Lack of empathy, serial cheater, gaslighting, projecting, controlling, lack of accountability, smear campaign, serial liar, emotional and financial abuse, very concerned about how people perceive him/he - all signs of Narcissist Personality Disorder
Every man who is bad to his wife is good to everybody that's why people don't understand when you are telling them how you are being treated coz they are soo good to everybody else
they sell us dreams and we fall for them, only when we are already too deep in then we realise it was all a trap. Believe me if we were prophetess' we wouldn't be where we are right now. But i am glad that you wont fall for such.
I'm here listening to her and wondering why I relate to her story. I divorced the guy....cold turkey, i blocked his entire family and friends, I left contact with him cause we have a child together, after sometime he didn't want to parent anymore, he blocked me. .. I think. And I cut my losses. The rest is history.....I'm remarried by the grace of God!!! I don't know people like this existed before the dude......people are very wicked. It was Hell divorcing the dude.
Nigerians are not for everyone shame. I knew I could never keep up with the bullying. 2 months was enough for me. I can never be with someone who doesn't like me. I hope you heal Sisi❤
He's a ritualist according to Linda,but you're still living with him,having kids with him...eating his money?My sister fix ur family,no family's perfect including my own.I m a Nigerian living here in South Africa,there's a lot of south African ladies in Nigeria..being in peace with their family members that side...you never trust him,that was the reason you hav not even visited Nigerian,even without ur childrens..you're shouting on lin targeting his properties!
I'm also scared of Nigerians. I have this guy who tried to ask me out but the way he speaks, loud with pigeon English makes me anxious and steals my peace. Would not date a Nigerian shame.
He is a narcissist. I went through this same miserable marriage 20 years ago. Thank God I'm alive today. You will survive, just put your trust in God. ❤❤❤❤
@@giftedchild9490 narcissists are very manipulative and convincing. They have a way of making sure that when they speak everyone believes that they are victims. Never fight a narcissist, just walk away and block them everywhere. If you try to fight them, they will destroy you and the little reputation you have left. They are so wicked and evil and very manipulative
It was just God. That certificate God just blinded his eyes. Yhooo my sister please leave that man alone. Get a divorce and start from scratch with your kids. God is there. Cut all ties. Don’t contest anything.
Nigerians need to be delivered and healed from ,ancestral witchcraft. Was married 28 year's, two children and it was very demonic, to be honest I honestly don't believe what that ate warring against, I God's mercy,salvation and deliverance... in Yeshua name
As a Professional Nurse and Nursing educator who worked in a Neonatal high care and ICU, also peads ward. I can tell you this was a Cradle or Cot death mama. My condolences but that is a natural cause or death. The confusion and everything else came in because of the loveless marriage, God knows why you wanted to be married to this man but I also tell you that this was not witchcraft or whatever. The lady had so many red flags herself that it didn't make any sense on so many occasions. Her story didn't add up and I came from the 1st part, all this was just a venting session .
I think she liked the lifestyle… I know she feels ashamed to say but its nothing to be ashamed of WOMEN like things. She didn't want to leave coz of the lifestyle
That's how my baby brother passed, he went to sleep and never woke up😢. I'm told he was soooooo beautiful. I dont remember him. We dond have his picture at home! I hope she mourns the baby and heal
There is a Zim lady who had to get contributions from the Zim community globally to run away after being stuck there & they wanted the kids .Each time live videos came up with her talking were sad .Now she is back in Zim & she says she wont set foot there .
Hhai kabi neh when you find time yekani ama foreigners especially Nigerians... for a lot of them you are just a means to an end ...I wonder why did she even enter into a relationship with this guy because from the onset there was no love from him...but keh
My Sister almost died because of a South African man who did isithwalo with her son sow not all man are the same whether from here or outside the country but we all have our thinking and it will never be the same 😢
@itztocanoel12 so sorry for that but let me elaborate on this...the chances of foreigners especially those illegal doing horrible things is much much higher...a lot of times they date because of desperation or scamming rarely ever for love...and I'm talking specifically on foreigners
@naledindlovu976 I 100% agree with you. I wish my own sister could come tell her story on these podcast because Wow. She got arrested because her Naija guy used her bank account for scamming old white woman. Thank God she did not spend a lot of time in jail, but it affected her
I am just wondering what made Linda to brush off the morning after pill especially for a stranger at the time, I mean he ghosted her for a month after they slept together. His sangoma lady warned her which to me was eye opening enough but she still stayed. Legale thanks for sharing my dear.
@@thatotlhowe Ladies, this woman's encounter with this man was deeper than any imagination and physical measures judging from the story. Surely There was alot of forces at work and she wouldn't have just acted within her norm. Life is spiritual and if you meet a master manipulator you may just wonder at the end of it that was that even u to begin you with😔
To survive marriage with a Nigerian give it to him gbas gbos. Have your own money and show him you can survive without him. He will shame you and do whatever he wants because he is feeding you. Never leave your job and never become a housewife. If this woman lived in Naija that man would have killed her long time. It’s just that they are in SA and it won’t be easy for him.
Him leaving for 7 days might have been his way of healing but i dougt he loved you and most nigerians have no emotions amagogogo nje and this is how they probably treat their women back home or saw their fathers treating their mothers outt of 100 you'll find 10 nigerian men with emotions and loving loudly and right and in my opinion i tbink ibo nigerians see women as objects
Truths nd also poligomy set ups the children fight eachother the mothers always fighting eachother no love respect. Endless competitions nd jealousys for eachother, their mothers fighting eachother children get involved it's just crazy madness. An honest Nigerian once told me what u see in their moveys majority of it happens in reality.
Someone said they r now marrying muzungu s. Yes true but Muzungu s will not take all the bull they will leave if not treated with respect. I m sure if ,(muzungu) white lady is rich or comes frm rich fam they sign a prenuptial agreement nd he will never know their worth. THE only ones they may fool are the old Granny's dateing the young Nigerians although investigators are now getting involved as its getting out of hand.
Linda described the father of my child to the T.....Only now I realise how traumatized I was....I always tot something was wrong abt me that made that man treat me like that.....Nigerian men are broken nhe?
In 2021 when I lost both my parents. I was dismissed and invalidated when I grieved and cried. A week later somebody’s son filed for divorce because he couldn’t stand me .
@@nolwazincongwane5850This is not the right time to say such. It makes you look like this heartless evil person. Let's be considerate to other people's situations
@@nolwazincongwane5850it’s true and very sad that we aren’t to say that because we’re portrayed as these evil people.What happened to this sister is horrible and I so wish every other woman can take from her story and other’s stories so they can run away from Nigerian men.Unfortunately it is true that some of them don’t wanna listen and learn.I hope this beautiful woman heals from all this heartache
I remember she was saying he started getting money when the baby passed on. But she was gifted a car while she was pregnant with the baby. I’m confused. Sis hlanganisa your stories.
Exactly my point. It’s just a goal digger who didn’t get her way, now she mad things didn’t go as planned so she orchestrated this whole thing Akers you guys as long as it’s Nigerians you will always side with South African girls even when they are evil lol. She sounds more like someone who rushed to twist the story before she gets exposed. Remember she also lost her previous husband. I hope the son she has won’t pass away .
I think the baby girl was kinda like the last sacrifice, remember she said she had a miscarriage early 2019 or so after the son, n she thinks she's had more is just tht she doesn't know cause she'll be in her period then no period for a while, n remember the sleeping with the girls from tinder, that's how the money for the car came from I think. I stand to be corrected though
Linda plz start the utube...God has made u to pass thro this painful experience to help, empower a lot of women out there..u are a women of colour ,a really imbhokodvo... God is alive, do not fear...
Ijooo Linda! I wonder why you stayed in that relationship? Imagine why someone saying he loves you and he does not like your child. You were so brave my dear to enter that relationship with your daughter.
Kunini ngithi yooooooo 😢...My sister you need to break the covenant,only God can save you . Blessings and strength to you and you are so beautiful ❤,Owamie well done shbooboooo
I’m so sorry for all that happened to you after listening to your ordeal with this boy. There are certain things/rules attached to this ritual thing. I’m not a ritualist but a good mom for my children ( they are grown up. Eldest 42yrs old and the youngest is 20yrs old) and my grandchildren. He’s not allowed to give you the money because it’ll have a negative impact on him but he can spend it on people that surround you which explained why you weren’t paid and being denied of handling money. He dare not treat a Nigerian lady like that because he knows that they will catch up with him. Not all Nigerians are like that but I respect you for your bravery and your subtle ways of handling everything. The Lord is really on your side and please don’t relent in your prayers. I pray that God will give you double for your loss and give you your own husband in Jesus Name. The Lord will protect all your children and nothing will happen to any of you IJN.
Please I’m in this kind of situation in which my husband has never given me money but gives everybody around me money. he will personally make sure he buys everything needed at home, toiletries, food stuffs, even things like Maggie and salt. I must say I was hypnotized bcos my eyes did not open until after 18 yrs with 3 kids
@@tombimashri8149Easier said than done. Until it happens to you. We’re ignorant of spiritual things. By the time we find out the truth, it’s already too late, we’ve lost everything including our sanity - literally dead man walking. I’m still shocked that it’s him who called her to tell that she’s pregnant with his child 😮
Some of the pieces of your story reminds me of myself with my ex Nigerian hey... These men are something else and I thank God I forgot and forgave all.
I dated a yahoo boy from nigeria we separated when he started phushing me to marry him because he wanted south african Document and to be honest they dont just spend their money anyhow and they dont pretend their red flags will be there from day one, i remember for me he was honest from day one that we should first make a baby so that even if his family does not like me they will accept me for the sake of the baby in their culture they dont abandon their blood. He told me from scratch that he is getting his money from robbing ladies online . He said he loves me and want us to marry so he can get South african Passport and document. I still love him but we separated we met 2017 and separated 2022.
@@siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN I do have empathy but after 1st child with a narcissist you continue to have a second one cha ngeke. Just an opinion nje
@@Savebygrace-it eyy oe uyakhohlwa kuthi all of those guys from the west Africa they are using umuthi ohamba nezilwane can I send you another link then ubuye Kimi cos ozokuzwa kuyona will open your mind to realise how low then can be if bafuna kuthwala ngomuntu esaphila
They say never say never but me never... This lady also... I judge especially when it comes to the kids... No man on this earth will disrespect my kids never.... She negotiates too much
I've always been taught not to let my emotions cloud my analysis of stories, especially sad ones that can provoke or manipulate feelings. However, this particular story doesn't add up for me. The guy supposedly bought her a Range Rover while she was pregnant and a Porsche before they lost the baby. Typically, in stories involving rituals, the sacrifice is made first, and then the rewards follow once the sacrifice is accepted. But in this case, her husband apparently bought expensive cars and then performed the sacrifice afterward. When she mentions seeing money in the bank but claims ignorance about its source, it's hard to believe she didn't know where it came from. Perhaps she can't talk about it because she benefited from the activities and doesn't want to appear complicit rather than a victim. Losing a baby is undeniably painful, and no woman deserves that. However, some of us are not kids. Yes, your husband was a narcissist , unfaithful and an A**hole but your ritual story raises doubts. The host asked her how did she come to conclusion that he performed a sacrifice , her response was based on his history of infidelity and the divorce. Finally close to end she answered that its sangomas and prophets that told her he did sacrifice the child, this could be lair’s, again if you live with a ritualist in the same house you can definitely tell by the strange things which will happen in the house eg foot steps or sounds none of that was her evidence.and yet Again, she still drives the same Range Rover supposedly bought through ritualistic means involving the blood of her child. Sorry, but this story sounds like a woman who is being taken advantage of and now she’s just fighting back..therefore part 3 is waste of my time
@@PrivilegeMbali Speaking of rituals, not witchcraft, in the case of miscarriage, blood is typically required. Most victims are instructed to use a bucket to collect the blood by the perpetrator. However, in her case, there's no evidence of this. It's hard to believe she doesn't have first-hand evidence if she was living with a ritualist. But only sangomas and prophets are her source. Again, Owami should have inquired whether the day she was crying on TikTok was the same day she discovered or told her child was sacrificed. If not, then she must have been crying for other reasons.
It’s so sad that she had to be exposed to such a traumatic experience. No one deserves what she has went through and I have learned that we respond to things a different way. She might have really not seen what she was getting herself into and unfortunately there’s spiritual covenant that have been built. I really hope the grace of God locates her and release her from any bondages built against her. She should run and not walk away🥹😭
The guy never loved you sisi .IyakhethwA indoda ongayizalela . Women must learn to love them first and choose them all the time.walk away from an abusive partner. Inkinga enkulu yilama Gucci nama Range Rovers.
But why is she still using the cars from this guy..thats blood money property,and her daughters blood..she needs to get rid of everything that is from that guy
I also dont understand. Why use the cars vele mara vele I mean dont they remind you that they were bought with your child's blood. Something is off with this lady, she claims the guy treated her bad but when a guy suggests a divorce she begs him to stay now she wants half of his money. Bakithi kudlalwa ngathi Lana
Yoh, this guest takes forever to get to the point, i kept on losing her. It was like she wanted a way and time to answer correctly without implicating herself. She got a land-rover when she was pregnant, now jikijiki all these cars came after the child's death. Nna im confused kannete.
Guys! We understand women are suffering ,we understand abuse affects people,but let’s see this story for what it is.WRONG FOUNDATIONS, coming to haunt you,now that you end up in a loveless marriage,You want to secure a bag. But don’t explain all these things to get sympathy,No guys.
I'm sooooo triggered 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢I just left a 22years marriage from a Nigerian man who had almost the same character as your husband. I'm also in Alberton please Linda let's hook up.
@@PromiseMoropa Mostly have narcissistic personalities, even the ones who married in their countries, my Nigerian sister in laws are always crying the only difference is in their culture, most women don't have a voice.
What do you do for a living, you SA women will always disappoint Nigerians, when things are good you guys stick, but when things is going bad you guys start misbehaving
I'm also a victim who got married to a narcissus husband. I just left the man, we have lived together for 20yrs. Finally I left early this yr. In marriage matter how u try to make things work if its not going u can't change it 💯. What I learned in marriage is that from day one in ur relationship don't compromise. Assuming that no he will change especially those rich men. They can not. They have no emotion. They have alots of prides bec of their wealth. Some don't know that they grace u have , as u live together it enhance their growth in wealth.
I listened to your story. It is very touching. How did you put up with your husband I felt so sorry for you my lady. Be strong, and take care of your son. I am so sorry for your loss, l know how it feels to loose a child. God bless you and your son. Praying for you.🙏 Divorce him, In God you trust.
The story of my past life! Thank God both my kids are still alive by the grace of God. I can relate to EXACTLY R200 petrol, and so MANY other things she said.
I get how sad this story is but I still can't shake off the fact that she remained in this marriage for so long and never thought of leaving I mean you clearly lived a horrible life but you had the chance to leave🤧🤧ayi south african women ndi xakekile ku ngoku
I think she was under a spell or idliso or something because she was okay single. Maybe she shouldn’t have had sex that first time. It’s so sad but we must be kind to her. It can happen to anyone, you too
Lack of empathy, serial cheater, gaslighting, projecting, controlling, lack of accountability, smear campaign, serial liar, emotional and financial abuse, very concerned about how people perceive him/he - all signs of Narcissist Personality Disorder
Absolutely! Narcissists are not capable of love for anyone not even their children.
Every man who is bad to his wife is good to everybody that's why people don't understand when you are telling them how you are being treated coz they are soo good to everybody else
True
Totally agree
That’s a fact.
That's what we call narcissist. They are very cruel and manipulative, they are good on their evil game, they are good outside bt not with the partner
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Please women choose the fathers of your kids wisely
Problem it's LandRovers, Gucci's etc
Men lie... 🫠
they sell us dreams and we fall for them, only when we are already too deep in then we realise it was all a trap. Believe me if we were prophetess' we wouldn't be where we are right now. But i am glad that you wont fall for such.
@@koke9297You have to know no one can give money for free, even your parents want u to pay them
People change
I'm here listening to her and wondering why I relate to her story. I divorced the guy....cold turkey, i blocked his entire family and friends, I left contact with him cause we have a child together, after sometime he didn't want to parent anymore, he blocked me. .. I think. And I cut my losses. The rest is history.....I'm remarried by the grace of God!!! I don't know people like this existed before the dude......people are very wicked. It was Hell divorcing the dude.
I just left a narcissist and I'm pregnant, you're giving me hope shame
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Nigerians are not for everyone shame. I knew I could never keep up with the bullying. 2 months was enough for me. I can never be with someone who doesn't like me. I hope you heal Sisi❤
Let her stop that issues of ritualist,he might be a yahoo guy..but i don't support domestic violence.
He's a ritualist according to Linda,but you're still living with him,having kids with him...eating his money?My sister fix ur family,no family's perfect including my own.I m a Nigerian living here in South Africa,there's a lot of south African ladies in Nigeria..being in peace with their family members that side...you never trust him,that was the reason you hav not even visited Nigerian,even without ur childrens..you're shouting on lin targeting his properties!
@@nosiphimalaza1974go home wena msunu
@@nosiphimalaza1974she knew after the loss of her daughter...
I'm also scared of Nigerians. I have this guy who tried to ask me out but the way he speaks, loud with pigeon English makes me anxious and steals my peace. Would not date a Nigerian shame.
Thank you Owami for giving her a safe space to talk
I m so happy for her,I cried for this woman when she was given a cold shoulder, lowish I can give her a big hug
Right a safe space to lie
He is a narcissist. I went through this same miserable marriage 20 years ago. Thank God I'm alive today. You will survive, just put your trust in God. ❤❤❤❤
Amen
Lol hope you have discovered who was really the narcissist.
Yes, you are so right. I also was married to one
@@giftedchild9490 narcissists are very manipulative and convincing. They have a way of making sure that when they speak everyone believes that they are victims. Never fight a narcissist, just walk away and block them everywhere. If you try to fight them, they will destroy you and the little reputation you have left. They are so wicked and evil and very manipulative
I dated one, took my virginity and I left when I was pregnant
You know Owamie the awareness this channel is creating. You doing the lords work ❤
Dating foreign men is a danger sana
Lol
Very dangerous 😮😮😮
Even South Africans are toxic
Dating a man who doesn’t love you is dangerous
They just want paper's nothing else
Netflicks could learn a very important lesson from you. Air all the episodes on the same day for heaven sake.
True. While we are still invested in the story lol
😂😂😂😂😂I agree with shiiiibubu
Strue😂😂😂
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The mother-in-law knew what her son was doing.
My dear take ur son and run for ur life. It's not about what you own. Some wealth don't envy pray and let Jesus bless you in his own time.
To think she's still crying for material things even though she's not sure of how they were accumulated!
He never loved her and it's almost like he hated every minute they spent together.
That's what I'm also picking up. He didn't love her at all.
They were never in a relationship from what i sense
marriage of convenience
The lady used a muti
Nigerian men hates South Africans they never loved us and never will
any guy who tells his mom everything is not a person to carry on with
You are 💯 correct
7:22 I’m so sorry you went through this 💔💔❤️ that man was a narcissist. He’s so evil . May God judge him
😢but nigerian man are all caring and gud man 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@@khangwelokhangwelo6553😳😱🙄
Cleaning up everything first day after baby died is a very weared business maa'n 😭😭😭
It was just God. That certificate God just blinded his eyes. Yhooo my sister please leave that man alone. Get a divorce and start from scratch with your kids. God is there. Cut all ties. Don’t contest anything.
Yeah because the wealth came from your babies's blood 😢don't share the property please. Everything is cursed
@@joycetsosane3513 low thinking negative human
@@joycetsosane3513Yes he used her blood
I'm so invested ninja what did God reveal to that bible pastor hle. I feel like I'm watching a nigerian movie. Is part 3 coming?
😂😂😂 a typical Nigerian movie 🤞 @ZeeInterpretations
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Nigerians need to be delivered and healed from ,ancestral witchcraft. Was married 28 year's, two children and it was very demonic, to be honest I honestly don't believe what that ate warring against, I God's mercy,salvation and deliverance... in Yeshua name
thank u for bringing part 2 quickly
As a Professional Nurse and Nursing educator who worked in a Neonatal high care and ICU, also peads ward. I can tell you this was a Cradle or Cot death mama. My condolences but that is a natural cause or death. The confusion and everything else came in because of the loveless marriage, God knows why you wanted to be married to this man but I also tell you that this was not witchcraft or whatever. The lady had so many red flags herself that it didn't make any sense on so many occasions. Her story didn't add up and I came from the 1st part, all this was just a venting session .
I think she liked the lifestyle… I know she feels ashamed to say but its nothing to be ashamed of WOMEN like things. She didn't want to leave coz of the lifestyle
True
That's how my baby brother passed, he went to sleep and never woke up😢. I'm told he was soooooo beautiful. I dont remember him. We dond have his picture at home! I hope she mourns the baby and heal
I agree. Sounds like SIDS
There is a Zim lady who had to get contributions from the Zim community globally to run away after being stuck there & they wanted the kids .Each time live videos came up with her talking were sad .Now she is back in Zim & she says she wont set foot there .
Where?
I heard about the story. She was kidnapped and they took her child if that’s the same story. Nigerians are evil when it comes to juju.
Narcissist don't empathy. Emotions are a weakness to them
Sadly they are like that to their kids too
Men put women through so much. It's like she's narrating a fictional story. You have been through so much sis. May God carry your through it all.
Hhai kabi neh when you find time yekani ama foreigners especially Nigerians... for a lot of them you are just a means to an end ...I wonder why did she even enter into a relationship with this guy because from the onset there was no love from him...but keh
Do true I never liked them yooo
My Sister almost died because of a South African man who did isithwalo with her son sow not all man are the same whether from here or outside the country but we all have our thinking and it will never be the same 😢
@itztocanoel12 so sorry for that but let me elaborate on this...the chances of foreigners especially those illegal doing horrible things is much much higher...a lot of times they date because of desperation or scamming rarely ever for love...and I'm talking specifically on foreigners
@@itztocanoel12true, I know few ones married to professionals and they fine.
@naledindlovu976 I 100% agree with you. I wish my own sister could come tell her story on these podcast because Wow. She got arrested because her Naija guy used her bank account for scamming old white woman. Thank God she did not spend a lot of time in jail, but it affected her
Nigerian guys especially the ones without papers fear them xem 😫😫😫my sister keep on praying n trust God 😢
What papers the ones that have papers are fake ids 😅😅😅 Pathetic having a paper won't change nigerians
Always Hide your ID nd passport from them, keep them at yr parents
Sister why should we fear them 😮
Why you generalized every Nigerians
This is so sad, loosing a child is one of the hardest things you can ever experience. I hope she finds peace, she's been through so much
I am just wondering what made Linda to brush off the morning after pill especially for a stranger at the time, I mean he ghosted her for a month after they slept together.
His sangoma lady warned her which to me was eye opening enough but she still stayed.
Legale thanks for sharing my dear.
When we tell them bathi si zenofobhiki
And she kept getting pregnant even after seeing guy’s true personality
@@thatotlhowe Ladies, this woman's encounter with this man was deeper than any imagination and physical measures judging from the story. Surely There was alot of forces at work and she wouldn't have just acted within her norm. Life is spiritual and if you meet a master manipulator you may just wonder at the end of it that was that even u to begin you with😔
@@GodsFavourite2024 so sad that most people don't believe in the spiritual thing😢
@@GodsFavourite2024exactly!!!
To survive marriage with a Nigerian give it to him gbas gbos. Have your own money and show him you can survive without him. He will shame you and do whatever he wants because he is feeding you. Never leave your job and never become a housewife.
If this woman lived in Naija that man would have killed her long time. It’s just that they are in SA and it won’t be easy for him.
Absolutely
But why should anyone stay in that sutuation for a month even
Him leaving for 7 days might have been his way of healing but i dougt he loved you and most nigerians have no emotions amagogogo nje and this is how they probably treat their women back home or saw their fathers treating their mothers outt of 100 you'll find 10 nigerian men with emotions and loving loudly and right and in my opinion i tbink ibo nigerians see women as objects
Truths nd also poligomy set ups the children fight eachother the mothers always fighting eachother no love respect. Endless competitions nd jealousys for eachother, their mothers fighting eachother children get involved it's just crazy madness. An honest Nigerian once told me what u see in their moveys majority of it happens in reality.
Someone said they r now marrying muzungu s. Yes true but Muzungu s will not take all the bull they will leave if not treated with respect. I m sure if ,(muzungu) white lady is rich or comes frm rich fam they sign a prenuptial agreement nd he will never know their worth. THE only ones they may fool are the old Granny's dateing the young Nigerians although investigators are now getting involved as its getting out of hand.
Owamie is standing on BUSINESS babe💁♀️💁♀️
Linda described the father of my child to the T.....Only now I realise how traumatized I was....I always tot something was wrong abt me that made that man treat me like that.....Nigerian men are broken nhe?
In 2021 when I lost both my parents. I was dismissed and invalidated when I grieved and cried. A week later somebody’s son filed for divorce because he couldn’t stand me .
Sending hugs🫂❤️
Askies dear❤from one orphan to another.
Sending you love and light....
🫂🫂 ....may i ask if he was from nigeria also?
Haybo nina🤭 Xolo vha..
that’s nigerians for you 😢
you need to know what you signing up for.. be strong
When we tell em dlalelani kudze nema Nigeria they say we are xenophobic 😢
@@nolwazincongwane5850This is not the right time to say such. It makes you look like this heartless evil person. Let's be considerate to other people's situations
@@nolwazincongwane5850it’s true and very sad that we aren’t to say that because we’re portrayed as these evil people.What happened to this sister is horrible and I so wish every other woman can take from her story and other’s stories so they can run away from Nigerian men.Unfortunately it is true that some of them don’t wanna listen and learn.I hope this beautiful woman heals from all this heartache
I know people who are happily married to Nigerian brothers. Let's not paint a nation guys
@@tendanipelaelo6293 oh i see😥 you know want to be heartless like you've said but the red flags were there from the start and middle 💁♀️
Jooohhh 😢😢😢financial emotional verbal abuse at highest levels 😢😢😢😢thiza thank God her father's spirit guided her😢 i can NEVER endure such
South African women need to be more assertive. This girl allowed so much BS unnecessarily.
That’s why it’s important to be independent, Solomon’s sons are bad news, especially when they know that u r not independent.
Independent of what elaborate if you will?
Thank you 😂😂😂I kept refreshing…love and light to the beautiful guest
😂😂😂😂girl me tooo
First in a long time I watched something for this long and not get bored. Mi nah go ask why you stayed but that man is heartless.
That mother in law is wicked as well
Very wicked she's the one who sacrifice the chil
shut up, this lady is an opportunist
@@JustinClark-r4z yes brother
@@JustinClark-r4zYou said low thinking in another comment and here you say oppotunist? Whatever be the case; thisan hmmmmm!
@@JustinClark-r4z You are a bot. A wicked one.
This Man the reason he married her was just for Passport.
He definitely came with his Nigerian passport 😂😂😂unless if you are referring to a permit
@@cindyrambau4476 😂😂😂
She was a street and a club girl, Go listen to the Nigeria guys interview with owamie
He is evilous full of demons
How do did you know that
I remember she was saying he started getting money when the baby passed on. But she was gifted a car while she was pregnant with the baby. I’m confused. Sis hlanganisa your stories.
Exactly my point. It’s just a goal digger who didn’t get her way, now she mad things didn’t go as planned so she orchestrated this whole thing Akers you guys as long as it’s Nigerians you will always side with South African girls even when they are evil lol.
She sounds more like someone who rushed to twist the story before she gets exposed. Remember she also lost her previous husband. I hope the son she has won’t pass away .
Thought i was the only one confused by that part 😂
I think the baby girl was kinda like the last sacrifice, remember she said she had a miscarriage early 2019 or so after the son, n she thinks she's had more is just tht she doesn't know cause she'll be in her period then no period for a while, n remember the sleeping with the girls from tinder, that's how the money for the car came from I think.
I stand to be corrected though
What's her handle on tick tock.
She said the first miscarriage
Linda plz start the utube...God has made u to pass thro this painful experience to help, empower a lot of women out there..u are a women of colour ,a really imbhokodvo... God is alive, do not fear...
No man😢.... women are going through hell
Ijooo Linda! I wonder why you stayed in that relationship? Imagine why someone saying he loves you and he does not like your child. You were so brave my dear to enter that relationship with your daughter.
Witchcraft, it is not her fault
I expected to get details of these rituals or cult activities
Kunini ngithi yooooooo 😢...My sister you need to break the covenant,only God can save you . Blessings and strength to you and you are so beautiful ❤,Owamie well done shbooboooo
love is hard. this man was a demon, may the Lord deal with him and the others like him accordingly. Mama i am sorry.
same thing happened to my baby girl 💔 the guy also left
That's awful 😢
Pole sana. May Almighty God give you peace and shower you with his love and strength ❤
definitely a Nigerian Igbo...exactly useless like my sister's ex...I wish the lady the best in life...thanks Owamie ur the best
Bingooo 😢igbo..i avoid them with every fibre of mine. I loathe them
Are igbos usually scammers or known to have bad traits?
I’m so sorry for all that happened to you after listening to your ordeal with this boy.
There are certain things/rules attached to this ritual thing. I’m not a ritualist but a good mom for my children ( they are grown up. Eldest 42yrs old and the youngest is 20yrs old) and my grandchildren.
He’s not allowed to give you the money because it’ll have a negative impact on him but he can spend it on people that surround you which explained why you weren’t paid and being denied of handling money.
He dare not treat a Nigerian lady like that because he knows that they will catch up with him.
Not all Nigerians are like that but I respect you for your bravery and your subtle ways of handling everything. The Lord is really on your side and please don’t relent in your prayers.
I pray that God will give you double for your loss and give you your own husband in Jesus Name. The Lord will protect all your children and nothing will happen to any of you IJN.
Please I’m in this kind of situation in which my husband has never given me money but gives everybody around me money. he will personally make sure he buys everything needed at home, toiletries, food stuffs, even things like Maggie and salt. I must say I was hypnotized bcos my eyes did not open until after 18 yrs with 3 kids
After all the red flags and people hinting to her that she must run she still stayed why betunana 💔💔 was it love? was she under the spell
That's what makes me angry , even before marriage she had many opportunities to escape but she did not
Because of a luxurious lifestyle
Spell dear these men are dangerous 😢
How foes woman stay with a ritualist yr daughter died, he diesn t give e u money disrespects you. I m sorry I would v gone long time
@@tombimashri8149Easier said than done. Until it happens to you. We’re ignorant of spiritual things. By the time we find out the truth, it’s already too late, we’ve lost everything including our sanity - literally dead man walking.
I’m still shocked that it’s him who called her to tell that she’s pregnant with his child 😮
Amen! 2 Timothy 1:7, we have have not been given a spirit of fear but of power, love and discipline.
This woman went through it shem yoh.... I am so sorry Sisi,may God heal,guide and protect you
you can never win with a narcissist everything you do or don't do is wrong
You SA women are problem
Some of the pieces of your story reminds me of myself with my ex Nigerian hey... These men are something else and I thank God I forgot and forgave all.
Oh man what a sad story. Love and light to her. Cant wait for the last part.
I dated a yahoo boy from nigeria we separated when he started phushing me to marry him because he wanted south african Document and to be honest they dont just spend their money anyhow and they dont pretend their red flags will be there from day one, i remember for me he was honest from day one that we should first make a baby so that even if his family does not like me they will accept me for the sake of the baby in their culture they dont abandon their blood. He told me from scratch that he is getting his money from robbing ladies online . He said he loves me and want us to marry so he can get South african Passport and document. I still love him but we separated we met 2017 and separated 2022.
Hayi ngeke why does she keep on getting pregnant
Yhoooo I wish you know these Western African men spell 😢😢😢
If my baby were to die and I get home and all my babies things have been removed and burnt hayi someone else will die that day.. The nerve. 😮
There are three sides to every story, your side, my side, and the truth. And no one is lying. Memories shared serve each differently.
Those who know them know this lady is not lying
: waste of time to hear the side of the Nigerian man.
As women God blessed us with the spirit of courage fighting endurance and intelligence as long as one believes in God
A narcissist will always make you believe you are the one who is wrong and you will never be happy in that relationship,it's all about him
The narcissist hates seing ppl cry, he or she will hurt u and expect u to be strong and nt talk abt tht incident, they pretend as if nothing happend.
Us loyal day 1 ninjas phakati inside part 2😊
7 years of fancy life has turned to a nightmare.2017 to 2024 😮😮😮. Continue dating them at your own peril
wena you should showing sympathy
@@siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN I do have empathy but after 1st child with a narcissist you continue to have a second one cha ngeke. Just an opinion nje
@@Savebygrace-it eyy oe uyakhohlwa kuthi all of those guys from the west Africa they are using umuthi ohamba nezilwane can I send you another link then ubuye Kimi cos ozokuzwa kuyona will open your mind to realise how low then can be if bafuna kuthwala ngomuntu esaphila
@@Savebygrace-itshe's under a spell
It was never good, she's a surviver
They say never say never but me never... This lady also... I judge especially when it comes to the kids... No man on this earth will disrespect my kids never.... She negotiates too much
But how bad does it have to get for one to leave a toxic relationship,niyabekezela bafazi!!!!
Red flag from day 1
Hello Hi 👋😊
I've always been taught not to let my emotions cloud my analysis of stories, especially sad ones that can provoke or manipulate feelings. However, this particular story doesn't add up for me. The guy supposedly bought her a Range Rover while she was pregnant and a Porsche before they lost the baby. Typically, in stories involving rituals, the sacrifice is made first, and then the rewards follow once the sacrifice is accepted. But in this case, her husband apparently bought expensive cars and then performed the sacrifice afterward. When she mentions seeing money in the bank but claims ignorance about its source, it's hard to believe she didn't know where it came from. Perhaps she can't talk about it because she benefited from the activities and doesn't want to appear complicit rather than a victim. Losing a baby is undeniably painful, and no woman deserves that. However, some of us are not kids. Yes, your husband was a narcissist , unfaithful and an A**hole but your ritual story raises doubts. The host asked her how did she come to conclusion that he performed a sacrifice , her response was based on his history of infidelity and the divorce. Finally close to end she answered that its sangomas and prophets that told her he did sacrifice the child, this could be lair’s, again if you live with a ritualist in the same house you can definitely tell by the strange things which will happen in the house eg foot steps or sounds none of that was her evidence.and yet Again, she still drives the same Range Rover supposedly bought through ritualistic means involving the blood of her child. Sorry, but this story sounds like a woman who is being taken advantage of and now she’s just fighting back..therefore part 3 is waste of my time
Same here i feel like something is off.
You have articulated my exactly thought. Alot doesn’t make sense here. There’s alot she isn’t saying
She said that she had a miscarriage first then got pregnant for the daughter
@@User08882she said that the men first benefited from the miscarriages and sometimes she ddn’t even know she’s having miscarriages
@@PrivilegeMbali Speaking of rituals, not witchcraft, in the case of miscarriage, blood is typically required. Most victims are instructed to use a bucket to collect the blood by the perpetrator. However, in her case, there's no evidence of this. It's hard to believe she doesn't have first-hand evidence if she was living with a ritualist. But only sangomas and prophets are her source. Again, Owami should have inquired whether the day she was crying on TikTok was the same day she discovered or told her child was sacrificed. If not, then she must have been crying for other reasons.
love was never served at that table...periodt 😢
Unfortunately they are filtering in2 RSA. Wonder why they keeping away from Ruwanda
Poor baby's clothes and pictures were burnt and her corpse was burnt down😢😢😢haaaai guys...aaaih man😢😢😢
Being a tokoloshi of her grandfather 😢😢😢😢😢hini bawo
@@sammym9259imagine burning a baby
welcome back our Queen ninja
It’s so sad that she had to be exposed to such a traumatic experience. No one deserves what she has went through and I have learned that we respond to things a different way. She might have really not seen what she was getting herself into and unfortunately there’s spiritual covenant that have been built. I really hope the grace of God locates her and release her from any bondages built against her. She should run and not walk away🥹😭
The guy never loved you sisi .IyakhethwA indoda ongayizalela .
Women must learn to love them first and choose them all the time.walk away from an abusive partner.
Inkinga enkulu yilama Gucci nama Range Rovers.
Girl was supposed to steal money and hide it during happier times 4 rainy days.
What money babes… this guy literally even bought the groceries, he didn’t give her money let alone saw his money
What money
O kgatlha ko bolela yong
What money? He was using her for everything blood, mental health,
Nigerian women bekezela till death
See their fave Chioma there’s plenty of them. Even here in SA yhuuu haa
But why is she still using the cars from this guy..thats blood money property,and her daughters blood..she needs to get rid of everything that is from that guy
I also dont understand. Why use the cars vele mara vele I mean dont they remind you that they were bought with your child's blood. Something is off with this lady, she claims the guy treated her bad but when a guy suggests a divorce she begs him to stay now she wants half of his money. Bakithi kudlalwa ngathi Lana
Kana she has to live and survive too, I'm not gonna blame her
Yhooo part 3 please.
Am so disappointed how we as men treat women who try to love and protect us.😢
There is always higher Power, God almighty 🙌🏽
Ameen God will Protect you even when you Didn't Ask for his protection this story is a proof
When God made women, he wasn’t playing… boMake bayahlanganisa for their kids. This is sad kodwa.
I am soo invested in this story l just hit like button before listening
Hai! Nna im confused with the pregnancies 🤔
How many times did she fall pregnant in these few years they've been together? 🤔🤔
Yoh, this guest takes forever to get to the point, i kept on losing her. It was like she wanted a way and time to answer correctly without implicating herself.
She got a land-rover when she was pregnant, now jikijiki all these cars came after the child's death. Nna im confused kannete.
Why wont she respond to the question of watchcraft
I waited and waited and yoh she still went on on how he treated her..not wat owamie asked her
Guys! We understand women are suffering ,we understand abuse affects people,but let’s see this story for what it is.WRONG FOUNDATIONS, coming to haunt you,now that you end up in a loveless marriage,You want to secure a bag. But don’t explain all these things to get sympathy,No guys.
Thank you. This comment sums everything. should be pinned.
Exactly my point as well. Her story is not story'ing right
I'm sooooo triggered 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢I just left a 22years marriage from a Nigerian man who had almost the same character as your husband. I'm also in Alberton please Linda let's hook up.
I had two friends who are married to nijas I'm wondering where they are. Yho😢
Nigerian don't love our sisters!!! We keep forcing...
@@PromiseMoropa Mostly have narcissistic personalities, even the ones who married in their countries, my Nigerian sister in laws are always crying the only difference is in their culture, most women don't have a voice.
What do you do for a living, you SA women will always disappoint Nigerians, when things are good you guys stick, but when things is going bad you guys start misbehaving
I'm also a victim who got married to a narcissus husband. I just left the man, we have lived together for 20yrs. Finally I left early this yr. In marriage matter how u try to make things work if its not going u can't change it 💯. What I learned in marriage is that from day one in ur relationship don't compromise. Assuming that no he will change especially those rich men. They can not. They have no emotion. They have alots of prides bec of their wealth. Some don't know that they grace u have , as u live together it enhance their growth in wealth.
I listened to your story. It is very touching. How did you put up with your husband I felt so sorry for you my lady. Be strong, and take care of your son. I am so sorry for your loss, l know how it feels to loose a child. God bless you and your son. Praying for you.🙏 Divorce him, In God you trust.
What is revealed,is redeemed!pray very hard,God is faithful!
The Nigerian English accent 😅
I thought it was my imagination 😂😂😂
This guy hated you and you keep on staying there, you are brave.
The story of my past life! Thank God both my kids are still alive by the grace of God. I can relate to EXACTLY R200 petrol, and so MANY other things she said.
He just didn’t want her, it’s not that he’s narcissistic. He didn’t love her and wish she had not stuck around.
What stopped him from leaving her, the love was there in their own way
That is how they love
I wish I could give Linda a hug. Uxolo Sisi. 😰
I get how sad this story is but I still can't shake off the fact that she remained in this marriage for so long and never thought of leaving I mean you clearly lived a horrible life but you had the chance to leave🤧🤧ayi south african women ndi xakekile ku ngoku
Same hey....self love is very subjective
I think she was under a spell or idliso or something because she was okay single. Maybe she shouldn’t have had sex that first time. It’s so sad but we must be kind to her. It can happen to anyone, you too
It's not long lol some stay for 22 years
Yooh im coming from the guys video yoooh kuningi!!!
What is the name of his account?
Details of your hair please Queen Ninja
Classic Beauty on instagram, it’s on special R900 run and say I sent you ❤
I was married to a Nigerian man for 3months, I couldn't bekezela😂😂
Not 3 months haibo Owami other lady here
Another 3 part
congratulations to you babes you WON
The divorce proceedings are not necessary for customary marriage with a foreigner. The customary marriage act only applies to two South Africans.
Where did u get that?
@@mmabatho from two divorce attornies.
Am so sorry sis.
I pray that you receive healing.
May the Lord protect you.