperate need of valid truth. That group is the LGBT community and our families/friends/ neighbors ect. Let's talk . Darrell Dewayne Rea Jr. Grand Junction Colorado. Daloda91037@gmail.com. it's a beautiful day. Be good to yourself and others.
I love the tone you speak in....there is no ego or judgment in your tone....love your video's!!!!
You are amazing💝 Thank you so much❤️
thank you so much teal my brother got me hooked up with ur teachings am so blessed
so much more positive then ever have been my whole life has changed get so pumped up end up posting them on fb..
love you teal thank God there is someone out there that has learnt some great things in life
Thank You so very much Teal! I had to listen to this a second time to truly get it. I cannot express how much your videos are helping me, and I'm sure thousands of people around the world. Keep up the great work and I wish you all the happiness.
can we just stop and talk about Teals eyes? how are they so shiny????
Miguel Chappell :3 beautiful
google - pleiadian
***** whats that?
They are called "catch lights" reflections from the lights used to light the video.
DizzyAaron noooo these are different
loving others in this attached way just feels so good and kinda right. wonder why we all do that? very rare seeing the pure unconditional love in relationships
Thais Gibson has a lot of good stuff on healing your attachment style. (Not born with these) this is the reason for attachment versus love.
Healing your inner feminine as a woman will help you to relate in ways that work better with men too. Love
you look like Bella from twighlight
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Sounds like a compliment, but is it?! After all she’s older than Bella ...
Asathora what’s her age got to do with her look?
please. she is more beautiful than that.
Unconditional love as a practice is to be in a the vibe of love more often it appears- the opposite of fear. That’s great for manifesting & health, since many are more afraid than necessary.
Parent and relationship…..ruminating, reincarnation, recreational re-creation, explanation, back to…..ruminating stories. STOP. I feel as if my living in a story ….like now…..😮 what a joy to share my thoughts with you. 🙏💕
I am so happy I stumbled upon all of your videos. I truly believe the universe brings teachers to you when you are ready, and you truly have helped me open my eyes to concepts Ive been starving for. Thank you for your wise help and guidance
in my opinion i would say the clingy person represents yourself trying to bond with you and you are refusing it. So that person is reflecting what's going on inside you with the relationship you got with you. You are needing self love but is refusing it and it is manifesting in the form of that person. When that person have stopped clinging to you,(probably they realise that they are the source of their own happiness and no long a match to you) you start feeling empty.
It's unbelievable how much I needed to watch this video right now. Haha! Which is further funny because It has been on my "to watch list" and I have continuously skipped over it until this morning. Thank goodness for Teal :)
I just love U teal❤️🙏 just like Matt kahn 💕🙏💖🍀please what do u think about soul travels vardankar science?
Thank you Teal for sharing your brilliant honesty and wisdom with us.You are a gem.Keep shining, as your light and clarity has really help me see.
so good! ... I'm binge-watching her
Jessica Schab,
Jessica, it sounds like you're suggesting that because someone has been in abusive relationships, they cannot grow out of that? That is where your statement is flawed. Are you also assuming that she is/was in an abusive relationship at the time of this video?
My suggestion is to watch her interview video where she discusses her childhood and you just might appreciate just how far she has come in her growth.
BTW, your sentence structure has a bit to be desired. So, does that mean that people should discount what you have to say because of your history of bad sentence structure? Think about it.
That is not what she is saying. She is correct that we are attracted to people that will abuse us the way we were abused as a child because as a child we were not able to resolve those issues so those issues play out continually through our lives until we recognized them and deal with those issues. She is making you aware of why you are attracting what you have and how to change that not that you will forever be suck in that. Listen to more of her videos. She knows what she is talking about.
i feel like you r helping me thru my dysfunction growing up family life. thank you. I am healing very slowly. I discovered I am an em path. very sensitive & I can heal other if they are open minded. I was raised by a narcisist
Is it strange I get Kristen Stewart vibes from her? In the best way x
teal would be a better vampire than bella!
Teal your words resonate with my soul. I am so thankful I found your channel.
teal Swan I want to tell you I love you too sister
I'm almost at the full potential of unconditional love. I've figured it out.
I am so glad I found you Teal. Thank you. Listening to you really helps me. Thank you for sharing your journey.
Thank you so much, Teal. I just shed some tears.
I have been watching your videos for a week,just over and I really appreciate every word you speak.
Thank you Teal. 💝
thanks so much.. being someone who constantly seeks answers to all the big questions.. this is so fascinating to me.. i admire you so much for your openness about your perception of our world and universe.. it's awesome!
This is sooo great, Teal. Thanks for putting this out here!
Hej Teal, I just found you, I absolutely love U, love your vibration & strength. Keep doing what U do, helping people, we r all 1
you wanna see an angel???just throw on some fake wings on this chick
I totally agree and thanks to one of my mentors / coaches I got encouraged to read about the Five Love Languages years ago even though I have been single for many years and will not force love as so many attempt to do just to be in a relationship.
You are amazing.. much love to you Teal ... your guidance is sound and factual... I listen to you every morning so thank you so much 🙌💜🙌
This left me in tears, but in a good way. I needed to hear this. I've been asking for guidance and you just provided it. Thank you so much. And thank you for getting personal in this video; somehow it makes me feel better. Incredibly explained - you truly have a gift. Thanks for sharing it.
Teal I discovered your videos today and honestly while the information and ideas you offer are great..It is hard to concentrate because of your breathtaking beauty..thank you
I discovered through my new relationship how i was not being able to let in the things I Always really wanted for myself and instead being with a person who was keeping me down while not letting me be what I am. He used to shut me off when I was truly expressing myself, so I stoped doing so..
So through analyzing my early childhood and basically all my keystone past relationships, seeing what was unhealthy and made me feel bothered.. I can find core beliefs about what I feel about relationships and love. Then I can reprogram these beliefs in myself.
I am learning soo much from you Teal! I am soo happy I discovered you. Thank you soo much. Love love LOVE you!!!
Thank you, Teal!!! You mean so much to me and us! You have no idea, nor do they at the moment.
You are an absolute gem Teal, I'm so glad that I came upon your videos. Thank you
Teal is the Spot !!! Gratz Teal ! Thank you for all your Vidz !
Awesome video, Teal, and very, very powerful. Thank you for posting and sharing!
As to your question about UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, about knowing someone who is in that state 24/7/365 .... I can honestly answer YES to that question. I know of ONE BEING.
And I can tell you, their unconditional love is nothing short of profound. And it is towards everyone and everything. All the time. No gaps, no breaks, no vacations.
I love you too, Teal! Keep up your valuable work, please! We need you!
I am so grateful for you teal! You are wonderful and so knowledgable and have taught me so much!!! Most of my spiritual growth can be accredited to you. Thank you!
Totally get what you mean - if they're no longer clinging to you, it'd imply you don't serve that comfort/need for them (which implies a sense of importance in your being). As annoying as the clinging may be, we like feeling important.
Thank you Teal for ALL you do!!! I too tend to keep people at arms length and do processes on my own when I'm upset. I want to be more affectionate with my amazing boyfriend. I feel I have a hard exterior that says I don't need affection, but it is probably the thing I need most. This is from my childhood. Now I can consciously let it go. Thank you. Sending love~Michele😊
Thank you. So direct, clear, real.
Love! Thank you Teal! I can relate to so much you said in this video! I love your honesty, straight forwardness, YOu are so real.
Devotion + Dedication to LOVE ----- Spiritual practice is the capacity to offer your love even when you feel hurt, closed down, tense, angry, misunderstood, or hated.
Thank you for your love, Teal. I'm sending my love right back atcha.
Your teal insights are inspiring as well as enlightening. Thank you.