That man had a plan from day one.. the condom probably didn’t burst, he did everything on purpose! He did something to her spiritually hence she stayed😭!! She’s so beautiful, everyone makes mistakes, she must forgive herself & move on with life🤍❤️🥹🥹🥹! She is so strong for sharing this!! That man is evil sham💀💀👍🏾!!!
Exactly the guy never ever loved her he needed a property to use with it’s offspring to get him rich 🤑 I think most Nigerian mission is to get a South African woman that he will have no remorse to sacrifice their womb to devil to keep rich n enjoy with their nigerian women they do us dirty no their own ,if only you would hear how well they spoke of them ,the Nigerian women they be like our brothers work their ass of to make sure we taken care of they’ll do anything 😂😂referring to their scammers
But what confused me more is that sistas says she was given money for after pills & she chose not to buy them, I was shocked even before watching the whole video!
That point Owamie made it clear to her that she was being abused and she was only realising that indeed she was abused as well in that moment. Her heart broke and you could see the pain.. I felt so deeply for her. This is sad💔
@@Star_MoonehMy point exactly, so just because things went south shes now talking. She knew he sacrificed their daughter, she knew he uses girls for rituals but she was quiet coz money was rolling. Now when he doesn't want her anymore she's exposing him? Aiye when u conspire with a murderer u are one too.
It’s not just NIgerian guys I’ve dated a South African guy like this guys the trauma it’s been over 13 years and you don’t recover from such.sending love to our sister ❤
You realise why men d0nt bother 99ja w0men.We kn0w it will never w0rk.Culturally we not compatible,I see h0w they behave here in nairobi & I'm like n00 wayyy
She’s so beautiful, good story teller and very well spoken. Kodwa ngiyamjaja nje 😏. The part where he would speak garbage to her 15 year old girl child and she still stayed 😳 ngeke!
Waze wawahlalela amanyala losisi haibo! She had so many signs to leave that man from the beginning but she stayed. Only ubuthakathi and iidliso are the only things that can make her staying make sense.
She’s so beautiful 🥹🥹🤍🤍! I was stressed when I saw her videosss.. I will definitely pray for you❤️🫵🏾🥹! Thank you for sharing your story, we will learn from it🤍
I am glad she was able to reach out to you to clear the air. She has been through too much poor lady, and she didn't even realize she was being abused. Abuse is both physical and emotional. Bless her heart ❤
Mina nje uwusisi wami. Umithele i naija. Khohlwa angimdlalisi nokumdlalisa nje umtanakhi sorry to say . Mawbheke le ngyamtshela nje kuth uzoba nekhanda elikhulu
Before we ask "Why stay?" "Why did you get married?" Let's remember that sex is a spiritual transaction. Doors were opened when they had that sexual encounter and he took control of her from there. He even knew he left a seed in her. There was no ways she could sense or see any wrong because she was basically hypnotized.
Believe you me, it's so difficult leaving a relationship like this. It's not just signing the divorce papers, it's also divorcing spiritually and nothing is as difficult as that. I believe that the guy wanted to use this woman for rituals like he did with other girls but God was there to cover her and unfortunately in the process she lost kids, herself, her marriage, her happiness and close friends. But God is a God of his own will. He kept her safe for a reason. I hope she heals both emotionally and spiritually ❤may her kids rest in peace❤❤
Dey are all like dat trust me,I know naigerians well well,their intentions is just to use u till u also see vele ukuba u are being used,and its up to u weather u go or stay
@thulisilemasiza1993 I think so but I believe it's because they lure them with money and after they show you that part then their controlling nature comes out
Controlling and most tend to not have good intention when it comes to Southern African women. There's so many like her, she is just brave enough to tell her story publicly.
@@thulisilemasiza1993 Our fellow sisters think that is what they want because money is the motivator and these men give it out like it grows on trees. Behind closed doors, most are suffering in silence.
Without saying much, let me put it out there that a lot of women can relate...😢 I'm just glad you came out alive and you here to tell the tale, safe and sound
We are not at one place we are going somewhere as Pastor Tshifhiwa Irene used to say,we are now experiencing another level of grace. People are exposing the dirty kingdom of darkness. JESUS CHRIST CONTINUE TO CLEAN.
she is brain washed and never experienced healthy love, may God help her experience true genuine love . guys being abused affect ones reasoning and mental well being. Remember she is used to being accused , abused , gas lighted all her life
Final comment to Linda. Walk away...from this blood money and see how JEHOVAH GOD ..will carry u thru. Don't carry bad luck with u abd expect no tepurcussiobs
It explains ALOT; their relationship with all these women, buying them luxury things etc isn’t love? So it’s transactional? Sleeping with women brings these men money?. Woooow.
@busisiwemichelle5391 That ish is wild. Had me thinking is he spiritually monitoring her after doing things on a group of ladies and his spiritual microscope detected she's the one that it caught on? Yohhhhh
Hold on. there's something fishy here 😢😢Linda now knows exactly 😭 how hubby accumulated his monies but she still demands her shares and drives those cars that were bought with these dirty monies😢😢😮Nathi si thandi mali man....red red red flags all the way but jeez she's doing nothing...
Had that condom not burst, she would have avoided all this trauma 😢 my heart really goes out to her, praying that she will find solace and healing ❤❤❤❤
I like how you said "its a good car" , you had to 🤣😂😂 you gave it when it mattered. Thats his only compliment in this story Love and light to my sis Linda ❤
To my sisters with Naija men .Please make me understand why are most of them Naija guys loud ,can publicly be rude ,aggressive .I have come across that aggressive behaviour evwn in ladies when you try to explain something to them .They struggle to have a healthy debate ??
😂😂😂am a pilot by profession,I work and went to school with a few.I think the ones in the streets are a different breed🤞🏾. First time meeting ppl from Nigeria was at flight school in Wonderboom airport Pretoria, very nice calm ppl.
@@_molebogeng6281 🤣🤣🤣 I understand you, and yazi when you know the tribes. You get to understand which tribe is mischievous 😂😂, I worked that's side for 4 years. There are those classy calm ones, even them don't like engaging with the loud ones🤣🤣🤣
Yoh I know this lady in braamfontein in Joburg 😮shame hey So sorry sisi ,please please pray pray be consistent with your spiritual life ,marriage and sex is a convent which needs to be broken spiritually if they are no more together ,these cult people are strong especially if you don’t have a personal relationship with God .
Something is not make sure. The fact that she dogged some questions. Especially the one yokuthi where is the money for porshe and landrover came from? Thanks for Showing her love Owami❤
Exactly. Sometimes as women we refuse to make an honest assessment and identify our role in the mess we find ourselves in. Our role could have been ‘I turned a blind eye…’
from my obsevation on this story this nijerian man plant his seeds to all this woman that’s why when this beautiful lady got pregnant he feelt or new ditlhare tsa lenija le. But after all muti dont last forever wa phopa at the first it it verry clear that he had used muti for this lady from the very first beginning of the relationship. All I can say as a woman practise praying all the time as a protection from this kinds of things. May the living God of the Univers protect and guide as women all women.
Amen 🙏 whenever someone threatens you with evil spirits you tell them! god will never leave your side and show them you don’t care because you are gods child and those evil spirits he is sending to you will make a uturn and take over him 10times harder
She’s telling the truth I have worked with these people from that part of the world, that’s exactly how they behave. 100% she’s telling the truth 😢 poor woman
Nigerians are born of the same mother I swear 😢😂😂. I’m sorry for what you went through sis Linda, I’m yet to listen to the whole story. I hope you’re at a better place now.
I had a Nigerian male friend (JUST FRIENDS). He never ever admits when he is wrong instead he will find something to blame me. Yoh I was like BYE. I can't imagine what his girlfriends are going through
May God be with Linda and protect her from this evil being she's about to divorce, may her baby rest in peace she's reveling everything and protect her mom
That man is a narcissist and then some....the gas lighting, projecting his insecurities onto her and his intent on driving her nuts. It's so heartbreaking that this beautiful lady didn't see the physical abuse as such because the psychological and emotional abuse was way more horrible. I'm so sorry for what you had to endure love, and may God heal and vindicate you❤🫂
Mara why did she stay? From the Beginning of the story nje, not even once did I hear that maybe they were inlove etc.. yhoo. I’m confused. Everything was so manipulated. To even agree to marry him sisi?. 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️
@@ofentsemorwane7896 so you would rather stay in a loveless marriage? What exactly are we teaching our daughters?💔🥺😭😭 For him to feel so comfortable to mentally abuse and swear at her mother?.
I understand everything this woman is saying and people aee asking why why why, if you have not experienced a narcissist you would never understand. I am a Nigerian woman living in Nigeria and have experienced this sh*t. I am sorry Linda.
I'm so sorry my sister ❤❤..I used to dat someone from limpopo he use to beat me every day use to insult me saying I'm cheating...always he is right..but now I thank God for helping me to come out.
Go To TV Station As Well. God Is Your Protector. Show His Face To The World. If You Are Sure He Is A Murderous Ritualist, Do Not Touch His Money. Or Any Property That He Acquired After Your Daughter Death.
Nagana fela "I've checked up with all these other girls 😮" tjoo🤦🏾♀️🤷🏽♀️🤔 There were many red flags, even at the ceremony... I also kinda blame you. You loved him and wanted to make it work. May the healing of the creator reach you. You've been through and seen tingz tjo🙌🏾
My Queen Ninja! Beautiful as always❤.. You are such a good interviewer , like top of the list for me. You should do a video on how to conduct interviews for us aspiring to be! Much love from Kenya! Also guys, pray for my country. We are having a situation currently 💔. Thank you!
When we say leave Nigerians alone you say we are jealous. Let them marry their own. I am sorry for what you are going through. Marry from your own people.
You didn't even wonder how he knew that someone was pregnant f9r him? Something didn't warn you? That was the first red flag that he was into Something. Even if he said he had a dream. For him to even say that he checked with other girls is also a huge red flag 😮. I'm a Nigerian hailing from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤❤
That man had a plan from day one.. the condom probably didn’t burst, he did everything on purpose! He did something to her spiritually hence she stayed😭!! She’s so beautiful, everyone makes mistakes, she must forgive herself & move on with life🤍❤️🥹🥹🥹! She is so strong for sharing this!!
That man is evil sham💀💀👍🏾!!!
You are so right. Spiritual coercion is real😢
Exactly the guy never ever loved her he needed a property to use with it’s offspring to get him rich 🤑 I think most Nigerian mission is to get a South African woman that he will have no remorse to sacrifice their womb to devil to keep rich n enjoy with their nigerian women they do us dirty no their own ,if only you would hear how well they spoke of them ,the Nigerian women they be like our brothers work their ass of to make sure we taken care of they’ll do anything 😂😂referring to their scammers
Definitely there was foul play. He is a wizard
😢😢😢😢😢🙈🙈🙈🙈
But what confused me more is that sistas says she was given money for after pills & she chose not to buy them, I was shocked even before watching the whole video!
That point Owamie made it clear to her that she was being abused and she was only realising that indeed she was abused as well in that moment. Her heart broke and you could see the pain.. I felt so deeply for her. This is sad💔
Let's not judge this woman, sometimes you recognize red flags when your out of a situation.
True, but red flags 🚩 🚩 are not obvious like him telling her straight that I sleep with so many women because a sangoma told me too 🙅🏾♀️
@@Star_MoonehMy point exactly, so just because things went south shes now talking. She knew he sacrificed their daughter, she knew he uses girls for rituals but she was quiet coz money was rolling. Now when he doesn't want her anymore she's exposing him? Aiye when u conspire with a murderer u are one too.
Empathy guys
True and as women lesson is work and earn your own money,
Uyanya we will do it
It’s not just NIgerian guys I’ve dated a South African guy like this guys the trauma it’s been over 13 years and you don’t recover from such.sending love to our sister ❤
I think Linda is lying
@@MJohnson2you must be the husband's friend...well I believe her
He knew what his plans were. Not letting you and the baby to bond.
Kuncono ngoba òwala
You realise why men d0nt bother 99ja w0men.We kn0w it will never w0rk.Culturally we not compatible,I see h0w they behave here in nairobi & I'm like n00 wayyy
You need a TV show...sis Owami....you are doing good with your channel ❤🎉
Na. They’ll control her content
@@lindelodonkor4485 yha thats true also🤔
Very True. Ever Since I’ve Followed Her, All Her Videos Are Raising Awareness To All Of Us, Especially Us As Young Women. We Are Learning A Lot..
RUclips is the new TV darlin’
Moja love must give u a slot Owamie
Cha muhle lo sisi🥺. Kind hearted, patient, light spirited. Her guy was not her match from the beginning
She’s so beautiful, good story teller and very well spoken.
Kodwa ngiyamjaja nje 😏. The part where he would speak garbage to her 15 year old girl child and she still stayed 😳 ngeke!
😂😂😂
@dollymagojo7130.... I am too.
Bamdlisile soze ,, this is abnormal in so many levels
Waze wawahlalela amanyala losisi haibo! She had so many signs to leave that man from the beginning but she stayed. Only ubuthakathi and iidliso are the only things that can make her staying make sense.
@@noxzienocturnal4544 something wasn’t normal.
The way Im enjoying it when people go in details. Its like I am there. We are experiencing these things Together. We are within Mam...
You are me, I am you.
Same here😊
Such a detailed story
😁 you must like gist 😊
As women we need to start loving and putting ourselves first. You can't endure so much abuse and choose to stay if you know your worth.
Money
Remember they also use juju on you so that you stay.
Please be kind coz love it’s blind and we dnt know what happened between 2of them
It's not like u never been fooled by a boy
Something is not adding up with this story.
"there were moments here and there" 💔 Lord heal this lady emotional and mentally
🙏🏿
Owamie this is exclusive, u deserve ur flowers girl
She’s so beautiful 🥹🥹🤍🤍! I was stressed when I saw her videosss.. I will definitely pray for you❤️🫵🏾🥹!
Thank you for sharing your story, we will learn from it🤍
When i tell you the red flags were waving from the North,South,East and West.. It should've been Chai at that moment but we live and we learn
I think he gave her love portion first so that he will use her the way he wants
@@khululiwemazibuko Right?! Because there's just no way😭😭
What we sometimes call love is just pure slavery, we learn from our experience ❤
Yes its slavery no more love anymore.God is going to answer your prayers.
I am glad she was able to reach out to you to clear the air. She has been through too much poor lady, and she didn't even realize she was being abused. Abuse is both physical and emotional. Bless her heart ❤
My heart goes out to Linda.
Thank you for being brave enough to share this, many will judge but God knows your heart God knows your story.❤
May God console and protect you
God wani. Aybi unkulunkulu akanaskhat semsanganonje
Mina nje uwusisi wami. Umithele i naija. Khohlwa angimdlalisi nokumdlalisa nje umtanakhi sorry to say . Mawbheke le ngyamtshela nje kuth uzoba nekhanda elikhulu
Before we ask "Why stay?" "Why did you get married?" Let's remember that sex is a spiritual transaction. Doors were opened when they had that sexual encounter and he took control of her from there. He even knew he left a seed in her. There was no ways she could sense or see any wrong because she was basically hypnotized.
Finally someone said it. And it takes ALOT to finally get out😢
Believe you me, it's so difficult leaving a relationship like this. It's not just signing the divorce papers, it's also divorcing spiritually and nothing is as difficult as that. I believe that the guy wanted to use this woman for rituals like he did with other girls but God was there to cover her and unfortunately in the process she lost kids, herself, her marriage, her happiness and close friends. But God is a God of his own will. He kept her safe for a reason. I hope she heals both emotionally and spiritually ❤may her kids rest in peace❤❤
We need to pray that these kind of men never even look into our direction, these things are more spiritual than we can ever think
Indeed life is spiritual
@@Chrisykay sadly highly so, especially in this age in time where people have normalised the opposite of being holy
From the beginning this guy had no pure intention.he had a plan
And he didnt make that a secret, the way she narrates, there was clearly no joy there
🤞🏽
He never loved her.
Dey are all like dat trust me,I know naigerians well well,their intentions is just to use u till u also see vele ukuba u are being used,and its up to u weather u go or stay
@@lesegosetshedi1559the
Dating Nigerian guys is extreme sports 😮
Am telling you 🤣😅.. Fear factor
West African man are controlling, but South african women please please help yourselves make right decisions in regards to Dating
Some tribes in ALL West African countries indeed. Demons
But it seems like that is what SA women prefer
@thulisilemasiza1993 I think so but I believe it's because they lure them with money and after they show you that part then their controlling nature comes out
Controlling and most tend to not have good intention when it comes to Southern African women. There's so many like her, she is just brave enough to tell her story publicly.
@@thulisilemasiza1993 Our fellow sisters think that is what they want because money is the motivator and these men give it out like it grows on trees. Behind closed doors, most are suffering in silence.
Without saying much, let me put it out there that a lot of women can relate...😢 I'm just glad you came out alive and you here to tell the tale, safe and sound
They can relate whether the man is local or foreign 😢
We are not at one place we are going somewhere as Pastor Tshifhiwa Irene used to say,we are now experiencing another level of grace. People are exposing the dirty kingdom of darkness. JESUS CHRIST CONTINUE TO CLEAN.
The fact that she wasn't just physically abused but she still says "I don't think he was an abuser" yoh!
She is going to move on to the next Nigerian man.
That through me off
Eish, I hope not
She was brain washed, many women think that abuse is when the guy put a 🔪 on your neck.
she is brain washed and never experienced healthy love, may God help her experience true genuine love . guys being abused affect ones reasoning and mental well being. Remember she is used to being accused , abused , gas lighted all her life
Trapping women with pregnancy is a real thing. It’s possible that he took off the protection and claimed it burst
She says she did not take morning-after pills, that puzzled me
@fjhkerwoiero00 so if she didn't take the pills it means she want the pregnant
@@fjhkerwoiero00I took it one time and I still went pregnant....
Guys we really need to check up on the Nigerian wives around us. Those people are going through the most😢
nigerian women are wives not side chicks they go to church not night
clubs
The chic of those jollofinas!
@@mecharamorula4660😂😂😂😂
@@mecharamorula4660I don't even know Nigerian wife
That's the most beautiful thing one could say, please really be empathetic towards them... our stories are shocking
Guard your wombs ladies!
Amen love thanks love 💋🥰🙏🙌
Say it again. Be careful Ladies otherwise your life will never be the same.
🎯
Final comment to Linda. Walk away...from this blood money and see how JEHOVAH GOD
..will carry u thru. Don't carry bad luck with u abd expect no tepurcussiobs
Writing this as I watch a 12 minutes AD , I guess I can finally certify myself as a NINJA. 😂😂
yay 🎉Ninja
It explains ALOT; their relationship with all these women, buying them luxury things etc isn’t love? So it’s transactional? Sleeping with women brings these men money?. Woooow.
True , it was sex ritual 😢
Immediately when she said he was in movie business, I thought of adult movies. With all these girls 😢
Owamiiiiiiieeeeee my heart and prayer go out to Linda 💔💔💔💔.
But where is part 2?
Where is part2 Owamie tjoo am so invested in this story😭😭😩
Same😭😭
I am also waiting for part 2
Waiting for p2 🫣
Its there😂😂😂
This is really sad and it's happening
Ay kodwa naye u gal🙆🙆🙆🤔🤔 there were a lot of red flags😩😩
How did he know that you where pregnant which means he was doing dark staff before you got married
@busisiwemichelle5391 That ish is wild. Had me thinking is he spiritually monitoring her after doing things on a group of ladies and his spiritual microscope detected she's the one that it caught on? Yohhhhh
Most intelligent question so far😮
My point exactly
Thats exactly what i thought. This man hard done dark magic before sleeping. This child was planned from long ago that he will be sacrificed.
Wait what happened to the premature baby? She did not explain after leaving hospital
I feel like this guy hypnotized ugirl because how come she continued to stay with him after all the horrible things he did and said to her😮
Hey darling they stay no matter what they experienced they're under these men's spell ask me I know😢
she is big so maybe has an inferiority complex
Nigerian men have a good way of convincing you. Ask yourself how they succeed in scam.
I wish Gogo Manzini was here adding to the conversation.
Especially when she talks about the men sleeping with different girls and their wives knowing about it. This is living proof. 💯
Imagine that!
And say what? That guy is not God , he only knows things of darkness that we don't have business messing with.
This man was a narcissist full stop ✋ sorry to hear about what you went through.
Ritualist in this situation 😢
She did well for coming, we misdudged her a lot, now its all making sense
Same hey I definitely misjudged her when I saw her video but hearing her explain it makes sense
Yes we did. Even listening back to Owamie's comment video it was very accusatory. I am glad she came to clarify everything
That Nigerian guy did not love this gal for the first time he just using her
All of them they are like that
So true ngama users@@mthemburosemary498
They are like that most of them hence we keep advising our girls to stay away from them but ke
They don't have relationships with SA ladies for love .They hold on for what they will benefit & you also get bribed for it .
What is he using her for?
Linda is so beautiful and put together. I hope you value yourself and know your worth now.
Muphandi Studios 🎙 😍 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤ keep on winning queen Ninja ❤
Hold on. there's something fishy here 😢😢Linda now knows exactly 😭 how hubby accumulated his monies but she still demands her shares and drives those cars that were bought with these dirty monies😢😢😮Nathi si thandi mali man....red red red flags all the way but jeez she's doing nothing...
She is still wearing a Dior
My question exactly...
I feel Sorry for her but you definitely have a point there....😅
That’s exactly what came to my mind.
What would you do?
The bravery of dating Nigerian men should be investigated
Hahahahhahahahahahaaha
😂😂😂😂
@@MphoRavele-nm6ehhe is a mad man
@@sanelefavorkukulela8007 all of that talk you still with himog i cant take any more
😂😂😂😂😅
OWAMIE, OWAMIE, OWAMIE, how many times did insay your name. Sis you are on a keague of your own. Your growth is admirable ❤❤❤❤❤
Had that condom not burst, she would have avoided all this trauma 😢 my heart really goes out to her, praying that she will find solace and healing ❤❤❤❤
I like how you said "its a good car" , you had to 🤣😂😂 you gave it when it mattered. Thats his only compliment in this story
Love and light to my sis Linda ❤
😂😅😅😅😅
Yoo moved in with your furniture to someone u didn't know😮
She was bewitched this one from day 1
I was also surprised by that
Something is not rite with all the story she cum out with let us hear from the other side 1st
Gogo Manzini would’ve been a nice touch!
She must start being present in such spiritual segments she would know exactly what to ask
No she was going to talk a lot and this lady wouldn’t have gotten a chance to speak freely the way she did ❤
@@juliadamons5447 true I only realize it now when I watch previous videos..
What job is he jobbing is wild...😂😂😂
Is he a jobber or does he have a business? 😂
He works at work [in Simz rights voice]😂😂😂😂
@@GodsFavourite2024😂🙌🏾
@@GodsFavourite2024🤣🤣🤣 exactly
Coke Dealer
Why is it that most Naija men in SA have had a late girlfriend / wife ?
Money rituals!
Mmmmhhhh, that part. Late wife, late gf, crazy exes, jealous exes...
Money rituals 🤞
🎯
The way I'm scared of Nigerian mens😮
My goodness Owamie... My heart and than it stopped. Where is Part 2???? And I also hope that she explains how she got the courage to leave...
😂😂 A Nigerian guy who fixing phone 😅
I'm dead
@@mtungwavusi270 RED FLAG😂😂😂
😂😂😂kodwa yini na Mtungwa 😅
To my sisters with Naija men .Please make me understand why are most of them Naija guys loud ,can publicly be rude ,aggressive .I have come across that aggressive behaviour evwn in ladies when you try to explain something to them .They struggle to have a healthy debate ??
😂😂😂am a pilot by profession,I work and went to school with a few.I think the ones in the streets are a different breed🤞🏾. First time meeting ppl from Nigeria was at flight school in Wonderboom airport Pretoria, very nice calm ppl.
@@tebalelomarobane8496😂😂ayyy mina I only know the not so calm ones ene ba ya rasa yoh 😪
@@_molebogeng6281 🤣🤣🤣 I understand you, and yazi when you know the tribes. You get to understand which tribe is mischievous 😂😂, I worked that's side for 4 years. There are those classy calm ones, even them don't like engaging with the loud ones🤣🤣🤣
It's a front. Their bite is louder than their bark. Don't mind them. Shout back 🗣️
Yoh I know this lady in braamfontein in Joburg 😮shame hey
So sorry sisi ,please please pray pray be consistent with your spiritual life ,marriage and sex is a convent which needs to be broken spiritually if they are no more together ,these cult people are strong especially if you don’t have a personal relationship with God .
Something is not make sure. The fact that she dogged some questions. Especially the one yokuthi where is the money for porshe and landrover came from? Thanks for Showing her love Owami❤
Exactly. Sometimes as women we refuse to make an honest assessment and identify our role in the mess we find ourselves in. Our role could have been ‘I turned a blind eye…’
from my obsevation on this story this nijerian man plant his seeds to all this woman that’s why when this beautiful lady got pregnant he feelt or new ditlhare tsa lenija le. But after all muti dont last forever wa phopa at the first it it verry clear that he had used muti for this lady from the very first beginning of the relationship. All I can say as a woman practise praying all the time as a protection from this kinds of things. May the living God of the Univers protect and guide as women all women.
WELL SAID AND DONE.
The funny part you pray together 😢ngeke ube spiritual like those ppl njengokuba heartless kwabo
Amen 🙏 whenever someone threatens you with evil spirits you tell them! god will never leave your side and show them you don’t care because you are gods child and those evil spirits he is sending to you will make a uturn and take over him 10times harder
She’s telling the truth I have worked with these people from that part of the world, that’s exactly how they behave. 100% she’s telling the truth 😢 poor woman
Blanket statement. I could say same if SA men based on my interaction with a few.
@@Emily-vd4nm yea right 🙄
@@brendonmartin9737 I feel sad for you.
I wonder how people jump to conclusion without hearing the other side of the story. There are 2 sides to a coin.
This lady knew exactly what was happening.
She sounds exactly like that … she knew and she was a part am sure right now there is some conflicts
Nd thy busy giving them children
It was all for Gucci, the life style and appearance.
@@deemoteka6755 did the premature baby also pass away?
If she really want divorce and she is sure that the man is ritualist, she should leave his properties and run for life to avoid any consequences
Nigerians are born of the same mother I swear 😢😂😂. I’m sorry for what you went through sis Linda, I’m yet to listen to the whole story. I hope you’re at a better place now.
exactly 💯 Nigerians are born of the Same mother but South Africans were born of different Farmers 😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅
@@amajoy2SouthAfricans are like Kenyans 😂😂😂
What i noticed is us ladies ingore red flags at 1st , if U check all failed relashionships the problem starts on the beginning
I had a Nigerian male friend (JUST FRIENDS). He never ever admits when he is wrong instead he will find something to blame me. Yoh I was like BYE. I can't imagine what his girlfriends are going through
Hhay Mamncube how is that possible "just friends" with a Nigerian 😮
You lied y'all want to be relevant 😂
@@sifisosithole9631 Why not? are they not worth being friends with?
@@lindaberry9993 alright
Why lie, you were thinking of dating him 😂 nothing wrong with that
May God be with Linda and protect her from this evil being she's about to divorce, may her baby rest in peace she's reveling everything and protect her mom
That man is a narcissist and then some....the gas lighting, projecting his insecurities onto her and his intent on driving her nuts. It's so heartbreaking that this beautiful lady didn't see the physical abuse as such because the psychological and emotional abuse was way more horrible. I'm so sorry for what you had to endure love, and may God heal and vindicate you❤🫂
Not all that glitters is gold!
Yoooo why do women have to go thru this because of money eishhh
Does the nigerian guy gliter?
@@gordenmg4966dense.
Mara why did she stay? From the Beginning of the story nje, not even once did I hear that maybe they were inlove etc.. yhoo. I’m confused. Everything was so manipulated. To even agree to marry him sisi?. 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️
I think the fact that she was already pregnant was something that made her stay. I think she considered that she would have been a single parent of 2.
@@ofentsemorwane7896 so you would rather stay in a loveless marriage? What exactly are we teaching our daughters?💔🥺😭😭 For him to feel so comfortable to mentally abuse and swear at her mother?.
Yes its confusing why she continued staying with him. Mybe he jujued her brain washed her not to leave. Its fishy somehow n the giving birth part😢😢
54:27 that man was a narcissist. So heartbreaking 💔 may God heal you
Wow this is so unreal..miscarriages is not easy..i hope she finds healing and may God protect her and her family always 🙏
I like how you get clarity Owami❤great way of asking questions
Am really struggling to understand how this lady stayed for this long with this guy if she struggled from day one...
Same, worse marry him ayi
He did something to her no way😭
Same here🙄🙄🙄
Sounds like it was spiritual from the get go. Remember he knew she was pregnant before she did. She was already hypnotized.
Probably used Muti on her
Owamie you are working girl!🙌🏽❤️❤️
I don't understand or maybe im forward. How many times did she get pregnant,or how many children did she have with the guy?
I understand everything this woman is saying and people aee asking why why why, if you have not experienced a narcissist you would never understand.
I am a Nigerian woman living in Nigeria and have experienced this sh*t.
I am sorry Linda.
Oh man this is heartbreaking, I hope we all learned from this, this guy hated her and couldn't hide it,Keep up the good work Owami❤
Your questions were on point my Wammie.❤❤❤
Owamie please get her to come back,her story is very interesting, and she has a lot to share..
Thank you for telling your story. We all need to be careful.
She enjoyed everything until it was her child that was sacrificed.
I'm so sorry my sister ❤❤..I used to dat someone from limpopo he use to beat me every day use to insult me saying I'm cheating...always he is right..but now I thank God for helping me to come out.
The hair is looking so so good
Yaaaaassss Queen Ninja 🎉🎉 Thank you for bringing us this exclusive 😅
Go To TV Station As Well. God Is Your Protector. Show His Face To The World. If You Are Sure He Is A Murderous Ritualist, Do Not Touch His Money. Or Any Property That He Acquired After Your Daughter Death.
Asking them about how they meet their partners,how was life leading to trouble after they introduce themselves.very important👏👏👏well done Owamie
The guy had a plan from e beginning,he never had good intentions
Nagana fela "I've checked up with all these other girls 😮" tjoo🤦🏾♀️🤷🏽♀️🤔 There were many red flags, even at the ceremony... I also kinda blame you. You loved him and wanted to make it work. May the healing of the creator reach you. You've been through and seen tingz tjo🙌🏾
Owami bring part 2 right now!😭😭😅
Yes please 😢😂😂
Kunini ngithi "yhoo"😩😩😩😩
Lapho mine ngitsi "aaayy" 😂😂😂
@@nolwazincongwane5850 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 nam ngishaqekile shem.
Kuningi 😢😢
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I can't wait to hear the whole commentary
I love how she corrected her when she said that indeed he is an abuser. Changing that mentality right there and then is amazing!
My Queen Ninja! Beautiful as always❤.. You are such a good interviewer , like top of the list for me. You should do a video on how to conduct interviews for us aspiring to be! Much love from Kenya!
Also guys, pray for my country. We are having a situation currently 💔. Thank you!
what situation do you have in Kenya?
I have a new born baby she's 2 weeks old have never felt this pain .I can imagine loosing my daughter..so sorry for your loss
When we say leave Nigerians alone you say we are jealous. Let them marry their own. I am sorry for what you are going through. Marry from your own people.
They say south African man are not romentic
@@nefefefulu9760 The romance comes with a price.
And their meaning of romance is money😢 apparently a guy who gives you money is romantic 😅
Why you marry him after doing this on the wedding
@@marvellousphiri3649witchcraft is real please dont blame her
You didn't even wonder how he knew that someone was pregnant f9r him? Something didn't warn you? That was the first red flag that he was into Something. Even if he said he had a dream. For him to even say that he checked with other girls is also a huge red flag 😮. I'm a Nigerian hailing from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤❤
I know few ladies who are trapped in this "marriage" with Nigerians, these ladies are professionals.
Are they being controlled as well?
Hi Owami, this was a very interesting and sad episode. Please plug me with the hair. It looks amazing
I have a question, when were they having making babies because this does not sound like she was ever happy.
I just returned from Johannesburg and I loved it. I just had to throw that in. Hope things work out for you.
You went through a lot my lady. Please love your self enough from now on.
When her videos came out I felt a bit of judgement towards her in this channel. I am happy she came in to speak her truth.
Notification 🔔 gang 😊
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Omg part i gai weh owami vhathu😅can't wait
Wow Owamie. This is a big one🥺❤️❤️