I'd really like to emphasize that last point. To anyone out there struggling with mental health but doesn't want to seem unattractive by coming off as unconfident, I've learned that the best sense of confidence you can exude in such a situation is to own the very fact that it's difficult for you to be confident, yet you muster the courage to try. Be confident in that you're being true to your self, because that self of yours matters. *finger heart*
Thank you so much for the detailed insight. I think you mentioned something very important which is "to own the very fact that it's difficult for you to be confident." Being able to accept the fact that confidence is difficult can give us the courage to own up to our shortcomings and find peace within.
honestly this is true. 3 years ago i used to be socially awkward and not confident at all. i started trying to act like the person i want to be and now i am
This describes me quite well but I don't think people around me find these traits mysterious and attractive. It's more like they assume it means I'm shy and socially awkward but in reality I'm just more comfortable with the silence. It's not necessary to talk just for the sake of talking you know...
I'm an introvert (INFP-T), so I'm only comfortable with people that I've known for a long period of time. I also have ADHD and Depression and I need to learn how to be confident about myself. Thanks @Psych2Go for a great video.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. We're so glad that you enjoyed our content. As for your ADHD and depression, have you been getting the help you need such as therapy?
I’ve always been the one to find other people attractive whether I let them know it or not and I don’t think I’ve ever really had someone be like that with me in it
Someone might have at one point or might still have but at my age I kinda doubt there’s anyone out there that would, especially because it usually feels like once they get to know me more or see my usual overly weird personality and especially when it comes to anyone who’s known me from certain Internet forums as having been too overly horny, in which lately I’ve been trying to back off on the whole horny stuff, but still for me it usually feels like I’m always being the one like this and not being on the receiving end of it
As a creative introvert, I can relate to some of these traits. I often go to a specific coffee shop and spend time listening to music while doing creative activities. It’s not that I dislike talking, but I’m not good at initiating conversations with random people. Even at work, talking distracts me from my tasks. So I guess I’m somewhat mysterious.
That's tremendous, I have always felt compelled to pursue knowledge and power in order to contribute to the betterment of humanity. Been seeking a means to be influential and find out more knowledge about the human race and about the things not everyone is destined to know. I wish to fulfill the goal of enlightenment passed down by our forebears~
I can totally relate to your passion, if all that is what you desire then i think it's achievable. Joining the Illuminatus Brotherhood can lead to the enlightenment you seek and more. I am well aware that the idea of this group may sound mythical but it is possible to join.
@@nikascupcakebar Yeah I acknowledge that misunderstanding can occur when people encounter what they don't fully grasp, especially in this internet era. The Illuminatus advocates for the acceptance of all religions. You can look up "Anthony Szymon". Will give you clarity and answers to any questions you might have.
As an introvert I always found people who were more mysterious and quiet way more attractive than others who weren't, always thought it was just a me thing but I guess not!
Or you will be bullied if you have these traits. For example, I was bullied at the time because I have many of these character traits, and when the class teacher asked why the other classmates bullied me, their answer was: "She's too different." It depends on the person, some people just can't stand it. It's probably related to peer pressure as well. I don't think of myself as being so different, but apparently others see things differently.
Unfortunately, the world throws too many conflicting messages around these days. They'll say one thing, then attack you when you do it. Being told not to be afraid to be different falls under that category, sadly. It stinks.
You can bully by that? Normally being introvert make you not stand out that some of my classmate can't recognized me lol. I guess they can't mess with me since I'm physically strong especially when i become college student I think thats where I started to stand out because I'm muscular and a bit intimidating.
Can you please make a video about: Tips on how to be a good listener, and more self aware. and focus on what others say in a conversation. tips on how to be a good listener for someone who likes talking and zones out hearing other people.
Ego: You have it because you are tied to it. If you want to be happy you must look past yourself and follow what is logically for you. RIGHT FOR YOU will not be RIGHT for all. I take from you to show you, It will be ok. I love you and I will never let you go. I will stand with you. I will never let you stand alone. Not my word's, This comes from you. You are making your self's, I am just trying to help you.
Ive approached social situations as an introvert and got off lucky by interacting in a good way. Its just if I exude "mysteriousness" at first and allow someone into my life to understand more, they'd see that really i am not as interesting as I once seemed to be. Another thing I think about this kind of attribute is that people try to emulate it, when really its just a natural thing that happens. After a while a person is going to understand more about you, and and will see that "mysteriousness" is a front.
I've always kept to myself everywhere I go, unless of course people start talking to me. But I almost never initiate conversation, unless I'm buying something from the store or something like that. I did notice people gravitating towards me because I'm quiet, I just always thought that maybe they think I feel left out or out of place. Truth is I like wearing my earphones and listening to music rather than doing exhausting small talk that goes nowhere. Alot of office mates always asks me on the side if I was gay, since they noticed that I always hang out with women. And I'm like dude I'm just eating alone then they come to my table. I'd rather enjoy my meal in silence.
Good video. I resonate with alot of what was listed. It turns out I was "mysterious" back in highschool. I never knew until my 10 year class reunion when some of the folks i graduated with told me. Turns out that I was just my own unique brand of autistic, and that too I didn't find out until many years later.
Same with me…but I think it depends on people we are surrounded with. I was surrounded by people who really did not embrace new ideas and different points of view. It was too far from how they perceived their world. Maybe only a slight difference is attractive, but something really far out of their perspectives does not work well
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A lot people feel I so mysterious, quite not easy to understand me. When I grow up more, I feel I can't understand myself too 🤣 Thank you PS2 so muchhh❤ Have a nice day 🌸
0:25 Enigma 2:00 Silence 3:08 Perspective 4:08 Confidence Confidence is like a lightsaber, its an elegant weapon for a more civilized age yet it can cut people if used incorrectly (yeah i made that up using my confidence how could you tell?)
I'm 36, lived in three countries and I haven't met anyone that thinks that these personal traits are attractive. Videos like this help to romanticize these type of personalities but the truth is that modern society values very different things
This is very interesting & find this to be true. Everyone assumes I’m going to point out the same thing as everyone else and don’t notice the other details to find solutions with because they aren’t thinking straight.
I don't keep my words to myself for any other reason than to observe. So often I see thousands of empty words being spoken that contribute nothing to the conversation, and I find no value in that, so I find it better to let others ramble on endlessly than to give them even more opportunities to continue on saying nothing at all. Especially if there are people that are expressing opinions on subjects they clearly have little to no knowledge on the subject they can't keep quiet about.
There will always be haters that want to watch the world burn, judging people on looks and so on, and so on with others pushing beliefs ...but seek in yourself confidence. Well I get this video and hope people choose not to be a hater of themselves or others.
This fits me quite well, except for the fact that everyone finds me weird and creepy rather than mysterious. Turns out you have to be good looking and possess something interesting, which I clearly don't
I have found clarity from this. For some time my peers and others who i interact with have describe me to possess a certain kind of allure, much to my interest. Now the idea as to why has improved. My thanks.
People told me often that I am too strong and men are scared by me... I felt hurt but I know I am a strong woman and I value my freedom but... It hurt inside
To be mysterious and attraction, first you must be an introvert. An introvert who comfortable in their own skin, know their worth, is confident, good at communication, and respect people, will naturally be attractive
A mysterious person is not someone who is silent or introvert, it's someone who knows what to say and what to reveal about himself, because what's make something mysterious is the interest of others so if you stay in your own box no one will show interest in you and you will be seen as timid and weird guy
I like when you share quotes from various books. Gives me some ideas of what to read next. I would love if you made a video about psychology related books to read! ❤️❤️
i think there are different types of 'mysterious'. like there are people who seem mysterious and there are people who r actually really private but they present themselves in such a way that people think they know everything about them. The second case happens to me a lot. people dont know me in depth but i also dont exude any mysterious aura. Usually when my classmates nd i play truth or dare, they always say- What should we ask you since you are so open. But in reality, they don't even know me at all, like really know me.
When I was younger and in high school into my thirties I was an introvert. These days people tell me to shut up cuz I talk too much. I have nothing to hide my life is an open book on Facebook.
A few people have mistaken my crippling social anxiety and autism for being mysterious. Then I start talking about fighter jets, a book series, or How to train you dragon.
I think i might be autistic asf, but ive been masking all my life, now that i try to be the same way as i would when im alone i feel happier, its like im not pretending to be someone im not, im just me, saying crude things in all honesty, dzncing for no reason, etc, or maybe im judt imagining that i have autism? Idk but i probably have adhd cuz holy damn i cant pay attention for shit, anyway i disgress ( is that english) idk havr a good day mate
Idk how exactly it happened, but more than twice times, girls I didn't even talk to had a crush on me. My educated guess is some of my friends talked behind my back to them. Those sneaking praisers
I often feel uncomfortable with silence because I was expected to fill in silence in one way or another, that silence was a failure on my part and the other person expects me to say something - I feel like once I'm at uni and start becoming more comfortable with myself I'll begin to feel like I can embrace silence more - I almost hope for a silent moment when neither of us expect anything of each other and we can say everything we need to without saying anything - I just kind of hate that I've been in an environment where I feel almost forced to do the conventional thing to the point that I might have to relearn myself once I can express myself freely
Im introvert (INFJ)but people don't find me mysterious and attractive..usually i get the words weird, crazy or different thrown around alot lol im ok to be weird, crazy and different..there is only 1 me after all
Dang I might be way more attractive than I thought if this video is truly speaking facts. I'm going to be so confident moving forward. Quiet confident is key 🔑.
@@AhmedSiu-x1e I try to change on the regular and my results are always the same. I'm still in a bad life situation and I don't have any big accomplishments on my belt or anything. I'm constantly underestimated and even when I do something good, it gets overshadowed by my mistakes. Maybe I'm being impatient, although it's been a few years since anything uniquely good has happened to me. I'll take your word for it.
Just watch out, if your misteriousness drops, a person might lose interest very quickly. And when this happens, don't you change for that, trying to keep interest from someone - better kick them in the butt, far away.
I have actually been told I’m an enigma before but I wasn’t sure it was meant as a compliment or not. From what I can tell, people aren’t all that attracted to me. I think most people see me as being just plain weird. Maybe if I had more confidence I’d graduate to being mysterious.
Its weird how well this video describes me, i dont share much about myself but i am open and honest, i will answer questions when asked, but i dont bring up things about myself often. I am definetly quite silent and talk less than i listen. Quite often i think outseide the box and bring up new ways to look at things that others didnt think of and that is appreciated in school circles, its something i have been complemented about. I am somewhat confident, definetly not afraid of people or even confrontation, but it is because i have no problem with being wrong, because if i am wrong and someone shows it, i learn and become less wrong in the future, im also not afraid of admitting that i dont know something, which is a bit counterproductive, but at the same time it shows that im not overconfident. What i dont see is how this makes me attractive, i dont feel attractive or succesful in the dating scene, being an extrovert would be a lot better or atleast give me more opporturnities which might be the thing i need the most.
Me reading this title, laughing out loud 🤣 Why? Because, this is what people think about me plus they thinks that I have a beautiful face and body features when I feel like I'm not at all 🤧
I don't want to be mysterious just to get ppl to think I'm attractive, I want to be mysterious because that's who I truly was before when I started experiencing different types of personalities.. Now the hard part is to discover that part of me again 😭😭
I dont exactly know if I am mysterious to others but I atleast know that the path in life that I want to take isnt conventional whatsoever and often times I get a weird look off people when I get deep in thought and start talking about really philosophical and existential stuff. I dont feel the most confident in like the extroverted way as I am socially awkward however I walk with my back straight and my head up and nothing people says really gets to me. So I guess maybe thats some form of confidence.. or perhaps I've just stopped caring about most things. I'm not sure. Either way, what I will say is, I feel mysterious because of the fact that I like to think more in my own little world and often people in public give me a certain look when I'm just minding my own business. So hey idk just thought I'd share 🤷♂️
It's normal to live by the Worlds theory. If my coworkers would ever come in contact with my online alter-ego, everything would blow up. You gotta keep them separated.
This all is true... if you're a Chad. My Chad buddy gets zillions of choosing signals saying nothing at all. He never even attempts to pick up and gets limitless attention with ladies (intentionally "accidentally") bumping into him or dropping things in front of him. They will laugh at the worst jokes, etc. Just be Chad.
My Problem is, i am an introvert with PTSD and ADHD, because of that i am strong emotional and verbal extroverted, what leads to the Fact that i am an open Book and tell Others everything from me, so that they loose very quick the Interest in me. Those People i am preserved because i am not interested in them are chasing me, and my Crushes always run away from me 😒
@@Psych2goIt made me realize and accept the fact that I really embrace silence. During my life I can count on 1 hand the people that I have been able to embrace silence with them. Because of that I was never sure how to be with someone and a moment of silence, forcing myself to talk when I did not wanted too. But now I am way more comfortable with it :) Also I see things with a very different perspective and it made me realize that I don't show that part of me (because of traumas). The very little times that I open up on my point of view, people either ignore me or listen only the beginning of what I'm saying. So thank you for asking 😁
As one whose primary tongue is silence due to what seems to be a dialect mismatch and i can not find a way to fix that yet, and the fact i am decently intelligent, mother was low end genius, i can say that i do not find this to be accurate at least in the areas i have been so far and am in currently. Then again, due to my 'glitch' i do not socialize much, it has yet to work out right the times i have attempted.
I'm guessing I check all the boxes? Not sure what kind of enigma I am being on the spectrum. I guess an enigma of not showing what's on my mind and just leave people guessing. I'm usually the reserved one so not saying much is natural to me. I also have that unique perspective that sees a lot of things differently. Always had a confident air but still face things like nerve or uncertainty.
What is your description of a mysterious person?
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for me, a person that everyone knows but they don’t know them
A complete mystery.
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If an attractive person is quiet, they are mysterious, if an unattractive person is quiet, they are creepy.
now I see why I cannot be mysterious
@@ChinatsuKano20 not every unique is attractive but I understand you😊
@@CAP-rw7ib lmao same xd
@@CAP-rw7ib beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
@@tbnrrenagade9507 LOL Rubbish. Unattractiveness is a real thing
In a world where you get constantly told that you need to be outgoing and social, watching a video like this is very gratifying
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0:24 Be an Enigma
2:01 Embrace Silence
3:09 Unique Perspective
4:08 Quiet Confidence
Good lord you're fast
@@snoosh101 it’s my first time being fast enough
@@snoosh101 no context that sounds 😏
@@kaitlyn1377 isn't the last one "quiet confidence"?
@@Phoenix-Saika yes
I'd really like to emphasize that last point. To anyone out there struggling with mental health but doesn't want to seem unattractive by coming off as unconfident, I've learned that the best sense of confidence you can exude in such a situation is to own the very fact that it's difficult for you to be confident, yet you muster the courage to try. Be confident in that you're being true to your self, because that self of yours matters. *finger heart*
Thank you so much for the detailed insight. I think you mentioned something very important which is "to own the very fact that it's difficult for you to be confident." Being able to accept the fact that confidence is difficult can give us the courage to own up to our shortcomings and find peace within.
honestly this is true. 3 years ago i used to be socially awkward and not confident at all. i started trying to act like the person i want to be and now i am
The "Mysterion" opening was delightful. Kenny would be proud.
I'm so glad someone else got it!
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I started hearing South Park theme in my mind when I saw the opening
@@Your_local_history.nerd.goin’ down to South Park gonna have myself a time
"Oh my god they killed Kenny!"
"You bastards!"
This describes me quite well but I don't think people around me find these traits mysterious and attractive. It's more like they assume it means I'm shy and socially awkward but in reality I'm just more comfortable with the silence. It's not necessary to talk just for the sake of talking you know...
same
no youre not
I'm an introvert (INFP-T), so I'm only comfortable with people that I've known for a long period of time. I also have ADHD and Depression and I need to learn how to be confident about myself. Thanks @Psych2Go for a great video.
Are we the same person??😂
@@rcvaroundtheworld6217fr
I'm an INFP-T! It's good to meet another one!
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. We're so glad that you enjoyed our content. As for your ADHD and depression, have you been getting the help you need such as therapy?
I am are infp too! p.s. I'm sending you a big hug 🫂
I knew I was always mysterious to others but this made me feel even more special and how to enhance my mysteriousness, thanks 😊
I’ve always been the one to find other people attractive whether I let them know it or not and I don’t think I’ve ever really had someone be like that with me in it
Same.
You never know... you might have your own secret admirer(s) 😉 ;)
Same
i hope someone feels like that w me lol oh well ig they don’t tell me but if no one has ever had a secret crush on me it would be so inbarising
Someone might have at one point or might still have but at my age I kinda doubt there’s anyone out there that would, especially because it usually feels like once they get to know me more or see my usual overly weird personality and especially when it comes to anyone who’s known me from certain Internet forums as having been too overly horny, in which lately I’ve been trying to back off on the whole horny stuff, but still for me it usually feels like I’m always being the one like this and not being on the receiving end of it
As a creative introvert, I can relate to some of these traits. I often go to a specific coffee shop and spend time listening to music while doing creative activities. It’s not that I dislike talking, but I’m not good at initiating conversations with random people. Even at work, talking distracts me from my tasks. So I guess I’m somewhat mysterious.
I am an Introvert (INFJ), 😊 the video is spot on for me! I am quiet, private and reserved. Due to these traits we INFJs came out as a mysterious. ❤
I'm an INFJ, I'm so misunderstood and I'm about to get fired for it.
@@19AGJ86I am sorry for that
Another INFJ right here
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1). Enigma 0:24
2). Silence 2:00
3). Perspective 3:07
4). Confidence 4:07
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
That's tremendous, I have always felt compelled to pursue knowledge and power in order to contribute to the betterment of humanity. Been seeking a means to be influential and find out more knowledge about the human race and about the things not everyone is destined to know. I wish to fulfill the goal of enlightenment passed down by our forebears~
I can totally relate to your passion, if all that is what you desire then i think it's achievable. Joining the Illuminatus Brotherhood can lead to the enlightenment you seek and more. I am well aware that the idea of this group may sound mythical but it is possible to join.
@@haynesatteh4463 Hi, isn't the brotherhood a myth? I mean sometimes i just feel like it's all just a conspiracy theory.
@@nikascupcakebar Yeah I acknowledge that misunderstanding can occur when people encounter what they don't fully grasp, especially in this internet era. The Illuminatus advocates for the acceptance of all religions. You can look up "Anthony Szymon". Will give you clarity and answers to any questions you might have.
@@haynesatteh4463 oh really, i just saw his website, which is interesting. I will leave him a message.
As an introvert I always found people who were more mysterious and quiet way more attractive than others who weren't, always thought it was just a me thing but I guess not!
High five!
Are u a dude or a women?
0:01 OMG ITS MYSTERION!!!! I never thought that you would include a South Park refrence in your videos!
Or you will be bullied if you have these traits. For example, I was bullied at the time because I have many of these character traits, and when the class teacher asked why the other classmates bullied me, their answer was: "She's too different." It depends on the person, some people just can't stand it. It's probably related to peer pressure as well. I don't think of myself as being so different, but apparently others see things differently.
Unfortunately, the world throws too many conflicting messages around these days. They'll say one thing, then attack you when you do it. Being told not to be afraid to be different falls under that category, sadly. It stinks.
That’s horrible, I’m so sorry you had to go through that.
You can bully by that? Normally being introvert make you not stand out that some of my classmate can't recognized me lol. I guess they can't mess with me since I'm physically strong especially when i become college student I think thats where I started to stand out because I'm muscular and a bit intimidating.
Can you please make a video about: Tips on how to be a good listener, and more self aware. and focus on what others say in a conversation.
tips on how to be a good listener for someone who likes talking and zones out hearing other people.
Ego: You have it because you are tied to it. If you want to be happy you must look past yourself and follow what is
logically for you. RIGHT FOR YOU will not be RIGHT for all. I take from you to show you, It will be ok. I love you and I will never let you go. I will stand with you. I will never let you stand alone. Not my word's, This comes from you. You are making your self's, I am just trying to help you.
Ive approached social situations as an introvert and got off lucky by interacting in a good way. Its just if I exude "mysteriousness" at first and allow someone into my life to understand more, they'd see that really i am not as interesting as I once seemed to be.
Another thing I think about this kind of attribute is that people try to emulate it, when really its just a natural thing that happens. After a while a person is going to understand more about you, and and will see that "mysteriousness" is a front.
That’s my fear too, people will find i’m too average if i let them know me
@@kimiko495 or they just won’t notice how average you are. Ignoring the fact that you’re probably way less average than you think
I've always kept to myself everywhere I go, unless of course people start talking to me. But I almost never initiate conversation, unless I'm buying something from the store or something like that.
I did notice people gravitating towards me because I'm quiet, I just always thought that maybe they think I feel left out or out of place. Truth is I like wearing my earphones and listening to music rather than doing exhausting small talk that goes nowhere.
Alot of office mates always asks me on the side if I was gay, since they noticed that I always hang out with women. And I'm like dude I'm just eating alone then they come to my table. I'd rather enjoy my meal in silence.
Good video. I resonate with alot of what was listed. It turns out I was "mysterious" back in highschool. I never knew until my 10 year class reunion when some of the folks i graduated with told me. Turns out that I was just my own unique brand of autistic, and that too I didn't find out until many years later.
Omg I love the Mysterion reference
I appreciate the nod to Mysterion from South Park
I'm always quiet and always have been and thought I was that cool mysterious girl. Looking back, I just seemed anti social and awkward 😂
Hahaha same in the sense I always thought I looked socially awkward, but silence can bring so much peace and quiet the mind 💕
Lol
Same with me…but I think it depends on people we are surrounded with. I was surrounded by people who really did not embrace new ideas and different points of view. It was too far from how they perceived their world.
Maybe only a slight difference is attractive, but something really far out of their perspectives does not work well
These videos are really a help to me in understanding myself and others better
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Wow this fits me unusually well. I’m a complete mystery to those around me.
A lot people feel I so mysterious, quite not easy to understand me. When I grow up more, I feel I can't understand myself too 🤣
Thank you PS2 so muchhh❤
Have a nice day 🌸
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0:25 Enigma
2:00 Silence
3:08 Perspective
4:08 Confidence
Confidence is like a lightsaber, its an elegant weapon for a more civilized age yet it can cut people if used incorrectly (yeah i made that up using my confidence how could you tell?)
I'm 36, lived in three countries and I haven't met anyone that thinks that these personal traits are attractive. Videos like this help to romanticize these type of personalities but the truth is that modern society values very different things
Not everyone likes the same thing, but there is definitly someone out there that's looking for someone like you, so dont give up hopes
A video of infp type of people or other personality types would be amazing!
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This is very interesting & find this to be true. Everyone assumes I’m going to point out the same thing as everyone else and don’t notice the other details to find solutions with because they aren’t thinking straight.
I wish I had that going for me. Instead it’s just awkward quietness.
I don't keep my words to myself for any other reason than to observe. So often I see thousands of empty words being spoken that contribute nothing to the conversation, and I find no value in that, so I find it better to let others ramble on endlessly than to give them even more opportunities to continue on saying nothing at all. Especially if there are people that are expressing opinions on subjects they clearly have little to no knowledge on the subject they can't keep quiet about.
There will always be haters that want to watch the world burn, judging people on looks and so on, and so on with others pushing beliefs ...but seek in yourself confidence. Well I get this video and hope people choose not to be a hater of themselves or others.
I feel like the lyrics
"You used to love his mystery, now he's just exhausting"
Really describe how people feel about me.
This fits me quite well, except for the fact that everyone finds me weird and creepy rather than mysterious. Turns out you have to be good looking and possess something interesting, which I clearly don't
I have found clarity from this. For some time my peers and others who i interact with have describe me to possess a certain kind of allure, much to my interest. Now the idea as to why has improved. My thanks.
Hey Psych2Go I wanna thank you guys for helping me find the perfect person couldn’t thank y’all enough
I am a intravert when im right and a dark empath when im off my psyche meds, so yes im attractive.😊
Sometimes in silence the most is said
I’m just quiet/introverted and awkward 😻 but if that makes me attractive then yay
People told me often that I am too strong and men are scared by me... I felt hurt but I know I am a strong woman and I value my freedom but... It hurt inside
Samee
I workout a lot
To be mysterious and attraction, first you must be an introvert. An introvert who comfortable in their own skin, know their worth, is confident, good at communication, and respect people, will naturally be attractive
i’m a mystery to my best friends and even my parents lol no one rly knows me but at the same time i feel like i don’t know a lot abt myself
I love this topic so much thanks psyc2go
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me and all the other introverts that we feeling praised in this video 👍
A mysterious person is not someone who is silent or introvert, it's someone who knows what to say and what to reveal about himself, because what's make something mysterious is the interest of others so if you stay in your own box no one will show interest in you and you will be seen as timid and weird guy
I like when you share quotes from various books. Gives me some ideas of what to read next. I would love if you made a video about psychology related books to read! ❤️❤️
i think there are different types of 'mysterious'. like there are people who seem mysterious and there are people who r actually really private but they present themselves in such a way that people think they know everything about them. The second case happens to me a lot. people dont know me in depth but i also dont exude any mysterious aura.
Usually when my classmates nd i play truth or dare, they always say- What should we ask you since you are so open. But in reality, they don't even know me at all, like really know me.
How do you do that??
the only bad part about being early is that there’s no time stamps in the comments 💔
When I was younger and in high school into my thirties I was an introvert. These days people tell me to shut up cuz I talk too much. I have nothing to hide my life is an open book on Facebook.
A few people have mistaken my crippling social anxiety and autism for being mysterious. Then I start talking about fighter jets, a book series, or How to train you dragon.
I think i might be autistic asf, but ive been masking all my life, now that i try to be the same way as i would when im alone i feel happier, its like im not pretending to be someone im not, im just me, saying crude things in all honesty, dzncing for no reason, etc, or maybe im judt imagining that i have autism? Idk but i probably have adhd cuz holy damn i cant pay attention for shit, anyway i disgress ( is that english) idk havr a good day mate
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when your mysterious and attractive but others don't find you mysterious and attractive
Idk how exactly it happened, but more than twice times, girls I didn't even talk to had a crush on me. My educated guess is some of my friends talked behind my back to them. Those sneaking praisers
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I often feel uncomfortable with silence because I was expected to fill in silence in one way or another, that silence was a failure on my part and the other person expects me to say something - I feel like once I'm at uni and start becoming more comfortable with myself I'll begin to feel like I can embrace silence more - I almost hope for a silent moment when neither of us expect anything of each other and we can say everything we need to without saying anything - I just kind of hate that I've been in an environment where I feel almost forced to do the conventional thing to the point that I might have to relearn myself once I can express myself freely
For sure, as you get more comfortable with yourself, the more at ease you will feel :)
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Im introvert (INFJ)but people don't find me mysterious and attractive..usually i get the words weird, crazy or different thrown around alot lol im ok to be weird, crazy and different..there is only 1 me after all
Dang I might be way more attractive than I thought if this video is truly speaking facts. I'm going to be so confident moving forward. Quiet confident is key 🔑.
Being silent does not always mean you're mysterious it can mean that you're timid or socially awkward
@@AhmedSiu-x1e rats. People always assume the worst in others.
And you do same thing now, don't always blame other and try to be the best of your self, your world won't change if you don't change
@@AhmedSiu-x1e I try to change on the regular and my results are always the same. I'm still in a bad life situation and I don't have any big accomplishments on my belt or anything. I'm constantly underestimated and even when I do something good, it gets overshadowed by my mistakes.
Maybe I'm being impatient, although it's been a few years since anything uniquely good has happened to me. I'll take your word for it.
I think you have to change your surroundings and be iwth people that respect you and see how awesome you are, i hope you achevé evrything you wish for
I am head to toe... Breathtaking
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Skin to Blood.. Groundbreaking.
Just watch out, if your misteriousness drops, a person might lose interest very quickly. And when this happens, don't you change for that, trying to keep interest from someone - better kick them in the butt, far away.
I'm quite mysterious, I don't think people find that attractive, weirdness rather.
Your voice is so calming😊❤
I have actually been told I’m an enigma before but I wasn’t sure it was meant as a compliment or not. From what I can tell, people aren’t all that attracted to me. I think most people see me as being just plain weird. Maybe if I had more confidence I’d graduate to being mysterious.
Many valid points. Great video.
Its weird how well this video describes me, i dont share much about myself but i am open and honest, i will answer questions when asked, but i dont bring up things about myself often.
I am definetly quite silent and talk less than i listen.
Quite often i think outseide the box and bring up new ways to look at things that others didnt think of and that is appreciated in school circles, its something i have been complemented about.
I am somewhat confident, definetly not afraid of people or even confrontation, but it is because i have no problem with being wrong, because if i am wrong and someone shows it, i learn and become less wrong in the future, im also not afraid of admitting that i dont know something, which is a bit counterproductive, but at the same time it shows that im not overconfident.
What i dont see is how this makes me attractive, i dont feel attractive or succesful in the dating scene, being an extrovert would be a lot better or atleast give me more opporturnities which might be the thing i need the most.
Gota love the Mysterion (south park) reference at the start
Me reading this title, laughing out loud 🤣
Why? Because, this is what people think about me plus they thinks that I have a beautiful face and body features when I feel like I'm not at all 🤧
Hey psych2go, can you please do another video on twin flame 🔥 🙏🏻 its been a while 😅
I've been called mysterious and didn't understand why... this makes me wonder if it's cause I'm an introvert with the tism
I'd walk on my own path but on the way people finds me so mysterious , classy .... as if I'm an enchantress
Im an open book
Ive confident but humble
Im unpredictable
I have a unique and understanding perspective
Im sweet and innocent
Hence im attractive
Now idk if you are humble, but you sounds like a nice person tho, keep it up mate👍🤝
I don't want to be mysterious just to get ppl to think I'm attractive, I want to be mysterious because that's who I truly was before when I started experiencing different types of personalities.. Now the hard part is to discover that part of me again 😭😭
I dont exactly know if I am mysterious to others but I atleast know that the path in life that I want to take isnt conventional whatsoever and often times I get a weird look off people when I get deep in thought and start talking about really philosophical and existential stuff. I dont feel the most confident in like the extroverted way as I am socially awkward however I walk with my back straight and my head up and nothing people says really gets to me. So I guess maybe thats some form of confidence.. or perhaps I've just stopped caring about most things. I'm not sure. Either way, what I will say is, I feel mysterious because of the fact that I like to think more in my own little world and often people in public give me a certain look when I'm just minding my own business. So hey idk just thought I'd share 🤷♂️
It's normal to live by the Worlds theory. If my coworkers would ever come in contact with my online alter-ego, everything would blow up.
You gotta keep them separated.
Love the videos keep up the good work 😊
Thanks for the kind words!
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My best guy friend is quite introverted & he’s the same age as me. 😊
This all is true... if you're a Chad. My Chad buddy gets zillions of choosing signals saying nothing at all. He never even attempts to pick up and gets limitless attention with ladies (intentionally "accidentally") bumping into him or dropping things in front of him. They will laugh at the worst jokes, etc. Just be Chad.
Wow! There's a Filipino subtitle?! Thanks
of course I am. So secretly in fact that nobody's noticed yet
My Problem is, i am an introvert with PTSD and ADHD, because of that i am strong emotional and verbal extroverted, what leads to the Fact that i am an open Book and tell Others everything from me, so that they loose very quick the Interest in me. Those People i am preserved because i am not interested in them are chasing me, and my Crushes always run away from me 😒
Open and honest also unpredictable
Thank you for the video! It helps 😊
What was the take away?
@@Psych2goIt made me realize and accept the fact that I really embrace silence. During my life I can count on 1 hand the people that I have been able to embrace silence with them. Because of that I was never sure how to be with someone and a moment of silence, forcing myself to talk when I did not wanted too. But now I am way more comfortable with it :)
Also I see things with a very different perspective and it made me realize that I don't show that part of me (because of traumas). The very little times that I open up on my point of view, people either ignore me or listen only the beginning of what I'm saying. So thank you for asking 😁
Is there anything to be said about those of us who are geniuses and idiots at the same time?
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Sometimes people who are too extroverted seem to be hiding a lot of deep emotions, which makes me curious
As one whose primary tongue is silence due to what seems to be a dialect mismatch and i can not find a way to fix that yet, and the fact i am decently intelligent, mother was low end genius, i can say that i do not find this to be accurate at least in the areas i have been so far and am in currently. Then again, due to my 'glitch' i do not socialize much, it has yet to work out right the times i have attempted.
Immediate South Park reference, lol.
I loved this video
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I'm guessing I check all the boxes? Not sure what kind of enigma I am being on the spectrum. I guess an enigma of not showing what's on my mind and just leave people guessing. I'm usually the reserved one so not saying much is natural to me. I also have that unique perspective that sees a lot of things differently. Always had a confident air but still face things like nerve or uncertainty.
I have unique perspective!😮
If I could just master not nervous talking...we would be all set! Lol
I’m just mysterious; everyone hates me.