4 Signs You're A Mysterious Person And Attractive
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- Опубликовано: 3 авг 2024
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What is your description of a mysterious person?
Timmy
for me, a person that everyone knows but they don’t know them
A complete mystery.
Joe
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If an attractive person is quiet, they are mysterious, if an unattractive person is quiet, they are creepy.
now I see why I cannot be mysterious
@@shikimorisan1527 not every unique is attractive but I understand you😊
@@CAP-rw7ib lmao same xd
@@CAP-rw7ib beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
@@tbnrrenagade9507 LOL Rubbish. Unattractiveness is a real thing
In a world where you get constantly told that you need to be outgoing and social, watching a video like this is very gratifying
The "Mysterion" opening was delightful. Kenny would be proud.
I'm so glad someone else got it!
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I started hearing South Park theme in my mind when I saw the opening
@@Your_local_history.nerd.goin’ down to South Park gonna have myself a time
This describes me quite well but I don't think people around me find these traits mysterious and attractive. It's more like they assume it means I'm shy and socially awkward but in reality I'm just more comfortable with the silence. It's not necessary to talk just for the sake of talking you know...
same
I'd really like to emphasize that last point. To anyone out there struggling with mental health but doesn't want to seem unattractive by coming off as unconfident, I've learned that the best sense of confidence you can exude in such a situation is to own the very fact that it's difficult for you to be confident, yet you muster the courage to try. Be confident in that you're being true to your self, because that self of yours matters. *finger heart*
Thank you so much for the detailed insight. I think you mentioned something very important which is "to own the very fact that it's difficult for you to be confident." Being able to accept the fact that confidence is difficult can give us the courage to own up to our shortcomings and find peace within.
honestly this is true. 3 years ago i used to be socially awkward and not confident at all. i started trying to act like the person i want to be and now i am
Time stamps
0:24 Be an Enigma
2:01 Embrace Silence
3:09 Unique Perspective
4:08 Quiet Confidence
Good lord you're fast
@@snoosh101 it’s my first time being fast enough
@@snoosh101 no context that sounds 😏
@@kaitlyn1377 isn't the last one "quiet confidence"?
@@Phoenix-Saika yes
I'm an introvert (INFP-T), so I'm only comfortable with people that I've known for a long period of time. I also have ADHD and Depression and I need to learn how to be confident about myself. Thanks @Psych2Go for a great video.
Are we the same person??😂
@@rcvaroundtheworld6217fr
I'm an INFP-T! It's good to meet another one!
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. We're so glad that you enjoyed our content. As for your ADHD and depression, have you been getting the help you need such as therapy?
I am are infp too! p.s. I'm sending you a big hug 🫂
I knew I was always mysterious to others but this made me feel even more special and how to enhance my mysteriousness, thanks 😊
I’ve always been the one to find other people attractive whether I let them know it or not and I don’t think I’ve ever really had someone be like that with me in it
Same.
You never know... you might have your own secret admirer(s) 😉 ;)
Same
i hope someone feels like that w me lol oh well ig they don’t tell me but if no one has ever had a secret crush on me it would be so inbarising
Someone might have at one point or might still have but at my age I kinda doubt there’s anyone out there that would, especially because it usually feels like once they get to know me more or see my usual overly weird personality and especially when it comes to anyone who’s known me from certain Internet forums as having been too overly horny, in which lately I’ve been trying to back off on the whole horny stuff, but still for me it usually feels like I’m always being the one like this and not being on the receiving end of it
That's tremendous, I have always felt compelled to pursue knowledge and power in order to contribute to the betterment of humanity. Been seeking a means to be influential and find out more knowledge about the human race and about the things not everyone is destined to know. I wish to fulfill the goal of enlightenment passed down by our forebears~
I can totally relate to your passion, if all that is what you desire then i think it's achievable. Joining the Illuminatus Brotherhood can lead to the enlightenment you seek and more. I am well aware that the idea of this group may sound mythical but it is possible to join.
@@haynesatteh4463 Hi, isn't the brotherhood a myth? I mean sometimes i just feel like it's all just a conspiracy theory.
@@nikascupcakebar Yeah I acknowledge that misunderstanding can occur when people encounter what they don't fully grasp, especially in this internet era. The Illuminatus advocates for the acceptance of all religions. You can look up "Anthony Szymon". Will give you clarity and answers to any questions you might have.
@@haynesatteh4463 oh really, i just saw his website, which is interesting. I will leave him a message.
As a creative introvert, I can relate to some of these traits. I often go to a specific coffee shop and spend time listening to music while doing creative activities. It’s not that I dislike talking, but I’m not good at initiating conversations with random people. Even at work, talking distracts me from my tasks. So I guess I’m somewhat mysterious.
Or you will be bullied if you have these traits. For example, I was bullied at the time because I have many of these character traits, and when the class teacher asked why the other classmates bullied me, their answer was: "She's too different." It depends on the person, some people just can't stand it. It's probably related to peer pressure as well. I don't think of myself as being so different, but apparently others see things differently.
Unfortunately, the world throws too many conflicting messages around these days. They'll say one thing, then attack you when you do it. Being told not to be afraid to be different falls under that category, sadly. It stinks.
That’s horrible, I’m so sorry you had to go through that.
You can bully by that? Normally being introvert make you not stand out that some of my classmate can't recognized me lol. I guess they can't mess with me since I'm physically strong especially when i become college student I think thats where I started to stand out because I'm muscular and a bit intimidating.
I appreciate the nod to Mysterion from South Park
As an introvert I always found people who were more mysterious and quiet way more attractive than others who weren't, always thought it was just a me thing but I guess not!
High five!
Are u a dude or a women?
I am an Introvert (INFJ), 😊 the video is spot on for me! I am quiet, private and reserved. Due to these traits we INFJs came out as a mysterious. ❤
I'm an INFJ, I'm so misunderstood and I'm about to get fired for it.
@@19AGJ86I am sorry for that
Another INFJ right here
Timestamps
1). Enigma 0:24
2). Silence 2:00
3). Perspective 3:07
4). Confidence 4:07
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I'm always quiet and always have been and thought I was that cool mysterious girl. Looking back, I just seemed anti social and awkward 😂
Hahaha same in the sense I always thought I looked socially awkward, but silence can bring so much peace and quiet the mind 💕
Lol
Same with me…but I think it depends on people we are surrounded with. I was surrounded by people who really did not embrace new ideas and different points of view. It was too far from how they perceived their world.
Maybe only a slight difference is attractive, but something really far out of their perspectives does not work well
I wish I had that going for me. Instead it’s just awkward quietness.
I always feel intrigued by your amazing videos, keep on uploading more interesting videos. 😊
Omg I love the Mysterion reference
Immediate South Park reference, lol.
Can you please make a video about: Tips on how to be a good listener, and more self aware. and focus on what others say in a conversation.
tips on how to be a good listener for someone who likes talking and zones out hearing other people.
These videos are really a help to me in understanding myself and others better
That's great! How do you feel about the more recent vids?
I love this topic so much thanks psyc2go
Many valid points. Great video.
I've always kept to myself everywhere I go, unless of course people start talking to me. But I almost never initiate conversation, unless I'm buying something from the store or something like that.
I did notice people gravitating towards me because I'm quiet, I just always thought that maybe they think I feel left out or out of place. Truth is I like wearing my earphones and listening to music rather than doing exhausting small talk that goes nowhere.
Alot of office mates always asks me on the side if I was gay, since they noticed that I always hang out with women. And I'm like dude I'm just eating alone then they come to my table. I'd rather enjoy my meal in silence.
Ive approached social situations as an introvert and got off lucky by interacting in a good way. Its just if I exude "mysteriousness" at first and allow someone into my life to understand more, they'd see that really i am not as interesting as I once seemed to be.
Another thing I think about this kind of attribute is that people try to emulate it, when really its just a natural thing that happens. After a while a person is going to understand more about you, and and will see that "mysteriousness" is a front.
That’s my fear too, people will find i’m too average if i let them know me
@@kimiko495 or they just won’t notice how average you are. Ignoring the fact that you’re probably way less average than you think
0:01 OMG ITS MYSTERION!!!! I never thought that you would include a South Park refrence in your videos!
Ego: You have it because you are tied to it. If you want to be happy you must look past yourself and follow what is
logically for you. RIGHT FOR YOU will not be RIGHT for all. I take from you to show you, It will be ok. I love you and I will never let you go. I will stand with you. I will never let you stand alone. Not my word's, This comes from you. You are making your self's, I am just trying to help you.
A video of infp type of people or other personality types would be amazing!
Good video. I resonate with alot of what was listed. It turns out I was "mysterious" back in highschool. I never knew until my 10 year class reunion when some of the folks i graduated with told me. Turns out that I was just my own unique brand of autistic, and that too I didn't find out until many years later.
THE VOICE IS ALWAYS SO SOOTHING
Love the videos keep up the good work 😊
Thanks for the kind words!
I have found clarity from this. For some time my peers and others who i interact with have describe me to possess a certain kind of allure, much to my interest. Now the idea as to why has improved. My thanks.
Thank you for the video! It helps 😊
What was the take away?
@@Psych2goIt made me realize and accept the fact that I really embrace silence. During my life I can count on 1 hand the people that I have been able to embrace silence with them. Because of that I was never sure how to be with someone and a moment of silence, forcing myself to talk when I did not wanted too. But now I am way more comfortable with it :)
Also I see things with a very different perspective and it made me realize that I don't show that part of me (because of traumas). The very little times that I open up on my point of view, people either ignore me or listen only the beginning of what I'm saying. So thank you for asking 😁
Hello I accidentally subscribed to your channel and I am enjoying it so far I just wanted to say thank you
I'm quite mysterious, I don't think people find that attractive, weirdness rather.
Wow this fits me unusually well. I’m a complete mystery to those around me.
I like when you share quotes from various books. Gives me some ideas of what to read next. I would love if you made a video about psychology related books to read! ❤️❤️
Congratulations on hitting 11M subscribers
A mysterious person is not someone who is silent or introvert, it's someone who knows what to say and what to reveal about himself, because what's make something mysterious is the interest of others so if you stay in your own box no one will show interest in you and you will be seen as timid and weird guy
I luvvv your vid’s I love the work you do for us♥️♥️♥️♥️
This rlly helped tysm!
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I'm 36, lived in three countries and I haven't met anyone that thinks that these personal traits are attractive. Videos like this help to romanticize these type of personalities but the truth is that modern society values very different things
Not everyone likes the same thing, but there is definitly someone out there that's looking for someone like you, so dont give up hopes
I feel like the lyrics
"You used to love his mystery, now he's just exhausting"
Really describe how people feel about me.
when your mysterious and attractive but others don't find you mysterious and attractive
Your voice is so calming😊❤
This is very interesting & find this to be true. Everyone assumes I’m going to point out the same thing as everyone else and don’t notice the other details to find solutions with because they aren’t thinking straight.
WHY IS IT SO GOOD???? THE VISUALS ARE AMAZING HELLO??
Nobody:
me and all the other introverts that we feeling praised in this video 👍
To be mysterious and attraction, first you must be an introvert. An introvert who comfortable in their own skin, know their worth, is confident, good at communication, and respect people, will naturally be attractive
I don't keep my words to myself for any other reason than to observe. So often I see thousands of empty words being spoken that contribute nothing to the conversation, and I find no value in that, so I find it better to let others ramble on endlessly than to give them even more opportunities to continue on saying nothing at all. Especially if there are people that are expressing opinions on subjects they clearly have little to no knowledge on the subject they can't keep quiet about.
This fits me quite well, except for the fact that everyone finds me weird and creepy rather than mysterious. Turns out you have to be good looking and possess something interesting, which I clearly don't
Sometimes in silence the most is said
Hello this really helped thanks 😏
A lot people feel I so mysterious, quite not easy to understand me. When I grow up more, I feel I can't understand myself too 🤣
Thank you PS2 so muchhh❤
Have a nice day 🌸
We hope this video resonated with you and helped you!! How many signs did you relate to?
Hey Psych2Go I wanna thank you guys for helping me find the perfect person couldn’t thank y’all enough
I loved this video
I’m just quiet/introverted and awkward 😻 but if that makes me attractive then yay
I am Mysterion.
I LOVE HOW THERE IS MYSTERION AHAHDHDUS
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i’m a mystery to my best friends and even my parents lol no one rly knows me but at the same time i feel like i don’t know a lot abt myself
People told me often that I am too strong and men are scared by me... I felt hurt but I know I am a strong woman and I value my freedom but... It hurt inside
Im introvert (INFJ)but people don't find me mysterious and attractive..usually i get the words weird, crazy or different thrown around alot lol im ok to be weird, crazy and different..there is only 1 me after all
I am a intravert when im right and a dark empath when im off my psyche meds, so yes im attractive.😊
There will always be haters that want to watch the world burn, judging people on looks and so on, and so on with others pushing beliefs ...but seek in yourself confidence. Well I get this video and hope people choose not to be a hater of themselves or others.
Hey psych2go, can you please do another video on twin flame 🔥 🙏🏻 its been a while 😅
Idk how exactly it happened, but more than twice times, girls I didn't even talk to had a crush on me. My educated guess is some of my friends talked behind my back to them. Those sneaking praisers
I’m just mysterious; everyone hates me.
I LOVE THISS❤❤❤❤
the only bad part about being early is that there’s no time stamps in the comments 💔
I often feel uncomfortable with silence because I was expected to fill in silence in one way or another, that silence was a failure on my part and the other person expects me to say something - I feel like once I'm at uni and start becoming more comfortable with myself I'll begin to feel like I can embrace silence more - I almost hope for a silent moment when neither of us expect anything of each other and we can say everything we need to without saying anything - I just kind of hate that I've been in an environment where I feel almost forced to do the conventional thing to the point that I might have to relearn myself once I can express myself freely
For sure, as you get more comfortable with yourself, the more at ease you will feel :)
I've been called mysterious and didn't understand why... this makes me wonder if it's cause I'm an introvert with the tism
Just watch out, if your misteriousness drops, a person might lose interest very quickly. And when this happens, don't you change for that, trying to keep interest from someone - better kick them in the butt, far away.
0:25 Enigma
2:00 Silence
3:08 Perspective
4:08 Confidence
Confidence is like a lightsaber, its an elegant weapon for a more civilized age yet it can cut people if used incorrectly (yeah i made that up using my confidence how could you tell?)
Gota love the Mysterion (south park) reference at the start
This all is true... if you're a Chad. My Chad buddy gets zillions of choosing signals saying nothing at all. He never even attempts to pick up and gets limitless attention with ladies (intentionally "accidentally") bumping into him or dropping things in front of him. They will laugh at the worst jokes, etc. Just be Chad.
Is there anything to be said about those of us who are geniuses and idiots at the same time?
I have actually been told I’m an enigma before but I wasn’t sure it was meant as a compliment or not. From what I can tell, people aren’t all that attracted to me. I think most people see me as being just plain weird. Maybe if I had more confidence I’d graduate to being mysterious.
I love enigmatic people.
A few people have mistaken my crippling social anxiety and autism for being mysterious. Then I start talking about fighter jets, a book series, or How to train you dragon.
I think i might be autistic asf, but ive been masking all my life, now that i try to be the same way as i would when im alone i feel happier, its like im not pretending to be someone im not, im just me, saying crude things in all honesty, dzncing for no reason, etc, or maybe im judt imagining that i have autism? Idk but i probably have adhd cuz holy damn i cant pay attention for shit, anyway i disgress ( is that english) idk havr a good day mate
Me reading this title, laughing out loud 🤣
Why? Because, this is what people think about me plus they thinks that I have a beautiful face and body features when I feel like I'm not at all 🤧
When I hear the soundtrack in these videos, I get the vibe that I'm at Olive Garden lol.
i think there are different types of 'mysterious'. like there are people who seem mysterious and there are people who r actually really private but they present themselves in such a way that people think they know everything about them. The second case happens to me a lot. people dont know me in depth but i also dont exude any mysterious aura.
Usually when my classmates nd i play truth or dare, they always say- What should we ask you since you are so open. But in reality, they don't even know me at all, like really know me.
How do you do that??
Its weird how well this video describes me, i dont share much about myself but i am open and honest, i will answer questions when asked, but i dont bring up things about myself often.
I am definetly quite silent and talk less than i listen.
Quite often i think outseide the box and bring up new ways to look at things that others didnt think of and that is appreciated in school circles, its something i have been complemented about.
I am somewhat confident, definetly not afraid of people or even confrontation, but it is because i have no problem with being wrong, because if i am wrong and someone shows it, i learn and become less wrong in the future, im also not afraid of admitting that i dont know something, which is a bit counterproductive, but at the same time it shows that im not overconfident.
What i dont see is how this makes me attractive, i dont feel attractive or succesful in the dating scene, being an extrovert would be a lot better or atleast give me more opporturnities which might be the thing i need the most.
When I was younger and in high school into my thirties I was an introvert. These days people tell me to shut up cuz I talk too much. I have nothing to hide my life is an open book on Facebook.
I fit all of these
I am head to toe... Breathtaking
and
Skin to Blood.. Groundbreaking.
It's normal to live by the Worlds theory. If my coworkers would ever come in contact with my online alter-ego, everything would blow up.
You gotta keep them separated.
If I could just master not nervous talking...we would be all set! Lol
of course I am. So secretly in fact that nobody's noticed yet
I'd walk on my own path but on the way people finds me so mysterious , classy .... as if I'm an enchantress
When you're an open book but also unpredictable hey thats me
Open and honest also unpredictable
damn thats crazy totally described me
Mysterion rises!
Wow! There's a Filipino subtitle?! Thanks
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