I Married A Nigerian Cultist Who Sacrificed Our Daughter, LINDA's TELL ALL Part 2

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Комментарии • 804

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 3 месяца назад +222

    Please women choose the fathers of your kids wisely

    • @madialemotsiri586
      @madialemotsiri586 3 месяца назад +12

      Problem it's LandRovers, Gucci's etc

    • @startingover7217
      @startingover7217 3 месяца назад +29

      Men lie... 🫠

    • @koke9297
      @koke9297 3 месяца назад +27

      they sell us dreams and we fall for them, only when we are already too deep in then we realise it was all a trap. Believe me if we were prophetess' we wouldn't be where we are right now. But i am glad that you wont fall for such.

    • @siphamandlamkhize9766
      @siphamandlamkhize9766 3 месяца назад

      ​@@koke9297You have to know no one can give money for free, even your parents want u to pay them

    • @khensanebaloyi6835
      @khensanebaloyi6835 3 месяца назад +6

      People change

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 3 месяца назад +295

    Every man who is bad to his wife is good to everybody that's why people don't understand when you are telling them how you are being treated coz they are soo good to everybody else

  • @stephaniezion1402
    @stephaniezion1402 2 месяца назад +34

    Lack of empathy, serial cheater, gaslighting, projecting, controlling, lack of accountability, smear campaign, serial liar, emotional and financial abuse, very concerned about how people perceive him/he - all signs of Narcissist Personality Disorder

    • @lorrainemounts2416
      @lorrainemounts2416 2 месяца назад

      Absolutely! Narcissists are not capable of love for anyone not even their children.

  • @Miss_Maya_ZA
    @Miss_Maya_ZA 3 месяца назад +88

    Nigerians are not for everyone shame. I knew I could never keep up with the bullying. 2 months was enough for me. I can never be with someone who doesn't like me. I hope you heal Sisi❤

    • @nosiphimalaza1974
      @nosiphimalaza1974 3 месяца назад +5

      Let her stop that issues of ritualist,he might be a yahoo guy..but i don't support domestic violence.

    • @nosiphimalaza1974
      @nosiphimalaza1974 3 месяца назад +9

      He's a ritualist according to Linda,but you're still living with him,having kids with him...eating his money?My sister fix ur family,no family's perfect including my own.I m a Nigerian living here in South Africa,there's a lot of south African ladies in Nigeria..being in peace with their family members that side...you never trust him,that was the reason you hav not even visited Nigerian,even without ur childrens..you're shouting on lin targeting his properties!

    • @KB.23
      @KB.23 3 месяца назад

      @@nosiphimalaza1974go home wena msunu

    • @mmabatho
      @mmabatho 2 месяца назад

      ​@@nosiphimalaza1974she knew after the loss of her daughter...

    • @Dimz7890
      @Dimz7890 2 месяца назад

      I'm also scared of Nigerians. I have this guy who tried to ask me out but the way he speaks, loud with pigeon English makes me anxious and steals my peace. Would not date a Nigerian shame.

  • @afrobest3007
    @afrobest3007 3 месяца назад +72

    He is a narcissist. I went through this same miserable marriage 20 years ago. Thank God I'm alive today. You will survive, just put your trust in God. ❤❤❤❤

    • @silaton305
      @silaton305 2 месяца назад

      Amen

    • @giftedchild9490
      @giftedchild9490 2 месяца назад

      Lol hope you have discovered who was really the narcissist.

    • @stephaniezion1402
      @stephaniezion1402 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes, you are so right. I also was married to one

    • @stephaniezion1402
      @stephaniezion1402 2 месяца назад

      @@giftedchild9490 narcissists are very manipulative and convincing. They have a way of making sure that when they speak everyone believes that they are victims. Never fight a narcissist, just walk away and block them everywhere. If you try to fight them, they will destroy you and the little reputation you have left. They are so wicked and evil and very manipulative

    • @okaymea
      @okaymea Месяц назад +1

      I dated one, took my virginity and I left when I was pregnant

  • @noctanal9269
    @noctanal9269 3 месяца назад +235

    Netflicks could learn a very important lesson from you. Air all the episodes on the same day for heaven sake.

  • @curvykay6232
    @curvykay6232 3 месяца назад +98

    Dating foreign men is a danger sana

  • @gloriandagire1452
    @gloriandagire1452 3 месяца назад +48

    I'm here listening to her and wondering why I relate to her story. I divorced the guy....cold turkey, i blocked his entire family and friends, I left contact with him cause we have a child together, after sometime he didn't want to parent anymore, he blocked me. .. I think. And I cut my losses. The rest is history.....I'm remarried by the grace of God!!! I don't know people like this existed before the dude......people are very wicked. It was Hell divorcing the dude.

    • @okaymea
      @okaymea Месяц назад +2

      I just left a narcissist and I'm pregnant, you're giving me hope shame

    • @mercykudimba4152
      @mercykudimba4152 Месяц назад

      😢

  • @abigailtakobana2950
    @abigailtakobana2950 3 месяца назад +94

    Thank you Owami for giving her a safe space to talk

    • @Glo-zj2vf
      @Glo-zj2vf 3 месяца назад +2

      I m so happy for her,I cried for this woman when she was given a cold shoulder, lowish I can give her a big hug

    • @therealitiesoflife01
      @therealitiesoflife01 2 месяца назад

      Right a safe space to lie

  • @SiphesihleNameng1
    @SiphesihleNameng1 3 месяца назад +72

    You know Owamie the awareness this channel is creating. You doing the lords work ❤

  • @Vickymackay
    @Vickymackay 3 месяца назад +94

    that’s nigerians for you 😢
    you need to know what you signing up for.. be strong

    • @nolwazincongwane5850
      @nolwazincongwane5850 3 месяца назад +19

      When we tell em dlalelani kudze nema Nigeria they say we are xenophobic 😢

    • @tendanipelaelo6293
      @tendanipelaelo6293 3 месяца назад +7

      ​@@nolwazincongwane5850This is not the right time to say such. It makes you look like this heartless evil person. Let's be considerate to other people's situations

    • @kaygee1756
      @kaygee1756 3 месяца назад

      @@nolwazincongwane5850it’s true and very sad that we aren’t to say that because we’re portrayed as these evil people.What happened to this sister is horrible and I so wish every other woman can take from her story and other’s stories so they can run away from Nigerian men.Unfortunately it is true that some of them don’t wanna listen and learn.I hope this beautiful woman heals from all this heartache

    • @ThatMissP
      @ThatMissP 3 месяца назад +10

      I know people who are happily married to Nigerian brothers. Let's not paint a nation guys

    • @nolwazincongwane5850
      @nolwazincongwane5850 3 месяца назад +1

      @@tendanipelaelo6293 oh i see😥 you know want to be heartless like you've said but the red flags were there from the start and middle 💁‍♀️

  • @Vickymackay
    @Vickymackay 3 месяца назад +96

    any guy who tells his mom everything is not a person to carry on with

  • @Molebs
    @Molebs 3 месяца назад +42

    The mother-in-law knew what her son was doing.

  • @humbu282
    @humbu282 3 месяца назад +82

    He never loved her and it's almost like he hated every minute they spent together.

    • @thulisilemasiza1993
      @thulisilemasiza1993 3 месяца назад +8

      That's what I'm also picking up. He didn't love her at all.

    • @mamsykgaphola6677
      @mamsykgaphola6677 3 месяца назад +7

      They were never in a relationship from what i sense

    • @fredahama3957
      @fredahama3957 2 месяца назад +7

      marriage of convenience

    • @JustinClark-r4z
      @JustinClark-r4z 2 месяца назад

      The lady used a muti

    • @nobuhlemkhize8552
      @nobuhlemkhize8552 2 месяца назад

      Nigerian men hates South Africans they never loved us and never will

  • @ZeeInterpretationz
    @ZeeInterpretationz 3 месяца назад +45

    I'm so invested ninja what did God reveal to that bible pastor hle. I feel like I'm watching a nigerian movie. Is part 3 coming?

    • @sapatrioticcitizen8718
      @sapatrioticcitizen8718 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂 a typical Nigerian movie 🤞 @ZeeInterpretations

    • @ozzaM22
      @ozzaM22 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂

    • @carollovings2830
      @carollovings2830 2 месяца назад

      Nigerians need to be delivered and healed from ,ancestral witchcraft. Was married 28 year's, two children and it was very demonic, to be honest I honestly don't believe what that ate warring against, I God's mercy,salvation and deliverance... in Yeshua name

  • @NinthJewel
    @NinthJewel 3 месяца назад +41

    7:22 I’m so sorry you went through this 💔💔❤️ that man was a narcissist. He’s so evil . May God judge him

    • @khangwelokhangwelo6553
      @khangwelokhangwelo6553 3 месяца назад

      😢but nigerian man are all caring and gud man 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @lorrainemounts2416
      @lorrainemounts2416 2 месяца назад

      ​@@khangwelokhangwelo6553😳😱🙄

  • @jessicankosi1346
    @jessicankosi1346 3 месяца назад +69

    Nigerian guys especially the ones without papers fear them xem 😫😫😫my sister keep on praying n trust God 😢

    • @khangwelokhangwelo6553
      @khangwelokhangwelo6553 3 месяца назад

      What papers the ones that have papers are fake ids 😅😅😅 Pathetic having a paper won't change nigerians

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 2 месяца назад +2

      Always Hide your ID nd passport from them, keep them at yr parents

    • @prixy2528
      @prixy2528 2 месяца назад

      Sister why should we fear them 😮

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 Месяц назад +1

      Why you generalized every Nigerians

  • @P2004-cQ
    @P2004-cQ 3 месяца назад +22

    My dear take ur son and run for ur life. It's not about what you own. Some wealth don't envy pray and let Jesus bless you in his own time.

    • @dikeledimmatloa9517
      @dikeledimmatloa9517 Месяц назад

      To think she's still crying for material things even though she's not sure of how they were accumulated!

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 3 месяца назад +44

    That mother in law is wicked as well

    • @Glo-zj2vf
      @Glo-zj2vf 3 месяца назад +3

      Very wicked she's the one who sacrifice the chil

    • @JustinClark-r4z
      @JustinClark-r4z 2 месяца назад

      shut up, this lady is an opportunist

    • @elvisndlovu1232
      @elvisndlovu1232 2 месяца назад

      @@JustinClark-r4z yes brother

    • @eyoleable
      @eyoleable 2 месяца назад

      ​@@JustinClark-r4zYou said low thinking in another comment and here you say oppotunist? Whatever be the case; thisan hmmmmm!

    • @lorrainemounts2416
      @lorrainemounts2416 2 месяца назад

      ​@@JustinClark-r4z You are a bot. A wicked one.

  • @lisohl7258
    @lisohl7258 3 месяца назад +33

    Cleaning up everything first day after baby died is a very weared business maa'n 😭😭😭

  • @sarah.hanock
    @sarah.hanock 3 месяца назад +37

    thank u for bringing part 2 quickly

  • @_.hlengi
    @_.hlengi 3 месяца назад +27

    love was never served at that table...periodt 😢

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb 3 месяца назад +29

    It was just God. That certificate God just blinded his eyes. Yhooo my sister please leave that man alone. Get a divorce and start from scratch with your kids. God is there. Cut all ties. Don’t contest anything.

    • @joycetsosane3513
      @joycetsosane3513 3 месяца назад +9

      Yeah because the wealth came from your babies's blood 😢don't share the property please. Everything is cursed

    • @JustinClark-r4z
      @JustinClark-r4z 2 месяца назад

      @@joycetsosane3513 low thinking negative human

    • @eyoleable
      @eyoleable 2 месяца назад

      ​@@joycetsosane3513Yes he used her blood

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 3 месяца назад +29

    No man😢.... women are going through hell

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele3114 3 месяца назад +28

    Narcissist don't empathy. Emotions are a weakness to them

    • @zahmbuyisa576
      @zahmbuyisa576 3 месяца назад +3

      Sadly they are like that to their kids too

  • @naledindlovu976
    @naledindlovu976 3 месяца назад +17

    Hhai kabi neh when you find time yekani ama foreigners especially Nigerians... for a lot of them you are just a means to an end ...I wonder why did she even enter into a relationship with this guy because from the onset there was no love from him...but keh

    • @paulsekhoto6047
      @paulsekhoto6047 3 месяца назад +2

      Do true I never liked them yooo

    • @itztocanoel12
      @itztocanoel12 2 месяца назад +5

      My Sister almost died because of a South African man who did isithwalo with her son sow not all man are the same whether from here or outside the country but we all have our thinking and it will never be the same 😢

    • @naledindlovu976
      @naledindlovu976 2 месяца назад +3

      @itztocanoel12 so sorry for that but let me elaborate on this...the chances of foreigners especially those illegal doing horrible things is much much higher...a lot of times they date because of desperation or scamming rarely ever for love...and I'm talking specifically on foreigners

    • @tebalelomarobane8496
      @tebalelomarobane8496 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@itztocanoel12true, I know few ones married to professionals and they fine.

    • @etvscandalfanpage2011
      @etvscandalfanpage2011 2 месяца назад

      @naledindlovu976 I 100% agree with you. I wish my own sister could come tell her story on these podcast because Wow. She got arrested because her Naija guy used her bank account for scamming old white woman. Thank God she did not spend a lot of time in jail, but it affected her

  • @Styliee
    @Styliee 3 месяца назад +10

    South African women need to be more assertive. This girl allowed so much BS unnecessarily.

  • @thatotlhowe
    @thatotlhowe 3 месяца назад +43

    I am just wondering what made Linda to brush off the morning after pill especially for a stranger at the time, I mean he ghosted her for a month after they slept together.
    His sangoma lady warned her which to me was eye opening enough but she still stayed.
    Legale thanks for sharing my dear.

    • @Motswako
      @Motswako 3 месяца назад +10

      When we tell them bathi si zenofobhiki

    • @Winterflowers1
      @Winterflowers1 3 месяца назад +17

      And she kept getting pregnant even after seeing guy’s true personality

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 3 месяца назад +30

      @@thatotlhowe Ladies, this woman's encounter with this man was deeper than any imagination and physical measures judging from the story. Surely There was alot of forces at work and she wouldn't have just acted within her norm. Life is spiritual and if you meet a master manipulator you may just wonder at the end of it that was that even u to begin you with😔

    • @nolwazincongwane5850
      @nolwazincongwane5850 3 месяца назад +18

      ​@@GodsFavourite2024 so sad that most people don't believe in the spiritual thing😢

    • @khetimthembu8465
      @khetimthembu8465 3 месяца назад

      @@GodsFavourite2024exactly!!!

  • @STAR-ks5hf
    @STAR-ks5hf 3 месяца назад +25

    To survive marriage with a Nigerian give it to him gbas gbos. Have your own money and show him you can survive without him. He will shame you and do whatever he wants because he is feeding you. Never leave your job and never become a housewife.
    If this woman lived in Naija that man would have killed her long time. It’s just that they are in SA and it won’t be easy for him.

    • @eyoleable
      @eyoleable 2 месяца назад

      Absolutely

    • @NtombikayiseDanisa
      @NtombikayiseDanisa 2 месяца назад +1

      But why should anyone stay in that sutuation for a month even

  • @ntombyomzulu1527
    @ntombyomzulu1527 3 месяца назад +11

    Him leaving for 7 days might have been his way of healing but i dougt he loved you and most nigerians have no emotions amagogogo nje and this is how they probably treat their women back home or saw their fathers treating their mothers outt of 100 you'll find 10 nigerian men with emotions and loving loudly and right and in my opinion i tbink ibo nigerians see women as objects

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 2 месяца назад +1

      Truths nd also poligomy set ups the children fight eachother the mothers always fighting eachother no love respect. Endless competitions nd jealousys for eachother, their mothers fighting eachother children get involved it's just crazy madness. An honest Nigerian once told me what u see in their moveys majority of it happens in reality.

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 2 месяца назад +1

      Someone said they r now marrying muzungu s. Yes true but Muzungu s will not take all the bull they will leave if not treated with respect. I m sure if ,(muzungu) white lady is rich or comes frm rich fam they sign a prenuptial agreement nd he will never know their worth. THE only ones they may fool are the old Granny's dateing the young Nigerians although investigators are now getting involved as its getting out of hand.

  • @madialemotsiri586
    @madialemotsiri586 3 месяца назад +26

    Girl was supposed to steal money and hide it during happier times 4 rainy days.

    • @Simply_Bonga
      @Simply_Bonga 3 месяца назад +12

      What money babes… this guy literally even bought the groceries, he didn’t give her money let alone saw his money

    • @minahmokoalakoala977
      @minahmokoalakoala977 3 месяца назад +1

      What money

    • @tshegofatsotlhoaele1530
      @tshegofatsotlhoaele1530 3 месяца назад

      O kgatlha ko bolela yong

    • @mmabatho
      @mmabatho 2 месяца назад

      What money? He was using her for everything blood, mental health,

  • @Prism446
    @Prism446 3 месяца назад +17

    There is a Zim lady who had to get contributions from the Zim community globally to run away after being stuck there & they wanted the kids .Each time live videos came up with her talking were sad .Now she is back in Zim & she says she wont set foot there .

    • @Lhiza_P
      @Lhiza_P 3 месяца назад

      Where?

    • @Nokutenda774
      @Nokutenda774 3 месяца назад

      I heard about the story. She was kidnapped and they took her child if that’s the same story. Nigerians are evil when it comes to juju.

  • @pfulu
    @pfulu 3 месяца назад +47

    This Man the reason he married her was just for Passport.

    • @cindyrambau4476
      @cindyrambau4476 2 месяца назад +2

      He definitely came with his Nigerian passport 😂😂😂unless if you are referring to a permit

    • @soflamonama8887
      @soflamonama8887 2 месяца назад

      @@cindyrambau4476 😂😂😂

    • @JustinClark-r4z
      @JustinClark-r4z 2 месяца назад +3

      She was a street and a club girl, Go listen to the Nigeria guys interview with owamie

    • @mikejohnson3601
      @mikejohnson3601 2 месяца назад

      He is evilous full of demons

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 Месяц назад

      How do did you know that

  • @PipsoffPain
    @PipsoffPain 3 месяца назад +15

    I've always been taught not to let my emotions cloud my analysis of stories, especially sad ones that can provoke or manipulate feelings. However, this particular story doesn't add up for me. The guy supposedly bought her a Range Rover while she was pregnant and a Porsche before they lost the baby. Typically, in stories involving rituals, the sacrifice is made first, and then the rewards follow once the sacrifice is accepted. But in this case, her husband apparently bought expensive cars and then performed the sacrifice afterward. When she mentions seeing money in the bank but claims ignorance about its source, it's hard to believe she didn't know where it came from. Perhaps she can't talk about it because she benefited from the activities and doesn't want to appear complicit rather than a victim. Losing a baby is undeniably painful, and no woman deserves that. However, some of us are not kids. Yes, your husband was a narcissist , unfaithful and an A**hole but your ritual story raises doubts. The host asked her how did she come to conclusion that he performed a sacrifice , her response was based on his history of infidelity and the divorce. Finally close to end she answered that its sangomas and prophets that told her he did sacrifice the child, this could be lair’s, again if you live with a ritualist in the same house you can definitely tell by the strange things which will happen in the house eg foot steps or sounds none of that was her evidence.and yet Again, she still drives the same Range Rover supposedly bought through ritualistic means involving the blood of her child. Sorry, but this story sounds like a woman who is being taken advantage of and now she’s just fighting back..therefore part 3 is waste of my time

    • @nolwazincongwane5850
      @nolwazincongwane5850 3 месяца назад

      Same here i feel like something is off.

    • @User08882
      @User08882 3 месяца назад +2

      You have articulated my exactly thought. Alot doesn’t make sense here. There’s alot she isn’t saying

    • @PrivilegeMbali
      @PrivilegeMbali 3 месяца назад

      She said that she had a miscarriage first then got pregnant for the daughter

    • @PrivilegeMbali
      @PrivilegeMbali 3 месяца назад

      @@User08882she said that the men first benefited from the miscarriages and sometimes she ddn’t even know she’s having miscarriages

    • @PipsoffPain
      @PipsoffPain 3 месяца назад +2

      @@PrivilegeMbali Speaking of rituals, not witchcraft, in the case of miscarriage, blood is typically required. Most victims are instructed to use a bucket to collect the blood by the perpetrator. However, in her case, there's no evidence of this. It's hard to believe she doesn't have first-hand evidence if she was living with a ritualist. But only sangomas and prophets are her source. Again, Owami should have inquired whether the day she was crying on TikTok was the same day she discovered or told her child was sacrificed. If not, then she must have been crying for other reasons.

  • @kafitamenshi3639
    @kafitamenshi3639 3 месяца назад +28

    That’s why it’s important to be independent, Solomon’s sons are bad news, especially when they know that u r not independent.

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 Месяц назад

      Independent of what elaborate if you will?

  • @lorrainemounts2416
    @lorrainemounts2416 2 месяца назад +2

    2 Timothy 3
    3 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
    2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
    3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
    4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
    5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
    6 For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
    7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
    🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @TheReal_GuguG
    @TheReal_GuguG 3 месяца назад +15

    The Nigerian English accent 😅

  • @LIFEASLEE_
    @LIFEASLEE_ 3 месяца назад +12

    Nigerian women bekezela till death
    See their fave Chioma there’s plenty of them. Even here in SA yhuuu haa

  • @AnonymousScorpio38
    @AnonymousScorpio38 10 дней назад +2

    As a Professional Nurse and Nursing educator who worked in a Neonatal high care and ICU, also peads ward. I can tell you this was a Cradle or Cot death mama. My condolences but that is a natural cause or death. The confusion and everything else came in because of the loveless marriage, God knows why you wanted to be married to this man but I also tell you that this was not witchcraft or whatever. The lady had so many red flags herself that it didn't make any sense on so many occasions. Her story didn't add up and I came from the 1st part, all this was just a venting session .

  • @angelshungube7
    @angelshungube7 3 месяца назад +10

    I remember she was saying he started getting money when the baby passed on. But she was gifted a car while she was pregnant with the baby. I’m confused. Sis hlanganisa your stories.

    • @risuna_s5941
      @risuna_s5941 3 месяца назад

      Exactly my point. It’s just a goal digger who didn’t get her way, now she mad things didn’t go as planned so she orchestrated this whole thing Akers you guys as long as it’s Nigerians you will always side with South African girls even when they are evil lol.
      She sounds more like someone who rushed to twist the story before she gets exposed. Remember she also lost her previous husband. I hope the son she has won’t pass away .

    • @PhophiNemakonde
      @PhophiNemakonde 3 месяца назад +4

      Thought i was the only one confused by that part 😂

    • @kgaleesto
      @kgaleesto 3 месяца назад +9

      I think the baby girl was kinda like the last sacrifice, remember she said she had a miscarriage early 2019 or so after the son, n she thinks she's had more is just tht she doesn't know cause she'll be in her period then no period for a while, n remember the sleeping with the girls from tinder, that's how the money for the car came from I think.
      I stand to be corrected though

    • @joycemwewa8744
      @joycemwewa8744 2 месяца назад

      What's her handle on tick tock.

    • @emilymankotseng2399
      @emilymankotseng2399 Месяц назад

      She said the first miscarriage

  • @QueenShaz-oc3qg
    @QueenShaz-oc3qg 3 месяца назад +10

    love is hard. this man was a demon, may the Lord deal with him and the others like him accordingly. Mama i am sorry.

  • @mathelesenyeho7811
    @mathelesenyeho7811 3 месяца назад +8

    I expected to get details of these rituals or cult activities

  • @User08882
    @User08882 3 месяца назад +14

    I have soo many questions. You were not talking to him but you got pregnant? You were keeping money for your child with him after he spent your money on the shop in part one. So you knew he can’t be trusted with your money? Dont you have a bank account. Hayi too much complacency here its not making sense

    • @darkskinfatgirl0147
      @darkskinfatgirl0147 3 месяца назад

      Something is off

    • @aeiou9456
      @aeiou9456 3 месяца назад +4

      Shady character just like that Nigerian

    • @nomangesi_
      @nomangesi_ 3 месяца назад

      Spell dear my relative is going through the same thing now exactly the same story had 2 miscarriage stillborns she's pregnant now as we speak can't leave this man
      Funny she says they do not love each other he's forever insulting her last time I know they were not intimate I'm shocked to hear she's pregnant 🙈🙈😢 he's rich and has another SA wife yhooooo he built beautiful houses expensive cars for both 😢

    • @User08882
      @User08882 3 месяца назад

      @@nomangesi_ wow that’s hectic is he also Nigerian?

    • @nomangesi_
      @nomangesi_ 3 месяца назад

      @@User08882 no but Western African

  • @_.hlengi
    @_.hlengi 3 месяца назад +9

    you can never win with a narcissist everything you do or don't do is wrong

  • @carmenmoitoi4348
    @carmenmoitoi4348 3 месяца назад +9

    Men put women through so much. It's like she's narrating a fictional story. You have been through so much sis. May God carry your through it all.

  • @mpuse7527
    @mpuse7527 3 месяца назад +26

    definitely a Nigerian Igbo...exactly useless like my sister's ex...I wish the lady the best in life...thanks Owamie ur the best

    • @sammym9259
      @sammym9259 3 месяца назад

      Bingooo 😢igbo..i avoid them with every fibre of mine. I loathe them

    • @Remiremi7430
      @Remiremi7430 2 месяца назад

      Are igbos usually scammers or known to have bad traits?

  • @Winterflowers1
    @Winterflowers1 3 месяца назад +27

    This is so sad, loosing a child is one of the hardest things you can ever experience. I hope she finds peace, she's been through so much

  • @Savebygrace-it
    @Savebygrace-it 3 месяца назад +11

    7 years of fancy life has turned to a nightmare.2017 to 2024 😮😮😮. Continue dating them at your own peril

    • @siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN
      @siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN 3 месяца назад +1

      wena you should showing sympathy

    • @Savebygrace-it
      @Savebygrace-it 3 месяца назад +8

      @@siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN I do have empathy but after 1st child with a narcissist you continue to have a second one cha ngeke. Just an opinion nje

    • @siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN
      @siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN 3 месяца назад

      @@Savebygrace-it eyy oe uyakhohlwa kuthi all of those guys from the west Africa they are using umuthi ohamba nezilwane can I send you another link then ubuye Kimi cos ozokuzwa kuyona will open your mind to realise how low then can be if bafuna kuthwala ngomuntu esaphila

    • @nomangesi_
      @nomangesi_ 3 месяца назад

      ​@@Savebygrace-itshe's under a spell

    • @mmabatho
      @mmabatho 2 месяца назад

      It was never good, she's a surviver

  • @sammym9259
    @sammym9259 3 месяца назад +11

    Jooohhh 😢😢😢financial emotional verbal abuse at highest levels 😢😢😢😢thiza thank God her father's spirit guided her😢 i can NEVER endure such

  • @wandisatshisa9756
    @wandisatshisa9756 3 месяца назад +15

    After all the red flags and people hinting to her that she must run she still stayed why betunana 💔💔 was it love? was she under the spell

    • @athenkosibango6626
      @athenkosibango6626 3 месяца назад +1

      That's what makes me angry , even before marriage she had many opportunities to escape but she did not

    • @Yasmeen-k5b
      @Yasmeen-k5b 3 месяца назад +1

      Because of a luxurious lifestyle

    • @nomangesi_
      @nomangesi_ 3 месяца назад +1

      Spell dear these men are dangerous 😢

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 2 месяца назад

      How foes woman stay with a ritualist yr daughter died, he diesn t give e u money disrespects you. I m sorry I would v gone long time

    • @silaton305
      @silaton305 2 месяца назад

      @@tombimashri8149Easier said than done. Until it happens to you. We’re ignorant of spiritual things. By the time we find out the truth, it’s already too late, we’ve lost everything including our sanity - literally dead man walking.
      I’m still shocked that it’s him who called her to tell that she’s pregnant with his child 😮

  • @andisiwemcasa7360
    @andisiwemcasa7360 3 месяца назад +13

    Owamie is standing on BUSINESS babe💁‍♀️💁‍♀️

  • @Star_Mooneh
    @Star_Mooneh 3 месяца назад +9

    Owami 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “so you do uber eats, in a Porch or Land Rover?” With a straight face 😐
    Just a question: Why not sell expensive clothes?

    • @gig_economy
      @gig_economy 3 месяца назад +3

      Sell them to who and at what value? What difference would it make?

    • @mmabatho
      @mmabatho 2 месяца назад

      What's wrong with Uber se did what she could

  • @ayandarigala3947
    @ayandarigala3947 3 месяца назад +13

    2min 44views already haibooo😂😂😂

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 3 месяца назад +3

      Yeah...shbooboo is the Queen she thinks she is🎉❤

    • @sammym9259
      @sammym9259 3 месяца назад +2

      We are invested 😂😂😂😂

    • @nolwazincongwane5850
      @nolwazincongwane5850 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@sammym9259alot 😂😂😂 sitsandza tindzaba yhooo

  • @lulufierce01
    @lulufierce01 3 месяца назад +6

    If my baby were to die and I get home and all my babies things have been removed and burnt hayi someone else will die that day.. The nerve. 😮

  • @soflamonama8887
    @soflamonama8887 2 месяца назад +10

    I'm sooooo triggered 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢I just left a 22years marriage from a Nigerian man who had almost the same character as your husband. I'm also in Alberton please Linda let's hook up.

    • @mmabatho
      @mmabatho 2 месяца назад

      I had two friends who are married to nijas I'm wondering where they are. Yho😢

    • @PromiseMoropa
      @PromiseMoropa 2 месяца назад +4

      Nigerian don't love our sisters!!! We keep forcing...

    • @soflamonama8887
      @soflamonama8887 2 месяца назад +3

      @@PromiseMoropa Mostly have narcissistic personalities, even the ones who married in their countries, my Nigerian sister in laws are always crying the only difference is in their culture, most women don't have a voice.

    • @JustinClark-r4z
      @JustinClark-r4z 2 месяца назад

      What do you do for a living, you SA women will always disappoint Nigerians, when things are good you guys stick, but when things is going bad you guys start misbehaving

    • @mankamercyachanyi7620
      @mankamercyachanyi7620 2 месяца назад +3

      I'm also a victim who got married to a narcissus husband. I just left the man, we have lived together for 20yrs. Finally I left early this yr. In marriage matter how u try to make things work if its not going u can't change it 💯. What I learned in marriage is that from day one in ur relationship don't compromise. Assuming that no he will change especially those rich men. They can not. They have no emotion. They have alots of prides bec of their wealth. Some don't know that they grace u have , as u live together it enhance their growth in wealth.

  • @Vickymackay
    @Vickymackay 3 месяца назад +13

    same thing happened to my baby girl 💔 the guy also left

    • @kikiUN1
      @kikiUN1 3 месяца назад +3

      That's awful 😢

    • @silaton305
      @silaton305 2 месяца назад +1

      Pole sana. May Almighty God give you peace and shower you with his love and strength ❤

  • @Marthashiningstar
    @Marthashiningstar 3 месяца назад +11

    Owami is so funny😅😅😅😅 Uber easts in a Porsche 😅

  • @anithahsibanda7047
    @anithahsibanda7047 2 месяца назад +4

    Even if my husband wasn't a ritualist I know what you are talking about

  • @phililemosia6956
    @phililemosia6956 3 месяца назад +5

    The narcissist hates seing ppl cry, he or she will hurt u and expect u to be strong and nt talk abt tht incident, they pretend as if nothing happend.

  • @phiwomvubu-ti5hb
    @phiwomvubu-ti5hb 3 месяца назад +6

    Linda described the father of my child to the T.....Only now I realise how traumatized I was....I always tot something was wrong abt me that made that man treat me like that.....Nigerian men are broken nhe?

  • @Sma_dzadza
    @Sma_dzadza 3 месяца назад +13

    Thank you 😂😂😂I kept refreshing…love and light to the beautiful guest

  • @evelynib7900
    @evelynib7900 3 месяца назад +5

    I’m so sorry for all that happened to you after listening to your ordeal with this boy.
    There are certain things/rules attached to this ritual thing. I’m not a ritualist but a good mom for my children ( they are grown up. Eldest 42yrs old and the youngest is 20yrs old) and my grandchildren.
    He’s not allowed to give you the money because it’ll have a negative impact on him but he can spend it on people that surround you which explained why you weren’t paid and being denied of handling money.
    He dare not treat a Nigerian lady like that because he knows that they will catch up with him.
    Not all Nigerians are like that but I respect you for your bravery and your subtle ways of handling everything. The Lord is really on your side and please don’t relent in your prayers.
    I pray that God will give you double for your loss and give you your own husband in Jesus Name. The Lord will protect all your children and nothing will happen to any of you IJN.

    • @kunbiakins
      @kunbiakins 2 месяца назад

      Please I’m in this kind of situation in which my husband has never given me money but gives everybody around me money. he will personally make sure he buys everything needed at home, toiletries, food stuffs, even things like Maggie and salt. I must say I was hypnotized bcos my eyes did not open until after 18 yrs with 3 kids

  • @Shonieasmrsatisfaction
    @Shonieasmrsatisfaction 3 месяца назад +6

    First in a long time I watched something for this long and not get bored. Mi nah go ask why you stayed but that man is heartless.

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 3 месяца назад +36

    In 2021 when I lost both my parents. I was dismissed and invalidated when I grieved and cried. A week later somebody’s son filed for divorce because he couldn’t stand me .

    • @jeanmwesi3489
      @jeanmwesi3489 3 месяца назад +15

      Sending hugs🫂❤️

    • @sammym9259
      @sammym9259 3 месяца назад +13

      Askies dear❤from one orphan to another.

    • @MaleboD
      @MaleboD 3 месяца назад +2

      Sending you love and light....

    • @linha7708
      @linha7708 3 месяца назад +1

      🫂🫂 ....may i ask if he was from nigeria also?

    • @LukeRev480
      @LukeRev480 3 месяца назад +1

      Haybo nina🤭 Xolo vha..

  • @garbaisah4667
    @garbaisah4667 2 месяца назад +1

    This man must be barbaric. He has his peculiar Character, devoid of a Nigerian Character. His type can be found everywhere even in South Africa.

  • @k-leyalgae9129
    @k-leyalgae9129 2 месяца назад +3

    I dated a yahoo boy from nigeria we separated when he started phushing me to marry him because he wanted south african Document and to be honest they dont just spend their money anyhow and they dont pretend their red flags will be there from day one, i remember for me he was honest from day one that we should first make a baby so that even if his family does not like me they will accept me for the sake of the baby in their culture they dont abandon their blood. He told me from scratch that he is getting his money from robbing ladies online . He said he loves me and want us to marry so he can get South african Passport and document. I still love him but we separated we met 2017 and separated 2022.

  • @AlvinChristopher-o1m
    @AlvinChristopher-o1m 2 месяца назад +1

    I pity you all for believing this crap 💩, for crying out loud those Linda looks like someone in a toxic relationship? She drives an expensive car bought by the guy, wears designer clothes, had access to his document and cash , she even agreed the guy doesn’t physically hit her until Owami persuaded her to say he only hit her once.
    Linda is manipulative, trying to steal from this dude because he’s a foreigner and a Nigerian. If she claim this guy is into ritual she should be running away from him without looking back , rather she wants property gotten from her daughter blood 🩸.
    This dude should be happy that it was just accusations and she didn’t frame him up or got him killed or poisoned because of property .
    Lastly owami is doing a very bad job , accepting and telling every story without any proof or evidence or even hearing from the other side because they want view , comment and like to promote their show and make money from it .
    May God help us all .

  • @kefilwemadi750
    @kefilwemadi750 3 месяца назад +5

    Some of the pieces of your story reminds me of myself with my ex Nigerian hey... These men are something else and I thank God I forgot and forgave all.

  • @bofelomatlhare5819
    @bofelomatlhare5819 3 месяца назад +5

    But why is she still using the cars from this guy..thats blood money property,and her daughters blood..she needs to get rid of everything that is from that guy

    • @Mathilda-f3i
      @Mathilda-f3i 3 месяца назад +1

      I also dont understand. Why use the cars vele mara vele I mean dont they remind you that they were bought with your child's blood. Something is off with this lady, she claims the guy treated her bad but when a guy suggests a divorce she begs him to stay now she wants half of his money. Bakithi kudlalwa ngathi Lana

    • @mmabatho
      @mmabatho 2 месяца назад +1

      Kana she has to live and survive too, I'm not gonna blame her

  • @bofelomatlhare5819
    @bofelomatlhare5819 3 месяца назад +9

    This story is complicated how does she keep getting pregnant but they hardly have sex like she says like🤔

    • @bingwabuchule8797
      @bingwabuchule8797 3 месяца назад +1

      Yea not all the parts of the story make sure

    • @tendanipelaelo6293
      @tendanipelaelo6293 3 месяца назад +2

      Bofelo, but a single encounter can leave you pregnant 🤰

    • @bofelomatlhare5819
      @bofelomatlhare5819 3 месяца назад

      @@tendanipelaelo6293 i know but the way she potrayed it they hardly had sex but had several miscarriages and babies🤔

    • @shirleynkosi9976
      @shirleynkosi9976 2 месяца назад

      Thats what happens when you lie. You forget

  • @lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6
    @lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6 3 месяца назад +16

    Poor baby's clothes and pictures were burnt and her corpse was burnt down😢😢😢haaaai guys...aaaih man😢😢😢

    • @sammym9259
      @sammym9259 3 месяца назад

      Being a tokoloshi of her grandfather 😢😢😢😢😢hini bawo

    • @precioushafe5001
      @precioushafe5001 3 месяца назад +2

      @@sammym9259imagine burning a baby

  • @tatendamarwodzi8972
    @tatendamarwodzi8972 2 месяца назад +2

    No offense, but genuinely trying to understand….she was not allowed to work, so where was the money for her daughter coming from?

    • @pinkysizani8753
      @pinkysizani8753 2 месяца назад

      She said she used to do stokvels, borrowed money and also did uber eats deliveries at some point

  • @ntswakimoloi2084
    @ntswakimoloi2084 2 месяца назад +2

    How i wish you could stop allowing these guys to come n control you ladies in your own country

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 3 месяца назад +9

    What a sad story 😢

  • @therealitiesoflife01
    @therealitiesoflife01 2 месяца назад +1

    Is the same abuser Owamie is saying. How come he didn't beat her up after she took all his stuff?
    How come they still live in the house if truly he is an abuser
    We have to be careful of when we have a platform and try to be objective and understand things fully before we speak.
    Everything seems like normal things that happens in a marriage that is about to fall apart, nothing strange here.
    Is it because he is a foreigner you want to make it sound like South African men are not worst.

  • @yolandangcuzana8010
    @yolandangcuzana8010 3 месяца назад +5

    But how bad does it have to get for one to leave a toxic relationship,niyabekezela bafazi!!!!

  • @GodsFavourite2024
    @GodsFavourite2024 3 месяца назад +12

    Us loyal day 1 ninjas phakati inside part 2😊

  • @JustinClark-r4z
    @JustinClark-r4z 2 месяца назад +1

    Lady you lied to that guy, you used him, you never told him you have 2 kids at the initial stage, you never told him

  • @sonixboy5481
    @sonixboy5481 3 месяца назад +7

    Hayi ngeke why does she keep on getting pregnant

    • @nomangesi_
      @nomangesi_ 3 месяца назад +1

      Yhoooo I wish you know these Western African men spell 😢😢😢

  • @oliveradebe3
    @oliveradebe3 3 месяца назад +4

    South African woman vukani

  • @nwogbosusan5919
    @nwogbosusan5919 2 месяца назад +2

    Have you people ever heard of cot death? Some babies die in their cots during sleep. May be the baby choked on the breast milk or some other thing. It happens. It is not a new thing.

    • @JabulisileMangwane
      @JabulisileMangwane 2 месяца назад

      That's the 1st thing that came to my mind, these things happen.

  • @ugogojessica7545
    @ugogojessica7545 3 месяца назад +4

    Ofcourse she had to do Uber...of ofcourse as. Women who need to provide for her kids,u cant be choosy,beggars dnt be choosy,u have to do what u have to do for your kids to be provided......Her story. Is the samestory as a friend of mine,she is now running mad now..and she works for the government...my friend is talking crazy talks,she says her husband,his a satanist,.and a ritualist,and my friend husband his a medical doctor,at first,she would brag all about her marriage, but now things turned sour on the marriage ,she now says..her husband is a ritualist

  • @palesamacholo3367
    @palesamacholo3367 3 месяца назад +4

    I was married to a Nigerian man for 3months, I couldn't bekezela😂😂

    • @LIFEASLEE_
      @LIFEASLEE_ 3 месяца назад +3

      Not 3 months haibo Owami other lady here
      Another 3 part

    • @gracedrosie5127
      @gracedrosie5127 3 месяца назад +6

      congratulations to you babes you WON

  • @KholekaCindi
    @KholekaCindi 3 месяца назад +12

    They say never say never but me never... This lady also... I judge especially when it comes to the kids... No man on this earth will disrespect my kids never.... She negotiates too much

  • @fianong6745
    @fianong6745 3 месяца назад +14

    This sounds like a Nigerian movie called coconut head basically some Nigerian man are like that vele vele jooooooo

  • @pfulu
    @pfulu 3 месяца назад +6

    There is always higher Power, God almighty 🙌🏽

    • @PhomoloKhan
      @PhomoloKhan 3 месяца назад +4

      Ameen God will Protect you even when you Didn't Ask for his protection this story is a proof

  • @MaleboD
    @MaleboD 3 месяца назад +15

    This woman went through it shem yoh.... I am so sorry Sisi,may God heal,guide and protect you

  • @anithahsibanda7047
    @anithahsibanda7047 2 месяца назад +3

    A narcissist will always make you believe you are the one who is wrong and you will never be happy in that relationship,it's all about him

  • @Phyllisjordan2006
    @Phyllisjordan2006 3 месяца назад +5

    Oh man what a sad story. Love and light to her. Cant wait for the last part.

  • @wanadizy
    @wanadizy 2 месяца назад +2

    Guys! We understand women are suffering ,we understand abuse affects people,but let’s see this story for what it is.WRONG FOUNDATIONS, coming to haunt you,now that you end up in a loveless marriage,You want to secure a bag. But don’t explain all these things to get sympathy,No guys.

    • @silaton305
      @silaton305 2 месяца назад

      Thank you. This comment sums everything. should be pinned.

    • @AnonymousScorpio38
      @AnonymousScorpio38 10 дней назад

      Exactly my point as well. Her story is not story'ing right

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele3114 3 месяца назад +11

    Amen! 2 Timothy 1:7, we have have not been given a spirit of fear but of power, love and discipline.

  • @HlobsileNosimiloNxumalo
    @HlobsileNosimiloNxumalo 3 месяца назад +3

    Linda plz start the utube...God has made u to pass thro this painful experience to help, empower a lot of women out there..u are a women of colour ,a really imbhokodvo... God is alive, do not fear...

  • @imihhlali
    @imihhlali 2 месяца назад +1

    She was married to a DOG

  • @jerminahmotsapi6101
    @jerminahmotsapi6101 3 месяца назад +11

    It’s so sad that she had to be exposed to such a traumatic experience. No one deserves what she has went through and I have learned that we respond to things a different way. She might have really not seen what she was getting herself into and unfortunately there’s spiritual covenant that have been built. I really hope the grace of God locates her and release her from any bondages built against her. She should run and not walk away🥹😭

  • @nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035
    @nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035 3 месяца назад +6

    Yhooo part 3 please.

  • @olerato8643
    @olerato8643 2 месяца назад +1

    I wonder our sisters why they love nigerians , i have heard abusive stories of this guys many times. even them taking when you hear their voice its abusive voice

  • @vuyomtshali
    @vuyomtshali 3 месяца назад +5

    "Small money" 100k 😮😮😮😮

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 3 месяца назад +6

    I am soo invested in this story l just hit like button before listening

  • @tombimashri8149
    @tombimashri8149 2 месяца назад +2

    Unfortunately they are filtering in2 RSA. Wonder why they keeping away from Ruwanda

  • @giftedchild9490
    @giftedchild9490 2 месяца назад +1

    I had to come see who the wife is.... honestly thd guy disappointed me...she looks like his mum...he should not have had anything to do with his aunty, but he married her . The jezebel nails should have given her away.