Waiting To Have Sex For Marriage When You Aren't A Virgin
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- Опубликовано: 22 дек 2022
- Waiting To Have Sex For Marriage When You Aren't A Virgin
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It’s so comforting knowing that other Godly women have been in the same situations I have been through so God bless you for being open about your story❤
Thank you! It's so important to remember it's never too late to follow God's law/
I am an unmarried man in my 50's and this is probably the best and most positively encouraging video I've seen on this crucial topic. Beautifully presented, articulate and focused. Everything you say in this video is resoundingly truthful, graceful and delivering. I hope and pray that this video gets many views as young people deffinitely need to hear this.
Ave Maria.
Thank you so much for your kind words. 🤗💕
I love your vids. THANK you ❤️
Thank you for watching and commenting!
Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for watching! I hope you liked it!
Thank you for this video 🙏 my fiancé and I are waiting until marriage. I'm still a virgin; he isn't. I had a friend tell me that I shouldn't wait because I won't know if he's "any good". Not taking her advice but it made feel like an alien 😅
Hold fast to your convictions and values. God plans are always better by far than the world. The world and the devil has nothing to offer. They temp us to abuse the gifts God has given us. Hope you find this encouraging ! I would give anything to do things differently.
I understand the alien feeling! Do not let someone's misguidedness advice you. I'm so glad my husband and I waited. I wish I never experienced anyone but him. When you are married you are committed to figuring it out together and that's a beautiful thing.
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We sell ourselves very short when we have sex before marriage. God has more for us then what we ever dreamed, but we have to follow his plans for our lives. The devil and the world has nothing to offer, they only tempt us to miss use the gifts God has.and cause us to miss the beauty and the Blessings!
Amen! God's way is the best way.
Thanks for sharing your experience and I pray God will continue to bless your marriage. I'd love your insight on something, if you don't mind. Let me preface that this is in no way a judgment on you or anyone else who's had premarital sex. I'm a sinner like you and everyone else. Anyways, I'm a Protestant man who's still a virgin and committed to waiting till marriage to have sex. I've accepted the reality that if God does bless me with a wife, she will likely not be a virgin. At my age, it's just statistically unrealistic to hope for. It's not a deal breaker for me as long as she repented, but I do have some serious concerns. Being a new creation in Christ doesn't always mean earthly consequences go away. I've heard horror stories of even Christian marriages where the non-virgin spouse will get flashbacks of previous sexual encounters with other people. I'd be devastated if my future wife had memories of previous guys flooding in her mind and was subconsciously comparing me negatively with them. So as much as you are comfortable sharing, I would appreciate any advice or encouragement you have for me regarding these fears. Thank you so much for listening and God bless you.
Sin does always have its consequences. I am so grateful to God to say that my past has not effected my intimacy with my husband. I think there are several reasons for this but a big one would be that I had been chaste for a few years before we were together. I also never romanced or longed for any past partners. The only thing I regret is not waiting for my husband because I now know more fully how unworthy they were to be intimate with me.
@@littlegirlarise_ Thanks for sharing! It's admirable you were celibate for years before your husband. Everything you just said really helps put my mind at ease.
I hope you don't mind me saying SC, but you might consider that the Lord may be more than willing to hook you up with someone who may be more chaste than you're expecting. Try to exclude the 'unrealistic' element from your prayer and instead ask Him to find you the one He wants for you. Don't compromise or sell yourself short. I honestly believe, after seeing ALG's video, that any woman worth marrying would a) prefer to wait until marrige and b) much prefer to forget about past encounters and their memories if she really is in tune with the Lord Jesus Christ and believes that marrige is not a 'fait accompli' but a journey of growth in mutual self-sacraficial love. My dad used to call marrige "the great undiscovered continent".
@@ausgoogtube01 Thanks for your encouragement. I know God can make anything happen. Whether He actually does is another story. But you're right, I ought to just pray that He gives me what He wills me to have. Of course, my preference would be a wife who's a virgin. But if she's not, I would hope she has worked hard in getting right with God and doing her best to forget the soul ties she's had with other men. But then again, it's possible God may call me to life-long singleness. Which honestly scares me because I long to be married with kids.
yooo don't talk about these topics openly, imagine hearing your mom talk about this 🙅♂🙅♂🙅♂🙅♂
You don't have to watch if you don't want to hear it. The title and the thumbnail made the topic clear.
My mum died when I was quite young. I'd would have loved if she'd been able to give me such sagelike counsel on relationships from the womens perspective based on her experience and lessons learned when I was a twenty something. A great undiscovered continent isn't explored without at least some discussion.
"Yooo don't talk about this stuff...?"
It is precisely because "this stuff" isn't talked about in families, that there is there is so much misery in haphazzard modern disposable relationships/marriges that have no grounding in faithful love and are doomed to failure. Gods mercy is sooo great that he can turn a misfortunate mistake into a rock solid diamond that should be placed on a stand where all can admire its beauty and wonder at the Mercy of God. No one lights a lamp to put it under a bushel.... No one gets up on a chair with a dark cloak for to cover up a light bulb and then flicks the switch. Scripture even says confess your sins, your misfortunes, to one another for precisely that reason - to let the light of Christ in! When someone lifts the bushel off the lamp or your mom slips into your room and pulls the cloak of the lightbulb - that lets face it she probably paid for 😉 - and you see the mess your room is in, what are you going to do? Put the cloak back on....?