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Hi Soty, thank you so much for discussing this topic. I have seen this happen. The sad thing is, some women are so burdened that they don't even know they are being abused! My cousin works in a small clinic in the Caribbean. She said some women are only allowed out once a week for food shopping, which is when they SNEAK to the clinic for Family planning. some are mothers of 10! Fortunately the service is free, which I guess may not be the case for the woman you discussed. She is in a very unfortunate position of being forced to conceive and having no money or support. I hope she gets the help she needs.
This is why i will always say that education and financial empowerment is a must for women especially if you want to get married. Also ,reproductive health care for women is a must; family planning, contraceptives and even abortion when its necessary for women. Women must also understand that they have bodily autonomy too. Stories like this are so heartbreaking
There’s one woman in my church, she’s pregnant every time like every year 😫 and she works at a pharmacy oh😮 and not to talk down on anybody but they’re not financially stable , you need to see how they drag the children to church under that Sunday morning sun 😢 I feel so bad for those children. Thanks for this video I didn’t even know it was a thing
Nice video sotee. I watch ur videos but this is my first time of commenting. And just to add, a freaking wealthy woman won't have 6children back to back. She knows how important it is for her to make more money. And to be honest most times it is the women that put themselves under this very harsh conditions with the hope that when the children grow up,the children will take care of them.
Please my husband keeping cuming inside me and I’ve been taking post pill since January. I have talked to him about using condom in the past months . Now what if I get pregnant by mistake and it’s not advisable to be taking this post pill . I take it sometimes twice in a month
And he said he is AA… I can just imagine the shock of the woman when she heard her twins were SS. Family planning should be talked about more especially in rural areas as a lot of women honestly don’t know how to go about it or even afford it. Weldone Sotee❤❤❤
Honestly she must have been terrified! I agree about the family planning part. There should be less stigma around family planning and its usage. Thanks so much sis. I appreciate the support.
This is a very dangerous situation for her and those children. She is one bad day away from harming herself and those children. Unfortunately this is also a cultural matter because in some cultures contraception is not allowed by the husband. And women aren't allowed to speak up for themselves. Hope she gets some help.
This is so painful and women keep making themselves victims because we do have choices in life but we most of the times in the name of love do bad decisions and get married for the sake of getting married
I feel bad for married women . I’m sorry to say but most always want to shame single women but they live terribly especially when their partner isn’t wealthy enough .
I’m sorry, but the lady has to take accountability for her part in this. Even if her husband doesn’t “wrap it up”, she should know what to do as a woman to avoid pregnancy. 🤷🏾♀️
I’m not against being fruitful and multiplying, so I don’t think it’s advisable to say all women who born back to back are struggling. However, Nigeria has to work on their healthcare being more inclusive and accessible, majority of Nigerians can not afford healthcare, and that’s such a shame coming from a demographic of people who want to become doctors and nurses. But who are you going to nurse or doctor, if the people you are going to “care for “ can’t afford it so it’s just the title they want. I think men who do this, are down right evil. And I don’t blame the women, why? If you resist sex, 9/10 there will be hostility and that’s just point blank period. Yes, it takes to tango, but if I can’t say no and there won’t be abuse i.e passive aggressiveness, lack of support, weaponized incompetence in the regards of family responsibilities, or financial support, then it’s only one tangoing here. And this goes for women who are financially stable too, it’s an attack on women.
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Hi Soty, thank you so much for discussing this topic. I have seen this happen. The sad thing is, some women are so burdened that they don't even know they are being abused! My cousin works in a small clinic in the Caribbean. She said some women are only allowed out once a week for food shopping, which is when they SNEAK to the clinic for Family planning. some are mothers of 10! Fortunately the service is free, which I guess may not be the case for the woman you discussed. She is in a very unfortunate position of being forced to conceive and having no money or support. I hope she gets the help she needs.
Wow!! That’s so crazy!! 10 children!! Thank you so much for sharing!
Thank you for the spotlight….. this is maternity abuse
Yes it is!
This is why i will always say that education and financial empowerment is a must for women especially if you want to get married. Also ,reproductive health care for women is a must; family planning, contraceptives and even abortion when its necessary for women. Women must also understand that they have bodily autonomy too. Stories like this are so heartbreaking
Very true!!! The story is really heartbreaking and what’s more, it’s not uncommon to hear things like this!
There’s one woman in my church, she’s pregnant every time like every year 😫 and she works at a pharmacy oh😮 and not to talk down on anybody but they’re not financially stable , you need to see how they drag the children to church under that Sunday morning sun 😢 I feel so bad for those children. Thanks for this video I didn’t even know it was a thing
Wow!! It’s even more common that we think. May women wake and realize what they’re doing to the children in the future.
Can I like this multiple times? Love love this topic. Thanks for drawing attention to this pertinent issue.
@@seunvictoria2580 thanks so much for watching ❤️
Nice video sotee. I watch ur videos but this is my first time of commenting. And just to add, a freaking wealthy woman won't have 6children back to back. She knows how important it is for her to make more money. And to be honest most times it is the women that put themselves under this very harsh conditions with the hope that when the children grow up,the children will take care of them.
This is another important angle! Making children your retirement is really selfish! Thank you for commenting.
This is very thoughtful topic.
Very important topic! Welldone for spotlighting it.
Thanks sister ❤❤❤
I enjoy your sit-down videos🤗
Thank you so much! I’ll try to do more!
As much as I want to empathize with her,as a health worker, women do not take advice and also don't take responsibility for their sexual health.
Very valid! Women need to wake up and take charge!
Please my husband keeping cuming inside me and I’ve been taking post pill since January. I have talked to him about using condom in the past months . Now what if I get pregnant by mistake and it’s not advisable to be taking this post pill . I take it sometimes twice in a month
This video is very informative and should go viral ❤
Thank you so much!
Very beautiful hair Sotee.., so hard to get such braids over here ( am jealous)
Aww thank you!
And he said he is AA… I can just imagine the shock of the woman when she heard her twins were SS.
Family planning should be talked about more especially in rural areas as a lot of women honestly don’t know how to go about it or even afford it.
Weldone Sotee❤❤❤
Honestly she must have been terrified! I agree about the family planning part. There should be less stigma around family planning and its usage.
Thanks so much sis. I appreciate the support.
Hey Sotee,
Long time no legal topic.
I've missed this
Aww thank you! I’ll try to do more. Vlogs are easier because it’s just film and go!!
Nice 👍
This is a very dangerous situation for her and those children. She is one bad day away from harming herself and those children.
Unfortunately this is also a cultural matter because in some cultures contraception is not allowed by the husband. And women aren't allowed to speak up for themselves.
Hope she gets some help.
Exactly!! She’s hanging on by a thin thread. I’m glad she reached out. Hopefully someone can help her.
This is so painful and women keep making themselves victims because we do have choices in life but we most of the times in the name of love do bad decisions and get married for the sake of getting married
Exactly!! This idea that because you think you love a man, you have to do everything to keep him!! A damn shame
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How can I talk to her and be friends with her so she can vent when she wants to
The original post is on Instagram @mumconfessions on Instagram
More💪 Barr Soty.
Thank you
I feel bad for married women . I’m sorry to say but most always want to shame single women but they live terribly especially when their partner isn’t wealthy enough .
Truly. A lot of married women are miserable! 😩
please how can we help this woman ?
@@liserecette8768 you can comment on the original post on @mumconfessions on IG.
I hate to sound harsh. But both the woman and the husband are highly irresponsible adults.
You have to consider the age of the lady
I’m sorry, but the lady has to take accountability for her part in this. Even if her husband doesn’t “wrap it up”, she should know what to do as a woman to avoid pregnancy. 🤷🏾♀️
Your point is valid too. However like I mentioned, some people don’t have access to contraceptives for one reason or the other.
Are those forms of contraception accessible and affordable to the average Nigerian woman though?
@@taii_chii6782 Exactly, and not only that, but access to those contraceptives is usually controlled and legislated by MEN!
Sotee what’s the name of your village?
I’m from Buguma
I’m not against being fruitful and multiplying, so I don’t think it’s advisable to say all women who born back to back are struggling. However, Nigeria has to work on their healthcare being more inclusive and accessible, majority of Nigerians can not afford healthcare, and that’s such a shame coming from a demographic of people who want to become doctors and nurses. But who are you going to nurse or doctor, if the people you are going to “care for “ can’t afford it so it’s just the title they want. I think men who do this, are down right evil. And I don’t blame the women, why? If you resist sex, 9/10 there will be hostility and that’s just point blank period. Yes, it takes to tango, but if I can’t say no and there won’t be abuse i.e passive aggressiveness, lack of support, weaponized incompetence in the regards of family responsibilities, or financial support, then it’s only one tangoing here. And this goes for women who are financially stable too, it’s an attack on women.
Very apt!! Thank you for sharing 😊
How can we help her???????
The OP is on @mumconfessions on IG. You can reach out to her.
Nice 👍
Thanks ✌