My Nigerian Husband Stole Our Cars, Abuse Me And My Kids, He Got Me Arrested Please Help Me Part 2

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Комментарии • 531

  • @konwabaxuba9747
    @konwabaxuba9747 2 месяца назад +96

    I remember a time when the Nigerian guys and their Southy girls used to gaslight us saying that Nigerians are not abusive. I’m glad these ladies are coming out and showing us that not all that glitters is gold. The grass is not always greener on the other side.

    • @thatotlhowe
      @thatotlhowe 2 месяца назад

      There's no way someone can be that loud, intimidating, aggressive and not hit women.
      Most Nigerian men are aggressive to each other these women are just blinded by the bag 💰💰💰💰

    • @Ayamangalisaurasalts
      @Ayamangalisaurasalts 2 месяца назад +2

      Question is why now? I am not buying their stories nje

    • @studylive99
      @studylive99 2 месяца назад

      but then South African men are just as abusive nje. Men are men.

    • @debbiesenamela518
      @debbiesenamela518 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Ayamangalisaurasalts most of these men have already gotten what they needed from these women.( Citizenships & using them to concile their crimes)

    • @jasminhassan477
      @jasminhassan477 Месяц назад +1

      Not all are abusive and abuse has nothing to do where you come from ! I am sure there are some South Africans that are abusing their partners..

  • @tremainexichavo60
    @tremainexichavo60 2 месяца назад +74

    Ninja signing in🙏🏼. Im the one who mentioned you on her post(tik tok)❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @putumatiso1590
    @putumatiso1590 2 месяца назад +36

    I know this lady. She’s a beautiful person inside and out.

    • @Ayamangalisaurasalts
      @Ayamangalisaurasalts Месяц назад

      but that does not exempt her from being evil at this point in time. They hear the hype around NGN they want to throw every Nigerian under the bus because of their own doing. She must have her cake and eat it, why must SA help her now

    • @MasesiMakhanya
      @MasesiMakhanya Месяц назад

      You can tell she's a humble person

  • @lathi7659
    @lathi7659 2 месяца назад +71

    This is men's behavior in Africa. I am from senegal and this relates to my history. I have 1 kid and 3 miscarriages because of beating... He was a police officer and not on my favor to get help. I end up running to USA, hired a lawyer and got divorced. Karma is on his back now. It is never easy to leave an abusive partner unless someone opens your eyes. You did well lady. 🎉

    • @khangwelokhangwelo6553
      @khangwelokhangwelo6553 2 месяца назад +2

      nono ninganyi ninganyi what happen to nigerian are better ninganyi don now change nigerian man are the best

    • @ChantelBeauty-m8u
      @ChantelBeauty-m8u 27 дней назад

      @@khangwelokhangwelo6553what are you saying wena? Enjoy isende le Nigerian lakho without insulting women who are voicing out their situations. Uthini? You’re not the only women dating a Nigerian. Siyabazi. Ungazohlanya lana mdidi woknuka!!!!

    • @noccnosie3095
      @noccnosie3095 19 дней назад

      ​@@ChantelBeauty-m8uyaphambana lo Satan uzobona xa emnyisa lama Naija wakhe

    • @khangwelokhangwelo6553
      @khangwelokhangwelo6553 17 часов назад

      @@ChantelBeauty-m8u it went stratight over your head ne 🤣🤣ne im a guy chief akiri that what they always tell us sa man this when they dating this man so they must not change now when things are ugly they must have the same energy

    • @ChantelBeauty-m8u
      @ChantelBeauty-m8u 17 часов назад

      @@khangwelokhangwelo6553 yoooh askies I misread your comment wrongly. sorry buti wam 🙏🏽 I thought it was a lady defending nigerians. ❤️

  • @TheeMsutu
    @TheeMsutu 2 месяца назад +60

    “I can take accountability for staying”- I love that!

  • @Sandiology
    @Sandiology 2 месяца назад +34

    I love this for our generation of telling their stories to teach the next generation. Our mothers were hiding these things and just endured. This is progressive even though we might judge and say ‘ I would never’ it’s a teachable moment for other people x

  • @bettymongatane338
    @bettymongatane338 2 месяца назад +80

    They say Nigerian man are loving I think they are strategic.

    • @flowerlindz
      @flowerlindz 2 месяца назад +7

      Loving = Money

    • @empresscindyofficial4778
      @empresscindyofficial4778 2 месяца назад +3

      God bless you for this…….

    • @Danes14406
      @Danes14406 2 месяца назад

      Yes they said Nigeria they are the best ,so let them stay and suffer with them,I am sorry I don't feel any thing for them,leave us South Africa alone I beg

    • @nokukhanyantuli4420
      @nokukhanyantuli4420 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes bastrategic 😮

    • @nozukompandla2013
      @nozukompandla2013 Месяц назад

      Very strategic.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 2 месяца назад +80

    Mina as a man i want to encourage women to be wise, i know a heart cannot choose whom to love but if you see red flags please run..leave that man... the sooner the better, yes he people can change for the better but sometimes its too risky to be patient or to wait for him to change

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 2 месяца назад +11

      Ladys leave the Nigerians for their Nigerian women they understand eachother nd thrir coniving ways.

    • @thembilenkabinde2907
      @thembilenkabinde2907 2 месяца назад

      Can you be my man?

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 Месяц назад

      If you take the wrong train or flight, the longer you stay on it and the further you go, the more expensive it becomes to get of and get back. This has nothing to do with trains and flights😢

    • @elvisndlovu1232
      @elvisndlovu1232 Месяц назад

      @@thembilenkabinde2907 😜

  • @janekamanga9913
    @janekamanga9913 2 месяца назад +17

    A very sweet person,she has helped a lot of people,you can't sleep without eating or sleep outside when you need help, she will make sure that you get all the help that you want

  • @lucialindiwe3215
    @lucialindiwe3215 2 месяца назад +33

    All these ladies married to Nigerian men have the same narrative

  • @phumlasimandla4641
    @phumlasimandla4641 2 месяца назад +43

    Nigerians does not love us for the first time i dont know why thina sithandana nabo 😢😢😢😢

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 месяца назад +1

      Yimali babe 😘

    • @JONAHOGAR-gl5ub
      @JONAHOGAR-gl5ub 2 месяца назад

      U lie

    • @seuna.8438
      @seuna.8438 Месяц назад

      We love you. Trust me, I know many Nigerian South African marriages that are thriving. Where you meet is very important. If you met him in the nightclubs spending lavishly, I can't really vouch for him.

    • @ChantelBeauty-m8u
      @ChantelBeauty-m8u 27 дней назад

      Leave Igbo men they are bulls!!!! Yoruba are the sweetest

  • @princessdiana9742
    @princessdiana9742 2 месяца назад +20

    This lady is Articulate hle, very fluent and has a good choice of words.❤️❤️❤️...Queen Ninja your questioning 🔥😍👌

    • @dlaminisabelo2482
      @dlaminisabelo2482 2 месяца назад

      Why did she end up marrying the worst foreign national, a Nigerian?

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 2 месяца назад +109

    The husband will be here soon with his side of the story

    • @elizabethsilas3191
      @elizabethsilas3191 2 месяца назад +9

      We won’t listen 😂

    • @thandazah
      @thandazah 2 месяца назад +2

      @@elizabethsilas3191😂😂😂😂

    • @RevoniaManombe
      @RevoniaManombe 2 месяца назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 my thoughts exactly.

    • @hounzagift1250
      @hounzagift1250 2 месяца назад +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @florencemonama2953
      @florencemonama2953 2 месяца назад

      I think this guy is psychotic,but out sister absorbed all that numerous times,what did she make out of this"abhorrent"behaviour, what were you thinking,opting self destructive behaviour..sorry but you brought it yourself,man,please wake up girls even my daughter is going that road,I even send her this footage,hey as an elder are this Nigerians are hypnotizing u,ohh God help our SA daughters!

  • @Nonhlesa
    @Nonhlesa 2 месяца назад +19

    Even South African men does the same to SA women, I guess men don’t love us ladies 😢

    • @khangwelokhangwelo6553
      @khangwelokhangwelo6553 2 месяца назад +4

      no did sa man ever come to say they saints ninganyi for a fact sa man have been insulted for 10 years now remove us from you kak u all said nigerians are the best so now live with ur best ningasinyeli

    • @khangwelokhangwelo6553
      @khangwelokhangwelo6553 2 месяца назад

      no did sa man ever come to say they saints ninganyi for a fact sa man have been insulted for 10 years now remove us from you kak u all said nigerians are the best so now live with ur best ningasinyeli

  • @senyatsisolomonkgolane467
    @senyatsisolomonkgolane467 2 месяца назад +19

    OUR WOMEN, PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM BO EKECHWUKU!!!🇳🇬

  • @_.hlengi
    @_.hlengi 2 месяца назад +16

    Ladies don't let a man show you more than once that they don't want you

  • @Sma_dzadza
    @Sma_dzadza 2 месяца назад +28

    I knew we were going to get the story ngapha….Owani for president 😂❤🤩

  • @LuluthandoNongalo
    @LuluthandoNongalo 2 месяца назад +18

    Thank you owamie for another great episode ❤️Thus far I haven’t seen any Nigerian that’s here to build SA. They are just here to destroy😤😡

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 2 месяца назад +1

      U r smart

    • @gladysmgidi6439
      @gladysmgidi6439 2 месяца назад +4

      Destroying everything..... And I mean everything

    • @kogiman
      @kogiman Месяц назад

      Nigerians are lecturers at your universities.
      Doctors at your hospitals

    • @ChantelBeauty-m8u
      @ChantelBeauty-m8u 27 дней назад

      @@kogimanthen what? Those Nigerian are yorubas or Hausas, no Igbo men coz those are school drop outs, drug sellers and most of South African women fall for them same as Olivia’s husband is Igbo I know!!!!!

  • @MoskwaMoskwa-p3x
    @MoskwaMoskwa-p3x 2 месяца назад +11

    Shame she seem so sweet yaz.....im so glad she left that nonsense of rubbush man😢

  • @queenm2723
    @queenm2723 2 месяца назад +36

    Why do Igbo men like shouting so much? 😂😂😂 haii I'm not their target market because I talk back and scream back and hit back 😂😂😂😂

    • @_.hlengi
      @_.hlengi 2 месяца назад +4

      😂😂😂😂not hit back chile

    • @queenm2723
      @queenm2723 2 месяца назад

      @_.hlengi I know I would 🤣🤣🤣🤣 before he removes his hand from my face, I would've already slapped him back

    • @preciousisiguzo2052
      @preciousisiguzo2052 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ma-unimoikangoa2256
      @ma-unimoikangoa2256 2 месяца назад +3

      even yoruba men

    • @queenm2723
      @queenm2723 2 месяца назад

      @@ma-unimoikangoa2256 hectic 😁😁

  • @trudymonama7975
    @trudymonama7975 2 месяца назад +8

    Weitse keng Wena Owami neh!!!! You are truly a Gem kore being a Ninja ain’t a waste .
    Ninja signing in,I’ll watch later ❤️

  • @kelellomaseli7602
    @kelellomaseli7602 2 месяца назад +22

    For your home in Soweto go to Marshall Street or moja love go to their offices in Rosebank Mall ...you will get your home back.....

  • @ItsMeYourfavorite7
    @ItsMeYourfavorite7 2 месяца назад +14

    Pay attention to your dreams. Even in Bible times God spoke to people through dreams

  • @philasandeplaatjie923
    @philasandeplaatjie923 2 месяца назад +47

    Maku markishwe iregister bahlali!! let's like before watching Ninjas.❤️❤️❤️

  • @MakiMoholisa
    @MakiMoholisa 2 месяца назад +19

    You can marry a foreigner for 20 yes she has his foreign wife they are just using you guys pls love yourself guys da when we tell you guys you tell us we are jealous 😮😮

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 2 месяца назад +4

      Imagine how this ladys children are being treated in Nigeria away from their mother.

  • @SetsabileDlamini-pp9xp
    @SetsabileDlamini-pp9xp 2 месяца назад +22

    She looks like a nice person..she is beautiful may she find healing 🙏.....i realised that we as people do not react the same to abuse, once dated this guy that tried to slap me stopped himself half way ,i never reacted , never showed how mad i was ..i just went home blocked his number and deleted everything of his....2 years after met him aound town ,when he asked what happened between us i was like im not about that life God created me even he has never tried to slap me so who are you?? Because from there it will only escalate

    • @NEOzzzar
      @NEOzzzar 2 месяца назад

      Jollofs boys go for a control button first...they are surgical about it too,it's not an overnight thing😂😂🥱

  • @KatlegoYaBatswadi
    @KatlegoYaBatswadi 2 месяца назад +30

    Let's Just Support Sesi Owami Because We Love Her And We Want Her To Grow ❤
    But I Don't Really Feel Sorry For These Women They Know What They Are Getting Themselves Into 🙌🏽

  • @lacronz6248
    @lacronz6248 2 месяца назад +15

    Your studio setup is the best yhoooo I can't get over it. ❤

  • @madamtt2090
    @madamtt2090 2 месяца назад +20

    I'm so happy right now.🎉🎉😂😂Re rata ditaba phela

  • @nomusabuthelezi5792
    @nomusabuthelezi5792 2 месяца назад +2

    My sister,I wish you strength and peace. This too shall pass. It's not only Nigerian men doing this. Our own South African men are doing this. ❤

  • @hildadavids217
    @hildadavids217 2 месяца назад +10

    My husband's daughter had a Nigerian boyfriend, my husband told his daughter, she must forget about him if ever she proceeds with this man. He didn't ever want to him. He actually helped her and she stopped the relationship and listened to her father. They are bad news when it comes to ill treating women. I don't understand why our fall for these guys. It is part of their culture as this lady stated.

  • @thembakazibidi1640
    @thembakazibidi1640 2 месяца назад +27

    She's telling the truth about their behaviour. It's sad ❤❤

    • @kabelothebe4350
      @kabelothebe4350 2 месяца назад +4

      There where bragging about them today South African are rejoicing they used to bash their SA man throughout the internet KARMA

    • @christopheroscar6058
      @christopheroscar6058 2 месяца назад +8

      what about SA men behaviour you guys have the highest divorce rate and teenage pregnancy

    • @siphamandlamkhize9766
      @siphamandlamkhize9766 2 месяца назад

      ​@@christopheroscar6058its because women have too much rights in South Africa , that is why there's high rate of divorce. South Africans need a lot of sex education to be able to learn to prevent pregnancy.

    • @thembakazibidi1640
      @thembakazibidi1640 2 месяца назад +2

      I have learnt my lesson from both sides 🤷

    • @dot510
      @dot510 2 месяца назад +1

      ​​​​@@christopheroscar6058The problem is being loud. Find your person wherever you want seat down and shut up! They were too loud rubbing their "perfect" choice to even good S.A men and that was uncalled for and disrespectful to our S.A good men. Generalizing all S.A like you are doing now. Find your person black, yellow, purple etc and SHUT UP! 49:44 50:42

  • @BulelwaBulie-y7n
    @BulelwaBulie-y7n 2 месяца назад +21

    Let me suffer with my unemployed south African, at least he doesn't beat me😢

    • @nompfamagoro5380
      @nompfamagoro5380 2 месяца назад +7

      😂😂😂😂 please bring your phone 🫴

    • @dot510
      @dot510 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂

    • @mamososomapolanka3697
      @mamososomapolanka3697 2 месяца назад +3

      Sandile Mantsoe Murdered Pulane. Tshegofatso was, a science graduate was murdered last week so chill😳

    • @juliennesoniamalabomakong9021
      @juliennesoniamalabomakong9021 2 месяца назад

      South African men are the most violent and brutal men in the history of Africa. You can even Google it. There's more gender based violence in South Africa than any other country in Africa. The crime rate in SA is the highest in the world so I don't know about South African men but I can never even date them.

    • @NEOzzzar
      @NEOzzzar 2 месяца назад +2

      Jollofinas won't like it...leave those Satan's alone😂😂

  • @PrettyHlela
    @PrettyHlela 2 месяца назад +31

    These women were warned about Nigerians

    • @hendrinahaikwiyu8149
      @hendrinahaikwiyu8149 2 месяца назад +4

      But they don't listen, woman don't like listening

    • @goitsi
      @goitsi 2 месяца назад +9

      exactly, even growing up we were warned. I know my dad made it a point to tell me that "DO NOT EVEN THINK OF GOING INTO ANYTHING WITH THOSE PEOPLE" I have always just had that at the back of my mind. Many will see this lady's story and still go ahead because of money but one thing for sure, it always ends in tears.

    • @fruitypopwhickle6806
      @fruitypopwhickle6806 2 месяца назад

      What about South African men? Beating and raping their women and children 24/7. It's a men issue.

    • @patienceikombele9161
      @patienceikombele9161 2 месяца назад +5

      Not only Nigerians go watch Lekau's wife interview he is a South African.

    • @hendrinahaikwiyu8149
      @hendrinahaikwiyu8149 2 месяца назад

      @user-oe5ri6pe2z Of course everyone can be an abuser but I thinks they are abit worse

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele3114 2 месяца назад +30

    Childhood trauma unchecked produces more trauma.

  • @tsholofelotwala9353
    @tsholofelotwala9353 2 месяца назад +10

    The way people do not fear God, him including God in this letter meanwhile he lives an unGodly lifestyle. Guys God is not to be tolled with, stop this thing of using His name loosely!!! I pray this woman gets the healing and peace she deserves, no one should ever go thru that, stay prayed up sisi, God will restore you and your kids ❤

  • @ZonkeKwelemthini-ld1pg
    @ZonkeKwelemthini-ld1pg 2 месяца назад +20

    Red flags will always be there....

  • @mandisimaake2497
    @mandisimaake2497 2 месяца назад +8

    She seems like a sweet soul

  • @lucasasigayi91
    @lucasasigayi91 2 месяца назад +8

    Im a SA man im so shocked to hear that even the African brothers are abusive cause the always say that they are cultured they know how to take care of a woman. It has been said that the reason why SAcn man are beating women is because they live without a father but im shocked to see that those claim to be cultured are the one talking about and this is funny.

    • @preciousisiguzo2052
      @preciousisiguzo2052 2 месяца назад +5

      That is a lie Infact our South African man are ways better than them

  • @A-_B956
    @A-_B956 2 месяца назад +13

    South African men have into zabo ezi snaks 😂, but I prefer them shem. My brothers from other African countries will be loved from a distance, and Uncle Cyril will hug them for me at the African Union meetings ...

    • @happiness_moth9295
      @happiness_moth9295 2 месяца назад

      😢😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂he will hug them for you

    • @khumomalete6858
      @khumomalete6858 Месяц назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Sarah_M84
    @Sarah_M84 2 месяца назад +7

    I'm feeling sorry for your kids, this is traumatizing the kids, is damaging their minds.

  • @crimestoriesSA
    @crimestoriesSA 2 месяца назад +10

    HAIBO GET POLICE AND REMOVE THAT TENANT !!!!

  • @malambanemavhadwe1070
    @malambanemavhadwe1070 2 месяца назад +9

    Owamie Owamie! You’re way ahead of your time with covering social issues. I saw other channels are starting to cover the love scammers topic as well. You go girl! 👌👌👌

  • @thobilembuli8571
    @thobilembuli8571 2 месяца назад +13

    It’s weird. Yall are with these men for so long…then suddenly the only thing that matters is that he’s Nigerian? Did you just find out? Come now

  • @zandilengobeni5884
    @zandilengobeni5884 2 месяца назад +5

    Take that tenant to kukithi la on moja love the tenant will be given an eviction letter u can’t be struggling when u have a house

  • @Nomvulamthembu-c1m
    @Nomvulamthembu-c1m 2 месяца назад +5

    This lady is beautiful, I don't know why they throw themselves to a ma Nigerians leaving abobhuti bethu lana,a local is better because you will deal with him accordingly

  • @nomthandazomasango7019
    @nomthandazomasango7019 2 месяца назад +5

    Igbo people hardly marries outside their tribe, is very hard, even in Nigeria they don't mingle with other tribe how much more when you from another country

  • @_.hlengi
    @_.hlengi 2 месяца назад +5

    Any words that don't match with actions are straight up manipution...& that's on Periodt⚠️

  • @walkwithorr
    @walkwithorr 2 месяца назад +10

    The story I wanted to hear. For her to be calling even PA shows how desperate this situation is.I saw another fighting for rent also calling for Gayton🤔

  • @tsakamhlabane9269
    @tsakamhlabane9269 2 месяца назад +7

    Thank you for sharing your story Mama, with so much GRACE🤌🏼🫶🏼

    • @neomalete5832
      @neomalete5832 2 месяца назад

      Yena she has so much grace Shem

  • @Letstalkaboutit2323
    @Letstalkaboutit2323 2 месяца назад +11

    The devil works hard but you work harder O🔥

  • @tombimashri8149
    @tombimashri8149 2 месяца назад +16

    Ladys remember not all Africans/Blacks are the same.

    • @nthabibotsi9855
      @nthabibotsi9855 2 месяца назад

      It's hard to get the good one because one rotten potato makes all the bag of patatoes rotten

    • @nthabibotsi9855
      @nthabibotsi9855 2 месяца назад

      It's hard to get the good one because one rotten potato makes all the bag of patatoes rotten

  • @linahblumrick5781
    @linahblumrick5781 2 месяца назад +16

    I read comments and some are blaming Owamie that she hates Nigerians. This ladies are coming to her and relating their life's experiences with those guys . If you are offended then don't watch ,Owamie never forced anyone to come here

  • @mkatekochuma4309
    @mkatekochuma4309 2 месяца назад +6

    Common sense sistas...do u think a person can just leave Nigeria n come to south africa for love mara...is obvious dey r here to make money

  • @ShirlySebothoma
    @ShirlySebothoma 2 месяца назад +7

    When they say don't go there u go guys 😢😢😢la lapisha

  • @Stylishgirlnextdoor
    @Stylishgirlnextdoor 2 месяца назад +2

    What a sweetheart. 🌸such a beautiful soul.✨May God heal her heart and bless her path. 🧚

  • @MakhadziPreciousShalom
    @MakhadziPreciousShalom 2 месяца назад +6

    Those guys never disappoint xem 😂😂😂

  • @Sterfillah
    @Sterfillah 2 месяца назад +10

    The jollofinas are becoming xenophobic 😂

  • @fikilemtshwenyane3520
    @fikilemtshwenyane3520 2 месяца назад +6

    It's sad that she's going through all of these things,kodwa chaa cc niyawubezelela udodi

  • @pamelakhabo843
    @pamelakhabo843 2 месяца назад +9

    I thought Nigerian men are God's send to some South African women, who diss our Men..

  • @lifewithlee798
    @lifewithlee798 2 месяца назад +12

    Owamie where do you get these ladies 😮😮let me watch

  • @naledindlovu976
    @naledindlovu976 2 месяца назад +14

    Yhoo whee nna I'm tired of Chiddimà's brothers hle 😵‍💫

    • @pamelakhabo843
      @pamelakhabo843 2 месяца назад +4

      😂😂😂😂😂Abuti wa mang ???

    • @naledindlovu976
      @naledindlovu976 2 месяца назад +1

      @@pamelakhabo843 Chichi's brothers chomi 😂🤣🙄

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 Месяц назад

      Abo pap and spinach😂😂😂

  • @mulugisinamadzavho4162
    @mulugisinamadzavho4162 2 месяца назад +2

    The lady she is so calm.. May she plz find healing

  • @neomalete5832
    @neomalete5832 2 месяца назад +6

    You Mara naye even after he beat her kids she still stayed 😭😭😭😭😭like what was her deal breaker /turn off 😭

  • @GossiphiveEnt
    @GossiphiveEnt 2 месяца назад +187

    we are honestly tired of these women though, acting victim after the finances dry up and their banks find new accounts...

    • @theodoraokpewho5829
      @theodoraokpewho5829 2 месяца назад +2

      Abi oh their men are what she is saying now too

    • @nokukhanyantuli4420
      @nokukhanyantuli4420 2 месяца назад +15

      U know all this nigerian wives are not lyyyyyyying 🤞

    • @nomndeni_nxumalo
      @nomndeni_nxumalo 2 месяца назад +7

      @GossiphiveEnt I’m disappointed in you

    • @Blessed_for_life_2023
      @Blessed_for_life_2023 2 месяца назад +21

      True, I'm tired too. If a person have been married for 25 years, why does she keep on mentioning his nationality?? It's irrelevant, because any man is capable. Nna I'm tired of these ladies too, agghhh.

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 2 месяца назад +2

      All I can say is Nigerians can be sweet byt at same time coniving nd plotters womanizers etc so ladys date thrm if u can also play the same games. The Naija women know their guyz nd they know how to play eachother. Women from countrys outside nugeria it doesn t mean bc u all Live nd come from Africa you are the same, Never u nrver ever the same guyz. Bottom line if u cannit play the Nigerian coniving tricks nd games stay away. You ladys work gor yr own moneys stop falling for men bcause of their money nd sweet ralks. Most of these issues come bc of Greed of Money it makes u ladys loose yr senses to extent where u cannot Judge Wisely handsome nd money comes with its own Troubles.
      Nigerians who trully love their children always (when they end the relationship) will take their children to be raised in nigeria bc they say Nugeria s culture, education, sharpness etc is the best nd they will become winners raised up in Nigeria. Lets just hope the children will never 4get their mothers.

  • @tsakamhlabane9269
    @tsakamhlabane9269 2 месяца назад +14

    Something about her, probably God and she will be fine.. sending her more strength 🫶🏼

  • @flowerlindz
    @flowerlindz 2 месяца назад +6

    Honestly guys, besides money? What good is there in dating Nigerian men? Honestly. and im not even judging, just trying to understand

    • @phetolomokoditoa2278
      @phetolomokoditoa2278 2 месяца назад +2

      Nothing zero. Dololo

    • @_.hlengi
      @_.hlengi 2 месяца назад +2

      speaking English all day every day😂😂😂😂😂ngiyadlala😑

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 Месяц назад

      even Imagine not having to enjoy all your money for the rest of your life because a portion needs to be set aside for traveling to their country to visit or just have the family see you, their son and grandkids. Hai no shem

  • @marynamakhoma5477
    @marynamakhoma5477 2 месяца назад +6

    The truth is this woman is foolish a person who is abusing you and cheating in you but you still build apartments in Lagos for him foolishness at its peak

    • @happiness_moth9295
      @happiness_moth9295 2 месяца назад +2

      Yoh 💔 your words 😢. May God bless you and heal whatever that makes you say such words

  • @t23663
    @t23663 2 месяца назад +4

    Personally I am slowly failing to sympathize with these women.

  • @obakengsetshedi2907
    @obakengsetshedi2907 2 месяца назад +2

    Nna my problem is when they mention “God” yhooo i roll my eyes.

  • @TiyaniMbisi
    @TiyaniMbisi 2 месяца назад +6

    Keep these exclusives coming ninja ❤❤❤

  • @CompassionQueen
    @CompassionQueen 2 месяца назад +9

    Are there South African women who are happily married to Nigerian men? Or South African men who are happily married to Nigerian women? Can we also hear from them?

    • @kunbiakins
      @kunbiakins 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you for that question compassionQueen! Negative voices are usually louder than positive voices. When you generalize a country of 250 million people by few you encountered, you are either unexposed or uneducated 😊 I bet there are a lot of more horrible SA husbands but they like to always say ‘ Nigerian husband’

    • @AhHyn
      @AhHyn 2 месяца назад

      ​@@kunbiakins God bless you!

    • @nefefefulu9760
      @nefefefulu9760 2 месяца назад +9

      South African man hardly marry outside south Africa

  • @thomasnkuna4425
    @thomasnkuna4425 2 месяца назад +2

    The very same women was braging of driving Nigerians cars around always eating on expensive restaurants

  • @ronellecandice1536
    @ronellecandice1536 2 месяца назад +8

    She’s so pretty omg🥹

  • @geraldinecupido9852
    @geraldinecupido9852 2 месяца назад +2

    I just can't handle it if a woman got beaten no matter who is wrong or right or lie or telling the truth. I can't handle it if a woman got beaten up by a man there must be other ways of dealing with the problems you facing in your marriage I just hope God can help this woman no more beating please let the sister go in peace. She must get a divorce ask for probono or something just be safe. This is for every woman across the globe. No beating please.

  • @Beingkat
    @Beingkat 2 месяца назад +9

    When i saw her video i was like i need Owamie to interview her😂

  • @lehlohonoloshibambu3198
    @lehlohonoloshibambu3198 2 месяца назад +64

    Jollofinas: Nywe, nywe, nywe nigerian men knows how to treat women 😂😂😂

    • @SunshineZar
      @SunshineZar 2 месяца назад +9

      Jollofs and jollofinas are tiring

    • @maseratiZulu22
      @maseratiZulu22 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂weeeee

    • @nosiphimalaza1974
      @nosiphimalaza1974 2 месяца назад +6

      Nonsense,you're laughing to someone's misfortune,i don't blame you. Remain in ur tembisa location

    • @timesup4454
      @timesup4454 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

    • @Zintlle
      @Zintlle 2 месяца назад +1

      But they do know how to treat women😅

  • @QuenitaNkopane
    @QuenitaNkopane 2 месяца назад +16

    Nigerian man shows u guys flym shym😂😂😂most of woman cme hre dey cry abt Nigerian Man😂😂😂

  • @thomphomuila2292
    @thomphomuila2292 2 месяца назад +4

    Owamie you are good at this 🙌

  • @amish_nakani
    @amish_nakani 2 месяца назад +4

    Yes we wanted to hear the whole story from the best of the best ❤

  • @pearlceecee2326
    @pearlceecee2326 2 месяца назад +1

    She seems like a very nice lady 😢❤i hope everything works out for her

  • @wonkemaqubela485
    @wonkemaqubela485 Месяц назад

    We love you my sister and we are behind you. You are so brave. And beautiful. Life changes things will get better❤❤. Keep praying 🙏 we are praying for you and the kids. Focus on your businesses you will succeed.

  • @othusitsepereko592
    @othusitsepereko592 2 месяца назад +2

    You are beautiful and intelligent my lady so you will come out victorious!
    God is always good
    Just trust in him
    He makes way where there is no way at all

  • @sindiswasheleni262
    @sindiswasheleni262 2 месяца назад +1

    It’s like every time when she mentions something about her history and her contribution to their business I just automatically knew what was going to happen, what he was going to do, when she started mentioning his clan, OMG, I knew, when she said she has a property on her name, I knew, his need for immigration papers in SA, her sending money to Nigeria and her being shown pictures, I knew, people MUST learn from this story especially women in SA, it’s the same case with the women all over the world, they go through same issues, same story, same process, once they ask you have you eaten, then we need to make a baby, then we need to start a business, everything goes very quick, I need to take you to my mum, OMG, that’s not love that’s manipulation, yes there are good one but 80% is not.,

  • @dlaminisabelo2482
    @dlaminisabelo2482 2 месяца назад +3

    Niyaphapha nani sisters. Angithi when you are seriously and madly in love with these things you call us names, you say asibheji , asinaluthando and all that crap. You even say asinikhweli kamnandi njengalezi zinto. Hlalani lapho!!!

  • @TOG292
    @TOG292 2 месяца назад +2

    Owamie, you are a listener❤

  • @sandileN-f9l
    @sandileN-f9l 2 месяца назад +2

    Haibo sista sorry to hear that Thanks for sharing your story i wish all the best you and your kids. .....all can say church ⛪️ is business there were you evils people

  • @jeanineainscough6698
    @jeanineainscough6698 2 месяца назад +6

    I believe her.

  • @ronellecandice1536
    @ronellecandice1536 2 месяца назад +3

    At this point I appreciate this platform

  • @denisemphahlele
    @denisemphahlele 2 месяца назад +4

    Sad, She is well spoken

    • @diiiiiiiiiiii11
      @diiiiiiiiiiii11 2 месяца назад +1

      Exactly what I said, she’s well spoken. I pray the miracle God we serve will come through for her

  • @yvonnelekhafola9833
    @yvonnelekhafola9833 2 месяца назад +1

    Let's wait for the husband side of the story

  • @timesup4454
    @timesup4454 2 месяца назад +5

    How many times has society warned us women about Nigerians !! We grew up sikhuzwa ngabo nina nigijime niziphonse kuwona ! Anisiyeke ngesicefe tuu

    • @TheeMsutu
      @TheeMsutu 2 месяца назад +3

      “Nigijime niziphonse kuwona”😭😭😂sithe sorry😭😂hawu udlame bo😭😭👎🏽😂”anisiyeke ngesicefe” tjo you’re fighting 😭😂👐🏾

    • @timesup4454
      @timesup4454 2 месяца назад

      @@TheeMsutu it's the truth ,ayhi same South African women don't listen. They think with their punanis and when shot hits the fan balokhe bebangela thina isicefe

  • @tholasehurutshe8947
    @tholasehurutshe8947 2 месяца назад +1

    What a beautiful soul,devil doesnt chase after an empty vessel ,im shocked and hurt hleng God wll restore what locusts have eaten in your life,Oli baby,i dnt know you personally, please love on those babies !you will reap the fruits of your labour i swear,God halahle his own,loved u nono 49:14

  • @dipuomanyike194
    @dipuomanyike194 2 месяца назад +2

    Operation Dudula Nhlanhla Lux..." did you even vote madam 😮😮

  • @phozisambola9662
    @phozisambola9662 2 месяца назад +1

    P.A will surely do something! I trust them

  • @salmahramadhani9440
    @salmahramadhani9440 2 месяца назад +3

    I love this woman ❤️ take heart mama 🩷

  • @MotherOfBlackStars
    @MotherOfBlackStars 2 месяца назад +9

    Your daughter threatened suicide if you don’t drop the charges against her abusive dad… umtwana we Nyoka, inyoka indeed.

  • @masanahlungwani5106
    @masanahlungwani5106 2 месяца назад +7

    you are quality content !!!

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb 2 месяца назад +3

    I don’t understand why people are mad Jolofinah’s are the once that are coming to her podcast to VENT..
    The title is RIGHT THERE.. why are you here watching?

  • @mmaphefotseka5285
    @mmaphefotseka5285 2 месяца назад +2

    Sisters after hearing ur story,😢 i now understand, please persue that issue of your mother's house..if u have proof please persue it for you n ur brother,..all the best.