My daughter LOVES hearing me say "i love you, no matter what" and she helps me finish by saying "and e f" She's almost 3. You're videos are a God send. Thank you so much for being such a huge HELP!
I am a mom of 3 that was raised to be perfectionist, was shamed when something I did didnt have the result my mom expected, always told my way of thinking was weird or wrong because I was young and didnt know of life...also was told my feelings were not important..so it made me a very shy, naive and lack of self esteem...I decided at some point in my life to be myself andj take the courage to do things I nevere dared to do before...also living far away from home...looking for an apartmend and a job...and little by little I gained confidence...I made lots of mistakes..never confide in my parents..but in some friends..and I started to enjoy being myself with what I had...my kids are 10, 6 and 3 and I try to be aware not to repeat this pattern...but when Im tired..or with worries...I say or do things that I know I shouldn...but later I hug my kids and I tell them Im sorry...parenting is THE MOST DIFFICULT JOB IN THE WORLD>>> Greetings from Monterrye, MEXICO
Many blessings to you and your family from mine, I'm a single mom of a 3 years old it's been pretty hard because I am alone and I can feel the pressure every single day. I wake up every day with the fear that I am not good enough, and to often I feel overwhelmed but I found your videos and for the first time in years I woke up happy, relaxed I don't feel alone in this anymore. With tears in my eyes I say thank you, thank you so much.
Thank you 🙏🏻 thank you 🙏🏻 thank you 🙏🏻 thank you 🙏🏻 your videos are really really really helpful and always on time. You are valued and appreciated by A LOT of parents
Thank you for sharing....I feel that you truly care about children (parents) such good advice. I would hope that you guys reach every family in the world. I am greatful to have found your chanel thank you. God Bless
Thank you for your videos. Your videos many times reach across a large age range which I appreciate. I have young adults. "Love them no matter what and even if" has helped me. Trying to focus on that and there is no control. I have spent so much time worrying and it gets worse at night. Thank you for being here!
I used to get the dreaded threat of "if you don't stop crying, I'll give you something to cry about!" followed a few years later by "why do ytou find it so hard to express your feelings?" Also - can you imagine if someone was threatening to jump out of a window and someone tried to talk them back in by yelling "Get back in here now, or I'll give you something to jump for!"
You guys deserve 10 millions subscribers. Thanks for your videos, i have been listening to your your videos in the past 5 years and o shared with many friends and families. God bless you
When my kid says that she is nervous, I don't say that she is wrong. But, I just say "You should be confident" I believe that she only says that she is nervous, because she heard her mom said that she was nervous. So, I think that everyone should tell their kids that they are "Confident!"
yesenia felix, share with them something that you learned on the channel or talk about that crazy guy who is so weird, but seems to make sense to get their curiosity going. Perhaps one of the videos on personal development, not about parenting would be a good starter.
Great video again! Thanks! Any advice on how to teach your child to loose.? When she was younger we let her win so she didn'tcry, but in the real world it isn't like that.
Don’t home school cause if u do ur child’s social skills will be really bad and at work or college they won’t understand how to handle bullying instead u should take them to a school that has counsels and such mine does and it helped me a lot cause I have miner anger issues and Idk how to really handle it but they’ve helped so.. look for a good school with counselors for ur children’s
I came across this channel a few months ago then just this day i thought why the hell not lets subscribe i have so many subscriptions thats its a whole country but your one of the few subscriptions i like to watch
i thought this was one of those laughable facebook mom videos that you always see them watching, but in all honesty i wish my parents were aware of this when i was growing up. great video
Thank you again i think we are doing this good so far... (most because of your teaching 😊) but sometimes i don't know if it is a real feeling/crying or if he just want to get something (how you told in your last video). Most of the time it's clear for me, but sometimes i don't know. And i don't want to allow bad behavior but more important i don't wanna ignore his feelings
@Carola What helps me to find out what kind of cry it is, is to help phrase the feeling. If my daughter (25 months) just cries to get her way it becomes pretty clear because she is frustrated but not sad. She is angry instead. If I really can't find out I just ask if she cried on purpose. To which she truthfully replies every time. ☺️ It occurs far less since I get to her eye level for communication and repeat her wishes (or orders) and then answer.
Crying is healing. Sometimes children ask for the impossible so they get a chance to cry and heal from past disappointment. Very difficult for a stressed out parents to deal with.
Hello Dr.Paulo I would like you to make a video explaining how to help a person who wants to put situations and people in the right place all the time. In other words, how to help a person who is not very tolerant of ideas and thoughts that are different from your own. What can I say or do to help someone like this.
That is a tough one since they don't sound receptive. Best to set a good example. If you offer suggestions and they aren't open they probably won't listen to you. It needs to be important to them.
Katherine Lydon, there are 8 videos in the playlist with the word school in them. Also search with anxiety and then let me know if there is something specific that was not addressed.
For number one when you discussed removing them from the mainstream activity and sitting with them. Do you have an example for a stay at home mom with multiple kids? For example my three year old starts to feel frustrated and angry so I go sit with him.. but I also have a one year old alone in the other room?
Today I had a "pants" talk with my 6 year old, using the NSPCC pantosaurus book, as I have done before. I reaffirmed to him that if anybody ever tried to do anything that made him uncomfortable or asked him to keep a secret then he must tell someone he trusts, mummy, daddy and even his teacher... to which he looked at me with confusion and said, "But I thought were not allowed to tell? every time I go to tell teacher if something has happened she says go away , don't be a tattle tail !!!" Grrrr I'm so cross that teachers do this. I'm cycle breaking over here and putting in a lot of work, to know that I'm them sending him into school where the next biggest influence on him says things like that !!!
Stephiroth88, I get both sides. Teachers would listen if a student told them about abuse. The message the teachers are trying to get across is to try to figure out the problem, the way it is being done is not helpful. I can see both sides. Your child has you his parents to talk to and you will be able to help them.
Dr Paul I wish there a list of seleted videos that can be recommeneded to parents at different age groups..Sciools can promote this in assemblies or even have posters at school ..some videos can be watched at school in appropriate lessons ..even in drama where children are encouraged to gain knowledge on purpose to manage their emotions healthily and not learn about things that distract them from finding meaningful solutions for healthy thinking and living. Hope it is ok for me to ask while really appreciating all the knowledge you and your wife are kindly sharing
Dr Paul, regarding outcome detachment, you've spoken before about it not being our job to make sure that our kids are well mannered/ respectful, etc. But to be those examples to them and love them no matter what. Could you perhaps elaborate on that? I often find myself triggered, thinking "I need to teach her respect" and then i remember your words. Love your videos!
Jolene, our children will learn from our behavior. This might be a subject for another video to explain a little deeper. We want to remember first and foremost that our job is to love our children. When they feel that attachment, we will have the most influence.
The "you aren't good enough" one is so heart breaking for me. I have an 8 yr old only child who is constantly saying she's not good at anything. I tell her the opposite, learning new things is a process. But she compares herself to me because I'm her playmate... any advice on how to help her?
Very helpful videos. Need some more help in last point (5). When a kid does nasty things for example 'digging nose in public' , how should we handle such things and express, its not socially acceptable.
Oh, our poor little one's, they born with a purified mind, just blank and white, we fill in lots of emotions as anger, happiness, jellous and much more.not even a little space to fill by their own, we teach all the things that we feel good for us, if they can express their feelings into words, definitely they will say don't parenting me, but be my best friend
My son whines and cries whenever there is ads on his game or if lose. He cusses and shout and even fall on the floor when he get upset at games. I wonder what I do now listening to this video. I tried calm behavior but it doesn't work. He even cusses me.... so I used the mad approach and he listened. I guess I should not use that approach. I don't know, My mental state is being challenge evry minute im with him... 😭😭
When the grand kids got surly after their game time was over I didn't give them the game the next time they asked. They learned real quick that if they want access to the game they needed to be nice when it was time to be done. If there is complaining all I have to do is remind them they won't get it next time and they put a smile on their face.
Mistakes are bad that’s me. But learning what work ethic employers are expecting you to get it at 100% or more, the first time, and with good attitude (not frustration about the task). And in my mind mistakes will send you to jail.
I just got three diplomas that none of my parents believed I'd ever get. I got certified years ago working nonprofessionally and professionally around children.
If I showed this to my mom she'd beat me, if I showed this to my dad he'd be like, I don't do any of those but ok? (that's cuz my dad doesn't actually do that)
Hi 🙋🏼♀️ love your channel and have learned so much. I’m having trouble with my partners ex not supporting their daughter they have together on making a bond with my child. It’s got to a point that my child was ignored by my partners daughter and allowed to ignore text on FaceTimes when ask to birthday dinner out on her birthday. The ex said when we text it wasn’t about Dana so why should she text an she asked her to text but forgot but it was our child’s birthday.
Tori Larvin, figure out what you have control over and what you don't. Let go of what you don't and work on what you do. That is really all we can do, we can't change other people.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV so it’s ok for my child’s mental health to be effected as my child is besotted with my 11 year step daughter and she is repulsed by a 3 year old child? Even tho she has a 4 year old sister at her home. I’m quite sure it’s Not healthy for the 11 to be encouraged to do this to a increase child. I’m in two minds to call Social services to step in as it is clearly affecting my three-year-old child.
Sadly my ex goes out his way to psychology abuse our daughter and when I take it to the court he turns it all around on me. I feel stuck as he has very heavy energy and as he thinks he is above most people and the law he will get away with what he does behind the scenes. Very manipulative, How do I compensate for his negative and destructive behaviour towards our daughter?
Grace Kelly, unfortunately you can't change the ex or his behavior. Be sure your daughter know you love her no matter what and even if. Be there for her to talk to and she will understand what is happening as she matures.
I have a two year old son, I love him with all my heart, but he yells and growls and runs around like no one is listening to him. I don't know what to do any ideas.... Ps. I can't afford your program but I do need help.
Shady Character, usually there is something behind them. Sometimes it isn't events, but could be chemical reactions. Be careful if you are thinking of other people, it may not be visible why they have certain feelings.
My son hates mistakes, and were having a hard time teaching him they arent bad, they are just a learning opportunity. He gets frustrated and his little 4yr old brain cranks up, the waterworks start and he says things like "I cant do anything!". Its been hard trying to get him to deal with that frustration.
Casey Wilson, wait until he is calm and then talk about a specific incident and show him that everything worked out and act out a proper response if he is frustrated.
My daughter LOVES hearing me say "i love you, no matter what" and she helps me finish by saying "and e f"
She's almost 3. You're videos are a God send. Thank you so much for being such a huge HELP!
Thanks for sharing!! Andrew V, I can imagine your daughter saying that and it makes me smile.
I love this.🥰 I'm going to use this.
I am a mom of 3 that was raised to be perfectionist, was shamed when something I did didnt have the result my mom expected, always told my way of thinking was weird or wrong because I was young and didnt know of life...also was told my feelings were not important..so it made me a very shy, naive and lack of self esteem...I decided at some point in my life to be myself andj take the courage to do things I nevere dared to do before...also living far away from home...looking for an apartmend and a job...and little by little I gained confidence...I made lots of mistakes..never confide in my parents..but in some friends..and I started to enjoy being myself with what I had...my kids are 10, 6 and 3 and I try to be aware not to repeat this pattern...but when Im tired..or with worries...I say or do things that I know I shouldn...but later I hug my kids and I tell them Im sorry...parenting is THE MOST DIFFICULT JOB IN THE WORLD>>> Greetings from Monterrye, MEXICO
Elissa Ross, parenting is very tough and we are honored to be on your journey.
Many blessings to you and your family from mine, I'm a single mom of a 3 years old it's been pretty hard because I am alone and I can feel the pressure every single day. I wake up every day with the fear that I am not good enough, and to often I feel overwhelmed but I found your videos and for the first time in years I woke up happy, relaxed I don't feel alone in this anymore. With tears in my eyes I say thank you, thank you so much.
mihaela buculei, honored to be on your team. You are the mother your child needs.
This is so important, and even more so for children and adults afflicted with ADHD.
nvaranavage, thank you.
You two are Blessed, and a Blessings for others. Thank you so much for your candor and humility.
Thank you so much!
When ur the kid watching this and agreeing to everything he is saying and wishing ur parents would watch this
Saja Lotfy, I love it when I hear parents are watching with their children. So much good communication can happen at that point.
Hopefully they will watch one day. Maybe if you just start playing it?
As always, putting out exactly what we need. I don’t know how you do it. But God has a special place for you. Thank you so much again
You are so welcome, Sakina Kharrubi.
Thank you 🙏🏻 thank you 🙏🏻 thank you 🙏🏻 thank you 🙏🏻 your videos are really really really helpful and always on time. You are valued and appreciated by A LOT of parents
You're so welcome! I really appreciate your words today.
I always find things on your lists that I have to work on. Thank you for your crucial guidance!
Glad it was helpful! reallifelove, honored to be on your team.
I loved everything you said, it is 100% right .❤️
Thank you, it is also o.k. not to agree with everything I say. Run what you hear through your truth filter.
WRONG!!!
Itd 467557576757574424699999999999999078665767787878898999999oo9o99oo0999999%right!
Thank you for sharing....I feel that you truly care about children (parents) such good advice. I would hope that you guys reach every family in the world. I am greatful to have found your chanel thank you.
God Bless
So nice of you. We are honored to be on your team.
Very important video that needs to be watched over and over again
Olubukola Abuno, please share with anyone you think could benefit.
Thank you for your videos. Your videos many times reach across a large age range which I appreciate. I have young adults. "Love them no matter what and even if" has helped me. Trying to focus on that and there is no control. I have spent so much time worrying and it gets worse at night. Thank you for being here!
Pamela Lowe, glad we can connect. I try to identify principles, which are universal, but how we apply changes with the age or stage of the child.
I am also dealing with young adults and can relate to your post so well. Tks for posting it 🙂💚
Realy helpful message.Thank you
You are so welcome
I used to get the dreaded threat of "if you don't stop crying, I'll give you something to cry about!" followed a few years later by "why do ytou find it so hard to express your feelings?"
Also - can you imagine if someone was threatening to jump out of a window and someone tried to talk them back in by yelling "Get back in here now, or I'll give you something to jump for!"
Yeah, it just doesn't make sense.
So helpful
Thank you!
Great little reminder! Thanks 👍
You are so welcome!
Thank you so much Dr.Paul and Ms.Vicki for this great video.😊
Our pleasure!
You guys deserve 10 millions subscribers. Thanks for your videos, i have been listening to your your videos in the past 5 years and o shared with many friends and families. God bless you
Thank you, Daria for watching and sharing.
Awesome. Thank you
You're welcome!
Great knowledge! Thank you!!
My pleasure!
Great video!
Thanks!
Great documentary Sir. It was really helpful for me
TubeMedico, you are welcome.
Thank you for helping parents to raise healthy adults 💜 I appreciate you both and the advice you offer 🙏
Janine, we are honored to be on your team.
This was really awesome!! Thank you!
You're so welcome!
Another fantastic video. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it
When my kid says that she is nervous, I don't say that she is wrong. But, I just say "You should be confident" I believe that she only says that she is nervous, because she heard her mom said that she was nervous. So, I think that everyone should tell their kids that they are "Confident!"
Love it! I have a video on the channel about helping children with confidence.
This was a great blessing 💝
Thank you.
I wish more parents knew about this channel 💜
yesenia felix, share with them something that you learned on the channel or talk about that crazy guy who is so weird, but seems to make sense to get their curiosity going. Perhaps one of the videos on personal development, not about parenting would be a good starter.
Viki &Dr. Paul you're amazing 👏!! This video is so helpful thank you for your sharing with us all of thoes amazing parenting skills.
Love it!!💓💗
Our pleasure!
Great video again! Thanks! Any advice on how to teach your child to loose.? When she was younger we let her win so she didn'tcry, but in the real world it isn't like that.
Great suggestion! I will consider that for an upcoming video.
Yea my lil sis does that ALL THE TIME whenever I wanna race her I HAVE to make her win or else I will be hearing tantrums for the next 2days
This is great wish I had heard that.
Einstein Darwin, thank you. Glad you are here.
Always such useful and insightful advice thanks 🤩
My pleasure!
Thank you for this video it is so helpful and important. I feel better equipped now to help my son with his behavior and emotional difficulties.
Sticks and Shadows 4925, that is awesome. You got this.
Hi Dr Paul
This video is one more tip that will improve my teaching as mum.
Thank you again. ❤️
Our pleasure.
❤️ Thank you for this. I always listen to all your videos. It helps me!
I'm so glad! We are glad you are here, Nichole G.
I love number two! Especially in the school system. I plan on homeschooling and will keep this in the back of my mind :)
Love that!
Don’t home school cause if u do ur child’s social skills will be really bad and at work or college they won’t understand how to handle bullying instead u should take them to a school that has counsels and such mine does and it helped me a lot cause I have miner anger issues and Idk how to really handle it but they’ve helped so.. look for a good school with counselors for ur children’s
@@sajalotfy9024 what about people in public school with bad social skills?
I love your channel. Can these tips also help with children whom have comprehension and speech limitations?
Yes, give it a try.
So excellent.
Thanks for listening.
I came across this channel a few months ago then just this day i thought why the hell not lets subscribe i have so many subscriptions thats its a whole country but your one of the few subscriptions i like to watch
Ashton, that means a lot.
Lol
I have an 18 yr old that struggles. I so wish I had these videos when he was 2.
Jennifer Andrade, have a talk, ask for a do-over and tell him how things are going to change.
i thought this was one of those laughable facebook mom videos that you always see them watching, but in all honesty i wish my parents were aware of this when i was growing up. great video
You are so kind, thanks.
I always told my kids that mistakes are a way to learn NOT to do things so...that they shouldn't get too bent out of shape over mistakes.
P Hammond, sounds good, I hope they internalized these lessons.
P Hammond, sounds good, I hope they internalized these lessons.
Love this!!! ❤❤❤❤
Victoria Campbell, honored to be on your team.
Thank you again
i think we are doing this good so far... (most because of your teaching 😊) but sometimes i don't know if it is a real feeling/crying or if he just want to get something (how you told in your last video). Most of the time it's clear for me, but sometimes i don't know. And i don't want to allow bad behavior but more important i don't wanna ignore his feelings
Carola Grunenberg, sometimes it is hard to tell. Hopefully you can learn to "read" him.
@Carola What helps me to find out what kind of cry it is, is to help phrase the feeling. If my daughter (25 months) just cries to get her way it becomes pretty clear because she is frustrated but not sad. She is angry instead. If I really can't find out I just ask if she cried on purpose. To which she truthfully replies every time. ☺️ It occurs far less since I get to her eye level for communication and repeat her wishes (or orders) and then answer.
Crying is healing. Sometimes children ask for the impossible so they get a chance to cry and heal from past disappointment. Very difficult for a stressed out parents to deal with.
I shared this video with my mom and she said she's willing to get advice
Yo It'skareem, that is great!
Hello Dr.Paulo
I would like you to make a video explaining how to help a person who wants to put situations and people in the right place all the time.
In other words, how to help a person who is not very tolerant of ideas and thoughts that are different from your own. What can I say or do to help someone like this.
That is a tough one since they don't sound receptive. Best to set a good example. If you offer suggestions and they aren't open they probably won't listen to you. It needs to be important to them.
Do you have videos on helping a 13 year old at a new school overcome social anxiety? Thanks
Katherine Lydon, there are 8 videos in the playlist with the word school in them. Also search with anxiety and then let me know if there is something specific that was not addressed.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you
For number one when you discussed removing them from the mainstream activity and sitting with them. Do you have an example for a stay at home mom with multiple kids? For example my three year old starts to feel frustrated and angry so I go sit with him.. but I also have a one year old alone in the other room?
Mrs Wray, you may have to keep an eye on the one year old but be in close proximity to the 3 year old.
Today I had a "pants" talk with my 6 year old, using the NSPCC pantosaurus book, as I have done before. I reaffirmed to him that if anybody ever tried to do anything that made him uncomfortable or asked him to keep a secret then he must tell someone he trusts, mummy, daddy and even his teacher... to which he looked at me with confusion and said, "But I thought were not allowed to tell? every time I go to tell teacher if something has happened she says go away , don't be a tattle tail !!!"
Grrrr I'm so cross that teachers do this. I'm cycle breaking over here and putting in a lot of work, to know that I'm them sending him into school where the next biggest influence on him says things like that !!!
Stephiroth88, I get both sides. Teachers would listen if a student told them about abuse. The message the teachers are trying to get across is to try to figure out the problem, the way it is being done is not helpful. I can see both sides. Your child has you his parents to talk to and you will be able to help them.
Thank you so much. Your knowledge is priceless as are you for sharing it here.
You are so welcome!
Dr Paul I wish there a list of seleted videos that can be recommeneded to parents at different age groups..Sciools can promote this in assemblies or even have posters at school ..some videos can be watched at school in appropriate lessons ..even in drama where children are encouraged to gain knowledge on purpose to manage their emotions healthily and not learn about things that distract them from finding meaningful solutions for healthy thinking and living.
Hope it is ok for me to ask while really appreciating all the knowledge you and your wife are kindly sharing
Loveheals, That would be awesome. There is a clinic who shows the videos on a replay in a waiting room. Will have to think on this.
Dr Paul, regarding outcome detachment, you've spoken before about it not being our job to make sure that our kids are well mannered/ respectful, etc. But to be those examples to them and love them no matter what. Could you perhaps elaborate on that? I often find myself triggered, thinking "I need to teach her respect" and then i remember your words. Love your videos!
Jolene, our children will learn from our behavior. This might be a subject for another video to explain a little deeper. We want to remember first and foremost that our job is to love our children. When they feel that attachment, we will have the most influence.
All love 💖
Thank you, Honored to be on your team.
The "you aren't good enough" one is so heart breaking for me. I have an 8 yr old only child who is constantly saying she's not good at anything. I tell her the opposite, learning new things is a process. But she compares herself to me because I'm her playmate... any advice on how to help her?
Let her know that it was a process for you, that you didn't get there at age 8. Let her direct the play.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV can you make a vid bout how to get parents to see these vids cause I want to make mine see em
We say “mistakes happen” in our house. Mistakes mean we are trying..
Yep, they aren't intentional. Glad you are here.
Very helpful videos. Need some more help in last point (5). When a kid does nasty things for example 'digging nose in public' , how should we handle such things and express, its not socially acceptable.
Youthika Tiwari, talk it over later and give them options of how to handle the situation. Explain why it isn't socially acceptable.
Oh, our poor little one's, they born with a purified mind, just blank and white, we fill in lots of emotions as anger, happiness, jellous and much more.not even a little space to fill by their own, we teach all the things that we feel good for us, if they can express their feelings into words, definitely they will say don't parenting me, but be my best friend
Thank you for watching and commenting.
❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love it much
Thank you.
My son whines and cries whenever there is ads on his game or if lose. He cusses and shout and even fall on the floor when he get upset at games. I wonder what I do now listening to this video. I tried calm behavior but it doesn't work. He even cusses me.... so I used the mad approach and he listened. I guess I should not use that approach. I don't know, My mental state is being challenge evry minute im with him... 😭😭
When the grand kids got surly after their game time was over I didn't give them the game the next time they asked. They learned real quick that if they want access to the game they needed to be nice when it was time to be done. If there is complaining all I have to do is remind them they won't get it next time and they put a smile on their face.
One qes from me since u guys are phsycologist can u tell me if u could do past life regression
No, I do not.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV ohh i qiute disappointed but that's ok thanks for ur reply.
I got really emotional watching this video as a child. I'm not sure why..
I don't know, but I am glad you are here.
Mistakes are bad that’s me. But learning what work ethic employers are expecting you to get it at 100% or more, the first time, and with good attitude (not frustration about the task). And in my mind mistakes will send you to jail.
Christina B., most of the mistakes we make in learning won't lead us to jail. It would be nice if we could give one another more grace.
Your words always get into my heart 😊🤍
Carola Grunenberg, glad you are a part of our channel.
I believe we're wrong about understanding children. Often people bully their kids quite frequently. We discredit their knowledge and intelligence.
Krystal Russell, kids are fun and I love listening to them.
Not everyone cared about anything I knew including my parents who had severe narcissism.
I just got three diplomas that none of my parents believed I'd ever get. I got certified years ago working nonprofessionally and professionally around children.
I also got bullied in school by teachers too and students.
If I showed this to my mom she'd beat me, if I showed this to my dad he'd be like, I don't do any of those but ok? (that's cuz my dad doesn't actually do that)
I feel u
manspej, It is always best when parents and kids can watch together and talk about it, but if that is not possible, well, I wish you well.
Hi 🙋🏼♀️ love your channel and have learned so much. I’m having trouble with my partners ex not supporting their daughter they have together on making a bond with my child. It’s got to a point that my child was ignored by my partners daughter and allowed to ignore text on FaceTimes when ask to birthday dinner out on her birthday. The ex said when we text it wasn’t about Dana so why should she text an she asked her to text but forgot but it was our child’s birthday.
Tori Larvin, figure out what you have control over and what you don't. Let go of what you don't and work on what you do. That is really all we can do, we can't change other people.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV so it’s ok for my child’s mental health to be effected as my child is besotted with my 11 year step daughter and she is repulsed by a 3 year old child? Even tho she has a 4 year old sister at her home. I’m quite sure it’s Not healthy for the 11 to be encouraged to do this to a increase child. I’m in two minds to call Social services to step in as it is clearly affecting my three-year-old child.
Sadly my ex goes out his way to psychology abuse our daughter and when I take it to the court he turns it all around on me. I feel stuck as he has very heavy energy and as he thinks he is above most people and the law he will get away with what he does behind the scenes. Very manipulative,
How do I compensate for his negative and destructive behaviour towards our daughter?
Grace Kelly, unfortunately you can't change the ex or his behavior. Be sure your daughter know you love her no matter what and even if. Be there for her to talk to and she will understand what is happening as she matures.
Live On Purpose TV thank you so much 🙏
Thank you, I always learn something new to help me grow as a person/parent from your videos!
You are so welcome! Thank you for letting us know that they are helpful.
I have a two year old son, I love him with all my heart, but he yells and growls and runs around like no one is listening to him. I don't know what to do any ideas.... Ps. I can't afford your program but I do need help.
DominusMouse357, check with your local school to see if they have any early childhood educational programs.
But can't feelings be unfounded?
Shady Character, usually there is something behind them. Sometimes it isn't events, but could be chemical reactions. Be careful if you are thinking of other people, it may not be visible why they have certain feelings.
My son hates mistakes, and were having a hard time teaching him they arent bad, they are just a learning opportunity. He gets frustrated and his little 4yr old brain cranks up, the waterworks start and he says things like "I cant do anything!". Its been hard trying to get him to deal with that frustration.
Casey Wilson, wait until he is calm and then talk about a specific incident and show him that everything worked out and act out a proper response if he is frustrated.
Just wanted to be comment #100. Keep it up!
Living Legend, glad you are commenting, thanks.
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Determined To Rise! Love your positivity.
Don't use a kid or teaching them to Manipulate. They well end up Manipulateing you and all those in their life. They are dumb they figure it out.
I think you meant they are NOT dumb. Kids are very smart.
Why is the land of work get the third rule so wrong? They not only saying but they also not saying.
Christina B., I am not sure what you mean, sorry.