What Does It Mean To Be INFJ? The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people. 00:00 INTRO 00:18 10 They can hardly make the sigma INFJ follow them 01:34 09 They unconsciously envy the sigma INFJ 02:48 08 They can't negotiate their way into the sigma INFJ's firm boundaries 03:41 07 Sigma INFJs' skills overshadow the alpha's charisma 04:54 06 Sigma INFJs effortlessly gain people's respect 05:42 05 Sigma INFJs are more interesting than them 06:54 04 They can't stand the sigma INFJ's effortlessness 07:59 03 The sigma INFJ makes alphas feel helpless 09:31 02 They can't accept how sigma INFJs steal their spotlight 10:44 01 Sigma INFJs make alphas question their abilities ♥♥♥Help Us Serve You Better! ♥♥♥ Show us love and support through our Patreon: www.patreon.com/ON_TRACK Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... Share This Video Right NOW: ruclips.net/video/tCOcILTHX5E/видео.html ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! Are you an INFJ? What more would you like to add? We would definitely love to know! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT that notification bell to get the latest updates! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2LY533N Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. Caption Our Video To Your Language Here: 👉👉👉 bit.ly/3gBgWbU -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Videos You May Also Like: 10 Ways That CAN TURN ON AN INFJ ruclips.net/video/9C_hjpv5Whg/видео.html 10 Reasons Why The INFJ Stands Out From The Rest ruclips.net/video/dRYZI9crnbs/видео.html Here's Why YOU SHOULD NEVER MESS With An EMPATH ruclips.net/video/42CKb6wGZr4/видео.html Is The INFJ The TRUE ALPHA Of The MBTI? ruclips.net/video/CBgu8SnxxHI/видео.html 10 Shocking Confessions of A TRUE INFJ ruclips.net/video/iliHHAtMhm4/видео.html How TABOO Is The INFJ Personality? ruclips.net/video/jIHFIBeXNr0/видео.html
The problem is, I never feel to be competing with anyone, so alpha's drama is something created by their own lack of self esteem, is their own business not mine.
It's a huge problem isn't it. No matter where you go or what you want to do, you always get those people that want to one-up everything. It's a sad existence to me personally. My competition is that dude in the mirror looking back at me. I have to try and be better than the person I was yesterday. That's honestly the hardest competition I have to face because in my low moments I know that I have to try harder tomorrow, be grateful for what I have and in my best moments not to be ungrateful for what I have and not let arrogance, pride, jealousy and envy take over. Keeps me grounded and not focused on the haters but rather myself so I can effectively and consciously make those changes.
Yes, never underestimate an INFJ, they are a lot stronger and savvier than you initially realise, and can suss you out before you even realise what's happening.
Hence the mystery. We never play our cards until necessary. Its a self protective trait. We are misunderstood already no need to lead to more misunderstanding.
@@rebekahroth8043the trade off can be hard to balance. Especially if you don’t allow all the stress and negativity flow through you, not absorb and keep it in.
@@koylejeune4332 I agree. I feel if I am silent and “mysterious”in those times, I understand the situation more and I am able resist taking on their emotions as my own. It takes a lot of work and it can be draining. Not always successful either.
Hello. I prayed all of you INFJS enjoying this peaceful weekend to nourish both body and soul. Unwind enjoy your foods and drinks wether tea or coffee or good company.❤❤ Thank you so much for your videos it helps my sigma self tremendously.😊 God's blessings to you.
If an alpha feels burst from self identity, then they are still processing their bearings on who they are, how they feel about it, and whether or not its detrimental is irrelevant. Their image of their own identity is not my freewill sphere to take away from them, so I bear no responsibility for their dark night of the soul, just as I have no right to take any of their glorious moments of their life: I have my own life to bask and wrestle to blessing in and I will deal with my own sphere with the occasional lonely feeling that comes with a moment to moment best option I continually navigate towards. Clear boundary.
Glad I stumbled across this video. This is spot on. I've been all around the US and moved to West Virginia where the alpha male, however intellectually stunted, are all around. I had an incident with one where I didn't realize he was playing some stupid game and it progressed into chaos. This video explained it perfectly. Not responding to this dumbass is something that I have learned a lesson from. I am 64 and thought I had seen it all until this idiot. There are plenty to go around out here in the sticks. It's sad but true.
I am an INFJ but I am not sure whether I can be called a Sigma or not. I can however say that if a Sigma encounters an old school Alpha then they would get along. I know an older ESTP that is a true old school Alpha, and he is truly respectable. He doesn't care whether he has the spotlight or not, he really and truly tries to improve himself, he learns from his mistakes, he is comparable to the Sigma in every way except he is not at all intuitive. So if a Sigma met a true old school Alpha they would get along quite well. I once told that guy that if I were a follower, I would follow him, but I am not so I will walk next to him instead.
I know from being in a relationship with an alpha he can't handle me when I'm resisting his dominant attitude towards something, if I refuse to do something he'll resort to empty threats. I decide to find the best way to keep us both happy. Just get things to return to peace.
To answer your questions, no I have no remorse about bursting the alpha balloon when necessary. But if it comes to that, it's only because I perceive the alpha as a bully and I can't stand to watch him/her victimise some innocent person or impose his/her will unreasonably on others. And once I'm done, I feel pretty good 😊 and empowered. And I get a lot of pleasure from the underdogs feeling vindicated.
I already know some INFJ’s think they know it all and dismiss these concepts of Alpha/Sigma/Bets, but they are real, archetypes of people so it’s useful. INFJ’s are all about that ultimate path and that’s a fully developed, fully realized man an INFJ would fit into is the Sigma archetype. I know of real life examples of these types of INFJ’s and they also dismiss these notions created by others just like a Sigma, which is funny to me. It’s the end goal of a fully developed INFJ man. Every point here takes a lot of inner work and development to get there. So the sigma INFJ is a minority of a minority.
And the ego takes over or emotions which is then projected on to us. And depending on how sensitive you are, it can be detrimental to your health. SELF-CARE IS A PRIORITY like food and shelter for us.
I have only found 1 person I've followed in my whole life. I want to trust someone enough to be in charge. It's just difficult finding someone I can trust their judgement.
I am a Sigma INFJ and I'm the oldest of my siblings my youngest brother is an Alpha he drives me crazy with drama, and it's like he thrives on it. On the other hand, I confound him to a point he can't handle.
How can you be the enemy of someone you want to help? Why are you being fought against? Finally we retreat. It is your world, burn it down and destroy your own light to realize that you are the ones walking in the dark.
That can be up for debate depending on the context and individuals talking. However, I do agree with you. It’s funny that we exert such traits despite our chameleon like nature.
Lol not really. The world needs Alphas to lead with charisma and rally the masses. They enjoy that kinda thing, it's what they built for. Sigmas are counselor/mentors/advocates having the same or in most cases a superior skill set minus the charisma to lead the masses. They prefer to teach all including the Alphas and this in where the root of the debate lies because an alpha will almost always lose to the Sigma because of the simple fact that the Sigma serves the best interests of everyone where the Alpha always see to their needs first and foremost then everyone under them second.
@@7goldglamour777Those are weak alphas who are usually betas who became alphas due to some circumstances. They talk the talk but they don’t walk the work and are insecure about it.
@@KibatheMalinois sounds like alphas are nothing more than politicians and/ or narcs, haha 😀, completely dependent on what others think of them and what their ego can do for them. I'm glad I'm a sigma. Good explanation.
Think about it this way. A Sigma wolf would be the one who teaches the Alpha to howl. He can do it just as well as them if not better but chooses to use his power in a manner that would benefit all. Alphas tend to be more self serving in their intentions generally putting themselves first and the betas who follow them second. They are the kings of their social circles. The disconnect comes because an alpha is so used to beta type behavior that they initially view the Sigma as a beta but after either a series of interactions or just a simple meeting, they realise that they are dealing with a whole different human being altogether and this sort of scares them because they see quiet beta behaviour mixed with Super Alpha ideas and actions and it all goes downhill from there 😅
according to the bible, these 2 do not live in the same "world" (as in the world that was/is/will be. The Alpha live in the first/second world of authority and obedience. There has been lots of wickedness been justified in the name of obedience. This why the 1st world became full of wickedness, Noah was a preacher of righteousness. (the excellent and the more excellent) When a sigma compares excellence with something more excellent, (the Lord with Cain and Able) the tears from the alphas above and the tears from the betas below will carry Noahs ark on its way.
Actually, Alpha have the pressure of being Alpha while Sigma INFJ doesn't and they're not moreso into Conflict and Confrontations, unlike Alpha whose burden with heavy Expectations and much more Attention, which prone to attract more Problems and Issues with others. Sigma INFJ can just go into spotlight when he wants and presents himself in a much Good Image and gone after that, and nobody cares, they don't have the burdensome expectations that Alphas do.
What Does It Mean To Be INFJ?
The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people.
00:00 INTRO
00:18 10 They can hardly make the sigma INFJ follow them
01:34 09 They unconsciously envy the sigma INFJ
02:48 08 They can't negotiate their way into the sigma INFJ's firm boundaries
03:41 07 Sigma INFJs' skills overshadow the alpha's charisma
04:54 06 Sigma INFJs effortlessly gain people's respect
05:42 05 Sigma INFJs are more interesting than them
06:54 04 They can't stand the sigma INFJ's effortlessness
07:59 03 The sigma INFJ makes alphas feel helpless
09:31 02 They can't accept how sigma INFJs steal their spotlight
10:44 01 Sigma INFJs make alphas question their abilities
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Sigma INFJ shoots for the sky, Alphas shoot themselves in the foot.
The key is that we Sigma INFJs genuinely don't seek the spotlight or the approval of others in order to feel validated. It's hard to beat that.
Alphas are just typical cowardly and weak narcissists. There's nothing special about them, just all for show.
The problem is, I never feel to be competing with anyone, so alpha's drama is something created by their own lack of self esteem, is their own business not mine.
It's a huge problem isn't it. No matter where you go or what you want to do, you always get those people that want to one-up everything. It's a sad existence to me personally.
My competition is that dude in the mirror looking back at me. I have to try and be better than the person I was yesterday. That's honestly the hardest competition I have to face because in my low moments I know that I have to try harder tomorrow, be grateful for what I have and in my best moments not to be ungrateful for what I have and not let arrogance, pride, jealousy and envy take over.
Keeps me grounded and not focused on the haters but rather myself so I can effectively and consciously make those changes.
Yes, never underestimate an INFJ, they are a lot stronger and savvier than you initially realise, and can suss you out before you even realise what's happening.
Hence the mystery. We never play our cards until necessary. Its a self protective trait. We are misunderstood already no need to lead to more misunderstanding.
@@rebekahroth8043the trade off can be hard to balance. Especially if you don’t allow all the stress and negativity flow through you, not absorb and keep it in.
@@koylejeune4332 I agree. I feel if I am silent and “mysterious”in those times, I understand the situation more and I am able resist taking on their emotions as my own. It takes a lot of work and it can be draining. Not always successful either.
@@rebekahroth8043Patience and practice, I believe in you!
It's better for some people to actually think they are better and smarter than us, it's easier for us to prove them wrong in a meaningful way
Hello. I prayed all of you INFJS enjoying this peaceful weekend to nourish both body and soul. Unwind enjoy your foods and drinks wether tea or coffee or good company.❤❤ Thank you so much for your videos it helps my sigma self tremendously.😊 God's blessings to you.
Appreciated!
If an alpha feels burst from self identity, then they are still processing their bearings on who they are, how they feel about it, and whether or not its detrimental is irrelevant. Their image of their own identity is not my freewill sphere to take away from them, so I bear no responsibility for their dark night of the soul, just as I have no right to take any of their glorious moments of their life: I have my own life to bask and wrestle to blessing in and I will deal with my own sphere with the occasional lonely feeling that comes with a moment to moment best option I continually navigate towards. Clear boundary.
Glad I stumbled across this video. This is spot on. I've been all around the US and moved to West Virginia where the alpha male, however intellectually stunted, are all around. I had an incident with one where I didn't realize he was playing some stupid game and it progressed into chaos. This video explained it perfectly. Not responding to this dumbass is something that I have learned a lesson from. I am 64 and thought I had seen it all until this idiot. There are plenty to go around out here in the sticks. It's sad but true.
"John Wick" sends his regards, never mess with a Sigma INFJ.
I am an INFJ but I am not sure whether I can be called a Sigma or not. I can however say that if a Sigma encounters an old school Alpha then they would get along. I know an older ESTP that is a true old school Alpha, and he is truly respectable. He doesn't care whether he has the spotlight or not, he really and truly tries to improve himself, he learns from his mistakes, he is comparable to the Sigma in every way except he is not at all intuitive. So if a Sigma met a true old school Alpha they would get along quite well. I once told that guy that if I were a follower, I would follow him, but I am not so I will walk next to him instead.
I know from being in a relationship with an alpha he can't handle me when I'm resisting his dominant attitude towards something, if I refuse to do something he'll resort to empty threats. I decide to find the best way to keep us both happy. Just get things to return to peace.
To answer your questions, no I have no remorse about bursting the alpha balloon when necessary. But if it comes to that, it's only because I perceive the alpha as a bully and I can't stand to watch him/her victimise some innocent person or impose his/her will unreasonably on others. And once I'm done, I feel pretty good 😊 and empowered. And I get a lot of pleasure from the underdogs feeling vindicated.
I feel sad but with the peace of mind that it was necessary and fair, that there was no other option.
I already know some INFJ’s think they know it all and dismiss these concepts of Alpha/Sigma/Bets, but they are real, archetypes of people so it’s useful. INFJ’s are all about that ultimate path and that’s a fully developed, fully realized man an INFJ would fit into is the Sigma archetype. I know of real life examples of these types of INFJ’s and they also dismiss these notions created by others just like a Sigma, which is funny to me.
It’s the end goal of a fully developed INFJ man. Every point here takes a lot of inner work and development to get there. So the sigma INFJ is a minority of a minority.
Helpful video!
In a nutshell, we remind them of their inadequacies.
And the ego takes over or emotions which is then projected on to us. And depending on how sensitive you are, it can be detrimental to your health. SELF-CARE IS A PRIORITY like food and shelter for us.
I have only found 1 person I've followed in my whole life. I want to trust someone enough to be in charge. It's just difficult finding someone I can trust their judgement.
If we can’t be equals - the other side kneels!
Ooohh… Salty!! And spot on. 👌🏼
I am a Sigma INFJ and I'm the oldest of my siblings my youngest brother is an Alpha he drives me crazy with drama, and it's like he thrives on it. On the other hand, I confound him to a point he can't handle.
I follow the rules because I DECIDED to follow the rules. Never forget that.
Lol none of this ever even crossed my mind 😂🤔is this really a thing🤦♀️
How can you be the enemy of someone you want to help? Why are you being fought against? Finally we retreat.
It is your world, burn it down and destroy your own light to realize that you are the ones walking in the dark.
Present 👋
They're not true Alphas then , the sigma INFj has the TRUE Alpha traits
That can be up for debate depending on the context and individuals talking. However, I do agree with you. It’s funny that we exert such traits despite our chameleon like nature.
Lol not really. The world needs Alphas to lead with charisma and rally the masses. They enjoy that kinda thing, it's what they built for.
Sigmas are counselor/mentors/advocates having the same or in most cases a superior skill set minus the charisma to lead the masses. They prefer to teach all including the Alphas and this in where the root of the debate lies because an alpha will almost always lose to the Sigma because of the simple fact that the Sigma serves the best interests of everyone where the Alpha always see to their needs first and foremost then everyone under them second.
It seems alphas are bullies, and we all know why bullies are the way they are. Alpha is just a mask for great insecurity.
@@7goldglamour777Those are weak alphas who are usually betas who became alphas due to some circumstances. They talk the talk but they don’t walk the work and are insecure about it.
@@KibatheMalinois sounds like alphas are nothing more than politicians and/ or narcs, haha 😀, completely dependent on what others think of them and what their ego can do for them. I'm glad I'm a sigma. Good explanation.
INFJ dont tell to people everything about them to others so that others can use it against them....
Funny ✌️💛💫✨😅
❤️❤️❤️.,,
I do have an alpha of a brother
Can anyone explain the word “Sigma”to me plz I really wanna know thanks:)
IMHO, a confident one that does not need anyone else. Totally mature, does not conform and is true to their self. Again, just IMHO.
@@danielemory82 i get it now thank you Daniel:)
Think about it this way. A Sigma wolf would be the one who teaches the Alpha to howl. He can do it just as well as them if not better but chooses to use his power in a manner that would benefit all.
Alphas tend to be more self serving in their intentions generally putting themselves first and the betas who follow them second. They are the kings of their social circles.
The disconnect comes because an alpha is so used to beta type behavior that they initially view the Sigma as a beta but after either a series of interactions or just a simple meeting, they realise that they are dealing with a whole different human being altogether and this sort of scares them because they see quiet beta behaviour mixed with Super Alpha ideas and actions and it all goes downhill from there 😅
according to the bible, these 2 do not live in the same "world" (as in the world that was/is/will be. The Alpha live in the first/second world of authority and obedience. There has been lots of wickedness been justified in the name of obedience. This why the 1st world became full of wickedness, Noah was a preacher of righteousness. (the excellent and the more excellent) When a sigma compares excellence with something more excellent, (the Lord with Cain and Able) the tears from the alphas above and the tears from the betas below will carry Noahs ark on its way.
I don’t get how they used the word Sigma ! The description of this particular INFJ is Alpha and the sigma is the insecure one!
So then you need to read that as Sigmas are either true Alphas or Alpha-killers. A tyrants natural weakness.
Actually, Alpha have the pressure of being Alpha while Sigma INFJ doesn't and they're not moreso into Conflict and Confrontations, unlike Alpha whose burden with heavy Expectations and much more Attention, which prone to attract more Problems and Issues with others. Sigma INFJ can just go into spotlight when he wants and presents himself in a much Good Image and gone after that, and nobody cares, they don't have the burdensome expectations that Alphas do.
Your right. Very true and correct.ℹ️💯✅❤️👍🏿👌🏿✝️🙏🏿📖🗡👊🏿🥷☯️😎